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Your First Time. Be Honest.

mousethief 29 Nov 01 - 03:46 PM
GUEST,Alex Hudson 29 Nov 01 - 02:19 PM
WyoWoman 28 Nov 01 - 08:31 PM
Bates from Birregurra 28 Nov 01 - 07:46 AM
Little Hawk 27 Nov 01 - 11:45 PM
SINSULL 27 Nov 01 - 11:14 PM
Jerry Rasmussen 27 Nov 01 - 10:28 PM
53 27 Nov 01 - 09:45 PM
Tweed 27 Nov 01 - 07:45 PM
vectis 27 Nov 01 - 07:02 PM
GUEST,John Barden 27 Nov 01 - 10:31 AM
Jim Krause 13 Sep 01 - 03:22 PM
Bert 13 Sep 01 - 09:58 AM
Steveie1 13 Sep 01 - 08:31 AM
GUEST,Jeanene 13 Sep 01 - 04:19 AM
Benjamin 13 Sep 01 - 02:16 AM
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Steve in Idaho 12 Sep 01 - 05:42 PM
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Rt Revd Sir jOhn from Hull 11 Sep 01 - 04:54 PM
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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: mousethief
Date: 29 Nov 01 - 03:46 PM

I have no idea how old I was, except "less than 10." The song was "Up in the Air, Junior Birdmen" and the audience was a passle of neighborhood high school or junior high school girls who were having a "talent show" in their backyard. I watched their "talents" (which I totally have forgotten) then they insisted that I do something as "payment." I felt trapped and tricked, but I sang the song anyway.

Alex


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: GUEST,Alex Hudson
Date: 29 Nov 01 - 02:19 PM

Handel's 'Messiah' beat football As An Alumnus from 1936, I have been getting literature telling of the wonderful people and programs in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Currently there is all the hype for the football team. I saw only one college football game the opener in 1934 against Michigan State, which was a big upset.

I sold my student tickets to eat a little better. I was working in the Women's League Cafeteria, which I thought was the better place for good food. The men and women with whom I worked provide the only socialization for an engineering student in an arcane major Engineering Mechanics.

It also provided an incident which shaped my later life: at a picnic in the summer of 1936, 20 to 30 were enjoying a songfest mostly of the popular tunes of the day, until someone started, "Halleluiah." It was not familiar to me, but I was entranced. Not all were singing the tune as I could hear it, but I was told that this was a famous and familiar chorus from Handel's Messiah, and was in four-part harmony.

When I graduated and went home, I joined a church choir, more or less under lenient tests. When I was transferred to the Cleveland office, I found a church near my rooming house that had a choir that sounded great, and the bulletin asked for those interested to try out on the following Wednesday. Eventually, this choir was one of two asked to provide a nucleus for a chorus to accompany the Cleveland Orchestra under George Szell in Beethoven's "Ninth."

I would like to hear from and about some of the men and women who worked at the League in 1934-1936. We had some memorable visitors that I recall, Lily Pons and Helen Jepson; Alla Nazimova and Romney Brent. We got to see them up close, and wonder.

A secondary effect has been writing verses for the choirs in which I have sung. One I like best is:

You like to sing, and I like to sing,
We sing in our church choir.
Some sing high and some sing low,
And some sing even higher.

At times, we sing like angels,
Run chills up and down our spine.
And then we will tell ourselves:
"One of those voices is Mine."
Alex Hudson '36
Cleveland


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: WyoWoman
Date: 28 Nov 01 - 08:31 PM

I was in the third grade and sang a lovely rendition of "Just a Dainty Little Fairy." Did choreography as well, turning around in a circle and plunking my magic twanger toward the audience at appropriate moments. My gauzy wings, as I recall, were made from muslin stitched onto two coat hangers.

I think I could remember how my mom did that costume if anyone would like to do their own. Catspaw? Rick?

ww


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Bates from Birregurra
Date: 28 Nov 01 - 07:46 AM

When I was about nine years old, I sang the Tenessee (does that have 2 n's?) Walz at a Punch and Judy show on the beach at Whitley Bay in North Eastern England.

