BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)

Subject: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Azizi
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 06:55 PM

Another Mudcatter and I have been in ongoing communication with Mudcatter NeilD. Neil has been diagnosed with cancer and has been undergoing chemo treatment.

Neil and his wife, Christina, {who has posted here as a guest} have been giving us updates about Neil's condition. But since Neil is such a private person, until today he was reluctant about informing others about his serious condition. However, I received permission today to post this thread asking for prayers and good thoughts for him.

Here's an excerpt of the email I received from Neil today:

"During the last week, while I was getting my third round of chemo, they did a Cat-scan and the MRI to prepare for my upcoming operation, which as you know was supposed to be the amputation of my leg at the hip. They did the scans on Thursday and the Orthopedic surgeon was scheduled to come to see me on Friday. Well he came in at 4:30 Thursday with a big smile on his face and said that the tumor had shrunk so much that he is now going to be able to remove
it and save my leg. He won't even have to remove the femur and replace it with a steel rod.

This was the miraculous reaction to the chemo that I fantasized about but NOBODY believed was going to actually happen. I will lose 80% of the muscle in my thigh and will always have a stiff legged limp but what the heck. There is still a 15% chance of infection that would take my leg after all and a 10%chance of a remission but these are still my best odds yet. The Cat-scan was clean as well, meaning that it still hasn't shown up in my lungs yet. The chemo has hit me a bit harder this time around AND I get three more rounds after the surgery, but , believe me , I'm not complaining about the side effects considering how unbelievably well it is working."

-snip-

NeilD's surgery is scheduled for February 2, 2009. While Neil has received good news that his tumor has shrunk, he still needs our prayers, good thoughts, and best wishes.

This thread provides an opportunity for us to send our Mudcat energy out to Neil. Those who want to send a private message to NeilD can also do so.

Please post to this thread and let Neil know that we surround him with positive, healing thoughts.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Georgiansilver
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 06:59 PM

I will be praying for Neil ... and his family who also have to live through this.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: bobad
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 07:08 PM

Best wishes for a full and speedy recovery.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: jeffp
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 07:25 PM

Prayers from me.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: jacqui.c
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 07:41 PM

And from me. All the best Neil and thank you Azizi for letting us know.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Bobert
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 07:48 PM

Prayers from the Blue Ridge, Neil...

Bobert

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Arkie
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 07:49 PM

Neil, glad you have had some good news and hope things continue to look up for you. Will keep you in my prayers.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: SINSULL
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 07:59 PM

Candles lit in Maine.
Stay strong.
Mary

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: wysiwyg
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 08:11 PM

I've sent this around to the prayer chain.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: GUEST,Pete Peterson
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 08:17 PM

I started with THANKS for what's happened already. Then went on to ask for more.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: GUEST,Bob Ryszkiewicz
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 08:24 PM

NeilD: Find the Blue Buddha(The Medicine Buddha) that lies within you...Keep your thoughts on HEALTH, not Dis-Ease...You might find a Google Search on St. Rita de Cascia quite interesting...Bless...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=glKPFZNMPTY&feature=related
bob

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: catspaw49
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 08:27 PM

Actually Neil, ya' kinda' piss me off........You've been here for a good while and are a respected member of the community and private or not, a little heads up was in order. This place does care about its own far more than other places on the net and frankly more than some places I've lived in 3D. So that said.................

Sounds like a rough road you been travelling but may have come to a smooth spot. You have all my best thoughts for everything to go as it should and as you dream it can be. I like Docs that lay it out for you, ya' know? That way whatever happens, you're somewhat prepared and hopefully have thought through it. On one of my heart surgeries the Doctor said, "Well, the first major side effect possibility is death." Then he went on to list about 30 other things so by the time he got to stuff that might normally have scared the livin' hell out of me, it was no big deal........."Oh yeah, I can handle that......"

Someone told me once that the important thing was to do everything I could and then get on with living.......and they were right. You do the same! Spaw said so.........


Spaw

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Ebbie
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 09:01 PM

Spaw:Applause...

The best of good wishes from me too.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: KT
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 09:08 PM

It's good that you've let us know, Azizi. Holding you in thought and prayer, Neil.

KT

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Neil D
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 10:31 PM

Thanks to everyone for your kind thoughts and prayers. These mean so much. I thought about soliciting these a few months ago but I just didn't know how to ask in such a public forum. I have been in touch with Azizi and one other Catter throughout this ordeal and they have proven to be among the truest, most supportive of friends.
I have always known and wondered at what a caring comunity is Mudcat.
Having good wishes and positive energy flowing in from all over is overwhelming. Thanks to Spaw for considering me a respected member of this community. Just so long as I don't have to start being respectable. ;^)
   As you can see from Azizi's opening post, we have just received the first good news in a while. Nearly miraculous news actually!
There was one typo in my original message to Azizi. Where I typed:
There is still a 15% chance of infection that would take my leg after all and a 10%chance of a remission but these are still my best odds yet. I meant: a 10% chance of recurrence, obviously much better than only a 10% chance of remission. I must have had a touch of chemo fog while I was typing and proofing that sentence. So it seems we have turned a corner towards some cautious optimism and we continue to move forward with positive determination. I have been blessed with a wonderful wife and family, true friends, a very supportive employer and with the continued encouragement, prayers and powerful energy from all of you I feel confident we'll come out on top of this.
                                       Neil

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Janie
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 10:32 PM

Will hold you and yours up in my thoughts and prayers, Neil.

