Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: alison
Date: 08 Oct 03 - 09:06 PM

beautiful hymn, fantastic words.... and yes the tune is Irish - called "Slane".... I'll be singing it too

slainte

alison

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Mary in Kentucky
Date: 08 Oct 03 - 09:13 PM

Yes. I absolutely loved that tune even before I knew it was Irish. It is/was such a favorite of mine...at one time I was asked not to play it so much!

Thinking of you...{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Alice
Date: 08 Oct 03 - 11:10 PM

Be Thou My Vision sung here in Montana for Byron, too.

Take care,

Alice

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: MAG
Date: 09 Oct 03 - 12:45 AM

Thinking of you now and later, Allison. I'll play your CD's, too.

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Dipsodeb
Date: 09 Oct 03 - 03:09 PM

HI Animaterra
I was so sad to hear that your partner has passed on to the summerlands.
My thoughts are with You and your family.
Blessings
~Debs~

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: wysiwyg
Date: 09 Oct 03 - 03:31 PM

Here are the verses we use for Be Thou My Vision:

Be Thou my vision, O Lord of my heart;
Naught be all else to me, save that Thou art!
Thou my best Thought, by day or by night,
Waking or sleeping, Thy presence my light.

Be Thou my vision in each face I see,
Christ in my friend and in my enemy.
Thou in my neighbors and strangers alike,
Made in Thine image and filled with Thy light.

Be Thou my vision in all that I give,
Thou who gave all that we might ever live.
Thee I receive fully, and full measure share,
Lending in Thy Name Thy peace and Thy care.

Be Thou my vision, whatever I do,
Though serving others, I serve Thee, in truth.
Thou in my handwork and Thou in my heart,
Thine all my power, Thy love to impart.

~SH

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: RoyH (Burl)
Date: 09 Oct 03 - 03:58 PM

Elaine and I do not know the tune of Be Thou My Vision but we will recite the words tomorrow at the appropriate time. Our deepest sympathies to you. Hold on to the memory of that dancing day. Thoughts and prayers, Burl and Mrs Burl.

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: CarolC
Date: 09 Oct 03 - 04:51 PM

I am so, so sorry to hear about this Animaterra. I send my deepest condolences to you, and all my best thoughts and wishes for whatever comfort or anything else you need in this difficult time.

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Noreen
Date: 09 Oct 03 - 06:02 PM

Burl, the tune for Be Thou my Vision is in Mudcat MIDIs: click here for Slane.

I will; be thinking about you tomorrow, Allison.

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: bbc
Date: 09 Oct 03 - 08:33 PM

This one's from me, dear:

Green Pastures

Troubles and trials often betray us,
Causing our weary bodies to stray
But we shall walk beside the still water
With the Good Shepherd leading the way

   Going up home to live in green pastures
   Where we shall live and die never more
   Even the Lord will be in that number
   When we have reached that heavenly shore

Those who have strayed were sought by the Master
He who once gave his life for the sheep
Out on the mountain still He is searching
Bringing them in forever to keep

We will not heed the voice of the stranger
For he would lead us unto despair
Following home with our loving Master
We shall all reach that country so fair

Author: n/a
Version: Stanley Brothers

Holding you in my heart & prayers,

Barbara

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Deda
Date: 09 Oct 03 - 09:00 PM

I am so very sorry to read this thread, to learn of this loss and suffering of the heart. Everything changes, but not love. The hurt will pass away, but not the love.

It is wonderfully affirming to read of how he died, after a joyful day, and with you, and affirming to know how much music goes out with thoughts of him. May you find comfort and strength!

