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03 Jul 13 - 04:45 AM (#3533131) Subject: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Charlie here, it's my 66th today but the whole thing is a bit subdued because my lovely wife, Ann, is recovering after a liver transplant. A few good wishes would be a great help. Thank you. |
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03 Jul 13 - 05:04 AM (#3533134) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Richard Bridge Sorry to hear that. Good luck and all. |
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03 Jul 13 - 05:13 AM (#3533141) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Jack the Sailor Good luck. Enjoy each other while you can. That is good advice for anyone. |
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03 Jul 13 - 05:24 AM (#3533147) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Sorry to hear, Chatlie. My Ts&Ps. I hope you can have some sort of a lift in spirits today. |
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03 Jul 13 - 05:25 AM (#3533148) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: David C. Carter Stacks of good wishes to you both. All the very best to both of you. David |
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03 Jul 13 - 05:28 AM (#3533152) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Charlie my neighbour where I was brought up had that done nearly 40 years ago what a difference it made to his life so although this years birthday might be a bit more mellow than some it may turn out to be the best present either of you have ever got. Relax and enjoy, if you can, do something unstressful that you will both get pleasure from make a memory they are precious things. Awra best frae Meg |
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03 Jul 13 - 05:39 AM (#3533155) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Roger the Skiffler Sorry to hear that, young Charlie, big gentle hugs to Ann from us ((((())))) RtS |
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03 Jul 13 - 05:51 AM (#3533158) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Dave the Gnome Good vibes on their way from Yorkshire. Get well soon, FB's Mrs! Cheers Dave |
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03 Jul 13 - 05:57 AM (#3533160) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie Good thoughts to both of you, Charlie, and a happy birthday to you. Janie |
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03 Jul 13 - 06:12 AM (#3533165) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Bert Love and best wishes on their way. Here's to a speedy recovery and good health for the future. |
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03 Jul 13 - 06:53 AM (#3533181) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Leadbelly Wish your wife a soon recovery, Manfred |
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03 Jul 13 - 07:45 AM (#3533198) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,kendall Hang in there, Mate, she has a fighting chance. |
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03 Jul 13 - 08:17 AM (#3533210) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c Lots of good thoughts coming from Maine for Ann. Have as good a birthday as you can Charlie - live long, die happy. |
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03 Jul 13 - 08:19 AM (#3533213) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: freda underhill ,hey, fat b*, good wishes to you and your wife, yes, life is very precious, and even more so at times like these. thinking of you both, freda |
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03 Jul 13 - 08:32 AM (#3533219) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Charmion This birthday may not be a happy one, FB, but it's a good one. A suitable donor liver became available when your wife was still strong enough to survive the operation, the surgical team did their thing according to plan, and your good lady is now in recovery. That's a medical miracle by anyone's standard. But it's sure no fun to stand by and wait for the seconds and minutes and hours to tick by while other people do dangerous things to the most important person in your life. Here's hoping you'll celebrate your next birthday with both of you in fine fettle. |
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03 Jul 13 - 08:40 AM (#3533223) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Rapparee It's not fun and cake, but you've got a great present and a very Happy Birthday indeed. |
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03 Jul 13 - 08:57 AM (#3533240) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Phil Cooper I can relate. On my father's 66th birthday the house was struck by lightning and the roof caught on fire. We wound up living in a trailer in the driveway for the next four months, while the house was remodeled. I'm wishing your wife a speedy recovery. |
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03 Jul 13 - 09:04 AM (#3533243) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Bat Goddess I'm with Charmion and Rapparee. I'm really happy that your wife is recovering and may soon be in better health than before. Hang in there and enjoy the day -- and the company of your wife -- with as much joy as you can muster. Linn |
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03 Jul 13 - 09:18 AM (#3533251) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: olddude You got all my prayers and good wishes my dear friend ... |
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03 Jul 13 - 11:52 AM (#3533340) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney love & good wishes to you both. In 12 months you will be a year older, so will Ann's liver, so you can have a joint birthday celebration!! sandra |
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03 Jul 13 - 12:18 PM (#3533349) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Leadfingers Next year you can both have a really good time together mate !! |
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03 Jul 13 - 12:21 PM (#3533350) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,Eliza Many Happy Returns Charlie. And all good wishes to Ann for a happy outcome to her surgery. Thinking of you both. Eliza in Norfolk UK x |
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03 Jul 13 - 12:35 PM (#3533359) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,SJL http://altnersandi.com/2011/03/19/mnohaya-lita-многая-літа/ |
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03 Jul 13 - 12:38 PM (#3533364) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Bobert Best to Ann in here recovery... Hopefully next year's will be a lot better... B~ |
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03 Jul 13 - 08:30 PM (#3533535) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass The key word is recovering. I hope Ann's recovery is speedy with no complications. Have the happiest birthday you possibly can even though the celebration may be muted. |
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03 Jul 13 - 09:00 PM (#3533544) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Elmore I wish you both the best. Take care of yourself during this stressful time. |
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03 Jul 13 - 09:30 PM (#3533552) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: katlaughing AS others have said, this may turn out to be the best present ever. I hope your b-dAY turns to be great. luvyakat |
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03 Jul 13 - 10:49 PM (#3533561) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: frogprince Wishing the best for both of you. Dean |
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04 Jul 13 - 12:36 AM (#3533580) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Larry The Radio Guy My best wishes to you and Ann. |
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04 Jul 13 - 01:10 AM (#3533585) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Stilly River Sage I'm with the cup-half-full group - sounds like a great birthday, all things considered. She got the transplant because there was a suitable donor. Next year you both can go out and party. :) SRS |
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04 Jul 13 - 04:00 AM (#3533608) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Thank you all so much for your supportive, positive and greatly appreciated posts. There's a long way to go yet but the care and attention she is receiving at the Royal Infirmary in Edinburgh is exemplary. So good,in fact,that Ann is sending sweets and a card to the ICU Unit!. My younger step-daughter is emigrating to Singapore today so things have been a bit more complicated than they might have been. Our grand-daughters were allowed in to see their Nanna yesterday and performed one of their song and dance routines for her. Anyway, my thanks again and I'll keep you posted from time to time. Love and best to you all Charlie. |
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04 Jul 13 - 04:36 AM (#3533612) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney yesterday sounds like a great day full of memories for Nanna & her talented little girls. sandra |
