08 Jan 11 - 07:45 AM (#3069748) Subject: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: McGrath of Harlow My Dad's asked me to post this as he is presently unable to get to a computer. On December 19 he suffered a cardiac arrest after quite a long walk through the snow. Initially, two first aiders gave him CPR before the arrival of the paramedics. He was admitted to hospital and resuscitated for forty minutes. Eventually he was transferred to intensive care, where he remained for three days. For much of this period he was sedated and on life support. Since then he seems to be making a good recovery. My mother and I visit him every day and he's fairly jolly given what has happened to him. He has written two letters to the The Guardian newspaper and has made friends with his fellow patients. It's been a pretty grim Christmas but he wanted to let everyone on here know what's been going on and has vowed to get back to posting as soon as possible. Ciaran |
08 Jan 11 - 07:50 AM (#3069750) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Micca Thanks Ciaran, for letting us know, offer Kevin my best wishes for a speedy and complete recovery and my best wishes to you and your mother in this trying time, Get well soon Kevin Micca |
08 Jan 11 - 07:51 AM (#3069752) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,Tattie Bogle Best wishes to your Dad, Ciaran: that is some tribute to the medical services, and hope he continues to make good progress. I am sure many of us have enjoyed his postings on here, even if we didn't always agree with him! I must have met him at Sidmouth too. |
08 Jan 11 - 07:52 AM (#3069753) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,Eliza So sorry to hear this. My very best wishes for a rapid recovery, and better health for 2011. |
08 Jan 11 - 07:54 AM (#3069756) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: maeve Thank you very much for letting us know, Ciaran. Please tell your dad there are many Mudcat friends who will be watching for updates. If he would enjoy hearing from us in the form of cards, you could either send that information to one of his close friends here by using the PM link that will show next to their names (and those who want to send a card could contact that designated person), or if it is appropriate you could post an address here when he's ready for that. I look forward to hearing of your progress and improved health, McGrath. I enjoy your posts. Maeve, in Maine |
08 Jan 11 - 07:58 AM (#3069759) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: alanabit Thanks for posting Ciaran. Kevin McGrath is one of the reasons why I got interested in Mudcat in the first place. I have always enjoyed his humane, dignified responses to threads here - and on occasion been cracked up by his subtlety and wit. Get well soon Kevin. We look forward to having you back. |
08 Jan 11 - 07:58 AM (#3069760) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: MartinRyan Give your father my best wishes, please. I have admired his calm and calming presence in Mudcat for many years. |
08 Jan 11 - 08:12 AM (#3069769) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Janie Keep on getting better, Kevin. Holding you and your family in my thoughts. Thanks so much, Ciaran, for letting us know, and thank you, Kevin, when even in the midst of all that you are going through, for your thoughtfulness in having Ciaran let us know. Mudcat Mojo streaming across the pond! Janie |
08 Jan 11 - 09:35 AM (#3069797) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: jacqui.c Glad to hear that you are feeling better Kevin - seeing that title was a bit scary! Good thoughts coming from across the pond to you all. Thank you Ciaran for letting us know. |
08 Jan 11 - 09:41 AM (#3069805) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Girl Friday All the best Kevin from me and Mr Leopard. He's been there, done that, and things can only get better |
08 Jan 11 - 09:43 AM (#3069806) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST Best wishes for a good recovery! |
08 Jan 11 - 09:45 AM (#3069809) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: MikeofNorthumbria Thank you for passing on the information Ciaran. Please give Kevin my very best wishes for a speedy recovery. (Card to follow by snail mail.) I hope that he's still keeping the Bovril with the gravy, and the Marmite with the jam. Wassail! |
08 Jan 11 - 09:47 AM (#3069810) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Leadfingers Mr McGrath is definately one of the Good Guys in here ! Hope all continues well and thanks for the info ! |
08 Jan 11 - 09:54 AM (#3069811) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,Alan Whittle Best wishes for a swift recovery, and keep away from that snow and cold My very best wishes al |
08 Jan 11 - 10:11 AM (#3069822) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Nancy King Mend quickly, McGrath! Looking forward to seeing you back here soon. |
08 Jan 11 - 10:14 AM (#3069824) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: MikeL2 hi Ciaran Thanks for letting us know about your Dad. Like many others here I wish a full and speedy recovery. Tell him we miss him. Cheers MikeL2 |
08 Jan 11 - 10:15 AM (#3069826) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Charley Noble And my bet as well for a full recovery. Cheerily, Charley Noble |
08 Jan 11 - 10:16 AM (#3069829) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,Philippa wow, that was a close call! I'm glad to know that we can expect to hear more from Kevin, and it was considerate of him to ask you to send a message out to Mudcat. thanks Ciaran. best wishes to all the family |
08 Jan 11 - 10:16 AM (#3069830) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST Thank you for posting this, Ciaran. Kevin is one of my favorite Mudcatters. His posts are always thoughtful, insightful, and provide a much needed dose of good sense. I will be thinking of him, and hoping for his speedy recovery. |
08 Jan 11 - 10:25 AM (#3069836) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Herga Kitty All the best from me and Derek for a rapid recovery - hope Kevin will be posting again soon, and thanks Ciaran for letting us know. Kitty |
08 Jan 11 - 10:26 AM (#3069837) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: treewind Ciaran: Thanks for posting. Kevin: Glad to hear you're on the mend. Get well soon. Anahata |
08 Jan 11 - 10:26 AM (#3069838) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: The Sandman get well son |
08 Jan 11 - 10:34 AM (#3069843) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Maryrrf Have a speedy recovery Kevin, Harlow needs you!!!! |
08 Jan 11 - 10:39 AM (#3069847) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Richard Bridge I do hope for a speedy and complete recovery. |
08 Jan 11 - 10:46 AM (#3069850) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Georgiansilver Be praying for a speedy recovery..... |
08 Jan 11 - 10:48 AM (#3069851) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: bobad Best wishes for a fast and full recovery and kudos to the first responders for their good work. |
08 Jan 11 - 10:54 AM (#3069854) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,Jon Get well soon, McGrath. |
08 Jan 11 - 11:01 AM (#3069856) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: ClaireBear With hope that a return to glowing health comes speedily and heartily. McGrath of Harlow, you are well and truly loved here. Claire |
08 Jan 11 - 11:03 AM (#3069859) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Anne Neilson With every good wish for a full recovery. Ciaran, I've only met your dad through Mudcat but -- as others have said -- it's good to have someone like him on such a forum to offer a balancing view when matters get heated. Mental attitude is all, and your dad sounds just the person to come through this! |
08 Jan 11 - 11:07 AM (#3069861) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Sandy Mc Lean I hope to see you back on Mudcat soon! Get well and take care! |
08 Jan 11 - 11:13 AM (#3069867) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Jeri He was quite fortunate in every way possible after the cardiac arrest. I hope the strength he obviously has, the love of his family, and good medical care get him fully recuperated soon. |
08 Jan 11 - 11:27 AM (#3069874) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Jim McLean Best wishes for a speedy recovery, from Jim McLean |
08 Jan 11 - 11:34 AM (#3069877) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,John MacKenzie Kevin, I'm glad you're on the road to recovery. Hope to see you back on Mudcat soon. |
08 Jan 11 - 11:49 AM (#3069890) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Haruo Redundant best wishes. But then best wishes can never be redundant, can they, howsoever superfluous they flow? Haruo |
08 Jan 11 - 12:43 PM (#3069919) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,leeneia Best wishes for a good recovery to one of my favorite catters. |
08 Jan 11 - 12:45 PM (#3069920) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Keith A of Hertford Best wishes Kevin. keith. |
08 Jan 11 - 12:46 PM (#3069921) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Bonzo3legs Best wishes for a quick recovery. |
08 Jan 11 - 12:47 PM (#3069923) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: fat B****rd My very best regards to McGrath and family. Get well soon. |
08 Jan 11 - 01:17 PM (#3069938) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: VirginiaTam Thank you Ciaran for letting us know. Hope you can keep us posted re his progress until he can get back online himself. Kevin I sending thoughts and prayers for your recovery. tamara |
08 Jan 11 - 01:55 PM (#3069963) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Steve Shaw Hey, all the best from me too, old chap! :-) |
08 Jan 11 - 02:24 PM (#3069987) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST Get well soon Kevin. Wishing you a speedy recovery. John Beth and Danny |
08 Jan 11 - 02:42 PM (#3070005) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Little Robyn Best wishes from NZ. Hope you're back here soon. Robyn |
08 Jan 11 - 02:53 PM (#3070016) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,Hrrm Hi Kevin. Sad to hear the news of your illness but glad to hear of your speedy rescue and your progress. Get well soon! The Marmite Song is still No. 1 here! I have to sing it at every gig in Ravenglass. Mike |
08 Jan 11 - 03:01 PM (#3070027) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: michaelr Kevin is one of the people here for whom I have nothing but respect. Best wishes for a quick recovery. Michael |
08 Jan 11 - 03:11 PM (#3070033) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Joe Offer All the best to you, Kevin. I often tell the tale of how we met - you came up to me in church in Whitby and asked, "Are you Joe Offer?" It surprised the heck out of me. Ever since, you've been one of my favorite Mudcatters. -Joe- |
08 Jan 11 - 03:29 PM (#3070045) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Noreen Strengthening thoughts winging their way to you, McG, come back to us soon! (Thanks, Ciaran- best to all the family) |
