You? With your butter-wouldn't-melt-in-your-mouth racist attitudes that will get you banned permanently next time, are objecting to terms used at the time the films were produced? REALLY?

Dances with Wolves was an insult to tribal people everywhere. Just as the films like Hidden Figures (great book, rotten movie) and The Help were extremely offensive to black actors, suggesting they only get ahead when they have a white savior. Costner's character and that scene with the bathrooms wasn't in the book Hidden Figures. Some stupid film maker had to spoil the subplot about the women solving their own problems.