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BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela

06 Dec 02 - 09:16 PM (#842748)
Subject: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Escamillo

My dear wife passed on December 6 at 9:10 in the morning, peacefully, in the company of her husband and two sons, and all the love of the world, including those who had never met us, but who are tied by this circle of music, but also of comprehension, love and support which is the Mudcat.

Another attack of the disease, on Thursday morning, this time on the lungs in their entirety, was definitely lethal. However she was told that it was an asthma attack and was immediately treated to alleviate symptoms, later she received strong analgesics and finally anesthesia, then she passed from one state of sleeping to the other, inadvertently and without any pain or suffering, when her oxigenation came to an end. This type of cancer was qualified as "extremely agressive"

My thanks to all the Mudcat people, along with a kiss from Graciela who did never write to you, but was very impressed and grateful for all the solidarity and love received from all of you.

The light of my life is gone. Three sons and a coming grandchild will tie me again to this world. Then, my friends, I only ask another, final prayer for Graciela, who dedicated her life to us, who built our lives with her small hands full of love, and who was generous with relatives and strangers, never discriminated anyone for any reason, and left a lesson of life for all of us. May God bless her.

Un abrazo,
Andrés, Mariano, Javier and Andrés Jr.


06 Dec 02 - 09:31 PM (#842757)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: CarolC

Andrés, I'm terribly sorry for your loss, and for your family's loss. Blessings to all of you and to Graciella.


06 Dec 02 - 09:32 PM (#842758)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: GUEST,Bardford

Andrés, - You are such an eloquent presence here on the Mudcat. There are no words...I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this. May God bless Graciela indeed, and also yourelf and your sons.


06 Dec 02 - 09:37 PM (#842761)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: catspaw49

You have whatever we have to give.........You are a man of great grace and and gentle kindness. May strength be with you and your family now to see you through this time of sadness and may the coming grandchild bring the joy of the circle of life to all of you. You have our deepest sympathies, but also our best thoughts for all of you as well.

Pat and Karen


06 Dec 02 - 09:45 PM (#842766)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Mary in Kentucky

Love to you, Andrés.


06 Dec 02 - 10:06 PM (#842774)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: GUEST,Bman

I am sorry for your trouble.


06 Dec 02 - 10:11 PM (#842777)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Bassic

Thank you for sharing the joy in your life that is Graciela, I celebrate that joy with you and look forward with you and your family to the birth of your Grandchild and and the joy to come. Her spirit has reached us from thousands of miles away through you and I know she will live in your hearts forever.

Gordon


06 Dec 02 - 10:42 PM (#842793)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Sorcha

Blessings on you and all of yours, Andres.


06 Dec 02 - 10:44 PM (#842795)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: GUEST,MMario

I think Catspaw said it quite well. YOu will be in my thoughts thorughout this season.


06 Dec 02 - 10:52 PM (#842799)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Ebbie

Continued blessings to you- I know that you've been overflowing with them. Thank you for sharing them with us, and letting us be a part of your and your family's life. Your testimonial for Graciela is moving- what a joy she has been to you. Cherish yourselves and each other, as she has done for so many years.


06 Dec 02 - 11:03 PM (#842806)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Jeri

Andrés, I'm so sorry. May memories of her give you comfort and make you smile through the tears and may her light continue to shine in your hearts.

Love,
Jeri


06 Dec 02 - 11:26 PM (#842817)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Tinker

May the Blessings of your life together to continue to shine on you all...

Kathy


07 Dec 02 - 12:45 AM (#842845)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: katlaughing

Dear Andres,

I am so sorry. I will sing a song and say a prayer for you all, tonight. Thank you for finding the strength on this day to share with us.

You are in our minds, hearts, and prayers, mi amigo,

Un abrazo,

Rogelio & Katalina


07 Dec 02 - 01:19 AM (#842860)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: DonMeixner

Andres,
There are times , late at night, when I work in the shop my father and I shared, when all is still and the only sound is the flame of the torch or the cadence of the hammer as I pound the silver, I feel his hand on my shoulder and his breath on the back of my neck. I don't have to turn about to know he will always be there.

