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For Mom, Mick needs a hand (songs for a funeral)

Big Mick 09 Feb 06 - 10:47 AM
John MacKenzie 09 Feb 06 - 11:00 AM
wysiwyg 09 Feb 06 - 11:06 AM
katlaughing 09 Feb 06 - 11:10 AM
JudyB 09 Feb 06 - 11:16 AM
Amos 09 Feb 06 - 11:22 AM
ranger1 09 Feb 06 - 11:59 AM
Janie 09 Feb 06 - 12:07 PM
Den 09 Feb 06 - 12:33 PM
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M.Ted 09 Feb 06 - 01:24 PM
Emma B 09 Feb 06 - 01:44 PM
Helen 09 Feb 06 - 02:25 PM
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Subject: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Big Mick
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 10:47 AM

These days I mostly lurk and fix links, but I always know to come home when I need a hand. My musical family here has helped me many times before, and I need a hand again.

I am blessed to have one of the most wonderful women ever as my Mother in Law. Louise Weyne Rinke has been on this earth for 94 years. She has raised sons and daughters alike to be independent free thinkers. She worked very hard every day at a job, as well as at home, to give them all a wonderful start. Her efforts have borne the fruit of success. She was Herb Rinke's only love, and partner. Even in her 80's and 90's she made every effort to understand the world around her, the changing values, and to relate to each person she came in contact with. The end of her time here is nigh, yet when we visit with her, she still has the twinkle in her eye that says she loves being with us. I love her as I love my own blessed Mother.

Here is the favor I need. At the funeral Mass, I will be singing a song for her during the reflection time after communion. I have a couple of ideas, but I am interested in yours. I would like it to be one that is suited to a simple arrangement (fingerstyle guitar), and emotes the love of and for a Mother. This can be an old classic, trad song, or newer. The message is what is important. I would like people to feel the emotion of the loss of such a woman, yet great gratitude for having had her in their lives.

I have great respect for the opinions of you all. Thanks for the help.

All the best,

Mick


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Subject: Lyr Add: MOTHER MACHREE (R Young,C Olcott,E Ball)
From: John MacKenzie
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 11:00 AM

Mother Machree


There's a spot in me heart which no colleen may own
There's a depth in me soul never sounded or known
There's a place in my mem'ry, my life that you fill
No other can take it, no one ever will

Sure I love the dear silver that shines in your hair.
And the brow that's all furrowed, and wrinkled with care
I kiss the dear fingers so toil-worn for me
Oh, God bless you and keep you, Mother Machree!

Ev'ry sorrow or care in the dear days gone by
Was made bright by the light of the smile in your eye.
Like a candle that's set in a window at night
You fond love has cheered me, and guided me right.

Sure I love the dear silver that shines in your hair
And the brow that's all furrowed, and wrinkled with care.
I kiss the dear finers so toil-worn for me
Oh, God bless you and keep you, Mother Machree!

I love this song albeit somewhat maudlin it still hits the spot. I have always assumed that it was originally Mother mo cridhe, or Mother of my heart.

Giok


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: wysiwyg
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 11:06 AM

Mick, my only thought is-- a song from your heart, that's all you need to do.

~Susan


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: katlaughing
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 11:10 AM

{{{HUGS}}} and thoughts of peace and gratitude for a life well-lived. You will know, darlin'...the right one will come from your heart, as Susan says.

luvyakat


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: JudyB
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 11:16 AM

Mick -

I'd go for a song you know well that she liked - even if (or maybe especially if) it doesn't seem completely suitable. You'll be under enough stress without trying to remember a song that's not hard-wired, and the love will come through in your voice and your eyes, whatever you sing.

Our sympathy to you in this difficult time.

JudyB


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Amos
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 11:22 AM

I sang two for my own mother's passing. One was "His Eye is On the Sparrow", the other "Finnegan's Wake" both because they were her favorites.   How many people would want "Finengan's Wake" at their funeral? But we all sensed it was right for the person--especially the last line.

