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BS: Hugs for Amergin

27 Dec 00 - 03:40 PM (#364090)
Subject: Hugs for Amergin
From: hesperis

{{{{{{{{{{{{BIG HUG!}}}}}}}}}}}}


27 Dec 00 - 04:15 PM (#364109)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: katlaughing

Same here!

{{{{{{{{{{{{{visualise yourself here}}}}}}}}}}}}


**BG**

luvyakat


27 Dec 00 - 05:08 PM (#364147)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Sorcha

And here's another from me ((((((((((**)))))))))) Nobody can ever have too many hugs.


27 Dec 00 - 05:52 PM (#364169)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Roger in Sheffield

Hey I'll do it, could be the wine, what the hell

hug



any particular reason? - heck its christmas/new year who cares

Lots of Love Amergin

Roger


27 Dec 00 - 06:43 PM (#364215)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: GUEST,Noreen (at my sister's)

A long huuuuuuuuuuuuug and a cuddle from me too- it would do me as much good as it would you, Amergin.

Noreen


27 Dec 00 - 06:43 PM (#364216)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Amergin

Thank you everyone.....it brings tears to my eyes to know that people care....

Roger, to answer your question a very special woman in my life, who I love dearly, dumped me over the phone yesterday....

Take care, all....

Amergin


27 Dec 00 - 06:53 PM (#364221)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: CarolC

((((((((((((Amergin))))))))))))

(psst... you might want to keep a low profile for a bit now that you're available, or Spaw might try to get you hooked up with a ferret.)


27 Dec 00 - 07:51 PM (#364257)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: catspaw49

Here's a bog ol' Spaw hug for you 'Gin boy!!!!

Ya' say she dumped you over the phone? Well, get your ass up off the damn phone and find a better woman! Carol for instance is available and trying to decide between a new S.O. and a ferret. So how are your teeth anyway?

Spaw


27 Dec 00 - 08:48 PM (#364302)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Ramsay

Cheer up Amergin, good women abound. What kinda women take your fancy?


27 Dec 00 - 08:54 PM (#364306)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: wysiwyg

Does she need killing? I hate it when people f*ck with my friends....lemme at her!

OK, I guess I'm joking. About the killing part.

Please write if you need a good listener, dear, or encourager, any time. Or if you need references. You're one of my favorite people, you know. Let's write a song...

~Susan

motormice@hotmail.com


27 Dec 00 - 11:55 PM (#364372)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: GUEST,gaelicwinde

let me in on this hugfest...{{{{{AMERGIN}}}}}


28 Dec 00 - 12:06 AM (#364374)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Amergin

Thank you all...she is the first woman I have ever loved...I am completely flabbergasted over your kind thoughts.

Praise, as much as I appreciate your offer, no i would not like to see her killed...We are planning to salvage what is left and try to be friends like we were before...

Spaw, My teeth are fine if a bit crooked...

Carol, no offense but I think I'll take the ferret....

Thank you all. Blessed be.

Song of Amergin

I am a stag: of seven tines, I am a wind of the sea,
I am a flood: across a plain, I am a wave of the sea,
I am a wind: on a deep lake, I am a sound of the sea,
I am a tear: the Sun lets fall, I am a stag of seven tines,
I am a hawk: above the cliff, I am a hawk on a cliff,
I am a thorn: beneath the nail, I am a tear of the sun,
I am a wonder: among flowers, I am fair among flowers,
I am a wizard: who but I am a boar,
Sets the cool head aflame with smoke?
I am a salmon in a pool,

I am a lake on a plain,
I am a spear: that roars for blood,
I am a hill of poetry,
I am a salmon: in a pool,
I am a battle-waging spear,
I am a lure: from paradise,
I am a god who forms fire for a head.
I am a hill: where poets walk,
I am a boar: ruthless and red,
Who makes clear the ruggedness of the mountains?
I am a breaker: threatening doom,
Who but myself knows where the sun shall set?
I am a tide: that drags to death,
Who foretells the ages of the moon?
I am an infant: who but I
Who brings the cattle from the House of Tethra Peeps from the unhewn dolmen arch? and segregates them?

On whom do the cattle of Tethra smile?
I am the womb: of every holt,
Who shapes weapons from hill to hill?
I am the blaze: on every hill,
I am the queen: of every hive,
I am the shield: for every head,
I am the tomb: of every hope.


