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BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad

29 Jul 02 - 01:31 PM (#756467)
Subject: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Bert

Dad had a stroke this morning and he's in pretty bad shape and is non resposive.


29 Jul 02 - 01:33 PM (#756469)
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From: Giac

Positive thoughts for your dad, and for you, Mudcat friend.

Mary


29 Jul 02 - 01:37 PM (#756474)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Catherine Jayne

Warm, kind and positive thoughts. I hope he improves soon.

Cat


29 Jul 02 - 01:48 PM (#756483)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: SharonA

I'm very sorry to hear this, Bert. My thoughts are with him and with you during this time. I'll spread the word to some of the folks at BCFSS so they can pass it on and multiply the good thoughts.

((((((Big hug))))))

Sharon


29 Jul 02 - 02:09 PM (#756494)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Lonesome EJ

He's got my prayer, bert.


29 Jul 02 - 02:28 PM (#756507)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Mrrzy

Yikes, poor all of you. Best of luck, and if you need specific info on aphasia (let's hope not!) - PM me, it was my field.


29 Jul 02 - 02:42 PM (#756514)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: MMario

Sorry to hear that Bert - thoughts with you and him.


29 Jul 02 - 02:47 PM (#756516)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: alanabit

Yes - mine too. Hope he makes it. Alan.


29 Jul 02 - 02:55 PM (#756519)
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From: Ebbie

My prayers for comfort and strength for all of you and the best possible outcome. (Don't forget to keep talking to him)


29 Jul 02 - 03:01 PM (#756523)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: katlaughing

Oh, Bertdarlin'...I am going to put on his tape and listen to him singing all of those wonderful old songs and send you and him all the best thoughts and thanksgivings I have for the best possible outcome for the highest good of all concerned. Most of all, I hope that you are able to be there with him.

Lots of {{{{{{BERT & DAD}}}}}}}}}

love,

Kat & Rog


29 Jul 02 - 03:58 PM (#756546)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: KT

Hey, Bert. Kind thoughts and loving prayers for your Dad and you. And ditto to what Ebbie said.....If you are there with him, do keep talking to him, believing that he's hearing you. All the best to you, your dad and all who love him. KT


29 Jul 02 - 03:59 PM (#756547)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: KT

Bert, be sure to tell him that folks from all over are sending loving thoughts and prayers out there for him. KT


29 Jul 02 - 04:09 PM (#756550)
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From: Morticia

Couldn't be sorrier to hear that, my friend, all my positive thoughts for you, him and the rest of your family.


29 Jul 02 - 04:21 PM (#756554)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: harpgirl

...I am so sorry about your dad's stroke. My mother came through hers but she worries a lot about the next one, as do we all. Hang tough, Bert!


29 Jul 02 - 05:56 PM (#756601)
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From: GUEST,Dani

So sorry. I'm sending a hug for you, good thoughts for your dad. Talk, talk, talk. And sing. Even if you can't tell, he's listening.

Dani


29 Jul 02 - 09:32 PM (#756692)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: annamill

All my love and hugs for you and your Dad, Bert! If there is anything we can do to help, please let us know. I wish I was there to give you the hugs in person.

Love with all my heart, Anna


29 Jul 02 - 10:25 PM (#756712)
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From: kendall

My best thoughts too my friend, and by all means sing to him.


29 Jul 02 - 10:37 PM (#756718)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Genie

Bert, I do so hope your dad pulls through. Talk to him and sing to him, too.

Genie

(((((((((Bert and Bert's Dad))))))))

PS,
What's your dad's first name? We can send positive vibes better, I think, if we know that.


29 Jul 02 - 11:46 PM (#756738)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Bert

Thank you all so much. Your good thoughts are helping already. I just got news that, much to everyone's surprise, he is sitting up in bed and talking.

And don't you know, I had just driven back to Colorado from Pennsylvania. If I had left it a day or two longer I'd have been able to drive up and visit him. He's in Stevensville, Ontario.

Now I'm going to have to scrounge enough money for an air ticket.

His name is also Bert.

Thank you all for that special Mudcat Magic.

Love to you all,

Bert


30 Jul 02 - 05:37 AM (#756822)
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From: Micca

Hi Bert, me old China, best wishes to yer da, and to you and the family!! glad the news seems better, you are on my list! Micca


30 Jul 02 - 09:05 AM (#756875)
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From: MMario

That much recovery this early is EXCELLENT news.


