BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???

Subject: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: GUEST,saulgoldie
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 05:21 PM

Well, we are anticipating the arrival of the cicadas. That should be a noise "treat." But at least it is natural. But what about other stuff, the stuff that humans make and impose on ourselves?

The UPS truck that stopped by a little while ago was properly muffled. Yet, it was very noisy just with the mechanical noise of the engine. Same with the construction trucks, front end loaders, and such. And lawnmowers and leaf blowers. And so on. And radios from cars that you KNOW that the person in the car is killing their ears because it is hurting YOUR ears from 50 feet away.

Some restaurants have some sort of soundscape that varies from somewhat soft to you-can't-talk-over-the-sound. Choice of soundscape varies, too--sometimes classical music (OK, I guess), sometimes pop, and in the Indian place we like to go, Indian music(!). But volumes vary widely. (Is this imposed on the joint by some suit in central office, or chosen by the manager?) Some pubs just have so much voice noise that I don't know how anyone can hear the person next to them, much less have a conversation and exchange phone numbers.

Emergency vehicles get louder so that you can hear them over the ever-improving sound insulation in your car because of which they must be still louder so that you can hear them, and then you have to get better sound insulation in your car to keep the noise out, and so on.

Some restaurants have accoustics the amplify the soundscape to a roar. And many places where people congregate, even medical waiting rooms have visual noise that you can't avoid, and that the staff get upset if you try to turn it off, even if noone is listening to/watching it. And in many stores these days, we are "serenaded" by whatever they play, mostly sales promotions--blue light special in aisle 6, etc.

Some of these sounds are "merely" annoying. Some are downright dangerous to the ears and cause permanent hearing loss, in addition to making those hearing it more jumpy.

If one complains about any of these, does that make one a "sound nazi?" Or are we "allowed" to complain and insist on a softer environment? Well, I have my own answer, of course. That is that we are absolutely entitled to a softer soundscape. It is even a Libertarian issue in that we have a right to not be assaulted, and these assaults are inescapable. Anyone care to comment?

Saul

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: kendall
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 05:29 PM

Our world is being polluted with unnecessary noise and it is getting much worse. I believe it is making us sick.
Recently at a grocery store I said to the clerk, "Will you please turn that damned racket down"? It was that ubiquitous screeching that tries to pass for music that invades our senses everywhere we go. He said, "Most people like it, some even sing along, they find it soothing!"
I said to him, "It has the opposite effect on me, it makes me want to break things or hurt someone."
He said, "Well, we can't have that." he turned it off.

Don't let them annoy you, complain, loudly!

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Ed T
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 05:36 PM

I am extremely sensitive to noise when I have migraines. I have to ask people if the sounds are really loud, as they seem much louder to me than others.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Jack the Sailor
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 05:49 PM

We live on a quiet street. Just a garbage truck or street sweeper once in a while. But about 2 miles east is the airport and the Marines in Jacksonville, NC area send very noisy Ospreys, Harriers and F18s down here on training runs, south and west are train tracks. In the summer, after a good rain, in the swamp near our back door we get peepers and crickets that can compete with the trains which are half a mile away.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: GUEST,leeneia
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 06:25 PM

I was in a popular barbecue place that has the usual loud environment - ugly music playing and customers trying to talk over it, often made louder by beer.

At one point I thought to myself, "This is so miserable. Some idiot is seeing how high and shrill an electric guitar can get, and a baby is crying, too." The so-called music was so shrill it was actually hurting me.

Only later did it click that the baby was naking those thin, sharp cries because the damn 'music' was hurting her. How puerile can you get, hurting a little baby with your high-energy noodling?

Next time I'll be prepared to SAY SOMETHING.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: gnu
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 06:39 PM

Kendall... some stores want to annoy you so that you buy and get out. Why some idiot thinks this sales "tactic" applies to a gocery store is beyond my comprehension. You would think they would want to sooooothe customers to get them to browse longer instead of the hamburger joint's "Eat and get out."

I go to The Superstore and I get Celine Dion wailing away and I just wanna get it and get out. I go to Sobeys and I get the sweetest tabboo. and it's just barely audible. THAT is what keeps me in the stroe. That and the girl watchin. >;-) I love flirtin with the deli gal... she's... ahem!

