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BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?

18 Nov 06 - 05:00 AM (#1887460)
Subject: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Nigel Paterson

When I was a lad, back in the 50s, words like f*** & c*** & s*** & bl**dy & b***er(no, NOT butter) were reserved for special occasions. We said them in our secret hideouts, often in hushed tones lest we be overheard. Shouted out loud, the words had real power & showed just how angry & displeased we were. Shouted out loud, the words also announced to the world: "Watch out, I'm becomming a man"! Today, all these words have passed into everyday conversational language. I hear them in the street, I hear them on the TV & in the movies. The currency of the swear-word has been totally devalued. There are no special words left for those moments of pain & anger.
                                 Nigel Paterson (distressed & wordless)


18 Nov 06 - 05:06 AM (#1887462)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: fat B****rd

F...ed if I know.


18 Nov 06 - 07:03 AM (#1887509)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: The Fooles Troupe

... long time passing....


18 Nov 06 - 07:12 AM (#1887514)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: nutty

Just stick to cursing in the Queens English ..... I'm sure there are a lot of words there that would do the job just as well.

Particularly as expletives are often misused these days.


18 Nov 06 - 07:23 AM (#1887516)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: The Fooles Troupe

Now that's a bl**dy shame!


18 Nov 06 - 08:13 AM (#1887540)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: JennyO

Never fear, help is near, in the form of Ye Olde Official Shakespearean Insult Kit

Now you can say things like

Kiss my codpiece, thou pribbling, motley-minded flap-dragon!


18 Nov 06 - 08:49 AM (#1887576)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: GUEST,lox

With the consequence that those of us whose vocabularies are endowed with bigger words, and who know how to use them, have the ability to touch parts that others simply can't reach.


18 Nov 06 - 09:36 AM (#1887609)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: mack/misophist

Full atreement with Mr Paterson here. Swear words used to offer a form of verbal punctuation to speech that gave special occasions a special weight. Today there are no equivalents.


18 Nov 06 - 09:51 AM (#1887618)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: DMcG

If shakespeare doesn't suit, how about Sheridan's "The Rivals":

Abs. Spoke like a man! But pray, Bob, I observe you have got an odd kind of a new method of swearing—

Acres. Ha! ha! you’ve taken notice of it—’tis genteel, isn’t it!—I didn’t invent it myself though; but a commander
in our militia, a great scholar, I assure you, says that there is no meaning in the common oaths, and
that nothing but their antiquity makes them respectable; because, he says, the ancients would never
stick to an oath or two, but would say, by Jove! or by Bacchus! or by Mars! or by Venus! or by Pallas,
according to the sentiment: so that to swear with propriety, says my little major, the oath should be an
echo to the sense; and this we call the oath referential, or sentimental swearing—ha! ha! ’tis genteel,
isn’t it.

Abs. Very genteel, and very new, indeed!—and I dare say will supplant all other figures of imprecation.

Acres. Ay, ay, the best terms will grow obsolete.—Damns have had their day.


18 Nov 06 - 09:57 AM (#1887621)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Rapparee

Sure there are. Lots of them.

"That drooling drop of mucus said to me...." "This camel-sucking screwdriver stripped the drive slot outa the screw head!"

Try a good thesaurus.

They're even "tastier" because the words aren't usually used in that way -- AND that makes them even nastier.


18 Nov 06 - 10:00 AM (#1887622)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: number 6

JennyO .... thanks for that link!

"Now gentlemen, with your best Richard Burton imitation"

swim with the leeches thou artless dismal dreaming nit.

biLL


18 Nov 06 - 12:24 PM (#1887707)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Mooh

Golly gosh gee willickers, hot darn it all, what's all the cussin' about?

What I like is when the f word is inserted between syllables, eg "fan-fucking-tastic".

Peace, Mooh.


18 Nov 06 - 12:39 PM (#1887712)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: bobad

"Eat my knickers thou rump-fed, flap mouthed canker blossom."