30 Jul 02 - 09:30 AM (#756884)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: catspaw49

Ah Bert old friend, I'm not on as much right now and I hadn't seen this before but I'm throwing my half a microwatt of energy your Dad's way. It sounds as though he's doing better and that is certainly good news! Like kat, I remember well his singing and always have enjoyed your tales about him.

Where is Stevensville? Around Niagra isn't it? If you can find a cheaper ticket to somewhere else you can probably get some 'Catter help for transport.....ie., If a flight is on some cheap special to Cleveland, Columbus, or Cincy, rather than Buffalo, I can run you up from any of them. Probably have no problem finding a willing 'Catter in Toronto....just a thought.

Pat


30 Jul 02 - 09:33 AM (#756886)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Mrrzy

Good luck getting to him, bert!


30 Jul 02 - 09:54 AM (#756897)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Pied Piper

Sorry about your bad news Bert. A friend of mine had a bad stroke a few years ago and when I went to see him in hospital he looked terrible, but now though he is paralysed down one side he has a full and rewarding life. I hope your father recovers well and has many more years to come. All the best PP


30 Jul 02 - 10:10 AM (#756906)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: open mike

sounds like he is making good progress- these days there are amazing therapies available. my dad had a stroke 15 years ago-- which side was affected, do you know?' right side of brain = left side of body and visa versa... stroke can be caused by either a blockage of blood or an excess of blood to a part of the brain- hope they have determined the cause and have offerd treatment accordingly... if he is sitting up and eating that is good- sometimes swallowing is difficult. a Cardio Vascular Accident (CVA) on the left side may affect (effect?) the right limbs and speech. the right side may cause reaction in the left limbs and/or vision--hope he is recovering well. Kat says there is a tape of his music?? what type of music ?? I recently found an old 78 of my dad singing 60 years ago.. a special treasure because he was not able to speak or sing for the last 15 years. he passed away this spring. best wished for good re-hab and hope you find your way there soon. Laurel


30 Jul 02 - 03:04 PM (#757066)
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From: CarolC

My best thoughts and wishes to you, your dad, and all of your loved ones, Bert.


30 Jul 02 - 03:33 PM (#757080)
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From: Rt Revd Sir jOhn from Hull

Sorry to hear this Bert, Good thoughts on there way to you and I hope your dad continues to make a good recovery.There was a good thread at the Annexe (www.jonbanjo.com/forum/default1.asp) called "Helping a friend what has had a stroke" you might find some helpful information there.Take Care.john


30 Jul 02 - 06:19 PM (#757162)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: SINSULL

Bert,
It doesn't seem like a year since we shared eggs and bacon and Micca at Annamill's. Sing to your dad. I know he will hear you and draw strength from it. Love to you and Tree.
Mary


31 Jul 02 - 05:20 PM (#757707)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Rick Fielding

Hi Bert, can we be of any help? Do ya wanna couple days in Toronto just to relax or vent? Door's always open for ya.

Love

Rick and Heather


31 Jul 02 - 07:02 PM (#757759)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Gareth

Bert, I am sorry to hear your news, though glad that there is some good hope, may your father sing again.

Best wishes to a speedy recovery.

Gareth


31 Jul 02 - 08:44 PM (#757819)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: alison

good thoughts, hugs and prayers coming from me too Bert.... glad there was some good news...

love

alison


31 Jul 02 - 08:57 PM (#757824)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Big Mick

Bert, I wasn't paying attention, my friend. I am putting Da in my prayers straightaway. And you as well. My best to your family. Tell them I need to sing them some songs again..........LOL.

All the best,

Mick


31 Jul 02 - 11:01 PM (#757885)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Dave Swan

Best to both Berts.

D&P


01 Aug 02 - 02:45 AM (#757942)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Melani

Glad to hear your dad is better, Bert. I hope he continues to improve.


01 Aug 02 - 10:46 AM (#758130)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: SharonA

Hey, Bert, thanks for telling us the good news that your dad was sitting up and talking the same day as his stroke. Please keep us posted on his progress and physical rehab. Hope you found a way to get to Ontario to be with him. You're both in my thoughts.

(((((((both Berts)))))))

Sharon


01 Aug 02 - 09:37 PM (#758449)
Subject: RE: BS: Kind thoughts needed for Bert's Dad
From: Art Thieme

Bert, Just saw this. All the best to your dad and you all.

Art