BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....

Subject: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....please
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 04:38 PM

Our 4 month old daughter Amelia has a lump at the base of her neck. It started off as what seemed like a small bruise and we assumed that she had rolled over onto one of Harry's Duplo bricks or a press stud from a bib had dug in and we decided to keep an eye on it. Over about 3 weeks a lump has appeared and continued to grow. The small blessing at the moment is that it doesn't hurt her.

She saw the GP today and she said that he isn't sure what it is and he hasn't seen anything like it in an infant so has referred her to the hospital to a paeds consultant. She will probably have to be sedated for a scan so they can seen more clearly what it is. We are hoping that it is just a fatty lump which can be easily removed if needed to be. The doctor did say that if it were any bigger then he would be sending her to Gt Ormond Street tomorrow to be checked out. We should be seeing the consultant in the next 10 days or so.

She is otherwise fit and healthy and catching up in weight and size nicely.

I was hoping the doctor was going to tell me that I was just another paranoid mother, and I am still hoping that the lump is nothing serious. Any good thoughts and energy would be appreciated. She is so small and we are very worried, even though my head says don't worry until someone tells me to worry, it's easier said than done.

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From: Big Mick
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 04:42 PM

No way not to worry, Mom. I have had these moments. Guess the best you can do is to keep it under control, enjoy every moment, and take the right steps.

.... and seek the friendship of Mudcat. We are a real caring bunch, even though we sometimes fight like cats and dogs. You are in my prayers.


All the best,

Mick

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From: John MacKenzie
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 04:42 PM

I wish her all the best lass. I'm not surprised you're worried, it's a normal state for mothers.
Thinking of you both.

John

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From: Megan L
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 04:43 PM

You and yours are in our thoughts and prayers lass

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From: Wesley S
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 04:52 PM

You're supposed to worry. It's in your job description as a mom. Keep us posted. We'll all hope for the best.

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From: SINSULL
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 04:54 PM

Amelia has been added to my candle burning list. It is way too long these days.

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From: gnu
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 04:54 PM

Thoughts and prayers.

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From: Sorcha
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 04:56 PM

Oh, Khatt! Heaps of love and blessings on you all!

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From: Tig
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 04:57 PM

Hugs

Tig
xxx

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From: Leadfingers
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 04:57 PM

I am Sixty Six , and My Old Mum still worries about me ! Hope the worry IS unfounded Khatt

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From: GUEST,Lady P
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 05:05 PM

{{{{{KhattPaulAmeliaGeorgeHarry}}}}}

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From: GUEST,old girl
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 05:17 PM

Our Prayers and best wishes to you at this time.

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From: skarpi
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 05:20 PM

(((((((( HUGS )))))))) and a candle light , thoughts and prayers
4 month .......   


All the best Skarpi

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From: Rog Peek
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 05:26 PM

Thinking of Amelia and you mum, hope everything goes well.

Rog

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From: Beer
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 05:40 PM

No matter how small the hurt, when it is your child you feel it just the same. Some cases even more.
Here is wishing you the best.
Adrien

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From: Lizzie Cornish 1
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 05:46 PM

The doctor did say that if it were any bigger then he would be sending her to Gt Ormond Street tomorrow to be checked out.

Phone him up tomorrow and say you want to take her to Gt. Ormond St. tomorrow. If he could have got that appointment sorted out for you today, then he can also do it tomorrow.

Don't wait 10 days, Catherine. Babies should be seen fast, not only for their own health, but for yours too. It's not good enough that you've been palmed off with a 'normal' appointment of 'they'll contact you soon'

10 days is a very long time to sit and worry.

It's probably nothing but a little fatty lump, as you say, but having worked with doctors for many years, I know that Specialists/Consultants would far rather see a little baby as fast as they can, and give you a clean bill of health, reduce the worry all round, rather than think that you've been sitting there worrying your socks off.

You're entitled to ask for a second opinion at your GP's if you're not happy with his answer. Don't worry about making a nuisance of yourself about this, it truly doesn't matter what they think. What matters is your little girl and your peace of mind.

And please, don't panic and think I know something that you don't, because I don't, not at all. But I know how the system works from the inside, and if you make enough fuss, something will nearly always get done and be moved along. The alternative is to take her to your local A&E and get them to get her checked out by someone who knows what they're doing.