Ha ha! that was fun.

Great link JennyO.


18 Nov 06 - 12:55 PM (#1887727)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Peace

Don't know where this is from (I first heard it from Joe Frazier (of the Mitchell Trio many decades ago)) and it is the absolute neatest way to call someone a bastard: "You, sir, were begat on a duchess by a head waiter."


18 Nov 06 - 01:13 PM (#1887736)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Nigel Paterson

More, more, more, please! Wonderful posts, haven't laughed so much in ages,
    Nigel P.


18 Nov 06 - 02:25 PM (#1887789)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: BuckMulligan

Mooh - that construction actually has a name, "tmesis" and isn't limited to "fucking" nor to English. And it's great fun to make up new ones. It's a very common phenomenon in all languages for words and phrases to lose potency; "naughty" and "mischief" which in our day carry connotations of childhood innocence, were once very strong terms of evil. For Nigel and the other "wordless" ones, I suggest lurking around some 10 year olds (unobserved of course, how else does one lurk?). I'm sure the vocabulary is there - remember, we didn't think our parents knew Carlin's "seven dirty words" either (to this day I'm more than half convinced that both of mine went to their graves innocent of at least
"motherfucker")


18 Nov 06 - 02:49 PM (#1887808)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Bill D

My daddy used to say...."goddandruffandsomeofititches"


18 Nov 06 - 04:56 PM (#1887886)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Little Hawk

Horse Puckey!!!


18 Nov 06 - 04:56 PM (#1887887)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Mooh

Buck...Yeah, I'd already looked that (tmesis) up. We abso-fucking-lutely did it all the time as kids, usually in superlatives, but never with cuss words when the parents were about. Being raised by language scholars made it both fun and frus-fucking-trating when they started to mess around with words.

Fwiw, I still pull out Partridge's slang dictionary for amusement.

Peace, Mooh.


18 Nov 06 - 05:23 PM (#1887912)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: JennieG

My mother's favourite, used when she was very stressed:

Bumbuggerbitch (said as one word of course)

or when slightly less stressed:

Sugarmagundy

don't know where that one came from.

Cheers
JennieG


18 Nov 06 - 06:36 PM (#1887950)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: BuckMulligan

Mooh - "Imagine my chagrin!"

Partridge is always fun.


18 Nov 06 - 08:07 PM (#1888000)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: The Fooles Troupe

... long time ago ...


18 Nov 06 - 08:54 PM (#1888033)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Rapparee

It's just a gol-danged shame the old time muleskinners ain't readin' this thread.


18 Nov 06 - 09:27 PM (#1888048)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Elmer Fudd

Well I'll be a blue-nosed gopher!


19 Nov 06 - 01:49 AM (#1888101)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: The Fooles Troupe

... now in common usage, every one!

When will they ever learn?
When will they e-----ver learn?


19 Nov 06 - 02:20 AM (#1888115)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: GUEST,Blind DRunk in Blind River

I'll tell ya where all the FLIPPIN' swear words have gone, eh? Right to FLIP-Me-Silly-and-Call-Me-"Joe Flipface"-land, that's where! Every flipin' hairy-assed retread and bolthole and flip-faced corkPULLER in this whole flippin' bluebelly dipwad town can flippin' swear like a flipped dipheaded motherflipper with his mungoberries caught in a flippin' nutcracker! If you don't flippin' beleeve me, then go flip yourself sideways from Sunday down a flippin' goldurn mine shaft and get ready to kiss the flippin' glove! I flippin' kid you NOT, man.

- Shane


19 Nov 06 - 05:37 AM (#1888168)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: GUEST

My Father used to try to avoid swearing with "Fleas-flies-fishes-and-fairies" (but only when children were around, when he thought himself alone the language became more 'Anglo-Saxon') - The one that stuck with me was "Blood-and-Sand" as an expression of surprise.

