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25 Dec 11 - 10:30 AM (#3279716) Subject: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: John J My Mum, Mudcatter Helen Jocys, died this morning aged 80. Mum was a singer of traditional songs and played melodeon and accordian. It was her energy that gave Bollin Morris the kick in the pants that brought it back to life and helped make it the successful side it is today. Mum was the founder of The Marmalade Band, a group of ladies who would gather at her house on Saturday mornings to sing and play and eat breakfast of toast and marmalade. Mum was always looking for fun and any chance to sing or play in a session. A couple of years ago at Shrewsbury Folk Festival she woke me up beyond midnight after a particularly heavy day of sessioning. Mum had heard a music session kicking off and wanted us to join in. It was well past 4am when we eventually gave up. Ever the one to go against convention, the term 'grow old disgracefully' could have been written for her. Above all, Mum was mother to six - all who will miss her terribly. Christmas Day will never be the same in our family. JJ |
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25 Dec 11 - 10:32 AM (#3279717) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Raptor I'm so sorry for your, and our loss. |
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25 Dec 11 - 10:42 AM (#3279726) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Bill D As sad as it is to hear of anyone leaving this life on Christmas, it is right good to know that they got so much from life... and gave so much TO life! May the good memories sustain you in the years to come. |
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25 Dec 11 - 10:50 AM (#3279730) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: GUEST,Suibhne Astray Deepest condolences for your loss, John. My Mum passed a few weeks back - same age, though we always took Helen for a lot younger. Though we only met her a few times (at Chorlton & the Saracen's head) we remember Helen with much respect and admiration. Sean & Rachel. |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:00 AM (#3279731) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: ranger1 So sorry for your loss, John. |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:04 AM (#3279734) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: SINSULL I am sorry, John. Celebrate her life and carry on her tradition. Mary |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:10 AM (#3279737) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Little Hawk That's a hard thing to deal with, John, losing someone at Christmas. My own mother died back on November 20 this year, so this is the first Christmas I've spent without at least one of my parents still in this world. You have my condolences. May you always carry shining memories of your Mum in your heart. |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:16 AM (#3279742) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: LilyFestre My deepest sympathies John. Michelle |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:31 AM (#3279750) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: GUEST,999 I sure am sorry for you and your family, John. |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:43 AM (#3279753) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Phil Cooper Sorry for you loss, John J |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:51 AM (#3279757) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: redhorse Sad news JJ. We'll miss her Thinking of you Nick & Lin |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:53 AM (#3279758) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: katlaughing My deepest condolences for you and your family, John. She sounds like a wonderful lady leaving the world richer for being here. In Peace and Love, kat |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:59 AM (#3279762) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: wysiwyg (((John))) ~S~ |
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25 Dec 11 - 12:14 PM (#3279773) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Morticia I'm so sorry John, she sounds like an amazing lady. |
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25 Dec 11 - 12:38 PM (#3279779) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Stilly River Sage Whether they die on or near the holidays, it always makes them more poignant, but more special, in years to come. My father died just before Thanksgiving and I always am reminded, because of the holiday, to reflect on his life. My sympathy, John, to you and your family. This year especially you need to take extra care of each other. SRS |
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25 Dec 11 - 01:16 PM (#3279795) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: alanabit I am very sorry to hear this. I hope the good memories sustain you. |
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25 Dec 11 - 01:47 PM (#3279808) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: GUEST,Keith Price I'm sorry for your loss John |
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25 Dec 11 - 02:57 PM (#3279843) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: fat B****rd Kindest regards and condolences to you and yours,John J. |
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25 Dec 11 - 02:58 PM (#3279846) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Matthew Edwards I'm very sorry indeed to hear this news. I enjoyed singing with Helen many times in the Snug at the Railway Inn near Lymm, and loved her wicked sense of humour and her mischevious approach to life. She was a very lovely lady indeed, John and I know you and your brothers and sisters will miss her terribly. Thinking of you, with much love, Matthew |
