DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 26 Jun 25 - 09:33 AM

Stilly, I have a table on my porch that should attract parcels — it’s right beside the front door, under the mailbox — but generally doesn’t. Most parcels are found on the porch floor, often carefully propped against the door. Why? It’s a mystery.

I have only a couple of the stager’s tasks left to do. I’ll wait till Monday morning on a couple of them so the rooms are still usable; for example, she wants me to turn my computer desk around to face the wall, although in that position I can’t plug in the computer.

But the lawn’s getting shaggy. Must stir up Max-next-door.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: MaJoC the Filk
Date: 26 Jun 25 - 10:43 AM

> Why? It’s a mystery

Perhaps the delivery persons are following orders. They're not paid enough to have initiative, and may in fact get disciplined for showing it.

But it also reminds me of the description of an empty rubbish receptacle on a pavement, surrounded by a ring of the rubbish that should have been in it. When I first read that, I thought mebbe the rubbish-bearing oiks couldn't throw straight, but it might have been just a "stuff you" comment by said oiks. Or an outdoor Tracy Emin installation.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 26 Jun 25 - 10:52 AM

the world is full of mysteries, as the adage says

One Of Life's Little Mysteries.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 26 Jun 25 - 04:47 PM

The porch looks much better but I think the last of the chalk went to the art teacher donations. Perhaps a boxed area lined out with painter's tape and write my request on the tape with a Sharpie.

Today I sent a fax and made calls to my representatives, and now I need to set that aside and work on my own things. Let the stress have a break.

eBay has to top the list of things to do, clearing out via sales and donation are the top two methods of declutter right now. I have a small batch to list this afternoon on the free page.

The first week in July is packed full of appointments and cat comings-and-goings, but sometimes those are my most efficient weeks, when everything ends up being planned out.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 27 Jun 25 - 12:06 AM

I did a couple of more segments of the den floor. I'm doing small enough sections so I can set chairs around each area to keep the dogs from retracking through it until its dry.

I have a taker for most of the kitchen items I listed today on the buy nothing page, the surplus will go in the laundry room bin for Goodwill later. She's interested in baking - I should add a bonus of the last few pounds of wheat flour that I never use anymore.

I'm doing the gray water bucket brigade from the kitchen sink now; as I wash hands, rinse plates or let the water run till hot, it collects in a bucket. It goes on potted plants, garden plants, and several trips out a day is often enough to avoid having to go with the hose in the evening.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 27 Jun 25 - 10:50 AM

The window-washer is hard at work downstairs. Upstairs, the improvement is startling.

Because I'm chicken on ladders, the upstairs windows haven't been washed since before we bought this house. Therefore, they had at least eight years' accumulation of airborne grunge.

In my next abode, I'll indulge in an annual splurge on clean windows. As luxuries go, it ranks well above a spa visit, and probably costs about the same.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 27 Jun 25 - 11:25 AM

Mademoiselle Argiope (kind of rhymes with Calliope) has, over the course of the last few days, moved her web closer to the house each night. From under the soffit over the front walk to the inside corner next to the door, so that now when I open the security gate the web wobbles. The test will come tomorrow to see if she tries to locate inside the security gate or if she backs off some and settles in the mid-range next to the string of lights that turns on at dusk. Perhaps I should change the lighting pattern to a steady glow and she will move closer again. Do spiders get motion sickness from flickering lights? Clearly she's looking for the optimal spot, so experimentation and learning seems to be part of the process. (She builds a new web every night, after eating the old one.)

Kitchen items and 10 pounds of flour have left the porch, and though it will just look like an ordinary porch to someone who is never here, I suspect the postal carrier and the Amazon driver will notice it is clear of leaf litter and tracked dirt. The cooler with bottled water will head out for the hottest time of year soon. I used to have a porch swing out there but the sun was hard on it; I may move it back out for the rest of the summer and get a new tarp to cover it.