My deepest sympathies for you and your family.

Don Meixner


07 Dec 02 - 01:41 AM (#842863)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Mudlark

Andres...my heart goes out to you, and to your family. I will hold you in my thoughts, and send you courage for the coming days.

Nancy


07 Dec 02 - 01:45 AM (#842864)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: GUEST,Mickey191

Andres, I am so sorry for your loss.If there is any comfort in words my friend, think on this: Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy. Eskimo Legend.


07 Dec 02 - 02:57 AM (#842883)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Hrothgar

My heart weeps for you.


07 Dec 02 - 08:15 AM (#842966)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: C-flat

I can only add my deepest sympathy to the thoughts expressed here.


07 Dec 02 - 10:24 AM (#843008)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: katlaughing

Andres, how are you doing, today? We burnt a candle for you all last night and sang from our hearts. Thinking of you much, dear one.

kat


07 Dec 02 - 10:40 AM (#843014)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Hollowfox

I'm so sorry to hear this news. It's small comfort to think that someone so beloved doesn't hurt anymore, when you miss her so, but I hope it helps. You and she have my prayers now, and a candle when I get home from work tonight. Take care, Mary


07 Dec 02 - 10:45 AM (#843016)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Amos

Andres:

My condolences.

Keep breathing, keep looking, keep seeig what is there,.

I know it ain't easy.

A


07 Dec 02 - 11:25 AM (#843037)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Alice

AMAZING GRACE sung for Graciela.
Andrés, there are no words to say how sorry I am that your
Beloved Graciela was taken by this disease. I know she lives in
your heart, but it it is so hard to lose her touch.
Take care of yourself.
Love to you and your family.

Alice


07 Dec 02 - 11:31 AM (#843042)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Dave Swan

A song has been sung for Graciela, and for you.

D


07 Dec 02 - 11:52 AM (#843048)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Peter T.

Oh Andres, I am so sorry, I am sorry I did not have time to meet your wife when we met. You have been so terribly burdened, you are in my thoughts and prayers. As a poet once said: "We meet in the valley of the survivors and embrace, we know things we would give everything not to know, we see things in the other's eyes, and are humbled."

yours ever, Peter


07 Dec 02 - 01:45 PM (#843110)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Escamillo

Back at home, already left her body in a peaceful place, I'm in the company of Javier and Andrés, and talked with Mariano who is in th U.S., now facing the sad business of setting some order in the house, not sure what to do with everything.

I received this poem from a friend in the U.S., it is very moving and I think it's good to keep it in mind when our loved ones have to leave. The only difference with my wife's case is that she did never have one lonely minute, much less a lonely night.

Thanks my friends, un abrazo,
Andrés

May I go now?
Do you think the time is right?
May I say good-bye to pain-filled days,
And endless lonely nights?
I've lived my life and done my best,
An example tried to be,
So can I take that step beyond,
And set my spirit free?

I did not want to go at first,
I fought with all my might,
But, something seems to draw me now,
To a warm and loving light.
I want to go-I really do-
It's difficult to stay-
But I will try as best I can,
To live just one more day,
To give you time, to care for me,
And share your love and fears,
I know you're sad and are afraid
Because I see your tears.

I'll not be far- I promise that-
And hope you will always know,
That my spirit will be
Close to you, wherever you may go.

Thank you so- for loving me-
You know- I love you too.
That is why it's hard to say good-bye,
And end this life with you.

So- hold me now, just one more time.
And let me hear you say,
Because you care so much for me,
You will let me go today!