A song from her heart to yours will never go wrong. I think that is the formula.


A


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: ranger1
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 11:59 AM

Mick,
Jeri's been singing that beautiful one by Dave Carter, When I Go, for while. That's the first one I thought of when I started reading your post.


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Janie
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 12:07 PM

Mick,

I second Susan's words. Sing a song from your heart, and it will move gently through the hearts of all who hear.

Blessings and comfort her, and for all who love her as she passes on to the next leg of the journey.

Janie


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Subject: Lyr Add: THE TIME HAS COME (Christy Moore, adapted
From: Den
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 12:33 PM

Mick this is an adaptation of Christy Moore's The Time has come that I rewrote for my best friend's mother's funeral. The song has a beautiful haunting melody. The Time has come can be found on Christy's "Ordinary Man" album.

The Time Has Come
The time has come to part my love,
you must go away
I'll leave you now my darling girl
No longer can I stay
Our hearts for you are breaking
But Together we'll prove strong
The road you took has shown us all
that love can conquer all

The gentle clasp that held my hand
has loosened and let go
And it was hard to say goodbye
For those who loved you so
But love it is eternal
And though our hearts are full of pain
We know one day as faith decrees we'll be together once again

How the sorrow touched us all in your final days
When it was time you said goodbye,
and touched his sallow face
The flame you lit while living,
is still burning strong
And by the light it's plain to see
the love that still burns on

The time has come to part my love,
and you must go away
We'll leave you now our darling girl,
no longer can we stay


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Subject: Lyr Add: LIKE AS A MOTHER COMFORTETH + ... + ...
From: wysiwyg
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 01:03 PM

Mick, I keep thinking that you are already asking for just what you need. So in case my first post doesn't serve, I offer these.

Of course a song at Mass that is always appropriate is one showing the link between Lord and Mother.

LIKE AS A MOTHER COMFORTETH
"As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you." Isaiah 66:13
John B. Dykes (1823-1876) Words: Wil­liam M. Run­yan (1870-1957).
Music: "Be­a­ti­tu­do," John B. Dykes, in Hymns An­cient and Mo­dern, 1875 (MI­DI, score).

"Like as a mother comforteth"
O words of gentle worth!
"So will I comfort you," declares
The Lord of all the earth.

He bends in faithful watchfulness;
He slumbers not nor sleeps;
Above His trusting child the Lord
A constant vigil keeps.

He patient is, as mothers are
Who love their children well;
Our faults and failings He forgives;
His mercies—who can tell!

"Like as a mother," grant, O God,
This likeness e'er may be
A holy symbol to declare
The love that dwells in Thee.


~OR~

TELL MOTHER I'LL BE THERE
"After that I was turned, I repented... because I did bear the reproach of my youth." Jeremiah 31:19
Words: Charles M. Fillmore, 1898; Fill­more wrote this song up­on reading of the death of the mo­ther of Amer­i­can pre­si­dent Wil­liam McKin­ley.

Mc­Kin­ley had a spe­cial re­la­tion­ship with his mo­ther, who was ve­ry proud of him; in his youth, she boast­ed he would be­come a Me­thod­ist bi­shop (lit­tle did she know he would go some­what far­ther). When "Mother Mc­Kin­ley" fell ill in the win­ter of 1897, she lived some dis­tance from the cap­i­tal, so the pre­si­dent had a spe­cial telegraph line in­stalled be­tween Wash­ing­ton and her hometown. When word fi­nal­ly came of her im­pend­ing death, he quick­ly wired back, "Tell mo­ther I'll be there!"

"Tell Mo­ther I'll Be There" has con­vert­ed more men than any other song writ­ten in a de­cade. A song which cri­tics have tried to cut to piec­es, both words and mu­sic, but I have ne­ver found a song which would take its place. One night in Li­ve­rpool while the choir was sing­ing "Tell Mo­ther I'll Be There," one hun­dred and six­ty men arose and pub­lic­ly ac­cept­ed Christ be­fore all the peo­ple.