The next segment of den floor is scrubbed and drying, chairs arrayed around the spot. A drawback to this work is that it makes the house very humid.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: pattyClink
Date: 27 Jun 25 - 11:07 PM

Chaos, total chaos. The living room looks like a little funnel cloud came through. Took forever to pack up an instrument for shipment so now there is styrofoam bits and and cardboard and bubble wrap everywhere, and still didn't make the deadline for UPS.

I was delighted the selling process worked, a friend in a bind needed to raise some funds. But it was a lot of work, and crafting an oversized box took way longer than it should have. Note to self, never publish the listing til the item is packed for shipment.

And tomorrow's plans have just blown up. You never know how a day is going to go...

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 27 Jun 25 - 11:29 PM

Sounds like you accomplished what you planned - and I have seen the styrofoam microbeads around here when I need a sturdy support in a box and must break or cut large pieces to work.

A tip if no other sources are nearby - you can buy boxes online from UHaul and you'd be surprised at the number of sizes and shapes they have. Factor it into sales, of course, and have it ahead of listing. I bought a dozen in a couple of long and low sizes to pack vintage VHS players in. It was easier than waiting for the right size box to come along. These days I go down to the village recycle bins and look to see what sizes have been dropped in (usually not flattened out).

Charmion, how are your windows looking now? Dorothy, how is your puttering around the cottage at Beaver going?

I have officially turned that spider corner into prime real estate for Ms. Argiope. I stepped out on the porch this evening and after a couple of minutes a Junebug bopped along. I caught it and tossed it into the web; I was going to take a photo and in the 15 seconds it took to pull the phone from my pocket and bring up the camera app she already had that bug fully bound. The bug is still alive - last I saw the two of them she was hovering around and the bug was kicking through the sticky layers.

More of the den has been scrubbed, so easy with that battery operated big spinning brush.

I know the next nine days here are going to feel like your styrofoam storm is running through my life; cat sitting begins and there are a number of other appointments sprinkled through the week.

I'm taking a weekend (at least) off from any politics and I set up FB with a filter to block names and events. If you use Facebook Purity (download from this site, not the Chrome extension store where there are some fakes) you can filter keywords from your newsfeed. I set that up and compared Chrome (with the filters) to Firfox and there is a big difference. It just doesn't let the political stuff load. (On FB itself they refer to themselves as "Fluff Busting Purity" because FB blocks any references to their actual name. It's an odd arrangement, but it works.)

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 29 Jun 25 - 08:05 PM

One more trip this evening to feed cats, on one of the few days that is particularly complicated, but I pampered myself between the feeding runs. I went over to the gym I haven't been to in ages, intending a smallish "spa day" of workout and pool, but after the hour on the recumbent bike (my knees feel so good now!) I realized the pool was full of families with small children. Not great for swimming laps and I don't need to be exposed to whatever small kids have been catching these days. I'll plan to get back to the gym several days a week this summer and hopefully weekdays will be better for the pool.

I walked around the yard at midday looking at the possible bugs to tempt the porch spider. Butterflies are hard to catch, I don't want to interfere with the bees at work. An adolescent grasshopper presented itself and was carried through the house (it was deceased since when I caught I kind of squashed it). On the third toss it stuck in the web, but Ms. Argiope was pulsing she was so ? something about it. The web was bouncing like she was trying to drop the bug out. She kept her distance for hours. Later I went out and found she had embraced and wrapped it in silk and has been next to it since. It is looking rather deflated.

There are more normal activities around here also. I often call my son on the weekend, and he had said today would be good, but when I reached him this afternoon via video call I heard and saw my sister in the background making cranky sounds about a storage shed kit she was putting together in preparation for having construction on the house soon. She reminded me of me working on something that causes a struggle, and the call ended with "thank you for loaning me your son." I'm glad I could help! :)

Yesterday the last of the potatoes were harvested. This week I'll visit the nearby nursery to see what they have in stock to put in that bed next since I've finished planting everything I started from seed. All of the outdoor work stuff is more appealing, but I have to make progress on the eBay sales to clear out the front room.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: pattyClink
Date: 29 Jun 25 - 08:57 PM

Hauled the big package off to a shipper in a further-away town yesterday, instead of waiting til Monday. To make the trip less useless, got some good books from a real bookstore run by a book 'curator', what a nice change.

