Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-Apr 29, 2011

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: open mike
Date: 14 Aug 08 - 03:44 AM

good grief..{{{{{MICK}}}}}

just cuz ya got broad shoulders
doesn't mean you have to hold the
weight of the world on 'em now,
does it??!!


here's hugs for you and your family.
from one who has been thru the washer
lately myself....

hopefully it will all come out in the wash...

hang in there...

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: My guru always said
Date: 14 Aug 08 - 03:15 AM

Positive thoughts to You and Yours Mick. Love & Hugs,
Hil x

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: GUEST,Marymac90
Date: 14 Aug 08 - 02:28 AM

Dear Mick,

I am sending more good wishes your way. You and your
family are often in my thoughts.

I'm reminded of the words of Rod McDonald's "Sailors'
Prayer"

I will not lie me down, this rain a-ragin'
I will not lie me down, in such a storm
And if this night be unblessed, I shall not take my rest
Until we reach another shore.

Hoping that you get some rest soon, Mick.

Marymac, living in Delaware now

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: catspaw49
Date: 14 Aug 08 - 02:19 AM

Came home this evening and read this........Didn't have a clue as to what to say. So I went off elsewhere and tried to think through it.

Didn't help.

I don't know who is in charge and I never have. Like Bill, if I find out down the road sometime or another there IS someone, I'm going to kick his/her/its ass.....providing of course there is one to kick. Tell ya' somethin'.......................

When I was 18 I had two of the greatest parents imagineable, loving and caring and involved grandparents, and two Aunts who doted on their baby brother's only child. By the time I was 23 they had all died. What kinda' deal was that anyway?

Which is the same thing I wonder tonight......What kind of deal is this for my friend?

Somebody finds out about this, let me know huh?

Til then Mick......my best thoughts and hugs to you all.

Spaw

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Partridge
Date: 14 Aug 08 - 01:35 AM

Been sat here at the keyboard for ages trying to think of something uplifting to help you feel better. You are going through a horrible time, please know that I'm sending positive and healing thoughts.

much much love

your friend
pat xxxxx

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: Marion
Date: 14 Aug 08 - 12:44 AM

Dear Mick:

Not much that can be said... but here's one more person hoping for good health for your father and strength and patience for you and the rest of your family.

With love, Marion

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Tinker
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 11:40 PM

Damn !!! The fountain is still flowing blessings and light are still out your way. Yes, all of you are held in love and light and grace. Know there are as many standing with you and yours as the stars that shine in the darkness.....

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: GUEST,Dani
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 11:07 PM

His Mother and I have been on the outs in recent years, but I'm going to go talk with her tonight anyway. She'll kick his ass if he doesn't treat you right soon.


Dani

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Barbara Shaw
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 10:37 PM

Mick, whatever happens you can feel good that you've done the right thing. Your Dad is surely so proud of a son like you and your daughter so proud of a Dad like you. Keep on being strong and know that we're all better for knowing you, even just here in cyberspace.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Uncle Phil
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 10:08 PM

All our best thoughts from Texas. Lord have mercy.
- Phil

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: KT
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 09:57 PM

Hang in there, Mick, buddy. And where your spirit is weakened, may you find renewed, untold strength. Hold fast, my friend, hold fast.

KT

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: Amos
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 09:17 PM

Got your back, buddy; call me anytime.

Love,


A

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 08:10 PM

THEY say that god/gods/whoever/whatever never give you more than you can handle. THEY also say life's not fair & that every challenge is a growth opportunity. I say enough is enough.

lots more love & good wishes to you, Mick

sandra

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 08:05 PM

Light and love and song and strength and courage flowing full strength to you, your Da, and your family.

During my darkest hours, this wonderful song was the floating shard of driftwood that kept my head above water:

Row on, row on, another day
May shine with brighter light.
Ply, ply the oars and pull away;
There's dawn beyond the night.

love,
Allison

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: olddude
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 07:43 PM

OH MY GOD
I am so sorry, I just read the link
you are in my prayers

Dan

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: frogprince
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 07:37 PM

You and yours are still in a couple of hearts in the Lapeer area, Mick.       Dean and Judy

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: katlaughing
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 07:35 PM

Right here, right now,
Your Da is with you
And all is well.