07 Dec 02 - 01:56 PM (#843120)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Morticia

I am so sorry Andres, please know that you and your family are in my thoughts


07 Dec 02 - 03:00 PM (#843156)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Maryrrf

Andres, I can only echo what has been said here. I have been holding Graciela and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I'm glad you have your children and (soon) your grandchild to give you comfort and hope.
Un abrazo,
Mary


07 Dec 02 - 03:46 PM (#843172)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: SINSULL

Andres,
I am sorry. Look for for Graciela in your coming grandchild. And celebrate her life. I will keep you in my prayers.
Mary


07 Dec 02 - 06:06 PM (#843220)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Escamillo

As soon as I can recover a little, I will try to change this sorrow of everyone of you, my friends, for a joyful smile, when I tell you how happy persons she has made of us, how generously she cared for all of us, and what kind of undeserved blessing I have had these last 30 years. That will be better than this sadness.

A big hug for all of you
Andrés


07 Dec 02 - 07:30 PM (#843253)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Haruo

God bless you, Andrés.

Haruo


07 Dec 02 - 10:35 PM (#843319)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: katlaughing

Take your time, Andres and take care of yourself and your family. We will be here, through the sorrow and the joy, and we are the better for it and for your sharing with us.

Blessed Be,

kat


07 Dec 02 - 11:09 PM (#843331)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Helen

Love and hugs, from Helen.

As Don Meixner said, you will probably feel Graciela's presence at times. She has not left you and your family. She has gone to a different place, that is all.

The poem we read at my mother's funeral is a good reminder of this, and I think about it whenever I start feeling sad about my mother being gone from here.

Helen

Death is Nothing At All

                I have slipped away into the next room...
                I am I, and you are you,
                Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.

                Call me by my old familiar name,
                Speak to me in the easy way you always used.
                Put no difference into your tone,
                Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow,
                Laugh as we always laughed
                At the little jokes we enjoyed together.
                Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.

                Let my name be ever the household word
                That it always was.
                Let it be spoken without effect,
                Without the ghost of a shadow on it.
                Life means all that it ever meant -
                It is the same as it ever was;
                There is absolute unbroken continuity.
                What is death but a negligible accident?
                Why should I be out of mind
                Because I am out of sight?

                I am but waiting for you.
                For an interval, somewhere very near
                Just around the corner...
                All is well.

Henry Scott Holland
A Canon of St Paul's Cathedral


08 Dec 02 - 02:11 PM (#843382)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: alanabit

Just to add that I'm thinking and feeling the same way as everyone else on this thread. I hope better days are on their way to you soon and that the memories of better days will always be with you. Alan.


08 Dec 02 - 02:31 PM (#843392)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Marion

I'm so sorry, Andres. God be with you all.

Marion


08 Dec 02 - 03:03 PM (#843406)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)

Andres, don't worry about the grieving- it needs to happen and we are all holding you in our hearts at this time. There will be time for joy and memories soon, and they will both help and keep the tears flowing. You are cared for here in this place, and we are grateful for your presence. Blessings on you and your family.


09 Dec 02 - 04:31 AM (#843732)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: sian, west wales

Some thoughts lie too deep for words. Peace be with you, and yours.

sian


09 Dec 02 - 11:52 AM (#843890)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: GUEST,bbc at work

Andres,

I am so sorry to be reading this thread belatedly. Your message brought tears to my eyes--the combination of your loss & Graciela's release from pain. I am so thankful for your faith. God will sustain you through this time & you will see your sweet wife again! I will be lifting you in prayer.

love,

Barbara


09 Dec 02 - 12:05 PM (#843902)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Micca

Andres, I have only just caught up after being away for the w/e.
My deepest sympathies to you and your boys, we hold you in our hearts and in the Light.. Thank you for sharing her with us, yours in sadness in the present, in hope for the future, Micca


09 Dec 02 - 01:38 PM (#843956)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Wesley S

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you and your family { esp your new grandchild } in my thoughts and prayers this season. Take care of yourself - Wesley


09 Dec 02 - 09:42 PM (#844246)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Escamillo

I am planning a visit to my oldest son in Orlando, Florida to share these Christmas with him. If someone from Miami or Orlando would like to meet me, please tell me to arrange something between December 23 and January 2. The only one I've ever met is Peter T. who gave me the pleasure of his visit in Buenos Aires in 1999, and I would like to see someone else.