Also got blessed when I tried a new thrift shop, and someone had donated a filthy but perfect bedspread and sham sized for the motorhome bed, it may have actually been for a motorhome. Was leery lest it be dry-clean-only, but it laundered beautifully. $5. Mercy or karma, not sure which. Feel like I earned it by the long hot day I spent searching last week and settling for something not quite ideal. And those things can work elsewhere on the hacienda.

Much work today in the heat. Round two of cleaning said MH in prep for photos. The dust infiltrates after each round, though we have shut down some leaks.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: MaJoC the Filk
Date: 30 Jun 25 - 09:41 AM

End of an Era: Ptolemy cheated the hangman by storming the gates of Valhalla this morning, three hours before the Last Appointment we'd booked for him. Herself gave him a quick dose of his controlled substance as he was going, as he was clearly unhappy; this might explain why the backup vet* said he looked as if he'd had a peaceful end. I just hope the Viking equivalent of St Peter doesn't have the controlled-substances equivalent of a breathaliser, but methinks they're used to receiving new guests who are somewhat out to lunch.

No flowers, please, just mice.

* His usual vet was in the middle of a seriously long procedure. Ptol always had, of course, a cat's innate talent for non-human-friendly timing (cf small gifts at three in the morning).

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 30 Jun 25 - 10:03 AM

All things considered, that's a good way to go. Congratulations and condolences, Ptolemy. My late Poppy offers a ghostly salute from her spot on the floor at the intersection of the halls. She could always keep track of me and the doors from there. When they leave on their own there is no questioning if the time was right. ❤ 🐭 ❤🐭 🐁 ❤ (See Alt-Codes for critter html codes.)

Critter-wise here, Cookie spent the pre-dawn hour barking at the roofers next door, before I convinced her they had been invited to declutter the top of that house. And on my front porch the hollow husk of the grasshopper is on the floor and Ms. Argiope has snagged, as I feared, one of my fireflies. I can tell by the faint colors that show through the silken binding. I didn't give her one the first night (there was one next to the porch light), but it seems she knows what she wants.

Charmion I hope the photos and listing process goes well this week. Dorothy, I suppose you can get a double whammy holiday week with Canada Day and the Fourth as bookends to the week.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 30 Jun 25 - 12:39 PM

The photographer has left, and I’ve almost finished un-stashing stuff I had to hide from the camera. I still haven’t signed anything with the agent …

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 30 Jun 25 - 03:25 PM

RIP Ptolemy. *Sniff*

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 30 Jun 25 - 11:17 PM

Another trip to the gym this evening, between the last two cat runs, and I have finally figured out why I seemed to be short on socks. There were five pair tucked into the gym bag and the pool bag. Now they're back in my dresser drawer, and an extra pair of walking shoes is in the shoe rack in the closet. Since I have an appointment tomorrow where I want to be cleaned up and have clean hair, and I wanted to kill some time between the cat feedings, I not only spent time on the recumbent bike listening to an audiobook I took my evening shower there. I was doing that last summer to save water (so I could put more on the garden). They have great water pressure and huge showerheads.

I get free access to a gym that normally has a fairly expensive monthly fee through the Silver Sneakers program as part of my state-paid health insurance. It promotes exercise and healthy habits as a way to maintain health. I wonder if our health insurance will continue to be robust in the days ahead.

The roofers next door had bits of plastic wrappers and paper linings of things drifting into my front yard and garden this afternoon. On my way out to feed cats I stopped the SUV and got out and picked up a couple of pieces and spoke to the guy working on that side of their house - "this is a food garden. Please be careful picking up anything that might have blown into it." I'll see in the morning, but I think he was going to comply - a polite young man.

The funny thing about the work next door is that there were nine vehicles parked in the street because the workers each drove themselves here (in past years they would arrive in just a couple of company vehicles - so the contractors aren't providing transport now.) One of them parked right in front of my Italian Stone Pine and as I was headed out mid-afternoon a man was taking a nap under it; he had a cushion of some sort and a cooler beside him, but he was tucked under the full shade of my tree. I don't mind he was in my yard and I'm glad someone was enjoying the shade. That's why I planted a street tree.