~ Evan­gel­ist Charles M. Al­ex­an­der

Music: Charles M. Fill­more, ar­ranged by Ro­bert Hark­ness (MI­DI, score).

When I was but a little child how well I recollect
How I would grieve my mother with my folly and neglect;
And now that she has gone to Heav'n I miss her tender care:
O Savior, tell my mother, I'll be there!

Refrain

Tell mother I'll be there, in answer to her prayer;
This message, blessèd Savior, to her bear!
Tell mother I'll be there, Heav'n's joys with her to share;
Yes, tell my darling mother I'll be there.

Though I was often wayward, she was always kind and good;
So patient, gentle, loving when I acted rough and rude;
My childhood griefs and trials she would gladly with me share:
O Savior, tell my mother, I'll be there!

Refrain

When I became a prodigal and left the old roof-tree,
She almost broke her loving heart in mourning after me;
And day and night she prayed to God to keep me in His care:
O Savior, tell my mother, I'll be there!

Refrain

One day a message came to me, it bade me quickly come
If I would see my mother ere the Savior took her home;
I promised her, before she died, for Heaven to prepare:
O Savior, tell my mother, I'll be there!

Refrain



THE CHRISTIAN'S "GOOD NIGHT"
"Weep not; she is not dead, but sleepeth." Luke 8:52
Sarah Doudney (1841-1926) Words: Sar­ah Doud­ney, Psalms of Life (published by Houlston), 1871. Music: Ira D. Sank­ey, 1884 (MI­DI, score).

Sleep on, belovèd, sleep, and take thy rest;
Lay down thy head upon the Savior's breast;
We love thee well, but Jesus loves thee best—
Good night! Good night! Good night!

Calm is thy slumber as an infant's sleep;
But thou shalt wake no more to toil and weep;
Thine is a perfect rest, secure and deep—
Good night! Good night! Good night!

Until the shadows from this earth are cast,
Until He gathers in His sheaves at last;
Until the twilight gloom be over past—
Good night! Good night! Good night!

Until the Easter glory lights the skies,
Until the dead in Jesus shall arise,
And He shall come, but not in lowly guise—
Good night! Good night! Good night!

Until, made beautiful by love divine,
Thou, in the likeness of thy Lord shalt shine,
And He shall bring that golden crown of thine—
Good night! Good night! Good night!

Only "Good night," belovèd—not "farewell!"
A little while, and all His saints shall dwell
In hallowed unison indivisible—
Good night! Good night! Good night!

Until we meet again before His throne,
Clothed in the spotless robe He gives His own,
Until we know even as we are known—
Good night! Good night! Good night!



NEVER GROW OLD
"Everyone who looks to the Son and believes in Him shall have eternal life." John 6:40
Words & Music: James C. Moore, cir­ca 1914 (MI­DI, score).

I have heard of a land on the far away strand,
'Tis a beautiful home of the soul;
Built by Jesus on high, where we never shall die,
'Tis a land where we never grow old.

Refrain

Never grow old, never grow old,
In a land where we'll never grow old;
Never grow old, never grow old,
In a land where we'll never grow old.

In that beautiful home where we'll never more roam,
We shall be in the sweet by and by;
Happy praise to the King through eternity sing,
'Tis a land where we never shall die.

Refrain

When our work here is done and the life crown is won,
And our troubles and trials are o'er;
All our sorrow will end, and our voices will blend,
With the loved ones who've gone on before.

Refrain


It's not mother-specific, except that every woman works hard and longs to be young, but that one is my own particular favorite, and you can hear a really bad recording of our band's version
HERE.

