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BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)

09 Dec 06 - 09:01 AM (#1904432)
Subject: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jacqui.c

This time his surgeon is trying to give him more of a voice than he has had for quite some time. He took a little 'fascia' from behind Kendall's ear and used it to fill the right vocal chord, to bring it up to meet with the left VC.

We had to go to Albany NY for the procedure, which took place on the 7th December. The same surgeon did the original laser surgery back in 2004 and is one of the best in his field for this kind of work. With the pre-op exam and a night in hospital post op we travelled down on the 6th and came back yesterday.

Mary came with us to do the driving and keep me company while the Old Guy was on the table and I was very glad of her company. She and I were talking about our fears and both agreed that the worst thing about Kendall croaking on the table would have been the logistics of getting the body back to Maine. We agreed that we would have had him cremated and brought the ashes back - takes up less room in a crowded van as Kendall pointed out this morning.

Anyway, he now has to keep silent for about 72 hours from the op and then to speak very little for the next few days. I have told locals - no visits please until at least the middle of the week as he finds it highly frustrating only being able to communicate by writing.

The surgeon says that we won't hear the full result until, probably, the New Year and he isn't making any promises as to what kind of voice Kendall will have then. All he will say is that it should give him a voice. We're probably back down in Albany in about three weeks time for the check up and we'll see then how successful this has been.

So, anyone who wants to put up a prayer, to any God you believe in, we would welcome the good energy here.


09 Dec 06 - 09:04 AM (#1904437)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Azizi

Positive vibrations are being sent your way.

I hope the operation was successful.


09 Dec 06 - 09:05 AM (#1904438)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Micca

Well, I am in there and cheering him on, mate, and any healing thoughts or action or support and good wishes I can offer, I Gladly do, to all three of you, Micca


09 Dec 06 - 09:07 AM (#1904440)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Sorcha

So, like, is he in competition with Spaw for Bionic Man? Good wishes, and light seas, Cap'n!


09 Dec 06 - 09:09 AM (#1904444)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Big Mick

He's in my prayers, as he has been since this started. C'mon buddy, do what they tell you.

By the way, the picture of you in the kilt is on my desktop. The girls think you have cute knees. No standards these days.

LOL.

Mick


09 Dec 06 - 09:11 AM (#1904447)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: David C. Carter

Sail on,sail on.
Courage to you all.


09 Dec 06 - 09:14 AM (#1904453)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: John MacKenzie

I do hope it improves life for him, he's so frustrated with things the way they've been, and his voice is so much a part of his persona.
Whatever happens there is the consolation that it's not going to make things any worse whatever.
Rest up, and take it easy Cap'n we're thinking of you over here in Scotland.
Giok


09 Dec 06 - 09:23 AM (#1904460)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Jeri

Ashes? You're in Maine - surely you know some folks with Lobster traps. (He's eaten enough of THEM.)

Kendall: love, healing, and success. And SHHHHHHHH!
Jacqui: patience. Maybe some duct tape. I can't imagine him staying quiet for longer than... I can't imagine him staying quiet.

I'll see y'all New Year's Eve, I hope.


09 Dec 06 - 09:28 AM (#1904465)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Alba

YOU GOT IT KENDALL AND JACQUI

Nothing but LOVE, LIGHT and HEALING THOUGHTS being directed YOUR WAY


Much Love and {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}} to you both
Jude


09 Dec 06 - 09:31 AM (#1904470)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: bfdk

Positive thoughts speeding your way from rainsodden Denmark!!!

LOL, I can just picture you two "Aunties" discussing how to best dispose of the body... :-))

Glad to hear you did get the "Grumpy Old Git" back with you, and in a condition where he's supposedly still capable of kicking (albeit not screaming at the present time).

72 hours of silence, huh? Must have been sheer agony keeping quiet for that amount of time... How about issuing the poor bugger with a selection of squeaky toys, so he can make his presence felt that way? If Seamus won't donate, I'm sure I could dig out a few from Milloup's box of belongings :o)

Anyroads, I'm glad to hear all has gone well so far and I keep my fingers crossed that the end result will be up to or exceeding expectations. Looking forward to hearing more of this, as the healing progresses.

I wish you all a Merry Christmas (whispering "Silent Night"), and a Happy New Year with lots of "volume".

Best wishes,

Bente

PS please tell Auntie Sins that her Christmas package arrived today. I haven't peeked, just put it on top of my SS pressie for both to await such time as it shall be right and proper to open them


09 Dec 06 - 09:36 AM (#1904473)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jeffp

You've got my prayers, folks! Not only for Kendall, but for Jacqui having to put up with him.

I hope you have a very merry Christmas and a new voice for the New Year.

Jeff


09 Dec 06 - 09:38 AM (#1904477)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

Rise again, rise again,
So his sound won't be lost to the knowledge of men
All those who love him best
And were with him through the pain
Will make The Cap'n's sound rise again!


09 Dec 06 - 09:53 AM (#1904485)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: SINSULL

And I have the attention span of a gnat????? Did we not have a three day discussion about not mentioning this until we knew what sort of a voice the Captain would finally have? Did we not talk about surprising everyone on New Year's Eve by having him sing?

A very long three days with no sleep and too many "noises" in that damn waiting room. Why do they think Christmas Carols should be warbled while adding fifteen notes to every one? beep beep beep beep beep

Have Kendall tell them about the nursing assistant who was none too bright. Catspaw will appreciate that one.

Kendall's eyes speak volumes. He will be OK for a few days as long as he has his remote and his dog.

Bente - I only mailed the package. It is not a Christmas gift and you will have to open it to see who it's from (from whom it is?)

For anyone interested, the hospital in Albany could not have treated us better. Jacqui and I were looked after by some very caring people who kept us updated on his surgery, provided coffee and orange juice and most of all sympathy and a sense of humor. They even managed to get us on the road by 10:30 when they learned we were driving back to Maine.

Glad to be home.
SINS


09 Dec 06 - 09:58 AM (#1904492)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Alba

Glad you all are back safe and sound....or in Kendall's case, soundless for 72 HOURS!!
Loads of Love to you All,
Jude

Mary, I am the current President of the ASOAGA (Attention span of a gnat association). I would highly value just one other member other than myself....**Grin** wanna join me?


