Wow. You are going to make my husband of 18 years very angry now. After Bob & I split, I privately and ignorantly prided myself on how talented my ex-husband was. But all my current husband ever heard from me was maybe once per year I might have called him an asshole, selfish and self-absorbed. Of course all that changed in recent years. Pitiable character? Owned my own enviromental business (and failed) but not after much activism which included several visits with my ex-governor, Gary Johnson, of NM and a private meeting with ex-US Senator Pete Domenici, who publicized my work in a local publication. Please identify yourself to say you have personally seen me make false allegations in the past. I am grateful beyond measure that my healing has led me to help others who have been brutalized in ways you probably couldn't even imagine. I do appreciate the word choice of pitiable. It is one of my favorites. Much better than pitiful. Really, I think there will be many others who would like to know your name, now, manly man.