08 Jan 11 - 04:18 PM (#3070091) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: akenaton Mr McGrath....sorry that I haven't noticed this before. My very best wishes for a speedy recovery.....we cant afford to lose another sane member....Ake |
08 Jan 11 - 04:26 PM (#3070097) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: SINSULL Get well and come back. Many thanks to the two first aiders who kept Kevin alive until the paramedics arrived. Mary |
08 Jan 11 - 04:34 PM (#3070102) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: mayomick Please wish your dad a speedy recovery Ciaron . I'm not that regular a regular at mudcat, but whenever I see McGrath of Harlow's name to a post I always know that I'm going to read something that is thoughtful and well expressed - and never abusive . |
08 Jan 11 - 05:18 PM (#3070130) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Liberty Boy All the very best for a speedy recovery to good health, remember "the Bovril's with the gravy, but the Marmite's with the jam" Jerry |
08 Jan 11 - 05:25 PM (#3070133) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Allen in Oz Best wishes from Sydney Australia (where England won the Ashes)! AD |
08 Jan 11 - 05:31 PM (#3070139) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Anne Lister All best wishes to Kevin - hope you recover fully and quickly! |
08 Jan 11 - 05:32 PM (#3070143) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Bill D I have enjoyed 'knowing' Kevin for many years now... his thoughtful posts on many subjects are and have been a part of the very fabric of Mudcat. Best wishes for a total recovery... |
08 Jan 11 - 05:49 PM (#3070155) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: katlaughing Ciaran, thank you so much for letting us know! "McGraw", as he taught me to say it, has been one of our "bestest" members since I can remember being here and that's over eleven years, now. As Bill says, he's been a special part of Mudcat and I love his songs, too! Please send him my good wishes, thanks givings for continued recovery and for asking you to post to us. Kevin, keep healing! luvyakat |
08 Jan 11 - 06:22 PM (#3070178) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Bonnie Shaljean Thinking of you Kevin, and hoping you grow stronger with every passing day. Looking forward to seeing you back here as SOOOOOOOOOOOOON as poss. Many thanks to Ciarán for keeping us in the loop. Bonnie xxx |
08 Jan 11 - 06:26 PM (#3070180) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Dave MacKenzie Can I add my best wishes and hopes for a peedy recovery. |
08 Jan 11 - 06:56 PM (#3070194) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Richie Black (misused acct, bad email) I wish you a speedy recovery and hope you are up and around soon. The level of respect shown here for you is the measure of the man you are. Please take the time needed to rest and recover. I hope your son has printed out this page for you. In thoughts and prayers Richie. |
08 Jan 11 - 07:05 PM (#3070197) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: JennieG Sending more good wishes from sunny/rainy Oz, for a swift and complete recovery....even if you did win the Ashes...... Best wishes to Ciaran and the rest of the family too, they must have spent many anxious moments getting to this stage. You are all in my thoughts. Cheers JennieG |
08 Jan 11 - 07:12 PM (#3070202) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: s&r And I raised my eyes in anguish, called to heaven for some sign, for some hint that there's a meaning in this world in which we pine. And a voice from heaven answered, saying "The Master has a Plan - .....the Bovril's with the Gravy, but the Marmite's with the Jam, .....the Bovril's with the Gravy, but the Marmite's with the Jam." Says it so much better than I ever could Love from Fylde Stu |
08 Jan 11 - 11:00 PM (#3070278) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: meself Get well soon, McG. - we need you now more than ever! |
08 Jan 11 - 11:05 PM (#3070283) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: open mike so glad that family members are able to access this forum and share messages...and i hope all future news of Kevin is good news! Life is precious!! |
08 Jan 11 - 11:10 PM (#3070284) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Susanne (skw) What everybody said. McGrath of Harlow is one of Mudcat's mainstays. Kevin, get well again soon! |
09 Jan 11 - 02:18 AM (#3070329) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: eddie1 Best wishes for a quick and safe recovery. We miss you! Eddie |
09 Jan 11 - 02:26 AM (#3070332) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: georgeward Hoping for your full recovery Kevin. |
09 Jan 11 - 03:10 AM (#3070340) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Penny S. So sorry to hear of this, and so glad to hear of your recovery. I have always enjoyed your posts. Ciaran, thank you for posting. Penny |
09 Jan 11 - 04:30 AM (#3070365) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: McGrath of Harlow From Anne (Mrs McG of H) Thanks to everyone for all the kind wishes. Yesterday evening I printed the first forty messages and took them to Kevin. I'll take the rest this afternoon. He was delighted to be in contact with the Mudcat again and has written a reply which I'll collect this afternoon. He continues to make good progress and expects to have some further tests on his heart next week. Meanwhile (despite having rather bad asthma at present) he seems to be gathering material for songs - the ward is full of small adventures. Soon after leaving Intensive Care, Kevin experienced wild hallucinations. (The outreach nurse from the ICU explained that these were not uncommon among their patients.) Kevin (typically) rather enjoyed these - and was happy to inhabit an alternative universe. He could project imaginary films onto the wall opposite his bed and got very absorbed in them. He watched his own version of the sinking of the Titanic and the coronation of an English monarch - though he can't remember which. For a while his perceptions were heightened. He asked me to read The Hobbit to him, but he found it much too exciting and I had to stop. My suggestion that we try The Little House on the Prairie was rejected. Gradually the hallucinations came to an end and Kevin perhaps a little reluctantly returned to the real world - though not without some discussion on the meaning of "real". All the language skills returned to normal, which was an immense relief. I'm going to ask today if he is allowed to have his laptop in the hospital. If so, he'll soon be posting himself. With good wishes to all the Mudcat friends, Anne |
09 Jan 11 - 04:40 AM (#3070375) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,Wolfgang momentarily without cookie Kevin McGrath's among the best three posters in political discussions for my taste. I wish you a full recovery. Wolfgang |
09 Jan 11 - 04:45 AM (#3070379) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: My guru always said So very glad to hear that Kevin is out of the woods and back with us in the Raal world (wherever we think that is). Many thanks for the info Ciaran and Mrs McG!! Was very shocked to read this news, and am sending positive thoughts, love & hugs to Kevin for a good and proper recovery! Hil |
09 Jan 11 - 04:49 AM (#3070383) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: VirginiaTam Thank you Anne for the update. Looking forward to reading about his hospital adventures and any songs that come of them. Continued good wishes to Kevin from mid Essex. tamara |
09 Jan 11 - 05:13 AM (#3070401) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Smedley Please add my best wishes - his voice is one of the most fascinating to be heard in this clamorous madhouse & his return will be an event to celebrate. |
09 Jan 11 - 07:03 AM (#3070458) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: freda underhill I'm very sorry to hear you haven't been well Kevin, and very pleased that you're making a good recovery. We all benefit from your wisdom and thoughtfulness. best wishes to you and your family freda |
09 Jan 11 - 07:26 AM (#3070467) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: akenaton Anne...when Mr McGrath is well enough, get him to contact Bobert, who has some special "tobacco" which enables him to experience permanent "hallucinations"......allegedly! |
09 Jan 11 - 07:41 AM (#3070471) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Rog Peek Anne Best wishes to Kevin for a speedy recovery, thoughts are with you all. Rog |
09 Jan 11 - 08:23 AM (#3070492) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Sandra in Sydney adding my good wishes to those heading across the pond from Australia sandra |
09 Jan 11 - 08:34 AM (#3070497) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Janie Thanks for the Update, Anne. Glad to know he is continuing to improve. |
09 Jan 11 - 08:53 AM (#3070509) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: McGrath of Harlow From Anne Akenaton, I know that Kevin's post-ICU trips made him think of his time at Woodstock. |
09 Jan 11 - 08:59 AM (#3070510) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: jacqui.c Thanks Anne, for that update. I can just picture Kevin sitting there watching his 'movies' - that put a smile on my face this morning. Continuing good thoughts coming to Kevin a complete and speedy return to health and looking forward to his posting here again. |
09 Jan 11 - 09:38 AM (#3070526) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: alanabit Lovely news. Thank-you Mrs. McGrath. I always enjoy Kevin's posts here and look forward to reading more soon. He is one of the Mudcatters whom I most want to meet. |
09 Jan 11 - 10:19 AM (#3070550) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: JedMarum Please add my best wishes from Texas, to the long list of Mudcatters. I hope he recovers well and quickly and we have him back on Mudcat soon! |
09 Jan 11 - 10:30 AM (#3070560) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: andymac Like many others here, I haven't met Kevin but "know" him through his many sensible and measured postings. I got a fright when I first saw the title so it it's a relief to know he's on the road to recovery. Get well soon. Andy |
09 Jan 11 - 10:42 AM (#3070568) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Maryrrf It's wonderful to know that Kevin is well on the road to recovery. I look forward to his wit, grace and good sense! |
09 Jan 11 - 10:57 AM (#3070577) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: MarkS Best wishes for a speedy recovery McGrath - this place would not be the same without you! Mark |
09 Jan 11 - 12:53 PM (#3070644) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Waddon Pete Sorry to hear of your misfortune but also pleased to hear that you are in good hands and in good spirits. May the improvements continue apace! Best wishes, Peter |
09 Jan 11 - 02:37 PM (#3070700) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: fat B****rd All the best for continuing good news and thank you for the updates. Best wishes from Charlie fB |
09 Jan 11 - 05:25 PM (#3070807) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: ollaimh often people have good insights from life threatening events, so here's hoping macgrath gets some insight into having empathy for people who aren't from his social ethnic and economic backgraound, or those handicapped. good luck macgrath |