I won an ice cream!

I woz hooked!

Cheers from Oz


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Little Hawk
Date: 27 Nov 01 - 11:45 PM

You think I can remember that? God knows. I was singing in school here and there from a very early age. Wait a minute....... It might have been a solo in one of the Christmas plays..."I, said the sheep with curly horn, I gave him my wool for his blanket warm, I gave him my wool on Christmas morn..."

Yeah. That was probably my first official solo in the school assembly hall. Pretty scary.

On top of that, I was an atheist at the time...the most rational and scientific kid I ever knew...sort of a little Wolfgang in miniature! :-) Talk about a conflict of interest! I thought all that Jesus stuff was total and utter fantasy on the part of some very impressionable people.

- LH


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: SINSULL
Date: 27 Nov 01 - 11:14 PM

2nd or 3rd Grade Midterms. We had to sing in front of the class for our Music grade. After 15 renditions of "Silent Night" and "Oh Little Town Of Bethlehem", I decide to do a song I had learned from my father. Two lines into "Boston Burglar", Sister Blister bellowed "You better get the first train out of Boston if you don't want to fail music!". Quick on my feet even then, I immediately went into "Whenever I Feel Afraid". After that I never sang before non-family until Barry Finn's party last year.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Jerry Rasmussen
Date: 27 Nov 01 - 10:28 PM

1961 at the Gaslight Cafe in Greenwich Village. Dave Vano Ronk ran a Hootenanny, and he encouraged everyone to get up and sing a couple of songs. If he could talk a half a dozen young squirts to get up and sing a couple of songs each, he could go upstairs to the Kettle Of Fish, have a few beers and entertain his cronies. I was scared to death... had been playing guitar and singing for about ten years and had never sang in public. I figured that there was no sense rushing into things. I don't honestly remember what I sang, but it was surely determinedly simple, sung in the most nasal, old, toothless voice I could recreate. But, I got through it because once I started singing, the song took over. If you really love something, it can calm you down.

Jerry


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: 53
Date: 27 Nov 01 - 09:45 PM

i believe it was in december of 1965, our little trio played at a christmas party nad i have just recently found pictures, i was playing a gibson melody maker and the other guitar player was playing a truetone guitar and we had a singer and my sister played the drum and the hi hat and the ride cymbal, boy how time flies. BOB


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Tweed
Date: 27 Nov 01 - 07:45 PM

At a place called fittingly "The Place" in central Indiana. I was sixteen and played folky stuff during the house band's breaks. I think I just closed my eyes and prayed I wouldn't forget any words to "Trouble in Mind" and "Bob Dylan's Dream". There was a thin girl sitting crosslegged up front who liked to read Kerouac and carried a copy of "On The Road" with her everywhere.....


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: vectis
Date: 27 Nov 01 - 07:02 PM

Hi John.
Love Mary


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: GUEST,John Barden
Date: 27 Nov 01 - 10:31 AM

I didn't pick up a guitar until August 1993, at the tender age of 48! I had been forced to learn a couple of songs by the Morris dancing side I had joined 2 years earlier, and whilst joining in the singing a couple of them said I had a good voice and should consider singing a solo. So in February of 1993 I sang 'Shoals of Herring' and 'Manchester Rambler' - both Ewan McColl songs at the sides dinner party, and although I was somewhat nervous I found the experience uplifting. It was fun! Seriously good fun!