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Jack the Sailor
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 06:55 PM

I think I may to have to go with the guitarist on that one Leeneia. If he was paid to be there he needs to do his thing. If you are going to speak to anyone speak to the parent. Than again, who brings a baby to a loud BBQ joint? One of the musicians might well have been the parent.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Jack the Sailor
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 06:57 PM

"He said, "Well, we can't have that." he turned it off."

You are a persuasive man!

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: kendall
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 07:04 PM

When it is necessary. On the job it's called "Officer presence". Barnie Fife lacked it.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Bee-dubya-ell
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 07:29 PM

I dunno.... I never get exposed to a lot of really obnoxious "music" in stores. Just the same old shit that passes for "easy listening." It does sometimes make me want to grab Elton John by the neck and scream, "You guess that's why they call it the blues? What the fuck do you know about why anybody'd call it the blues? You're richer than four feet up a Brahma bull's ass! Last time you had any direct experience with anything resembling the blues, your name was still Reginald!" But it doesn't actually hurt my ears.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Jack the Sailor
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 07:45 PM

LOL Kendall!

BWL, LOL as well! I know Reg Dwight played blues piano with Long John Baldry. I've never heard him play blues piano, I don't think I've heard him play the blues. I've heard Baldry sing, saw him in concert once. I think his band was Canadian at that time. Actually I'm not sure that Baldry knows exactly why they call it the Blues either.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: DebC
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 08:05 PM

I have a real problem with excessive background noise. I have left restaurants where the acoustics are live because I couldn't have a conversation with whom I was sitting.

I cannot try to talk over this because it would damage my voice.

Times Square has a paralyzing effect on me. When I have to go to NYC (our Union office is in the theater district) I try to avoid Times Square by taking a different route to the subway.

Deb Cowan

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: ChanteyLass
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 09:47 PM

See, saulgoldie, it's not just you. And it's me, too! Sometimes I think I'm the only member of my generation who didn't ruin her hearing by listening to loud rock music. A few days ago I was complaining on another thread about the loud music in evening exercise classes at my local Y. I, too, hate it when the music from another car is so loud that my car shakes. Sometimes I go to a folk concert where the musicians are folk-rock types who are too loud for me. I try to sit as far away from the speakers as possible.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Rapparee
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 10:10 PM

Having hearing problems is bad enough. If there is too much noise from the "background music" in a restaurant we will ask them to turn it down. We haven't been refused yet. We also ask for a "quiet corner." Perhaps if more people did that it might have an effect.

Do we REALLY need nine or ten televisions showing sports? Especially re-runs? Even with the volume turned off? And why is Fox News on the TV when it's turned to a news station?

While I'm ranting: If you go to a restaurant which is something more than McDonald's why don't you leave your very young children, the ones who can't keep quiet and stay in one place, home? They engender thoughts of infanticide in other diners.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Bobert
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 10:11 PM

Shisssshhhhhh....

B~

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Gurney
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 10:53 PM

So many shops here are staffed by young people, who seem to be half deaf because they have their music playing so loudly on the speaker system that my wife won't stay in there, or sometime won't even GO in there.

When you stop at the lights, the lowered car next to you is often positively vibrating with base-and-drums. Deaf youngsters, again.

Or they will be. A audio survey was done in the main street of how loud people had their earphones set. The average was at a point well above where a business would have to supply its employees with earmuffs, and well into the risk-of-permanent-damage level.
So it is going to get worse with so many clothears about.

Then there is visual overload when you are driving.....

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 11:52 PM

Back in the mid-late 80s my young colleague (late 20s) reviewed music for the local free gig guide paper. He already had industrial deafness & had only been listening to music for about 10 years, 3 or 4 as a reviewer.

Like ChantyLass I didn't listen to LOUD music in my younger days - tho now my 61 year old ears are fading a bit.

sandra

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Jack the Sailor
Date: 14 Apr 13 - 11:54 PM

I won't stay in a restaurant playing Fox news. It upsets my digestion and I am not paying to be proselytized.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Joe Offer
Date: 15 Apr 13 - 02:12 AM

I suppose that many of us who are perturbed by noises, have a hearing loss. I've had my hearing loss since weapons qualification in Army basic training, when I didn't have time to put my earplugs back in when they fell out. I compensate for it pretty well, but I've never been able to shut out conflicting noises. Sometimes, it drives me near crazy. After some parties, I'm ready to kill. Three hours in a din is sheer torture.