09 Jan 11 - 05:25 PM (#3070810) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Ross Campbell All the best, Kevin. Ross |
09 Jan 11 - 06:46 PM (#3070870) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Herga Kitty Anne - I remember that Kevin introduced me to you at Sidmouth one year. I was responsible for suggesting and running the folk clubs reunited session in the Volunteer garden that reunited Kevin and his co-author (MikeofNorthumberland) of the Young Student Cut Down in his Prime. All best wishes. Kitty |
09 Jan 11 - 06:51 PM (#3070874) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Bugsy I'd like to add my very best wishes for a speedy recovery, and thank you for keeping us updated. Cheers Bugsy |
09 Jan 11 - 06:54 PM (#3070876) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: SINSULL So those "movies" are hallucinations??? Who would have guessed? Thanks for the update and the good news. Mary |
09 Jan 11 - 07:03 PM (#3070881) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST All the best Kevin. Hurry back. DB. |
09 Jan 11 - 07:12 PM (#3070888) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Herga Kitty That should have been MikeofNorthumbria... but you know who I mean! K |
09 Jan 11 - 07:41 PM (#3070914) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Betsy All the very best - I hope recovery is full and as swift as possible - I value your posts. Sounds like a loving team surrounding you ,so give it all you've got. Best wishes again. |
09 Jan 11 - 07:59 PM (#3070919) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: frogprince Pullin' for Kevin in Michigan, USA. This "place" would be much poorer without him. |
09 Jan 11 - 08:52 PM (#3070958) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: wysiwyg Love and prayers from Susan and Hardi. ~Susan |
09 Jan 11 - 09:43 PM (#3070981) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST Best wishes from the top of Oz for a speedy and complete recovery. --Stewie. |
09 Jan 11 - 10:46 PM (#3071009) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Ebbie Kevin McGrath is one of those Mudcatters that when I think of him, it startles me to realize that we've never met. He is such a real presence everywhere hs shows up. Glad to hear that he is recuperating nicely. Kevin, at one point my mother 'suffered' hallucinations- actually, she didn't suffer at all, she enjoyed them hugely. One day she told my brother that her bed was floating on a lake and it was very pretty. He said, Hey, Mom, you know, don't you, that you are lying in bed in your bedroom, don't you? She shook her head. Scooping her hand and arm over the edge of the bed, she flung imaginary water all around. Ask 'Ebbie', she said. I splashed her! |
09 Jan 11 - 11:35 PM (#3071028) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: The Barden of England Just read this. So glad to hear you're recovering Kevin and look forward to seeing you at a festival this year - fit and well. John Barden |
09 Jan 11 - 11:54 PM (#3071030) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Stilly River Sage Such mixed news! I'm sorry you were so ill, Kevin, and I'm very glad to hear that you're recovering (and writing along the way!) Soon I hope to hear from you via laptop in your hospital bed, or even better, from home. Maggie (Stilly River Sage) in Texas |
09 Jan 11 - 11:56 PM (#3071032) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: katlaughing Thanks for the updates, Anne. Nice to see "the Missus.:-) And, very glad to hear he is doing well. |
10 Jan 11 - 12:35 AM (#3071041) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Gurney Even more good wishes, from Auckland. |
10 Jan 11 - 01:41 AM (#3071061) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: BlueJay Best wishes and high hopes from Colorado, Kevin. Your posts are among the very best. Thanks and get well soon, BlueJay |
10 Jan 11 - 03:14 AM (#3071078) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: mouldy I've only just picked this one up...I'm so glad that bad news has turned into good news. Keep on mending, my friend! And I believe it's called "ICU Psychosis" - something to do with all the powerful stuff they whack into the system. (It almost sounds like the title of a Bowser and Blue song!) Andrea |
10 Jan 11 - 03:33 AM (#3071082) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: open mike WHEN MY MOM was in the hospital she told me stories about riding a bus. I suspect it had something to do with the Zanax they were giving her. keep us posted on any further visions!! |
10 Jan 11 - 06:02 AM (#3071145) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: scouse Didn't see the post until now.. Greetings Kevin, take your time getting well. All the best from dear "Cloggieland." (the Netherlands.) As Aye, Phil. |
10 Jan 11 - 06:13 AM (#3071149) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: David C. Carter Get well sooner than soon....we nead you here Kevin. Best wishes David Carter France |
10 Jan 11 - 06:21 AM (#3071155) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: billybob so sorry to hear that you have been so ill Kevin,get well soon but enjoy being pampered meanwhile, lots of love and best wishes from Bill and I and all the "folks" in Walton on the Naze, Wendy |
10 Jan 11 - 06:21 AM (#3071156) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: C-flat Far too much of this kind of thing going on here at Mudcat. Henceforth, will all Mudcatters kindly refrain from falling ill, having accidents or any activity likely to give rise to this type of thread!! Kevin, I sincerely hope you make a fast and full recovery! In the meantime, will everyone just stop it!?!? |
10 Jan 11 - 07:00 AM (#3071177) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Roger the Skiffler I always enjoy Kevin's contributions here, though I only met him once (at the Stoney Stratford Mudcat meet where he sang one of Lorcan Otway's songs).All best wishes for a full and speedy recovery. RtS |
10 Jan 11 - 07:59 AM (#3071214) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Brakn Best wishes Kevin!! |
10 Jan 11 - 08:02 AM (#3071217) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,Scabby Douglas (at work) Kevin's contributions to Mudcat over many years have helped to keep it saner, and more grounded, than it might otherwise have been. Like many others, I feel that I "know" someone I have never met. Best wishes for a continued recovery to Kevin and thanks to his family for keeping us updated. All the very best. Steven Clark |
10 Jan 11 - 08:19 AM (#3071232) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: greg stephens Get well soon Kevin. Marmite ios good for you. |
10 Jan 11 - 08:39 AM (#3071244) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,Neil D Sorry to hear of your crisis and glad you're pulling through. I won't wish you a speedy recovery because I know from experience that slow and steady wins the day in this type of situation. Listen to the docs and you'll be up and moving before you know it. |
10 Jan 11 - 08:59 AM (#3071258) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Hrrm of Ravenglass Great to know that you're recovering well, Kevin. Keep on with the Marmite. Love and thanks to Anne and Ciaran for keeping us posted. PS: no working email address for you ATM. Can you send me one privately, please? |
10 Jan 11 - 09:10 AM (#3071263) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,Essex Girl My pc at home has been down for a few days so I've only just picked this up. Really sorry to hear about troubles, best wishes and get well soon Linda |
10 Jan 11 - 09:24 AM (#3071271) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Fidjit Oh I've been away and have just seen this. Hope it's going well Keep going forwards. Chas |
10 Jan 11 - 09:51 AM (#3071285) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Lighter Get well soon, McGrath |
10 Jan 11 - 10:59 AM (#3071339) Subject: AnyClone Help Request From: wysiwyg Hey, could one of the site mods perhaps undertake to re-date the thread title each time there is an update, like the Catspaw thread has been done? Thanks, ~Susan ------------------ Will do. Joe Clone------------- |
10 Jan 11 - 11:33 AM (#3071366) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: GUEST,harlowpoet All the best Kevin I'll try and pop in to see you this week. Your song about the marmite contains a maxim that applies to every supermarket I've been in. I'm looking for yeast extract, hum your chorus and head straight for the jam |
10 Jan 11 - 12:48 PM (#3071429) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: RoyH (Burl) I am another who has appreciated your father's contributions to the Mudcat over the years. Please give him my best wishes for a speedy and complete recovery. Let's hope we will be reading his postings again very soon. Burl. |
10 Jan 11 - 02:55 PM (#3071516) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Leraud Thinking of you Kevin. Lynne Heraud |
10 Jan 11 - 03:41 PM (#3071557) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Lonesome EJ Hey McG...we all miss you! Get back in the saddle soon! |
10 Jan 11 - 03:48 PM (#3071563) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: Lox All the best mate. |
10 Jan 11 - 03:56 PM (#3071569) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: message from his son From: McGrath of Harlow Kevin has now had some tests on his heart. He'll be having an angiogram some time this week. Here is a message from him: Thanks for all the messages of support.The Mudcat really is a fantastic place to hang out in. And I always love the different ways we express that kind of thing round the world. Everybody needs to learn how to do CPR. If I'd gone down five minutes before, by the side of the road, I'd have had it. As it is I'd just arrived at our church for Mass and there were people who knew what to do. Stained glass and all, good place to go, but a better place not to go. I don't know if the people working on me sang "Nellie the Elephant" which is the approved song in this country for keeping the rhythm of the compressions. I gather that Americans use "Staying Alive", but that's a bit literal I feel. I'll be in touch again. I can't use a laptop in here. Kevin |
10 Jan 11 - 06:17 PM (#3071679) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: Herga Kitty Kevin - what a great message! Hope your ribs are ok - a member of our folk club went into cardiac arrest last July at the folk club, shortly after singing, and only survived until the paramedics arrived because of the prompt attentions of another club member who is a nurse and the barmaid who knew how to use the defibrillator, but 3 ribs were broken in the process.... Kitty |
10 Jan 11 - 06:38 PM (#3071699) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: Janie Good to "hear" your voice, Kevin! |
10 Jan 11 - 07:03 PM (#3071715) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: McGrath of Harlow No broken ribs Kitty, but a massive bruise at the site of the compressions. Anne |
10 Jan 11 - 07:10 PM (#3071718) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: Joe Offer As a public service, I would like to provide this link to the lyrics for "Nellie the elephant." Also see this YouTube link for a cartoon version of the song. Get well soon, Kevin. -Joe- |
