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26 Sep 09 - 02:39 PM (#2731907) Subject: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Ron Davies Fairbanks Daily News-Miner: "We made a terrible mistake...Mrs. Palin, please accept this apology from the Fairbanks Daily News-Miner". Why? The paper had printed a picture of the ex-Gov on the front page: Caption: A broad in Asia But the apology itself has told a lot more people about this--like me, for instance--than had ever heard of the paper's actual sin. Maybe Ebbie can tell us if this really was a mistake. But that's the beauty and glory of a public apology: you can repeat what you supposedly are sorry for. (click) |
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26 Sep 09 - 02:43 PM (#2731911) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Rapparee So the Emperor of Japan visited the US back in the 70s and a Pittsburgh television station broadcast, "The Emperor flew home to Japan today. Joe the Weatherman says 'There's a nip in the air.'" I don't know if they ever apologized for that. |
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26 Sep 09 - 04:33 PM (#2731993) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: gnu No harm done. She really is thick. And gorgeous... oh my! What an absolutely stunning babe. Stunned as me arse, yes, but soooo sexy. My loins ache, my heart quickens at the very thought of.... Sarah. Her name minds me of The Sahara... a dangerous and foreboding desert, much like the frozen North country, where mortals must tread carefully lest they nere find her oasis of sanctuary... and fell bereft of thirst for her beauty.... oh... Sarah... dear sweet Sarah... What a fucking airhead. I hope a moose knocks the shit out of her next time she's in the woods... if she ever goes? |
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26 Sep 09 - 04:34 PM (#2731995) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Lizzie Cornish 1 I'm still waiting for a public apology from someone. |
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26 Sep 09 - 04:46 PM (#2732005) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: gnu I apologize Liz. Ahhh.... what for? |
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26 Sep 09 - 05:24 PM (#2732035) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Azizi Lizzie, I can guess who you are referring to. But sometimes public apologies don't happen. And life still goes on. Best wishes, your friend Azizi |
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26 Sep 09 - 06:26 PM (#2732092) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Little Hawk On behalf of all Canadian hosers and useless frikkin' layabouts everywhere, Shane accepts your apology, Rapaire. |
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26 Sep 09 - 06:34 PM (#2732101) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Joe Offer I am deeply, deeply sorry, Liz. At the time, I thought you deserved it, but maybe not. Does that feel better now? -Joey- |
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26 Sep 09 - 06:45 PM (#2732110) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Mrrzy I thought she used a helicopter, to get back to the moose... |
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26 Sep 09 - 07:33 PM (#2732128) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Bobert Well, I'm soory, too... No, not fir anything that I've done or undone with Lizzie but fir havin' unpure thoughts about airhead Sarah... But they were brief... I swear they were... But, I'm still sorry... B~ |
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26 Sep 09 - 07:53 PM (#2732133) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: catspaw49 Lenny Bruce said he had a cousin who committed suicide and left a note which said, I admit it......It was all my fault. I did it.....I killed Jesus...... Signed, Morty Spaw |
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27 Sep 09 - 12:50 AM (#2732243) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Rowan For those who remember the excesses of Mr Joh Bjelke-Petersen, an erstwhile Premier of Queensland not known for moderate or balanced responses..... he had been a grower of peanuts when he entered politics and was proud of using his pilot's licence. The only time I can recall a Letter to the Editor appearing on the front page of any major Oz paper was one in a May 1973 (as I remember it) issue of the Courier Mail, Brisbane's daily and a tabloid. The letter complained of the lack of correct grammar (incorrect placing of a comma) in a front page article published a few days before. The offending piece referred 'to "that well-known flying peanut farmer, Joh Bjelke-Petersen" when everyone knew that it should have read "that well-known flying peanut, farmer Joh Bjelke-Petersen".' I've treasured the memory ever since. Cheers, Rowan |
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27 Sep 09 - 12:23 PM (#2732454) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: McGrath of Harlow The crucial thing when making up is who says sorry first... But whether the advantage lies with the first person or the second is another matter entirely. Matter enough for a further disagreement, even. |
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28 Sep 09 - 01:25 AM (#2732902) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Ebbie The News-Miner is not among the newspapers I commonly read, Ron Davies, but I did a little reading and it appears that the managing editor really does regret letting that caption through. (Makes me wonder though if the caption writer wasn't given the go ahead at the time.) He may have taken a lot of flak. I have some friends who live just outside Fairbanks and they like the area. But, my friend says, in all other areas he has lived he is considered a political moderate. In Fairbanks, however, he says, they regard him as a bleeding liberal. |
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28 Sep 09 - 01:49 PM (#2733341) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Wolfgang That reminds me of the apologies with double meaning that look as if they have been preplanned before the first insult: "We apologize that we called Mr....a half idiot. He is not a half idiot" Wolfgang |
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28 Sep 09 - 02:02 PM (#2733355) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: SINSULL I'm not sorry. Live with it! |
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28 Sep 09 - 03:27 PM (#2733418) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Wesley S My wife has caught on to what I'm doing when I say "I'm sorry you're angry".... |
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28 Sep 09 - 03:34 PM (#2733424) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: SINSULL Oh wow! You are in trouble. |
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28 Sep 09 - 10:13 PM (#2733729) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: GUEST,One of the JoeClones Oh, heck, I apologize too. I'm SORRY!! I apologize, okay??? There. Now I don't ever have to do that again.