I wish you both well. I've been there with a sick child, as many of us have, and we all know how it makes you almost physically hurt inside.

We're all holding Amelia close, Catherine.

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From: skipy
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 05:56 PM

All of the above, keep us up to date, we will be thinking of your in our own way. I get a really good vibe about the outcome of this one!
Skipy

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From: katlaughing
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 05:58 PM

I completely agree, Lizzie. In fact, I am a bit shocked they would wait ten days with one so young. And, I don't know anything, either, except what I know from experience as a mother and working in hospital.

I will be giving thanks for perfect health for Amelia.

Remember worry does not help; my mother let it kill her.

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From: Morticia
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 06:11 PM

Thinking of you Khatt and holding you all in the light. I know from experience that my two managed to scare the living crap out of me I don't know how many times til I got them to 'man's estate' and they are still doing it!

Love to you all

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From: Lonesome EJ
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 06:47 PM

My heartfelt wish for a speedy recovery for her and for the relief of your worry.

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From: Janie
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 07:00 PM

Sending light and love to all of you. How can you not be worried!

Breathe deep and attend to each present moment.

Janie

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From: Bat Goddess
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 08:07 PM

What John said...and good thoughts and white light aimed at you from this neck of the woods, too.

Sincerely hope it turns out to be nothing to be concerned about. (Although moms are ALWAYS concerned!)

Hugs.

Linn

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From: Tinker
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 08:25 PM

Gentle thoughts for tiny dears
Whispered world of light flow near
And under stars of brightest light
Healing words flow through the night....

Rest your mind (as best a mom can)

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From: Azizi
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 08:41 PM

I agree with Lizzie and others that you should have your daughter seen by the doctor sooner than ten days so that you don't have to sit and worry while you wait out those ten days.

I'm sending positive vibrations to your child and to your entire family.

-Azizi

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From: Joe Offer
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 09:03 PM

I dunno about a lot of this stuff, but I'll just kinda smile and think of you and your baby.
-Joe-

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From: Neil D
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 09:33 PM

Positive energy and prayers that all will be well. Take care of yourself also.

                                        Neil and Christina Devore

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From: Michael Harrison
Date: 26 Jan 09 - 11:21 PM

Prayers for the little one and all concerned, from our house to yours.

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From: VirginiaTam
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 12:27 AM

I agree with Lizzie and Azizi. You said the lump had been growing noticeably for over 3 weeks befor the GP saw her?

I would go back and request/demand the Gt Ormand street appointment immediately.

Good thoughts for you and little Amelia, with love from Tamara

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From: open mike
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 02:47 AM

i hope and pray this turns out o.k.
hugs to all.

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From: GUEST,LTS pretending to work
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 08:11 AM

You know where we are if you need a babysitter, a cat sitter, a cold gin or a hot meal... take care. (((all of you!)))

LTS

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From: topical tom
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 08:16 AM

Best wishes to your daughter and you!

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From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 08:23 AM

Thank you everyone.

Paul and I discussed taking her to the private clinic to be seen but the earliest appointment was a week on Thursday...now I thought she would be seen sooner by a private doctor. Anyhow, the NHS has pulled through and the hospital phoned me first thing this morning with an appointment for Tuesday. I know it's a week away but that's the earliest they can do. They said if anything changes to take her back to the doctor or the hospital.

Milly moo (as we call her!) is well other than this lump and is having an afternoon nap. I didn't get much sleep last night and Paul is working off his nervous energy at work and then finishing off their cots.

I'll keep you posted on any news.

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From: Bryn Pugh
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 08:48 AM

Love, ((hugs)), good thoughts and good wishes to you all. We have asked the Great Mother (not the greatest - that's you !) to hold the little lass in Her arms and the Light.

Blessed Be, Erica and Bryn

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From: GUEST,LTS pretending to work
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 10:07 AM

Actually, what I said about baby sitting... we're still finding things from the last time Harry visited....

LTS

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From: jacqui.c
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 12:46 PM

Good thoughts for Amelia from Maine.

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From: catspaw49
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 12:55 PM

Ol' Spaw may be late here but I'm always good for a few hugs and good thoughts and even a bit extra for the tiny ones,

Spaw

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From: Cool Beans
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 01:06 PM

Good thoughts to you from Michigan from a father of two girls who are now adults (though you never quit worrying).