Now 8 years later I am a singer songwriter with 2 tapes and one CD to my name, and I just love the joy of singing and playing. I have played at some of the bigger festivals in England, and even have a following of sorts I wish I'd have taken it up sooner now, but hey, it's seriously good fun.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Jim Krause
Date: 13 Sep 01 - 03:22 PM

Oh yeah, Rick. How well I remember the first time. I was asked to sing something in church. I had only been playing guitar about six months, would you believe! I barely knew A, D, and E7, let alone C, G, and I couldn't make F at all yet, as I recall. I was so uncomfortable at the thought of it, that at the last minute, I turned to the girl sitting next to me and asked her if she'd help me out. I hadn't memorized the verses, and knew the chorus only. Fortunately, with a little persuasion from ol' silver tongued me, she said yes. As I recall, she had a pretty good voice, and it all came off. Everybody thought we'd planned it that way.
Jim


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Bert
Date: 13 Sep 01 - 09:58 AM

Age about 9 or 10 at Saturday Morning Movie Matinee for kids. Sang Old Dun Cow.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Steveie1
Date: 13 Sep 01 - 08:31 AM

Apart from school choirs etc, my first paid performance was in 1967 or 68. I'm a believer by the Monkeys was at No1 in the UK charts.

I was 15 the band was called Link Up (Naff eh!) the event was at a local girls school dance (Barham High Scgool for Girls). The fee was £1 - 10 shillings for the band an the same to a Cancer charity.

Very nerve racking with about 200 girls and no boys in the audience. Heaven! I can even remember some of their names and faces etc! (Well you said be honest!)


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: GUEST,Jeanene
Date: 13 Sep 01 - 04:19 AM

My first paid gig (and one of my earliest performances in front of an audience) was for the Clay County Coon Hunters, in Clay County, MO, in 1962 or 1963. My PE teacher at William Jewell College (Liberty, MO) was a member and got me the 'booking,' for which I was paid $10.00.
When I got there, I learned that I was to sing after we all ate --a big mistake!
The main entree was--what else?--raccoon--which tasted a lot like (I imagine) burnt tires.
I had my choice of singing before or after a 30-minute movie on fishing. I (wisely) chose to be the opening act.
I thought, naïvely, that these 'country' folks would like bluegrass and folk music, so I sang, "Copper Kettle," "Old Blue," and something else like that. ... Total flop!
Too bad I didn't know any Hank Williams at the time!
Ah, show biz!
Jeanene


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Benjamin
Date: 13 Sep 01 - 02:16 AM

I've always been primarly an insturmentalist. I played solo recitials when I was 8 on the violin (I no longer play the violin though). The first time I remember singing by myself was last year Augusta. I sang a gosple song I had learned earlier in the week. It went over quite well. I'm not sure I don't do it more often. I still perform as an insturmentalist (guitar) occasionaly. I just haven't had the opportunity to sing. We'll see what this year holds though (fall quarter begins a week from Monday I believe).


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: GUEST,Chip2447
Date: 12 Sep 01 - 11:35 PM

Still waiting for that first time. I hope to audition for next years Ren Fest season. Provided that I can keep cats from becoming suicidal and dogs from turning MAD at the sound of my singing voice.
Chip2447


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Uncle_DaveO
Date: 12 Sep 01 - 06:16 PM

Leaving little-kid family performances aside, when I was in college, in about '50 or so, I was a new recruit to the (approximate name) Minneapolis-St.Paul Hiking Club, a large organization, which was holding a membership campaign, with the membership divided into two teams, the Cowboys and the Indians. The idea was to see which team brought in the most new members. The losers had to pay for the refreshments at a party, and give a talent show. I'd just been brought in by the Cowboys. We lost.

There was the BIG party at the end of the membership contest period, and I (a budding folksinger and neophyte guitarist) was asked to sing on the Cowboys' behalf as part of the program. I'm pretty sure there were at least a hundred people there. I sang two or three songs; don't remember all of them, but one was The Cute Little Window (Bonnie Wee Lassie). From stagefright I hung up stone cold with blank-mind-itis in the middle of one of them, but passed it off with some alleged witticism and proceeded to The Cute Little Window. Everyone was kind, I'm glad to say. All I can say is, I lived through it, continued singing, and fifty years later I'm still at it!