~Susan


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: M.Ted
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 01:24 PM

Her favorite song, or a song that everyone associates with her--it won't matter what the lyrics say--


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Emma B
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 01:44 PM

Since it began some 30 years ago out local Folk Festival has been closed to the singing of "Will ye go Lassie go"
When one of the original organizers died a couple of years back this was sung by the mourners as his coffin disappeared into the flames and there was not a dry eye or untouched heart.                     What I'm trying to say Mick is sing a song that will mean something personal and wonderful to the one passing and her loved ones.


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Subject: Lyr Add: WHISPERING HOPE
From: Helen
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 02:25 PM

Hi Big Mick,

Thanks for sharing your Mother in Law with us. She sounds lovely: strong & independent.

At my Mum's funeral we sang
Whispering Hope

Words & Music: Septimus Winner, 1868 (MI­DI, score). Hymn­als oft­list the author as Alice Hawthorne, one of Winner's several pseudonyms.­

Soft as the voice of an angel,
Breathing a lesson unheard,
Hope with a gentle persuasion
Whispers her comforting word:
Wait till the darkness is over,
Wait till the tempest is done,
Hope for the sunshine tomorrow,
After the shower is gone.

Refrain

Whispering hope, oh how welcome thy voice,
Making my heart in its sorrow rejoice.

If, in the dusk of the twilight,
Dim be the region afar,
Will not the deepening darkness
Brighten the glimmering star?
Then when the night is upon us,
Why should the heart sink away?
When the dark midnight is over,
Watch for the breaking of day.

Refrain

Hope, as an anchor so steadfast,
Rends the dark veil for the soul,
Whither the Master has entered,
Robbing the grave of its goal.
Come then, O come, glad fruition,
Come to my sad weary heart;
Come, O Thou blest hope of glory,
Never, O never depart.

Refrain


Ths midi version on that page is plodding, but when you hear it played lightly (with hope) it is one of the most simple but beautiful tunes I have ever heard. I loved it from the first time I heard it, when we learned to play it in 6th class in a whistle band.

a midi which sounds like a guitar version

If you need the sheet music score just PM me.

Helen


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Helen
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 02:40 PM

Also, the song which came on the radio when I was driving home, the last time I saw my Grandma just before she passed over was:

Hymn to Her, by the Pretenders

Let me inside you
Into your room
I've heard it's lined
With the things you don't show
Lay me beside you
Down on the floor
I've been your lover
From the womb to the tomb
I dress as your daughter
When the moon becomes round
You be my mother
When everything's gone

And she will always carry on
Something is lost
But something is found
They will keep on speaking her name
Somethings change
Some stay the same

Keep beckoning to me
From behind that closed door
The maid and the mother
And the crone that's grown old

I hear your voice
Coming out of that hole
I listen to you
And I want some more
I listen to you
And I want some more

And she will always carry on
Something is lost
But something is found
They will keep on speaking her name
Some things change
Some stay the same

It is the maid/mother/crone concept. The song gives me cold shivers when I hear it and listen closely to the words. I always have to stop what I am doing just to give my full concentration to it. I think of all the strong independent women I have known who "will always carry on" even after passing over, by living still in the hearts and memories of those of us left behind.

Helen


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: kendall
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 02:58 PM

The Stream of Time.If you like this, it's on Beginner's Luck.
or this poem,

So live, that when your summons comes
To join that innumerable caravan
That moves to that mysterious rhelm
Where each shall take his chamber
In the silent halls of death,
Thou go, not like the quarry slave at night,
Scourged to his dungeon,
But sustained and soothed by an unfaultering trust,
Approach thy grave like one who wraps the covers
Of his couch about him,
And lies down to pleasant dreams. (Thannatopsis, Wm. Cullen Bryant)


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Sorcha
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 03:03 PM

Mick, I can't offer any songs, but I can do (((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Charley Noble
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 03:23 PM

I do remember figuring out which one I would lead at my Father's memorial service and which ones I wanted others to lead. I picked one I knew I could get through, hard-wired as JudyB says, which happened to be Si Kahn's "Gone, Gonna Rise Again (New Wood)." I had other friends and relations lead the hard ones that I knew I'd never make it through such as "Lonesome Dove" and "When you and I were young, Maggie." My sister-in-law did a great job of leading "Nobody's Knows You When You're Down and Out." Another couple of friends led Tom Paxton's "Come Along Home."

