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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Matt_R Date: 16 Dec 00 - 10:48 PM Thanks a lot Mr.Greaseball Spaw! I wonder if Blondie knows as much as you do about fixing cars? --Soda Jerk |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Bill D Date: 16 Dec 00 - 11:27 PM she being Brand -new;and you know consequently a little stiff i was careful of her and(having thoroughly oiled the universal joint tested my gas felt of her radiator made sure her springs were O. K.)i went right to it flooded-the-carburetor cranked her up,slipped the clutch(and then somehow got into reverse she kicked what the hell)next minute i was back in neutral tried and again slo-wly;bare,ly nudg. ing(my lev-er Right- oh and her gears being in A 1 shape passed from low through second-in-to-high like greasedlightning)just as we turned the corner of Divinity avenue i touched the accelerator and give her the juice,good was the first ride and believe i we was happy to see how nice she acted right up to the last minute coming back down by the Public Gardens i slammed on the internalexpanding &
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Bill D Date: 16 Dec 00 - 11:29 PM ...and apologies for the thread creep |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Sorcha Date: 17 Dec 00 - 12:29 AM Bill, LOL! kat and Matt, you are both so right, our problem here seems to be flip flopped. Me female and older than him. Doc says my prob is age/lack of breeding hormones......which create desire in humans. Knowing we "are not alone" does not exactly help his problem now, does it? Males are supposed to feel/exhibit desire until near death, because they do not do the "breeding" thing. Females only exhibit desire as long as breeding is a possiblity.......called Biological Imperative. Males incept, females recept. Maybe we need a new sexual orientation called "nutuer-ers"? Sorry, but I don't have any more answers than anyone else. The psychs tell me that with males, it is likely to be money, stress, ambition, and appearance in that order. Females are turned on by nuturing/caring. Males are turned on by appearance, and by the way the female in question can further their ambition. Females are turned on by how well the male in question can provide for offspring.........what a mess. Are we the same species? |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Matt_R Date: 17 Dec 00 - 01:12 AM I want to nurture someone... |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Amergin Date: 17 Dec 00 - 03:06 AM Well, Matt, you still got Rosie to nurture don't you? |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Bill D Date: 17 Dec 00 - 02:45 PM Sadly, Mother Nature designed the system ONLY well enough to be sure that species continue....continued interest after reproduction is merely gravy, and is not distributed equally...SOME males are quite active at 80..(*sigh*..Strom Thurmond), while others barely show interest after 30. We humans are unique in that we 'reflect' on the issue and worry about it, as it seems to affect our ego and social relationships. Sometimes our bodies and our minds just don't agree, but our minds are amazingly good at tricking our bodies if we REALLY want to.... |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Little Hawk Date: 17 Dec 00 - 02:54 PM Spaw - this time you have entirely exceeded my expectations. I'm speechless. Well, almost... :-D - LH |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: catspaw49 Date: 17 Dec 00 - 02:54 PM Bill, Allan Sherman described the smae thing in The Rape of the A.P.E. Man is basically the only animal that thinks about it and has feelings for "performance" levels, etc. He used it in describing sexual problems in humans that other animals don't have. I doubt a lion is overly concerned with premature ejaculation....first because it probably doesn't happen because he doesn't worry about anything but the simplistic, animalistic, act of procreation. What I really loved was his word for this phenomena.........."Thinkery-Fuckery." Spaw |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Bill D Date: 17 Dec 00 - 03:13 PM In my 'home' town of Wichita, ther was an 'old' lion at the zoo, who was not due to be relocated to the new zoo nearing completion....so arrangements were made to have him sold and added to some 'preserve' out west ...to live out his declining years. Well, he arrived after years alone in a small cage, took one look at the open spaces and young lionesses, and proceeded to shoulder aside young males half his age, got the undivided attention of the ladies, and fathered many cubs for several more years!.......(Old joke... "me KNOW 'how', me need CHANCE!") It was a neat news story, but older MEN from Wichita sure got an earfull for awhile!