In the natural history porch goings-on department, I put water in the dog pan on the back patio again, but have a couple of rocks in it after we had a juvenile toad drowning earlier in the season. I know the big old toads really love a good midnight soak, so didn't want to deprive them of that treat.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 01 Jul 25 - 12:49 PM

It’s Dominion Day, or Canada Day if you swing that way. I’m doing the laundry and not much else, in anticipation of my world going sideways on Thursday. The agent sent me a link to the photographer’s website, and he did an amazing job — I’d buy the joint all over again but I can’t afford it. I sign her paperwork tomorrow, and then they post the listing and put the sign on my lawn.

I’m so ready to think about something — anything — that isn’t selling the house.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 02 Jul 25 - 12:23 PM

The glider is back on the front porch, covered with a deeply-discounted tarp from Harbor Freight (bright blue). That means the side door is much easier to access, though there is a stack of large flattened boxes that used to be held in place against the wall by the glider. If Charmion were closer I'd send them to her for the next phase of the changing houses exercise.

Ms. Argiope is not interested in butterflies. The small one tossed onto the web this morning was examined closely by her, then dropped to the porch. She's as picky an eater as my blue heeler. A lizard will find and enjoy it.

Trash day is tomorrow and in advance will be a ruthless cleaning of the main fridge and the small fridge of things that are just never eaten and don't really belong in the compost.

Today would have been a good day to mow except it is at air quality level orange. Maybe tomorrow. I have my eye on a number of seedlings to dig out of the gardens so this afternoon or evening I'll head out with the shovel and remove them. Cutting them off at the base never works, they always grow back. I met the gardener at my cat sitting gig house yesterday, and I asked her what her rate is for weeding. I wonder if I hired her (or a local teen) with a bounty on each of these hackberry and pecan saplings, $1 per tree with the roots dug out, how much it would cost me? It would be possible to dig a whole bunch in an hour or two.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: MaJoC the Filk
Date: 02 Jul 25 - 06:16 PM

In memory of Ptolemy:

Laser Danger, from XKCD.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 02 Jul 25 - 11:22 PM

I saw that one today.

This evening when I was leaving the house where I am cat sitting there was a cat on the front lawn that is almost identical, color, size, and build, to one that I know I left behind in the house. It took me by surprise. And it had me wondering of any of Ptolemy's friends have stopped by to say hello or inquire after meals?

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 03 Jul 25 - 08:11 AM

A small black cat has been visiting my patio door lately, driving Isobel utterly mad with territorial rage that she takes out on Watson, claws to the fore and swearing up a storm. Surely the Cat Distribution System isn’t trying to send me yet another black cat? The felines currently in residence are the fifth and sixth black cats to live with me since 1988.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 03 Jul 25 - 09:06 AM

I don't think you get a say in the scheduling as far as the arrival date. I never did, at any rate. My last two cats presented themselves and that was that. My first and third dogs, also (though Zeke was a stray for only a couple of hours, when he turned up I knew if I couldn't find the owners he would stay with me. Who knew that a year later he would come for a long visit and stay 12 years.)

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: MaJoC the Filk
Date: 03 Jul 25 - 10:40 AM

We've had the odd "are you home?" visits, but nothing anywhere near permanent yet. I suspect Ptolemy didn't subscribe Herself to the Cat-Whisper Support Network after all, or had let our membership lapse. In compensation, there's more birds around in the garden now, starting (of course) with our neighbourhood robin.

The last cat carrier, and Ptol's litter tray and cat basket, got taken away yesterday, ironically by a chap who'd just been adopted by a stray cat*. End of an Era; it's changed the entire shape of our day.

Oh, and our neighbourhood blackbird thinks it's Clint Eastwood. It'll be singing Evensong for us, and it'll slip in the yodel from the theme tune of The Good, The Bad and The Ugly when I least suspect it.