I paid $80 for two tickets to a symphony performance this afternoon. I like live performances of classical music because I hear so much more in a live performance.

But there was a lady behind us with a breathing machine. It made a constant hum, and a regular blast of "ssss" when the air went up into her nose. I felt sympathy for the woman, but I have a hearing loss and could hear very little of the first half of the concert. I feel embarrassed being fussy about interfering sounds, but I really hate it when I hear conflicting noises when I want to hear music.

I also get really bugged at singarounds when there's talking while we're singing. Some people talk really loud, so they can communicate above the music - probably because they, too, have hearing losses. Or maybe it's just because they're assholes.

Am I out of line for being fussy about this? I realize that my hearing loss makes this stuff bother me more than it bothers most people, but it really ruins a musical experience for me when there is conflicting noise.

We moved for the second half of the concert, and I got to hear Pictures at an Exhibition without interference. It was lovely, and that was the piece I really wanted to hear. Hearing it live, I caught nuances I have never heard on recordings - and it's one of my favorite pieces.

-Joe-

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Mr Red
Date: 15 Apr 13 - 12:41 PM

Etymotic ear plugs & earphones to make your own soundscape.

Noise cancelling earphones only work well at lower frequencies - but are another solution.

But it is a problem, not least for wildlife. Songbirds have been measured at higher volumes to compete with noise that masks their territorial outpourings.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Jack the Sailor
Date: 15 Apr 13 - 12:50 PM

All y'all be thankful you are not marine mammals at US Navy practice range. Try having 130 db of sonar stuffed down your blowhole while a depth charge is going off!!

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: MGM·Lion
Date: 15 Apr 13 - 12:51 PM

"Actually I'm not sure that Baldry knows exactly why they call it the Blues either."
.,,.
Actually he doesn't 'know' anything ~~ he has been dead for 8 years!

~M~

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Ed T
Date: 15 Apr 13 - 02:35 PM

A few years back I lived in an apartment, with another directly above. Sound seemed to travel doward.

A single girl lived in the apartment, and she worked late at night. She frequently would arrive home from work with her boyfriend, and the loud "bedroom sounds", with yells and moans would always wake me up. Her boyfriend would eventually would leave and I had hopes for a sound sleep. But, often her girlfriend would arrive after he left. I would hear similar moans and yells from above that kept me awake for another half hour. No, I did not complain, as it seemed to personal to mention to her. I just got accustomed to it - but, it did cut into my sleep.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: GUEST,Kendall
Date: 15 Apr 13 - 08:09 PM

I've told more than a few shop keepers that I will not pay to be annoyed.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Don(Wyziwyg)T
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 06:10 AM

The single most infuriating noise related imposition, for me, is the way in which TV ad breaks are played at volume 11.

You've set your TV volume at a comfortable level for watching the loudest war film in existence, then comes the ad break. BAM!

Some Corporate Arsehole is screaming at the top of his voice, and just in case your next door neighbour can't hear him clearly, they whack the volume sky high and blast you out of your chair.

Don T.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: GUEST,CS
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 06:35 AM

In a garden centre this weekend and there was competition between R1 or KISS or whatever (nasty electronic muzak) and some little TV blaring out an advert for some new chemical whizz thing. I really won't be going back, he's lost this customer. It was pretty empty in there too. I can't see too many of those who spend the most dosh in garden centres (often middle aged and retired people) liking that kind of environment to browse for bulbs and flowers in.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: GUEST,CS
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 06:38 AM

And on gardening and retired people and noise, my fella gets wound up by the fact that retired next door neighbours will religiously mow and trim hedges and other noisy outdoor jobs on a Sunday when he likes to have a read or sit in the peace of the garden. It's not just the young folk that can be a noisy pain!

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: kendall
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 08:01 AM

It seems that commercials now outweigh the programs. I sometimes forget what I'm watching.
I remember when the movie "Midway" first hit the tv, I counted 51 commercials and it has gotten worse.
I will not watch or listen to them.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Becca72
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 09:36 AM

Being of a different generation, I listen to my music loud. I enjoy it that way. Things that make my father cringe. :-)
I am one of those who sings along in the grocery store if I know the song. I also have the ability to block out much of what is going on around me; the behavior of my fellow shoppers irritates me much quicker than the music the store is playing. I find it interesting that noise (read music) you don't like is "racket" but noise you do enjoy is fine. Just because it's not my taste doesn't mean I should be able to speak for those who are enjoying it.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Don(Wyziwyg)T
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 09:46 AM

All very fine for now Becca, but one day you will have to listen through a hearing aid because of the damage you are inflicting on your ears, which is fine, as long as you don't feel you have a right to damage the ears I have carefully looked after for 72 years by inflicting your preferred volume level on me.

