Obit: my cat Danny

25 Jan 03 - 01:15 PM (#874721)
Subject: Obit: my cat Danny
From: maire-aine

My bright, beautiful cat Danny was put to sleep yesterday, just shortly before his fourteenth birthday. With me cuddling him and rubbing his tummy, his vet took him peacefully.

He had been diagnosed with a tumor in his abdomen last April, but he had been healthy up until recently. But in the last few weeks, the tumor had grown to the point that it interfered with his digestion, and he couldn't keep any food down. His vets couldn't do anything more for him, so I had no other choice. I kept a lock of his fur, but I didn't ask for his ashes back.

Danny was a big ginger cat with long, silky fur and big green eyes, and he was the most cuddly, loving cat you could imagine. He woke me up in the morning and he went to bed with me at night. He was my sunshine, and I will miss him dreadfully.

I am fortunate, however, to still have three wonderful cats in my household—his mother, Momma Cat, and two sisters, Molly and Little One. I am especially blessed because, on the same day that I put him down, Momma Cat was having dental work done that required anesthesia. Because she is 15, I was very worried. But her vet was very careful with her, and she was her old feisty self as soon as she set foot out of the carrier at home. I wasn't going to feed her that night, but she stole a piece of ham off of my dinner plate, so I gave in to her.

I think that I was just numb yesterday. Today it's really hitting me that he's gone. I could sure use a cyber-hug. Thank you for listening, and allowing me to use this forum to release some of my feelings.

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25 Jan 03 - 01:18 PM (#874723)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: CarolC

((((((((((((hugs for maire-aine)))))))))))

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25 Jan 03 - 01:18 PM (#874724)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: Dave Swan

So sorry. They do steal your heart, the furry little thieves. Sounds like Danny was a lucky guy to have you. Best to you and the other cats.
D

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25 Jan 03 - 01:21 PM (#874725)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: katlaughing

Oh, I am so sorry, maire-aine. They are so much a part of our lives and so loving; it makes their absence much more poignant and sad. I am glad to hear you have the others, but none can replace the something "specials" of any other, can they? I've been through this many times and still miss each and every one of them for their unique ways and love.

Rest in Peace, dear Danny.

{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}} for maire-aine and for Momma Cat and Little One, too.

luvyakat

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25 Jan 03 - 01:27 PM (#874729)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: Jeanie

Zooooooooooming lots of love to you, Maire-Aine.

- jeanie

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25 Jan 03 - 01:34 PM (#874733)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: *daylia*

Maire-aine so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved pet. I know what it feels like - love is love no matter what it's 'object'. It does get better - and big cyber-hugs comin your way now ....

{{{{{{((((((( mmmmm   :-)   mmmmm ))))))}}}}}}

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25 Jan 03 - 01:45 PM (#874742)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: *daylia*

Sheesh just as I posted that my cat threw up under my chair! Go figure!

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25 Jan 03 - 04:11 PM (#874805)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: maire-aine

Thank you so much for your kind words.

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25 Jan 03 - 06:49 PM (#874880)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: Ebbie

{{{{{{{{{{{{BIG HUG FOR MAIRE-AINE}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

In November I rescued a 13-year-old dog gentleman at the Humane Society and just today they asked me if I'd consider taking a 13-year-old marmalade cat too. My idea is that if an animal whose options are narrowing can be given a happy ending that's reward enough, mo matter that the chance is great that there will be an eventual loss to me. But I've got to say that I'm getting back every bit as much as my little dog is. I'm thinkin'...

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25 Jan 03 - 07:28 PM (#874898)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: McGrath of Harlow

It's sad. You always know it's coming, but that doesn't make it any easier. Here's a cat song maybe you might like.

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26 Jan 03 - 03:33 AM (#875032)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: stevetheORC

BIG BIG HUGGGGGGS from the ORCISH one and PUSHKIN we have 2 monsters now but many years ago we took in a stray called Molly, she only lived for about 6 months but at least those days were full of love and affection. there is nothing worse than loosing a companion.

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26 Jan 03 - 05:29 AM (#875051)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: Catherine Jayne

{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}

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26 Jan 03 - 09:40 AM (#875142)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: JennyO

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{BIG FURRY HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

from another cat-lover(and owner)in Oz

Jenny

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26 Jan 03 - 10:29 AM (#875168)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: Morticia

I expect he will have joined my Pie who went over the rainbow bridge last spring....bet they're having a really good time but that doesn't help you, so here's a hug that I hope will {{{{hugs}}}}

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26 Jan 03 - 12:49 PM (#875235)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: Sonnet

My thoughts are with you (((((0)))))

Jay with Charlie and Tabitha

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26 Jan 03 - 01:38 PM (#875262)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: GUEST,KT

Maire-aine,

I'm so sorry.....It's good that Momma Cat, Molly and Little One have you. I'm sure they're missing Danny, too. He remains with you, though in many ways. Be watching for those, and take joy in them. All the best to you. KT

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26 Jan 03 - 01:49 PM (#875266)
Subject: RE: Obit: my cat Danny
From: vindelis

More ((((((HUGS))))))From Julie and 'ginger twins' Harold and Rufus. I thought if I had two cats, it might make losing one, easier. Hopefully that tiime is a long way off, but I know now, my theory was misplaced.

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