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Help: Fallen in Love

01 Oct 01 - 10:25 AM (#562515)
Subject: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,Mandolodeon

Hi as the thread title. I want to find the perfect song to sing to my lovely man which I only found recently. I have had a rough ride regarding love and hope this is the "real thing" Where is the perfect song for the most perfect love aaahhhhhhhh
Mandy


01 Oct 01 - 10:29 AM (#562520)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Amos

There is a ship
Sails on the sea
Loaded as deep
As deep can be,
But not so deep
As this love I am in
And know not how
I sink or swim....


01 Oct 01 - 10:47 AM (#562534)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,mgarvey@pacifier.com

I vote for the one that Priscilla Herdman sings..is it the Drover's Sweetheart or another..."as if I wouldn't take his hand without the golden glove.."


01 Oct 01 - 10:48 AM (#562535)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,MC Fat

Try Dougie McLean 'This love will carry'. It's a smart nice song


01 Oct 01 - 10:57 AM (#562545)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Grab

Leonard Cohen - "I'm your man".


01 Oct 01 - 11:15 AM (#562554)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,Mandolodeon

What is "this love will carry"?

I already let him listen to "I'm your man" - I think he thought I was a bit kinky! But it made him smile

Its great to feel that wobbly feeling when I go to see him, or just giving him a neck kiss. I would love to dedicate a special song to him
sorry if I sound a little silly, but I just hope the feeling lasts
Mandy


01 Oct 01 - 11:17 AM (#562557)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: SINSULL

"The First Time Ever"


01 Oct 01 - 11:21 AM (#562560)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: CharlieA

"When you say nothing at all" is a great one - don't know who did it originally but the 1st recording i heard was Alison Kraus. Cxxx


01 Oct 01 - 11:27 AM (#562566)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST

Original was by Keith Whitley


01 Oct 01 - 04:53 PM (#562820)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: John MacKenzie

Outward Bound by Tom Paxton is the most hopefull and optimistic "new love" song that I know.

Jock


01 Oct 01 - 05:01 PM (#562826)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,MudWeasel

Hands down, one of my favorite love songs ever:
45 Years by Stan Rogers.
It's perfect.
-MudWeasel

Of course there are those who might have difficulty taking romantic advice from someone who calls themself "MudWeasel. It's your call.


01 Oct 01 - 07:20 PM (#562927)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Dave the Gnome

Looking at the original post it looks like a lady singing for a gent.

I think "I will come to your house, bring some beer and then take my clothes off" would be perfect.

But as I cannot write an appropriate tune give "The first time ever I saw your face" a try";-) (Listen to it by Peggy Seeger if you doubt me!)

Cheers

Dave the Gnome
(Who does have a romantic bone in his body but just can't find it...)


01 Oct 01 - 07:43 PM (#562938)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: SINSULL

Gnome? Where exactly are you looking?


01 Oct 01 - 08:10 PM (#562953)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Dave the Gnome

Hi Sinsull - I took "I want to find the perfect song to sing to my lovely man" to be an indication that it was F singing for M. It could of course be M singing for M but in either case my advice still applies, I believe! And how did you know that you could refer to me as 'Gnome'? Were you the one I gronkled my fluthreds at in the Cave last year?

Cheers

Dave the Gnome
(Who doesn't realy understand human courtship rituals because they don't involve measuring the length of the beard...;-))


01 Oct 01 - 08:16 PM (#562956)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Amergin

I always thought Jimmy Buffett's Why don't we get drunk and screw rather the ideal love song...


01 Oct 01 - 08:51 PM (#562979)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: kendall

The wind beneath my wings.


01 Oct 01 - 09:33 PM (#562999)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST

Somebody recently sang The Beatles ' I'm gonna get you ' to me recently !


01 Oct 01 - 10:09 PM (#563026)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: sophocleese

Fleetwood Mac's Songbird is a rather lovely one.


02 Oct 01 - 01:26 AM (#563158)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Liz the Squeak

ER.. on a Beatles theme, I'd go for Help!

