Obit: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline's grandson) 2009

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: katlaughing
Date: 08 Jul 09 - 12:14 PM

Still sending you love and support, Sandy, Caroline, and family.

luvyakat

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: open mike
Date: 08 Jul 09 - 01:11 PM

my heart goes out to all who adored this wonderful boy.
Here are some of the memorial pages on facebook. His
aunt is making prayer flags for him. how sweet.

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=93026512010
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=211538685579
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=117946301829

I send my prayers to all his family and friends..
hopefully this time of remembrance will bring
healing to all.


there are pages also on you tube with videos dedicated to him.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ig8ya1wc6ns

blessings to all.

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: GUEST,Valentine
Date: 12 Jul 09 - 11:49 AM

Caroline and Sandy, David and Catherine --

This is such a burden to bear. Singers across the country are with you. We all hold you in our hearts.

Valentine

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: GUEST,Terri & Joe Bianchi
Date: 12 Jul 09 - 02:16 PM

Dear Katharine and family, We our very sorry to hear about the lost of your dear son. I tryed to call you but we found out it was the wrong number when that person called us back to say we must be trying to call you,sorry.I Prayed alot as soon as I heard about this story on the news then even more when he was found especialy for the parents and everone who knew him.If there is anything I CAN EVER DO PLEASE LET ME KNOW KATHERINE.My Heart is heavy as I TYPE THIS AND I PRAY you will find PEACE IN GOD TRUSTING THAT HE IS ALWAYS WITH YOU and your family.With Deepest Sympathy and Prayer,Terri and Joe Bianchi [from falls villiage]

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: open mike
Date: 12 Jul 09 - 02:41 PM

With special thoughts for all involved
0n this, the day of the memorial I sing
"Forever Young" for Kaelan and for you all.

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: maeve
Date: 12 Jul 09 - 03:03 PM

I know you are surrounded by loving family and friends today. Many, many more around the world are thinking of you.

maeve

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: GUEST,Dani
Date: 12 Jul 09 - 04:05 PM

Thinking of and praying for you and your community today.

Dani

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: Jerry Rasmussen
Date: 13 Jul 09 - 10:52 AM

Today my wife Ruth and I are swinging into what passes for a normal day around here. But, it's not just another day. Yesterday we drov e up to Sharon for Kealan's memorial service. Over the years, I've become somewhat of an unintended funeral attender. I sing with the Men's Chorus in my church and as often as possible, I go to funerals at our church and sing with the choir. When my gospel quartet was still active, we often sang a home-going ceremonies, Christian and even Jewish. My two son-in-laws are Muslim and we've attended their funeral services as well. All that said, I thought the memorial service for Kaelan was the most beautiful I've ever attended. Even though the service was held in a school auditorium and many of the people in attendance aren't church-goers, we had church yesterday. At least my definition of church. There was great crying at times and great joy, as well. When a wonderful black woman sang I'll Fly Away and people locked arms and swayed to the music as they sang along, it felt like they could leviate the building. The testimonies were extremely moving, and filled with warm humor. Caroline sang a musical setting for the familiar reading that St. Paul wrote in 1st Corinthinas, her voice quavering with emotion, but strong, and the whole service was moving blend of testimony, poetry and song. Letters were read from Sandy to his grandson, and David to his son, as well as from several other family members.

After the service, we gathered in the cafeteria for a vegetarian buffet with a dangerous, long, long table of deserts. It was a time for me to see many friends I've not seen for years including Ed Trickett, Sally Rogers, Dalas Cline, Bill and Andy Spence, George Ward, Patricia Campbell, Karen Kobela, Priscilla Herdman and countless others.

We must be getting old. We get together at funerals.

Sunday was a beautiful bookend to a very spiritual weekend.

Jerry

I'm posting this message on the Kitchen Table thread too for those who might miss it here.

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: catspaw49
Date: 13 Jul 09 - 12:17 PM

Thank you Jerry, well spoken.

Many of us were thinking about the service I know and were anxious to hear some report. It sounded like it was a beautiful day and I hope it provided the solace such things are supposed to do.

Again, Jerry.....Thank You


Spaw

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: katlaughing
Date: 13 Jul 09 - 02:33 PM

Yes, thank you, Jerry. It really does sound as though it was beautiful and I hope it brought solace to his family and friends. What a remarkable young man and remarkable family as well. May their god/s be good to them all.

luvyaSandyGramps and Caroline,

kat

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: Sandy Paton
Date: 13 Jul 09 - 04:58 PM

For those interested in the complete story, this is from the sports section of today's Hartford Courant. A Town Remembers Kaelan Paton

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: Jeri
Date: 13 Jul 09 - 05:12 PM

Sandy, we've got your back. Wish there was more I could offer.
The piece by Jeff Jacobs is beautiful.

