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Thomas Wolfe would have appreciated the nude-on-the-fridge. He wrote all his novels using the top of his fridge as a desk. (Threw the finished pages into an orange crate and carted it to his editor when it was full.) On the other hand, maybe Wolfe would have told her to get the #$%%^&$ off of his desk.
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