Then there is 'the Rose', and Martym Wyndham Reid's 'I will love you'....

I always find James Stewart's 'You got a friend' best. It's all very well falling passionately in love with someone, so that your stomach flips and your heart does the samba whilst your face goes scarlet and your naughty bits start trying to tell your brain what to do because the aforementioned brain is sitting there doing sod all, and you need to go change your underwear, but a friend is one who loves you despite the palpitations, hot flashes, stupid expression, intestinal noises and frequent changes of clothing. Make a friend first. Fall in love with them later.

Good luck.

And there are several threads for the 'how can I miss you if you won't go away' or 'where did our love go?' type songs that you will probably end up needing in a few months, maybe a year if your lucky.....

Am I an old cynic or what??

LTS


02 Oct 01 - 02:06 AM (#563169)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: JohnInKansas

I've always though that "Put Another Log on the Fire" was one of the most touching and tender songs I could sing for my fair one - not because of what it says, but because it tells both of us that "that ain't how it is with us (I hope). The "(I hope)" is the message.

Shortly after we met, we stumbled into a Karioke session at the pool hall, and sang together (unaccompanied - they didn't have the music) Tom Lehrer's "When You Are Old And Gray." It was a great "turn-on" for us both (but maybe the fact we were both already a little ragged around the edges helped).

Maybe what I'm trying to verbalize (I often don't know for sure) is that a song that says what he means to you is not as good as a song that expresses what you share?

John


02 Oct 01 - 03:41 AM (#563206)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,Mandalodeon

LTS - you describe it exactly, even down to changing of the underwear!
And to clarify things I am a woman who wants to sing to a wonderful man
Thanks for all the suggestions so far
Mandy


02 Oct 01 - 06:08 AM (#563268)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Murray MacLeod

LTS, in which movie does James Stewart sing "You've Got a Friend?" "Shenandoah", perhaps. at Martha's graveside ? "Harvey" to his invisible rabbit friend?

My memory is not what it was ...........:-)

Murray


02 Oct 01 - 06:44 AM (#563279)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Gillie

How about "The Constant Lover"?

Ch

Singing sweetly and completly Songs of pleasure and of love For my heart is with him altogether Though I live not where I love

Gillie

Having recently fallen in love myself, I understand


02 Oct 01 - 06:48 AM (#563283)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: CharlieA

another good Stan Rogers song is "lies" from his live in alberta album. Cxxx Another who knows just how you feel


02 Oct 01 - 08:14 AM (#563314)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Micca

I have always liked the Beatles song " in My Life" for this scenario, preferably done by other than the Beatles (perhaps ala Judy Collins on "Colours of the day") or of course, write your own!!


02 Oct 01 - 08:35 AM (#563328)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,Mandalodeon

I wish I could put into words the way I feel, we started as friends, became good friends, then lusted each other and now love...........
I don't think the feeling can be explained, only those who have felt it can know what I mean.
Mandy


02 Oct 01 - 08:42 AM (#563331)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Skipjack K8

Mandy, if you were a bloke, my tip would be Roseville Fair. It's in the DT, and is a hopelessly happy song of falling in lurve to the starins of the fiddle and the banjo. Quite beautiful.

Skipjack


02 Oct 01 - 10:00 AM (#563376)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: bradfordian

And talking of Stan Rogers,if your guy wanted to sing one back to you, Mandy, may I recommend THE LOCK KEEPER?


02 Oct 01 - 11:03 AM (#563419)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,Mandalodeon

I feel your leg under the table
Leaning into mine
I feel renewed
I feel disabled
By these bonfires in my spine
I don't know who the arsonist was
Which incendiary soul
But all I ever wanted
Was just to come in from the cold

Good old Joni, she just about describes how I feel, but unfortunately my voice and hers......well perhaps I could try
Mandy


02 Oct 01 - 11:20 AM (#563428)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST

20 years ago my wife and i started as co-workers, then colleagues, friends and ultimately lovers and mates. I remember that dizzy feeling too!