10 Jan 11 - 08:31 PM (#3071762) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: Barbara What they all said, me too. Listen, I will check back here regularly and expect to hear that you have checked out of the hospital and not from the planet. Blessings, Barbara |
10 Jan 11 - 08:45 PM (#3071772) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: SINSULL Stayin Alive works too. Good to have you back, Mr. McGrath. SINS |
10 Jan 11 - 09:20 PM (#3071784) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: Maryrrf Great to hear from you, Kevin and hoping you'll be out of the hospital soon! |
10 Jan 11 - 11:05 PM (#3071836) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: Stilly River Sage Joe, thanks for the link! Kevin, keep up the good work on your recovery! SRS |
10 Jan 11 - 11:51 PM (#3071848) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: Seamus Kennedy All the best for a full recovery, Kevin. |
11 Jan 11 - 12:01 AM (#3071852) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: JedMarum "better not go!" We're glad you didn't! Hope you're back soon. |
11 Jan 11 - 03:33 AM (#3071902) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: GUEST,harlowpoet I saw Kevin yesterday. He was in good spirits and hoping to be out by the end of the week. Simon |
11 Jan 11 - 03:56 AM (#3071910) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: GUEST,Tim Edwards Hi Kevin -- having caught up with your eventful few days all at once I was initially very shocked but later encouraged as I read the updates. All the very best to you and I hope you make a full and rapid recovery! Tim |
11 Jan 11 - 03:59 AM (#3071911) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: Sandra in Sydney more good news! keep up the good news sandra |
11 Jan 11 - 04:42 AM (#3071925) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: alanabit Thanks for giving us the good news. |
11 Jan 11 - 06:12 AM (#3071969) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: andymac Great news... |
11 Jan 11 - 06:27 AM (#3071979) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: fat B****rd Great to hear from you,M of H, obviously you are one tough Baby Boomer! |
11 Jan 11 - 07:43 AM (#3072008) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: Ron Davies Great to hear you're on the road to recovery. We miss your calm voice, and hope to hear it again soon. |
11 Jan 11 - 09:04 AM (#3072061) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: GUEST,999 Hi, Kevin. I just learned from Bobad that you'd had an event. I sure am happy you pulled through it. It's a much better world (and parenthetically a much better site) with you in it. Bruce M. |
11 Jan 11 - 09:05 AM (#3072063) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: GUEST KEVIN! and family... Been away from the Mcat a few... well, what a shock mate!!! Look here Kev... START TAKING CARE OF YERSELF!!!!!!!!! Eat those crispy veggies! Take the skin of the chicken... get in training for the best sport of all... a good long life. I say this, overweight - high blood pressure and a ton of dayly stress working seven days a week on often three hours of sleep... but, hell man, what do I work like the devil for, if not for a world with great fellows like you, Kevin in it. Here is an idea for a thread... let's take a handful of the best and least health of us... and start a mudcat challenge... encouragement to live healthy and long - keep the music going. You and Spaw, and ... weellll, before I go on must check in on a few I worry about... and offer encouragement, team McGrath, team Spaw... let's see which of you can beat the other to cheat the grim fellow... There are things you need to do, ol' friend... get well and fit to come to NYC for the opening of my pub, for example, when the State Liquor Athourity decides to love me... Well, stick some carrots, parsley, raw garlic, tomato and a few lovely spices in the blender, and go out for an accompanied briskish walk soon, dear fellow... you are in training to be the host of thy hunderth birthday. Get well, stay well... make music and keep making us all happy. Love to thee and thine (Lucky to have you...) Thy friend and Friend Lorcan (AH...AHH... AHHH... put down that greasy sausage mate!!!! Cellery and a nice salsa for you... ) |
11 Jan 11 - 09:49 AM (#3072105) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: InOBU Whhoops... my Cookie got ate... that IS me posting above... get well, again, best, Lor |
11 Jan 11 - 01:45 PM (#3072269) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: VirginiaTam Good to get a message direct from the man. Still following the thread and still sending along good energy for your recovery. |
12 Jan 11 - 12:01 PM (#3073019) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: GUEST,McGrat of Harlow Here I am in person. I have found how to access the cat via the bedside tv console. painfully slow and clumsy. I think Iwill rely on pprintouts from home.but it is good to know I can get through if I need to. thanksfor all theencouaging messsages. They are working... |
12 Jan 11 - 12:06 PM (#3073028) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: Maryrrf Yay Kevin!!! So glad that you're doing better and are able to post! Looking forward to having your calming and good humored influence on the 'cat! |
12 Jan 11 - 12:13 PM (#3073035) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: maeve Thank you, Kevin. That took some effort! It's reassuring to hear from you. Maeve |
12 Jan 11 - 12:16 PM (#3073040) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: George Papavgeris Speedy recovery, Kevin! |
12 Jan 11 - 12:40 PM (#3073061) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 10 From: katlaughing Thanks for stopping in, Kevin. Good to *see* you! |
12 Jan 11 - 12:44 PM (#3073068) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: wysiwyg Just tell them to be as good to you as you always are to us, Kevin. ~Susan |
12 Jan 11 - 12:55 PM (#3073084) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: Charley Noble Kevin- We certainly appreciate the updates from your family but it's even better to hear from you directly. Cheerily, Charley Noble |
12 Jan 11 - 02:25 PM (#3073176) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: jacqui.c Nice to here from you Kevin - I'm glad that you are getting better. |
12 Jan 11 - 02:29 PM (#3073178) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: SINSULL Rest. Get well. And check in occasionally. M |
12 Jan 11 - 02:37 PM (#3073184) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: Matthew Edwards Good to hear from you in person Kevin, and best wishes for a speedy recovery. Matthew |
12 Jan 11 - 02:48 PM (#3073190) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: alanabit Thumbs up to all the previous posters and, of course, especially Kevin. |
12 Jan 11 - 04:52 PM (#3073278) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: McGrath of Harlow From Anne Kevin's finding it difficult to cope with his stone age hospital computer so I'm writing for him. The tests he's had on his heart to date look ok. Tomorrow morning he's going to have an angiogram. I spoke to his doctor today. He told me that it's perfectly possible for cardiac arrest to be caused by external circumstances such as exertion and extreme cold and that cardiac arrest does not necessarily damage the heart. So I'm waiting in hope. Perhaps he'll be home soon. He misses the cats. Thanks to everyone for the kind wishes. Kevin has loved reading all the posts. |
12 Jan 11 - 05:06 PM (#3073292) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: GUEST Kevin, I'm glad to read that you're doing so well. Best wishes for excellent news from the angiogram. rags |
12 Jan 11 - 05:09 PM (#3073296) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: My guru always said So glad to hear such good news, keep up the good work Kevin! Hil |
12 Jan 11 - 06:17 PM (#3073346) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: Janie Hopeful expectations for more good news tomorrow after the angio is done! |
13 Jan 11 - 04:47 AM (#3073576) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: Leadfingers Hang in there Kevin ! |
13 Jan 11 - 06:49 PM (#3074016) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: Janie Hope you are getting restful sleep right now, Kevin - (in a hospital, Janie?) Especially hope you got a good report. |
13 Jan 11 - 07:19 PM (#3074036) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 12 From: McGrath of Harlow From Anne After hours of waiting, Kevin had the angiogram. It showed that he has some clogged arteries and is going to need bypass surgery. Tonight he's been moved (after more than three weeks in a general ward) to the cardiac ward, where to his delight he has a private room with his own bathroom. I don't know how long he'll remain here, because the intention is that he should have surgery at the cardiac centre for this area, which is in Basildon. We're glad that things have started to move, though it's good that he's had time to get stronger before having an operation. We hope to speak to his doctor tomorrow to find out in more detail what is wrong and what the surgery will involve. Kevin would be glad to hear from anyone who's had bypass surgery. |
13 Jan 11 - 07:33 PM (#3074049) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: Bert Hold it together Kevin with brown paper and string. |
13 Jan 11 - 07:54 PM (#3074069) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: Steve Shaw I should get to a hospital if I were you, mate. Those bypasses are bloody draughty. Some of the slip-roads round your way aren't too bad though... |
13 Jan 11 - 08:48 PM (#3074105) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: Janie Anne and/or Kevin, There is a recent thread, started by C-flat, just prior to his own bypass surgery to which a number of veterans of the procedure posted. Bypass Surgery While it is likely at some of those folks will see the inquiry and respond either here or via pm, Kevin could also check out the thread and pm C-flat and others who are veterans of the procedure. Still sending good mojo. Janie |
13 Jan 11 - 09:24 PM (#3074125) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: katlaughing Hugs and Light and cat purrs, too. We've got a lot of bypass veterans here. I am sure they will be helpful. Thanks, Anne, for letting us know. luvyakat |
14 Jan 11 - 02:02 AM (#3074206) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: alanabit It sounds like things are under control and that is good news all round. Thanks for the update. |
14 Jan 11 - 04:31 AM (#3074238) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: SylviaN Kevin and Anne - All the very, very best from Keith and me. xxx |
14 Jan 11 - 05:02 AM (#3074256) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: Bonzo3legs The very best of luck to him. My wife always take Arnica (homeopathic remedy) before and after an operation which seems to help her have a more speedy recovery. I also took it recently when having serious gum surgery and it reduced the amount of discomfort. |
