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This thread shows the massive difference of the USA from almost everywhere else.
Kat. I think you have (going back to your first big post on this thread) a very strong case, but why do you say "castration". My understanding is that the word refers specifically to the removal of the testes. As you posted elsewhere to a man, he had not the essential equipment to be a lesbian.
I sympathise with the re-empowerment of female language (if that is the right expression), but the analogue is not exact since castration destroys both sexual and procreative capacity, which female circumcision (which I think is the usual if less than wholly accurate term)does not.