Janie

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: katlaughing
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 10:56 PM

Giving thanks for what has already improved and for a complete and successful surgery and subsequent treatment with complete remission for now and always. I give thanks for this or something better for the highest good of all concerned. (And, what Spaw said!)

I also recommend another Medicine Sutra on youtube, but don't forget that laughter really can be the best medicine, too. I cannot find a specific reference to humour that Iwas looking for on this website and I don't attest to everything it purports, but I do find a lot of good at The Secret which you can watch online.

All the best of everything to you and your family, Neil,

kat

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: ranger1
Date: 12 Jan 09 - 11:54 PM

Sending good vibes and warm fuzzies from New England.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: GUEST,Peace
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 12:03 AM

You know my feelings, Neil. This is GREAT news. Sent an e-mail a few minutes back. Lemme know.

Bruce

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 12:20 AM

Kat, you're right--laughter is great medicine! I will offer one note of caution--don't laugh so hard that you strain your stitches after surgery. :)

I recall returning home in 2000 after abdominal surgery for cancer, and turning on The Golden Girls. I remembered that it was funny, but in that viewing it was SO funny that my stomach ached after two episodes in a row. But heck, I'm free of cancer, so maybe it worked!

Good luck, and best wishes.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Seamus Kennedy
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 12:20 AM

Best wishes and prayers for a full and quick recovery, Neil.

Git 'er done!

Seamus

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Bryn Pugh
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 07:39 AM

Love and Good Wishes (not to mention hugs) from Northants, UK.

Erica and Bryn

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 09:00 AM

best wishes for continued good news!

sandra

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Big Mick
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 09:03 AM

Neil, candle is lit, and you are square in the prayers, buddy. The way you have handled this says much about you, sir. As Spaw says, do everything you can to fight this, and then get on with living. I rejoice in the news on the leg, but what the hell, you don't strum a guitar with your leg. ***chuckle***. Good for you.

And a note to Mudcatters. Could you all slow down on this stuff for a bit?? The good Father informs me that if I light many more candles, the structure might not survive. But he did say his heating bill is lower than it has been in years.

All the best,

Mick

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 10:54 AM

Best wishes for a full and speedy recovery from Essex, England

Khatt and Paul

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Sleepy Rosie
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 12:17 PM

I make Imbolc (Christianised as Candlemass) observances around the 1st Feb - the Celtic 'rising of the Light'. I spend my day in contemplative awareness. In the evening I light candles and make prayers to Brigit (others may recognise Her likeness in the Christian image of Mary).
NeilD will be remembered in my ritual observance and prayers.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: freda underhill
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 01:18 PM

Thanks for the thread Azizi. Neil, what wonderful news - these MudCAT scans are the best! All strength to you for your continued recovery,

best wishes

freda

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Hawker
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 01:39 PM

Prayers, kind thoughts and love from sunny Cornwall - to Neil and Christina.x
Lucy

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 02:14 PM

Wishing blessings to Neil and his family. Wishing correct guidance and good judgement to his physicians.

Thanks to Azizi for opening this thread. Thank you Neil for allowing us to share your good news. Long may it continue.

Love from Tamara in Essex, England

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: open mike
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 02:36 PM

sending good wishes, healing energy, and the strength to get thru this..

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Bat Goddess
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 09:28 PM

Good thoughts, prayers, healing energy and whatever else might be needed coming at you from this neck of the woods (New Hampshuh), too.

Ecstatic that the news so far is good (you can LIVE with a limp) -- hope everything else works out better than expected, too.

Good thoughts and prayers , too, to your family and friends who have to cope with the day to day worry, etc.

Linn

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: RangerSteve
Date: 13 Jan 09 - 09:51 PM

Add me to the list.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Azizi
Date: 14 Jan 09 - 12:46 AM

People have thanked me for starting this thread. To them, I say "You're welcome."

But thanks really isn't needed for this is what friends do for friends. And Mudcat is known for this.


**

Neil, since I'm posting on this thread, let me take this opportunity to share this song with you and anyone else who has a particular need for it:

Pastor E.Dewey Smith Jr. Sings God Specializes-Classic Hymn

God Specializes (Ending)- Pastor E.Dewey Smith Jr.

Here is my transcription of the words to "God Specializes" {also known as "Have You Any Rivers"} that is sung in the first hyperlinked video.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: gnu
Date: 14 Jan 09 - 07:27 AM

Thoughts and prayers.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 14 Jan 09 - 08:38 AM

More good thoughts from New Hampshire- we're tough folks- may it rub off on you, Neil!
Allison

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: GUEST,mauvepink
Date: 15 Jan 09 - 06:10 AM

Good luck and great fortitude to you. Hoping all goes well and that it turns out fine for you :-)


mp

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Escapee
Date: 17 Jan 09 - 01:28 PM

Prayers/good thoughts on their way from here, Neil and Christina.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Donuel
Date: 17 Jan 09 - 10:45 PM

Good for you Neil! Ending up with no more than a dented fender and a distinguished limp like Dr. House is damn good. After years of driving through life, a dented fender is a darn sight better than no fender. I'm counting on you to share the good news come March when you will be on your feet again.