14 Jan 11 - 10:15 AM (#3074428) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: jacqui.c Hi Kevin and Anne Kendall had bypass surgery in early 2004 and now has no problems at all. His was a three way bypass - his brother had a five way bypass a couple of years later and, again, that solved the problem. I'm so glad that the problem has been found and that Kevin will be getting the proper treatment in due course. Good thoughts still coming from Maine. |
14 Jan 11 - 12:11 PM (#3074511) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: C-flat Kevin, I've sent you a PM which I hope you'll be able to access from your hospital computer/TV/thingy. Merrick (C-flat) |
14 Jan 11 - 12:25 PM (#3074525) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: Bill D My own doctor a few years ago had a 7-way bypass! I saw him last year, and he's doing fine. It's not fun...until you're done. |
15 Jan 11 - 11:58 AM (#3075163) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: Janie Up you go! |
15 Jan 11 - 04:56 PM (#3075325) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: katlaughing Up she rises! |
16 Jan 11 - 04:09 AM (#3075526) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 13 From: McGrath of Harlow From Anne A big thankyou to everyone for all the support and kindness. Yesterday we met the ward manager for the cardiac unit here and were given more detailed information. Kevin will stay in this ward for another week so that further tests can be carried out. At the start of the following week he'll go to the cardiothoracic centre in Basildon. He needs triple bypass surgery (so not as bad as Bill D's doctor!). After two days he'll have the operation and should come straight home within five days to a week, which seems rather soon though there'll still be lots of support. We have a named cardiac rehabilitation nurse and can contact her whenever we want to. Ciaran took Kevin's guitar to the ward - which really pleased him. He's reading Alexander McCall-Smith's Mma Ramotswe books again and also The Complete Nigel Molesworth. Wonderful stuff! Kevin misses the Mudcat very much. Anne |
16 Jan 11 - 06:39 AM (#3075569) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: alanabit We miss him too. All the same, the good news is that he is on the mend and we shall have him back. Thank-you very much for the update. |
16 Jan 11 - 06:57 AM (#3075577) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Leadfingers Thanks for the update Anne ! |
16 Jan 11 - 07:53 AM (#3075601) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Herga Kitty Thanks for the update, and looking forward to Kevin's eventual return to Mudcat! Kitty |
16 Jan 11 - 08:04 AM (#3075604) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: maeve It's kind of you to keep us in the information loop, Anne. Thank you. We'll be watching and waiting, Kevin. |
16 Jan 11 - 08:58 AM (#3075633) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: GUEST,McGrath in hospital Here on the clunky bedside machine again. it has a will of its own and it doesnt like me much. Thanks everyone for this thread. A sense of solidarity is what you need in any crisis and that is what this has given me and Anne and Ciaran. This machine is doing my head in...Like playing a guitar with rubber strings. |
16 Jan 11 - 09:03 AM (#3075635) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: InOBU Kev! Genie is right here beside me, and we are hold thee dearly in the light. Get well soon, and the race between you and spaw to reach your 100th birthday is now on! Cheers, Lorcan |
16 Jan 11 - 09:12 AM (#3075639) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Maryrrf We miss you, Kevin, and we are so glad you're able to post every now and then. We'll all be thinking of you and sending out our good thoughts for a successful bypass surgery and a quick recovery, so you can get back to your old self and regularly provide Mudcat with your much needed doses of good sense, intelligence and humor. |
16 Jan 11 - 10:40 AM (#3075674) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Micca "Oh Mr McGrath The head nurse said we are putting this machine beside your bed it goes up and down and goes clunk click and we know of it you will soon be sick with my too-ri ah fol-the diddle-ah with me tooo-ri-oo -ri-ooh ri ah We know that you hate being in here away from the Mudcat ,Folk and Beer We know that it's a pain in the class but its there 'til we build the New By-Pass with my too-ri ah fol-the diddle-ah with me tooo-ri-oo -ri-ooh ri ah |
16 Jan 11 - 10:43 AM (#3075675) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Rapparee WHAT?! What the heck are you doing in THAT place? Get out while you can! |
16 Jan 11 - 11:12 AM (#3075691) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: jacqui.c Nice one Micca! Kevin - so good to see your post. Looking forward to the day you can post from home. Good thoughts still coming from Maine. |
16 Jan 11 - 01:31 PM (#3075769) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: GUEST,GUEST.NaomiH Hi Kevin, don't know if you remember me from Heritage days. Mike H passed on the news about your heart problem. Just want to wish you all the best for the op. Take care, get well, keep singing! Naomi |
16 Jan 11 - 03:04 PM (#3075828) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Steve Parkes Oh dear ... I'm the latest to have just found out you've been ill, Kevin -- I really must get out less & spend more time online. Glad you're on the mend; if love & good wishes were all it took, you'd be back on your feet in no time. Well, you'll have to do it the hard way, but my best wishes to you and hopes for a rapid getting-better. Steve |
16 Jan 11 - 06:39 PM (#3075965) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Herga Kitty Naomi H - thanks for reminding me that Kevin, together with Mike S, bequeathed "the young student sent down in his prime" to succeeding cohorts of Heritage members .... Kitty |
16 Jan 11 - 07:28 PM (#3075993) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: wysiwyg Hang in there dearie. Suggest a bedside journal to put down what you wish you could type in here... just read our stuff when yer here. Just letting us see your name here is a VERY big deal. ~S~ |
16 Jan 11 - 08:17 PM (#3076022) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Rapparee If you'd like, I'll keep a journal for you. Here's an excerpt: 15 January: After HALO jumping into Afghanistan (had to pop the 'chute 10 feet above ground) I proceeded to gather the intelligence I was sent in to get. Had to fight my way out through hordes of angry Taliban using nought but my bare hands, but that was nothing unusual. Back safe and sound; the information should bring THAT unpleasantness to a quick end. Missed tea at Windsor, blast it all! |
16 Jan 11 - 10:08 PM (#3076095) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Janie Rapparee, CELLAR! |
16 Jan 11 - 10:14 PM (#3076097) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Bill D "...a guitar with rubber strings" perfectly suited for setting Rap's journal to music.. ☺ Glad to hear all the plans are well organized... take care... |
16 Jan 11 - 10:27 PM (#3076105) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Sandra in Sydney excellent news after a 4-day weekend festival keep up eh good news sandra (still sending good wishes to the patient & his wonderful family) |
16 Jan 11 - 10:47 PM (#3076112) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Ebbie Kevin, there must be a song in this. I'm looking forward to seeing/hearing it. You will feel amazingly better after the operation. The best thing I've ever seen healthwise is the difference in the 'after' phase as the colour returns to the face. All the best to you- I'm not alone in missing you. Eb |
16 Jan 11 - 10:53 PM (#3076113) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Bobert Ummmm, seems I'm always late the the party... Or, in some cases, too early... Or just spaced out... No matter... Sad to read that my buddy, McG, got into some bad whiskey an' had to give everyone a scare but... ... hey, that is one thing that we certainly have in common... (Well, Boberdz, Uncle Charlie says the stuff is good...") So when you see McG, you just give him a just a little advice from Pine Grove Holler and that is... .,..don'tcha ever believe Uncle Chralie again... Would ya kindly pass that on to McG, por fvaor??? B~ |
17 Jan 11 - 09:08 AM (#3076335) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Big Mick Kevin, old friend never met, you gave me a fright! As I am working on a building project (barn style building to house my woodshop downstairs and music den upstairs) my computer time comes in snippets and I missed this. Over the many years that I have loved this place, your posts have had much to do with that. Lord knows we have debated some issues mightily, but you (unlike me, at times) have always demonstrated that you are a gentleman and a gentle man. I cannot imagine our cyber village without you in it, so please take good care and tip the medical staff well!! Though the circumstances are not pleasant, still what a delight it is to hear from Anne and Ciaran! I can "hear" in their posts their love for you and the vibrancy of your family. You are a lucky man, Kevin McGrath. I hope we can all sing together one day. All the best, Mick |
17 Jan 11 - 10:38 PM (#3076867) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Janie a week of waiting in hospital is a long time, Kevin. How can we best keep you entertained? |
18 Jan 11 - 07:15 PM (#3077544) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Bugsy Kevin, count the days til the op. It's like having a whole new lease on life! As we say in OZ, "I'm in there rooting for you mate!" Cheers Bugsy |
19 Jan 11 - 11:33 AM (#3077923) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Hrrm of Ravenglass Kevin, great to know that things are going OK. A friend up the road has just had a triple bypass and he's doing fine! Looking forward to hearing from you when you're back home and you don't have to use the guitar with rubber strings. Love and thanks to Anne and Ciaran. Hrrm |
19 Jan 11 - 03:16 PM (#3078111) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Amos Oh, McGrath, you have out a scare in me for sure!! Thanks so much for coming back to "reality". I know some of those strange zones in the border-lands, and I understand how interesting they can be. Rest, grow strong, and get back on your proper computer!! You are much missed in these hallowed halls. A |
20 Jan 11 - 02:35 PM (#3078786) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: C-flat Please keep us updated as and when you can. |
20 Jan 11 - 06:57 PM (#3078998) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Bugsy The "Zip Chest Club" just gets bigger and bigger! We should have a badge. CHeers Bugsy |
20 Jan 11 - 07:31 PM (#3079017) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Tattie Bogle Surgery in Basildon? Will Kevin be known hereafter as Basildon Bond? (For those of you across the pond, this is a high-class writing stationery for those who still write proper letters!) |
21 Jan 11 - 05:35 AM (#3079233) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: C-flat The "Zip Chest Club" just gets bigger and bigger! We should have a badge. That's a great idea Bugsy!! Or maybe a Mudcat T shirt with a zipper? "in case of emergency...." |
21 Jan 11 - 05:38 AM (#3079235) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: MartinRyan Or maybe a Mudcat T shirt with a zipper? "in case of emergency...." In case of emergency, f*** the doctor, contact Joe Offer! |