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25 Dec 11 - 06:23 PM (#3279923) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Phil Edwards Sorry to hear this, John. I'd heard she wasn't well, but this is still a sad shock. I must have heard her play dozens of tunes at the Beech - most of which I didn't know - and I'll always remember her Wizard of Alderley Edge. That, and the quiet inconspicuous way she would leave the room when she needed to leave before the end of the evening - as quiet and inconspicuous as you can be when you're hefting an accordion nearly as big as you are, and you want to say goodbye individually to half the people in the room. She was someone who loved the music, loved life and loved people. I'm glad her final illness wasn't too long-drawn-out (it doesn't seem like any time since we last saw her at the Beech) and I hope it wasn't too difficult for her to bear. Those who knew her will remember her with affection. Phil |
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25 Dec 11 - 06:38 PM (#3279931) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Bobert So sorry to hear of your loss, John J... B~ |
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25 Dec 11 - 08:50 PM (#3279959) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Sandra in Sydney sending my condolences to family & friends for the loss of an amazing woman & folkie sandra |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:36 PM (#3280018) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: ChanteyLass I am so sorry, John J. My heart goes out to you and your family. |
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25 Dec 11 - 11:41 PM (#3280020) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25/12/11 From: Maryrrf She sounds like a wonderful lady who enjoyed life. I'm sorry for your loss, John. |
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26 Dec 11 - 12:03 AM (#3280023) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Joe Offer Helen posted recently as Helen Jocys, and earlier as HelenJ and Guest,HelenJ. Some of her posts go back as far as 2001 - click the links to see what she's written. May she be at peace. -Joe- |
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26 Dec 11 - 04:26 AM (#3280047) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J Thanks for that Joe - Mum didn't 'do' technology, she never got her head around user names, cookies etc, although she had fun trying! Thanks to everyone for the wonderful messages of condolence, both here and by direct email. It's Boxing Day morning and the world seems quite empty today. John |
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26 Dec 11 - 05:59 AM (#3280067) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Herga Kitty John - I'm so sorry to read this news. I hope your many happy memories will help to sustain you and your family through this difficult time and subsequent Christmases. Kitty xx |
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26 Dec 11 - 06:33 AM (#3280074) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Linda Kelly So sorry for your loss John. I remember meeting your mum. Lovely lady. With Love Linda xx |
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26 Dec 11 - 06:50 AM (#3280077) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: My guru always said So very sorry to hear this John, you have lots of good memories of a special lady! Love & Hugs, Hil xx |
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26 Dec 11 - 07:17 AM (#3280085) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Bernard So sorry to hear this, JJ. Please take comfort in the knowledge that she will live on in the memories of all of us who knew her for a very long time. She was one of those rare people who made a difference. Bernard |
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26 Dec 11 - 07:22 AM (#3280087) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Mr Happy John, Much sympathy. However, we remember her as a real live wire & inspiration to many younger folk! |
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26 Dec 11 - 10:02 AM (#3280127) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Waddon Pete Sad news, John. I've added Helen to the Mudcat Memorial thread. Peter |
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26 Dec 11 - 10:29 AM (#3280134) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: GUEST So sorry to hear this, John. Don't know if I ever met your Mum, but she sounds a rare person and musician. I lost my Dad on Christmas Day last year, so we did have least a few moments' fond reflection yesterday. |
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26 Dec 11 - 10:31 AM (#3280135) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Tattie Bogle Sorry, that was me above: seems my cookie had been cleared. |
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26 Dec 11 - 11:13 AM (#3280146) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: gnu My condolences. |
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26 Dec 11 - 11:48 AM (#3280159) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Arcane Lag We didn't hear the sad new until today when we went to see Bollin Morris at Dunham Massey. Our thoughts were of Helen and her tireless contribution to their revival and continued succuss. I have been priviliged to listen to her and to sing along with her at The Railway, Songs in the Snug, The Sarries, The Beech and many more and have been inspired by her love of the tradition and ability to tackele songs that flummox the rest of us. Her memory and inspiration will always be with us. Condolences to you and your family JJ. |
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26 Dec 11 - 12:28 PM (#3280167) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J I know what you mean - I can't get my head around learning 'King Jamie & The Tinkler' either, heaven knows how Mum ever did! JJ |
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26 Dec 11 - 12:41 PM (#3280172) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: SteveMansfield That's very sad news JJ - she was a great musician for Chorlton Green Morris and a real bundle of energy. A sad loss. |
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26 Dec 11 - 08:23 PM (#3280348) Subject: RE: Helen From: GUEST,Noreen So sorry to see this, John. Helen was such a lovely lady, with such energy- I thought she'd go on for ever! She leaves a very large gap behind her, but also so many happy memories. Condolences to you and all the family. x |
