I know I have skimmed rather than tried reading Goofus's diatribe (after all, there is some wet paint to watch dry and I can't do two things at once) but nowhere do I see any acknowledgment of someone's status.

Why would someone wish to be an ex gay? Other than being disturbed by the stigmatisation by nasty people, why would they see their choice of lover as a problem? Regardless of genetics versus conditioning versus choice and the rest of the smokescreen that can be used by either side of the non argument; why would someone wish to alter?

More specifically, what is the agenda behind offering to help people change?

I can see people dye their hair, I can see people lose weight and other changes, but their hair colour is changed, not cured. Losing weight may be a health benefit but isn't curative of anything.

I am married to a slim lady with dark hair. One of my ex girlfriends was a bubbly blonde. Do you think I prayed to be cured of bubbly blondes?

Sicko.