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04 Jul 13 - 05:57 AM (#3533629) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Absolutely !! Those dance classes have paid dividends. It's chucking down here in Dunfermline and apparently the same in Singapore! No change of environment there, then (Joke). Ann was on her mobile to me this morning and she's telling me off about stuff, which is fine by me. ATB from a grateful, Charlie x |
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04 Jul 13 - 07:11 AM (#3533644) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: alanabit My earlier post got lost... Just my very best wishes to both of you. |
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04 Jul 13 - 07:19 AM (#3533646) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Pete Jennings All the best from Staffordshire as well, Charlie. Pete. |
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04 Jul 13 - 08:49 AM (#3533675) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: rumanci I'm sorry that I missed this until now. May you celebrate your birthday in style together soon. You're always there for everybody else Charlie so ATB wishes and positive thoughts in the world to you both now. Hugs n' stuff to you and Ann. rum xx |
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04 Jul 13 - 02:24 PM (#3533807) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Thank you once more. She's sitting up in the HDU (High Dependence Unit) and has asked me to take in yet another pair of slippers and her I-pad games thingy. So although it's a long job things are looking up. Your good wishes are a great help. Charlie. |
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04 Jul 13 - 03:17 PM (#3533820) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L good to hear lad it is always a good sign when they start giving orders :) |
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04 Jul 13 - 04:46 PM (#3533856) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,leeneia She's getting better. Give yourself a birthday present of a good night's sleep and a few good meals. Cause I bet you haven't had either one for a while, have you? |
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05 Jul 13 - 12:02 AM (#3533943) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,Guest from Sanity Well, this might brighten your day...A dear friend of mine's wife, can't seem to get her liver for a transplant, and slipping fast!....count your blessings, and my wishes for a complete and speedy recovery...maybe enough of one to pop a bottle of the 'bubbly' to celebrate!...But not to quick one that part! Sending positive energy through the Intergalactic Space Telephone!!! BTW....Happy Birthday! GfS |
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05 Jul 13 - 03:36 PM (#3534125) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Thank you for your good wishes GtS. Believe me yours and all here are most appreciated and a great help. I'm saddened to hear about your friend's wife and, yes, I do count my blessings. Maybe a look round the average Intensive Care Unit should be compulsory for anybody whinging about their lot. Anyway, Ann is being moved from HDU to the transplant recovery ward, so...maybe in a few days I shall be trusted to wheel her round the hospital and maybe...just maybe take her for a coffee or something in the downstairs cafe!. Once again, and I shall never stop saying this, thank you all for everything. Charlie. X |
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05 Jul 13 - 04:12 PM (#3534147) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,Guest from Sanity You're MORE than welcome!!!!! Prayer works! Miraculously!!!... if you will. I'll be calling my friend, to check on them....thanks to you! GfS |
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05 Jul 13 - 09:56 PM (#3534208) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Sounds like she is getting better! Keep us posted. |
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06 Jul 13 - 08:33 AM (#3534317) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: catspaw49 Sorry I'm late here but this birthday seems to me to be a lot happier than the other possible outcomes so Happy Birthday to YOU and a Happy New Life together for both of you! Best thoughts always! Spaw |
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08 Jul 13 - 12:11 PM (#3535113) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Sorry to take a while to get back, but Ann told me to have a day off so that I could 'do the garden' etc. Good news , she's been for a Zimmer/Charlie assisted stroll up the ward and back and is starting to eat real food!. Bad news - the clips holding the wound together may be removed to-day. She's a brave lady but not looking forward to that. On the whole, and I realize that this is easy for me to say, she's doing as well as the Doctors expect. There is a slight possibility that she'll be home within a week! So, even though I'm not especially untidy there's still always the chores and necessary arrangements to make. My heartfelt thanks to you all. I'm sure it has helped tremendously. Charlie. X |
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08 Jul 13 - 08:58 PM (#3535303) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Although the removal of the clips sound like no fun, it is really a good thing, isn't it, as long as it is not done too soon? I hope it goes well and is easier than Ann expects it will be. |
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08 Jul 13 - 10:47 PM (#3535312) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,Guest from Sanity Hey Charlie, removing the clips, as Chantey Lass said, is a GOOD thing, and an answer to prayer...that she recover and heal, right?? Don't forget, to seriously THANK God, as much as you BEGGED him to help, and Have that Happy Birthday!!! Warmest Regards!! GfS |
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09 Jul 13 - 01:01 AM (#3535322) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney charlie, its good to know Ann has healed well enough to get the clips removed, which sounds more painful than getting stitches removed. love & hugs to you both - very gentle hugs to Ann. sandra |
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10 Jul 13 - 01:18 PM (#3535941) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Hello, Mudfriends. Ann may be home at the weekend!. She has walked slowly - stick assisted - a fair distance today and apart from what the doctors call "what we can expect" she is doing pretty well. Now it's time for me to spend tomorrow (Thursday) cleaning the house, which isn't too bad, and taking care of business etc. Thanks again and I'll keep you posted. Charlie. |
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10 Jul 13 - 07:36 PM (#3536063) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,maeve Charlie, that is lovely news. Welcome home to Ann. |
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10 Jul 13 - 07:41 PM (#3536065) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c Great news Charlie. Take care of yourself too, won't you. |
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10 Jul 13 - 10:36 PM (#3536111) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass I just love to read good news! |
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17 Jul 13 - 03:19 PM (#3538592) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Good evening, everybody. Ann came home on Monday 15th in the late afternoon. I have assumed mu duties as carer, chief cook and bottlewasher. Although it's only been a couple of days things are going fairly well and despite the long haul ahead we are not doing too badly. There will be the occasional update as it's the least I can do after all the good wishes here. She has her weekly hospital appointment to-morrow (Thursday) so I can get a few chores etc done while she is away. May I say a huge thank you to you all. Best wishes from Mr and Mrs. fB |
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18 Jul 13 - 03:33 AM (#3538790) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney good to get an update on Ann's condition - & yours! keep healing, Ann & keep caring/cooking/bottlewashing, Charlie sandras |
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18 Jul 13 - 03:52 AM (#3538796) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Glad to hear things are going well lad. Hope the heat isn't giving any problems. Remember to take a wee bit time just to relax caring is more exhausting than a lot of folk think. Every good thought for both of you Awra best Frae Meg |
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18 Jul 13 - 07:26 AM (#3538863) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Waddon Pete I only caught these posts today, I'm afraid. Adding all my best thoughts. I know these things take time. Be patient and take the advice! Best wishes, Peter |
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18 Jul 13 - 02:42 PM (#3539054) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,maryrrf (cookie?_ I'm just now catching up with Mudcat goings on but wanted to add my good wishes and hopes for a speedy recovery for your wife. Sounds like she's coming through it all very well and you will have many more years to enjoy life together. |
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19 Jul 13 - 03:42 AM (#3539184) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Leadbelly All the best for your wife and yourself! |
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19 Jul 13 - 10:01 PM (#3539557) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass I am delighted to read that Ann is home. Take care if her and yourself! |
