BS: Weird Coincidences

Subject: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Ebbie
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:01 PM

There are many coincidences (if there is such a thing. Heads up, Bill!) but one struck me the other day...

I've never assigned any particular significance to numbers but here is an odd one:

When I was 13 years old, my family left Oregon- and I started a new life.
When I was 26 years old (13 x 2) I left my husband - and started a new life.
When I was 52 years old (13 x 2) I left Oregon for Alaska - and started a new life.
When I was/will be this year 78 years old (13 x 2)I lost my home due to fire - and started a new life.

Given this formula, I would venture to guess that I will live 13 more years. :)

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Pete Jennings
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:06 PM

Plenty of time to brush up on your multiplication, then! LOL.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: GUEST,999
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:11 PM

Ninety-one's a nice round number, Eb.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Bill D
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:17 PM

*head rising to attention*... sniff... sniff... Do I detect a clever bit of interesting arithmetical calculation, suggesting the hypothetical concept that it might all be significant in some unknown realm of cosmic causation, indicating a predictive factor with subjective, if not universal relevance?

why..... perhaps... ;>)

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Little Hawk
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:18 PM

It's a very interesting repeating pattern, Ebbie. You may be onto something there. Rather than coincidences, these might be called correspondences.

We call something a "coincidence" when we notice that it corresponds to something else, but we don't know why. When we don't notice it at all (which I think is very often the case), we don't call it anything at all. ;-)

There are basically 2 schools of philosophical outlook among people. The first school sees itself in a Universe where things happen by chance...by accident...according to blind physical laws...therefore with no purpose or awareness.

The other sees itself in a Universe where everything fits into a meaningful pattern, and everything is interrelated, and has some purpose (although that doesn't mean we know what that purpose is).

The former school would see your pattern as mere "coincidence" (without meaning). The latter school would see your pattern as meaningful...therefore susceptible to some interpretation as to what that meaning might be.

Anyone of a mystical bent tends to favor the latter school. And religious people also favor it. Most materialists (and/or cynics or anti-religious people) tend to favor the former school.

In any case, everyone shares this ONE thing in common. They like to think they're right! ;-D

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Bill D
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:19 PM

♫"Sing ninety-nine and ninety"♫

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: olddude
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:21 PM

I love patterns, works right in with my chaos theory. Now using the same pattern, next 13 years Eb you will be a rich lady with a 21 year old man on a beach in Hawaii. So prepare to be a cougar

Love you
Dan

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: DMcG
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:24 PM

All my children have two names. If you count the syllables, the first born has 1+3, the second 2+2 and the 3rd 3+1. This was not intentional in any way, but is presumably something to do with how long a name 'feels right', with the correlation of birth order and first name length entirely coincidental.

I suppose we could have still fitted the system if we'd had a fourth, but fifth would have been a bit of a challenge.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Little Hawk
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:25 PM

I think there's a statute of limitations on just how looooong one can be a cougar, isn't there? And where (and when) did that expression start, anyway? I think it's weird.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Amos
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:35 PM

I think a great deal of pomposity and harumphing is inevitable when an innocent observation like Eb's is presented. Of which this thread to date is only the latest evidence.

The fact is that the scope of individual consciousness is a glaring, crashing unknown in mainstream human discussion. In a similar vein the actual nature of the interactions between consciousness and the worlds in which we live (plural, intentional) is another crashing unknown.

In the medieval era, a lot of unknowns were "solved" by adopting wildly aberrative stable answers, such as "mystic influence of the stars being herded around by angels" and the like. Or the work of Satan, or his myriad minions. In modern times, we habe promulgated the same appetite for fending off the unknown by ignoring consciousness and focusing entirely on the sphere of mechanics. But I submit that the notion that "all is mechanism" is as superstitious in its use today as the notion "all is angels of God" was in 1300.

From this perspective Jung, and more recently, Ebbie, may be opening doors when they study the relationship between individual consciousness and the meaningful coincidences we call "synchronicity". As Little Hawk points out, when coincidences are not meaningful we don't call them much of anything. This invites cynicism from the materialist camp, but the same cynicism may be applied equally well to the predilection to ignore coincidences which seem to align with the intentions of one or more universes of consciousness.

It may be useful, however, to add that the material universe itself is not a universe of consciousness, but a universe of aggregation, reaction, entropy, densification, and force. These are very much not attributes of consciousness.