W


19 Nov 06 - 05:42 AM (#1888170)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: autolycus

Where I work, swear words are a normal part of conversation. Only that's not me, so I don't. I've noticed when i hove into view, people normally swearing just aren't. And when I told some the one joke in my repertoire that relies in F****in' this and f****in' that throughout, their jaws hit the floor and one, when i'd finished, didn't laugh, just said,"That's the first time I've heard you swear in four years,Ivor".

Maybe that's one of the many sources of physical violence, the fact that people have run swear words into the ground so they have no effect anymore. (Bit like overusing antibiotics)





       Ivor


19 Nov 06 - 06:10 AM (#1888182)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: fat B****rd

Sugarlumps !!


19 Nov 06 - 09:41 AM (#1888240)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: GUEST,Fred Bailey

The Scene: Viet-Nam, 1st Cavalry, nailing up some quick and dirty forgotten piece of small hootch construction out of the ubiquitous artillery crates -- our major source of fresh lumber.

The Chaplain: (swinging a vigorous hammer, slips and hits his thumb, hard, collapses in agony and squeals): Sergeant, would you say a few words?
Sergeant: G*D-D**N S*N-OF-A-B**CHING BAS***D M***ERF**KER
Chaplain: Ah, thank you Sergeant thank you -- it really does seem to help, doesn't it?


19 Nov 06 - 11:05 AM (#1888284)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Herga Kitty

Crying in a bucket....

Kitty


19 Nov 06 - 02:11 PM (#1888383)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: fat B****rd

Stupid substitution, "Fug" in Mailer's "The Naked And The Dead"


19 Nov 06 - 05:39 PM (#1888514)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Bert

Buggered off - maybe?


19 Nov 06 - 05:42 PM (#1888517)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Peace

I have it on good authority that the swear-words have gone to 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue. They went there after the recent elections.


20 Nov 06 - 10:02 AM (#1888930)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: GUEST,Shimrod

My late Father never swore in front of family or friends - but he did used to swear when he thought that he wasn't being overheard. When I was a teenager I used to lie in bed on a Sunday morning while my Mother went to church and my Dad went to work in his shed. After a while he would start crashing about and swearing to himself: "where's that f**cking screwdriver/hammer/clamp etc.? I can never f**cking find anything in this f**cking place ... and on and on in much the same vein. I suppose he thought that no-one could hear him in the shed - although I suspect that half the street could hear him!


20 Nov 06 - 11:57 AM (#1889003)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: leeneia

I remember reading an article by some 19th-C thinker (I can't recall who it was) who observed some apple pickers at work. He commented on their speech, which was coarse and obscene.

In that writer's day, men who talked like that were illiterate. Neithr could go on the Net and talk their own talk. Journalists and novelists wouldn't replicate it. So today, we think that people of the past had much cleaner mouths.

Trouble is, that kind of speech degenerates from a form of expression to a form of laziness. It is so much easier to say "Where the hell is that hammer?" than to say, "Fetch me the ballpeen hammer that I had yesterday and probably left at the other job site."


20 Nov 06 - 12:33 PM (#1889022)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Paul Burke

Swearing was normal at all levels of society in the 18th century and up to the reign of Sailor Bill or Victoria, though those who didn't swear were considered more respectable. It was the imposition of Victorian moral codes, backed up by the threat of social sanctions (if a "gentleman") or economic ones if an employee, that both reduced its currency and made it more shocking when it was used. The people most affected were those with social pretensions, and most particularly the lower middle and upper working classes.

By my parents' youth, the 1920s to 1940s, language was so powerful that there was a whole genre of lyrics that never quite used "bad" words, like "I can't do my bottom belly button up", and "I ran a bug around a tub, I'll have his blood, he knows I will". My father's family, in a brief period of prosperity, had a wind-up gramophone on which they played "With his head stuck underneath his arm". There's a line that runs something like "Is Arsenal going to win the cup". The children used to deliberately make the needle jump, so it came out as "'is arse..'is arse..".