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07 Aug 13 - 06:26 AM (#3546480) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Here is an update regarding my wife, Ann. She's back in hospital as she has a slight infection. For anybody who's had surgery the phrase 'wound' will give some indication of what's happening. Otherwise everything is going well, according to the consultants, and she is getting excellent care. Gorra go, I have a bus to catch to Edinburgh. Many thanks to you all Charlie x |
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07 Aug 13 - 06:43 AM (#3546486) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Sucks havin ta go back in. Hope they get it sorted toot sweet. |
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07 Aug 13 - 06:59 AM (#3546491) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Thinking of you both, Charlie. |
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07 Aug 13 - 08:27 AM (#3546516) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c Keeping the good thoughts coming, right now from almost sunny Devon. |
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07 Aug 13 - 11:42 AM (#3546595) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Pete Jennings And from sunny Staffordshire. |
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07 Aug 13 - 08:06 PM (#3546749) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie And from the sweet sunny south of the USA... |
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07 Aug 13 - 08:21 PM (#3546755) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney and from wet Sydney - where has our summerlike-winter gone? sandra |
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07 Aug 13 - 09:35 PM (#3546768) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass . . . and from Rhode Island. I hope she is well enough to be released soon. |
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08 Aug 13 - 06:34 AM (#3546867) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Roger the Skiffler Glad to hear she's progressing well, Charlie. (Is going back into hospital the best choice? Most post-op infections seem to come from there these days.) Best wishes to both. Thimbles |
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08 Aug 13 - 07:38 AM (#3546885) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: billybob Best wishes to you both wendy xxx |
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19 Aug 13 - 07:32 PM (#3550869) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Charlie, How is Ann progressing? By the way, I think you and Ann are entitled to another try at celebrating your birthday. You can have mine, since it didn't happen this year. Enjoy! |
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19 Aug 13 - 10:47 PM (#3550898) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ragdall Good thoughts to you and to Ann. I hope that she's on the mend now? rags |
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19 Aug 13 - 11:03 PM (#3550904) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie What maeve? Have you found the secret to skipping years to avoid getting older and wiser? (and thanks for bumping this thread up!) And more seriously, how is Ann faring? How are you faring? Holding you both in my thoughts. |
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20 Aug 13 - 03:42 AM (#3550935) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Thank you, Ann is still in hospital and has had further, but not as major, surgery due to complications. These complications are apparently common in 15-20% of liver transplants. I'm not doing too badly myself and have just about mastered the art of house husbandry. Hopefully she#ll be home soon and we can set about restoring that crazy little thing called 'normality'. Thank you again for your much appreciated kindness. Charlie and Ann x |
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20 Aug 13 - 04:43 AM (#3550945) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu As long as the sorting continues. I wish you both the best. |
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20 Aug 13 - 04:50 AM (#3550949) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Will Fly My best to you both - hope all gets back to "normal" as soon as possible! |
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20 Aug 13 - 07:18 AM (#3550990) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c Still thinking about you both and sending good vibes from Maine. XXXXXXXX |
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20 Aug 13 - 09:20 AM (#3551007) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney good vibes also coming from this side of the big pond sandra |
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20 Aug 13 - 09:24 AM (#3551008) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Thanks for the update, Charlie. Hang in there- seems you're both doing what you must for healing and restoration. Janie- "...Have you found the secret..." Nope. Just other less enjoyable happenings took the place of a celebration. |
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20 Aug 13 - 05:22 PM (#3551177) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Charlie, I hope she is well enough to come home soon. |
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20 Aug 13 - 07:55 PM (#3551230) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie Holding Ann and you in my thoughts, Charlie. |
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07 Sep 13 - 04:50 AM (#3556787) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Hello. Ann is still in hospital in Edinburgh having been there a fwew weeks now. She is pretty weak through not beong able to take solids in but the consultants etc, who are wonderful, are trying all sorts of techniques to help with this. She "kicks my arse" ocasionally but does get low, understandably, from time to time. I visit more or less every day and sometimes she, blesss her, gives me a day off. We have to stay optimistic because to think otherwise is out of the question, but, if I'm a relatively honest man, things do get me down now and then. The kindness shown here is very important and I pass it on to Ann. Thank you all once more and I shall try to keeep you informed a bit more. Love and thanks from Charlie and ANN x |
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07 Sep 13 - 05:18 AM (#3556790) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Charlie and Ann If thoughts, prayers, wishes, candles and songs can help the folk around here will forward all they can to you both. Its alright to feel half empty some days heck it is even alright to have a cry when you are on your own. When you walk in the door of the hospital is the time to put the sunshine face back on. May you both be strengthened by the love of others May the energy they generate fill you both May the peace they send allow you both to sleep peacefully May the medical staff be filled with knowledge and compassion Whatever the outcome know that you are both loved and cared for. Awra best Frae Meg |
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07 Sep 13 - 06:01 AM (#3556801) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Beautiful, Meg. Thank you. I'm usually wearing my 'ello, darlin' face when I visit. More often than not it's genuine. But yes, now and again Mr. Meltdown -as they say these days - comes to visit. Charlie x |
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07 Sep 13 - 06:13 AM (#3556804) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Lovely words Megan. I can only to add my thoughts and best wishes. |
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07 Sep 13 - 07:40 PM (#3556975) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c Still sending those vibes from Maine. |
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07 Sep 13 - 10:23 PM (#3557014) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass I'm sending my vibes from Rhode Island, too! Although we are at a distance, we care. |
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07 Sep 13 - 10:29 PM (#3557018) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie My hope is that Ann "holds her own" when she needs to, and then grows stronger and healthier by the day. Know you both are surrounded by light, love, and unconditional positive regard, Charlie. Feel the warmth and shelter. |
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07 Sep 13 - 10:38 PM (#3557022) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney Janie, your post brought tears to my eyes. I'll second it. sandra |
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08 Sep 13 - 06:34 AM (#3557092) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Nigel Paterson I'm grateful to ChanteyLass for bringing your thread to my attention, Charlie. From me & my Ann to you & your Ann, loving & healing thoughts. These are tough times & remaining 'up' & positive can prove so difficult to sustain. Reading through the posts, the high regard in which you are held comes across loud & strong. Ann & I wish your belovéd Ann a speedy & complete recovery & we wish you a slightly belated Happy Birthday, With Love, Nigel & Ann Paterson. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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08 Sep 13 - 01:56 PM (#3557205) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Thank you so much, Nigel and Ann. You are the icing on an incredible cake. Anyway, I just got back from my visit to Edinburgh Royal Infirmary and we had our weekly chat with the various doctors, urgeons and nursing staff who care for Ann. Three good things: temperature down to normal so less infection, blood pressure up to normal so slightly more oomph and last but by no means least, a drain fitted last Thursday is functioning better than thought after a CT scan showed a marked imporovement. Even the surgeon was surprised. Still a long way to go but theses pages make it easier to deal with. Love and best from Charlie Fb and Ann XX |