You'll do fine, I'm sure, but consider sharing the work of leading songs.

Charley Noble


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: katlaughing
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 03:30 PM

Beautiful songs, folks!

I second Ranger1's suggestion of Dave Carter's song; it's one of my favourites, too.


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Morticia
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 05:59 PM

Ae Fond Kiss

I can't even read this song since it was sung at David's funeral but if you can get through it, or even if you can't, it's beautifully appropriate. ((((hugs))) to you and yours xxxxxx.


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: jacqui.c
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 06:16 PM

'When I go' is beautiful.

All our love Mick to all of you. Louise sounds like the kind of woman that I would aspire to be. You have been blessed to have such a person in your life.


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Alba
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 08:08 PM

Dear Mick,
First of all ((((((( hugs))))))).
Nothing harder than to find a Song that tells of the depth of Love and gratitude you feel for someone so special who is preparing to travel on ahead.
There are already some lovely suggestions.
I can think of many songs but......
I am sure that when the time comes Mick you will hear your Heart and it will tell you what Song needs to be sung and it will be the one that best describes this lovely Woman and how you feel about her.

Your description of Louise is beautiful. May the time she has with you all be Peaceful and Tender.
Light, Love and Blessings to Louise, Yourself and your Wife and all your Family Mick.
Holding ye in my thoughts.
Jude


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Ebbie
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 08:34 PM

Mick, have you thought of KT's 'Love Song for a Mother'?

{{{{Hug}}}}


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Peter T.
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 08:35 PM

Hi Mick, sorry to hear about this, but such a life!

One of my student sang "The Last Rose of Summer" at an impromptu concert the other day, and I was reminded how beautiful it was.

yours,

Peter T.


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Midchuck
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 08:59 PM

I had never heard "When I Go" until one of my nieces sang it to my mother, very quietly and unaccompanied, the night before her death in late November last, when she was pretty much under already. I couldn't believe it.

I am in the process of learning it, of course. I don't know that I can do justice to it, but when has that ever stopped me...?

(But Mick, did your MiL often "..bellow like the thunder drum, invoke the storm of war....?)

Peter.


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Midchuck
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 09:03 PM

P. S. Link.

Peter


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Cap't Bob
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 09:23 PM

Mick

Mighty sorry to hear about your wonderful Mon.
What a great group of songs to chose from and any one of would be a great choice.

With Love   Bob & Nancy


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Barry Finn
Date: 09 Feb 06 - 11:55 PM

Hi Mick
My blessings to your wife & you & yours. I'm not known for what's appropriate & what's not so forgive me if I'm off. I thought that the above mentioned Ae Fond Kiss was one or the Flowers Of The Forrest or this

Last night as I lie dreaming, I had a dreadful dream
I thought I saw my mother, she was waiting there for me
She said that she must leave me, that she could no longer stay
By the bonny banks of Claudy 10,000 miles away

So blame me not weeping, oh blame me not I say
I long to see my mother, 10,000 miles away.

Fair winds Mick
Barry


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Rasener
Date: 10 Feb 06 - 02:53 AM

Mick
I am not sure if this number is appropriate, but it certainly gives me the goosebumps when I hear it. Written, I beleive about Eric Clapton's son when he passed away.