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27 Dec 11 - 06:54 AM (#3280453) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: GUEST,Yvonne. She was one of the best. She had a wicked sense of humour and a big, big brain where she stored so much knowledge. She put me to shame and made me laugh and laugh. I hate speaking of her in the past tense because energy can not be destroyed or die or leave us. Helen IS energy. She is still with you, John. My love to you all Yvonne xx |
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27 Dec 11 - 08:14 AM (#3280480) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Mooh Sympathies and condolences. I hope by the time next Christmas arrives the hurt is gone and you remember the good times. It was my own Mum who introduced me to the Mudcat though she's been gone for a few years now. Peace, Mooh. |
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27 Dec 11 - 09:51 PM (#3280829) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Little Robyn An Irish Legend Whoever's born on Christmas Is favoured from the start; Has laughter and good fortune And a contented heart; Is loved by noble company, Has all that should suffice. But he that dies on Christmas Goes straight to paradise. RIP Helen Robyn |
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27 Dec 11 - 10:20 PM (#3280838) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Neil D So sorry for your loss, Neil and Christina |
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28 Dec 11 - 10:39 AM (#3281020) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Hawker Oh! John J So VERY sorry to hear such sad news, huge hugs to you and your family. What a marvellous woman! Though she will be sorely missed, you really do have some fanyastic memories of a lady who really knew how to live life to the full. Try to hold on to that in the dark moments.....and you know you are always welcome for a visiti to Cornwall if you need to get away from it all. Love, Lucy & Kevin x |
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28 Dec 11 - 03:49 PM (#3281184) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J Thanks for all the really lovely messages - it's most comforting to know that you're all out there, caring. Bernard's put this up on Lymm Folk Club's website - thanks Bernard. JJ |
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28 Dec 11 - 03:55 PM (#3281188) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Spleen Cringe Sorry to hear this John - hope you're doing okay. Really enjoyed meeting your mum when she came down to the Beech - lovely person with a really mischeivous twinkle in her eye! |
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28 Dec 11 - 04:45 PM (#3281207) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: GUEST,Harry Basnett So sorry to hear of your mother's passing, John. It's been a long time since we've seen any of the old crowd but we've never forgotten you. All our Love....Harry and Sara.xxx |
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30 Dec 11 - 04:48 AM (#3281830) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Malc Bedworth Hi John, just heard the news, really sorry to hear this she was a lovely lady, love to you and all the family (also from Dave and Gill) Malc. |
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31 Dec 11 - 03:45 AM (#3282296) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Dave the Gnome My sincere condolences, John. Like others I only met Helen once or twice but she made a lasting impression. I know Rest in Peace is the wrong thing for her to do, so I will just say I am sure she will enjoy the other place as much as she enjoyed this one:-) Our thoughts are with you. Dave |
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31 Dec 11 - 07:37 AM (#3282355) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J I'm really humbled by all these lovely messages - thanks folks! Mum's funeral is at 2.30pm on Thursday 5th January: Altrincham Crematorium Whitehouse Lane Dunham Massey Altrincham WA14 5RH Come as you are - it's what Mum would have wanted. Afterwards (for a laugh, cry, sing, play, chat, leap around etc): Saracen's Head Paddock Lane Warburton Lymm WA13 9TH JJ |
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31 Dec 11 - 08:28 AM (#3282366) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Arcane Lag Thanks John,it will be a privilige for us to be there to celebrate thew life of a truely remarkable woman. Alan & Glenys |
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31 Dec 11 - 09:43 AM (#3282393) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: olddude Very sorry to hear this news, you and your family are in my prayer very sorry John |
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31 Dec 11 - 02:28 PM (#3282554) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: GUEST,Susie I'll be at the Crem... but will have to zoom off after as I am singing at an apple wassail in Newton St Margarets, down the Golden Valley, the other, far side of Hay - Helen would appreciate this no end, and I'll raise a glass and toast her round the apple tres and over the bonfires. She was a real one-off - a lovely lady with a huge talent and a very big, warm heart. You chose you Mum very well, JJ. with love Susie in Powys |
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05 Jan 12 - 05:56 PM (#3285448) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Noreen I've been thinking of you all today, JJ, and your Mum has been in my thoughts a lot. I'm sure you'll have given her a great send off :) |
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06 Jan 12 - 09:29 AM (#3285884) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J Thanks Noreen, and to everyone who came to the funeral yesterday. The chapel was full to overflowing - standing room only. There were even people stood outside in the entrance hall. It was a dreadfully painful day yet it was wonderful too. More than one person came up to me at the pub session to tell me that Mum was there, right in the middle of the session - having a ball, as ever. JJ |
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06 Jan 12 - 06:57 PM (#3286251) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Gillie Commiserations John, I never meet your Mum, she looks like she was a beautiful lady. I believe I meet you once at a Mudcat gather. Pain only lessens over time, I feel. May you feel joy for having known her. xx |