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08 Sep 13 - 02:10 PM (#3557212) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu GREAT NEWS! |
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08 Sep 13 - 02:29 PM (#3557220) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Charlie, what a relief! I'm away from home caring for a relative so haven't been able to stay in touch very well. You and your resurgent Anne are still in my thoughts and prayers. Maeve |
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08 Sep 13 - 02:58 PM (#3557231) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Charlie I am so glad to hear of a small step forward our arms cannot hold you both but our words can stretch from here to there wherever we are. When David was ill someone asked me how I kept going the answer was a bit tongue in cheek but none the less true some days "I remember to keep putting one foot in front of the other." some days that's all we can do. Thank you for keeping us updated now go eat and sleep lad she needs you to look after yourself as well. Awra Best Frae Meg |
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08 Sep 13 - 08:47 PM (#3557293) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Charlie, as I often say, "Good news is good news." You and Ann just keep breathing while we all hope for her to continue to improve even if that comes gradually. |
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09 Sep 13 - 06:15 AM (#3557370) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Nigel Paterson So pleased to read the latest news, Charlie. Progress is progress, no matter how small the increments, but it sounds as if Ann's 'increments' are not so small. It's also rather satisfying when doctors express their surprise at how well things are going (satisfying for them too, I would imagine). Holding you both in our thoughts, Love, Hugs & Kisses, Nigel & Ann. xxxxxxxxxx |
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09 Sep 13 - 07:11 AM (#3557388) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c Nice to wake up to good news Charlie. |
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09 Sep 13 - 01:30 PM (#3557500) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Hmmmmm! I just spoke to one of the many outstanding nurses who looks after Ann. Apparently she(Ann, that is)has become very picky about what she'll eat. As the nurses are super tolerant they will actually go to the hospital canteen in order to get her something. If she orders me to fetch a Fortnum & Mason's (Big snooty UK shop) hamper in I'd better get on the train to London. It's better to have some humour than not. I'll be checking up on her later. I don't care whatshe eats as long as it's something that isn't fed by tube! Big thanks from a loving hanging in there husband. Charlie |
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09 Sep 13 - 08:49 PM (#3557645) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass It sounds like Ann's taste buds are working! |
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09 Sep 13 - 10:07 PM (#3557663) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney very good news. Food = fuel, but when a patient starts choosing what food she wants, that's a very good sign of recovery. Charlie, is looks like you might need to start bringing in some of Ann's favourite foods! sandra |
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10 Sep 13 - 09:39 PM (#3557986) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Maryrrf Charlie, I seldom post anymore but I'm glad I checked this thread. It's wonderful to hear that your wife is improving! Best wishes to both of you! |
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10 Sep 13 - 09:58 PM (#3557988) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu I always enjoyed the hospital food here but I never stayed any more than a few days. Anybody I knew that stayed any length of time grew tired of it quickly. I hope she is able to get some home cooked meals soon. |
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14 Sep 13 - 03:21 AM (#3558813) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Charlie woke up this morning thinking of Ann and yourself. Hope she is still improving. In the old nightingale wards they used to move you towards the door as you got noisier so by the time you were complaining about the food you were close enough for them to think about kicking you out :) |
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14 Sep 13 - 03:54 PM (#3558925) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd I'm afraid Ann's still not taking in hardly any 'solids'. She will not be bullied into doing anything and does occasionally feel like giving up. Today we - her and I -had a lovely visit and I actually got a few smiles as I practiced my version of Reflexology. One of the nurses downloaded a foot chart for me, which is the sort of thing they do at the ERI, and I/we did some light leg strengthening stuff. Reading the posts here is really heartening as, every now and then I feel like having 'a bit scream'. We will of course get there, but it is a long haul. Thanks to all Charlie and Ann xx |
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14 Sep 13 - 04:42 PM (#3558936) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Keep the faith and hang tough, FB. We're all pullin fer yas! |
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15 Sep 13 - 08:48 AM (#3559060) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandy Mc Lean All the best vibes from Cape Breton! |
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15 Sep 13 - 10:08 AM (#3559075) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Tell her if she doesn't behave herself I will come down there and cook for her................. Oh wait a minute she's no weel perhaps better no tell her that since last week ah wis telt ma cookin these days wid mak a growin man weep. It wisny ma fault the recipe said one spoonful of chili powder how wis ah tae ken it meant a teaspoon no a tablespoon ;) Thinking of you both don't worry about tomorrow just get to the end of today. |
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15 Sep 13 - 04:52 PM (#3559133) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Some like it hot hot hot. |
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15 Sep 13 - 08:12 PM (#3559149) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie Like Megan said, Charlie & Ann, a day at a time. A step at a time. That is how progress is always made. Take care of yourself. If you don't, you can't take care of Ann. Envisioning the two of you surrounded by the energy of your long love and knowledge of one another, and then the concentric rings of light and caring from the layers of friends and relationships you have built during your lives, including this on, here within your Mudcat community. Janie |
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15 Sep 13 - 11:01 PM (#3559174) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Scream away--on Mudcat or alone in your car or home. Let it out. In the meantime, I'm sending calming thoughts and hope they reach you. |
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18 Sep 13 - 02:12 AM (#3559486) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Good morning Charlie and Ann I hope the day is brighter for you. |
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18 Sep 13 - 05:07 AM (#3559513) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Still hanging in there. It's hard at times not to accept the worst but until then I'll be as positve as possible buoyed up by the good words here. Thank you. Charlie. |
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18 Sep 13 - 06:03 AM (#3559526) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Thing of you both, I second Megan. |
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18 Sep 13 - 06:57 AM (#3559536) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c Still checking in Charlie. Love to you both. |
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18 Sep 13 - 04:17 PM (#3559655) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Charlie, while Mudcat was down, I remembered you and Ann and hoped you were both hanging in there. I'm happy to see that you were. Still sending calming thoughts. |
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18 Sep 13 - 08:38 PM (#3559702) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney best wishes to Charlie & Ann sandra |
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19 Sep 13 - 07:42 AM (#3559792) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Why, actually, yes "thing" is a contraption of "thinking"... innit? It also means "more tea required". |
