Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)

Subject: Obit: Peter Carlisle
From: Polly Squeezebox
Date: 08 May 07 - 01:35 PM

It is with great sadness that I pass on the news that Peter died this afternoon. He had been due to steward at Upton Festival over the past weekend, but we learned on Thursday that he had suffered a severe stroke. Peter was never a performer so far as I know - but a quiet, gentle soul in the background of many festivals, helping with stewarding or other background jobs.

Our thoughts are with Liz and family.

Pauline and Jack

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: My guru always said
Date: 09 May 07 - 04:22 AM

Many thanks for starting this thread Pauline, Richard had thought about doing one yesterday when we heard but we ran out of time.

Was so sorry to hear that Peter's passed away, my heart goes out to Liz and also Peter's Mum at this time.
Hil

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Richard Atkins
Date: 09 May 07 - 08:33 AM

A special man lost. Thinking of Lis and Peter's Mum at this sad time.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Andy Jackson
Date: 09 May 07 - 01:07 PM

Can we add our condolences at the loss of a very gentle man. Our thoughts are with Liz.
Andy and Jillie

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Geordie-Peorgie
Date: 09 May 07 - 02:47 PM

Aye! Sad news indeed!

Wor condolences too!

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Col K
Date: 09 May 07 - 02:55 PM

Very sad news indeed, he will be sadly missed by all those who worked with him at the many festivals he stewarded at.
My condolences go to Liz and all his family.
Eileen and Maurice also send their condolences as well.

Many hugs to Liz

Col

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Buddug
Date: 09 May 07 - 05:52 PM

Condolences to Liz and family from us also. They are in our thoughts.

Vicki and Tref

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Lenny's mum (inactive)
Date: 09 May 07 - 06:18 PM

So sorry to hear the sad news yesterday. Peter was more than a steward at the festivals he was also a very dear friend whom we shall miss always. We are thinking of Liz and sending her our love.
Janet, Malcolm and Hazel

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: skipy
Date: 09 May 07 - 06:35 PM

So sorry to read this thread, didn't know the guy as far as I know, but bet he checked my ticket somewhere, sometime, as an organiser I really do know the value of the "backstage workers". Rest in peace & thank you for all your work. To your family there is nothing I can say that will ease your loss, just be proud of him.
Skipy

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: old girl 1
Date: 09 May 07 - 06:58 PM

Peter will be sadly missed by all who knew him he was the perfect gentleman our thoughts are with Liz And family   Rose & Dave

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Splott Man
Date: 10 May 07 - 03:38 AM

Lots of love to Liz from Myself and the Dame.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: My guru always said
Date: 10 May 07 - 05:23 AM

Just to let people know that Peter's Funeral will be held on Wednesday May 23rd near Banbury. Liz and Peter's Mum Barbara are very keen to have as many of Peter's Folkie friends there as possible to give Peter a really good send-off. Before the funeral Peter's coffin will be brought into Banbury on top of his narrow boat 'Grampus' and Liz is hoping that there will be lots of musicians to play him along.

I don't really think it's appropriate to publish all the details here, please PM me for further information.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: My guru always said
Date: 11 May 07 - 03:58 AM

Refreshing this, we'll need to keep this in view so people get the chance to come to the funeral. Will refresh again when I get back from Fox & Hounds.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: the lemonade lady
Date: 11 May 07 - 05:25 AM

Thinking of you all and trying to work out why does this have to happen.

Sal

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: folk1e
Date: 11 May 07 - 07:13 PM

He was always willing to lend a hand, a quiet gentle giant of a man we were pleased to call "friend"
Life just ain't fair!
To Liz we are thinking of you!..... turn your phone on so we can talk to you, or call us!
Dave + Trish

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: North/South Annie
Date: 11 May 07 - 09:07 PM

So sorry to hear this sad news. Peter was a lovely gentle man. My thoughts are with you Liz.

Annie

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: neardura
Date: 12 May 07 - 01:31 AM

It was with great sadness we heard of Peters death.
Our thought go to Liz and to the family.
Chris & Bev

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: kab
Date: 12 May 07 - 01:30 PM

My wife and I only heard of this awful news today.
Our hearts go out to Liz and to the family.
The world is a poorer place for Peters passing.
Deepest condolences.
Keith and Thelma.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: folk1e
Date: 13 May 07 - 03:01 PM

REFRESH

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: My guru always said
Date: 13 May 07 - 03:01 PM

Refresh!

Am pretty sure that Liz doesn't get into the MudCat, but I'll be printing this thread out to take to the funeral just in case no-one points her this way. I'm certain that she and Peter's Mum will be glad of these messages of support, so keep 'em coming, especially memories if you can!