Tears In Heaven
(Clapton/Jennings)

Would you know my name if I saw you in heaven?
Would it be the same if I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong and carry on
Cause I know I don't belong here in heaven

Would you hold my hand if I saw you in heaven?
Would you help me stand if I saw you in heaven?
I'll find my way through night and day
Cause I know I just can't stay here in heaven

Time can bring you down, time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart, have you begging please
Begging please

Beyond the door there's peace, I'm sure
And I know there'll be no more tears in heaven

Would you know my name if I saw you in heaven?
Would it be the same if I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong and carry on
Cause I know I don't belong here in heaven
Cause I know I don't belong here in heaven


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: wysiwyg
Date: 11 Feb 06 - 12:15 AM

refresh


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: GUEST,Dani
Date: 11 Feb 06 - 11:35 PM

I learned this sung to a VERY simple tune, which I can sing for you, but don't know how to type ; )

A very brief google search makes me think that it comes from a Wendell Berry poem, but I haven't found it yet. Will let you know. Other folks have added other verses, but this is what I learned.

It is beautiful and simple sung just a few times. I've done it with another singer, but the echo would be lovely done simply on the guitar.



And When I Rise

And when I rise (and when I rise)
Let me rise (let me rise)
Like a bird (like a bird)
Joyfully (joyfully)

And when I fall (when I fall)
let me fall (let me fall)
Like a leaf, (like a leaf)
gracefully (gracefully)

without regrets

Best wishes for you and your family, Mick.

Dani


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: open mike
Date: 11 Feb 06 - 11:56 PM

Laurei Lewis has a haunting song
the chorus goes
"Who will watch the home place?
Who will guard my heart's dear space
and who will fill my empty place
When I am gone away.."

the main character is singing about a
grandfather who has passed away..
so it might not match your situation
but the song is a great one.

remember the twinkle!


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Big Mick
Date: 15 Feb 06 - 07:13 PM

This place, tired and downtrodden as it gets from time to time, still remains a miracle. The kindness of the people here, the depth of the friendships formed, these are still a wonder to me.

In the mail, as a result of this thread, comes a beautiful shawl from a beautiful couple, to MaryLou, just to tell her they are thinking of her at this time. Kendall and Jacqui, I love you both and thank you for being great friends.

I am working on an arrangement of "When I Go". I also am working on "Hail Mary, Gentle Woman". I am very interested in the Laurei Lewis song mentioned above as well.

All of these songs and poems are a wonder. I find myself working through them trying to find the one that speaks to me. I will. Thanks to all of you. Please don't stop the suggestions.

Mom has earned the nickname "The Energizer Bunny". Despite the fact that she has been near death several times, she just keeps rallying. I have ceased to be concerned as to when this happens. I am just going to enjoy knowing that I am sharing this good earth with such a wonder of a woman.

Much love to all,

Mick


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: GUEST,Seamus Kennedy sans cookie
Date: 16 Feb 06 - 01:54 AM

Mick, God bless both of you.
I'm gonna tell you one thing - it'll be a bugger trying to get through any song you do without losing it emotionally. I know, I've been there.
I know it's old and clichéed, but in certain circumstances "A Mother's Love's A Blessing" is apt.

Chorus:
A mother's love's a blessing,
No Matter where you roam.
Keep her while she's living,
You'll miss her when she's gone.
Love her as in childhood,
Tho' feeble old and grey,
For you'll never miss your mother's love
Till she's buried beneath the clay.

Seamus


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: GUEST,KT
Date: 16 Feb 06 - 05:03 PM

Mick, my thoughts (and tears) are with you and Mary Lou at this difficult time. May you all find some peace and deep love during this time as you begin to release your dear mother.

You know the song I sang for my mother when it was her time. I changed the last verse to fit the occasion. Sing it if it works for you. You have many good ideas up above. I'm sure anything you sing will bless all those who hear.

KT


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: GUEST,Art Thieme
Date: 16 Feb 06 - 05:39 PM

Mick,

I'm with Susan and Sorcha sort of. Pick your own song.

At the 'farewell party Bob Gibson tosse for himself (he died a week later) I sang Jerry's song, "A Handful Of Songs" because that really 'fit' Bob.