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19 Sep 13 - 08:07 AM (#3559799) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Gnu I thing therefore I am or was that sin Charlie its the little things that keep us going, the smile from another visitor, a total stranger who for a brief moment understands. The laughter of a child who is to young to be upset by the location or a harassed person who comes round with the tea yet still finds a moment to talk about normal things. May both you and Ann be surrounded by little things to buoy you up just now. |
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19 Sep 13 - 03:17 PM (#3559880) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd I'm sorry to have to tell you, my fiends, that the Doctors have few options to help Ann much now. Transplant surgery is always risky and Ann does not have much time left. I'll do my best but it would be more difficult without your suport. I'll keep you posted, thank you. Charlie |
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19 Sep 13 - 03:18 PM (#3559882) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd You are far from fiends. They say a little humour does help. |
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19 Sep 13 - 05:28 PM (#3559891) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Walking nearby, Charlie and Ann. Charlie, I've sent you a PM. Maeve |
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19 Sep 13 - 05:41 PM (#3559896) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu I echo maeve. We are here. It doesn't mean a lot right now, I know. But, we are here. And we will be here. Bless you both. Hang tough. |
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20 Sep 13 - 03:33 AM (#3559978) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L I was sorry to see this this morning lad. when things reach that stage the best I can send for both of you is peace. Just concentrate on spending time together we will cover hope prayers and wishes. and remember we are here if you need some release. Thinking of you both Meg |
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20 Sep 13 - 05:42 AM (#3559999) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie No words come. {{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}. Janie |
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20 Sep 13 - 07:46 AM (#3560019) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: billybob Just sending love and hugs to you both Wendy xxxxx |
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20 Sep 13 - 07:56 AM (#3560022) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Me too... still here. |
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20 Sep 13 - 08:19 AM (#3560029) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Nigel Paterson My Dear Charlie, we are with you every step of the way. Really struggling to find something meaningful to write. Holding you & your belovéd Ann in our loving thoughts, Nigel & Ann xxxxxxxxx |
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20 Sep 13 - 12:54 PM (#3560083) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: frogprince Charlie, as one who has been greatly comforted by the support of good people here, I feel badly now for not continuing to follow this thread. I'm truly sorry that things have taken the turn they have, and can only wish strength and peace for you both. Dean |
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20 Sep 13 - 03:56 PM (#3560118) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c (((((((((((((Ann and Charlie)))))))))))) |
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21 Sep 13 - 12:31 PM (#3560139) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Charlie, words fail. I hope you and Ann find the courage and strength to face whatever lies ahead. |
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21 Sep 13 - 12:41 PM (#3560146) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Thinking of you both even if the cat wasn't being cooperative |
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21 Sep 13 - 05:00 PM (#3560193) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie Have been thinking of you and Ann all last evening and throughout today, Charlie. Holding you both to the Light. |
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21 Sep 13 - 05:51 PM (#3560200) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link I read the news on the rainbow thread .posting this with prayer, pete. |
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21 Sep 13 - 06:48 PM (#3560211) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,Frug My heart and thoughts are with ! frank |
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23 Sep 13 - 02:28 AM (#3560522) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L May you have strength enough for the day and peace enough to sleep |
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23 Sep 13 - 04:27 AM (#3560538) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney sending love & good wishes sandra |
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23 Sep 13 - 05:35 AM (#3560555) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd She's hanging in there. Sometimnes coherent, sometimes not. We've had some lovely chats but it's still not good news. Thank you all. Charlie. |
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23 Sep 13 - 05:53 AM (#3560559) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Thanks for the update lad will sing for you both while I am in the car today (:) ) would do it in company but I don't want to scare the natives. |
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23 Sep 13 - 06:47 AM (#3560564) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Nigel Paterson Walking with you every step of the way, Charlie. Much Love, Nigel & Ann xxxxxxxxx |
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23 Sep 13 - 08:55 AM (#3560593) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c Still here Charlie. |
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23 Sep 13 - 07:42 PM (#3560647) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie Thanks, Charlie, for taking the time to post. Precious hours and days, these. |
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23 Sep 13 - 08:17 PM (#3560655) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass I'm still here, too, Charlie, wishing I could hold hands with you and Ann. Well, maybe it is better that just the two of you share this time together without my intruding. Anyway, you are both in my thoughts. |
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23 Sep 13 - 08:38 PM (#3560660) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu I am here. |
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24 Sep 13 - 03:49 AM (#3560710) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Hello Charlie and Ann. Hope your sun is beginning to shine. Thinking of you both Meg |
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24 Sep 13 - 04:05 AM (#3560712) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Matthew Edwards Thinking of you both Charlie and Ann. |
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24 Sep 13 - 06:24 AM (#3560762) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Pete Jennings Not a lot I can say, Charlie, 'cept echo the sentiments here. Don't forget to look after yourself. Pete. |
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24 Sep 13 - 05:08 PM (#3560956) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Does Dragon naturally speaking work at Mudcat? It doesn't work on the screen but it appears it works in a dialog box. It certainly is better than typing. Where did the dialog box go? Aha! It's back. Anyway, I am still here. Sorry but I am trying to teach Dragon naturally speaking to recognize my voice again after a computer crash. |
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24 Sep 13 - 08:15 PM (#3561011) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Eldergirl What Megan said yesterday, for both of you. Blessings always. X |
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25 Sep 13 - 02:36 AM (#3561056) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Gnu ya glaikit galoot yer a French Irish Canuck what hope has a dragon tae undertsaun ye :). Charlie and Ann we cannot be physically with you but I hope you feel each and every one of us standing by your side each day. |
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26 Sep 13 - 02:28 AM (#3561364) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Charlie be careful on the roads hospitals are more tiring than people realise. Thinking of you both Meg |
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26 Sep 13 - 11:21 AM (#3561486) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: frogprince Charlie, just over a year ago I spent some days on the brink of that life passage which you now face as a certainty. I won't say that I know exactly how you feel, but I know that this has to be heart-rending. My thoughts are with you each day. Dean |
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26 Sep 13 - 01:39 PM (#3561529) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Echoing the recent posts of others, I am still here in hope and in just being here. |
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26 Sep 13 - 08:24 PM (#3561684) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie From across the sea, Charlie and Ann, it seems I can feel the love emanating from each of you to the other. |