As soon as I can settle down my emotions a little, I'll record for you all that Amazing Grace which opened for me the doors of the Wagnerian Association some time ago. I'll do it in memoriam of the wonderful woman who enlightened my life and spread out her love to many others for 30 years.

Again, you are all in my heart, which is now Graciela's heart too.

Un abrazo,
Andrés


10 Dec 02 - 12:00 AM (#844310)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Amos

Escamillio:

If you have occasion to come West, I would be honored to meet you and offer you a place to stay should you need one.


A


10 Dec 02 - 12:15 AM (#844314)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: katlaughing

Amos, if that's not a reason for the Aqua/Tangerine 6th Mudcat CD, then I don't what would be!*bg*

Andres, it will be wonderful to hear you and I know your love of Graciela will shine through and make it that much more meaningful. I am so glad to hear you will be with your oldest son in Florida for Christmas.

Much love,

kat


10 Dec 02 - 02:33 PM (#844757)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: fat B****rd

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my condolences.


10 Dec 02 - 03:59 PM (#844815)
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From: SharonA

Andrés, please let me add my deepest sympathy for your loss. One more thought is going up for Graciela, and one more hug is going out to you, from me. Your tribute to her is absolutely beautiful. I, too, am glad to read that you'll be with family this Christmas. Is it the son in Florida who is the father of your grandchild-to-be?

I'll be keeping you and yours in thought as you remember and celebrate the precious time you've shared with Graciela and with all your loved ones.

Take care,
Sharon


10 Dec 02 - 10:13 PM (#845061)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: smallpiper

May the lord bless you and keep you all the days of your life
I am sorry for your loss but believe it is only for a short time
Blessed be


10 Dec 02 - 10:31 PM (#845069)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Escamillo

Sharon, this grandchild is being brought by my second son Javier (age 26). Regarding my tribute, you could bet that anything I can say is not enough to express my love and respect for this woman, the purest soul I have ever met.

Smallpiper, I want to beleive it is for a short time. I can't wait for the moment I'll meet her again. In the meantime, I have to comply my promise to care for our boys. After that, I'll be free.

A big hug for all of you.
Andrés


10 Dec 02 - 10:44 PM (#845075)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Allan C.

Andres, I am at a loss as to how to express my deep sorrow for your loss. I will be performing at a show in a day or two. I will sing a special song in rememberance of Graciela.


11 Dec 02 - 08:26 PM (#845643)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: wysiwyg

Abrazos, amigo.

~Susan


11 Dec 02 - 09:38 PM (#845681)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: McGrath of Harlow

I've only just opened this thread. All my best thoughts to you, and your family, Andres, in your trouble.

Here's a song I wrote when my wife's mother died, and I sang it after my brother died last year too. (And he was born in Argentina.)

Now you've left us behind and you've gone on your way,
over the edge of the world.
You left without warning with so much to say.
Are you just round the corner, or far far away?
Well, goodbye, and I hope I might see you some day,
over the edge of the world.
Now you've gone where nobody can find you,
over the edge of the world.
To follow a star, like the wise men of old,
to search for a treasure, far richer than gold,
and to find a great secret, can never be told,
over the edge of the world.

I'm watching and waiting and trying hard to see
over the edge of the world.
Now your prison is opened, and now you are free,
and that's how I always have known it must be.
And maybe now somewhere you're waiting for me,
over the edge of the world.
Now you've gone where nobody can find you,
over the edge of the world.
To follow a star, like the wise men of old,
to search for a treasure, far richer than gold,
and to find a great secret, can never be told,
over the edge of the world.


Graciela - that's a lovely name.


13 Dec 02 - 09:19 AM (#846606)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Escamillo

Beautiful song, McGrath. Some day when my sons don't need me, I'll be free too. Thanks, my friends.