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Little Neophyte Date: 17 Dec 00 - 03:47 PM Dr. Bill Care and Dr. Spawk when I am having relationship problems can I come to you wise men for advice? How much do you guys charge? Little Neo |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Bill D Date: 17 Dec 00 - 04:06 PM sure...no charge, if you're serious...you can't afford it if you're not.(and the usual question is.."How much will you PAY?" |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: GUEST,Guest Date: 17 Dec 00 - 04:10 PM When you are in the middle of it you think you are the only person its happening to, it makes it even more isolating. It got so bad I couldn't bear watching anything slushy because I'd end up in tears. |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Little Neophyte Date: 17 Dec 00 - 04:35 PM Thats interesting Guest, because when I was going through rough periods in my marriage (or now) if I watched 'slushy' stuff I would thing.......there must be hope. Well Dr. Bill Care, 'how much are you willing to pay?' kind of reminds me of the quote 'Opportunity is usually disguised as hard work so most people don't recognize them' Ann Landers Little Neo |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Matt_R Date: 17 Dec 00 - 04:47 PM WHo is Rosie? |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: paddymac Date: 17 Dec 00 - 05:52 PM Matt - you really opened the door, but being the gentleman tha I am (well, usually) I'll not walk through to trod upon your youthful sensibilities. |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Matt_R Date: 17 Dec 00 - 05:55 PM Only thing I can think of is it may have to do either with the Jetsons or paper towels... |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: DougR Date: 17 Dec 00 - 05:58 PM If he is willing to save the relationship, get him to a doctor and have his testosterone level checked. It is not uncommon for a man to have that problem, and sure will affect his libido if it is low. Also, could he be suffering from erectile disfunction? If so, he may be embarrassed or fear that he can't perform. Is he on any kind of bloodpressure lowering medication? That can affect the latter, certainly. If that is the problem, as the doctor for a sample of Viagra. All he may need is to rebuild his confidence. Dr.DougR,EIATS |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Bill D Date: 17 Dec 00 - 06:29 PM hmm, Lil Neo...wonder if I phrased that wrong..meant to say humorously that the usual question to ME is "how much will you pay?"..(from Woody Allen movie..."I've got a new job...down at the Follies helping the girls dress" .."Oh, sounds interesting...how much?" . "25 francs a day"...". .."That's not much"..
"It's all I can afford") ......and Guest...in all seriousness..('cause it IS serious)..yes...when it is YOU, it makes no difference how many others have it worse. About the only thing that helps at all besides solving it is to talk with someone willing to listen....which is sort of what is going on here...a bit of sympathy, a bit of levity, a bit of advice... When I left Kansas, I was leaving a relationship, and I spent a year or so thinking that I'd probably be alone the rest of my life..(silly, but...)...fortunately, I just went out and did things, like joining the Folklore Society...*smile*...and before I knew it, things changed...and 20 years later, I am older, happier and sort of wiser. You do what you can, and hope it helps....
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Little Neophyte Date: 17 Dec 00 - 10:11 PM Bill darling, let me get this straight. You are going to pay me to spend your time listening to all my troubles? Does this business arrangement have anything to do with the 'Banjo Head - to change or not thread'? Little Neo |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Bill D Date: 17 Dec 00 - 10:33 PM *grin*...having JUST read the banjo head thread, I doubt that I'd be able to concentrate on your 'troubles' if you adopted the uniform mentioned. And I do know that your troubles would NOT likely involve lack of attention... Now the right attention is a different matter, and can be a very complex subject...*looking wise and serious* as to payment...I don't believe I offered to pay...*bigger grin*, I merely noted that there often IS cost associated with listening...not necessarily in 'coin of the realm'...(I had a lady tell me once a LONG time ago, that since she had bared her soul to me in seeking advice, she certainly couldn't consider me a suitor, as I knew FAR too much now...*wry smile*)..(and I hadn't even asked!...but I was honored to be trusted) ain't life interesting? |
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Subject: RE: BS: Libido in HIGH gear - SO's in LOW gear From: Bill D Date: 17 Dec 00 - 10:37 PM (oh...'darling'? wow...being called that by a sweet young thing is good for me, no matter what the context!) |