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Jock O' Dreams
Date: 13 May 07 - 04:16 PM

I was shocked to hear that Peter had passed away so suddenly. He was such a "canny lad" always helpfull always friendly. Such a shame to lose someone like that.My love and thoughts go out to you Liz and your family.

                Jim

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: My guru always said
Date: 15 May 07 - 10:50 AM

Refresh

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Scooby Doo
Date: 15 May 07 - 11:27 AM

I never knew the man Pete but it looks like a few did.
Please do not rain for the funeral in Banbury tomorrow.
Lots of love,
May rest his soul with other folkies.
Scooby.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Richard Atkins
Date: 15 May 07 - 01:10 PM

Funeral one week tomorrow.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Mrs Scarecrow
Date: 15 May 07 - 05:36 PM

Such very sad news
Our thoughts are with you Liz
Ann and Dave Reader

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Alio
Date: 15 May 07 - 06:10 PM

Only just read the sad news - we're all really sorry in Saddleworth Liz. You and Peter were always the first to arrive on our campsite! He'll be missed very much.

Love, Ali

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: My guru always said
Date: 18 May 07 - 06:37 PM

Refresh

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Richard Atkins
Date: 21 May 07 - 08:48 PM

We will be thare tomorrow. Fond memories of Pete.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Dame Pattie Smith EPNS
Date: 22 May 07 - 07:11 PM

Very sorry Splotty and I can`t be there today but here`s a poem for Pete;

WHAT IS DYING?
A ship sails and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon,
and someone at my side says "she is gone".
Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all,
She is just as large as when I saw her......
The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me, not in her,
and just at the moment when someone at my side says "she is gone",
there are others who are watching her coming,
and other voices take up a glad shout "there she comes!"........
And that is dying.

Thinking of you Liz.
X

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: folk1e
Date: 22 May 07 - 07:19 PM

Unfortunately we can't get there eather (work and hospital)
but we WILL be thinking of you!
Nice touch with "grampus"

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Dame Pattie Smith EPNS
Date: 23 May 07 - 11:17 AM

Refresh. I hope all went well today.
XXX

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Lenny's mum (inactive)
Date: 23 May 07 - 05:27 PM

We have just arrived back from Peter's funeral. It was a funeral to be proud of!
Well done to all those who helped organise the occasion.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: folk1e
Date: 23 May 07 - 05:39 PM

We have just spoken to Liz. She was surprised at the number of folks who came along (She didn't think they were that well known)!

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Richard Atkins
Date: 23 May 07 - 07:01 PM

A sad day for a special man that was perfectly done. Credit to Liz and Derek at that wondeful service.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: the lemonade lady
Date: 24 May 07 - 06:17 AM

It was a lovely day. Thanks to all.

Good luck with the left-hand drive, Liz.

XX sal

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: GUEST,The Travelling Folk
Date: 24 May 07 - 09:38 AM

Sorry to hear the sad news and our thoughts are with the family

From all at TTF

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Richard Atkins
Date: 24 May 07 - 08:24 PM

Liz was with Pete on his narrow boat together what should she do now?
The Grief process is a tough one. Catters could advise as Liz has been asking how others have coped.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: My guru always said
Date: 25 May 07 - 06:53 AM

The funeral day for Peter was a very moving experience and organised so that Family, Friends and Folkies were all able to share in the celebration of Peter's life.

I've given the printout of this thread (up to the 21st) to Liz (though she's been unable to read any of it, or even to open the cards that have arrived) and I'll print further messages out to send to Liz when we get back from Cornwall & Devon, so please carry on posting your support here for Liz.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: GUEST,Damon
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 07:36 PM

Thought about my father today, long lost to me and wanted to get back in touch.
In life you need to put differences apart before its too late.
Devastated.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: maeve
Date: 05 Sep 14 - 11:16 PM

Hello, Damon. His friends here may appreciate any memories you wish to write about your dad. In any case, please know you are not alone in your grief. Find someone to tell about your happy memories, your sorrows, regrets...stories about you and your dad.

Express your love for your dad in some way. He sounds like a gentle man from many of the comments here- likely he'd not want you to torture yourself.

Best wishes,

Maeve

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: GUEST
Date: 06 Sep 14 - 05:45 PM

He loved his boat grampus and was a proud day when he showed me what he had put on the side, Peter Carlile and Son.

He found peace on his boat and in folk music. I went to his grave today and was a lovely place.

X

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: maeve
Date: 06 Sep 14 - 07:17 PM

Thanks for that thought-filled post. I feel I know him a little bit now.

Subject: RE: Obit: Peter Carlisle (UK - 8 May 2007)
From: Waddon Pete
Date: 07 Sep 14 - 08:42 AM

It's always a bonus when a thread like this surfaces. Somehow I missed Peter's demise the first time around. So that has now been properly rectified with an entry in the "In Memoriam" roll of honour. My condolences to all who knew and love him.

RIP

Peter