The above message was posted by Rapaire at 26 Sep 09 - 05:11 PM and then accidentally deleted by me. Mea culpa. –One of the JoeClones, too clever for my own good. |
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29 Sep 09 - 08:36 AM (#2733986) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: SINSULL I'm sorry that you're offended (not that I offended you). |
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29 Sep 09 - 11:42 AM (#2734171) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Ebbie The Anchorage Daily News has a feature called 'Alaska Ear'. This is their response to the photo caption: http://www.adn.com/news/politics/alaska_ear/story/950916.html "Today I must apologize to Mrs. Palin personally and on behalf of the Fairbanks Daily News-Miner for the choice of words used on the bottom of Wednesday's front page regarding her speaking engagement in Hong Kong this week to a group of global investors. "We used offensive language -- "A broad in Asia" -- above a small photograph of the former governor to direct readers inside the newspaper to a full story of her Hong Kong appearance." It went on for a few more paragraphs, with Rod, who obviously did not personally insert the offending space, beating himself up. But Ear was laughing too hard to read further." Speaking of Palin, would anyone like to wager as to the quality of her book? I hope to be pleasantly surprised but I have my doubts about it; the last I knew, she had called her father to check on the final score in a basketball game she had played in. |
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29 Sep 09 - 12:27 PM (#2734204) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Donuel Ebbie I would not be surprised at the talent of the many ghost writers who work for people like Palin. On the nature of rumor and apology After a slander or vicious rumor gains enough speed and inertia over time by being repeated, magnified and enhanced out of sheer imagination spawned by fear or ego, it has a life of its own. It gets re written and retold until the flaws fall away and it is seems completely believable. The rumor starter is usually protected by folks not wanting to ask or tell the subject of the rumor anything about what they heard. People who believe the rumor do not want to disbelieve or even learn the truth if presented to them. Why? Because that would put them in the uncomfortable position of having to admit they were wrong or their source was wrong. Should you demand someone tell you the rumor or ask the suspected rumor stater for an apology? It would be tantamount to demanding they apologize for their behavior, when all they did was listen and act according to information they were told.. When people and their families are truly wronged or victimized they are in the position to forgive people who do not want to apologize. If you forgive these people anyway it is kind of a passive aggressive thing to do. To forgive those who invent or repeat malicious speech and behavior is likely to anger them and cause them to dig in their heels deeper. After all, the rumor was meant to raise the prestige of the teller in comparison to "the other". Even the most Christian person would not want to admit to their doubt or their belief in rumor. They do not want to apologize. They do not want to be forgiven. They would prefer to grant forgiveness to those who were wronged only if it suited their purposes. At the heart of all these squabbles that can destroy lives and families is fear, and the unholy practice of trying to do good by doing bad. The only way to do good is by doing good. Unfortunately, this is not the way politics , religion or the consequential strangers in our lives behave. Doing good, to do good, is still too radical a concept for the human race. |
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29 Sep 09 - 10:07 PM (#2734670) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Ebbie "Ebbie I would not be surprised at the talent of the many ghost writers who work for people like Palin" Donuel ?? I don't get it. I don't believe that her collaborator is an employee. Hmmmm. I have now read the rest of your post, Don, and I don't get any of it. :) |
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30 Sep 09 - 06:15 PM (#2735354) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Donuel I don't get that you don't get it. Not that there is anything wrong with that. |
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30 Sep 09 - 06:18 PM (#2735356) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Ebbie Whatever. |
