Anna ... I think what you are doing is great and I wish I could be there ... alas, I cannot. And to those who say the Mudcat is a "different" place than most net sites ... let me assure you that you are wrong. I, and at least one more person of whom I know, have been stalked via the Mudcat, when we had all our personal information listed. I was forced to change my nickname and remove all personal information about me. Idealistically, we, who came of age in the 60's, would like to think everyone who posts here is honest, above-board, moral, and ethical. Unfortunately, because individuals can be whomever they wish on the net, it is foolish to think we are protected by the unpleasantness these individuals can cause. Forgive me for jumping on the soapbox, but I think it is very important that we all keep this in mind ... moonchild.