Right here, right now
We are with you
And all is well.

Right here, right now
God, the Mother/Father is with you
And all is well.

Take a few deep breaths, focus on the best positive outcome you can imagine and give thanks for that or something better for the highest good of all concerned. Try to let go and loosen up those broad, weighed down shoulders of yours and let us take up some of the slack. Oh, and, harsh as it may sound, learn to say no to family...let someone else write a few songs, etc. eh?:-> And, thanks for checking in! If you need a phone call, cards for your Da or anything else we can do in 3D life, please let us know!

luvyabuckets...kateykat

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Nancy King
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 07:26 PM

Jeez, Mick, this hasn't been the best summer for you, has it? Things just GOTTA go uphill from here!

Lots of positive thoughts coming to you and your family from here!

Love,
Nancy

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: Bat Goddess
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 07:16 PM

AFGO -- "Another Fxxking Growth Opportunity"

They say it builds character, but you, my dear, are enough of a character already. I think it's time for the fertilizer to just stay the hell away from the damned fan, already!

Our healing thoughts, prayers, white light, energy, etc. is focussed on you and your family. Wish there was something I could SAY that would make it all better...

Hang in there.

Hugs,

Linn

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Azizi
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 06:45 PM

I wish that I had a magic wand and could make everything the best that it could be. But this is real life and not a storybook or movie. But I'm sending positive vibrations your way from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: Bonnie Shaljean
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 06:45 PM

I think Bobert's got something there... Healing energy and love is beaming towards you from here and every other direction too (who knows, maybe even a winning lottery number ;-)

Beannacht, Bonnie xx

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: jacqui.c
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 06:30 PM

Good thoughts coming from Maine melove.

You and your family are in my thoughts everyday now.

I just wish there was more that we could do.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Bobert
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 06:23 PM

Can't add much other than you and your family willremain in mty thoughts and in my prayers... I am a firm believer that if ya' get enough folks prayin' for the same thing that good things happen...

Hang in there, Mick...

Bobert

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: GUEST,DonMeixner
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 06:12 PM

Mick,

My best wishes for your Dad and his recovery. There was no hope of recovery for my Mom there weeks ago but the care of friends and family made it better and closer for us here at home. I know the same care is there for you

However this hand plays for you are in my thoughts and hopes and my very rarely prayed prayers.

Don

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Megan L
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 06:01 PM

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours lad.

Awra best
frae
Dauvitt and his Meg

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: Rapparee
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 05:48 PM

Well, shit, Mick.

No, no! Wait! That was an expression, not a command! Fasten your belt again.

To say that this has been one sucky summer for you doesn't even begin to express it.

Anything (besides the obvious) I can do?

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: JedMarum
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 05:27 PM

God Bless, my friend

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: Jeri
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 05:24 PM

Mick, there are loads of folks here who care about you. I hope things get better for you real soon. Nobody should have to deal with this much bad stuff.

Jeri

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:3
From: Bill D
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 05:16 PM

........lordy! If I knew who was in charge, I'd sign a recall petition!

Do you think we all wished and prayed and loaded the circuits with TOO much good will? Maybe blew a circuit? Naawww... you & I both know better.
All I can do is quote one of those blasted laws that seem all too relevant about our lives...

"Whatever hits the fan is not distributed equally"

Take care, Mick....give yourself a 'little' break whenever possible...

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Lizzie Cornish 1
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 05:10 PM

Even more bucketloads of love coming across the ocean to you, Mick. xx

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Maryrrf
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 05:06 PM

Mick, there isn't much I can say except that my thoughts and prayers are with you and I truly hope things turn around soon - they will! You've had more than your share of troubles lately so you are due for a run of good luck.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: gnu
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 05:03 PM

Thoughts and prayers again and more so.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:38 PM
From: Wesley S
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 05:02 PM

Best of luck. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940
From: Genie
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 04:56 PM

What Barry said, Mick.