* It had been going back and forth across the garden on a daily basis for a while, then one day decided to stop with them.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: MaJoC the Filk
Date: 03 Jul 25 - 10:43 AM

--- Ach: make that "prowl-by visits". The dishes have gone, so now also the temptation to tarry. The hedgehogs will just have to grub up our neighbour's front lawn for worms again.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 03 Jul 25 - 04:49 PM

My house is listed: Charmion's house

Already the realtor has held an open house for all the other agents in town, and one party of punters came to see the place this morning. Two more parties are coming tomorrow morning.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 03 Jul 25 - 06:10 PM

I've just poked through the photos at Charmion's house - it's nice to see the rooms you've talked about and the pieces of furniture discussed. The music room, that Mission style bed frame, the place where your patio was disrupted for the work and how tidy the basement looks now, the kitchen after the renovations, etc. I love that huge tree in the back corner. Good luck with all of the fuss of having the house listed and being viewed. It's a plan to emulate: decluttering, renovating, and getting set to sell. #Props

I put in a garden pretty soon after moving into this house, and most years I've grown tomatoes and often there are some ripe by the first day of summer. We formed a welcome-to-summer tradition of the Soltice BLT. Or as close as we could come to it. Today my daughter and I had a picnic at a shaded table on her museum grounds (today is heavily overcast, so not scorching hot like most of July). I toasted the gluten-free bread ahead, sliced the super-ripe homegrown tomato, cut up lettuce, bacon fried and in its own box, had a squirt bottle of mayo, and when it is assembled, the magic touch of squashing the sandwich together at the end (my daughter insists I squash her sandwich - "It's how the love gets in.") The sandwiches were excellent and that tomato did not disappoint. You simply cannot purchase a tomato in a store that tastes like one ripened on the vine in the yard. I had a spare tomato that went home with her and will be sliced for her wife's July 4 faux-meat burger.

Last week we talked about the lack of fruit on her tomato plants and I reminded her about using the blossom set product (I have Green Light "Tomato Bloom Spray") you can spray on the flowers. Most of the fruit that forms has no seeds but is otherwise good. She apparently went nuts and got all of the flowers she could find. She tells me her plants are now loaded with fruit (last year she didn't have many, and was determined to do better this year). I pace myself; I also don't have a lot of fruit, but about once a week I go spray more blooms to spread out the harvest. This stuff has been around forever, and is a gardener's best friend if the crop looks like it is going to be scant.

Working on a few things this afternoon so I can take the next couple of days off from the work-from-home job. I need to get into the sewing studio tonight.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion's brother Andrew
Date: 03 Jul 25 - 06:26 PM

Charmion, how are you wrangling Watson and Isobel while the house is on the market?

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 03 Jul 25 - 07:31 PM

The cats are fine — or at least no trouble to any humans — when punters are looking at the house. Watson sprawls on my bed on top of the quilt, and Isobel vanishes. When I got home today, I could see that she had been on my bed under the quilt.

I have already received an offer that I don’t love because the prospects don’t even have their own house listed yet. Their proposed price is in the right ballpark, but what do I do if they can’t sell?

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 04 Jul 25 - 07:32 AM

Charmion, congratulations to you (for sorting & downsizing) & agent (for knowing their business) & photographer (ditto)!

may your beautiful house sell quickly -

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: pattyClink
Date: 04 Jul 25 - 09:37 AM

The house looks wonderful! From the descriptions of problems and fixes, I was not picturing such a great-looking place. Best wishes on getting to closing. And yes, don't waste your time on people who aren't really ready to buy.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 04 Jul 25 - 06:26 PM

After only four viewings, I have two offers. Both are for more than I asked.

Time to go to Ottawa and look at houses.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 04 Jul 25 - 06:43 PM

yes!!!!!!

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 04 Jul 25 - 11:21 PM

Excellent news about interest in the house! Navigating all of the steps from this point will possibly include steam blowing out of your ears, but the Declutter cheering section is here to offer support!