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30 Sep 09 - 06:48 PM (#2735384) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: gnu I don't get it either. But, I still pin for the ass of the north country. |
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01 Oct 09 - 12:42 PM (#2735932) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Ebbie Palin's ghost writer - Sounds lovely. (By the way, I realize how catty I am being. :) Last night David Letterman quipped that he had an advance copy of Palin's book but "quit halfway through." "Vincent’s politics also seem to align pretty well with Palin’s. In 2006, Vincent helped write a book called “Donkey Cons: Sex, Crime, and Corruption in the Democratic Party.â€쳌 (â€쳌Donkey Consâ€쳌 was co-written with Robert Stacy McCain.) The book’s tagline advertised a chronicle of “shameless bribery, illicit sex, [and] sweeping corruption.â€쳌 Meanwhile, promotional copy posted to World Magazine’s Amazon page promised to reveal the following: * How Franklin Roosevelt, Harry Truman, and John F. Kennedy were elected with the help of the Mob. * What two eyewitnesses said about JFK’s obsession with hookers. * Why Democrats ignore crime victims and take the side of rapists, robbers, and cop-killers-then stump for the right of felons to vote! "A review of Vincent’s most recent stories in World reveals a strong focus on abortion, religion, and gay marriage." http://features.csmonitor.com/politics/2009/09/29/lynn-vincent-the-other-voice-behind-the-sarah-palin-book/ |
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01 Oct 09 - 01:55 PM (#2735992) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Little Hawk To forgive someone just means to let go of your own toxic anger that you carry inside yourself Donuel, so you can get on with something positive instead of carrying the anger endlessly. It does not mean that the ones you forgive are absolved or washed clean of whatever they did...that's up to them and how they choose to deal with their own responsibilities. If they don't deal with their own karma eventually, it will deal with them. |
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01 Oct 09 - 04:27 PM (#2736090) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Little Hawk Oh, as far as forgiving other people in the sense of openly telling them you forgive them....well, that's only useful if they are genuinely contrite and already desirous of forgiveness....as can sometimes happen. In that case, it's very beneficial to both you and them to tell them they are forgiven. Otherwise, you're definitely better off to keep your forgiveness quietly to yourself! It won't be apreciated if it isn't wanted. ;-) And in that case, it's you whom the process of giving forgiveness benefits, not the other person. It's like shedding a heavy load. And then there's the challenge of forgiving yourself. For many people that might be the toughest one of all. |
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01 Oct 09 - 06:15 PM (#2736195) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: gnu Yeah... the miserable twits wouldn't appreciate it. Fuck em. Wait? ... if I do, quietly to myself, and it's still fuck em, I will still benefit? And I will shit a heavy load? Cool. I feel relieved already. |
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01 Oct 09 - 06:59 PM (#2736219) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Little Hawk Ha! ;-) Don't be silly...if you're saying "fuck em" quietly to yourself, then you haven't forgiven them. Granted, the miserable twits may not appreciate your forgiveness in the least, but that's not the point. However, I think you'd like Chongo's take on this whole thing...he doesn't believe in getting mad, he believes in getting even. |
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02 Oct 09 - 07:44 AM (#2736528) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Ron Davies I hope people have checked out Ebbie's link to the "Alaska Ear"-- I think we owe a big debt to her for that. Particularly intriguing, I thought, was the story about Sarah's part in a forthcoming movie--as a comic element. You'd think that when the very mention of your name is a laugh line, your political career is over. But we'll see how true that truism turns out to be. |
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02 Oct 09 - 10:20 AM (#2736611) Subject: RE: BS: Beauty of a Public Apology From: Little Hawk I wouldn't count Sarah out just yet. |