09 Dec 06 - 10:15 AM (#1904503)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: wysiwyg

I'll send this around to the Prayer Chain as well.

Ssssshhhh! Man at work, do not disturb! (Healing IS work)

~Susan


09 Dec 06 - 10:15 AM (#1904504)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: kendall

I had a nurse assistant who came in with a series of questions. Over my bed was a huge sign that said TOTAL VOICE REST. At first I answered the yes and no questions, but they became more complex, so I handed her a note saying I was unable to speak. She apologized and started writing her questions! At first I was amused, but then it got silly and I had to tell her I wasn't deaf.


09 Dec 06 - 10:20 AM (#1904510)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Deckman

Kendall ... that's waaaay too funny (about the assistant). Try to enjoy your quiet time as much as possible. Best wishes from ussens on the west Coast. Bob


09 Dec 06 - 10:21 AM (#1904511)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Bobert

Oh, geeze...

The operation from hell... Now we ain't gonna get the Capt'n to shut up 'cause he's got a lot of lost time to make up... He's gonna be non-stop...

You should have asked the doctor to install a switch while he was at it, jacqui...

Awww, jus' funnin'...

Bobert


09 Dec 06 - 10:25 AM (#1904514)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Jeri

Which hospital? My mom did time in Albany Medical Center.


09 Dec 06 - 10:31 AM (#1904516)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: katlaughing

Thanksgivings for a completely healed and, ahem....*pleasant* voice being sent out from here to you, Kendalldarlin'...also to Seamus for his part in keeping you quiet. He does know how to bark out orders for you, right?**bg** What a pair you've got looking after you!

Sins, Jacqui, thanks for telling us and for getting back safely. Sorry you missed out on the BBQ!**RBSEG**

luvyakat


09 Dec 06 - 10:33 AM (#1904518)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: GUEST,Dani

Oh my god.

They need to have an alert system for any hospital you're heading to, Kendall. They must have saved that woman for a long time to send her right to your bedside.

I've got my fingers crossed for you, and will be thinking of you New Year's Eve.

Don't listen to Mick. You have lovely knees. Or so I am told ; )

Dani, with warm hugs.


09 Dec 06 - 10:47 AM (#1904523)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Maryrrf

I just saw this thread. I want to add my wishes for the best of results for Kendall.


09 Dec 06 - 11:00 AM (#1904533)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: SINSULL

What BBQ? I am still recovering from lack of sleep and slow on the uptake.
M


09 Dec 06 - 11:02 AM (#1904535)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Big Mick

Captain ..... you owe me a new keyboard. I can clean the monitor.

There is a song, nay a whole comedy bit, contained just in those few short sentences. I can see the look on your face as she was writing the questions.......... ROFLMAO.

Mick


09 Dec 06 - 11:11 AM (#1904547)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: MBSLynne

Best wishes Kendall. A voice will be better than no voice whatever it's like, but with the number of people putting their thoughts to it, it will probably be even better than the old one!

Love Lynne


09 Dec 06 - 11:19 AM (#1904551)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Alice

Did they have a patient feedback comment form at that hospital? Maybe they should do an IQ test for new employees?
Best recovery wishes from here!

Alice


09 Dec 06 - 11:22 AM (#1904556)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: katlaughing

Uh, Sins...cremation = BBQ? *groan* I know it's bad...I need sleep, too!:-)


09 Dec 06 - 11:36 AM (#1904565)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Megan L

Thoughts and prayers with you both,


09 Dec 06 - 11:48 AM (#1904572)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Becca72

Bente, ROFLMAO to the squeaky toys!! Great idea!

If only that nurse's assitant is around for the follow-up visit.


09 Dec 06 - 11:50 AM (#1904575)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Sooz

Everything crossed here in Gainsborough.


09 Dec 06 - 12:21 PM (#1904606)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: bbc

All the best to both of you. Wish you'd come to see me; I'm just an hour from Albany & go to visit my kids there frequently.

love,

Barbara


09 Dec 06 - 12:30 PM (#1904612)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Ebbie

With Sins and Jacqui and Seamus and the whole Mudcat crowding into your home, my best guess is that the first sound you make, Cap'n, will be a guffaw.

My best healing thoughts are traveling across the miles even as we speak...


09 Dec 06 - 12:45 PM (#1904621)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: kendall

Somehow the word got around that I'm a humorist, so the whole staff came by to see.

Another incident... one of the nurses came in to do her thing, and at the same time one of the other attendants was there doing his thing. They were in each other's way, and finally the nurse said to the assistant, "Would it be easier if I get into the bed with him"? he said "No, it might be harder" I gave her a note that said "If you get into this bed, it WILL be harder."

All in all, it was a pleasant visit.


09 Dec 06 - 12:47 PM (#1904624)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jacqui.c

KENDALL!!!!

CELLAR!!!!!!


09 Dec 06 - 12:51 PM (#1904628)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Alaska Mike

I will send much of the abundant good wishes that helped me get through my recent trauma. Tawmmie and I wish you the very best, Captain. Get well and sing loud and strong.

Mike


09 Dec 06 - 12:53 PM (#1904631)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: kendall

You can't shoot a guy for thinking.

Jeri, it was the Albany Medical Center. They were excellent all around.


09 Dec 06 - 12:59 PM (#1904636)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: SINSULL

A cremation is good for toasting weenies (pun intended) and marshmallows but no where near long enough for a BBQ.
I'll shut up now.
M


09 Dec 06 - 01:13 PM (#1904644)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Elmer Fudd

Best wishes for a speedy recovery and a completely successful surgery.

Elmer


09 Dec 06 - 01:16 PM (#1904649)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Bill D

WOW...new parameters on the voice, huh? I hope they didn't mess with the "Dialect Nodes"...those Maine Stories would be weird with a Gawgia accent! Get well and keep us up to date!

(LOVE the stories about the hospital and nurse's aid....you know, Reader's Digest pays $$$$ for stuff like that!)


09 Dec 06 - 01:37 PM (#1904659)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: catspaw49

LOL....Kendall, what makes the first story so funny to me is that the same thing happened to me.