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27 Sep 13 - 04:39 AM (#3561771) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Not so good today. I'm going to the hospital and I'll be in touch later. Love from Charlie. X |
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27 Sep 13 - 04:45 AM (#3561772) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L thinking of you both with peace and strength Meg |
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27 Sep 13 - 04:54 AM (#3561774) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie Echoing Megan's post. |
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27 Sep 13 - 05:08 AM (#3561779) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: billybob Take care of yourself Charlie, Thinking of you both and holding you in our hearts much love Wendy and Billy xxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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27 Sep 13 - 06:35 AM (#3561810) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Keeping you and Ann in thought, Charlie, warm and golden as morning light.. Maeve |
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27 Sep 13 - 07:24 AM (#3561820) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Ditto Megan and others. |
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27 Sep 13 - 09:59 AM (#3561866) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney seconded |
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27 Sep 13 - 02:54 PM (#3561968) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass thirded |
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27 Sep 13 - 03:34 PM (#3561977) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd It's now just a matter of time but, Ann's still communicating and it could be quite a while yet, which makes for a whole range of emotions. The staff at the Edinburgh Royal Infirmary are outstanding and she couldn't be in better hands. Take care and thanks as ever. Charlie. |
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27 Sep 13 - 03:52 PM (#3561984) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link it's hard.it is at least reassuring when you have confidence in the staff. posted with a prayer. pete |
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27 Sep 13 - 04:13 PM (#3561991) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Oh Charlie I am sorry this is not an easy time, passing never is like you said emotions are like bees round the hive. May Ann's passing be gentle and may you be comforted and supported through the days to come. Meg |
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27 Sep 13 - 07:29 PM (#3562041) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Eldergirl Peace and light and love surround you both. |
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27 Sep 13 - 09:35 PM (#3562086) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Maryrrf Thinking of you and Ann, Charlie, and hoping for the best. |
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27 Sep 13 - 09:39 PM (#3562087) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c Stlll here Charlie. |
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27 Sep 13 - 10:57 PM (#3562098) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney and here |
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28 Sep 13 - 12:21 AM (#3562107) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: billybob and here xxx |
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28 Sep 13 - 07:23 AM (#3562174) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu For the 6th time today... And here. |
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28 Sep 13 - 08:52 AM (#3562197) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Hear, too, and listening. |
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28 Sep 13 - 08:53 AM (#3562198) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Er, make that: Here, too, and listening! |
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28 Sep 13 - 02:58 PM (#3562286) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd We had a lovely talk today and actually had laughter with the tears (mine!). I was going to sing to her but 'lost it' before I could. Not resignation but acceptance. Much love and thanks to you all. Charlie and Ann x |
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28 Sep 13 - 03:34 PM (#3562293) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link bless you pete. |
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28 Sep 13 - 03:51 PM (#3562297) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L You did well Lad you are there for her when she needs you in the way she needs and we will try and be here in the best way we can. Heck I am sure some of us can sing for you both. sleep well folks. |
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28 Sep 13 - 06:34 PM (#3562347) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu As much peace for you both as possible. Tho this may sound odd, thank you for sharing as it strengthens me in a way. I heard a wise man say a few days ago that each tear shed will someday bring some joy back. Thank you. Bless you both. |
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28 Sep 13 - 09:00 PM (#3562368) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: frogprince "Tho this may sound odd", I feel much the same : ) And I can't find words just now except to echo the rest of what gnu said as well. Dean |
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29 Sep 13 - 03:26 AM (#3562402) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Gnu what a truth that is emotions are like a pressure cooker hold them to tightly inside and when they do break out it does damage, tears are the valve that allows us to gently release that pressure. Charlie and Ann hold hands and walk this bit together. |
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29 Sep 13 - 02:18 PM (#3562539) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Pete Jennings Still with you both, Charlie. |
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29 Sep 13 - 06:55 PM (#3562612) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: frogprince It may be true that nobody else can "walk this lonesome valley" for you, thanks be that others can walk it with you. |
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29 Sep 13 - 06:58 PM (#3562614) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: frogprince Let's try that last one with a "while" or a "but" in there somewhere. :) |
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29 Sep 13 - 07:48 PM (#3562619) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu I speak and read dyslexia and oltimers fluentltly so I read your post with no swaet, froggy. >;-) |
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29 Sep 13 - 09:52 PM (#3562642) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie Each moment as it arises is what we always have. Charlie and Ann, as you focus in and experience that reality, may you savor whatever arises, moment to moment. |
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29 Sep 13 - 10:13 PM (#3562647) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Goodnight, Charlie and Ann. Sweet dreams. |
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29 Sep 13 - 10:27 PM (#3562650) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Jeri I lost track of this thread for a while, so I didn't realize what was going on. I can't think of anything helpful to say, but I'm paying attention to this thread, and wish you comfort. |
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30 Sep 13 - 03:34 AM (#3562694) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Good morning Charlie and Ann Thinking of you both |
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30 Sep 13 - 04:38 AM (#3562713) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Nigel Paterson Charlie, talk to Ann, talk with Ann, leaving as little as possible unsaid. Laugh together, cry together, but above all, be together. There is a unique intimacy at times like this. With Love, Nigel & Ann xxxxxxxxx |
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30 Sep 13 - 04:48 AM (#3562717) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: billybob Morning Charlie, As usual Nigel has such wise words, thinking of you both Wendy xxxxxxxxx |
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30 Sep 13 - 05:00 PM (#3562959) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: catspaw49 I have not posted here since the beginning Charlie but now seems like the time again. Those of us who believe in the power of good thoughts, prayers, mojo, whatever ya' got, are sadly all too well aware that like medical science that is so wonderful yet sometimes fails, we too fail in the end....because for all of us there sadly is an end. But I tell you what we do better......We'll be around here and easy to reach to offer whatever we can for as long as you need it. Way too many people leave us far too soon. Frankly I have always thought that "far too soon" meant something different for each person. Matter of fact, I think we have both known a few who........let's skip that and move on........ The ones we love though will always leave far too soon. When they go they leave huge holes in our hearts. As time passes the joys of remembering become less sad and begin to refill the holes with a happiness that is different than before, but a happiness just the same. Additionally the warmth and friendship of those who love you will also help to fill that hole. For that we are here. Keep smiling through the tears and make each day, hour, and minute, a sharing of the love you have for each other. Hell man, that's the only thing this life is about......loving each other. Best Mojo and Love from Ohio.......... Spaw |
