I've been single for about four years now and, while I enjoy the independence there are times when it would be so nice to have someone to talk over a good night's singing or just to snuggle into at night. I do think though that you have to be sure that it is the right person - otherwise things can go wrong so fast. I do agree - it is very difficult to meet anyone - how can you tell who's looking and who isn't? I think the only way is to make friends and see where things go from there. I've got fed up, in the past with guys to say that they are interested in the same things as I am and who later show that they aren't. Why do they do that? Just to get into a relationship? Crazy.