I wrote a song especially for her...but after all these years, its still too poignant for me to sing directly to her...

Enjoy your love, it's one of the great positive forces in this world.

Rich McCarthy


02 Oct 01 - 11:25 AM (#563433)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,Mandalodeon

Rich, I will enjoy, I am enjoying and hope to go on enjoying for a very long time.
Mandy


02 Oct 01 - 11:26 AM (#563434)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GutBucketeer

"Lean on Me" has always captured for me what love is all about. We had it played at our wedding.

JAB


02 Oct 01 - 01:37 PM (#563519)
Subject: Lyr Add: WHITBY LOVESONG
From: Mrs.Duck

You old cynic you LtS!! I personnally favour having all the flutters in my erogenous bits first then making friends later. At least then if it turns out your not suited you've had a damn good time trying to find out. Geoff sang 'Roseville Fair' to me down on one knee in a crowded room so I've always favoured that as a love song even if it is a man to a lady.
Whitby Lovesong
The harbour lights were shining bright
When I met you on that first night
You took my hand and held me near
Now we have found a love so dear

We walked along hand in hand
And stopped to listen to a band
You kissed my cheek I feel it still
Now we have found a love so real.

We took a stroll down by the beach
And I felt love was in my reach
We drank a glass or two of wine
Now we have found a love so fine

You sang a song of endless love
As seabirds circled up above
You laid me down and loved me there
Now we have found a love so rare
Now we have found a love so rare
was my reply.


02 Oct 01 - 02:36 PM (#563574)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Liz the Squeak

Alright, Murray, it's James TAYLOR!! It was bloody 6.00am when I posted that!

Mandleodeodeodorant or whatever, been there, done that, got the bits in a drawer somewhere..... I loved a bit more than he did though.... still not sure where we stand after all this time!! I've fallen out of love, but never out of friendship.

Mrs Duck - long story, short version.... One guy I totally lusted after, drooled, slobbered, everything damp and sticky after, ended up being a complete and utter shit, and I still have the fractured skull to prove it.... because when he stopped kissing, he started kicking. I prefer to start slow, have a friend and some mutual respect first. Besides, the old lust folicles are slowing down now.... not a lot gets it going these days.... well, maybe Skipjack.... and Sean Connery of course, then there's that guy I see on the way to work, on his motorbike, all dressed in leather he is.... Oh, and Michael Dorn (Worf in Star Trek Next Gen).... and David Duchovny.... Roger the Penguin.... that tall bloke from Sheffield.....

LTS


02 Oct 01 - 04:02 PM (#563630)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Mrs.Duck

And Mudguard! Don't forget him!!!!!!!!!


02 Oct 01 - 06:06 PM (#563725)
Subject: Lyr Add: THE LOYAL LOVER
From: Herga Kitty

Was going to suggest the Rose but LtS got there first. Also, of course, Lennon & McCartney's "I will". Or, if you want to be traditional:

I'll weave my love a garland, it shall be set so fine
I'll set it round with roses, with lilies, pinks and thyme
And I'll present it to my love when he comes home from sea
For I love my love, and I love my love, because my love loves me.

I would I were an arrow that sped into the air
I'd seek him as a sparrow, and if he were not there
How swiftly I'd become a fish to search the raging sea
For I love my love etc

I would I were a reaper I'd seek him in the corn,
Or if I were a keeper, I'd hunt him with my horn
I'd blow a blast when found at last beneath the greenwood tree
For I love my love etc


02 Oct 01 - 07:23 PM (#563778)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Mr Red

Don't ry and write the song yourself.
my efforts produced the immortal "My Love is Like a Chocolate Box" and "Here Comes Trouble Boys", If they hadn't been the results they would have been excruciaitingly embarrassing - I am sure.
Good luck and just be yourself.


03 Oct 01 - 02:29 AM (#564013)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Herga Kitty

Of course Andy Barnes started the Last Leviathan as a love song to Jan.....