Dave Oesterreich


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Steve in Idaho
Date: 12 Sep 01 - 05:42 PM

I didn't start playing until my 30's either. But my first public gig was in Idaho City, Idaho in 1975, we played in a bar called the "Miner's Exchange." It was a regulation bar from when the gold rush/silver rush days of the 1800s. All mahogany wood bar the length of the room. Gorgeous. Also rowdy! I worked as a bouncer on the nights when we didn't have the stage and made more money bouncing! Played with a guy named Dick Polley who was a great front man and new a million songs. I was, and sort of still am, a flat picker so I played lead and sang harmony. Geez I know the first line to a million songs! I don't remember the first song but we did a lot of Willy Nelson, Don Williams, and others of that era. I played for about two or three years and gave it up. I never liked playing on stage but loved the music. Of late I've played a couple of churches with friends over the past year, a local musicians benefit, and the Farm Bureau Insurance gathering. They love the old songs of Ernest Tubbs, WW-II, and especially my version of "Frankie and Johnny." Still don't like playing on stage - Peace - Steve


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Jeremiah McCaw
Date: 12 Sep 01 - 04:51 PM

First time I ever sang in public? About 10:30 in the evening standing in line outside the Riverboat, waiting to get in for Lightfoot's midnight show ("Spin, Spin, Spin" had just hit the airwaves and now everybody else knew about him, too, dammit). I told my companions about a song by Phil Ochs called "Is There Anybody Here" and very quietly (I thought) sang a couple of verses for them. Finished and was thoroughly astounded to hear applause from the others in the line. Freaked me out more than somewhat!


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: John P
Date: 12 Sep 01 - 08:19 AM

I was fifteen when I joined my first rock band as the organ player in 1969. Embarrassingly, I can't remember the name of the band. Our first gig was at a dance at Gull Lake Junior High School in Richland, Michigan. I don't remember what we played first. I only remember three songs that band did: "Matchstick Men", "You Keep Me Hanging On", and "San Francisco". I'm sure we played all of those that night.

JP


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Kim C
Date: 11 Sep 01 - 05:16 PM

Silent Night, first-grade Christmas pageant, 1973.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Rt Revd Sir jOhn from Hull
Date: 11 Sep 01 - 04:54 PM


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Pete Peterson
Date: 27 May 99 - 03:35 PM

1959, high school talent show. I had a $29.95 Stella guitar, combination hygrometer and guitar (the warp in the neck was directly proportional to the relative humidity) and I had been playing for about four months and the blood poisoning (high action, steel strings, uncalloused fingers) had subsided. I sang Tom Lehrer's Poisoning Pigeons in the Park. Went over great (if you can't be good sing something funny). Years later I became a pesticide formulation chemist. How's THAT for foreshadowing? PETE


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Richard Bridge
Date: 27 May 99 - 03:08 PM

Ah-hah. I should have gone back to the old thread later on, and then fought with the technoogy. Perhaps this weekend.

Now, about that J4 van....


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: The Shambles
Date: 27 May 99 - 11:05 AM

Dan

Sounds pretty much to me that you started at the top?

I'm sure glad Doc Watson wasn't there when I played.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: alison
Date: 26 May 99 - 10:20 PM

I'm sorry.....I can't resist this....

It was dark, he was a hunk, we were in love..... **grin** hahahaha

loved the vision of the mushroomless rabbit, Peter, my 3 year old wants to know why I'm laughing so much...

Here's the thread where you can read Piddlin' Pete

I can't remember what I sang, but I know I was about 6 years old and the teacher took me to the P1 (4 year old classroom) made me stand on a desk and sing for them, then followed many years in school choirs, orchestras and bands and church groups (got my girl guide folk singer badge.. still have it.. looks like a couple of faceless monks playing guitars...)..... all great for building confidence......

slainte

alison


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Liam's Brother
Date: 26 May 99 - 07:25 PM

The first (and only, I believe) Queens College Folk Festival... about 1963. Not a bad lineup... Mississippi John Hurt, Doc Watson, Pat Sky, Michael Cooney + the winners of the talent contest from earlier in the day... that was another fellow and myself. What I really remember was being on an enormous stage and not being able to see anything beyond the blinding spotlights. I sang 2 songs. I think one was Barbara Allen. People applauded and then I walked off. I've done quite a few gigs since then but that was the biggest stage and they were the brightest lights of all.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Richard Bridge
Date: 26 May 99 - 05:17 PM