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: karen k
Date: 10 Oct 03 - 01:42 AM

Alison,
I am just seeing this and it saddens me greatly. Having met Byron a couple of times and having seen the look on your face the first time you introduced him to me and other times when you spoke of him truly makes me feel your loss more deeply. My thoughts and my prayers are with you as well as his children and yours. I hope that I will see you at NOMAD next month so a hug can maybe make us both feel a little better. I hope you will remember how many people are better people because he was in their lives.

love,
karen kobela

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Micca
Date: 10 Oct 03 - 02:40 AM

UKers wishing to join Allison in spirit and to send good thoughts, light candles etc it will be at 9 pm UK time and 10 pm European time

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: GUEST,Ghirotondo at work
Date: 10 Oct 03 - 07:18 AM

I'm so sorry.
Un abbraccio.
Lanfranco

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Pinetop Slim
Date: 10 Oct 03 - 10:36 AM

Allison, I'm remembering the Friday night you taught "Lay Down, Sister" ("Bid You Goodnight") to the singing group at Seven Arrows so many years ago. Those were such good times -- thanks mainly to the wonderful song leader who brought good cheer, confidence and an easy comfort with music to the sessions. May those qualities sustain you through these times. -- Mark Flanagan

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Tinker
Date: 10 Oct 03 - 01:15 PM

I've spent a good deal of time today listening to yur tape and especially Until the Dark Time Ends... From reading this thread, it seems both of your lives share lessons and light. Keep close to the circle of friends. I'll light candles tonite with the dusk.

Blessings

Tinker

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 11 Oct 03 - 08:16 AM

I'm so moved by all of this. Thank you, friends.
Here is an excerpt from some of my writing on yesterday's events:
        The memorial service was amazingly beautiful. The lovely little country church was packed, folks from all aspects of his life spoke and gave tribute, I was able to speak (without a total breakdown) of his love and our commitment and how he was at peace. I was able to sing some of Be thou my vision and all of Amazing Grace. The final gift was my dear friends playing as a postlude the waltz I wrote for him when we were just a few months old. It's just a pretty little thing, but 5 amazing musicians on recorder and piano, harp, guitar and bass turned it into gold. When I learn a little midi, I'll post Byron's Waltz here.
        The ceilidh/reception was a bittersweet time of music, hugs and tears. My chorus sang, a trio of friends did too; the morris teams sang and sang. A friend played uillean pipes, the guys in Byron's band played Ashoken farewell for the first time in their lives, not knowing how much Byron had enjoyed his few years at Ashoken camp. Serendipity has punctuated this week.
        I was prostrated by sobs an hour before the service. A dear friend who is also my pastor led me through to a new place where I knew and know now without a doubt that Byron is still with me, on the inside instead of the outside, but right here all the time. Suddenly I went into a "zone" of peace and serenity that carried me through the service and the reception after. I felt that I was carried on angels' wings the whole time. I truly believe it was knowing how many places on this planet had candles lit and loving thoughts turned towards Byron and me. Thanks to all of you, dear friends        

        I am still broken and unstable, but the times of peace are growing longer. Please keep me in your hearts and prayers.

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: bbc
Date: 11 Oct 03 - 11:52 AM

Thank you for sharing that with us, Allison. Grief takes time & this was a relationship well worthy of grief. Be patient with & kind to yourself & know that we love you!

Barbara (available to you in NY)

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: katlaughing
Date: 11 Oct 03 - 12:35 PM

Oh, Allisondarlin', thanks so much for sharing with us; the tears are fresh-flowing. We will be your strength, as will Byron in being there with you and your 3D friends, as well.

Snuggle up in the warmth and comfort of our thoughts, energies and prayers and know that we love you.

kat

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: annamill
Date: 11 Oct 03 - 01:09 PM

He sounds like someone I would have like to have known. I'm so sorry for your loss, Allison. You have my love and are in my thoughts.

Love, Ann

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Joybell
Date: 11 Oct 03 - 07:52 PM

Allison, I'm new here and you don't know me but I just wanted to say that I have you in my thoughts too. I have a soul-mate who is everything to me, but still I can't begin to know how it feels to lose someone so dear.

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Desdemona
Date: 12 Oct 03 - 12:00 AM

These are the times in which words are inadequate, but please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your terrible loss.

D.