03 Oct 01 - 05:01 AM (#564064)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,Skipjack

Played and sang Roseville Fair at the session in the Sloop last night, on the strength of this thread. I found an MP3 file at

http://www.pelicancrossing.net/roseville.htm

It's a terrific recording by Wendy Grossman. Oh, and Betty, you made my day. Blush.

Skipjack


03 Oct 01 - 09:08 AM (#564142)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,mandalodeon

Skipjack, having looked at you picture and your wit here on the mudcat, if I hadn't already fallen ......theres a good chance I could have fallen in your direction. You have no objection to fallen women I hope
I suppose the missus wouldn't be so keen....ah well in my dreams
Mandy


03 Oct 01 - 09:36 AM (#564154)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Skipjack K8

Are they the ones with sore knees that Michael Palin ministered to? Alas, Mands, as much as I'd like to, I'm told that when free-reeders interbreed, the blood gets even weaker. Blushfest.

Enjoy your nirvana. I know of what you speak.

Skipjack


03 Oct 01 - 02:28 PM (#564335)
Subject: Lyr Add: FALLEN (Lauren Wood)
From: Long Firm Freddie

My darling wife tells me this song sums up how she feels about me. Lucky, ain't I?

Lauren Wood---Fallen

I can't believe it, you're a dream comin' true.
I can't believe how I have fallen for you.
And I was not looking, was content to remain.
And it's ironic to be back in the game.

You are the one who's led me to the sun.
How could I know that I was lost without you...

And I want to tell you, you control my rain..
And you should know that you are life in my veins.

You are the one who's led me to the sun.
How could I know that I was lost without you...

I can't believe it, you're a dream comin' true.
I can't believe how I have fallen for you.

And I was not looking, was content to remain.
And it's erotic to be back in the game.

LFF


03 Oct 01 - 11:08 PM (#564672)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Jim Dixon

How about "Seeds of Love" which is in DT? It contains some rather obscure symbolism. Keep him guessing what it means.


04 Oct 01 - 06:49 AM (#564830)
Subject: Lyr Add: BONNET AND SHAWL (Dave Webber)
From: Gervase

For a bloke, the Dave Webber song Bonnet and Shawl isn't bad as a declaration of love...


BONNET AND SHAWL
(Dave Webber)
As recorded by Dave Webber (and Anni Fentiman and others on the chorus) on "Bonnet & Shawl" (1996)

Now, madam, I've waited a very long time,
To ask you if you could but spare me some time,
For there's things in me heart I've been longin' to say,
But try as I might sure I can't find a way.

CHORUS: And I'll show you the sun 'cross the fields in the morn.
I'll fetch thee a bonnet and deck it with corn.
I'll buy thee a shawl thread with ribbons of blue,
To show you the measure I'd trouble for you.

Now I know that me fortune be pitiful small,
And apart from me cottage I've nothing at all,
But there's store in me garden and fruit on me tree,
And I'd be awful proud if thou'd share 'em with me.

Now I'm thinking it likely as you'll never be mine,
For I'd be a poor catch for a woman so fine,
But if I never ask thee, then I'll never know,
If by some small chance you some favour might show.

Now, madam, I see by the look in your eye,
That you might be thinking the same thing as I,
So come take me hand and we'll walk in full view,
And give the old gossips some tonguing to do.


But don't talk to me about love - it's too much of a messy business, or maybe I'm just too much of a curmudgeonly old cynic.


04 Oct 01 - 05:30 PM (#565206)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Liz the Squeak

I've seen Gervase sing this.... to a rather nice blonde lady I might add.... it was sick makingly sloppy, he's fibbing when he says he's a curmudgeonly old cynic.... not a dry seat in the house.....

I just got the dry heaves, so I AM a curmudgeonly old cynic... if women can be curmudgeons?

But his fortune is pitiful and small.... I had to buy him lunch this week!

LTS


04 Oct 01 - 05:56 PM (#565224)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: mousethief

Elton John's "Your Song" is very nice.