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25 Dec 12 - 06:14 PM (#3456986) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J Here we are, a year down the line - and it's still no less painful. What is most strange are the occasions when I hear something on the radio, learn a new song or tune, or perhaps read an article and then think - 'I must tell Mum about that, she'd be very interested'. The thought is fleeting, but the hurt of the realisation that she's not there any more lingers on. Ah well. JJ |
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25 Dec 12 - 08:12 PM (#3457041) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: catspaw49 At some point the hurt will become a good hurt......Still painful but wrapped in memories. Not a day goes by that I don't think of my Mom and something she would enjoy or be fun to talk with about or even to argue. She made me stand behind my opinions! And all those things and many more are with me every day. I was 18 when she died in 1967............. Spaw |
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26 Dec 12 - 06:25 AM (#3457152) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: wysiwyg ~S~ |
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26 Dec 12 - 06:34 AM (#3457155) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Brakn Thoughts are with you JJ. Might see you later - can't find your itinerary. |
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26 Dec 12 - 06:42 AM (#3457160) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: GUEST,Harry Lots of love JJ...fond memories of your mum. |
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28 Dec 12 - 12:14 PM (#3458201) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: GUEST,Philippa sounds like a really lovely woman, I hope you hold good memories |
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28 Dec 12 - 01:15 PM (#3458247) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: GUEST,Yvonne She was a lovely, funny and exceedingly bright Woman. I think of her very often,JJ. She and I often got a fit of the giggles. She had such a mischevious smile and sometimes her humour was wicked. |
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28 Dec 12 - 01:19 PM (#3458252) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: ranger1 It does get less painful over time, but you'll never stop missing her. I've been writing letters to my dad for the last four-and-a-half years, helps when I miss him most. |
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28 Dec 12 - 01:37 PM (#3458267) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Bernard JJ - take comfort in the knowledge that so many of us will fondly rememeber her for a very long time! |
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25 Dec 13 - 06:22 AM (#3586499) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J The pain is perhaps diminishing with time, I'm not so sure. Every now and then it pops out of nowhere to bite you on the bum. The sadness and sense of loss remain the same. JJ |
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25 Dec 13 - 11:34 AM (#3586541) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011she let From: Leadfingers My Old Mum's birthday was Christmas Eve , so it was a bit drear this year as she left us in May . Sympathy Mate !! |
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25 Dec 13 - 01:41 PM (#3586572) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Tattie Bogle Agreed John J: I can now talk or even sing about my Dad whom I lost one year before your Mum, also on Christmas Day, but it does take time. Something especially poignant about losing someone on Christmas Day: I am not particularly religious but my Dad was. |
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25 Dec 15 - 06:19 AM (#3760765) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J Four years on. If I hear a radio programme that I know would interest Mum my immediate thought is to pick the telephone to tell her to listen to (invariably) BBC R4. Then reality hits home. It's all a bit of a bugger. |
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25 Dec 15 - 06:51 AM (#3760767) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J One of Mum's famous poems: Voyage of Discovery You've never heard of Stretford? Good heavens, fancy that! Not heard of Urmston either? Well, I'll eat my hat! Consult an atlas pinpointing their exact location Then come along prepared for a unique revelation. On arrival cast about, you're certain to discover Lush meadowland where little paths meander by the river. The Mersey, great dividing line between two ancient shires Above whose swirling currents the wild kingfisher soars. In stark contrast, albeit close to this verdant delight, Stands Stretford Precinct where large supermarkets dominate. Shop at leisure then move onto your next port of call, The bustling town of Urmston, enjoy a pleasant stroll Round tree lined parks; its cosy bars, but come on market day When inimitable bargains are laid out on display. Five star restaurants abound, enticing clientele With gastronomic art born of inspirational skill. The natives welcome visitors with amiable chat And if you're not impressed well, I repeat, I'll eat my hat! |
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25 Dec 15 - 08:10 AM (#3760773) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: maeve John, thanks for your mum's poem. Lots of us are remembering family and friends today. You're not alone. Regards, Maeve |
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25 Dec 15 - 10:10 AM (#3760784) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Stilly River Sage Those memories are good things, sad as they are. Have a lovely xmas. |
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25 Dec 15 - 10:46 AM (#3760785) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J Thanks for your kind words, Christmas Day will always be tinged with sadness now. Ho hum. |
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25 Dec 15 - 10:58 AM (#3760786) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: akenaton Hello again John, It's twenty years since I lost my dearest friend, my uncle who acted as a father for most of my life. It is humbling to know that there is someone who would give their lives to save yours...without hesitation. I know exactly what your mum meant to you....and the feelings never leave. I'm sure she would be delighted to know that her son is such a fine individual....One of the best I've met in the folk world. Happy Christmas and a very Guid new Year.....Ake. |
