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Subject: Lyr Add: ALZHEIMER'S SONG (Mickey MacConnell) From: chordstrangler Date: 03 Aug 01 - 07:34 PM I know that grief is supposed to be a private thing, but I feel the need to share this with you. Please bear with me. A week or so ago I buried an old friend. He was a once talented writer and gifted musician. We shared a lot of good times together until Alzheimer's struck and he slipped away from us. I would call to see him a lot. After a while he ceased to recognise us and ended up in a nursing home. I still called, but it was a terribly saddening experience and one that moved me deeply, especially when my visits would coincide with the times his wife was also there. We buried him the other day. I returned home from the funeral and went drinking for most of the day. I took a bottle of whiskey home with me and decided to write a song in his memory. This was the result. The reason I'm posting it is because I don't know if I got too close to the subject . I would value an opinion or two. Thanks. M. Song for Michael
Down in the caverns measureless by man
And to light the lantern in her eyes
And we pretend that I was clever
There was a man at our Christmas Party
Was it somewhere that I used to go
In the caverns measureless by man
(ends)
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Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Murray MacLeod Date: 03 Aug 01 - 07:51 PM Mickey, that had the tears springing to my eyes just from reading it. It is sublime, just sublime. Murray |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Sorcha Date: 03 Aug 01 - 07:54 PM It's a heartbreaker, but it's awfully long...... |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Noreen Date: 03 Aug 01 - 08:11 PM It's beautful, CS, just perfect. Tears running down my chin from the first verse- how do you do that? Must have been good whiskey... and a very good friend. Much love and condolences, Noreen |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: mg Date: 03 Aug 01 - 08:12 PM It's beautiful. Mark Cohen has also written a very lovely one on the same theme. mg |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Rick Fielding Date: 03 Aug 01 - 08:45 PM Beautiful, chordstrangler. Mudcat sisters Duckboots and McKnees are trying to help their Mom through this awful affliction as well. Rick |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: TonyK Date: 03 Aug 01 - 10:18 PM It moved me deeply. |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: TNDARLN Date: 03 Aug 01 - 11:07 PM Just beautiful....do you have a tune for it? [just wondering out loud - not trying/meaning to presume anything] I wonder how it'd do -given the subject- to have the melody reflect that same disconnect/disjunction ......hmmmmmmm....beautiful text....thanks for sharing. T |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Bill D Date: 04 Aug 01 - 12:31 AM ...well...*gulp*...that is very moving.....I need to absorb it some more |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: bobbi Date: 04 Aug 01 - 12:45 AM Bravo!!! Very good... very good.. It told the story and I could see your friend's searching, bewildered eyes as I read your lyrics... Sympathies to you. b |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Liz the Squeak Date: 04 Aug 01 - 01:11 AM A song from the other side. Truly incredible. LTS |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Celtic Soul Date: 04 Aug 01 - 09:52 AM I tried to read it last night, but couldn't get through the whole thing. I'll go back at it in a moment, as it deserves to be taken as a whole. What I read of it was very beautiful, and I am sure evokes some small amount of the emotions you are dealing with in those that read it (as evidenced by my having to stop). Which, in my mind, means you have succeeded, as that is what I personally believe music is about. I hope the writing of it has helped you in your grief process. |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Ebbie Date: 04 Aug 01 - 12:41 PM Beautiful. If it's any comfort, please remember that somewhere deep inside, his spirit knew that it was loved. And for that, he was a fortunate man. Ebbie |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Pinetop Slim Date: 04 Aug 01 - 04:16 PM Very moving song; all the better for your closeness to the subject. Sorcha's point should be taken if you intend to perform it. |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Cobble Date: 04 Aug 01 - 04:43 PM A made up tune sprung in my head and I sang, I find it easier to go through the words. Very deep and moving and in the words of a friend of mine Bloody marvellous. Cobble. |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: DancingMom Date: 04 Aug 01 - 05:32 PM My father-in-law passed away in May after