Last Tuesday my first love told me (over the phone!) that he does not want a relationship but still "cares" for me. Guys, kindly enlighten me - why are some men so afraid of being close to someone? This man is devoid of emotion methinks. He is irritatingly cerebral and logical ...

I have been enjoying (ha!) the opportunity to artistically exploit my battered emotions ... singing my lungs out, dancing until exhausted, banging on the bodhran ... anything to expel the nervous energy.

Tell me Mudcatters, what is your remedy for a broken heart? Please put some polish and shine this rusty old day for me ...