Fireworks going off like a war zone right now. A heavy rain storm blew through before sunset. It would have been wonderful to listen to rain on the roof right now, instead of firecrackers and Roman candles and Dog knows what else. I had a struggle with Pepper when I mistakenly left my bedroom door open. She launched herself onto my bed a couple of times. If it was just for comfort, I could live with it, but unfortunately when the noise starts she sometimes pees on herself.

I was poking around Replacements.com and realized they sell a lot of the glasses I have here to list on eBay. It will help me with descriptions and prices (I need to undercut them enough that people will buy from me instead - but their prices are pretty high per glass.)

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 05 Jul 25 - 08:05 AM

After yesterday’s excitements, I was all prepared to hit the road tomorrow and start looking at houses on Monday, but this morning I realized that my monthly date with the allergist and his needle is scheduled for Tuesday. So — cool yer jets, Charmion.

The agents have arranged another viewing for tomorrow (Sunday) afternoon.

No more fireworks in Stratford; that’s blessedly over for another year.

I like Replacements, but their prices are indeed intimidating. Anything bought from them will arrive intact, however; their packing materials are excellent and they aren’t stingy with them.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 05 Jul 25 - 09:39 AM

Charmion, 23 years ago I found the house I'm living in on the Internet. At the time I was using Realtor.com, since then Zillow is a big deal (and forcing some changes in the US market, at least, with insisting that if Realtors have "pocket" listings they can't go up on Zillow later. It's start out online or never online.) And I'm told that Redfin has the fastest refresh rate for listings during the day. My son and his partner found their house through them a couple of years ago. At any rate, this adds up to "let your fingers do the walking," repurposing the old Yellow Pages motto.

Lovely gentle rain here in North Texas this morning, but yesterday it was a hellish floodscape in the Texas Hill Country south of here. I've driven through that area several times, the Guadalupe River is incredibly beautiful, but the land contours are gentle enough that the water can rush far and wide quickly. The river rose 26' in 45 minutes. Those kids in the summer camp didn't have a chance.

With the rain here the soil in the back will be moist enough to finish that work on the French drain today and tomorrow. My gardening guru discussed just such a project on his radio show last week, reminding me that even my original low-tech plan of just gravel, not using a perforated tube, was fine. I'll stay with that original plan.

This cat-sitting gig is over Monday evening, but it has gotten me back into going to the gym so I'll keep that up. I'm listening to the audio book of Wicked to see what all of the fuss has been about. The book was written over 20 years ago, and it's ironic that there is apparently a disruptive feature called Ticktock (not sure how the book writes or spells it since I'm listening).

Dorothy, how was the week with double holidays? Do you observe either of them (two occasions for picnics!) Was the Fourth quiet for everyone else? For the rest of the world it was just Friday, here it felt like having a two Saturday weekend.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: pattyClink
Date: 05 Jul 25 - 10:00 AM

Awful to hear about campers being lost in the flash flood on the Guadalupe. I know a 26' rise is unheard of, but still, was there no flash-flood forecast, were local weather and fema officials not clearing people from river campgrounds, even if it had been a lower rise predicted?? If anything like that had been approaching M'sippi, the broadcast weather guys would have been screaming from the rooftops for people to get out of flood zones, never mind deputies allowing riverside camping.

Well there was nothing to celebrate this fourth, nation-wise. Personally, I was so undone by the week's little disasters (floor-flooding washer caused by drain line problem, etc.) I just wanted to be left alone and quietly putter around doing things I moved here to be able to do, instead of incessant cleaning, repair, and money issues, with no privacy from people who do repairs. Dropped it into low-low gear, and feel better now having had a quiet day.

PSA: feeling particularly irritable and sleepless, discovered both the B6 and B12 I had been taking have outrageously high dosages, known to cause above problems.   I don't know what these boobs are thinking; but I suspect if a compound is cheap to make, they just load in whatever amount will fit in the capsule or tablet mold.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 05 Jul 25 - 12:01 PM

I also take B12, but a fairly low dose (doctor wants me on B12 and D3). I just looked at the GABA I started taking for relaxation (as needed), and it has a small amount of B6. It's good at bedtime, or in conjunction with L-Theanine (for stress) on a particularly stressful day.

