I just got this e-mailed from a friend of mine . he doesn't come to this site and i thought it weird that i should get it at this time.

Respect for self

Respect for others

Responsibility for all your actions.

Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.

Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly

Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship

Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

Live a good honorable life. Then when you get older and think back you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.

A loving atmosphere in your home ( mudcat site?) is the foundation for your life. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonius home (mudcat site?)

When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

Spend some time alone.

Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.

In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.

Share your knowledge.It's a way to achieve immortality.

Be gentle with the earth.

Once a year go to some place you've never been before.

Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.

Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.