Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Megan L Date: 25 Jul 11 - 03:43 PM Unless she was being raped it takes two to do the horizontal tango as far as this auld wife remembers. A bit of advice my mother gave me "Check yer ain gairden afore ye luk fur weeds in yer neebors" |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Lox Date: 25 Jul 11 - 03:40 PM Maybe a small bucket of ice cold water wouldn't be entirely immoral .... |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: GUEST,livelylass Date: 25 Jul 11 - 03:38 PM Surprises me the amount of people who if they knew the kids, wouldn't even mention seeing them screwing in the grass next to their house! If it was my house and they were kids I knew, I'd say something to them same as I'd say something to anyone. Why so nervous folkies? If they're out there screwing in a public place they have to be aware there will be neighbours around, though they might not give a crap of course - wouldn't be the first time kids thought they owned the world. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Crowhugger Date: 25 Jul 11 - 03:38 PM If I'd witnessed such behaviour, before choosing to do nothing I would ask myself: Which worst-case outcome can I accept with least regret... Possible bad outcomes of inaction: ...The girl has a baby to put up for adoption in a few months' time? ...The girl gets an STD or post-abortion infection that renders her infertile? ...Their bare butt antics end up on youtube? Possible bad outcomes of action: ...The parent(s) or the kid(s) screams at me or worse, and calls me a liar and tells all the other neighbours I'm a pervert? In any case one need not rat. Why not speak to those who were careless? If you decide to talk to the girl alone, take a female witness, ideally someone closer to her age than yours. If you saw your neighbour's 5 year old & friend run out from between parked cars would you do nothing? Consider that teenagers are adult bodies often accompanied by a child's underdeveloped impulse control. Rightly or wrongly I would choose--not gladly but I'd still choose--to risk making an enemy over the risk of life-long damage to a teenaged girl any day of the week. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Richard Bridge Date: 25 Jul 11 - 03:37 PM Quite so Bobster |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Bobert Date: 25 Jul 11 - 03:33 PM 15 or 16??? This ain't the 50s, Olster... Kid are having sex at 12 and 13 these days... Leave 'um be... B~ |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: GUEST,Eliza Date: 25 Jul 11 - 03:28 PM Say and do nothing. Neither the young people nor their parents would be thrilled you mentioned it. They'd turn on you probably. (As in 'Shoot the Messenger') |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Smokey. Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:58 PM Well, they've cheered my day up. Good luck to 'em. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: olddude Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:52 PM Very good point Captain. I am just keeping my mouth shut and pretend nothing happened like Gnu suggested. It will only cause issues and I got enough of my own to deal with.. Hey the street dept is replacing water lines on my street. They just left their Kubota back hoe in my yard. Wonder what I can get on ebay for it ... anyone need anything dug up ... I got just the ticket here. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: gnu Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:52 PM Well, IF ya talked to the kid and told him not to be so stupid, it would continue and if they are found out you will be suspected to be an informant. IF ya talk to the parents (one a neighbour), you could end up in shit... with the parents OR even with the kids as mentioned above. Kids THESE days are not to be trusted. Same with parents, even if you KNOW them. This is 2011 and civility and such just seems to have evaporated. Sex happens. Even the birds and the bees do it. It never happened. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: kendall Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:38 PM Years ago I had occasion to witness such an event, and I told the girl's Father, "If you don't want that halfwit next door for a son in law you should speak to your Daughter." No questions, no interest and he never spoke to me again. I admit it wasn't very diplomatic, but my lack of diplomacy was not the issue. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jim Dixon Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:35 PM Here I am asking myself Should I 1) Give olddude some advice 2) Make a joke of it 3) Do nothing I don't know what to do, either. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: olddude Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:33 PM Ya know what, I think they may already be busted. That building is very secure. I need a special card key to get in and then a code to get into the data center and offices. I never thought about it but there maybe cameras on the outside between buildings. If so Dave the building manager got an eye full this morning. pretty stupid place actually to do such .... |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jack the Sailor Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:16 PM Did u read this in Pemthouse? |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Smokey. Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:13 PM Ah, the post-coital brew.. best drink of the day. So, OldDude - what exactly did you see? |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jack the Sailor Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:08 PM And did she even come? Teenage boys can be pretty fundamental anyway, get it in one of the holes, make a mess, go home for tea. It is not like that in the US, not at all. They drink Mountain Dew instead of tea. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jack the Sailor Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:06 PM catchy name for the website "yougotojailifyouwatchunberagesex.com? |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: GUEST,livelylass Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:05 PM And did she even come? Teenage boys can be pretty fundamental anyway, get it in one of the holes, make a mess, go home for tea.. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: olddude Date: 25 Jul 11 - 02:03 PM Pay per view, now that is a good money making idea. We would have to come up with a catchy name for the website. so Gnu you are saying let it be ... that is what I am going to do ... |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Smokey. Date: 25 Jul 11 - 01:57 PM It's probably a bit unreasonable to be making assumptions about their character.. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Richard Bridge Date: 25 Jul 11 - 01:51 PM Oh fuck, here come the fundies... |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: GUEST,livelylass Date: 25 Jul 11 - 01:50 PM 'The seX Factor': our young lusty contestants get rated on their 'talents' by a panel of vacuous celebrity judges before the decider where they have sex with a powerful music industry mogul in order to secure a contract which will enable them become a vacuous celebrity too! I know, it sounds strangely familiar.. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: GUEST,leeneia Date: 25 Jul 11 - 01:47 PM Somebody here said that what the kids do with their private lives is their business. Excuse me? Would anyone here want to be the parent of a pregnant 15-year old? Or a teenager with VD? If this goes haywire, it's the adults who will bear the brunt, and that makes the kids' behavior their parents' business. Also, I seriously question the morals and wisdom of a boy who would have sex with a girl in such a risky location. Doesn't he know that alleys are a good place for alkies and druggies to hang out? |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Smokey. Date: 25 Jul 11 - 01:40 PM Do they have a loud-hailer on that thing? We could bellow encouragement and useful advice at them.. "Haven't you heard of foreplay, lad?" - "Steady on pet, someone could slip on that." |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: gnu Date: 25 Jul 11 - 01:38 PM It never happened. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: GUEST,livelylass Date: 25 Jul 11 - 01:34 PM I hear tell that Jack is planning to be in the bushes with a flamethrower ready to singe their arse hairs at a crucial moment too.. Olddude are you going to make this next event pay per view? Not that I'm a weirdo like you lot or anything, just asking in the interest of research for my blog on "American folk-customs", you know I hear they do some pretty strange things over in the colonies.. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: olddude Date: 25 Jul 11 - 01:05 PM Smokey LOL, do you want me to have the CIA point the Surveillance Satellite for ya ... ya can get close up that way LOL |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jack the Sailor Date: 25 Jul 11 - 01:03 PM nasty.teen.porn.satelite.net |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Smokey. Date: 25 Jul 11 - 01:01 PM Say nothing to them or their parents, just mention it discreetly on an international forum for the amusement of us more enlightened folk. How do we find this place on Google Earth? |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: olddude Date: 25 Jul 11 - 12:52 PM I liked your flame thrower post on the other thread ... You make me laugh Jack thanks |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jack the Sailor Date: 25 Jul 11 - 12:20 PM Water laced with saltpeter and blue dye |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: alanabit Date: 25 Jul 11 - 12:18 PM No. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: GUEST Date: 25 Jul 11 - 12:16 PM Before you post the movie on you tube you ask the parents how much money... no no Make a vacation video of many edited scenes and invite the parents over... naw Ask Jack he knows all the new ins and outs... |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jack the Sailor Date: 25 Jul 11 - 11:46 AM If you can't see that from reading this thread, then I can't explain it. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: GUEST,livelylass Date: 25 Jul 11 - 11:44 AM Gotta edit this for you Olddude: "in this cell phone age those kids could be seeing themselves in action on youtube had it been [one of their mates] that saw them" |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Smedley Date: 25 Jul 11 - 11:44 AM Why is it 'self-destructive' ??? |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jack the Sailor Date: 25 Jul 11 - 11:27 AM It is irresponsible and self-destructive behavior. If you think it will help, you have a moral obligation to do something. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Silas Date: 25 Jul 11 - 11:23 AM What the hell has it to do with anyone but themselves? I can't even believe that you would even consider telling anyone about it, let alone their parents! |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jack the Sailor Date: 25 Jul 11 - 11:19 AM Don't kids today have plenty of chances for privacy? I suspect that they were doing it outside for the "thrill." If it happens again, cloroform them and tattoo "don't be stupid" on their buts. Preferably in chinese characters. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: olddude Date: 25 Jul 11 - 11:12 AM I am with the consensus here, I am just going to stay out of it. I don't think anything good would become of it. Maybe if they keep using the place I will give the boyfriend a short talk but nothing good can come out of it just hurt feeling and embarrassment I think. Thanks for the advice for sure. I just turn away immediately but in this cell phone age those kids could be seeing themselves in action on youtube had it been some creep that saw them |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Bill D Date: 25 Jul 11 - 11:09 AM You are unlikely to affect their behavior, no matter what you do or say....and 'telling' their parents just complicates it all. Unless you know one of the kids well enough to feel that they would TAKE your advice, it's probably best to just shrug... |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jack the Sailor Date: 25 Jul 11 - 11:05 AM I certainly would not me offering someone else's naked and under-aged daughter condoms or sexual advice. A bucket of cold water with toilet bowl cleaner would remind them or their indiscretion for a very long time. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Bettynh Date: 25 Jul 11 - 11:00 AM I'm with livelylass on this one. I'd be sure they each had a handfull of condoms, and the message "don't be stupid about sex." Whether you just slip them into their pocket with a note, or have a discussion is up to you. Actually having the condoms is the importan part, though. They are embarrassing/potentially dangerous for them to buy (might be seen, etc.). |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: GUEST,livelylass Date: 25 Jul 11 - 10:50 AM I dunno, if I knew them I'd have a word. As I'm female myself and the girl was (potentially?) underage, I'd probably at least ask the teenage girl if she was protected. Teenage pregnancies ain't funny and not worth being coy about IMO. I still think by the house is a bit skanky tho', ain't he got a car? |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: John MacKenzie Date: 25 Jul 11 - 10:49 AM Leave it. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Ebbie Date: 25 Jul 11 - 10:49 AM If the youngsters are the same age, is it still statuatory rape? Don't see how. On the other hand, if the boy was/is 18 and the girl 15/16 and it were discovered he would have to register as a sex offender. Which I also don't understand. How well do you know the parents? If I knew them quite well, I might say something to them on the order of "Judging by what I saw I think your daughter and her boyfriend may be at the brink of something serious." In other words, pretend you didn't see the actual activity. But I don't know. I have never known, either, whether I would tell a good friend that her/his SO was cheating. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: GUEST,Patsy Date: 25 Jul 11 - 10:40 AM I would just make the kids aware that if you were able to catch sight of them someone not so nice might be able to as well including the law. This is a difficult time especially as the long school summer holidays are approaching some schools might have broken up for summer already, all that free time the hot summer weather. Oh I wish I was that young again. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: MikeL2 Date: 25 Jul 11 - 10:36 AM hi dan I would keep out of it. "Interfering" could bring you grief. Good intentions are fine but can be often misunderstood. Stay away is my advice. Regards MikeL2 |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Richard Bridge Date: 25 Jul 11 - 10:23 AM I think you are in the USA. I think the USA has a very backward looking attitude to such things and still uses expressions like "statutory rape". I would stay very, very stumm. |
Subject: RE: BS: Should I Tell ? From: Jack the Sailor Date: 25 Jul 11 - 10:16 AM I think cold water is the only moral option in this case. |