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27 Nov 04 - 11:50 AM (#1340503) Subject: Obit: Alba's Dad From: katlaughing Please join me in sending good thoughts, energy, prayers, etc. to Alba/Jude. She's just lost her dad, Tommy, and needs our help. He lived in Scotland, so she's scouting airlines to get over there, which just adds to the sorrow and stress. She says he was the best man ever there was that she knew and I know her heart is breaking. He has to've been to wind up with such a grand daughter as our Jude! {{{{{{{{JUDE}}}}}}}}}}May the Light surround and enfold you in comfort and ease, darlin'...I love you and am sending you all of the love, energy, and prayers you can use with a great big hug. Deep peace of the infinite peace to you. Blessings of Love and Light, Kat, Rog, Rue, and the little Man |
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27 Nov 04 - 11:53 AM (#1340507) Subject: RE: Obit: Alba's Dad From: Catherine Jayne Sorry to hear this news Jude. {{{Jude))) Khatt |
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27 Nov 04 - 01:28 PM (#1340563) Subject: RE: Obit: Alba's Dad From: SINSULL I am sorry, Jude. I lost my father in September and am still coming to terms with the loss. PM me if I can offer you help getting to and from the airports or if you need a place to stay in the Portland area in order to get a decent flight. Take care of yourself. Mary |
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27 Nov 04 - 01:36 PM (#1340568) Subject: RE: Obit: Alba's Dad From: wysiwyg Dear Jude, I'm so sorry. Blessings be with you, in you, and among you all. ~Susan |
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27 Nov 04 - 03:43 PM (#1340645) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: AllisonA(Animaterra) Many blessings and love, dear Jude. I'm holding you in my heart. Allison |
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27 Nov 04 - 04:02 PM (#1340663) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: Peace Dear Jude, Words are such empty vessels to ease loss. The depth of your sorrow is a measure of the love you had for your father. It is also a measure of the love he had (and still has) for you. Please remember that. Bruce |
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27 Nov 04 - 04:41 PM (#1340707) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: katlaughing It's about time to take another deep, long, slow breath, Judedarlin'...:-) luvya |
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27 Nov 04 - 07:53 PM (#1340833) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: vega Nana Judy, Morgan wanted me to write a note from him to you - he wants to make sure you know he is thinking of you and hopes you are able to get a acroos the big pond soon. He thinking lots of loving thought for you & your son. Big hugs & kisses. Luvya rue & Morgan |
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27 Nov 04 - 11:04 PM (#1340911) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: katlaughing I don't think Jude has had a chance to read this, but I did pass it on by answerphone, esp. your kind offer, Sins. Thanks a bunch to you and everyone else. She sounded so heartbroken this morning. One of the first things she said was she wanted to tell Mudcatters and ask for our help because she really needed it. Holding you in our hearts and thoughts, Jude, luvykat |
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28 Nov 04 - 11:22 AM (#1341148) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: karen k Jude, Thinking of you during this difficult time. Try to think about the good times and about how many people there must be who are better people because they knew your dad. My thoughts and symapthy is with you. karen |
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28 Nov 04 - 11:35 AM (#1341153) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: fat B****rd Please accept my condolences. |
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28 Nov 04 - 12:28 PM (#1341191) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: KT Wishing you lots of love and peace and healing during this sad time. KT |
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28 Nov 04 - 01:56 PM (#1341260) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: CarolC Our deepest condolences to you and your loved ones, Alba. Carol and Rob |
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28 Nov 04 - 02:14 PM (#1341281) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: catspaw49 All our best thoughts and deepest sympathies coming your way. Once you allow that gaping hole in your heart to fill with the memories of a lifetime, your Dad will be immortal and that's about as good as it gets. Pat and Karen |
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28 Nov 04 - 03:08 PM (#1341309) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: akenaton When I first started to post here , the only person to welcome me was Judith,she sent a PM telling me about the site and hoping I would enjoy participating. Since then Iv watched her posts, she always has a kind word for anyone in trouble, always the first to extend the hand of friendship. I think its our turn now to support her in her sad loss, and I would like to offer my condolences to Judith and family...Ake |
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28 Nov 04 - 03:19 PM (#1341314) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: OldPossum I am one of those awkward people who never really know what to say, but, you certainly have my good thoughts. |
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28 Nov 04 - 08:13 PM (#1341532) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: katlaughing Paraphrased from a phone call with Jude, today: I've read the thread and it just means so much to me...they have no idea how much love I am sending them and feeling, I love them, I do. There's so much love ...I am taking it all with me, that's the one thing we can give and give and there's never an end to it...love. I am printing out a copy of the thread and taking it with me to share with Luke. I've reminded her to take it slow and not forget to breathe. She said she'd be more settled once she's over there and her Dad is settled, service done and over, etc. This takes so much energy. Thanks to you all for helping her through this. She will be flying out tomorrow and be "home" by Tuesday afternoon. Thanks, again and love to all, kat |
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29 Nov 04 - 09:41 AM (#1342000) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: katlaughing Taking some of my own advice, now, darlin'...please don't worry...focus on your journey and your dad and son..we will all be okay...you know...safe travels to ya, luvyabuncheskat |
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29 Nov 04 - 09:50 AM (#1342014) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: jacqui.c Sorry to hear this Alba - it must have been difficult being so far away as well. Hope the flight was as easy as they get and that you can now see Tommy off in the best possible way. There's a poem that talks about someone'just going into the next room' and I do believe that our loved ones never really leave us as just thinking about them brings them back for us. |
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29 Nov 04 - 10:25 AM (#1342059) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: Janie Holding you and your family in my thoughts and prayers, Jude. So very sorry to hear you have lost your father. May he and you know peace. Janie |
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29 Nov 04 - 10:31 AM (#1342070) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: Bat Goddess It's rough enough to lose your father, but living many miles away for so long makes it harder. (I know from experience.) Tom and I both send you sympathy, condolences, and lots of love. Linn |
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29 Nov 04 - 02:16 PM (#1342302) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: Ebbie Jude and kat, both, it must seem like sadness comes in heaps, but so does love and support. I hope that you are both feeling the virtual arms around you. I think Tommy and Sparky just want to compare notes on their daughters. They must be very proud. |
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29 Nov 04 - 07:07 PM (#1342581) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: Morticia as many hugs as I can muster coming your way, Jude......we'll be thinking of you. |
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30 Nov 04 - 04:17 AM (#1342960) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: katlaughing Jude, just so'se ya know...keeping you in my thoughts and heart. I thought I'd sleep tonight,but oh no...so here I am...you just about getting home I expect. Your son will be so relieved to have his mum there. Breathe darlin'.... luvyakat |
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30 Nov 04 - 01:40 PM (#1343451) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: Megan L They never truly leave us who dwell within our heart they allways will be near us even though for now we part Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers |
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01 Dec 04 - 01:10 PM (#1344529) Subject: RE: Obit: Mudcatter Alba's Dad From: katlaughing I spoke with Jude, today. They will have the service next Monday. Tomorrow she will go sit with him at the funeral home and *visit*...it'll be a good thing. The neighbours and the dog next door, as well as her son and other friends have been there for her and she sounded as well as could be expected. Odd, we both find ourselves helping the others with their grief. Thanks, again and jude, ya know we're here for you. luvyakat |