21 Jan 11 - 07:54 AM (#3079299) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: breezy Wishing M of H a speedy recovery, All the best. |
21 Jan 11 - 03:23 PM (#3079573) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: broadstairs-jen Sending positive thoughts to you Kevin. See you in Broadstairs this summer! Jen |
21 Jan 11 - 07:10 PM (#3079716) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: McGrath of Harlow Kevin is going to the Cardiothoracic Centre on Sunday afternoon and will have the operation on Tuesday. I'll be staying in a hotel nearby with friends. Meanwhile, he is re-reading the Mma Ramotswe books. I've just bought him the latest - The Double Comfort Safari Club. Mma Ramotswe is a comforting person to have around. Yesterday one of our neighbours, a good friend, was admitted to the cardiac ward here, and has the room next to Kevin. He has to have the same operation. They can visit each other! I spoke again today to the young couple who gave Kevin CPR when he collapsed. They're going to come and see us when Kevin is better. Thanks again to everyone for all the kind messages. Kevin has given up on the clanky hospital computer. Anne |
21 Jan 11 - 07:19 PM (#3079719) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: Herga Kitty Thanks Anne for the update, and all best wishes to you, Kevin and Ciaran! Kitty |
21 Jan 11 - 07:24 PM (#3079722) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 16 From: katlaughing Thanks, Anne. We will keep you all in our thoughts, etc. on Tuesday, esp. I agree on the choice of reading material. ATB, Kevin, kat |
22 Jan 11 - 04:40 AM (#3079861) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: Wolfhound person MartinRyan wrote "In case of emergency, f*** the doctor" With the age and attractiveness of some, that begins to seem like an attractive option to this unruly late middle age female..... I'll get me coat..... but not before wishing McGrath well - I have been following the thread. One of my best friends is still thriving 17 years after a quad bypass. Good luck Paws |
22 Jan 11 - 05:51 AM (#3079877) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: Sandra in Sydney good news is good news. wishing both the patients fast healing sandra |
22 Jan 11 - 07:28 AM (#3079922) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: billybob Healing thoughts from Walton on the Naze, have had really good feedback about the heart unit at Basildon, you couldnt be in a better place for the op! Wendy |
22 Jan 11 - 08:54 AM (#3079963) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: Maryrrf How wonderful to know that Kevin is in good hands, is comfortable, has friends and family nearby, and a good book! With so much good mojo pouring in from all over, he'll breeze through the bypass. And thank heavens for the kindess of strangers, who also knew how to perform CPR. I learned how to do this years ago, but I think I'll review the procedure just in case I ever need to use it. |
22 Jan 11 - 08:59 AM (#3079972) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: wysiwyg Go Kevin! ~S~ |
22 Jan 11 - 04:31 PM (#3080242) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: Stilly River Sage If Kevin and the neighbor are both admitted around the same time for the same thing - you might want to check the water! I look forward to hearing about his continued progress, and he should feel a lot better after the surgery. SRS |
22 Jan 11 - 04:43 PM (#3080254) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: Janie Still thinking of you Kevin, and you as well, Anne, and looking forward to you having a speedy recovery. |
23 Jan 11 - 02:29 AM (#3080466) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: mouldy Good luck for the op. I'm sure all will go well. (I can see you and your neighbour like a couple of kids, comparing scars!) Andrea |
23 Jan 11 - 03:54 PM (#3080895) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: McGrath of Harlow Today my dad went over to the cardiothoracic unit (aka Thoracic Park) in Basildon, which is a pretty spectacular £60 million facility next to the main hospital. He has his own very large room with a magnificent view across bleak, rather beautiful fields straight out of a Thomas Hardy novel. He is in excellent spirits which were buoyed still further when a large plate of fish and chips turned up just before we left him. In fact by this time he was rather more interested in reading The Observer than talking to either of us! He has three Mma Ramotswe books to read between now and then. He's due to have his operation on Tuesday morning at 8. Thank you to everyone for all the messages. Ciaran |
23 Jan 11 - 04:37 PM (#3080923) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: jacqui.c thanks for the update Ciaran. Glad to know that Kevin is happy in his new room. Good thoughts coming from Maine for Tuesday. |
23 Jan 11 - 04:41 PM (#3080926) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 21 From: katlaughing Thanks for the update. I can see his eloquence carried on through the line. I can just *see* the view. Light, Love, and Healing Energy, kat |
23 Jan 11 - 05:15 PM (#3080964) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Herga Kitty Here's hoping Kevin will soon be sending for kippers by post.... Kitty xx |
23 Jan 11 - 05:56 PM (#3080995) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Janie Really appreciate you taking the time to keep us updated, Ciaran. |
23 Jan 11 - 06:36 PM (#3081023) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Lighter His own large room? I thought you guys were living under Socialist health-care slavery over there!! Best wishes for a good op and a speedy recovery! |
24 Jan 11 - 01:20 AM (#3081195) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: BlueJay My best regards, Kevin. And thanks for keeping us informed, Anne and Ciaran. BlueJay |
24 Jan 11 - 02:40 AM (#3081207) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: alanabit Thanks for the update Ciaran. We will all be with him. |
24 Jan 11 - 02:42 AM (#3081208) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: My guru always said Many thanks for the updates, we're sending positive thoughts for tomorrow! |
24 Jan 11 - 03:27 AM (#3081214) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Bernard Hope all goes well, Bernard |
24 Jan 11 - 10:49 AM (#3081425) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Maryrrf It sounds like Kevin is in good hands. Thanks for the update! |
24 Jan 11 - 11:26 AM (#3081438) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: GUEST,NaomiH Best wishes for the op - and thanks to Kevin's family for the updates. Naomi |
24 Jan 11 - 11:43 AM (#3081449) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Bill D ...will be watching for news. |
24 Jan 11 - 12:00 PM (#3081458) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Ebbie The best to you, Kevin. |
25 Jan 11 - 12:34 AM (#3081891) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Bugsy Good luck today mate, we're all thinking of you cheers Bugsy |
25 Jan 11 - 02:30 PM (#3082239) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Herga Kitty Hoping to hear that all went well in Basildon today... Kitty |
25 Jan 11 - 04:01 PM (#3082297) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: GUEST,harlowpoet Hi Kevin Hope it all went smoothly today. Praying for your quick recovery. All the best Simon |
25 Jan 11 - 07:16 PM (#3082423) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Janie I guess it is in the very wee hours of tomorrow morning in the UK. Hope the operation went well and with no complications. I can imagine how tired Anne and Ciaran are from the watching and waiting. Hope everyone, including Kevin, are tucked away in good hands and resting. Y'all take care of yourselves and each other. |
25 Jan 11 - 07:18 PM (#3082424) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: SINSULL Waiting for news. Be well. Mary |
25 Jan 11 - 07:42 PM (#3082443) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: maeve Waiting here, as well. May the morning bring you renewed strength, Kevin. Maeve |
25 Jan 11 - 08:46 PM (#3082477) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Sandra in Sydney me, too! |
25 Jan 11 - 10:40 PM (#3082506) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Celtaddict Kevin: have not been on for some time and am rarely below the line so I just saw this. Be well! Healing and light to you! Good friend had a quint bypass 17 years ago, and last fall had a repeat quad. He is thriving and will be going on a trip to the Caribbean with us next month. Please follow his example closely!! |
26 Jan 11 - 02:19 AM (#3082527) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: My guru always said Positive thoughts for a new day! |
26 Jan 11 - 05:56 AM (#3082587) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: alanabit I am just going to refresh this so everyone knows that we are all thinking of Kevin. |
26 Jan 11 - 08:03 AM (#3082641) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Bonzo3legs All best wishes for the man. Fish & Chips????? |
26 Jan 11 - 08:26 AM (#3082651) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: JennyO Sending you strong positive vibes, Kevin. Hope it went perfectly! I haven't met you yet, and now that we're in the UK, there's a chance we might :) |
26 Jan 11 - 01:23 PM (#3082789) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Haruo Hopefully not fried in coconut or palm oil... Waiting hopefully for news. Haruo |
26 Jan 11 - 01:32 PM (#3082794) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: maeve I am, like your other many friends and acquaintances here, looking forward to your renewed health, Kevin. Maeve |
26 Jan 11 - 05:52 PM (#3082975) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: McGrath of Harlow Dad had his operation yesterday. We got the call to say he was back on the ward at 1.45pm, just as we were watching the finale of The King's Speech at the Empire Cinema in Basildon. (It's very good so we are going back to see it tomorrow morning so that we can give it our full attention. Visiting at Thoracic Park doesn't start till 2pm.) We saw the surgeon later on and he told us it had gone very well. Dad was pretty groggy yesterday but was sitting up and talking by the time we visited today. He's feeling pretty uncomfortable now the morphine's worn off but that's understandable in the circumstances. He actually had a quadruple bypass rather than a triple. Our neighbour is now in the same ward and is having his bypass operation in the morning. His wife is at our hotel so we can all help each other. Internet access is limited where we are staying at the Premier Inn, but we will do our best to keep you posted. Thank you all very much for your kind messages. Ciaran |
26 Jan 11 - 06:00 PM (#3082979) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: Herga Kitty Ciaran - thanks so much for posting. Great news, and all best wishes to you, your parents and your neighbours! Hope your dad will be able to send his own post soon. Kitty xx |
26 Jan 11 - 06:09 PM (#3082982) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 23 From: alanabit Thanks very much Ciaran. I am certainly not alone in looking forward to welcoming your Dad back here. |