1. Piddlin Pete - there was a thread about it a year ago, maybe. Has it got a tune?

2. J4 camper van - no-one still has one of them outside a museum surely? The last one I remember was when I was at university about 30 years ago and it was an old van then.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: The Shambles
Date: 26 May 99 - 01:49 PM

LEJ

I had enough HANG-UPS in those days, thanks.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Cap't Bob
Date: 26 May 99 - 01:45 PM

Well.....er....lets see. The first I sang in public was at the Methodists church. Two of us cubs scouts were to sing "Jesus Want's Me For A Sumbeam". It was actually a duet and we practiced all week for the occasion. Everything seemed just fine until we started singing with the accompanists who played the song a key or two above our upper limits. Oh the terror when we got to the high notes and more or less fell apart. Then there was the looks on the faces of all those people trying their best to keep form breaking out in laughter.

Cap't Bob


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Peter T.
Date: 25 May 99 - 02:35 PM

Dear LEJ,
No.
Yours, Peter T. (P.S. I meant kindergarten teachers).


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Jon W.
Date: 25 May 99 - 12:46 PM

I played bass and guitar for a few talent shows, but my first time singing in "public" was at a family reunion. I wanted to do the song "Jack Haggarty" with my wife. She is a professional quality singer, having majored in music, sung in A Capella Choir at the University level, etc. She didn't think it was very necessary to rehearse, I guess, because we only ran through the song once or twice. We alternated verses, I strummed along on guitar, and the performance was dreadful. My wife was humiliated. She said we didn't sing on key, and frankly, most of the audience (my extended family) weren't paying attention anyway. My cousin did come up and congratulate me on the song. I apologized for being off key, but he told me that it wasn't I, but my wife, who was singing off key. In fairness to her, she couldn't hear the guitar very well - the acoustics were miserable. I've never told her what my cousin said, but it gave me the confidence to keep trying. It was several years before she would agree to perform with me again - and that time we rehearsed several times, and ran through the song (Neil Young's "Harvest Moon") again once or twice in the actual venue with the sound equipment, before the audience arrived. This time even my wife said I did good. I'm still very much a beginner - every time feels like my first time - but I'm gaining confidence. By the way I'm in my 40's now.

Jon W.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: LEJ
Date: 25 May 99 - 12:46 PM

Peter, that's hilarious! Maybe even You can laugh about it now? :)LEJ


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Peter T.
Date: 25 May 99 - 10:42 AM

I have never sung in public (except Gilbert and Sullivan on stage), but my first performance ever was the worst disaster I have have had on a stage, and nearly put me off everything for life. I was 4 years old, and we had this pageant, where there were 7 boy rabbits and 7 girl mushrooms, and they would dance around, and then it would start to rain, and the rabbits would take cover underneath the mushrooms. Got the setup? I was the 7th rabbit. On the day of the pageant, the 7th mushroom got sick, AND NOBODY TOLD ME. We all got out on stage, and danced around, and then it started raining, and everyone got under their mushroom but me. I was left alone in the middle of the stage in my rabbit suit, weeping and howling. I have never trusted girl mushrooms, 4th grade schoolteachers, or much of anything since.
It is only a short bunny hop from that to Greek tragedy, folks.
Yours, Peter T.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: folk1234
Date: 25 May 99 - 10:31 AM

After many years of safely singing folk songs from the earthly bound cages of car and shower, I rediscovered folk music in 1988 thanks to the Branford Folk Music Socitey (CT). I truly believed that I was the only person in the entire world who still liked traditional music. I then bought a guitar, took introductory lessons in an evening public education program, and began going to concerts and house hoots. I very weakly attemped a few songs, but I can't say I really performed. I gained confidence and exposure over the next several years (Pinewoods '89 & '91, Swannanoa Gathering '93, Houston Folk Music Society, and Oklahoma City Traditional Music Assn) until I was ready to perform in public. Finally my public debut (9/93) was with The Oklahoma Traditions as we performed at the Nichols Hills Arts Fest. I played back up guitar, sang harmony, and lead in the singing of "The Whistling Gypsy Rover" At this point I was 54 yrs old!

