BS: The perverse things that can make you ha

Subject: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: GUEST
Date: 22 Nov 04 - 04:57 AM

I've logged out cause I want to cause emmbarassment for no one.
I've had a miserable summer. My left me for her soulmate, the love of her life. She travels to see him as often as she can, was away over the weekend.
Last night a guy who stays quite close to her explained that he'd been shagging her for a couple of months until she attacked him for telling her "Don't" Then he says she wont take the hint and texts him nearly every day. Right on cue the phone goes and theres a text from her asking him to meet her tonight.
Don't ask me why but I found this extremely amusing, I'm obviously getting over things.

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: GUEST,Concerned
Date: 23 Nov 04 - 01:34 AM

Lots of people sleep around. Lets just hope they are responsible and use protection

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: GUEST,another guest
Date: 23 Nov 04 - 11:41 AM

its not really perverse, like you say, its helping you get over the whole sorry "mess". I expect that most of us on this forum have had experiences similar, from either side.
Remember my friend that the best revenge is living well and simply gettting on with life as best you can in the circimstances. Move on but don't rush into something else as a replacement..that never really works
Good luck

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: SINSULL
Date: 23 Nov 04 - 12:02 PM

Sorry, GUEST. Give some thought to why you were attracted to her in the first place and then see a red flag if your next love has the same characteristics.

And get yourself tested for HIV. Sounds like there is the possibility that her sex life may be yours.

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 23 Nov 04 - 12:07 PM

Next time someone complains about how Mudcatters sometimes log off to bring up topics that would be too embarrassing otherwise, but that are helpful when vented, this thread would be a good example.

Good luck, whoever you are. The holiday season is approaching--don't do anything self-destructive if you hit a depressed patch.

SRS

Interesting that this thread is bringing up an ad at the bottom right now that suggests "Help Brain Tumor Patients." I wonder what triggered that one?

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: SINSULL
Date: 23 Nov 04 - 12:12 PM

Re: "perverse things that make you go 'ha'"
I can't help it. When someone falls down on the street, it cracks me up. I know I should help but I am usually convulsing with laughter even if I am the one who has fallen down.

Now back to the thread:
Try to spend the holidays with friends and/or family. SSS is right. Holidays can be depressive for those of us who spend them alone.

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: Clinton Hammond
Date: 23 Nov 04 - 01:54 PM

I can't define anything that entertains me as perverse...

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: GUEST
Date: 23 Nov 04 - 03:32 PM

Sex with sheep

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: Clinton Hammond
Date: 23 Nov 04 - 03:35 PM

If that's what blows yer hair back... but I'm pretty sure there are laws against it... Probably for good reason....

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: Once Famous
Date: 23 Nov 04 - 04:11 PM

Get a life, Guest.

Or at least a good shrink.

Do you logoff when you look at your own face in a mirror?

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: GUEST
Date: 23 Nov 04 - 05:15 PM

no, only when I'm shagging your wife.

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: Nerd
Date: 24 Nov 04 - 12:38 AM

Ohhh! Martin's wife brought up by anonymous GUEST. I think I'm having Deja Vu!

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: GUEST
Date: 24 Nov 04 - 03:36 AM

OK I'm the guest who started this thread(gad that sounds like a line from spartacus) but NONE of the other guests.
First thanks for the advice and support. I wasn't expecting it, just having a good malicious dig, god it felt good. But when I saw the responses this morning my eye brimmed a little, thanks again.
Martin - you may like hurting people, I don't. I felt like venting, I felt like putting some facts where the people involved will see them and can take them on an if the cap fits basis. I do not want to embarass them in front of their friends nor scatter their names around the internet.
The rest of you thanks once more for the comments and for your understanding of why I am guest.

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: GUEST,Heartfelt
Date: 24 Nov 04 - 04:38 AM

Original guest: I understand totally why you logged out. I have too, for this. I have also felt shocked and betrayed in the past by someone I thought I could trust, but who turned out to have very different moral standards from my own. It hurts. Some people, of whatever agegroup, think it is OK to be "friends who sleep together". Sometimes, it can seem that everyone sees life that way, and you can feel very much the odd one out. Stick to what you feel is right. Stick to what you know in your heart is YOUR way to live and to lead a good and happy life. Let them live their way, and just sit back and watch. Believe me, there ARE people around who think the way you do, and you WILL meet them.

I have logged out because in the past when the subject of relationship and sexual morals has come up, I have been attacked here by people who think differently from me and who saw the statement of my views as a criticism of them, when it was not. Let birds of a feather flock together. There are, thank goodness, still birds of all kinds of different plumage around in this world (and in the Folkie Mudcat world).

Subject: RE: BS: The perverse things that can make you ha
From: michaelr
Date: 24 Nov 04 - 09:12 PM

Now Bobert and kat, cut it out, log back in, you're not fooling anyone.