Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Joybell Date: 16 Jan 04 - 05:57 PM A bright elusive butterfly Like a red, red rose/nose Like a melody that's sweetly sung in tune Where you find it A golden ring Not a Summer romance, or the kiss that follows the dance A many splended thing A sunburnt country Strange |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: open mike Date: 16 Jan 04 - 05:48 PM funny this---agape' or a-gape....same spelling different meaning.. 5 entries found for agape. a·gape1 adv. & adj. 1. In a state of wonder or amazement, as with the mouth wide open. 2. Wide open. a·ga·pe2 (ä-gäp, äg-p) n. 1. Christianity. Love as revealed in Jesus, seen as spiritual and selfless and a model for humanity. 2. Love that is spiritual, not sexual, in its nature. 3. Christianity. In the early Christian Church, the love feast accompanied by Eucharistic celebration. [Greek agap, love.] \A*gape"\, adv. & a. [Pref. a- + gape.] Gaping, as with wonder, expectation, or eager attention. Dazzles the crowd and sets them all agape. --Milton. agape \Ag"a*pe\, n.; pl. Agap[ae]. [Gr. 'aga`ph love, pl. 'aga`pai.] The love feast of the primitive Christians, being a meal partaken of in connection with the communion. agape adj : with the mouth wide open as in wonder or awe; "the gaping audience"; "we stood there agape with wonder"; "with mouth agape" [syn: agape(p), gaping] n : a religious meal shared as a sign of love and fellowship [syn: love feast] |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: open mike Date: 16 Jan 04 - 05:40 PM 7 entries found for eros. Er·os (rs, îr-) n. 1. Greek Mythology. The god of love, son of Aphrodite. 2. often eros Creative, often sexual yearning, love, or desire: "The new playful eros means that impulses and modes from other spheres enter the relations between men and women" (Herbert Gold). 3. 1. Psychiatry. Sexual drive; libido. 2. The sum of all instincts for self-preservation. [Latin Ers, from Greek, from ers, sexual love.] eros ( P ) eros: eros \E"ros\, n. [L., fr. Gr. ? love, ? (personified) Eros, fr. ? to love.] (Greek Myth.) Love; the god of love; -- by earlier writers represented as one of the first and creative gods, by later writers as the son of Aphrodite, equivalent to the Latin god Cupid. eros n : (Greek mythology) god of love; son of Aphrodite; identified with Roman Cupid [syn: Eros] eros, LA (town, FIPS 24215) Location: 32.39222 N, 92.42431 W Population (1990): 177 (76 housing units) Area: 2.6 sq km (land), 0.0 sq km (water) Zip code(s): 71238 eros sounds like a good place to go! (or to send valentines to be postmarked) |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: GUEST,heric Date: 16 Jan 04 - 05:37 PM Yeah, what Little Hawk said, exactly. I love you, man. |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: open mike Date: 16 Jan 04 - 05:36 PM 4 entries found for pathos. pa·thos (pths, -thôs) n. 1. A quality, as of an experience or a work of art, that arouses feelings of pity, sympathy, tenderness, or sorrow. 2. The feeling, as of sympathy or pity, so aroused. pathos \Pa"thos\, n. 1. The quality or character of those emotions, traits, or experiences which are personal, and therefore restricted and evanescent; transitory and idiosyncratic dispositions or feelings as distinguished from those which are universal and deep-seated in character; -- opposed to ethos. 2. Suffering; the enduring of active stress or affliction. \Pa"thos\, n. [L., from Gr. pa`qos a suffering, passion, fr. ?, ?, to suffer; cf. ? toil, L. pati to suffer, E. patient.] That quality or property of anything which touches the feelings or excites emotions and passions, esp., that which awakens tender emotions, such as pity, sorrow, and the like; contagious warmth of feeling, action, or expression; pathetic quality; as, the pathos of a picture, of a poem, or of a cry. pathos n 1: a quality that arouses emotions (especially pity or sorrow); "the film captured all the pathos of their situation" [syn: poignancy] 2: a feeling of sympathy and sorrow for the misfortunes of others; "the blind are too often objects of pity" [syn: commiseration, pity, ruth] 3: a style that has the power to evoke feelings |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Bill D Date: 16 Jan 04 - 05:22 PM Eros, Agape, & Philia |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: open mike Date: 16 Jan 04 - 05:05 PM EROS PATHOS BATHOS or something like these//this describes different "forms" (?) of love romantic/sexual caring/sympathetic and ?? or is it all just pathetic? correct my Greek or Roman or Latin if you have a better take on it... my memory banks may be rusty...do not feel really in touch with this topic at the moment... |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Little Hawk Date: 16 Jan 04 - 04:58 PM Love is the highest impulse in Life, and it is the source of all Life. It is the highest intelligence and wisdom, put into action. It is the giver of meaning and the heart of all useful purpose. It is that which recognizes in the Other the same that is recognized in Self...the most intimate awareness of complete unity and shared meaning and value on every level. Love says "There is only One of us here. You are that One, and so am I, and so are all others. Together we are far greater than the sum of our apparently separate identities. Together we are magnificence. Apart, we wait only to rediscover that we are One and inseparable, united by Love." Or were you talking about Hollywood romance? :-) To think that Love can arise only as an emotional/biological response to another specific human being is naive. That's just a fragment of what Love is, but it can be a very nice fragment if handled wisely. - LH |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: GUEST Date: 16 Jan 04 - 04:15 PM its wonderful, its stressful, it painless, its pain, its caring, its hurtful, its happiness, its sadness, its devotion, its selfishness, it's peace, its anger, its giving, its taking, its all of this and much more then its real LOVE |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Bee-dubya-ell Date: 16 Jan 04 - 03:57 PM If it's all the same to everyone, I think I'll pass on the "willing to die for" bit. "Willing to be made somewhat uncomfortable for" is okay. Bruce |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: GUEST, heric Date: 16 Jan 04 - 03:42 PM Love can be many more things than altruism, too. It can be a celebration of the universal spirit, thereby permitting uncalculated joy from the good luck of others. It can also foster compassion and forgiving, with or without altruistic effects. Lesser "love," as Little Hawk pointed out elsewhere recently, is usually a social contract with a host of conditions, or the biochemical disturbances referenced above. |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: John MacKenzie Date: 16 Jan 04 - 03:33 PM What is love? An elusive thing, The joys of which, the poets sing. To some its all, it's pure perfection To others it's just, a mental erection. John |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Bill D Date: 16 Jan 04 - 03:05 PM In 1964, I got an "A" on a psychology paper about love, in which I mentioned Morty's basic definition, so I'm sure it must be right! (The basic premise of the paper was to dispute a current pop-psychology book which claimed that no one could experience 'romantic love' with more than one person at a time) |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Homeless Date: 16 Jan 04 - 01:48 PM MarkS- The group was The Playmates. lyrics |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: GUEST,Boab D Date: 16 Jan 04 - 01:47 PM Thr feling that you get when you with out knowing it or understanding why you become a prick and change from the person who the other liked you for to the fanny that you become. Well maybe thats just what I do and I shouldn't but in reallity I think that love (between a man and a woman)is when you can look that person in the eye and not be frightened of what they think of you and that they know all the bad about you as well as all the good and accept you for it. More importantly they are the same with you. Complete honesty, trust and intimacy Dylan |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Justa Picker Date: 16 Jan 04 - 01:19 PM Title of a Howard Jones song. |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Amos Date: 16 Jan 04 - 01:00 PM A scale of attitudes ranging from complete coexistence without hindrance, through the interposition of various barriers such as space and time down to complete invisibility. |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: CarolC Date: 16 Jan 04 - 11:26 AM I experience it as an energy frequency. I can choose to align myself with that frequency or not. If I align myself with that frequency, I radiate it outward and others can experience it as well. Everybody can do this, whether or not there are others around for them to share it with. |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: mack/misophist Date: 16 Jan 04 - 10:36 AM Morticia had it almost dead on. The great researcher, Harry Harlow, once said that love is a condition where another's happiness is a prerequisit to one's own. After years of thought, the only possibly improvement I can see would be to add 'and welfare' to the quote. If you do, though, keep in mind that the other person has to be the only judge of what that is. |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Chief Chaos Date: 16 Jan 04 - 10:08 AM Jonhn Lennon's thoughts on the subject: Love Love is real, real is love Love is feeling, feeling love Love is wanting to be loved Love is touch, touch is love Love is reaching, reaching love Love is asking to be loved Love is you You and me Love is knowing We can be Love is free, free is love Love is living, living love Love is needing to be loved I hope you find what you're looking for, I did 15.5 years ago. I wouldn't have made it this long without her. |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: kendall Date: 16 Jan 04 - 09:19 AM definition of perfect love A tennis game between Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: *daylia* Date: 16 Jan 04 - 09:14 AM Love is a soft warm purring contented A cold beer on a hot day? Music without tears? Nah ... love is whatever it's understood to be at any given moment ... |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: MarkS Date: 16 Jan 04 - 09:02 AM According to the old song What is love? Five feet of heaven in a ponytail The cutest ponytail That sways with a wiggle when she walks Anybody remember the group? I don't. After all, the song is almost as old as I am Mark |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: GUEST,pimpleontheaof the universe Date: 16 Jan 04 - 08:35 AM thanks guys.. these words are nectar to my.. er ears pimpleotaotu |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Bassic Date: 16 Jan 04 - 08:28 AM And then there is this................... WHAT IS LOVE? Lyrics I love you whether or not you love me I love you even if you think that I don't Sometimes I find you doubt my love for you, but I don't mind Why should I mind, Why should I mind Chorus What is Love anyway, does anybody love anybody anyway What is Love anyway, does anybody love anybody anyway Can anybody love anyone so much that they will never fear Never worry never be sad The answer is they cannot love this much nobody can This is why I don't mind you doubting And maybe love is letting people be just what they want to be The door always must be left unlocked To love when circumstance may lead someone away from you And not to spend the time just doubting Howard Jones |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: GUEST,weerover Date: 16 Jan 04 - 08:28 AM Failure to score any points in tennis wr |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Bassic Date: 16 Jan 04 - 08:21 AM And then there is the "In love" part of it. The feelings that would normaly be seen as inapropriate towards a child or parent, but are also more than just sexual lust. The incredible intimacy and feeling of being "one" with another person. Suffocating for some people but hugely fulfilling and rewarding for many others. An almost purely emotional bond that has little or nothing to do with logic or duty. |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Dave the Gnome Date: 16 Jan 04 - 08:15 AM What is this thing called love? What is this thing called, love? What! Is this thing called love? :D |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: GUEST Date: 16 Jan 04 - 08:11 AM A chemical and hormonal imbalance that completely fucks up your whole day, or life if you allow it to control you. |
Subject: RE: BS: what is love From: Morticia Date: 16 Jan 04 - 07:59 AM What kind of love? That of a friend, a child, a partner, a parent? They are all different aspects of the same thing, though I suppose. Love, very simply defined, is,IMO, putting the wellbeing of the loved person above your own....up to and including laying down your life for theirs. |
Subject: BS: what is love From: GUEST,pimpleontheaof the universe Date: 16 Jan 04 - 07:54 AM tell me.. i need to understand something that has been far away for too long.. potaotu |