Ah, Janie... I missed this first time around, but it is fun reading how people process their frustrations with each other.
There are good reasons for many generalizations about people.. both by gender and by other categories, but there are so many exceptions that it's dangerous to take them too seriously, as you seem to be quite aware.
"The exception proves the rule... consequently, the more exceptions , the better the rule." (One of my favorite sayings to demonstrate flaws in logic.)
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