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: maire-aine
Date: 12 Oct 03 - 12:48 AM

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss.

Love and prayers,
Maryanne

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: alanabit
Date: 12 Oct 03 - 12:19 PM

Please accept my sympathy too. Alan.

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: George Papavgeris
Date: 12 Oct 03 - 12:42 PM

They say that every life behind it leaves a ripple
But I did nothing grand and earned no fame.
Yet one thing I did right, important yet so simple:
I had the sense to love you when you came.

He's closer now to you than ever. In your heart and mind.

Our thoughts with you - George and Vanessa Papavgeris

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 12 Oct 03 - 01:10 PM

He's closer now to you than ever. In your heart and mind."
I'm just starting to believe that.
Friends, I'm overwhelmed. Thanks for all the love.
Allison

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: GUEST,Sheila
Date: 12 Oct 03 - 03:08 PM

Please accept my very deep sympathy. "Mourn not too long that he is gone, but rejoice forever that he was." Sheila

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Joe Offer
Date: 12 Oct 03 - 06:31 PM

Animaterra sent me a beautiful waltz she wrote for Byron. She says,

I wrote it just a month after we came together, and somehow it expresses the lightness of spirit he gave me and the beauty of his soul.

Blessings on you both, Allison.
-Joe Offer-

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Click to play

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: bbc
Date: 12 Oct 03 - 07:34 PM

The waltz is beautiful, Allison! Joe, thanks for making it accessible to us.

best,

Barbara

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Helen
Date: 12 Oct 03 - 08:22 PM

Allison,

Do you have a copy of Musicman/Paul Evenden's CD called Farewell which he made as a memorial for his wife.

See this thread for the full story: Celtic Waltzes

It is my stress-reliever CD which I use when I am feeling sad or run down, or overwhelmed by life. It is really beautiful.

You can listen to some sound samples on the first site I linked to.

Helen

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: katlaughing
Date: 12 Oct 03 - 10:32 PM

I second the recommendation of Paul's CD and the thanks to Joe for adding Byron's Waltz for us to hear.

Allison, it is beautiful, thanks so much for sharing it and Byron with us.

Much love,

kat

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: katlaughing
Date: 24 Oct 03 - 11:56 PM

I had an email from Allison a few days ago. She really appreciated the cards, emails, PM's, etc. but says that she still would welcome our good thoughts, prayers, energy, etc. as she is having a hard time coping.

Thanks,

kat

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: wysiwyg
Date: 25 Oct 03 - 12:00 AM

Yup.

~S~

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Rustic Rebel
Date: 25 Oct 03 - 12:17 AM

Allison, I have for the first time just read about your sad news and I light a candle for you and Byron. I send you love and healing thoughts. So very sorry to hear this, my heart goes out to you.
Sue

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 25 Oct 03 - 06:07 AM

Thank you, everyone. I am just beginning to learn how to live in the belly of the beast called bereavement. The hardest thing now is that my wonderful group of friends has gone back to their own lives now, assuring me that I can call at any time when in need. But I can't call, can't reach out, and I live for the phone calls, cards and emails that trickle in.
I can listen to the sound of a concertina without completely falling apart, I'm back to work and the daily routine, but I'm still in pain.
Thanks for the prayers and love.
Allison

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 30 Nov 03 - 04:29 PM

refresh so I can "trace" it- no need to add anything!

Subject: RE: Obit: Byron, Animaterra's beloved SO
From: Dani
Date: 30 Nov 03 - 09:37 PM

Oh, but I'm so glad you did, because I didn't see this until now!

I'm of course sorry for your loss. I hope that you continue to allow your friends and acquaintances to support you as they are so willing and able. As you know, it is not alone that we make it throught this world with any true happiness.

Thank you for sharing Byron's Waltz, and thank you Joe for posting it. My daughters are just beginning to learn piano, and I am right behind them envious and bumbling. I think we will try to learn this.

Thanks and love to you from a faraway frosty cold North Carolina night.

Dani