At my own memorial I'd like folks to do "Irene Goodnight"---but that doesn't fit for you, now, either.

Onward and upward!!

I'm sure what you choose will be the right one...

Art


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: open mike
Date: 16 Feb 06 - 08:55 PM

I remembered the song i sang at my grandmother's funeral..

sort of a buddhist or Sufi/Runi/Whirling Dervish chant,,

"Let the long-time sun shine upon you
all love surround you,
and the pure light within you
guide your way home..."

i remember as we drove to the cemetary
i read a passage from "Island" by Huxley to my parents..
it was one about a woman who was a terminal cancer patient,
and her son was holding her hand and telling her to
"Go to the light.." and letting her know that her
work was done and she was free to let go now...

that passage stuck in my mind when 25 years later I
was by my mother's bed side just prior to her death.



I got lucky and found "Who Will Watch" on line...
here....


http://www.laurielewis.com/store/true.htm

Laurie Lewis recorded the song and it was IBMA song of the year .
(International Bluegrass Music Association)

WHO WILL WATCH THE HOME PLACE

Kate Long

(Verse)
G G C G /
Leaves are falling and turning in showers of gold
G G D7 D7/
As the postman climbs up our long hill
G G G C /
And there's sympathy written all over his face
Am Am D7 D7/
As he hands me a couple more bills.

(Chorus)
G Am G G /
Who will watch the home place
C C Am D7/
Who will tend my heart's dear space
G Am G C /
Who will fill my empty place
G D7 G G/
When I am gone from here?

There's a lovely green knoll by a clear running stream
It was my place when I was quite small
And it's pictures and sounds could soothe my worst pains
But today they don't ease me at all.

In my grandfather's shed there are hundreds of tools
I know them by feel and by name
And like parts of my body they've patched this old place
When I move them they won't be the same.

Now I wander around touching each blessed thing
The chimney, the table, the trees
And my memories swirl 'round me like birds on the wing
When I leave here, oh who will I be?


(hugs to you Mick....take a deep breath....)


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: karen k
Date: 17 Feb 06 - 12:42 AM

Mick,
I've sung and do sing the song above - Who Will Watch the Home Place. It is a wonderful song with a beautiful tune. Thinking about you all.

love,
karen


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Barry Finn
Date: 17 Feb 06 - 01:24 AM

I know you'll be picking the right song whatever it is & we'll be singing it with. Take Good Care Mick.
Barry


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: alison
Date: 20 Feb 06 - 06:40 AM

Mick,

whatever you pick will come from the heart and will be perfect.......

thinking of you all, and sending big hugs

love

alison


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: SINSULL
Date: 20 Feb 06 - 01:40 PM

I have no suggestion Mick other sing from your heart.
SINS


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Carly
Date: 20 Feb 06 - 03:05 PM

Mick, I agree that whatever comes to your heart to sing will be right, but may I suggest that you sing to her, now, some of the songs you are considering. Or think about some of the music you have shared with her in the past. I realize that this may seem slightly off-topic, but I had the extraordinary gift of an amazing conversation with my grandfather at the end of his life, triggered by a song I felt the need to sing to him. It certainly cannot hurt to let her know, through these songs, what she means to her family, and her responses, even if slight, may help you in your decision.

Take good care, Mick; we are thinking of you with love.
Carly Gewirz


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Janie
Date: 20 Feb 06 - 03:10 PM

Wow, Carly. Lovely idea.

Janie


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: GUEST,KT
Date: 20 Feb 06 - 06:57 PM

YEAH, CARLY!


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: Joybell
Date: 20 Feb 06 - 07:48 PM

My thoughts too Mick.
"Precious Memories how they linger. How they ever fill my soul..." That's running through my head. Joy


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Subject: RE: For Mom, Mick needs a hand
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 20 Feb 06 - 07:54 PM

This is a very moving thread. You'll know the right song, dear Mick. Meanwhile, light and love flowing your way, and Mom's.


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