I find many of your generation polluting the air around me on the erroneous assumption that I share their taste in music.

Don T.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Jack the Sailor
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 09:46 AM

>>>From: MtheGM - PM
Date: 15 Apr 13 - 12:51 PM

"Actually I'm not sure that Baldry knows exactly why they call it the Blues either."
.,,.
Actually he doesn't 'know' anything ~~ he has been dead for 8 years!

~M~ <<<

It is nice that someone noticed. I don't care what they say. You are a good man! :-)

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Becca72
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 09:51 AM

Don,

I'm in my 40s, not 20s. I also listen at my preferred volume in my car or in my home. Unless you are in my car or in my home your opinion means little to me.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: MGM·Lion
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 09:54 AM

Thanks, Jack. Nice to be appreciated!

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Becca72
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 09:56 AM

I didn't mean that last sentence quite as callously as it came out. But I won't take responsibility for being the first "loud music" generation. That's ridiculous. The 60s and 70s were just as loud as the 80s and 90s.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: MGM·Lion
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 10:05 AM

A relevant story IMO from my long-life recollections. I remember my father once, about 1970, holding forth on a programme he had heard on the radio. "There were these young people, and they pointed out to them that if they went on listening to music at the volume they kept playing it, they would finish up deaf. And do you know what they said? They answered that THEY DIDN'T CARE!" - he concluded in horror ~~ and took a long drag on his cigarette.

~M~

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Don(Wyziwyg)T
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 10:39 AM

""I didn't mean that last sentence quite as callously as it came out. But I won't take responsibility for being the first "loud music" generation. That's ridiculous. The 60s and 70s were just as loud as the 80s and 90s.""

Indeed they were Becca, but referring back to the post I responded to:
""I also have the ability to block out much of what is going on around me; the behavior of my fellow shoppers irritates me much quicker than the music the store is playing. I find it interesting that noise (read music) you don't like is "racket" but noise you do enjoy is fine. Just because it's not my taste doesn't mean I should be able to speak for those who are enjoying it."",

you do seem to be suggesting that if I want to go shopping, my ears too are fair game for people who feel they have a right to force music on me in every circumstance.

That seems more than ordinarily callous, if you'll excuse the comment, but not surprising these days, when 8000 watts of base in the boot of a mini, blasting the ears of all who pass by, is considered OK by the most thoughtless generation in history.

I'm glad you are not of that generation, but you do, I'm sure, see my point.

Don T.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Becca72
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 01:27 PM

You have combined two separate statements, Don. When I am enjoying my chosen music in the privacy of my own home or car I will and do play it as loud as I so choose.
I am also more tolerant of that music played in grocery stores, as if it isn't something I enjoy I can simply block it out. I have never been in a grocery store where the music was so loud as to be overwhelming.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Crowhugger
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 02:18 PM

I almost always wear my 15dB-reduction ear plugs outside the house. Always wear them for highway driving, also for low speed driving if I'll have the radio on; usually wear them for instrumental music-making with more than 1 or 2 others (depending on the room and the players), rarely need them for a cappella singing. I wouldn't dream of entering a chain restaurant like Kelsey's or Boston Pizza without them. As for stores with too-loud music, I often will go in and tell them I need [what they sell] but shall buy it where the music volume does not cause me pain, and then I leave. I have no patience for noise pollution. While I'm grousing about pollution, I'll add my 2 cents about scent pollution too--both types are a problem in our back yard. Yes, lawnmowers and leaf blowers, etc., which are made all the worse from being accompanied by the wretched stink of "fresh scented" dryer sheets that literally sting my nostrils as much as leaf blowers sting my ears. I am not generally in favour of gated communities but if one opens up that restricts noise and forbids perfumes, I'll move there in a flash!