My wonderful friend Wayne is about as empathic as a person can get and has been in emergency med for most of his life. When I had the bypass, he stayed with me in recovery while Karen attended to things only she could do. I was on a vent and I awakened with Wayne's hand on mine. I wanted to know where Karen was but obviously could not talk. Both of us know some ASL thru Connie but neither of us is too great. I'm trying to ask him and pointing at my ring finger, etc. HE on the other hand is signing back, also quite badly. The silly part for us was that this went on for about 5 minutes before he heanded me a piece of paper and a pencil. I wrote in large letters, "YOU CAN TALK DUMBASS"............at which point he looked both chagrined and then started to laugh. My problem then was that you can't laugh on a vent and I went into a coughing frenzy.

It's become a great piece of family folklore.


Spaw


09 Dec 06 - 02:24 PM (#1904681)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: katlaughing

Sins, maybe it should have been BBK?LOL

Great stories, Kendall and Spaw!


09 Dec 06 - 03:13 PM (#1904718)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Charley Noble

Kendall-

You've certainly cheered me up this morning. Keep 'em coming!

Oh, and yes, I do hope the operation is a success, and we're back to the problem of how to shut you up.

Cheerily,
Charley Noble


09 Dec 06 - 03:38 PM (#1904737)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: gnu

Ah, Cap'n... great stuff. As usual. Always, you bring a smile. May the Great Spirit smile as well.


09 Dec 06 - 03:49 PM (#1904748)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: number 6

Good to see your up about and your spirits are kickin' too.

biLL


09 Dec 06 - 03:57 PM (#1904752)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Stilly River Sage

Wow! I beat Bill D to a pun. . .

The appropriate audience response to Kendall's future performances will be "'ear 'ear!"

SRS


09 Dec 06 - 04:00 PM (#1904757)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: MaineDog

I understand that nurse's assistant. Last time I saw Kendall he was still whispering, so I got the urge to whisper also! Anyway, laughter is great medicine, and Kendall has my permission to laugh at me, but not out loud.
MD


09 Dec 06 - 04:02 PM (#1904759)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Deda

I've been off mudcat for so long that I'm sure I've been forgotten entirely. But for this thread, I just wanted to add my own wishes for full and fast recovery, and thanks for the great stories. (IMO, Maine is the greatest state in the union, though I don't get back there anymore. I can't imagine anything more valuable, more needed in this world than a Maine folksinger--especially Kendall.) Be well, be well.

Deda
(Amos' kid sister


09 Dec 06 - 04:02 PM (#1904760)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: fat B****rd

Good luck to you sir.


09 Dec 06 - 04:23 PM (#1904779)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: TRUBRIT

Can't wait to hear you use that voice again.......; I wish I could be there New Tear's Eve to hear the inaugural concert but -- visitors from overseas who (horror) don't like folk music!!!! Perhaps if the voice is well (ish) you can sing for us on Boxing Day?


09 Dec 06 - 04:27 PM (#1904783)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jacqui.c

Right now we're hoping for a speaking voice. There was scarring and rigidity to the right chord and that will probably affect the tone of Kendall's voice.

However, knowing the power of the Mudcat - lots of good wishes can't hurt, can they?


09 Dec 06 - 04:29 PM (#1904785)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Cruiser

Just be glad it wasn't a "Deep Throat" operation Mr. Kendall!

Good luck Sir. Neat nurse stories. Almost makes me want to visit the hospital.

"Now we ain't gonna get the Capt'n to shut up 'cause he's got a lot of lost time to make up... He's gonna be non-stop..."

And Bobert...some here might suggest that you could use a similar or more drastic throat operation to "shut you up"

However, I would strongly disagree. Mudcat would be, uh, well it would be, er...okay it would just not be the same without you. You are an original Mudcat classic.

____________________________________________________________________


09 Dec 06 - 04:45 PM (#1904793)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Liz the Squeak

Kendall... you just take care and do what Nurse Ratched says....

Nurse Ratched - that's not where you put the thermometer!

LTS


09 Dec 06 - 05:09 PM (#1904810)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jacqui.c

Nurse Ratched? WE don't need no Nurse Ratched here! Trust me, she's a real pussycat compared to the axe murderer (Big Mick's words) that he lives with!


09 Dec 06 - 05:42 PM (#1904834)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Severn

Best hopes and wishes from Maryland! Sounds like he's well on his way back!


09 Dec 06 - 05:49 PM (#1904837)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Alice

My voice teacher has done rehabilitation not only on performer's voice, but on her own, as well. She had a stroke and had to learn to sing and talk again, which included returning to the opera stage in Europe and the US.
When you can use the cords again, she says to begin with just humming a short note pitched slightly above the speaking level. Gradually lengthen the hum in duration and build the muscles up again day by day with the single note humming.


09 Dec 06 - 06:09 PM (#1904852)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Stilly River Sage

Sounds like very good advice!


09 Dec 06 - 06:33 PM (#1904875)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Amos

Geeze, Skipper, I don't what it's gonna be like, this using pieces of your ear to stitch up your vocal cords with. I have been told by some that you are more usually known to speak through a different part of your anatomy altogether. But I never believed 'em. It's a good thing you don't have a tin ear or trying to sing again would put you on your mettle, I guess.

I'll get my coat -- you heal perfectly.


A


09 Dec 06 - 06:41 PM (#1904881)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Jerry Rasmussen

Yep, I can hear Kendall now, saying that he can sing by ear.

Get well, will you Kendal: We all need you.

Jerry


09 Dec 06 - 06:51 PM (#1904886)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Charlie Baum

Positive vibrations are being sent your way.

--Azizi


Positive vibrations are the physics of what this operation is all about.

Best wishes for a speedy and complete recovery, Kendall.
And the Mudcat is the perfect place for you during your recovery period--let your fingers do the talking! (On the Internet, nobody can hear you scream.)

--Charlie Baum


09 Dec 06 - 06:57 PM (#1904890)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Hawker

Hey!
Hope this new op proves a great success Birthday Buddie, I am thinking of you and sending positive and healing vibes across the pond.
Enjoy the peace Jaqui, I am sure its going to get a whole lot noisier soon!
Love to you both,
Lucy


09 Dec 06 - 07:03 PM (#1904895)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Nancy King

Glad things seem to have gone well with the surgery, that this particular hospital experience was better than average, and that you're all back home again, with your sense of humor intact!