surgery complicated by Alzheimers. He was the patriarch of the family, a math teacher, and his decline and passing took its toll on my mother-in-law and the whole family. Your song exquisitely conveyes how persons with Alzheimers "mix up" family relationships. My father-in-law would cry when he saw our daughter,then about 3 or 4 years old, thinking she was his long-deceased mother. At the end he knew no one, but somewhere in the dark recesses he knew we were somehow important to him. It's a very moving piece. Yeah, condense it for performance. But hang on to the original. I'd love to hear it. Sharon |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: GUEST,harvey andrews Date: 04 Aug 01 - 05:44 PM My parents went through this too. I wrote a song called "She saw him smile" She saw him smile He knows her face from somewhere in the past But the smile fades for memories never last She saw him smile She says "Hello" Buttons up his shirt and combs his hair Although the man she's loved's no longer there She says "Hello" Remembering when They danced together in the darkened room The blushing bride the nervous, happy groom Remembering then Remebering when She holds his hand Together they let time pass unrehearsed For time has been and gone and done its worst She holds his hand She hums their song Hmmm (melody) Hmmm He hums along And then she leaves He smiles one more time and waves goodbye The picture of her fading fom his eye And then she leaves And, of course, there's the superb "The Dutchman" |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: DancingMom Date: 04 Aug 01 - 08:19 PM That did it, the tears are rolling down my cheeks now. |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Owlkat Date: 04 Aug 01 - 08:25 PM Thank you. |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: chordstrangler Date: 04 Aug 01 - 10:17 PM Can this be the ....the Harvey Andrews ? The Harvey Andrews of "Marguerita" The Harvey Andrews of "Song for Phil Ochs" Just askin while hovering between considering whether to bend the knee in musical genuflection or just go hide myself in shame at having found myself in the same cxompany. major bluhes! M |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: GUEST,Helen Date: 04 Aug 01 - 10:50 PM Beautiful song! My Aunt (who is also my Godmother), and her brother both have this dread disease... Thank you for writing it down and sharing it with us. |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: GUEST,Strollin' Johnny Date: 05 Aug 01 - 01:06 AM Harvey - saw you at the Trinity Arts Centre, Gainsborough maybe a couple of years ago, great as ever! 'She Saw Him Smile' is my favourite of all your songs, I'm constantly amazed by the way its simplicity heightens its poignancy. Everyone else - give this one a listen, they don't get any better! Strollin' Johhny |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Mr Red Date: 05 Aug 01 - 10:15 AM Very topical for me. I visit a little old lady - she was there when they invented my name, she was the good friend when my mother was widdowed and I was 9 months old. Mother of my first girlfriend, & aunt of No3. Assertive, feisty business woman and a sharp mind and just a few recent lapses (barely more than mine!). Then, suddenly, in the last two weeks she can't even remember what she has told me 2 minutes ago. The sadness is she is still at the stage where she does know the problem but wants to go on living in her own home. when does the "knowing" cease - or does it just get swallowed-up in the confusion and no-one can tell? chordstrangler - Song reads "long" but I guess without the tune it looks a bit lonely. |
Subject: RE: Alzheimer's song From: Ebbie Date: 05 Aug 01 - 01:35 PM Mr. Red, that's the part that has haunted me for years: how long is the phase where they know something is wrong but the only reason they can think of is that everyone has abandoned them? That is a heart breaker. I too once wrote a song about that phase; I called it 'Mists of Time'.
I remember:
Chorus: Memories lost in the mists of time
Yesterday- Or was it just this morning? - they gather'rd 'round my rocking chair Ebbie |
Subject: RE: Lyr Add: Xanadu / Alzheimer's Song (M MacConnell) From: Jim Dixon Date: 26 Dec 07 - 06:08 PM I was looking at Mickey MacConnell's (chordstrangler's) web site, and I found a link to a video at YouTube of him singing XANADU (THE ALZHEIMER'S SONG). Turns out it's the same song that begins this thread. I guess Mickey decided that XANADU was a better title. I agree. In fact, I think including the quote "caverns measureless to man" was a brilliant bit of free-association. Thanks, Mickey, for posting it. By the way, I see chordstrangler hasn't posted here--under that name, anyway--for about a year now. Hope he's OK. |
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