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: MGM·Lion
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 02:18 PM

I was once, many years ago, in the beautiful old Lewis's department store in Liverpool. Those who knew it will remember its interesting layout: a vast central atrium with the floors rising gallery style. Suddenly, notes of music came over the tannoy. "Oh, tut! no escaping that horrible muzak!" the annoyed expressions all around said ~~ which changed completely as we glanced upward to the edge of the top gallery, and saw a harpsichordist and a couple of lutenists and violists playing the beautiful baroque music we were hearing -- live ! Frowns were replaced by smiles all around. I have been contemplating the psychological implications of that incident, and those reactions, ever since.

~M~

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: kendall
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 04:06 PM

It all boils down to manners. I would never inflict my music on anyone. It's the Golden rule.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Jack the Sailor
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 04:53 PM

"you do seem to be suggesting that if I want to go shopping, my ears too are fair game for people who feel they have a right to force music on me in every circumstance."

I would suggest that the owners of the property, the store in this case, have a right to run their business as they see fit and you have options of complaining, shopping elsewhere or putting up with it.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: GUEST,Eliza
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 05:06 PM

I'm quite hypersensitive to noise, not just music but any intrusive or over-loud sound. But I'm very lucky, as our tiny village is completely silent at night, (and pitch dark into the bargain as there are no street lights.) Over-exposure to stimulation such as noise or light does, I'm sure, make us nervy and aggressive. It isn't natural.
I remember vividly last autumn sitting on a bale of straw at the edge of a newly-ploughed field near here (in Norfolk UK). My feet were on the good earth and the silence was palpable. I could almost feel Nature breathing gently, and felt tears come to my eyes. It was truly a memorable and beautiful moment of total peace.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: GUEST,roderick warner
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 05:17 PM

Moan moan moan... I'm going to put on some of my favourite band's music: Wolf Eyes - and crank it up. I'm 66...

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: GUEST,Kendall
Date: 16 Apr 13 - 07:33 PM

They are your ears, Mate. Ruin them if you wish.

My problem is with UNNECESSARY noise. Motorcycles with no mufflers, idiots in traffic with speakers that are worth far more than the car they are in. Oh, I also have a problem with stupidity.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Don(Wyziwyg)T
Date: 17 Apr 13 - 09:24 AM

""I would suggest that the owners of the property, the store in this case, have a right to run their business as they see fit and you have options of complaining, shopping elsewhere or putting up with it.""

Just what I'd expect from you Jack, supporting those who inflict whatever they want on others. I do indeed shop where I don't have to have that crap, but I certainly suffer on the street from imbecile radioheads with multi megawatt motorised boom boxes.

Now let's hear your words of wisdom about how they too have a right to ride roughshod over my rights.

Don T.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: kendall
Date: 17 Apr 13 - 09:42 AM

Your right to make a joyful noise unto yourself stops where my ears begin.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Jack the Sailor
Date: 17 Apr 13 - 09:59 AM

Don, I am completely in agreement with you and Kendall about those big burly grown up hairy children and their expensive noisemakers.

The Harley's with loud pipes should be illegal everywhere. When I lived in Ottawa the were banned in the down town. Making loud noises to intentionally bother and get attention from other users of the street should be subject to legal penalty. Confiscation would work best.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: GUEST
Date: 17 Apr 13 - 10:59 AM

Selfishness and lack of basic manners, that's what it boils down to.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: Dorothy Parshall
Date: 17 Apr 13 - 05:07 PM

I am certainly appreciative of Kendall's remarks - all of them. Also of leaving a store or other venue that that pollutes my ears or nostrils - connected to my brain which takes issue with being assaulted.

My idea of real living is NO noise but the wildlife, no lights at night but those provided, or not, by nature, no odours but those indigenous to my home turf. Not easy to achieve these days!

I am told I have a "slight" hearing loss but my sensitivity to noise requires ear plugs in pocket at all times. It is my brain damage from environmental toxins which make it difficult to impossible to separate sounds - and carry on a conversation with background noise. It is called Auditory Processing disorder and is in the brain, not the ears. My partner mediates between me and the world by interpreting for me, not because I cannot hear but because I hear a mess of goulash and cannot separate out the meat.

Subject: RE: BS: NOISE...Is It Just Me???
From: GUEST,kendall
Date: 18 Apr 13 - 08:13 AM

I have that same problem. If two or more people are talking at once, I can not understand any of them. I may be rude, but I often speak out ONE AT A TIME PLEASE!