As far as driving goes, I think of courtesy as a necessity, not an option. When I was young I 'thought as a child'. I let my emotions make driving decisions. I thought I could "teach them a lesson.". I haven't been young for some time now, but I had to actually make a vow that I would not give 'the finger' under any conditions. Since I feel I have to respond in some way, when someone gives me the finger I try to smile and wave.

I decided a long time ago the only lessons to be learned would be by me.

I have been a biker and I have been a motorcyclist. If I was now I'd be even more careful than ever before since everyone is on the phone or worse. And by now I've known several fine people who've died on two wheels. And even witnessed it happen right in front of me.