Now don't blow it by trying to talk too soon, Kendall! Good luck with the mending process, and I hope to see (and hear!) you in Maine in February!

Hugs to you and Jacqui (and Mary too -- sounds like she's earned her keep...)!

Nancy


09 Dec 06 - 07:59 PM (#1904937)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: kendall

They sure have. A priceless pair they be.


09 Dec 06 - 07:59 PM (#1904939)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Leadfingers

Having spent eight days on a respirator in an I C ward after parking a motor bike in entirely the wrong place at entirely the wrong speed
and only being able to communicate on bits of paper I can at least say
I know what its like ! Military Nurses seem to have a bit more common sense than most , 'cos I didnt have any problems like that ! Which is probably a good job , as trying to laugh on a Respirator is HARD work !
   Hang in there Cap'n , and I am even sorrier that I missed you this afternoon !


09 Dec 06 - 08:50 PM (#1904971)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: SINSULL

I can't believe that Alice is actually suggesting daily hummings so that Kendall can build up his muscle. Think whom you are addressing, Alice! I can see the dimples and grin from here.


09 Dec 06 - 09:39 PM (#1904993)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: frogprince

Wishing the Captain the best of outcomes.
For what it's worth: we knew an older gentleman who, in the process of acquiring a very distinguished service record in WWII, was wounded severely in the throat. The doctors told him outright he would never talk again. He worked his way, by sheer determination, back to a strong, clear, if slightly raspy, speaking voice; I don't know that he was ever a singer, but he could have so far as his rehabilitated voice was concerned. Hope some day to hear you sing.
                      Dean.


09 Dec 06 - 10:24 PM (#1905024)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: RangerSteve

You're in my prayers.

Steve


09 Dec 06 - 11:15 PM (#1905048)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Dan Schatz

Mostly quiet for how long? We'll see about that....

Kendall, if good wishes from a minister can help, you have mine. If not, go with Geeta's - she's a scientist. Either way, you're covered.

And don't worry about not having quite the singing voice when it's all over. This is FOLK music.

Keep well, my friend, and good luck.

Dan Schatz


09 Dec 06 - 11:15 PM (#1905049)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: freda underhill

what great news - jacqui, keep that axe handy, I've heard Nurse Ratched made an appearance at the hospital! someone should fix that old bat once & for all!

The world loves you Kendall! get well soon

hugs to all

freda


09 Dec 06 - 11:42 PM (#1905057)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Bert

Glad to hear that you haven't lost your sense of fun.

NOW! seeing as they are giving you a new voice - who's voice is it going to be?

Do you get to choose? Say between Bob Dylan, Johnnie Cash or maybe William Shatner.

Get well soon.


10 Dec 06 - 12:09 AM (#1905074)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: HuwG

Best wishes. Let's hope for complete success.


10 Dec 06 - 03:43 AM (#1905138)
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From: Roger the Skiffler

Belated best wishes from me too
RtS


10 Dec 06 - 04:15 AM (#1905148)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: bfdk

Becca,

I think that with a bit of practice, you could even Morse using squeaky toys; short-long long-short-long-long short etc... :o)))

Best wishes,

Bente


10 Dec 06 - 06:12 AM (#1905184)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: gnu

Morse code? I dare say the Cap'n is long familiar.

But, what if Seamus sees this? I wonder what he will squeak when he learns the code too.


10 Dec 06 - 06:23 AM (#1905192)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: bfdk

gnu, I'm not implying (Heaven forbid!!!) that the Capt'n doesn't know Morse code. I'm merely saying that the combination of squeaky toys and Morse code might take a bit of getting used to - for all concerned :o))

Best wishes,

Bente


10 Dec 06 - 06:24 AM (#1905193)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: John MacKenzie

I am reminded of a harmony group that I met at Sidmouth who at that time were calling themselves 'Four Chords Sake'
So Kendall, for chords sake, look after yourself.
Giok


"Oi Jacqui, I've got problems with this ear throat o' mine!"

I'll get my coat.


10 Dec 06 - 08:06 AM (#1905250)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Tinker

Okay I've just about cleaned up the energy here and will send out some good stuff to the Far North. I know Jacqui and Mary can keep you under control if we just supply a little bit of patient energy to sustain them. Keep writing and keep quite one day down two to go....
Big hugs and lovin'

tink


10 Dec 06 - 08:51 AM (#1905278)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: kendall

Bert, right now I'd settle for Daffy Duck's voice!

Bernie reminded me of something that happened to me on a previous visit to the hospital. I'm lying there and the nurse, a very young, inexperienced nurse came in with a foot long needle to draw blood. Being somewhat intimidated by this old salt she said "I'm sorry, but I have to give you a little prick." To which I replied, "That's ok, then I'll have a matched pair." It took her a while to hit my vein, and it is the size of a mop handle.


10 Dec 06 - 09:21 AM (#1905296)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: catspaw49

Your willie or your vein? Neither is believable of course, but I wondered..................

Spaw


10 Dec 06 - 09:25 AM (#1905299)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: NH Dave

Kendal, you have to remember that hospitals pay poorly, and hire cheap, so that the real nurses we were accustomed to in our youth have been replaced by a group of people just off the street, supervised by one real nurse for the entire floor. In this respect, hospital care has gone way, way down. On the other hand medical science has progressed so far and fast that even the cheap help can't totally diminish the miracles that can be achieved in medicine these days.

Get well soon, but don't push things too much. Good effects come from small steps forward, not giant attempts at leaps.

Mary - And you never said a word! Bad Mary.

Dave


10 Dec 06 - 09:45 AM (#1905304)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jacqui.c

Spaw - believe. :0)

Dave- we didn't want to say anything until the surgery was over and the surgeon was happy with the result. We're still really just holding our breath to see if there is any improvement.

We can't fault the hospital at all - the staff were all so helpful and kind. When we discussed getting Kendall discharged the nurse did say that sometimes the doctors have to be chased up to sign the forms but I explained that we would have a five hour drive back to Maine and, by 8.00am, I'd had a phone call to say that he was being let out at 10.00am. That wa a complete contrast to the Boston hospital where he had the laser surgery two years ago - I couldn't even get an update on his condition the day after surgery from the very rude person on the other end of the phone. Mary had to ring back and use her New York accent to get the info!