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From: Becca72
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 01:12 PM

Fingers crossed that it's "nothing". Try not to worry too much and do keep us posted.

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From: Mrs.Duck
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 01:25 PM

I'm sure it will be something minor but know from experience that until you hear that from the hospital you'll be worrying.
We're thinking of you.
Jane and Geoff

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From: Jeanie
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 02:29 PM

Sending thoughts and prayers to you all and hoping that there will be good news very soon.

With Love,
- jeanie

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From: fat B****rd
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 03:13 PM

Very best regards from Charlie in Dunfermline.

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From: GUEST,Partridge
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 03:14 PM

much love

xxxx

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From: ranger1
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 03:56 PM

Sending warm thoughts from Maine to Amelia.

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From: George Papavgeris
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 04:00 PM

Best wishes for her and for you. May it become a distant memory that you'll tell her about when she is a grownup woman.

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From: My guru always said
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 05:18 PM

Sending positive thoughts!
Hil x

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From: TRUBRIT
Date: 27 Jan 09 - 10:23 PM

I hope it goes well with you and with Amelia.....all the best....

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From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 28 Jan 09 - 01:24 AM

best wishes from me, too

sandra

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From: Andy Jackson
Date: 28 Jan 09 - 04:15 AM

As one of the lucky ones with no real childhood scares, I send you love and good wishes.
A.

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From: freda underhill
Date: 28 Jan 09 - 04:40 AM

It's a shock to find a lump on a baby - you have been a very responsible mum, following up so quickly. She is a darling and deserves the best care while its investigated and treated. all my good thoughts and best wishes

freda

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From: Rasener
Date: 28 Jan 09 - 05:11 AM

Catherine Jayne
I can understand how you feel. I am crossing my fingers for you and your daughter and hope all goes well.
Very best wishes.
Les Worrall

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From: lady penelope
Date: 28 Jan 09 - 04:08 PM

{{{Khatt}}}

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From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 28 Jan 09 - 04:12 PM

Thank you for the good wishes.

It never rains but it pours. Paul has just taken Harry to the GP centre at Queens Hospital. He has such a bad cough that he is coughing til he is sick, he's so upset it's heartbreaking. He won't drink anything and NHS direct doctor wants to see him to make sure there isn't anything else going on with his chest other than the cough/cold. I just want to wrap them all up and keep tham safe and well.

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From: Ebbie
Date: 28 Jan 09 - 11:49 PM

Ah, poor thing. Whooping cough is making the rounds in Alaska- you don't suppose...? Probably not- vaccinations these days have made those diseases just about a thing of the past.

I had whooping cough way back in the dark ages; I well remember coughing until I was sick.

Here's hoping you will get good news soon on all fronts.

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From: Bert
Date: 29 Jan 09 - 12:02 AM

Good thoughts on their way. Along with love and songs.

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From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 29 Jan 09 - 01:07 AM

I'm coming late to this thread.

Sad to say, it doesn't get any easier, but it is always worthwhile. You always worry about them, no matter how big they are when they get sick. The big benefit to their getting older is that they do a better job of telling you what doesn't feel good. We've had our share of "they need to be seen right now" visits and we have a family pediatric surgeon and an oncologist/hematologist (for the hematology specialty, not the cancer one) along with our regular family practitioners.

I brought my newborn son home from two weeks in the NICU only to turn around that afternoon and take his older sister up to the same children's hospital ER because she got sand in her eye when playing in the yard. I felt like I lived at that place after a while. She was with us in the birthing suite when her brother was born, but the next day we had to take her to her pediatrician for a horrible cough--she had bronchitis. I was in the pediatrician's office less than 24 hours after giving birth. You do what you have to do. :-/

Khatt, it does get easier. Take comfort in the realization that what they really want when they feel bad is MOM. And for a few years here, you are the center of their world. It's what keeps you going later as you watch them grow and slowly move out on their own--knowing that they couldn't do it so confidently if they didn't have that hot core of love that comes from the years of hands-on parenting that you're doing right now.