Un abrazo,
Andrés


13 Dec 02 - 09:28 AM (#846614)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Ella who is Sooze

Andrés,

I've only just seen this message.

I am truely sorry for your troubles and sad news, I hope that our best wishes and regards for you and yours go a little way towards a small bit of comfort.

I'd like to pass on my deepest sympathies, and to tell you that I firmly believe loved ones never leave you - they will always be with you in spirit until you meet again.

I lost my grandma two years ago, which has been a loss most hard to live with - she was like a second parent to me. I feel like she is often around, and still chat away to her when I think of her.

And... your sons will always need you Andrés - no matter how old they are! The same goes for your grandchild.

All the best Andrés - take care.

Ella


13 Dec 02 - 11:38 AM (#846701)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Kim C

I am a little late myself.... I am so sorry to read about this. I just lost a friend to cancer last week. Perhaps Graciela and Sheila are in some fine sunny place, having tea, and talking about their family and friends.

Hugs to you.

KFC


17 Dec 02 - 10:50 AM (#848932)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Escamillo

I keep re-reading all your posts and can't find an expression to give thanks to all for your solidarity. Next Monday 23 I'll be arriving to Miami to visit my oldest son, and will try to meet Catspaw and family, who will be on vacation nearby, and possibly transmit my gratitude to all in a hug to that admirable man.

I wish you were able to see the smile in the face of my dear Graciela when I read for her all the messages of love and prayers when she was still fighting against the disease. She was grateful too, and always amazed at receiveing so many messages of good wishes. This was so comforting for her in her last days !

Un abrazo,
Andrés


17 Dec 02 - 10:53 AM (#848933)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Amos

Escamillo,

I do hope you and Catspaw get together. He's as good an ambassador as the Cat could want, and you know we are all sending you ongoing waves of support and corragio as you find your way through this strange sad time.

Fondest regards,

Amos


17 Dec 02 - 11:52 AM (#848963)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: catspaw49

I have just sent Andres another PM. We have a time that we might possibly meet in Miami when he arrives, but we will be leaving before he returns. I'm hoping we can work it out as it would be a true pleasure for me to meet this wonderful man. Keep your fingers crossed!

Spaw


17 Dec 02 - 12:33 PM (#848999)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: katlaughing

I sure hope that can happen, Pat. I cannot think of a better person for Andres to get to be with than yourself, and Karen, of course.

Andres, again, thank you for letting us be a prt of all of this, sad though it may be. We are the better for having known Graciela and you and I look forward to your continued sharing, esp. when you have that grandbaby.

Best of luck getting together, guys.

luvyakat


20 Dec 02 - 07:37 PM (#851457)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Escamillo

Everything ok to contact Spaw as soon as I arrive. We could meet on Dec 24 in some place still not defined, but I'm convinced that we will meet, and will embrace all of the Mudcat people in his person.

God bless you all
Andrés


20 Dec 02 - 10:31 PM (#851540)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Peter T.

Don't base your views of Mudcatters on having met me, Andres. Don't be afraid or apprehensive. They are really quite normal, except for catspaw, and hmmm.... where was I?
yours, Peter T.


04 Jan 03 - 12:03 AM (#858242)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Escamillo

Well, I'm back at home. Talking a lot about our visit (one parent physically, one parent spiritually). I arrived this morning after two days of sleeping in buses and airport and planes because of a very tight schedule complicated by the awful combination of arrivals and departures. Got sick in the flight, suffering a horrible pain that seemed to be originated in my poor liver. After immediate attention on board and at the Air Force Hospital in Buenos Aires Intl.Airport and my own medical care system, I was diagnosed (at first) kidney calculus (stones) and sent home to take a break until Monday when I'll have to go through many other tests. Heart, liver, panchreas are ok. The problem is in the right kidney. I ate moderately and the pain is gone for the moment. Ok, some day, somehow, my age had to become evident, but this is not the important story.