Kendall is being very good about not talking and now thinks that when the time comes for him to try to talk he will have to force himself to do it.


10 Dec 06 - 10:29 AM (#1905336)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Amos

Oy, Jacqui!! The day K has to force himself to have somp'n to say will be a cold day in hell!! He has a one-liner for every situation, and his attention is so lively the situation changes every few seconds.

A


10 Dec 06 - 10:38 AM (#1905342)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

The house is probably buried in an avalanche of notes. Singlehandedly he keeps Mead paper in business!


10 Dec 06 - 10:51 AM (#1905345)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: maeve

Loving prayers and laughter are streaming on your behalf, Kendall and Jacqui. Thanks for letting us know. The two of you balance one another so beautifully; I'm grateful you are together!

Thanks Mary, for your close care and support for our friends!

Love,

maeve


10 Dec 06 - 11:28 AM (#1905367)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Genie

Kendall, I'm delighted that your sense of humor and wit were in no way diminished by that scalpel!
Good vibrations coming from this other northern coastal area for your full recovery of your voice and health.
May things only be hard on you when they should be.

Genie
§;-D


10 Dec 06 - 11:47 AM (#1905382)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Stilly River Sage

Note to self: No beverages at the computer.


10 Dec 06 - 12:00 PM (#1905392)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: kendall

I had at least 5 different people come in and ask the same series of questions. After the second one I was so tempted to give different answers to each of them.


10 Dec 06 - 12:01 PM (#1905393)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Linda Goodman Zebooker

Kendall, here's to a good recovery. I'm adding you to my prayers for health. I'm looking forward to hearing your voice again someday. Both of you take care of each other.

Linda


10 Dec 06 - 12:09 PM (#1905398)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: JudyB

Glad to learn things are going well, and I'm looking forward to seeing - and hearing - you soon!

Good thoughts to you all!

Hugs,
JudyB


10 Dec 06 - 02:02 PM (#1905488)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Barry Finn

HeHeHe - Ken-doll, you'll be taking a bit of ribbing for the ear, I think. I know you've probably put you hand to your ear at some point to hear how flat you sound when you sing. Don't be offened if one of us asks you when you get back to warbbling if you'll kindly shove a finger down your throat so as not to be so sharp while singing, we all love that dull edge. If you're not up to singing in a weeks time, I got the cure, come to the shanty session with the gals next week & they can haul you around by the ear & you can fill in the parts that need those little yelps, you'll be like a reborn again Stan Hugill. I hope you're not laughing at all this you gotta take this stuff seriously, really. I can just see the veins popping ready to cus' me & all you can do is write me a note.
Well Cap', I'll be expecting to see in better shape than when I left you last, you hard a hard time walking never mind singing but I'm sure you were better in the morning. No, drinking that rot won't help the voice.
As always, I only tease you because you're my hero, get well.

Barry


10 Dec 06 - 03:26 PM (#1905555)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Dan Schatz

Now be kind, Barry. Lots of us sing by ear. Kendall will just do it a bit more literally than the rest.

Dan


10 Dec 06 - 03:37 PM (#1905565)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: frogprince

Hey, it beats the kid who had eyelids surgically contructed from his foreskin, and always looked cockeyed at pretty girls...


10 Dec 06 - 04:02 PM (#1905590)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Amos

On the other hand, let us hope he doesn't start listening to anyone who jumps down his throat.

A


10 Dec 06 - 04:06 PM (#1905592)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: My guru always said

Positive thoughts coming your way Kendall, candle lit for success!


10 Dec 06 - 04:12 PM (#1905598)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: John MacKenzie

Hope you don't suffer from dire ear Cap'n.
G.


10 Dec 06 - 06:43 PM (#1905750)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Crane Driver

That's a crap joke, Giok.

Kendal, get better - I want to understand you next time you telephone.

I thought you were one of those heavy breathers - or possibly a computer selling windows.

All best wishes from South Wales (which is NOT in England, OK?)

Andrew & Carole.


10 Dec 06 - 06:45 PM (#1905751)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: SussexCarole

PS...

Love & hugs

Carole & Andrew xxxxxx


10 Dec 06 - 07:46 PM (#1905823)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: vectis

All the best Kendall. Everything crossed for you down here in Sussex.
Mary


10 Dec 06 - 08:16 PM (#1905849)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: kendall

Tomorrow I'm going to attempt to speak. I almost dread it.


10 Dec 06 - 08:33 PM (#1905862)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Barry Finn

Wish I could be there to 'ear you.


Sometimes I just crack me up.

Barry


10 Dec 06 - 08:42 PM (#1905875)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jacqui.c

Maybe I'll havr a tape recorder ready for the first words - almost as momentous as the first ever phone call, I think! :0)


10 Dec 06 - 08:47 PM (#1905882)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

Okay! A contest!

What will be Kendall's first words?

(Kendall is not eligible to win.)


10 Dec 06 - 09:01 PM (#1905899)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: kendall

Bollox


10 Dec 06 - 09:08 PM (#1905903)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Bert

Okay! A(nother) contest!

Who will he sound like?

My guess is Anne Murray


10 Dec 06 - 09:12 PM (#1905907)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Barry Finn

I'm still waiting for him to take his first step.
Barry


10 Dec 06 - 09:35 PM (#1905921)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Dan Schatz

Just remember that where you start isn't where you'll end up. This is a process - even post surgery.

Good luck!

Dan


11 Dec 06 - 01:00 AM (#1906003)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Seamus Kennedy

Kendall, sorry I didn't post sooner.
All the best to you and Jacqui.
Can I have your little voicebox amplifier thingy?

Seamus


11 Dec 06 - 03:25 AM (#1906046)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: John MacKenzie

Seamus that's one thing you don't need mate.
Some people might suggest the reverse would be more suitable!
I think Kendalls first words will "Thank ****"
G.


11 Dec 06 - 03:26 AM (#1906049)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Micca

Naw, i reckon it will be, "Jacqui, let me out of this damned cellar"


11 Dec 06 - 04:35 AM (#1906073)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Strollin' Johnny

Good wishes from me to you you both.
S:0)


11 Dec 06 - 04:54 AM (#1906080)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: GUEST,Nurse Ratched

Kendall Morse, what are you doing out of my bed? Get back in that rubber suit immediatley!