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26 Dec 15 - 05:03 AM (#3760876) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J Such very kind and moving words, thank you. :-) |
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26 Dec 15 - 08:23 AM (#3760911) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Dave the Gnome All the best from me too, John. I only met Helen a couple of times but she was a lovely lady. I lost my Dad last January and we miss him greatly so I know how you feel. |
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27 Dec 15 - 04:58 AM (#3761064) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: GUEST,brakn "If I hear a radio programme that I know would interest Mum my immediate thought is to pick the telephone" I know exactly what you mean. It was the same with my mum; it's as though she were still living in Sale! |
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27 Dec 15 - 09:30 PM (#3761199) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Joe Offer With me, it's my grandmother. She died in 1982, but I still think I should be able to pick up the phone and talk things over with her. Your mum was a special person, John. We enjoyed her. May you treasure her memory all your life. -Joe in California- |
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25 Dec 16 - 06:56 AM (#3828614) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J Five years have passed and I still want to phone her up, drag her out to a music session or singaround - but she can't come. She's there in spirit though. I miss her greatly, more than I ever thought I would. |
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25 Dec 17 - 04:18 PM (#3895806) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J It could have been last Christmas never mind 2011, my memory of that day is so clear. Miss you loads Mum - we all do! xx |
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25 Dec 17 - 04:28 PM (#3895807) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: peteglasgow don't really know if this appropriate to put this on here but i feel i should somewhere. my old man died today - he was 92. we didn't really get on as he was an establishment , military and lifelong daily mail reader and enthusiastically voted to leave europe. i saw neil young doing a gig on an arena programme in 1971? after that i was never going to be what he wanted me to be and we never really resolved that difference. still, i'm happier that he died peacefully in hospital rather than his home which had become a disaster area. it's weird being an orphan at 61 - don't really know what to say, or think |
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25 Dec 17 - 06:25 PM (#3895810) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: rich-joy Just been told that Darwin Folk & Blues stalwart, Chris Pemberton, passed at 8am Xmas morning. Though I only met him the once, I know many in the Northern Territory Family of Folkies (some of whom are Mudcatters), were well acquainted and will surely miss him :) Vale Pembo. R-J Down Under |
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25 Dec 18 - 05:05 PM (#3968307) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J The years pass so quickly - missing you loads Mum. xx |
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25 Dec 18 - 05:35 PM (#3968309) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: GUEST,akenaton Best wishes Johnny, one of the really nice folk. My dear old uncle who brought me up died on New Years day twenty years ago, as did my much loved Gina, Jan 1st 2018. A sad double anniversary. Ake |
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27 Dec 18 - 06:19 PM (#3968518) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Noreen It's good to be reminded of the lovely lady, JJ- I can clearly see her face lighting up when we bumped into each other at a festival, she laden with her accordion and heading for a session :) (My lovely mum will be 89 in a couple of weeks!) Hugs xxx |
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30 Dec 19 - 09:39 AM (#4025475) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J A bit late - Mudcat was down on Christmas Day. I can't believe how the years speed by, yet Mum is on my mind as much today as she was on Christmas Day 2011. I'd love her to be playing with me at tomorrow's ceilidh, I'll just have to imagine her squeezing away on her accordion in a better place. |
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25 Dec 20 - 04:48 AM (#4084938) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: GUEST After all this time I still feel the need to pick up the phone for a chat with Mum - every time I hear something interesting on the radio, or maybe hear a new tune or song. It's all a bit of a bugger really. |
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13 Sep 21 - 12:43 PM (#4119842) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J Happy 90th Birthday Mum - I hope you've found a good music session to play in.....missing you loads! |
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13 Sep 21 - 03:20 PM (#4119859) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: Dave the Gnome My Mum would have been 90 just over a week ago, John, but sadly passed away earlier this year. Something else to share but more sad than beers in Florida :-) |
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25 Dec 21 - 04:52 AM (#4129923) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J The last 10 years have flown by, I still find myself wanting to pick up the phone to speak to you. Missing you loads. |
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25 Dec 23 - 05:42 AM (#4194267) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: John J Christmas Day's come around again...but my heart isn't filled with glee. |
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25 Dec 23 - 06:07 AM (#4194269) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Helen Jocys 25 Dec 2011 From: The Sandman condolences to you |