20 Nov 06 - 12:42 PM (#1889034)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Nigel Paterson

I'm not neglecting this thread, I'm away visiting my daughter & the grandchildren (off-line, computer-free zone!) in Charlotte NC. Will be back at the beginning of December. Thanks to everyone for the erudite, funny & personal contributions. I'm hoping to read a whole stack more when I return home,
                  Best to All,
                              Nigel Paterson.


20 Nov 06 - 12:59 PM (#1889045)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: The Walrus

Sorry folks, Saturday's "Fleas-flies-fishes-and-fairies" post was mine, I hadn't realised I had no cookie until now.

I find, when I'm frustrated/impatient, I tend use slightly odd curses. More than once I've been heard at bus stops muttering phrases like "Get a move on, damn your eyes limbs and blue breeches!", although I have been known in company to bowdlerise the curse to "Limbs and breeks" or even to simply "ELB".
Often any term can be used as a substitute, another expression of frustration that I use in more 'polite' company is GAFMO! (It's fine as long as no-one wants an explaination*), the explosive relief effect is the same and none offended.

Am I right in my perception that Americans in general have little idea of graduations in swearing?
It always struck me that those Americans I had experience of (not an overly large sample, but varied), seemed to go from very mild "non-oatths" to "God-damned" then straight to variants on "F*ck", there seems to be very little between.

W


* Simply an acronym of "Get A F*ck%ng Move On"


20 Nov 06 - 05:37 PM (#1889318)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: GUEST,Dani

As a chef whose language occasionally (or more) gets her in trouble (my kitchen is in a divinity school!), believe me, there are still a few left in the old lexicon.

It is hard, though, to teach my daughters what NOT to say when all else are saying them, even on tv. I HATE for them/anyone to use the word 'sucks' to mean something is bad.

Two of my favorite sayings, "Well, THAT bites the Almighty Weiner of the Everlasting Universe!" (old friend used for EVERYthing) and,

"DON'T say SHIT in front of the K-I-D-S!" (my mother)

Dani


20 Nov 06 - 09:55 PM (#1889546)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: JennyO

I came from a very religious family (I've come a long way since then ;-)) and any swear word was considered shocking.

My grandfather used to say "Great Everlasting Hambone!" and I've no idea what it was a substitute for, as I don't recall ever hearing him really swear. My mother never used anything worse than "bloody" but she often used it with such force and venom that it had the effect of something worse anyway. If she said that word, we knew she was REALLY angry.


21 Nov 06 - 01:05 AM (#1889626)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Bert

Metamorhosing polywogs!!!


21 Nov 06 - 04:28 AM (#1889683)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: fat B****rd

"Great snappin' assholes" Cheech and Chong.


21 Nov 06 - 08:09 AM (#1889789)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Big Mick

"worthless, broke dick mammalucca"

Catspaw, aka Pat Patterson (one of the the greatest cussin' wordsmiths of all time)


21 Nov 06 - 08:48 AM (#1889813)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: GUEST,memyself

Walrus -

"It always struck me that those Americans I had experience of (not an overly large sample, but varied), seemed to go from very mild "non-oatths" to "God-damned" then straight to variants on "F*ck", there seems to be very little between."

Can you expand on this? (Polite listeners can avert their ears). I'm Canadian, but I suspect the phenomenon you're talking about applies here - but I'm not quite sure what these more subtle "gradations in swearing" are ... other than where I grew up, there was a certain unspoken cultural/class marker: there were homes in which you could say "shit" but not "f-ck", and there were homes in which you could not say either.


22 Nov 06 - 02:20 AM (#1890494)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Seamus Kennedy

Where have all the swear-words gone?

Mihael Richards used 'em all up.

Seamus


22 Nov 06 - 06:49 AM (#1890603)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: The Walrus

GUEST,memyself,

"..."It always struck me that those Americans I had experience of (not an overly large sample, but varied), seemed to go from very mild "non-oaths" to "God-damned" then straight to variants on "F*ck", there seems to be very little between."