Well, except for the ass-whuppin' part.* I don't know you well enough.

I do hope being at the Getaway can help ease your load, lift your spirit, and renew your strength at least a little.   You're in all our thoughts and prayers.

Genie






*Less'n y'ask nicely, o' course.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940pm
From: Barry Finn
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 04:39 PM

Gezzez Mick, when it rains it pours don't it! Sorry bud for all your bad luck, you better come to the Getaway so we can give you a shot in the arm or sing you a song or something.
I don't know what to say or how to help ease your heart but I just wish you good luck to you & yours & pray that it'll all turn out as best as possible. You deserve a bit of a break about now.

I'll give you a good ass whipping when I see you next, that'll lift your spirits a bit & get you off your knees, it also should crack your face with a bit of a smile.

All my best & good luck

Barry

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940pm
From: SINSULL
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 04:36 PM

You got your lottery win when Ciara survived the crash. Now sit back and be strong a little while longer. No sympathy - just love and support and even admiration from a friend.
Mary

Subject: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:37 PM
From: maeve
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 04:36 PM

Sometimes the accumulation of grief and the defeating weariness seem to be more than can be borne. One step, one note, one more act of love- these will carry you until you can be at peace again.

You are in the heart of prayers, Mick.

maeve

Subject: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:37 PM
From: lady penelope
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 04:32 PM

{{{{Mick}}}}

If I'm staggered by this, how must you feel? I can only offer a virtual hand to help steady you.

Pen.

Subject: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:37 PM
From: skarpi
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 04:29 PM

I think the best vinning lottery you get is that your dad gets
well out of this surgery ,

Big Hug and prayers Mick

((((((((( Mick and Family ))))))))))))))))

Atb Skarpi and Guðrún

Subject: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-8/13@3:37 PM
From: maeve
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 04:28 PM

Mick- Yes. Prayers, thoughts, hopes and dreams.   

maeve

Subject: Mick**Update-8/13@3:37 pm Rains/Pours
From: Big Mick
Date: 13 Aug 08 - 04:08 PM

Well ..... I have to tell you that I need a break, as in a change of luck, here.

As you all know from this thread, my daughter was involved in an auto accident and her dear friend, and one of my surrogate kids, Terra, was killed. What you probably don't know is that in the last 12 or so weeks, in addition to that tragedy, I also lost 2 cousins, and an Aunt and an Uncle. These are always tough on me as I somehow have ended up as the person in the family has to give the eulogy, and write some kind of song for the person that left. This is a tough assignment, to frame it appropriately and to help folks with their grief, especially while one is grieving already.

Well, on Friday(August 8, 2008) I got a call from my brother. He informed me that he and my Mom were at the hospital. My Father had an aneurysm burst in his abdomen, was in emergency surgery, and had less than a 20% chance of for survival. We spent a fearful afternoon, finally the Dr. came out, Dad had survived the surgery, but was in very bad shape, and survival over the next 48 hours was not assured or even likely. But my Da is one tough old paddy. He is fighting the good fight, and it seems is full of tricks for keeping the Bean-Nighe washerwoman away from his duds. He is still in the Intensive Care Unit, and is still in the woods, but daily he makes a bit of progress. I have not left the hospital since Friday, with the exception to slip out and play two gigs (yes, the show really must go on) and then right back here. I don't want him alone. Not to be melodramatic, even though it will sound like it, but I know what it is like to think that you might not make it, and to be alone while it is happening. I don't want that for him. So here I sit.

I am writing this, not for sympathy, but because I have my laptop with me finally, and there were a number of PM's that were asking what is up. I also had PM's from folks about the Getaway. I will have to get to them later, but this way is faster for letting folks know why I am not about.

So good thoughts, prayers, or whatever you have to send. And if you have an in with whoever the hell it is that is charge, could you do me a kindness? Would you tell that Big Mick has had enough of this aul load of shite, and could they send me a winning lottery ticket instead of this? Thanks.