26 Jan 11 - 06:19 PM (#3082987) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: GUEST,Alan Whittle Quadruple by pass! I suppose after Newbury, they had to go one better. best wishes to you Kevin |
26 Jan 11 - 06:29 PM (#3082995) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Janie Well done! Janie |
26 Jan 11 - 06:39 PM (#3083005) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Bugsy Great News! I'm so glad it all went well. CHeers Bugsy |
26 Jan 11 - 06:43 PM (#3083007) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: wysiwyg Thanks be to God! ~Susan |
26 Jan 11 - 06:49 PM (#3083011) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Mrrzy Wow, just saw this somehow, glad to hear about the successful surgery, McGfH you hang around now, we need you. Thank you family for keeping us informed. Good thoughts always, -Mrr |
26 Jan 11 - 07:00 PM (#3083018) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Leadfingers Its got to the point that Heart By Pass Surgery is routine and with most people who are even vaguely fit when they start recovery is NO problem , which we all hope will be the case with Kevin - Last time I saw him he seemed VERY well for his years ! Glad the Op went well . |
26 Jan 11 - 07:27 PM (#3083033) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Maryrrf This is great news! I'm so glad everything went well. |
26 Jan 11 - 08:03 PM (#3083054) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Sandra in Sydney yes! excellent news |
26 Jan 11 - 09:29 PM (#3083093) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: jacqui.c Great news. Thanks for letting us know Ciaran. Here's hoping that recovery goes quickly. |
26 Jan 11 - 09:49 PM (#3083096) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Rapparee Great! Now someone give him a big, soft teddy bear to hug when he coughs. It helps, according to my nine-bypass brother. |
27 Jan 11 - 03:21 AM (#3083175) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: GUEST,NaomiH Great news, hope you'll soon be feeling MUCH better! N |
27 Jan 11 - 03:36 AM (#3083181) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: mouldy Woop-de-doo! (And other celebratory noises). Andrea |
27 Jan 11 - 04:21 AM (#3083189) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: My guru always said Fantastic News!! Thanks so much for letting us know, hope you're feeling more relaxed now. Still sending positive thoughts for a good recovery! |
27 Jan 11 - 05:17 AM (#3083206) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: wilbyhillbilly Great News! well done Kevin, won't be long now before you're back irritating the hell out of everybody again.(lol) Seriously though, you are in our thoughts and we wish you a speedy recovery. John , Beth and Danny. xx |
27 Jan 11 - 05:44 AM (#3083215) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: GUEST,Wee Jock Kevin I have been following your progress on line and i am very pleased that the operation has gone well. The folk music family irrespective of where they are,are fantastic people and give us hope when things are not great. It just shows you that our music,which is the best in the world brings out the best in people. Take Care and look forward to hearing from you in the not to distant future Regards John Matthews |
27 Jan 11 - 06:10 AM (#3083223) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: gnu Glad to hear it went well. Now for a speedy recovery. |
27 Jan 11 - 06:17 AM (#3083227) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: MikeofNorthumbria Thanks to Ciaran for giving us the good news - Best wishes to Kevin for a speedy recovery - Love to Ann & all the rest of the family McGrath. Wassail! |
27 Jan 11 - 06:37 AM (#3083236) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: freda underhill Quadruple best wishes to you Kevin - best wishes from accross the oceans - freda |
27 Jan 11 - 06:46 AM (#3083238) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Roger the Skiffler Glad to hear the good news, best wishes for a speedy recovery. RtS |
27 Jan 11 - 02:02 PM (#3083463) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Steve Parkes How great to hear the good news! Keep on getting better, Kevin. |
27 Jan 11 - 02:05 PM (#3083467) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: JedMarum Good News! Continued good wishes for fast and complete healing! |
27 Jan 11 - 02:30 PM (#3083489) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: The Barden of England Thanks Ciaran and glad to hear your dad's on the mend. Give him my best wishes, as I will when I next see him. John Barden |
27 Jan 11 - 02:34 PM (#3083496) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: VirginiaTam Great to read such good news. Rock on Kevin and family. |
27 Jan 11 - 05:31 PM (#3083621) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: GUEST,harlowpoet Kevin Great to hear it has gone well. The bovril will always be with the gravy and the marmite will always be with the jam! All the best Simon |
27 Jan 11 - 05:44 PM (#3083628) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: GUEST Wonderful news, Kevin. Best wishes for a speedy recovery. Sure do miss you on the threads. Bruce |
29 Jan 11 - 10:50 AM (#3084683) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: C-flat I'm gritting my teeth a little on Kevin's behalf right now because it's about this time that the nurses will be encouraging him out of bed and up on to his feet. The memories of my own recent experience are still fresh and I know just how strong the desire to curl up in a ball and pull the covers over your head is at this time. Either through Kevin's superhuman willpower or the sheer persistance of our wonderful nursing staff, Kevin will be upright and walking to the shower-room. Anyone who has been through this, and there are plenty here, will remember these early days of recovery. The chest-clearing (huff,huff!), armchair physio, wobbly legs along the corridoor, and will remember how fragile and grateful and often tearful these days are. Hopefully Anne and Ciaran take some encouragement from reading these messages to Kevin. Right now they too need all the support they can get. |
29 Jan 11 - 11:25 PM (#3085041) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Janie Thinking of all of you during this rough bit of recovery. |
30 Jan 11 - 07:17 AM (#3085152) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: scouse Ciaran, thanks for the update on your Dad. I wish him well an all da best from here in dear "Clogland." (The Netherlands.) As Aye, Phil |
30 Jan 11 - 02:51 PM (#3085387) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: McGrath of Harlow Dad was discharged today and arrived home a couple of hours ago. It's been a long and arduous journey back since that day, exactly six weeks ago, when he walked up the hill to church, but he is very pleased and relieved. He's also very tired and is now in bed but wants to say thanks to everyone who has taken such an interest in his progress. I would imagine he will post something on here himself in the next day or two. Our priority now is to ensure that he regains his customary vigour and for us all to try and get back to normal - as far as possible at least. We've had amazing support from our friends. It was so strange that Dad and our neighbour were in the hospital together comparing notes. Four of us stayed in the hotel in Basildon, visiting the hospital each day. In the end we settled into something of a routine and once Dad started to recover from the surgery we had quite good fun really. Ciaran |
30 Jan 11 - 02:56 PM (#3085391) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: Janie What good news to hear! Thanks, Ciaran. |
30 Jan 11 - 03:11 PM (#3085402) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 26 From: maeve Ciaran, thank you! I know you're glad to be home again, Kevin. Maeve |
30 Jan 11 - 03:14 PM (#3085405) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: GUEST,999 I`m very happy you`re home,Kevin. |
30 Jan 11 - 04:06 PM (#3085438) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: Bonzo3legs Good to hear good news, best wishes for continued recovery. |
30 Jan 11 - 04:52 PM (#3085467) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: My guru always said So very glad to hear that he's home. Hope he'll take it easy and recover well! |
30 Jan 11 - 04:56 PM (#3085469) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: Waddon Pete Excellent news! What is it those Vulcans say? Oh yes...live long and prosper! Best wishes, Peter |
30 Jan 11 - 05:37 PM (#3085490) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: jacqui.c Good news! Looking forward to seeing Kevin posting again. |
30 Jan 11 - 05:47 PM (#3085497) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: wysiwyg Thanks for the news. Rest up, Kevin, get your strength back slowly and firmly with what the doctor orders, especially any rehab-- it['s so worth the effort and the time, for yourself and for all those around you who want much, much more time with you. ~Susan |
30 Jan 11 - 06:30 PM (#3085530) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: Stilly River Sage It must be quite a relief to be home! Take care Kevin, and we look forward to your posts. SRS |
30 Jan 11 - 06:45 PM (#3085537) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: Liberty Boy Delighted to hear that you're home again Kevin! |
31 Jan 11 - 12:28 AM (#3085674) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: alanabit Lovely news. Thanks Ciaran. Take your time Kevin. There is no hurry. I look forward to having you back here among us whenever you are ready. |
31 Jan 11 - 02:33 AM (#3085704) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: Herga Kitty Just caught up with Ciaran's latest post - how nice to hear such good news first thing on a Monday morning! Hope Kevin makes great progress and will feel up to posting soon. Kitty |
31 Jan 11 - 02:38 AM (#3085705) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: mouldy Likewise. Can't keep a good man down,eh? Andrea |
31 Jan 11 - 06:00 AM (#3085753) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: MikeofNorthumbria Thanks for passing on the good news Ciaran. Best wishes to Kevin and Anne. Wassail! |
31 Jan 11 - 06:22 AM (#3085759) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: Roger the Skiffler I bet he's thinking of writing a song about it! RtS |
31 Jan 11 - 08:01 AM (#3085798) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: C-flat Great news and bang on schedule so safe to presume he's making perfect progress!! |
31 Jan 11 - 08:19 AM (#3085804) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: Sandra in Sydney marvels of modern surgery! keep healing sandra |
31 Jan 11 - 09:00 AM (#3085824) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: GUEST,Essex Girl Very glad to hear you're on the mend Kevin, best wishes Linda |
31 Jan 11 - 09:07 AM (#3085831) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: GUEST,John MacKenzie Slainthé Kevin. |
31 Jan 11 - 07:23 PM (#3086246) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: GUEST,Bill the sound So glad to here Kevin is making good progress. I have never met him but I hope I will one day as I have managed to learn one or two of his songs(Thanks for those). All the best Bill |