Now then; Nursey will get you a nice enema for your tea and we can play pin the ear on the Kendall afterwards. Don't worry about your family, they're busy arranging your aftercare at the NYCFTTS and getting the documents signed. You just settle down here with Nursey and she'll tighten those handcuffs for you.

Nurse Ratched


11 Dec 06 - 05:06 AM (#1906086)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Liz the Squeak

Military Nurses seem to have a bit more common sense than most

Oh Leadfingers.... you were never in the hospital my sister worked in... she hasn't the sense God gave a lettuce. Sheep have more common sense than her. She makes GeeDubyaBee look intelligent. Hell, she makes BeeDubya look sensible!

Kendall, hope you're keeping schtumm and not shouting out of the cellar air vent again... you know it does no good!

Take care my dearie...

LTS


11 Dec 06 - 08:26 AM (#1906230)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

Jacqui, inquiring and even just plain nosey minds want to know what his first words were.

Was it a babble of all the dammed-up stuff he wasn't allowed to say, all coming out at once and making no sense at all?


11 Dec 06 - 09:56 AM (#1906327)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jacqui.c

He still hasn't spoken - he really is quite worried about whether he will have any voice.

For the moment it's probably not a bad thing - it will give the area more time to heal, but, at some point I'm going to have to really piss him off and make him say something. Either that or find him a difficult repair job to do and then the first word will be "goddamitsumbitch!"

I will keep you informed of any progress.


11 Dec 06 - 10:13 AM (#1906343)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: MMario

Given that the Captain can say more with the lift of an eyebrow then many comedians can in a fifteen minute monolog I worry for the state of our laugh muscles once he is rebuilt, better, stonger, faster then before!


11 Dec 06 - 10:56 AM (#1906385)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Dan Schatz

Jacqui, maybe you should take him for a ride in a barnstorming airplane at the Washington County Fair....

On second thought, maybe not.

Dan


11 Dec 06 - 11:44 AM (#1906426)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jacqui.c

OK - he spoke - for those in on the contest the first words were "What's for lunch?".

It had to be a subject close to the Captain's heart I suppose.....

The voice is there but very weak right now and a bit croaky. I think that's to be expected given what has been done to the equipment.

Oh, and we have been having that raised eyebrow a numnber of times since the op- it certainly speaks volumes!


11 Dec 06 - 11:46 AM (#1906428)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Becca72

Damn IT!!! I would have won the bet!! :-)


11 Dec 06 - 12:24 PM (#1906469)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Seamus Kennedy

Great! Just when we'd gotten his handwriting legible!

Seamus


11 Dec 06 - 12:24 PM (#1906470)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: lamarca

That's one small kvetch for a man, one giant #$@^%% for The Man...

Haven't been on the 'Cat for awhile - here's wishing you DO croak - then creak - then warble like da boids, Kendall!

Lots of love and good wishes to both of you!


11 Dec 06 - 01:04 PM (#1906512)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

Dang. I was certain he was gonna say, "Thank you! I never would have thought to paint my dory such a lovely pale rose!"


11 Dec 06 - 02:37 PM (#1906591)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Barry Finn

So Jacqui, what was the reply, or were you being a nice, good, kind & considerate wifey? God-dam-it Kendall go out & catch & I'll cook it!
Are the strippers running?
Best luck & wishes to you both.

Barry


11 Dec 06 - 02:40 PM (#1906595)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jacqui.c

Barry - I asked him what he wanted for lunch and we got Maine Shrimp - very nice too.


11 Dec 06 - 02:46 PM (#1906602)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Ebbie

"Are the strippers running?"

Barry, is it just possible that you meant 'stripers', as in striped bass? The other possibility paints a vivid image.


11 Dec 06 - 02:49 PM (#1906604)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Becca72

Just got the strangest visual on that one, myself.


11 Dec 06 - 03:43 PM (#1906671)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

I think that Kendall could have quoted from the play, "The Man Who Came To Dinner."

"I may vomit."


(Strippers running? In Maine?? In December? Wearing red wooly long johns and Bean boots, I betcha.)


11 Dec 06 - 03:47 PM (#1906675)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: John MacKenzie

Robin redbreasts!
G


11 Dec 06 - 04:00 PM (#1906689)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Bill D

Red-breasted Bed Thrashers. (THAT'LL get a comment or two, even from a tender throat!)


11 Dec 06 - 04:39 PM (#1906735)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Barry Finn

When you're out at sea & you start seeing them, it means that it's time to chase them home. I don't know what you people do when you catch them but here in New England we,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Hi Ebbie, what's a striped 'ass? Do you have strippers in Alaska? Do people there use a hook & line, what do you bait them with? Here we use,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,


And here I was thinking it was Kendall I was gonna get flack from, he knows when the strippers are running.


You people, get your minds out of the lobsters traps!

Barry


11 Dec 06 - 04:59 PM (#1906766)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: kendall

Sometimes it's more fun to just watch.


11 Dec 06 - 06:25 PM (#1906870)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Charley Noble

This is really a dangerous thread to review, coffee cup in hand.

But I should have known better than to click on it.

Give 'em hell, Captain!

Cheerily,
Charley Noble


11 Dec 06 - 07:43 PM (#1906933)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Big Mick

You just can't make this shit up......... LOL.

Mick


11 Dec 06 - 09:13 PM (#1906993)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

Sure you can, Mick. But then it's published as some sort of Washington report.


11 Dec 06 - 09:48 PM (#1907024)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Tinker

Barry, between the Church prostitutes and the Christmas season strippers you seem to be developing a particular pattern here. There just may be a song in this....you do specialize in work songs


12 Dec 06 - 10:14 AM (#1907398)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Hollowfox

Jay-zus, I go and visit my mother, I just leave you lot alone for a few days, and I come back to this...
Well, first things first, there are good thoughts flying out to the lot of you (Sins too), and the #$@!-reduction candle series starts up tonight when I get home from work.
You think it's badd drinking coffee and reading this thread, just try sneaking a look at it at work with nobody knowing.
And yes, I'm another former worker at Albany Medical Center. I'm glad they did a good job, and that the doctor was straight up that the operation *should* do something.
Last, but most important, I'm just glad you're alive and well, Kendall. Everything else is just details.