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30 Sep 13 - 05:03 PM (#3562960) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: catspaw49 Well I was writing as Nigel posted I guess. I could have saved a lot of typing at which I basically stink and just typed...."What Nigel said...I'm with him." Spaw |
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30 Sep 13 - 07:23 PM (#3563002) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c And me. |
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30 Sep 13 - 08:34 PM (#3563018) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu "Hell man, that's the only thing this life is about......loving each other." Spaw. That's it. I am with all of you and with Spaw, who needs a little Mudcat Mojo too, as do others. Spaw's words and spirit in his own time of need bring this all into focus clearly. Up Spaw. Up Ann. Up for all and for those that are here just to say they are here to say... UP! Thanks Charlie. Your sharing has made me stronger, as I have said before. Bless you and Ann. |
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30 Sep 13 - 08:53 PM (#3563025) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Thinking of you both this evening. |
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01 Oct 13 - 03:32 AM (#3563089) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney ditto |
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01 Oct 13 - 04:02 AM (#3563098) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Good morning Charlie and Ann I hope it is not as windy down there as it is up here, if it is be careful lad when driving. |
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01 Oct 13 - 07:55 AM (#3563167) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie Good morning, Charlie and Ann. Thinking of you both. |
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01 Oct 13 - 08:14 AM (#3563175) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: catspaw49 Thinking of you both today as well. Spaw |
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01 Oct 13 - 09:11 AM (#3563202) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: billybob me too! xx |
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01 Oct 13 - 11:08 AM (#3563251) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Nigel Paterson A very good afternoon to Charlie & Ann. The weather outside is grey & overcast, but the love in our hearts is sunny & warm. With you every step of the way, Nigel & Ann xxxxxxxxx |
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02 Oct 13 - 05:50 AM (#3563529) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Thinking of you both this morning |
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02 Oct 13 - 08:55 AM (#3563585) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ranger1 Just checking in and letting you know I'm still here, too. |
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02 Oct 13 - 09:03 AM (#3563589) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Sending the peace of this lovely October morning in Maine, Charlie and Ann. Maeve |
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02 Oct 13 - 03:06 PM (#3563690) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Hello all you lovely people !! Yesterday was a really lively one for us. An had a little soup and actually ate a chocolate or two as well as pulling me to bits in front of my step-daughters. Today she has been asleep mostly but awake long enough for an Aromatherapy foot massage!!. There is no miracle going to happen but if she can see out her time without fear or pain and with people who love her then I don't think things will be too bad. Actually things are lousy but, I count my blessings apart from 'losing it' when one of 'our tunes' comes up on my headphones. Today I had; "The way you look tonight" by Frank Sinatra, "Memories are made of this" by Dean Martin and "J'attendrai" by a Fench person in quick succession. What ann old softie. I will never cease to thank you all for your concern, love and best wishes. I'll be in touch fairly soon. Charlie |
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02 Oct 13 - 03:42 PM (#3563694) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Thanks for checking in lad she sounds one special lady. songs do have a way of sneaking behind the barricades. Sleep well |
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02 Oct 13 - 04:07 PM (#3563702) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link these times are bitter sweet, I hope the latter outweighs the former and binds the wounding to some measure. blessings pete. |
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02 Oct 13 - 04:51 PM (#3563717) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Charlie, your attitude, strength and caring are lessons for all. You and Ann are lucky to have each other. We are lucky to share. |
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02 Oct 13 - 08:19 PM (#3563768) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass I am a firm believer in the soothing effect of chocolate--and love. I'm sending you both the latter. |
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02 Oct 13 - 08:47 PM (#3563775) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Maryrrf Our thoughts are with you, Charlie, during this time. It looks like you are all dealing with it in the best way possible. Blessings to all of you. |
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03 Oct 13 - 03:28 AM (#3563839) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: billybob Morning Charlie, still here, hope you had a peaceful nights sleep Wendy xxxxx |
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03 Oct 13 - 06:18 AM (#3563883) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Nigel Paterson Dear Charlie & Ann, I can but reiterate everything said by the Good Folk above. Ann & I wait with you, patiently, lovingly. The distance that separates us physically is eradicated by our thoughts which place us by your side. We are there for as long as you need us. With Love, Nigel & Ann xxxxxxxxx |
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03 Oct 13 - 10:36 AM (#3563961) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: catspaw49 All my best to you both from a gray, Ohio morning. But as Tom Paxton wrote many years ago, "even a gray day is a good day now." Love to you both, Spaw |
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04 Oct 13 - 01:38 AM (#3564122) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney love to all |
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04 Oct 13 - 03:22 AM (#3564130) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Good morning Charlie and Ann Love is an amazing thing it helps us do things we never thought we could. |
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04 Oct 13 - 04:53 AM (#3564144) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Nigel Paterson Great quote, Spaw. Love & Hugs for Charlie & Ann from Nigel & Ann in good old London Town, A very good morning to one & all, Nigel & Ann xxxxxxxxx |
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04 Oct 13 - 07:34 AM (#3564186) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Twas a chilly walk to the barber shop and, even with such little hair on the way there, even chillier on the way back. But I'm purrrrdier now so twas worth it. Hoping it's as good a day as can be expected for all and sundry. |
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04 Oct 13 - 10:13 AM (#3564232) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: catspaw49 I doubt a haircut can improve on a gnu, especially you gnu. Love and a good morning from Ohio.....where it is still morning. I cold stop back around midnight and say good night but by then for you it would be morning. Ya' know this earth turning thing can be a real pain in the ass. You'd think with modern technology someone could figure out a way to stop that sort of nonsense. Earth turning.....who the hell came up with that? Hold tight Spaw |
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04 Oct 13 - 01:23 PM (#3564287) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Afternoon here, Charlie. We are surprisingly isolated here, so it was an honor for us to entertain Mudcat's Leadfingers yesterday- our first face-to-face meeting after years of friendship. Suddenly we are not so alone in our hardship as it had seemed. Perhaps one day you will meet some of the friends who have gather about you here. Until then remember that, in the isolation of such illness, you are indeed surrounded by friends, and the light that love generates. Maeve |
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05 Oct 13 - 05:30 AM (#3564396) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Just checking in this morning staying in reality but still hopping for the best for you both. |
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05 Oct 13 - 07:18 AM (#3564417) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Ditto Megan. |