With the rain I'm going to be doing some quick area mopping to prevent the mud buildup that I just struggled to scour last week. I'll be muddying the place when I do the French drain, but if I use the wheelbarrow as I excavate from the small trench I can park it someplace until I figure out where I want another raised bed and it won't be too much for the girls to track in.

Last week I got a tetanus/whooping cough booster, and my shoulder is still a little stiff, but it wasn't too bad. The size of needles they use, and with all of the practice pharmacists have had, I didn't even feel the injection. I couldn't find any information about the last time I had one, my doctors didn't have records, and while I couldn't remember the last booster, I remember a former doctor's rule of thumb: "If you can't remember when you had your last tetanus shot, you probably need a tetanus shot." (It seems the boosters are combined now, but that's fine; of all of the childhood illnesses I did have, whooping cough wasn't one of them and it's something no one ever wants to catch.)

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: keberoxu
Date: 05 Jul 25 - 02:51 PM

I stayed off the roads on the Fourth.
In my new location, I am happy to report that the fireworks are so far away
that I could barely hear them, just some faint booms in the distance.
So I had a sedate, peaceful Fourth, which was appropriate this year.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 05 Jul 25 - 03:42 PM

If I leave the house at all on a major holiday in summer, I do it in daylight and on foot. I lived in downtown Ottawa for decades, and more than once barely escaped getting trampled in the massive crowd that assembles for the Canada Day fireworks on Parliament Hill. Now I’m too old and rickety for such shenanigans.

My agent in Ottawa has told me not to waste my time on a house-hunting trip until my buyers have sold their house. In Ottawa, he said, it’s such a seller’s market that an offer with a sell-the-house condition will be ignored.

So that gives me a bit of breathing space, whether I want it or not.

Next challenge: hiring a mover.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 05 Jul 25 - 06:55 PM

Looking at houses online lets you figure out what neighborhoods you like, what your price range is for the kind of house you want, and time to immerse yourself in that marketplace so when you get there, you know what to expect. The downside is seeing houses you like that are already off the market by the time you get a chance to ask to take a look.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 05 Jul 25 - 07:20 PM

Exactly.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: robomatic
Date: 05 Jul 25 - 08:12 PM

I have friends with a dog, I am the designated 'dogfather' which means I participate in daily walks with Nuccah, since her daddy doesn't walk. As a young dog, she has shown little fear of fireworks, which is a departure for many of our local pooches, who can be severely stressed by the percussive sounds, and for all I know the smells, of various private investments in spreading noise and color (hopefully) into the sky. I live near a lake, and many of the lakefront landholders will shoot works into the basin. Since there are many airplane owners with floatplanes parked out on the water, there is a healthy cafe taken so no really stupid accidents happen, that could get a careless enthusiast sued or shot.

Last night was quieter than it has been for many years. Still trying to figure out the reason, but no complaints in this department.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Charmion
Date: 06 Jul 25 - 09:12 AM

Robo, is there any chance your neighbours are growing out of the gratuitous noise phase of life?

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 06 Jul 25 - 12:07 PM

I thought Friday was the end of the storms for a while, but more are passing through today, complete with flash flood warnings. Duly noted. The next couple of days have a lower chance. Once the storms are over and I'm finished with the (now extended a full day due to scheduling of contractors at her other house) cat sitting, I'll finish the French drain. The soil will be perfect to dig in. I've also figured out where to put some of the material excavated—there is a hole near the garage that the dogs have gradually extended along the foundation. Rearranging the soil in the yard is an unusual form of decluttering, but whatever.

Patty, did any of this moisture pass over you at your desert ranch? We'd be glad to share.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: pattyClink
Date: 06 Jul 25 - 06:20 PM

We have had some epic rains over the last week, some quite violent, washing gravel onto the porch, not just the usual silt and sand. Roads under water, the Mimbres went from its usual dry condition to way out of its banks and washed out cattle fences and some pavement on the major highway. Friends had a oversized garage/hangar take on an inch of mud, and water got in their home. Apparently in their case a huge haboob hit with a huge rainstorm right behind it. The good news is the long and bad drought is at least taking a big break.