12 Dec 06 - 10:49 AM (#1907418)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: John MacKenzie

Just a little operation girl, neither ear nor there really!"
G


12 Dec 06 - 02:04 PM (#1907574)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Amos

Jeeze, make sure you get the SAME doc when you go for the followup exam. If you get some new guy, he's gonna look down your throat and go, "Ear! Ear! What's all this???".


A


12 Dec 06 - 04:13 PM (#1907704)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: kendall

Or, "What have we hair"?


12 Dec 06 - 04:17 PM (#1907709)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: John MacKenzie

Fur balls Cap'n?

G.


13 Dec 06 - 04:40 AM (#1908168)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Escamillo

Persons like the nurse you mention above are not uncommon, Kendall. The large majority of my customers are very similar (I am a systems developer)

Very best wishes for a complete success
Un abrazo - Andrés, in Buenos Aires


13 Dec 06 - 06:18 AM (#1908240)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: GUEST,Morticia

I can't leave you alone for five minutes, can I? Hope all is well,cap'n, take it easy. My love to you both.


13 Dec 06 - 09:27 AM (#1908381)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

Oh, Kendall Morse you have taken us to hell
Worrying about you and your operation,
Seems like it's been a year,
So it better come out clear,
Won't you knock this off shit off and please stay well?

(Apologies to Schooner Fare)


13 Dec 06 - 09:53 AM (#1908400)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Cruiser

Hey Kendall, I have an anatomical question for you to ask your doctor. Does that mean my uvula is now my eardrum?

(Uvula: that dangly thang hangin' down from the back of your buccal cavity/pharyngeal arch juncture that you always see in the mouth of a screaming Olive Oyl in Popeye cartoons)


13 Dec 06 - 10:44 AM (#1908441)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: John MacKenzie

I don't think he had acute angina Cruiser!
G.


13 Dec 06 - 10:59 AM (#1908447)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Becca72

Not anymore, Giok...


13 Dec 06 - 11:58 AM (#1908481)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

I've never found angina to be a cute.


13 Dec 06 - 12:08 PM (#1908494)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: John MacKenzie

Maybe this will help Rap.

"A young and very traditional Polish couple had been dating for
years. Both nearing thirty, they decided to get married. The
brides father approved of the marriage, but knew that his
daughter had a heart condition. Feeling obliged to tell his
future son-in-law about her medical condition, he arranged to
meet with him for a heart-to-heart discussion. The man said,
"Stosh, I couldn't be happier that you are marrying my daughter.
However, there's something about her you should know about".
The young man, looking worried, asked, "What is it?". The
father said, "Well, Annie has acute angina". To that, the young
Polish fellow replied "Whew, I'm glad... 'cuz she sure has
ugly tits".      

Yes I know it's not that funny, but that was what I had in mind when I posted!

Giok


13 Dec 06 - 12:19 PM (#1908496)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Amos

I don't think Olive Oyl's angina coulda been very cute, either.

A


13 Dec 06 - 01:11 PM (#1908536)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Cruiser

Okay to Giok's defense:

His wit was dry (I did not get it either). However, since I mentioned Olive Oyl he referenced her acute angina (I cannot verify she has one) and thus the joke that no one but Giok got. However, I am glad we got verification from the source.

I explained a bit of dry wit in another thread and got my hand slapped because I was told to explain it, ruined it. Some people need 'splaining to in order to "get" wit or a joke. It this case we all needed an explanation and then it was funny.

I wonder if Popeye (since he ate his spinnish) ever knew if Olive Oyl had acute angina? I know from the last Popeye cartoon I saw when I was a kid 40 plus years ago, Brutus never made it to first base, or did He! Maybe Olive was getting some on the side. The plot thickens.

Are Popeye cartoons available on DVD?!

Sorry I started a rash of thread drifts…back to the throat issue……


I bet slimy cold boiled Popeye spinach slithering down his esophagus would be good for Kendall's throat.


13 Dec 06 - 01:40 PM (#1908573)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

Okra. Ain't nothin' like over-boiled okra to slime on down the ol' throat.


13 Dec 06 - 02:01 PM (#1908588)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Becca72

Actually, I got Giok's joke. My response was based on the joke about the 90 year old woman who went to the doctors. He said "You've got acute angina" and she says, "Well, it used to be".


13 Dec 06 - 02:22 PM (#1908605)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Cruiser

Well, you must be smarter than the average angina out there.

(Your joke was funny, BTW)


13 Dec 06 - 02:25 PM (#1908606)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: gnu

You never heard that joke? Well I'll be a monkey's uncle Bob.


13 Dec 06 - 03:05 PM (#1908637)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Rapparee

I used to have an Uncle Bob.


13 Dec 06 - 03:19 PM (#1908646)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: John MacKenzie

Wayne Bobbit had an Uncle Willie Bob.
G.


29 Dec 06 - 09:04 AM (#1921261)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: jacqui.c

We got back yesterday from the post-op checkup in Albany.

His surgeon is very pleased with his progress but the false vocal chords are still tending to cloak the efforts of the true chords. Somehow Kendall has got to ease the tension in the area to let the vocal chords do their work. He's talikng about getting VERY drunk to see if that works so New Year's Eve could be interesting!

Shapshay suggested that, in a couple of week's time, Kendal should start with a voice therapist again and we're looking for one that takes Medicare. The one he has been seeing doesn't and costs the earth which, right now, we aren't in a position to pay. However, we have time to look for someone.

We have to go back to see Shapshay, probably when I get back from the UK in March, weather permitting. He's talking about the possibility of 'fine tuning' his work, although we're not sure what more he can do and, more to the point, what Kendall wants to go through. That will be his decision - I will stand back and leave him to sort that one out.

Many thanks to Peter and Kris Cady for putting us up on Wednesday night - it made for a much easier journey to Albany for the 11.20 appointment.


29 Dec 06 - 09:15 AM (#1921271)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Charley Noble

Jacqui-

Thanks for the update and we'll look forward to seeing you both at Sinsull's for New Year's.

Charley Noble and JudyB


29 Dec 06 - 10:01 AM (#1921300)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: SINSULL

Orange Juice and Vodka have been added to the menu. Chair is in place halfway between the food and the bathroom. "Stay!" "Chair, STAY!"

Glad all is well, Kendall and Jacqui.