I since have been to the Augusta Heritage '95 and back to Pinewoods '97 (plan to go again in 2000). I have to thank the wonderful people of local Folk Music organizations (Branford, Houston, OKC) and the great faculty and students at folk music camps for their warm welcome, encouragement, and sharing of expertise and music. I'm truly looking forward to making music with some other 'catters!


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Steve Parkes
Date: 25 May 99 - 09:28 AM

Ah, how I remember...! One May evening in 1969 a nervous seventeen-year-old (me!) took his guitar and his girlfriend and his best friend and his girlfriend (for moral suport) to the Songsmiths' Folk Club at the Fitter's Arms in Walsall. I sang "I love you"* by the Goons, and followed it with "Draft-dodger Rag" by Phil Ochs (with a ready-made introductory story - Phil's first gig when he came to the UK was at the Songsmiths'). After a couple of bars, it was obvious I couldn't sing out in the key I'd pitched it at (C, probably), and I started again in G, transposing the chords as I went along. I climbed down from the stage a nervous wreck - but I was hooked!

And I learned a valuable lesson: always practice loud!

*The words:
I love you,
Oh yes I do.
I love your brother,
And your sister Sue. I love your Pa,
And your dear cousin Lou,
But most of all my darling,
I love ... your brother!


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: puzzled
Date: 25 May 99 - 09:11 AM

The other thing I learned from that first time. Whether playing solo or with the band I always play and sing from memory.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: puzzled
Date: 25 May 99 - 08:50 AM

I could have at least two firsts since i now play a different instrument than i did as a young person.  But there was a many years in between so i will tell about what i play now. 
About Twenty years ago i watched a man play ragtime.  I stood there thinking, "I bet i could learn to do that." I could read music so i bought some ragtime sheet music and i started teaching myself to play the piano.  I was 30 years old. Very slow going at first but i kept at it.  One of the things i did was to put an old upright in my business.  I would sit down to play for relaxation and i would also be able to practice on my dinner break on the days when i stayed way late.  One day about 6 years after i had started learning to play a woman came into the shop while i was practicing on a dinner break and asked me if i would come play for a special event the local senior center was doing.  It was two months down the road.  I tried to beg off saying that i was just a beginner but she was very insistent and i finally (with great trepidation) gave in.  I practiced more that two months than i ever had.
I was to play at 11:00 in the morning. I had left a note on the business entrance saying that I would not be there until after lunch.  I stayed at home practicing that morning trying to deal with my nervous fingers that had developed even before I left the house. It was a 30 minute drive to the town's senior center. I was trying the whole way not to think about how nervous i was. Without much success.  As I arrived a few minutes before 11:00 I realized that all the music i had been practicing on for the last two months for this gig was sitting beside the front door of my house.  I had not loaded it into the truck before i left.  There were a few numbers that i could play by memory at that time but none of them had been pieces that i had closen for the gig.  I hadn't played the memory pieces in the last two months because i was so intent on the pieces i had chosen for this gig.
Too late to go back home, i went in and played the pieces i knew from memory.  I remember a couple of things from that day's performance.  How sweaty my hands were. How glad i was that i was sitting down sense my knees were shaking so bad that i am not sure i could have stood. How badly i thought i played.  And How complimentary everyone there was and how they all hoped i would come back and play again for them.  As i left, i thought i would rather die.
But i got lucky and that very week i read an article about adults learning to play an instrument.  Three things in the article stood out to me. First the article said that the hardest part for most adults was to learn the discipline of practicing every day.  (that i could do) Second that most adults wanted to be able to play right away and were not usually willing to keep at it long enough to really learn to play.  (that was already one of my thoughts about life.  I feel like most people over estimate what they can do in a year and under estimate what they can do in 10 years).  But third and more important to me at that time the article said that most adults were terrified to play in front of other people for fear of making a mistake.  But that the folks listening were there to have fun and as long as the performer was having fun, any mistakes would be ignored (if recognized).  I took that to heart realizing that i was learning to play for the fun of it and obviously the folks at the senior center had had fun listening.
I kept practicing and started performing.  Now my band plays quite a bit and we are increasing the frequency that we play towards playing a lot.  It has been many years since i was nervous.  I go in knowing that i will have a good time and always do.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: KingBrilliant
Date: 25 May 99 - 08:31 AM