Very important things happened in this trip. Mariano was eagerly waiting for me. I've found him very solidly decided to come back to work in Argentina, and much more, to do it close to his father and brothers, and to honor the memory of his mother whom he loves a lot more than I could imagine. I haven't seen Mariano in such a deep sorrow. He wants to care for me and his brothers, to work together again, to keep a family as his mother would have liked. As he talked to me, I was hearing his mothers' spell, with the same words, as if she was dictating to him, and this amazed me very much.

My son is intact, has matured a lot, and his words have helped me to foresee a life after my life, and a time after the time has ended. Because I know that my life as I knew it, has come to an end, and the light as I've seen it, went off. But there will be another life and other lights sustained by three beloved boys, and I can't just shut my eyes off and ignore them. This I learnt from them and from my generous Graciela.


Many people called me during my stay. I've had the pleasure of talking with Catspaw, Karen, Katlaughing and Roger, and many others from the Mudcat and other friends in the USA. Thanks to all, I so much needed to talk, and to cry, and to smile.

I could not meet Catspaw and family in person, because we were located very far away from each other, and the public transportation by bus and trains had an awful schedule for those little towns I was visiting (Wilwood and Leesburg, Florida) but I could talk to them, and I am so glad I could hear their voices and receive so warm welcomes ! There is a lot more to share with all of you. I'll post tomorrow and the following days.

Spaw, I had carried with me a CD of Argentinean music to give you, but as you know, I am emotionally unstable, and forgot it completely to at least send it to you. Please PM me your address so I can send it by mail from here.

Un abrazo,
Andrés


04 Jan 03 - 12:35 AM (#858255)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: katlaughing

Andres, my friend, it is so good to hear from you and to know that you are safe, at home, again! It was wonderful to visit with you.

It sounds as though this was a very important trip for you and for Mariano. Stay well and rest...you deserve it as does your body.:-)

luvyakat & rog


04 Jan 03 - 02:59 AM (#858296)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: catspaw49

We have been very worried about you and it is good to see you back here! I am very sorry we didn't get together but I'll tell you later about all of that. I too have something (quite silly) for you and we'll work all that stuff out later as well. For now, just take the best care of yourself and hold onto those great feelings you got from Mariano. Bless you my friend, you've had a great burden to carry.

Pat


04 Jan 03 - 06:59 AM (#858345)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: McGrath of Harlow

As Happy a New Year as you can have - and keep on singing.

I just now opened a book about vaqueros and gauchos and such ("Lost Cowboys" by the singer Hank Wangford), and the first lines I saw were from from a roughish English version of Martin Fierro:

And now begins the saddest part
Of my tale of trouble and grief,
Although the whole of my life, God knows
Has been nothing more than a chain of woes
Yet the suffering soul that sings its dole
In singing finds relief.


04 Jan 03 - 09:36 AM (#858400)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: bbc

I'm so glad to hear of the love & closeness in your family. Surely, this will help you all. And I'm glad you're safely home. Watch those medical problems & take life as a gift from God, one day at a time.

love,

Barbara


04 Jan 03 - 09:42 AM (#858405)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: SINSULL

I am glad to hear that you are home and safe. Kidney stones can be dealt with with diet, rest and a little less stress. Lord knows, you have had your share.

Live one day at a time. Lean on your family and friends when you need to. And look forward to watching your sons grow into good men. They have an extraordinary example to follow in their father.

Mary


04 Jan 03 - 10:28 AM (#858424)
Subject: RE: BS: A song and a prayer for Graciela
From: Alice

Andrés, my brief visits to the Mudcat forum lately made me miss the opportunity to telephone when you were in the US. My heartfelt wishes for a quick recovery of your health. I am sure your family will bring you strength and life. We all move through time and bear the loss of our loved ones, and there is no greater pain than grieving. As your sons will bring you comfort, know that you also have a friend in Montana.

Alice