Guess that's why I was so outraged that the flash floods in Texas were a 'surprise', um no they weren't, these violent systems have been active across the southwest. Now we find the lives lost trace back to the layoffs at NOAA, plus reluctance of local government to spend a dime on 'frills' like having people and plans in place for warnings of dire river rises. I don't know how these people look themselves in the mirror.

Discovered the professionally 'fixed' hatch latch on the RV has already failed and won't open now, in addition to looking awful. Correct parts are not available anywhere, so might have to get a friend to try designing and 3-D printing something. So angry to spend time and money to have things fixed and then have to do it over again, more time and money.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Donuel
Date: 06 Jul 25 - 07:34 PM

For sore shoulder joints from impingement or other reasons, Glucosamine Chondroitin over the counter may help you eliminate the pain or cause. It works for me in just a couple days. Its available in virtually every drugstore. May you have the same Good luck.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 06 Jul 25 - 08:12 PM

The NWS had enough weather balloons up and that kind of tracking; what they didn't have, as you noted, was the downstream position filled that is the contact with the local weather alert contacts. There was no one to pass along the information. That person was fired in late April.

My dogs get glucosamine chews once a day. The cats I am feeding this week get it in as a powder sprinkled on their evening meal. My mother used to take it. It's a well-known remedy.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 07 Jul 25 - 01:54 PM

Last week I gave a tour at the museum where I scan, and dressed up a pair of black jeans for just the afternoon. I had another tour yesterday and was looking for the jeans, but figured they must be hanging in the laundry room so got out a black pair of culotte-style ankle-length slacks. When I got home I thought - I'll wear them again next Sunday, turned to drape them over the back of the Mission rocker, and there were the black jeans. Maybe before the tour next week I'll remember where the black pants are.

The yard is soggy and lots of tall weeds in the garden again. I'll head out with the trimmer later when the heat has dried the grass some.

Until then, I have work to do, but I started reading E. Jean Carroll's Not My Type and am instead going to read for a while. There's a truism about not pissing off a writer, and she's a heckuva writer. Her best revenge against Trump is this book. It will hurt his ego more than the millions she was awarded. It doesn't feel like being steeped in Trump stuff, it's about her and the effect he had on her life, but what a life! I read a review that said it's worthwhile getting the audiobook because she read it, and I enjoyed her discussion of why she decided to narrate herself. I'm reading now and when the audiobook comes through from the library I'll switch over.

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Dorothy Parshall
Date: 07 Jul 25 - 06:14 PM

Dupont:

Then the computer died - DEAD! I shall be spending the rest of my life trying to regain my life. No! I did not back up and things are not on ICloud. A lengthy tutorial at the apple store sent me home with very little ability. I hope the brain will gain... I totally lost precious stuff. Came home with a back up thing.

I have been trying to get the energy to make some pottery- esp the plates son wants. Now... I have connected with one bank account - cannot even pay my bills! I am fairly well over the total melt down but it may recur. The music! mostly by dear friends but the fates left me with one Cohen album and a U-2 thing which was never there before -DELETE!

The nice folks at the Apple store handled my nervous breakdown very well - but let me leave without nearly enough info. I see numerous calls to Apple help in my future.

The weather has cooled a bit today so my energy level is a bit better. I have to keep convincing myself I am feeling better each day - trying to do enough to help the state of the body and not so much that the back insulted and fingers tingle.

Arkansas Hard luck blues: "And the only reason I'm hanging around is to find out what the hack is going to happen next!"

Now, to see if I can gather a few more essentials!

Subject: RE: DECLUTTER: *Sorting *Health *Progress - 2025
From: Dorothy Parshall
Date: 07 Jul 25 - 06:24 PM

OOPS! Hope SRS is OK after I saw a glimpse of HCR post! OK! And Charmion will soon be getting congratulations!