Alex


05 Oct 01 - 07:10 AM (#565563)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,Mandalodeon

Thank you all for your contributions.

He sang me a song last night, it was "Your love keeps liftin' me"

I am still feeling shakey and walking round with a silly smile on my face.
I never thought I'd ever feel this way, I know I have never felt this way about anyone before - it's a bit frightening.
I am trying to learn James Taylors "Only one" I'll try and post some of the words later
Thanks again,
Mandy


06 Oct 01 - 07:24 AM (#566164)
Subject: Lyr Add: THIS LOVE WILL CARRY (Dougie Maclean)
From: forty two

Mandy wrote

What's "This Love Will Carry"

Dougie Maclean web site: http://www.dougiemaclean.com


THIS LOVE WILL CARRY - Maclean

It's a thin line that leads us and keeps a man from shame.
Dark clouds quickly gather along the way we came.
There's fear out on the mountain and death out on the plain.
There's heartache and heartbreak in the shadow of the flame.

CHORUS: This love will carry, this love will carry me.
I know this love will carry me.
This love will carry, this love will carry me.
I know this love will carry me.

The thinnest web will tangle; the sweetest flower will fall;
But somewhere in the distance, we will try and catch it all.
Success lasts for a moment and failure's always near,
As you look down at your blistered hands as turns another year. CHORUS

These days are golden; they must not waste away.
Our time is like that flower and soon it will decay.
Though by storms we're beaten, uncertainty is sure.
Like the coming of the dawn, it's ours forever more. CHORUS


06 Oct 01 - 11:55 AM (#566229)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Firecat

Well, this isn't a folk song, but I think S Club 7's "Two In A Million" is beautiful for if you're in love.


06 Oct 01 - 01:32 PM (#566264)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: mytoycar

It might sound corny but My favorite "love song" is You Belong to me, it was done recently done by Vonda sheperd for Ally mcbeal if your interested I cud look up the lyrics.
tash


06 Oct 01 - 09:27 PM (#566487)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Deckman

One of my very most favorites ... except the gender is wrong here ... is Tom Paxton's "WILD FLYING DOVE." Oh well, maybe she could re-write it. GREAT THREAD! Thanks for sharing. CHEERS, Bob


07 Oct 01 - 01:11 AM (#566598)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: rangeroger

While trying to get my reel-to-reel tape deck functional yesterday, I ran my copy of Ella Fitzgeralds "Like Someone in Love" through it.

Wow.

I'd forgotten how good these songs were and of course Ella's incomparable voice.

The liner notes say;
" This is it- if you're in love,if you've ever loved,if you're about to fall in love; in short,if you're a member of the human race, then these sounds are for you: Ella's feeling and the beauty of songs about people in love-"

The Songs

There's a Lull in My Life
More Than You Know
What Will I Tell My Heart
I never Had A Chance
Close your Eyes
We'll Be Together Again
Then I'll Be Tired Of You
Like Someone In Love
I thought About You
Midnight Sun
You're Blase

Night Wind
Hurry Home
How Long Has This Been Going On?

Verve Records VSTC 201

rr


07 Oct 01 - 01:37 AM (#566614)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Amergin

the best love song i have ever heard though is the music that beats in your heart whenever your eyes rest on the one you hold dear....


07 Oct 01 - 03:26 AM (#566638)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Liz the Squeak

Oh boy am I in trouble then!!!!

LTS


08 Oct 01 - 02:43 AM (#567254)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: Amergin

Uh Liz...I wasn't refering to that warm moist feeling you get when you see a certain fellow on a motorbike....or a certain scottish actor on the tv screen....BG


08 Oct 01 - 09:53 AM (#567383)
Subject: RE: Help: Fallen in Love
From: GUEST,Mandalodeon

Thanks again for your responses

I spent my first night with him. It was, without going into detail, perfect with bells on!
I was a bit worried that the physical side of things might be a little disappointing, but it would seem that I had my cake and ate it too!
Still gooey
Mandy