All the best,

Mick

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940pm
From: Willie-O
Date: 07 Aug 08 - 01:43 PM

open mike, astro et al:

I believe it would be good karma for us to follow the fine example of Terra's family and refrain from presuming anything about this accident, most especially assuming blame. Unless we were there investigating it, we are not in a position to say how it was caused (and Mick's mentioned that the investigators described it to him as a "perfect storm"--not as any one driver's fault). All we really know is that two drivers both thought the way was clear, and it didn't work out well. (and we know that Ciara did NOT fail to stop at the sign; there is no "quick and simple" explanation for the tragedy.)

I too am concerned for everyone who was there at the terrible scene; Ciara, the other car driver, the tractor driver, anyone else who happened by. I hope they all get peace.

I have a teenage driver in my family and I say a little atheist's prayer every time he take the car out. He's a good kid, like Ciara, he's not going to be drinking or stoned on the road--but that alone does not keep you safe, as we have seen. I sent him some info on the accident and asked him to please please please triple check every time he goes through an intersection--or passes a tractor. It's not about blame. Blame is useless. It's about learning and moving forward, which is all that we who have been lucky enough to survive accidents or near-misses that could easily have killed us can do.   

Bill

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940pm
From: Ebbie
Date: 07 Aug 08 - 12:43 PM

As Celtaddict said... As time passes and the horrendous moments recede with it that is when most of the irrevocable pain sets in. Know that we are with you.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940
From: Celtaddict
Date: 06 Aug 08 - 12:55 PM

Just a reminder, Mick, Ciara, and Terra's family, you remain in the hearts and prayers of so many, including this one in Connecticut.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940
From: open mike
Date: 06 Aug 08 - 03:12 AM

as was said earlier by Astro, in Tucson:

...I hope the young man who did hit them is looking for peace, forgiveness, and healing too. We all err, but not as greatly as this young man has...

i would add that i hope and pray that the driver might find a way to learn to live after this tragedy. I presume there were charges filed?

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940
From: JennyO
Date: 05 Aug 08 - 01:18 PM

I've spent a lot of time away from Mudcat over the last few months - got used to spending more of my computer time on Facebook - making new friends and getting to know some old ones a lot better. I came back here today to start a new thread, about something that is happening in my life, and the first thing I saw was this thread.

I had to read it through from the beginning, and was moved by the outpourings of love from everybody here, and felt bad that it has taken me this long to find it. I know from personal experience that the Mudcat community is a wonderful caring one, but I think I had forgotten how much. I felt the same reading the thread about Open Mike too.

Mick, I don't know what else I can add to what everybody else has said, but I am joining with them in sending you and your daughter love and support. You did the right thing in sharing your thoughts and feelings with us, as I'm sure you know. We can't take away all the pain, but the support does make a difference - I know. I've felt it. It's taken this thread to remind me.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940
From: Rapparee
Date: 05 Aug 08 - 10:28 AM

Mick, if you need help with media, let me know. Vinnie and Guido are chompin' at the bit to spend some time in Michigan, "maybe take a boat ride out on the Lake, ya know?" to which Guido says, "Uh...yeah...boat ride...hey, cement shoes!" and then Vinnie says, "Shaddup, Guido, ya knucklehead!"

Alternately, I do know some lawyers up that way. They're just as effective (if not as much fun or as permanent) as Vinnie and Guido, though.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940pm
From: SINSULL
Date: 05 Aug 08 - 10:05 AM

I thought the same, Maeve. I remember a festival where Mick played and Ciara danced with pure joy and abandon.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940
From: maeve
Date: 05 Aug 08 - 08:15 AM

Mick, as I listened to and watched David Coffin and his sweet daughter on Saturday, I thought of you and those you love.

Subject: RE: Obit: My heart is broken-Mick**Update-7/16@940pm
From: Beer
Date: 05 Aug 08 - 07:33 AM

The above "GUEST" spammer hasn't been dealt with as yet. He/she is on most threads.
Mick, still thinking of the load you are carrying. May you continue to find strength.
Adrien