01 Feb 11 - 09:10 AM (#3086571) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: Bernard Excellent news! |
01 Feb 11 - 12:20 PM (#3086675) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: GUEST,Irish Guest "Master" McGrath, those of us who know your breeding always knew that there is at least one more "Waterloo" in you, and perhaps a few with it :) Good health lad. |
01 Feb 11 - 12:50 PM (#3086681) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: GUEST Great News, well done! Rog |
02 Feb 11 - 03:52 AM (#3087031) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: My guru always said Keep on taking it easy Kevin! Did anyone get him a big Teddy Bear to hug when he feels like coughing? I thought that was an excellent suggestion! |
02 Feb 11 - 06:35 AM (#3087097) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: An Pluiméir Ceolmhar Just popped into the Mudcat after a long absence, and was shocked to read this thread. My very best wishes to Kevin, with whom I have PM'd in the past during some flame war or other, because I found him to be a kindred spirit and a rock of common sense. Coincidentally, the occasion of my visit today was the poem An Bunnán Buí, which is a warning of the danger of adopting too healthy a lifestyle, especially during winter weather. |
03 Feb 11 - 07:31 AM (#3087813) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: McGrath of Harlow Kevin has had a bit of a set-back and was admitted to our local hospital f |
03 Feb 11 - 07:40 AM (#3087816) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: McGrath of Harlow (see previous message sent accidentally!) .... for a day and a half. He is pleased to be home again but is tired. He's had very little sleep in the past six weeks. He hopes to post later today. Anne |
03 Feb 11 - 07:45 AM (#3087818) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: GUEST Thank goodness! Thanks for both posts, Anne. Maeve |
03 Feb 11 - 07:56 AM (#3087819) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Jan. 30 From: maeve 'Twas I who posted just then. Sorry- my cookie was thrown out with the dishwater. Maeve |
03 Feb 11 - 11:06 AM (#3087896) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: McGrath of Harlow McGrath himself. Back home properly, touch wood. This is an amazing thread. I read bits of it Ciaran printed out for me, but when I've got the energy I'll read the whole thing. Right now I'm still pretty bushed. Thanks for all the good wishes and good thoughts. Actually going back in our local hospital was quite good and strange, because the Accident and Emergency rooms were full of people who'd worked to save me back on 19th December, when my heart just stopped in church, and caused general consternation, and the swimming pool couple stepped in and did CPR on a real person for the first time. Anyway the A & E people were excited and pleased, because most stories like mine don't end too well - a nurse said maybe one in 50... I felt a bit like Harry Potter, "the boy who didn't die". I hadn't realised it was that close. I think the Mudcat good wishes must have been backdated to help out. Incidentally here is a set of photos of the church it all happened in. Great setting for a final curtain - but I'm glad it wasn't. I was wiser than I knew when I wrote: Well I try to explain, and you might understand, it's a fine place to go to when you're feeling grand - but when your heart's heavy, and you're shackled and pinned, you can reach out for help with the Blue Clicky Thing |
03 Feb 11 - 11:46 AM (#3087918) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: GUEST,BBP at work Kevin, I've been lurking, reading this thread over the weeks and quietly rooting for you. But, the "blue clicky thing" above just made me laugh out loud - thanks for putting the silly grin back on my face and keep getting better. |
03 Feb 11 - 12:37 PM (#3087945) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: C-flat Welcome back Kevin. |
03 Feb 11 - 12:56 PM (#3087952) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: GUEST,John MacKenzie Wonderful outcome, congratulations Kevin. Lang may yer lum reek, as they say in these parts. |
03 Feb 11 - 01:18 PM (#3087968) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Herga Kitty Kevin - I'm so glad to see your post (especially after Anne's accidental one)! Looking forward to seeing more, and meanwhile carry on recovering! Kitty |
03 Feb 11 - 01:32 PM (#3087979) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: jacqui.c YAY!!!! So glad to see your post Kevin. You have been missed. Now, take it easy but get well ASAP. |
03 Feb 11 - 01:42 PM (#3087985) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Stilly River Sage Good to have you back at the 'cat, Kevin. You and I tend to talk more about tech things than music - I suppose you have a whole new expertise on techie things, medical-wise. I hope I don't have to rely on your observations in this field! Let's get back to discussing web pages and recording/editing devices! Maggie |
03 Feb 11 - 01:42 PM (#3087986) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Leadfingers Glad you're home again Kev ! Take it easy and dont start any marathons for at least Forty Eight Hours ! |
03 Feb 11 - 02:38 PM (#3088031) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Steve Parkes Phew! Even greater news! |
03 Feb 11 - 03:37 PM (#3088078) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: mouldy I know you'll be sensible...but don't forget that however far you walk - it's that far back again too! Welcome back1 Andrea |
03 Feb 11 - 04:21 PM (#3088112) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: dick greenhaus Pshaw. As I told Louis Killen, it's the body-piercing of our generation. Glad ou're back. |
03 Feb 11 - 05:04 PM (#3088140) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: wysiwyg Wonderful window pix, Kevin! ~S~ |
03 Feb 11 - 05:53 PM (#3088168) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Jeri Welcome, back, Kevin! The "swimming pool couple" did well. Lots of people learn CPR, but no one knows if they'll actually do it when the opportunity presents itself. Some freeze up. (I was one of those, but I think Imay be better.) I'm glad you came out the arse end of this. I still think Catspaw wins the prize for direst medical situation survived though. |
03 Feb 11 - 06:35 PM (#3088196) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: open mike It is amazing how a brush with the grim reaper can bring you a re-newed appreciation for the land of the living! Glad you are here! |
03 Feb 11 - 08:09 PM (#3088257) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Janie Welcome home, Kevin. |
03 Feb 11 - 09:11 PM (#3088276) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: freda underhill A 1 in 50 chance - we always knew you're special Kevin. Congratulations on your remarkable survival and recovery. best wishes freda |
03 Feb 11 - 10:29 PM (#3088297) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Bill D Good to see you back... DO take it easy. |
04 Feb 11 - 12:09 AM (#3088348) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Karyana A Chaomhin, a chara, La gra! Is mise, Aine, from so long ago . . . I've wondered why I've been drawn back to the 'Cat after so many years, a ghra! Thanks be that you're recoverin' after such a do! You've been a main stay in my heart all these years I've ben away from the 'Cat! So glad to hear that you're still kickin' it above the ground . . . so glad to hear that I am too, don't ya know!! All the best to my still loved ones here at the 'Cat!! Hugs and snogs all 'round, Aine (aka Karyana . . . I had to come up with with a different name, since ya don't seem to know me no more . . .) ;-) Aine |
04 Feb 11 - 01:39 AM (#3088364) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Sandra in Sydney good to see you back & also good to see those beautiful pics. sandra I take a lot of photos of old/antique stained glass & haven't seen any like your church glass, so I just searched for modern church glass & wow! |
04 Feb 11 - 04:00 AM (#3088399) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: My guru always said So very glad to see you back here Kevin, recover well! |
04 Feb 11 - 06:41 AM (#3088462) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: breezy Welcome home Kevin |
04 Feb 11 - 08:37 AM (#3088516) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: McGrath of Harlow It is an amazing stained glass interior - and no one seems to know about it. They should be beating their way to see it. A hidden jewel. It was made by monks at Buckfast Abbey in Devon, and here's a picture of a remarkable window from the same people, which is at the Abbey itself. Great to see you here again Aine!! |
04 Feb 11 - 08:44 AM (#3088521) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: treewind Welcome back Kevin. Take it easy now... Anahata |
04 Feb 11 - 08:48 AM (#3088522) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: billybob Stunning pictures Kevin, keep well Wendy x |
05 Feb 11 - 01:47 PM (#3089305) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: GUEST,NaomiH Glad you're home and on the mend! Naomi PS Great pictures! |
05 Feb 11 - 10:33 PM (#3089553) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Sandra in Sydney thanks for the other pic - another wow! Maybe I need to look for modern churches (& homes?) rather than old ones to see if I can see similar examples of modern designs & techniques. |
05 Feb 11 - 10:35 PM (#3089554) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Maryrrf It sure is good to see you posting again, Kevin! |
20 Feb 11 - 10:59 PM (#3099488) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: Janie How goes the healing? |
21 Feb 11 - 02:50 AM (#3099539) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: chazkratz What's this, McGraw, ya jealous of all the attention Catspaw was getting? Pull yerself together, man. Get the Guiness flowin' through your veins, pick up yer lance, and get back at the windmills. Charles |
26 Nov 12 - 10:09 AM (#3442396) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: GUEST,Howard Clark Just had a message from Peace News that someone had just come into his shop in Totnes and asked about you. So Paul phoned PN to see if anyone knew, and I - now living in Madrid - got the message and started googling. Hope you're staying well after that shock described above. Glad to see you're still singing - and now writing songs too. all the best Howard |
04 Dec 12 - 06:37 PM (#3447080) Subject: RE: McGrath of Harlow: UPDATE Feb. 3 From: GUEST I do not know what I a m doing here but just found this place on the computer so perhaps if i write someone out ther will see this and give my best regards to kevin from the dim and distant. patrick o'sullivan came into my shop and had an urge to make contact so i hope he manages to do so when i forward this info to him ,,, in the meantime fondest wishes backdroped with great memories. paul wesley |
04 Dec 12 - 09:52 PM (#3447185) Subject: RE: 2011 illness: McGrath of Harlow From: meself I somehow missed all this excitement till now - anyway: glad you made it through, and glad you're back! |
04 Dec 12 - 09:53 PM (#3447186) Subject: RE: 2011 illness: McGrath of Harlow From: meself I mean, glad you've been back for a year, almost ... ! |