Wow - I thought I was a late starter at 35. Just goes to show that you can teach an old dog.... (nope, bad metaphor [or maybe the cap fits me too well!!!]). At the singaround thingy last month we bumped into a guy that we have seen around at various festivals & local events. He is 40 and has been singing publicly only for 6 months longer than me. P'raps its middle-age crisis thing!!! :)

Kris


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Jaxon
Date: 25 May 99 - 08:19 AM

I never picked up the guitar or tried singing until age 41. At age 47 I attended the 91.9 Summer Acoustic Music Week, which was held on Thompson Island in Boston Harbor.
By the student concert on Friday I had put together an all star band with Guy Davis on harp, Robert Jones on steel guitar, Kim Scanlon on backup vocals and me on my guild and doing lead vocals. In response to a couple of folk nazis we did a bluesy version of Honky Tonk Woman. It brought the house down. Although there were three more acts befoe the break, none wanted to follow us so they moved the break up.
What was interesting was that the "if it ain't folk, it ain't music" contingent were singing alog on the chorus with everyone else.
Jack Murray


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: KingBrilliant
Date: 25 May 99 - 05:08 AM

I've always loved singing, but only in private until recently. I used to spend hours upstairs as a kid with a guitar. Then I sort of went off it after I got married and my husband started telling people 'oh she can only do Paul Simon songs' - which I took to be a putdown (tho he tells me now that it wasn't intended that way). Then we started going to folk festivals etc, and I sort of vaguely cherished the idea of joining in a campfire singing sort of thing - so I used to take my guitar (which never got played). Then last year at the Guildford festival we enticed a friend of a friend back to our van for a curry, and so that e could play my guitar (he was away from home & missing hes). When we got back we found that he could only play if we had some sheet music for him to play from - which of course we didn't. So he fiddled about a bit & tuned it up. Then I grabbed it off him, and decided to have a go. I played & sang til about 4am (they couldn't shut me up once I started...). That was all it took really - just someone to start me off, and a few people to be nice about it... Since then I have expanded my repertoire (mostly from the Dig Trad dbase) & practiced a bit at singarounds & bought myself a lovely new guitar (the other one was from when I was at school - but has been improved a bit by sanding down on the expert advice of Bert (cheers)). So - this year I shall be singing away next to an old blue J4 camper van at various festivals throughout the South of UK. And thanks to all the advice & bits & pieces of info I have been picking up from the Mudcat I am improving & just generally really enjoying myself. (That 'weird chords' thread is great, & I have been applying that to just improvising stuff - it makes my guitar sound like a dulcimer-type easternish thingy [ish]). So I am not much beyond the 'first time' stage really - and the Mudcat has really been an important part of the process - so cheers'm'dears.

Kris


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Barbara
Date: 25 May 99 - 02:10 AM

The first time I can remember singing a solo was in front of the 9th grade girls choir, and, Lord save us, it was "Moon River". Now I spoze you can all tell how old I am. The choir director was an amazing birdlike woman, Violinda Nelson, HONEST!(almost birdlike, anyway... we said she looked like twin olives on a toothpick) and she picked me from 40 or 50 girls to sing the solo part. I thought it was a pretty cool song (now you really know how old I am) but her idea of what it should sound like differed radically from mine.
She was a strong proponent of that branch of classical performance that involves pseudo-english (UK) diction and singing melifluously through one's nose. To give you a further idea of her grip on reality, she taught us the scale to this poem:
(DO)I am a little pussy,my
(RE)coat is furry grey, I
(MI)live in the meadow not
(FA)very far away, I'll
(SO)always be a pussy, I'll
(LA)never be a cat, 'cause
(TI)I'm a pussywillow! Now
(DO)what do you think of that?
No matter how many times she demonstrated it, we could never get past DO without hysterics...
Anyway, I learned to sing "Moooooouhn Reeebuh, wiiiiiiduh then a miiiiile, Ahm crawwhsin' yhoo en stahhll..." and when I sang it, I could see most of my family in the second row with their faces buried in their hands to keep from laughing.
After that, performing in college coffeehouses was a piece of cake.
Blessings,
Barbara