Sometimes it might be tempting to wish to always keep them cute and cuddly and exactly at some wonderful small stage, but I'm here to tell you that as they grow they are so interesting to watch, and it is wonderful to teach and share and see the positive impact you are having on the world at large by raising such wonderful children. My children are big, one is away at college and in a year and a half the other one will follow. They are such good company that I will miss them being here, but I am so pleased with the confident people they are becoming that I wouldn't wish it to be any different.

Don't scare yourself to death by Googling symptoms for your daughter. Sometimes you can land exactly on the condition, but most times the keywords are too squishy and you'll worry needlessly. Stick to your guns for appointments, accept offers of assistance when you can because they can help, and good luck as you sort all of this out.

SRS

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From: KT
Date: 29 Jan 09 - 01:42 AM

I, too, am holding little Amelia and now, Harry, in my thoughts. Wishing you all well. Take good care.

KT

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From: GUEST,LTS pretending to work
Date: 29 Jan 09 - 07:29 AM

As I said above, anything we can do, just ring... even if it's for a swear and 'bring more gin'!

LTS

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From: Megan L
Date: 29 Jan 09 - 07:31 AM

I thought it was no loger advided to fill a babies soother wie gin :):):)

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From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 29 Jan 09 - 03:57 PM

Harry is still grotty but has managed to keep some food and fluid down. We've got a job lot of calpol and he should be back to his usual cheerful self soon.

Thank you for your good wishes everyone. The bond between George and Amelia amazes me on a daily basis and the bond Harry has with them both is beautiful.

I've not googled symptoms as I can worry for England at the best of times! We're staying positive about all this and wait to see what the consultant says. I know Milly will be in the best hands and we continue to ask the Goddess to hold her close.

You're children sound wonderful SRS, I hope I have a similiar relationship with mine when they are older.

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From: GUEST,mg
Date: 29 Jan 09 - 04:50 PM

Keep pushing fluids and watch how much he pees, or doesn't...popsicles, soups, whatever..water of course. Pedlialite?? perhaps. I don't know much about it. But dehydration is a concern of course in a situation like this.....flat ginger ale? Something homemade (google first) with a little sugar and salt in it? mg

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From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 30 Jan 09 - 12:27 PM

Mine always thought popsicles were a great way to get over a bug. Avoid the reddish ones, that food color can sometimes cause its own set of problems.

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From: freda underhill
Date: 30 Jan 09 - 03:47 PM

Last weekend my grandaughter Rosie was here with her friend Jasmin. Their grottiness and snottiness, playing mud pies etc, was truly yukky. but they were so beautiful and loveable at the same time! good luck with your darling kids right now Catherine..

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From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 02 Feb 09 - 03:45 PM

The consultant himself phoned today to say that he had cancelled the clinic tomorrow due to the bad weather but he will try to see Amelia on Friday or the beginning of next week.

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From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 02 Feb 09 - 06:26 PM

more waiting - how they? how are the parents?

sandra

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From: mouldy
Date: 03 Feb 09 - 02:25 AM

Just caught up with this one - you must be climbing the walls! I just hope that if they had the suspicion that it was anything "nasty" they would have slotted her in asap.

I'll hold you in my thoughts - I know how I'd feel if it was my granddaughter.

I went through a neck lump episode with my son, when he was 3. It turned out to be a quinsy, but that one really swelled, and grew painful, and threw a fever over a matter of a couple of days. We ended up with him in hospital.
It's a frantic and nerve-wracking time for you, because you feel you should be doing something for them. Look after yourselves as well!

Andrea

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From: gnu
Date: 03 Feb 09 - 06:50 AM

Still sending thoughts and prayers.

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From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 05 Feb 09 - 04:56 PM

Hospital phoned this morning and Amelia has an appointment tomorrow morning.

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From: wysiwyg
Date: 05 Feb 09 - 04:57 PM

Been praying fer ya's... (Will contiune.)

~S~

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From: Hawker
Date: 05 Feb 09 - 05:17 PM

Sending you all good wishes, prayers, healing thoughts and love, hope tomorrow leaves you all feeling better, we are all holding your hands here!
Lots of love, Lucy x

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From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 05 Feb 09 - 08:11 PM

good wishes, love & hugs to you all

sandra

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From: Hollowfox
Date: 05 Feb 09 - 08:44 PM

My thoughts and prayers go out for her, you, and all your family. And a nice genuine purebred Midwestern $#@!-reduction candle will be fired up when I get home from work tonight.