29 Dec 06 - 10:18 AM (#1921318)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: Hawker

Thanks for the update, keeping all digits crossed!
Cheers, Lucy


29 Dec 06 - 10:49 AM (#1921339)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation
From: gnu

Yup... fingers and toes crossed here, too.


29 Dec 06 - 12:11 PM (#1921376)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: bbc

Don't forget--I'm just an hour from Albany (& you could probably visit Patons at the same time!).

best to both,

Barbara


29 Dec 06 - 01:36 PM (#1921413)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Bert

Love and good wishes on their way for a speedy and full recovery.


29 Dec 06 - 02:03 PM (#1921430)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Keith A of Hertford

All the best sir.
Keith.


29 Dec 06 - 03:59 PM (#1921513)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Stilly River Sage

Jacqui, there are more methods than alcohol for "easing tension." But you might not want to use a chair in the middle of a living room with all of your friends around.

;-> Good luck!


29 Dec 06 - 04:16 PM (#1921523)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Rapparee

Fine tuning, huh? Sounds like the guy put a peg in and wants to wrap the strings tighter. Of course, if Kendall gets tighter first....


29 Dec 06 - 04:24 PM (#1921532)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: SINSULL

I suppose I should mention that Kendall is trying reflexology, deep breathing exercises and a variety of other relaxation techniques. Over erving himself was meant as a joke.
SINS


29 Dec 06 - 05:14 PM (#1921577)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: GUEST,Cruz

Surely there are some good books on voice therapy that he could read and start out very slowly with those exercises.

Misuse seems dangerous to me realizing vocal cords are muscles and muscle memory is important. Otherwise, those cords may become "cords of wood" and not chords of music.

Basic solfege would work, but stay away from yodelling for a spell.


29 Dec 06 - 06:44 PM (#1921677)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Bobert

Gwetting drunk on New Year's Eve??? Hmmmmmm??? Never thought about that happenin'...

Hey, Capt'n... Go ahead and get fallin' down drunk, if ya' want... Heck, yer married, ain't ya'??? Ya' need a better excuse??? Why wait until New Year's Eve???

(But, Bobert... Jacqui is a wonderfull and beautiful womanz, ain't she???)

Well, yeah, but what's wrong with shackin' up???

Nevermind... I've lost this argument more times than Lucy has pulled the football from Charlie Brown...

But, yeah, do get drunk....

Bobert


30 Dec 06 - 08:33 AM (#1922115)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: kendall

One should always be drunk. That is all: the whole question. In order not to feel the horrible burden of Time, which is breaking your shoulders and bearing you to earth, you must be drunk without cease. But, drunk on what? On wine, poetry, or virtue, as you choose. But get drunk. And if sometime, on the steps of a palace, on the green grass of a ditch, in the dull solitude of your chamber, you awake with your intoxication already lessened or gone, ask of the wind, the wave, the star, the clock, of everything that flies, sobs, rolls, sings, talks, what is the hour? and the wind, the wave, the star, the bird, the clock will answer, "It is the hour to get drunk!" Not to be the martyred slave of time, get drunk; get drunk unceasingly. Wine, poetry, or virtue, as you choose. (Baudilaire)


30 Dec 06 - 08:35 AM (#1922118)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: John MacKenzie

I'll drink to that Kendall.
G


30 Dec 06 - 09:05 AM (#1922138)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Tannywheeler

Just as long as you keep understanding that telling story--musically, verbally, or in writing--is THE most important thing you can do with your life.....You can teach others to recognize and/or give love & understanding that way, as well as give both yourself. Keep telling story whatever way is given to you to do so. But I certainly recognize that frustration of not being able to use your own voice can make for reeeeeeeelllll stress & pressure. Nobody needs that kind of headache. Deine Gesund, mein Herr.    Tw


30 Dec 06 - 09:23 AM (#1922152)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: JennyO

Here's hoping for the best possible outcome for you Kendall and for the good of all concerned. Some warm relaxing energy is on its way from the sunny shores of Oz.

Jenny


30 Dec 06 - 11:19 AM (#1922231)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Becca72

I wasn't going to say anything, but I am my father's daughter and can't let it go...
To Tannywheeler....the most important thing he can do with his life is to continue to be a wonderful father, husband and grandfather and to continue BEING. Voice or no voice, stories or no stories. I'm just glad he's still here even if he can't talk.

That said, I hope the op works because I know how happy it will make him.


30 Dec 06 - 01:02 PM (#1922310)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: kendall

That's my baby, snif


30 Dec 06 - 11:37 PM (#1922835)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: DougR

I got the news a bit late, Kendall. Only today as a matter of fact. I hope the operation is a great success and that you don't end up a soprano. :>) Seriously, do what the doctor orders and mind your missus.
Best,
DougR


31 Dec 06 - 07:28 AM (#1923020)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: kendall

Thanks, Doug. I always listen to "She who must be obeyed"


31 Dec 06 - 07:33 AM (#1923024)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: jacqui.c

No he doesn't. He's a very naughty boy!


31 Dec 06 - 08:39 AM (#1923061)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: alanabit

Lucky girl Jacqui - bet you are having fun! Happy New Year to both of you and I hope the voice returns soon. I have been lurking here for details of the recovery and I want to add my good wishes to everyone else's.


31 Dec 06 - 03:59 PM (#1923444)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Elmer Fudd

I hope the fine tuning yields many a fine tune. Best wishes, and a very Happy New Year to both of you, Kendall and Jacqui. Wishing you health, happiness, copious music, good friends, great adventures, and anything you wish for yourselves.

Elmer


31 Dec 06 - 05:29 PM (#1923529)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: jacqui.c

What is they say about many a 'fine' tune played on an old fiddle.....
















I think I'd better head for the cellar. :0)


31 Dec 06 - 05:34 PM (#1923533)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Alice

how does the humming sound ;-)


31 Dec 06 - 05:34 PM (#1923534)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Alice

Auld Lang Syne sung for you tonight.
Alice


31 Dec 06 - 06:14 PM (#1923562)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Elmer Fudd

Haw!

E.


31 Dec 06 - 06:51 PM (#1923592)
Subject: RE: BS: Kendall's had another operation(update)
From: Big Al Whittle

all best wishes for 2007

al