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Rick Fielding
Date: 25 May 99 - 01:37 AM

Maddy, I LOVED the Oranim Zabar Trio! Didn't understand a word naturally, but the tunes, and Geula Gill the singer - Wow! Wonder what happened to them.

Katey La France, these are supposed to be TRUE stories! No one has a friend named MUFFIE!!


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Jory Nash
Date: 25 May 99 - 01:35 AM

Ahh...my first show was a high school battle of the bands. But I wasn't a band. Jez little 'ol Jory sitting on stage with his brand new Martin guitar. Plus a need to go to the washroom 7 times in the 15 minutes before I played. Got on stage, stared out at 231 people, who simply stared right back. I blanked out on what I was going to say, so I just blurted out the first thing that popped into my vacuous mind, which was "I'm so nervous I went to the bathroon 7 times in 15 minutes!" The crowd roared, I settled down, and it's been away to the races ever since.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: katlaughing
Date: 24 May 99 - 11:49 PM

I forgot the one time I sang at school, instead of playing the violin. My best girlfriend, Muffie, and I worked up "I don't want to play in your yard", with my mom playing the piano accompaniment. We were about 7yrs old. Itw as for a school talent show and our moms made us matching gingham dresses with white pinafores.

I don't remember being too scared. I didn't know a lot of people in the audience, as we'd just moved there either that year or the year before (can't remember). I DO remember that I thought it was grand fun and that Muffie and I had a great time. The following year or two, she got rheumatic fever and had to spend a long time in bed, so we never got to sing together, again.

Sheesh, really hadn't thought abut that in awhile except in another thread to tell someone the song was in the Lester Levy link.

Thanks, Rick.

kat


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: maddy
Date: 24 May 99 - 09:05 PM

around 1958 or 59 i was listening non-stop to records by the oranim zabar trio, an israeli group, and memorizing all the songs (they came with with transliterations of the hebrew words). i was hanging out at a local jewish center (swimming, taking fencing lessons) and they were having a talent show of the classes and anyone else willing to perform. i was going to be there anyway with the fencing class. i don't know where i got the nerve, but i signed up, dressed up, showed up, and sang 2 or 3 songs - on a stage, with a microphone. it was probably pretty bad - i had serious pitch problems back then - but they loved it and i was complemented on my pronunciation.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Graham Pirt
Date: 24 May 99 - 06:51 PM

Hi George

The Seven Stars at Ponteland brings back memories. I used to visit there at that time, usually singing with Ali Anderson. We were both at college there. Unfortunately my age meant that my first time of singing occurred some years earlier in '62 when I sang Black Leg Miners in a coffee bar folk club in South Shields.


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: LEJ
Date: 24 May 99 - 06:38 PM

Liked the Harmonica on the coat hanger, Shambles. Would have been fine if you had wrapped another one around your head and put the hook over the outside edge of the harp to counterbalance the mouth pressure. :)LEJ


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Subject: RE: Your First Time. Be Honest.
From: Cara
Date: 24 May 99 - 05:38 PM

Not including my poor family, the first (and only)time I sang alone in public was this year on St Pat's day in a pub where I know everyone, including the musician. we did "No Man's Land" and it was something of a disaster, since the whole thing was spur of the moment and I evidently forgot how to breathe, as well as several rather important bits of the tune. I have bad dreams about the whole thing. Fortunately, I was surrounded by friends so it wasn't all bad. And, I suppose anything would be an improvement if it happens again.

Man, but you should hear me sing that thing in the shower...


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