Can you expand on this? (Polite listeners can avert their ears). I'm Canadian, but I suspect the phenomenon you're talking about applies here - but I'm not quite sure what these more subtle "gradations in swearing"
..."

I was trying to express that there are/were certain terms or expletives which, in use, are considered stronger than others.

For example:-

Go Away: (starting mildest)
Bugger off -> Sod Off -> Piss Off -> Fuck off

Likewise with expletives:-
Blasted (innoffensive)-> Damned -> Bleeding -> Bloody -> Sodding -> Fucking

As you mention there are certain circumstances where some terms are acceptible and others not.
Without these gradations, I feel that swearing loses its impact both from the swearer's point of view, and becomes monotonous from the point of view of the listener.

W


22 Nov 06 - 09:51 AM (#1890696)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: GUEST,memyself

Okay, I getcha now, and you're quite right - N. Am. swearing doesn't have much in the way of gradation; there's no "-- off", for example, except for "f-ck off", although in recent years "eff off" has come into vogue as a slightly milder rejection. Come to think of it, that's usually only used in the course of narrative, as in, "I told him to eff off" when, the implication is, what was actually said was the more expicit, "f-ck off" or the more polite, "Your services are no longer required", or something to that effect.

On that train of thought, in recent years, with the more pronounced vulgarisation of pop culture, the term "friggin'" and variations such as "frickin'" and "freakin'" have been working their way into public discourse as slightly less offensive than the word they obviously replace.

Some of the milder terms of the type you mention used to be common in N. Am. in my parents' generation, at least in some areas; e.g., blasted, dashed, deuced, blazes (as in "go to"), etc. My mother's harshest expression of dismissal was the pithy, "Drop dead!" - which, when you think about it, is a pretty horrible thing to say to your own child!


22 Nov 06 - 10:26 AM (#1890716)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: Splott Man

Anyone got the words to the song that starts:

Ma's out. Pa's out, let's talk ruse,
Pee, po, belly, bum, drawers.

?


22 Nov 06 - 10:43 AM (#1890729)
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From: GUEST,Mrr at work

I've been avoiding God/Jesus, damn, heaven and hell in my swearing. Leaves me with NOTHING but shit and fuck. We need a new language!


22 Nov 06 - 06:36 PM (#1891190)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: GUEST,Dani

How timely that my daughter heard this song on her new XM (don't ask) satellite radio. Apparently, Eric Idle was fined not long ago for using the "F" word on a Clear Channel station:


The FCC Song
by Eric Idle

Fuck you very much the FCC
Fuck you very much for fining me
Five thousand bucks a fuck so I'm really out of luck
Thats more than Heidi Fliess was charging me.
So fuck you very much the FCC
For proving that free speech just isn't free
Clear Channel's a dear channel
so Howard Stern must go
Attorney General Ashcroft doesn't like strong words and so
He's charging twice as much as all the drugs for Rush Limbo
so Fuck you all so very much

So fuck you very much dear Mr. Bush
for heroically sitting on your tush
For Halliburton, Enron, all the companies who fail
Lets send them a clear signal and stick Martha straight in jail
She's an uppity rich bitch, but at least she isn't male
So fuck you all so very much

So fuck you dickhead Mr. Cheney too.
Fuck you and fuck everything you do.
Your pace maker must be fake
You haven't got a heart
As far as I'm concerned your just a pasty faced old fart
And as for Condolezza she an intellectual tart
So fuck you all so very much

So fuck you very much the EPA
For giving all Alaska's oil away
It really is a bummer
When I can't fill my Hummer
The ozone a no go zone now that Arnold's here to say
The nuclear winter games are going to take place in LA
So fuck you all so very much

So what the planet fails
Lets save the great white males
And fuck you all so very much

QUACK


23 Nov 06 - 06:05 PM (#1892083)
Subject: RE: BS: Where have all the swear-words gone?
From: The Fooles Troupe

Eric Idle's song proves that there CAN be good strong social/political uses for swearing!