A

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Little Hawk
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:44 PM

Perhaps, Amos. Perhaps not. In any case, you have stated it all beautifully. "synchronicity" is probably the best word for it. Another might be "resonance"...like the overtones and harmonics that are produced when a musical note is sounded.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Amos
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:56 PM

It would be awful to be a peaceful pond
Into which a huge stone was suddenly cast, breaking the peace,
Disturbing every dimension with chaos and ripples.
But, on reflection, how much worse
To be the stone.


A

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Little Hawk
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 12:58 PM

Hmmm. Good analogy.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Ebbie
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 01:00 PM

OK, Pete, make that one 4 x 13- don't change nuttin'.

"..."hypothetical concept that it might all be significant in some unknown realm of cosmic causation, indicating a predictive factor with subjective, if not universal relevance?" Like I said, Bill. :)

old dude: "...next 13 years Eb you will be a rich lady with a 21 year old man on a beach in Hawaii." I like that, Dan. As long as the 21 year old is my handyman.

I don't have any idea where 'cougar' came from- unless perhaps it is in reference to a predator?

I agree with Amos. I think. :)

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Ebbie
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 01:02 PM

Amos, we - human beings - are each the stone.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Little Hawk
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 01:05 PM

Yes, I think that's right. We're like little stones cast into a pond. Every now and then a BIG stone comes along...like Napoleon, Caesar, or Hitler. One way or another the pond always sets itself back in order.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: GUEST,999
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 01:21 PM

My fave Ripple

WTF Ripple

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Ebbie
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 01:35 PM

9, your mind is bent. I like that. :)

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: GUEST,999
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 02:02 PM

Why, thank you Ebbie.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Ebbie
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 02:28 PM

:)

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Bill D
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 03:41 PM

Gee, Ebbie... you practically dared me to make a remark; I thought it might at least be worthy of my reputation! *grin*

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: gnu
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 03:46 PM

The onlty thing boring is YOUR post, Fuckwit.

"As long as the 21 year old is my handyman." Hahahahaa!

You growl girl!

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: JohnInKansas
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 03:47 PM

Isn't the real conclusion here that it takes about 13 years for Ebbie to get bored and decide to do something different? (Or maybe just to decide that the last change shouldn't be the last change.)

The fire, presumedly (we hope) wasn't something that she decided to do (?) so we can call it coincidental that it just happens to fit into the same sequence, but of course she was probably due for a change anyway ... .

John

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: gnu
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 05:02 PM

Well, next time, I hope it's not so drastic!

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Ebbie
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 05:07 PM

JohniK, my mind changes a lot more often than that!

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: GUEST,.gargoyle
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 10:01 PM

Biblical

Seven years of plenty .....
,....................................,....................AND......
...................................Seven years of famine.........

Ebbie - from all the horrific stories about the conditions of your previous living situation....you are blessed with the cleansing ashes and sack cloth.

Sincerely,
Gargoyle

The Salvation Army has the best resources for restarting a broken life.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: GUEST,999
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 10:11 PM

There are times you are one smart sonuvagun, Gargoyle.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: JohnInKansas
Date: 25 Jan 13 - 10:18 PM

JohniK, my mind changes a lot more often than that!

Sure, but obviously you don't always do something drastic about every little thing. You gotta work your way up to the big ones by practicing on the little ones that you didn't count.

John

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: DMcG
Date: 26 Jan 13 - 03:47 AM

Just being playing with a music search programme called Kooplet: give it a few notes and it will search the internet for scores containing them. As a test I put in six notes at more or less random and it found a few pieces of which the third was one called "Binny's Jigg" which I didn't know.

Binny has been my daughter's nickname for around 25 years - and she is, of course, a keen dancer.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Mrrzy
Date: 24 Sep 24 - 10:44 PM

Ok, this was weird.

Text from unknown number, are you home? I was expecting such a text from a nephew, so I texted him asking if he was texting me from a different number. No, but I was just about to ask, are you home? Haha, I said, that was the strange text.

I don't answer texts from unknown numbers.

A few whiles later, same strange number calls, and as I am not answering, I get a text from nephew, I'm here. Weird number is calling, I say. Weird, he says, I was going to call but changed my mind...

So weird text comes as nephew is thinking of texting, and weird call while nephew was thinking of calling. The weird text was what my nephew would have texted. No idea if the call was, too!

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Mr Red
Date: 25 Sep 24 - 12:14 PM

We can all make connections and see patterns. It is what humans evolved to do. Let's face it, literally, it helps us read people. And that strange shape we just imagined could be the man-eating tiger about to pounce or our next meal if we are quick.

