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BS: DB's daughter update

27 Jan 11 - 11:39 AM (#3083389)
Subject: BS: DB's daughter update
From: Dharmabum

Well,it's been about a year & a half since my daughter's first signs of a T.B.I.(traumatic brain injury)appeared.
I've accepted the fact that this has changed both of our lives,although,periodically,I'm reminded just how much.

About two weeks ago,Shalisa had a seizure.
This is the first one that I'm aware of,& honestly,the first one that I've ever witnessed.
I'm glad to say that she recovered in about a minute or two,& has no memory of it happening.
I'm also happy to report that I managed to keep it together & did,what I discovered later,were all of the appropriate things to do while someone's having a seizure.
(Although,deep down,It felt like an eternity,& I was sh**ing bricks!)

We were at the University of Penn Medicine in Phila. last week for an E.E.G.
& a visit with the neurologist.
The testing showed a few "spikes" in brain activity & we were told that with the present brain damage, that Shalisa will more than likely suffer an occasional seizure.
At this time,she's taking an anti seizure medication & I'm monitoring her for any extreme mood changes.

I'm doing my best to keep Shalisa as active as possible,both, physically & mentally.
Some days that's that's a fairly large task.
Some days it's much easier.
Other than this latest scare,she's ,for the most part, doing ok.

Ironically,I've been so busy dealing with the changes in our lives,
I hadn't realized how much our lives had changed.

    DB.


27 Jan 11 - 12:47 PM (#3083419)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: SINSULL

You have a rough road ahead, DB. Wish i had some sage advice or the ability to make it all better.
Shalisa is lucky to have you.
Stay well yourself.
Mary


27 Jan 11 - 01:50 PM (#3083454)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: Ebbie

What Sins said. It is amazing what one gets kind of used to. Shalisa is lucky to have you- and I suspect you feel lucky to have her.


27 Jan 11 - 01:54 PM (#3083457)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: Rapparee

TBI? I don't remember -- how did this happen? (Not being nosy, just want to see if I can find places to help.)


27 Jan 11 - 02:15 PM (#3083477)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: maeve

The original thread is here, Rap.

Seems a person can get used to 'most anything!

Best wishes,

Maeve


27 Jan 11 - 02:49 PM (#3083508)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: GUEST,999

My thoughts are with you and Shalisa.


27 Jan 11 - 06:24 PM (#3083654)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: ragdall

DB,
Best wishes to you and to Shalisa as you deal with this new challenge.

Is Shalisa still able to enjoy her music? Has her short term memory improved any since you posted here in June last year? You mentioned that repetition seemed to help, if Shalisa could repeatedly watch a video of her playing her music could she commit the event to memory?

Thanks,
rags


27 Jan 11 - 06:49 PM (#3083668)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: olddude

In my thoughts and prayers
Dan


27 Jan 11 - 06:54 PM (#3083671)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: Dharmabum

Thanks everyone for your support.

Rapparee;We still don't know exactly what caused her TBI,but with continued testing,we're hoping to get a definitive diagnoses.

Ragdall;Yes,she's still able to play some.
But,so far we've been unable to trigger her brain to learn & retain new music.
I've recorded one song multiple times onto cd & had her listen to it.
She's able to play along with it note for note,but so far unable to repeat it on her own.

I have to believe it's all still "in there" somewhere.
I'm always hopeful that we'll find a way to it.

DB.


27 Jan 11 - 07:50 PM (#3083708)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: kendall

The brain is a marvel for the things it can do. Keep working at it.


27 Jan 11 - 08:35 PM (#3083731)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: Maryrrf

Best wishes to you, DB - it sounds like a hard road you are treading but you are doing it with determination, dignity and good cheer. All the best to you and your daughter.


27 Jan 11 - 09:30 PM (#3083751)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: wysiwyg

Love to you both from us here.

~Susan


27 Jan 11 - 10:07 PM (#3083770)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: ChanteyLass

Oh, my. I hope for improvement and healing.


27 Jan 11 - 11:40 PM (#3083799)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: Sandra in Sydney

love & best wishes to you both

sandra


28 Jan 11 - 09:34 AM (#3084023)
Subject: RE: BS: DB's daughter update
From: jacqui.c

Sending good thoughts to both of you.