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From: Morticia
Date: 06 Feb 09 - 07:09 AM

waiting for news and keeping everything crossed.

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From: VirginiaTam
Date: 06 Feb 09 - 07:29 AM

same here and with the pain meds i am currently on crossing eyes is remarkably easy.

please keep us posted. my eyes may get stuck this way.

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From: Mrs.Duck
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 06:41 AM

I'm hoping no news is good news? Please let us know - we are thinking of you.

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From: maeve
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 08:29 AM

I expect you are still awaiting the results form the appointment. Thinking of you all,

maeve

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From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 10:47 AM

The news is very positive! The consultant thinks that the lump is a cyst and although it will continue to grow it is not life threatening and not cancerous which is a huge relief. Amelia is now waiting for an appointment at Great Ormond Street childrens hospital for the team there to assess when they will remove the cyst. We should hear about an appointment in the next few weeks. We need to keep an eye on the lump and make sure there are no signs of infection and that it isn't affecting the position of her head and neck etc.

I have never felt so relieved before apart from the day they were all born and I heard them cry. Last night was the first night I have slept properly in weeks. Paul took me to see Chicago in the west end last night and I was actually able to sit back and enjoy the show without worrying about what might be.

Thank you all for the good wishes. I'll let you know when Amelia has the appointment at the childrens hospital and when they decide to do the operation.

A very relieved Khatt and Paul

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From: fat B****rd
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 10:57 AM

Excellent news, CJ
Kind regards from Charlie

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From: Megan L
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 11:04 AM

Thanks lass for keeping us updated.

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From: maeve
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 11:04 AM

Thank you for letting us know. That is excellent news indeed! Play, sing, sleep, and awake to rejoice yet again.

maeve who does know how to spell "from"

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From: gnu
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 11:24 AM

AHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhh. Great news darlin!

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From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 11:54 AM

I'm glad to see the news, Khatt! And I'm glad you were able to relax and get out. Take care of yourself along with that not-so-little family of yours!

SRS

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From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 05:07 PM

yah.

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From: GUEST,suzi
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 05:28 PM

Good news.... love and light to you all.x

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From: Janie
Date: 07 Feb 09 - 10:30 PM

Big exhale..........

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 24 Feb 09 - 03:46 PM

We have just brought both George and Amelia home from hospital after what has been a very worrying 5 days. They were admitted with bronchiolitis which is a viral chest infection which children under 2 are prone to.

They needed help breathing and a feeding tube fitted as they couldn't feed due to congestion. It was horrible to see our beautiful babies trying so hard to breath and lying in the cots so distressed.

We haven't slept for 5 nights and have been functioning on autopilot. We have some wonderful friends and family though who sat with us and the babies, looked after Harry and brought us food packages.

The twins have got a chesty cough which will last for a few weeks apparently but they are on the mend and have started feeding resonably well. Their oxygen saturation is stable at 93% and we are hoping they will recover quickly. It feels SO good to be home all together.

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From: John MacKenzie
Date: 24 Feb 09 - 03:51 PM

Gosh you haven't had your worries to seek have you mate.
Glad all seems to be on the mend now though. Let us know when you catch up on your sleep.

John

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From: Megan L
Date: 24 Feb 09 - 04:04 PM

Dammit Lassie you need a hug(and thats no somethin a normally do) Watching your child in distress is heart wrenching and we should all have been here to support you as a family. I ken oor belifs are different but i hope you will accept ma wee prayer fur ye as a family tae find strength and peace, rest and recovery as a symbol of oor loving care for ye all at this time.

Awra best
frae
Dauvitt and his Meg

Ps hope ye all mak it tae the gaither tae claim that hug

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From: Andrez
Date: 24 Feb 09 - 04:16 PM

I've only just seen this thread. I was worried as I scrolled through that the news would not be good. It was great to find otherwise.

Take care of your selves CJ and enjoy the hugs and warmth expressed in this thread.

Cheers,

Andrez

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From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 24 Feb 09 - 05:42 PM

love & hugs & more good wishes for the children's continued good health.

sandra

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From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 24 Feb 09 - 06:26 PM

Big hugs here, you know where we are if you need anything.

LTS

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From: gnu
Date: 24 Feb 09 - 06:28 PM

Same here. Thoughts and prayers.... and more.