Like it or not, we need to see patterns, because we can rationalise them at leisure. As long as they are called coincidences it amuses us. Or warnings with scams etc. Anything else is waste of our "cool, calm, and collectedness".

Now I must go looking for that bright red right angle USB cable......... or did someone sneak into my house and move it to a very logical hiding place with a logic that no coincidence can put into my noggin!

late news - in my "laptop" rucksack, now what logic is that? I ask you

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: MaJoC the Filk
Date: 25 Sep 24 - 01:24 PM

> or did someone sneak into my house and move it
> to a very logical hiding place with a logic that
> no coincidence can put into my noggin

That sounds suspiciously like the phenomenon that in our house causes someone to solemnly intone "It's been put Somewhere Safe".

I've evolved a trick for something that's been mislaid. If it takes a long time to find it, don't leave it Somewhere Safe which happens to be logical; if you're not about to use it immediately, leave it where it is, as you're more likely to remember where you found it than a newly-minted Somewhere Safe (whose logic will evaporate once you leave the room).

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Mrrzy
Date: 26 Sep 24 - 06:28 PM

Garek, from ST DS9:

I believe in coincidence. Coincidences happen every day. But I don't TRUST coincidence...

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: MaJoC the Filk
Date: 27 Sep 24 - 08:08 AM

> Coincidences happen every day.

Verily. Need I remind those here assembled of Pratchett's Law of One in a Million Chances?

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: robomatic
Date: 27 Sep 24 - 02:29 PM

The weirdest I've heard of was from Russia. Many years ago one new friend wrote a six digit for another, who forgot it in their pocket. Much later that person found the number, and thought of their acquaintance and dialed it:
-Ivanushka?
-Yes?
-It's Maria, we met in Tver in the 70s. . .
-I remember, but how on earth did you now where to find me?
-You wrote your number for me
-No I didn't. I didn't live here, then.
-But I just found it in my pocket!
-No, what I wrote then was the DATE!

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Mr Red
Date: 27 Sep 24 - 06:27 PM

I remember a story on the radio asking the programme to explain

The story teller went on holiday to Cyprus
Returning home they opened there door with a Yale (barrel lock) key.
Only to realise they used the wrong bunch of keys, bringing home the keys from their rented flat in Cyprus.
Their question was how much of a coincidence was that?

The answer was not that much of one. Barrel locks of the Yale kind only had about 1000 differs. (trade term apparently) The "number" is a trade-off between permutations and reproducibility.

The key (ha) to the coincidence was in not surrendering the Cyprus keys on leaving.

it might have been Malta, but you get the idea

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: The Sandman
Date: 28 Sep 24 - 02:06 AM

in 1996 i was busking in oliver plunkett street in cork city, i deided to sing raglan road, as i was doing so Ronnie Drew walked by, AND DROPPED A FIVER INTO MY BOX,that was a lovely coincidence

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: robomatic
Date: 28 Sep 24 - 01:30 PM

That made me LOL.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Ebbie
Date: 02 Oct 24 - 07:46 PM

This was an interesting read, one I had forgotten about.

Note that I'm still here- next month I'll be 89 years old. If I'm still alive in 2026 to become 91, that's ok- I don't really want to live much longer.

Life is still interesting to me and I keep learning. When I stop learning, I want to go!

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Thompson
Date: 08 Oct 24 - 03:43 PM

Shavarsh Karapetyan, a champion Armenian Soviet swimmer, was on a bus in 1974 when the driver stopped to check the engine. The bus started rolling towards a precipice and Shavarsh rushed up, broke down the partition and steered it to safety.
In 1976, after his regular 20km daily swim, Shavarsh and his brother were jogging beside a highly polluted lake, when he saw a trolleybus plunge into the deep water. Shavarsh dived in, swam down 10 metres and broke the back window, slashing his legs. In a series of 20 dives he rescued 37 of the 92 passengers; nine more got out themselves through the window he'd kicked in. 20 of these people survived. His injuries and illness, including sepsis, meant the end of his swimming career, and he spent six weeks in hospital.
In 1985 he was near a massive sports complex when a fire broke out. Shavarsh helped the firefighters and went in to rescue many people; he suffered severe burns, and was again hospitalised.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Ebbie
Date: 08 Oct 24 - 11:05 PM

All I can say is Thank Goodness that there are people like him amongst us!

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Mrrzy
Date: 09 Oct 24 - 10:32 AM

When I was 10, I met the uncle of the person I'd meet at 26, and later marry...