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: Barry Finn
Date: 13 Jul 09 - 05:33 PM

That piece by Jeff was beautiful, I'm in tears after reading it. David & Catherine were very lucky to have a son like Kaelan & he was so lucky to have them as parents. I pray that all your hearts rest a bit easier in the future.

Barry

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: GUEST,Guest, David Jones
Date: 13 Jul 09 - 08:28 PM

The incredible gathering in the packed auditorium said it all. So many, young and old, all there for Kaelan and his family. The service was very moving, Caroline sang as beautifully as she has ever sung, David was magnificent, and Sandy hung in there, God bless him. A letter from Frankies grandmother was read, she must be a remarkable woman. Sisters, Aunts and Uncles were there and so many old friends, Ed Trickett came in from Chicago, it was great to see him, he sang "Gently down the stream of time".
I told my neighbor about Kaelan, he told me of something from the Talmud, not quite sure what the Talmud is, but it says, "He who saves one life, saves the world".
Hope the service helped and brought some peace to the family and friends of Kaelan.

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: katlaughing
Date: 13 Jul 09 - 11:23 PM

Thanks for the link, Sandy. The tears are freshly flowing...beautifully written.

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: Peace
Date: 13 Jul 09 - 11:30 PM

What a fine article and heart-felt testament to a very brave young man. I'm wiping my eyes just now.

Bruce

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: Art Thieme
Date: 13 Jul 09 - 11:50 PM

All of you,

Need I say that I wanted to be with you? In ways not explainable, I was there.

So many old friends, and favorite voices, are here in these heartfelt reminiscences. Thank you.

Art and Carol

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: Slag
Date: 18 Jul 09 - 06:17 PM

I am so sorry for you and all who grieve. I've been out of the loop for a while and it wasn't utill Susan brought this to my attention that I learned of the trajedy. My heart goes out to you. That Kaelan was attempting to save another's life tells me volumes about him and the family he represents: true-hearted and brave. God's peace, love, blessings and assurances to you all. This young man, a hero in every sense of the word.

Tom

Subject: RE: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline)Memorial July 12
From: GUEST,Bobbe Rose (formerly Garovoy)
Date: 30 Jul 09 - 02:23 AM

My son Aaron just told me today about your family losing David's son Kaelan. It has been many years since I have seen all of you. My remembrances of the Paton's are of a close-knit and loving family. From what I have read about Kaelan, it seems that he made a positive impression on all that knew him, he was brave, loyal and loving as well. Such a tremendous loss for you and all who knew him. How fortunate for the world to have had him in it. I wish your entire family peace.

Sadness flies on the wings of the morning, and out of the heart of darkness comes the light.
- Jean Giraudoux

Subject: RE: Obit: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline's grandson) 2009
From: GUEST,his mom Catherine Palmer Paton
Date: 26 Mar 12 - 11:50 PM

Only viewing this as we come up to the 3rd year since Kaelan's passing, since I am not as versed in what's accessible to everyone on the web. Many thanks to all who have shown support for our families over the past few years, with both Kaelan and Sandy having journeyed beyond the earth plane. I hope to find ways capture the story with the inspiration from many of the moving tributes and sharings we have been blessed with to help us cope and bring others hope as well when facing many kinds of struggles. Feel free to contact me on Facebook and may the spring of 2012 be one our country and world finds inspiring even in the face of many challenges. peace and love to all...Catherine and family

Subject: RE: Obit: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline's grandson) 2009
From: maeve
Date: 27 Mar 12 - 07:17 AM

Catherine- Thank you for posting here at Mudcat. I'm grateful you've been able to read our words honoring Kaelan and all of the dear family members.There are many people around the world who think of you all more often than you can know.
Kaelan's legacy lives on in the people who loved him, as does Sandy's.

Blessings and music to you all.

Maeve, in Maine
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JOY BE WITH US   James Stephens

Joy be with us and honour close the tale;
Now do we dip the prow, and shake the sail,
And take the wind, and bid adieu to rest.

With glad endeavour we begin the quest
That destiny commands, though where we go,
Or guided by what star, no man doth know.

Uncharted is our course, our hearts untried,
And we may weary e'er we take the tide,
Or make fair haven from the moaning sea.

Be ye propitious, winds of destiny
On us at first blow not too boisterous bold;
All Ireland hath is packed into this hold,
Her hope flies at the peak. Now it is dawn,
And we away. Be with us Mananaun.

Subject: RE: Obit: Kaelan Paton(Sandy&Caroline's grandson) 2009
From: Bonnie Shaljean
Date: 27 Mar 12 - 07:41 AM

What a lovely message, Catherine. Thank you so much for writing it.

Bonnie

(Maeve, your verse is beautiful.)