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From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 25 Feb 09 - 05:39 AM

Thank you so much.

We got a reasonable amount of sleep last night. Harry is at playgroup this morning as we are trying to get him back into a routine. Paul goes back to work tomorrow and the twins are chatting away to each other on the playmat at the moment.

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From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 25 Feb 09 - 05:38 PM

Chatting? Not kicking each other's heads in like last time I was there?! :D

Glad to hear everyone is returning to as normal as you ever were... We'll be over to see you soon.

(By the way, my little "trouble" has been sorted and is all OK)

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 25 Feb 09 - 08:42 PM

Good news, you have them back home. When they nap, be sure you catch up on your sleep also. The house can wait.

Good luck--

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 26 Feb 09 - 05:57 AM

Don't think they have the energy to kick each other at the moment Liz!! *G* Glad you little 'trouble' has been sorted, I was thinking about you. We'll look forward to seeing you soon xxx

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Keith A of Hertford
Date: 26 Feb 09 - 08:11 AM

Best wishes for continuing progress.
keith.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Maryrrf
Date: 26 Feb 09 - 09:43 AM

Just saw this thread - Oh my goodness what a scare but thank goodness everybody seems to be on the mend!

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 11:19 AM

We took Amelia for her first appointment at Gt Ormond St Hospital yesterday. Everyone was very helpful and kind. We are taking her back on Tuesday (31st March) for an ultra sound and we get the results and a decision on what will be done on Thursday. Amelia smiled all the way through her appointment and 'chatted' to anyone and everyone that passed by!

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 11:21 AM

Glad to hear all went well, you're forgiven for taking a day to respond... we'll make a date for the Easter holidays and come and annoy you. I know the way now.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Megan L
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 11:24 AM

Now what has the poor lassie done to deserve such cruel and unnatural punishment

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 11:24 AM

Wonderful Liz!! we'll look forward to seeing you

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 11:28 AM

Dammit.... missed the 100, had to extricate the child from the washing basket. Don't ask.


LTS

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: manitas_at_work
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 11:32 AM

IS that 13 years or 13 months? Or is this a gin-related incident?

PS. There's £20 under the clock for pizza tonight.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Leadfingers
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 11:35 AM

?100?

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Leadfingers
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 11:36 AM

It DEFINATELY said 99 when I double checked !!

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 11:39 AM

PIZZAAAAA!!!

Gin was not involved. I got a photo :D

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 11:46 AM

Send me the photo!!!!

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: gnu
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 12:59 PM

Continued thoughts and prayers on their way.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Victor in Mapperton
Date: 27 Mar 09 - 03:16 PM

My dear, my thoughts are with you, it´s a concerning time, but remember strength breds strength, people look towards eachother in such times, stay strong and try to stay positive.

Victor

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 03 Apr 09 - 08:00 AM

Amelia had her ultra sound on Tuesday and we went back yesterday for the results. The consultant is sure it's a cyst and wants to monitor it. We have an appointment to take her back in July for a repeat ultra sound and another consultation with the doctor. If it gets substantially bigger or infected brfore that appointment we're to go straight back.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: maeve
Date: 03 Apr 09 - 08:09 AM

Thanks for the update. I think of you and your family often.

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: gnu
Date: 03 Apr 09 - 08:17 AM

Yes... thanks. Good news. Glad to hear it may be taken care of easily.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 03 Apr 09 - 08:49 AM

yah!

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 03 Apr 09 - 09:09 AM

Finally, some news... hope you are feeling a little less stressed now. We'll be over to see you some time in the holidays... and you're always welcome over here!

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 03 Apr 09 - 09:13 AM

Ta Liz! Would have posted last night but I was so exhausted I had a relatively early night. Not stressed now, feeling really quite mellow. Paul bought me a wonderful book called "The Seven Deadly Sins of Chocolate" it's the most fantastically chocolately wonderful cook book....if you don't have a copy you can look through my copy!

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Neil D
Date: 03 Apr 09 - 02:11 PM

So glad to hear good news. Hope everything continues to go well for you.

                                     Neil and Christina

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts needed for my daughter....
From: Janie
Date: 03 Apr 09 - 04:50 PM

Glad to hear the news is not so frightening!