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Thompson
Date: 09 Oct 24 - 10:59 AM

Thank goodness there are people like him, but I don't think I'd be walking near him!
Yeah, I have a family I'm close to, and a relative turned out to have been very good friends with them years before - no connection at all between how we met them, different countries and everything.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Ebbie
Date: 10 Oct 24 - 07:29 PM

Woah! I'd love to hear more 'coincidences'!

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Mrrzy
Date: 16 Oct 24 - 09:00 AM

At a party, mentioned we'd lived in the Lee Fendall house before it was a museum, to someone who, it turned out, lived in another of Lighthorse Harry Lee's houses.

This party was in Chicago.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Mr Red
Date: 24 Nov 24 - 05:48 PM

Is this weird?
I was doing a crossword puzzle (for too long) and the answer was pretty obviously Xmas/Noel/Yule but it needed more letters.

So we cheated and looked at the answers - Nowell - later I looked it up, archaic spelling. Just after perusing old maps (1906) in response to something totally unrelated & saw a "Nowell Avenue". Is 9 hours a coincidence?

But being intrigued looked some more and it turned out there were 12 instances, Street, Lane, Crescent, View etc. So the chances of me spotting it were high, but in a 200 X 600 mile island - one try at identifying a milestone today took me to a spot 1/500th of a square mile (measured).

There were about 4 Kitcheners - Well I guess our country needed them (UK reference to Victorian military recruitment)

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Black belt caterpillar wrestler
Date: 24 Nov 24 - 06:34 PM

My father had coincidences follow him around throughout his life.

During the war he had a sudden posting to London to attend a course. He got someone to get him a ticket for a concert, any classical music concert, for the evening he arrived.
He took his seat in the concert but the two seats in front of him were empty. Just as the concert was about to start a couple scurried in and took their places.
My father leaned forward and tapped his brother on the shoulder, "Cutting it a bit fine weren't you?".

Neither knew that the other was in London, neither had made long term plans to attend the concert, neither had booked the seats, and they were one in front of the other.

Robin

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Ebbie
Date: 24 Nov 24 - 07:13 PM

Coincidences/patterns/synchronicities, big and small, evidently occur constantly. Yesterday I was texting with a friend and I said that someone reminded me of Keith Richards. A moment later I clicked on a Keb Mo video (wonderful music! Had never heard of him.) and Richards was singing and playing with him. Who knew?

Years ago my brother's family in Michigan planned to caravan with my North Carolina sister to travel to Oregon together, planning to meet in Indiana along the way.

A few weeks after forming the plan, my sister's family had to cancel their trip but my brother's family left at the planned time.
In the meantime sis's family discovered they could go after all and took off.

In Wyoming, brother joined another highway, came up the ramp and a car moved over to accommodate them. In it was my sister's family.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: meself
Date: 26 Nov 24 - 11:11 AM

I was tutoring an East Asian student in English; at our first session, I had him writing a little 'autobiography'. As he was writing, I got reading a story in which I came across an unexpected and random mention of 'Dubai' (the protagonist notices the name on a brochure; something like that). Perhaps that was just jarring enough to remind me I had other concerns; I glanced at my student's work, to see how he was doing: he was in the process of writing the word 'Dubai' on his page.

As it turned out, he had an older brother working in IT in Dubai, and the family was planning a trip to visit him; otherwise, no connection with that part of the world ....

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Mrrzy
Date: 09 Dec 24 - 08:37 PM

Ok that was scary, I was getting out of my car and suddenly there was this looming shadow on the fence, of a person behind me moving strangely, so I started to whirl around do see who it was, and as I did realized it was MY shadow! There was a dude with a headlamp on out walking dogs, and he glanced over when I got out of my car, so his light made me cast a shadow, but HE was moving, so it looked like the shadow was...

Anyway, I am calm again now.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Donuel
Date: 10 Dec 24 - 08:15 AM

Disease X outbreak Its only fatal for one in four.

Just in time for brain worm RFK to head the Center for Disease Control and National Institutes for Health.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: MaJoC the Filk
Date: 10 Dec 24 - 09:43 AM

.... and for Cap'n Superspreader to host another mass meeting of the VIPocracy in the White House gardens.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Donuel
Date: 10 Dec 24 - 06:02 PM

One of the King's appointees sells a pill that is supposed to reverse the COVID-19 vaccine just in time for Covid season.

Subject: RE: BS: Weird Coincidences
From: Donuel
Date: 10 Dec 24 - 06:08 PM

Karl Jung's synchronicity puts a finer point on coincidences.