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05 Oct 13 - 12:20 PM (#3564478) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Charlie and Ann, you are both on my mind and in my heart. |
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05 Oct 13 - 04:26 PM (#3564536) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd A nice day today. Ann weak but with a sense of humour. As my elder step- daughter, Tracey, sashayed into the room Ann hummed the "Hoochie Coochie Man" riff !! Love from Charlie and Ann |
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05 Oct 13 - 05:15 PM (#3564544) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Thanks for a lovely story to take into dream time, Charlie. Blessings to you both, Maeve |
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05 Oct 13 - 05:38 PM (#3564547) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Thanks for sharing that, Charlie. Made me otherwise drab day brighter. A be such a man. |
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05 Oct 13 - 06:53 PM (#3564555) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST Hang tough, Charlie and Ann. My thoughts are with you. BM |
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05 Oct 13 - 07:47 PM (#3564565) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: billybob Charlie and Ann just sending much love, very late here so hope you are sleeping peacefully, see you in the morning xxxxx Wendy |
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06 Oct 13 - 04:59 AM (#3564622) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Charlie and Ann you are both in my thoughts this morning |
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06 Oct 13 - 05:24 AM (#3564626) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Nigel Paterson Charlie & Ann, sending you the warmth from a beautiful sunny Sunday morning. With Love, Nigel & Ann xxxxxxxxx |
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06 Oct 13 - 07:10 AM (#3564645) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Sunny here too but I can't send any warmth unless I put the furnace on. Brrrrrrrr! Good thoughts and wishes? I got lots so I am sending them. |
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06 Oct 13 - 08:38 PM (#3564816) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass My goodness yes, Ann does have a sense of humor! Thank you for sharing that with us, Charlie. |
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07 Oct 13 - 05:41 AM (#3564867) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Rainy for today and tomorrow... we need it. 'Sall I got for today. Might be more later if and when I wake up. |
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07 Oct 13 - 06:26 AM (#3564873) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Good morning folks hope all the family are managing to keep going. |
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07 Oct 13 - 06:47 AM (#3564881) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Waddon Pete Not much to say except that I'm thinking of you all. Best wishes, Peter |
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08 Oct 13 - 04:41 AM (#3565081) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L sometimes it feels like your world stands still other times it feels like it is spinning so fast you cant catch a breath. Take a deep breath, relax in the good moments and push through the bad if you find a dirty great rock in your path hold onto the thought that the path continues once you get by it. Thoughts are with you Meg |
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08 Oct 13 - 06:18 AM (#3565103) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu The path continues. Yes, Megan. |
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08 Oct 13 - 07:29 AM (#3565119) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Sandra in Sydney beautifully said, Megan sandra |
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08 Oct 13 - 08:19 AM (#3565128) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: jacqui.c Lovely words Megan. Love and good thoughts still coming from Maine, Charlie. |
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08 Oct 13 - 10:39 AM (#3565158) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: catspaw49 And from Ohio too Jacqui. We're having some beautiful autumn weather as the full glory of the hardwood colors begins to cover the hills of east Ohio. Hold tight Charlie. Much Love to you both........... Spaw |
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08 Oct 13 - 03:23 PM (#3565229) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link sounds lively spaw. best wishes Charlie and ann. |
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08 Oct 13 - 09:32 PM (#3565287) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu We are in full autumn bloom here. I'd say something beautifully poetic if I wasn't such a cranky old man. Heartwarming, innit? |
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08 Oct 13 - 09:59 PM (#3565290) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Janie My bedtime here is in the wee hours of the morning where you are, Ann and Charlie. Hoping you both are in the middle of deep and restful sleep right now. |
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09 Oct 13 - 12:12 PM (#3565441) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Hope this gale force weather isn't down where you are Charlie if it is be very careful on the roads. My thoughts are with you. Meg |
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09 Oct 13 - 08:29 PM (#3565542) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve The stars are especially bright tonight, Charlie and Ann. Can you hear them singing? Maeve |
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10 Oct 13 - 06:35 AM (#3565620) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Wish I had been there, m. I can see some stars from Metropolis but no where near what you view. I miss it. My kindest thoughts and prayers, Charlie and Ann. |
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10 Oct 13 - 02:15 PM (#3565746) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: fat B****rd Please see Obit. My Wife Ann thread. Love and thanks to you all. Charlie |
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10 Oct 13 - 03:06 PM (#3565763) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Just remember Lad folks might not post here so often now but it never means that we have forgotten you, if you needs us to rant to, to listen to your feelings or just to talk to just bring this thread to the top again and one of us will find you. |
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10 Oct 13 - 04:48 PM (#3565807) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: GUEST,gnu on laptop Posted this on the thread above the line..... My sincerest condolences to you and yours, Charlie. The comment above, "It's good to know that she passed without fear or pain." has special meaning for me and perhaps others who have followed Charlie's thread about this for well over 200 posts. Charlie let us know a short time ago that he and Ann were resigned to the outcome expected and that now has come to be. Charlie posted about Ann's sense of humour late in the game we all play and that brought solace not just to Ann and to Charlie but to all who followed his thread. Thank you, Charlie. Thank you, Ann. You have made my life better by sharing yours with me. |
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10 Oct 13 - 10:28 PM (#3565917) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass Charlie's obit thread for Ann is here--if I did this right. thread.cfm?threadid=152456 |
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18 Oct 13 - 05:19 AM (#3567978) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Nigel Paterson Charlie, holding you, your Family & Friends close to our hearts on this most difficult of days. May the sun shine on you all & cast it's light into the darkest corners of your lives, With Love & Sincere Condolences, Nigel & Ann xxxxxxxxx |
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18 Oct 13 - 06:01 AM (#3567984) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: Megan L Each time we as a family attended a funeral we stand together and hold hands. Each time one of us felt an emotional fall the hands on either side would squeeze passing us their strength. And so it was we supported each other without the world knowing our business. Holding hands They are holding hands and watching As we watch her slip away She walks to them and smiles And takes their hands today. We are holding hands and watching As we watch her on her way Our hands they squeeze and strengthen To help us through the day And as we're getting older Hands one by one let go But they are holding hands and watching To strengthen us below. |
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18 Oct 13 - 06:29 AM (#3567989) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: maeve Lovely, Megan. We're here, Charlie. |
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18 Oct 13 - 07:32 AM (#3568002) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: gnu Yes, lovely Megan. |
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22 Oct 13 - 09:43 PM (#3569077) Subject: RE: BS: Not such a happy birthday to me From: ChanteyLass My thoughts are still with you, Charlie. |