28 Dec 00 - 12:09 AM (#364377)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Gypsy

Oh, Amergin, i hope you find your Clarsah!
((((((((HUGS))))))))))))


28 Dec 00 - 03:52 AM (#364436)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: CarolC

No offense taken, Amergin. I know how it is.

Carol


28 Dec 00 - 04:19 AM (#364442)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Micca

Ah, Amergin,I KNEW you would know that..Brill!!!

I am sorry for your "trouble" but such a poet as you will grow from the advesity and the " shadow of the pain will only be memory of a fire once felt as you grow towards yourself" and emerge, in time, renewed. br> I was given the first 2 lines and had to write a complete re-casting as a bardic exercise for my tutor once...to be written to scan in english

"I am the wind that blows on the sea
I am the wave on the deep
I am the stag of the 7 tines
that Journeys without sleep

Who shall unlock that which is open
who shall still the sea
who will clear the snow of summer
who makes the ocean free
who casts the sunless shadow
who makes the gold from lead
who will guide the one not lost
and break the orange thread


28 Dec 00 - 06:39 AM (#364454)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Naemanson

Hey man, that sucks. Good luck with the friendship bit. This happened to me last February and I'm still trying to get over it. If you don't mind I'd like to proffer some advice with the hug.

You are entering an area of emotional rollercoastering. You'll be up a few times over the next few months and down more often. Cling to the realization that there are better days ahead. Hold on to yourself for you are the most important person in your universe and you have worth. Let your music convey your emotions and let your heart feel them. As time passes the pain does too but hold on to the good times and appreciate the happiness that she brought into your life. Give yourself the time to grieve but then, after a few months, get back into the race.

Best wishes,

Brett


28 Dec 00 - 07:01 AM (#364462)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)

Oh, Amergin, what a way to spend the holidays. It's a time of heightened emotions and heightened awareness. I remember being the one doing the dumping at the end of my first major love relationship many years ago (omigosh- over 20!). It's so hard to be on either end, but I'm not trying to minimize the one you are on- it sucks, her timing stinks but you will go into the new year with a new perspective, and absolutely bathed in so many sweet cyber-hugs! So here's one from me:

<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<*Amergin*>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

BTW I have always loved the song of Amergin...


28 Dec 00 - 08:11 AM (#364474)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: mkebenn

Don't drink, don't work. Keep your head up and play music. I've done it all wrong, so I know. We're always here. Mike


28 Dec 00 - 09:47 AM (#364510)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Peter T.

Drink, work. I've done it all wrong, so I know. We're always here.

yours, Peter T.


28 Dec 00 - 12:13 PM (#364606)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Hollowfox

I won't say welcome to the club, but you're not alone.
(((((Amergin)))))
Some of the best advice I got:
1) Alcohol is a depressant. At the very least, never drink alone, and avoid excess.
2) Country music (and some rock genres) deal with the very thing that's depressing you, and will only make you feel worse. Unless you're in a band that plays the stuff, don't listen to it for a while. Even if it's not your cup of tea, the classical station on the radio can be a good thing; non-emotionally charged music that has a tune.


28 Dec 00 - 12:19 PM (#364616)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Peg

Oh, sorry to hear! Being dumped on the phone is absolutely the worst!

After three years of being all but celibate I had two brief but heartbreaking relationships and one brief (and blessedly chaste) encounter with a flaming asshole this past year!

Some songwriter said it best: Love stinks.

But some other guy said "How silver sweet soud lovers' tongues by night, like softest music to attending ears."

Stay busy and treat yourself well.

If you were in Boston I'd take you on a drinkin' date!

peg


28 Dec 00 - 02:57 PM (#364680)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Morticia

Amergin, big huggles and several snogs thrown in for good measure.I know it's of no comfort right now but this lady clearly doesn't recognise quality ,but we do, and we love you.


29 Dec 00 - 12:04 PM (#365111)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Amergin

Thank you all.


29 Dec 00 - 02:33 PM (#365187)
Subject: RE: BS: Hugs for Amergin
From: Matt_R

Here's a manly hug for you Amerg. I think I'm going to need one too. I feel so helpless and angry today, it's pathetic. If I don't waste away by the end of the day, it'll be a miracle. I feel your pain, brother.