Sharing medical expense information could end up giving you some benefits you don't know about yet. There are lots of people here who could lend advice regarding medical bills, including my wife who works in that field.
Cutting bills down to size is a good thought indeed.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: katlaughing
Date: 17 Jan 09 - 11:03 PM

Donuel is right...talk to them and talk to them some more...the billing depts. of wherever you get your treatments. They can be quite creative and helpful. I know from personal experience.

As to the laughter...PBS has a new series on called Make Them Laugh. It just started this week and featured a lot of Jack Benny and George Burns and other greats. I thought of you and hoped maybe you'd been able to tune in. There are some "online episodes" HERE.

More good thoughts and thanks givings,

kat

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Flash Company
Date: 18 Jan 09 - 11:15 AM

Neil, as this gang of ours kicked in at my request for a good friend with the dreaded 'C' and cheered her up immensely both before and after her (successful) op, the least I can do is wish you a similar successful outcome.
We will be thinking of you on Feb 2.

Brian & Sheila Q.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: GUEST,suzi
Date: 18 Jan 09 - 04:52 PM

stay positive Neil....wishing you a speedy recovery. x

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: fat B****rd
Date: 19 Jan 09 - 02:49 PM

Kind regards from Charlie in Dunfermline.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Azizi
Date: 02 Feb 09 - 11:48 AM

This is a reminder that NeilD's surgery is today.

Please send prayers and good thoughts his way.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Ebbie
Date: 02 Feb 09 - 11:55 AM

May his surgery be fully successful and his recovery swift and complete.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: SINSULL
Date: 02 Feb 09 - 12:21 PM

Amen.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Peace
Date: 02 Feb 09 - 08:49 PM

And amen again.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Nickhere
Date: 02 Feb 09 - 09:12 PM

Glad to hear there was some good news Neil, I have a relative in hospital at the moment, similar story, know how tough it can be, will keep you in prayers. If you need a laugh, check out this bored cat -

Bored Cat

Nick

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 03 Feb 09 - 07:29 AM

sending more good wishes for your surgery & hospital stay. I hope it will be as good as mine was.

sandra

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Lizzie Cornish 1
Date: 04 Feb 09 - 03:40 AM

Holding you tight, Neil. Get better soon.

Lizzie :0)

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Lizzie Cornish 1
Date: 04 Feb 09 - 03:56 AM

Oh, and Nick, that little cat...just wonderful! What a dear little fella. Don't forget to look at it, Neil, it'll make you smile, a lot!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 04 Feb 09 - 04:00 AM

Laughed inordinately at the cat... I know the feeling.. it's called 'Being at work'.

Any news on Nick's surgery yet?

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Peace
Date: 08 Feb 09 - 12:06 AM

YAHOO.

Just received the following from Neil:

"Dear Bruce,
Sorry we are just now catching up with our E-mails 5 days after the
surgery but we just got home. Chris stayed with me in the hospital so we had
no access to the internet until now. Anyhow, the surgery went very well. The
tumor was huge, as big as a Rugby ball, but Dr. Weiner is pretty sure he got
it all. There was one spot where it went right up to the femur and he won't
know for sure if it is completely clean until he sees the margins (tissue
sample pathologies). Even if that spot needs cleaned up he is sure a little
more radiation will do the trick. That would be after we finish off three
more rounds of chemo. If all goes to plan I'll start back into chemo the
first week of March and be done by the end of April. My plan is to get back
to work sometime in May and be doing two and half mile walks, unassisted, by
midsummer. Right now I can get in and out of bed and up from most chairs and
I can even go up and down stairs with effort. It's possible I may have to use
a walking stick for long walks and I will always have a noticeable limp but I
intend to rehab as much as possible. The biggest pitfall to avoid right now
are the "hospital" infections: staph; MRSA and a particular common one
lately, C-diff. These could be as potentially threatening as cancer right
now, but so far so good on that front. You can share any of this with anyone
who might be interested along with our gratitude for everyone's thoughts and
prayers."

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Lonesome EJ
Date: 08 Feb 09 - 12:34 AM

Thinking of you Neil, and wishing you a very speedy recovery!!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 08 Feb 09 - 01:00 AM

the margins (tissue sample pathologies) -

when my pathology report included the term 'Margins clear', I thought it meant the absolute edges of the samples were clear, so that if there were any cancer cells in the huge lump of tissue, they were in the middle.

wishing you clear margins!

sandra

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Neil D
Date: 08 Feb 09 - 03:22 AM

I can't say enough how much everybody's thoughts and prayers have meant to me and my wife throughout this ordeal. I love the idea of people from so many backgrounds in so many parts of the world sending so much positive energy my way. This has contributed to my ability to keep a positive attitude throughout. So, thanks to everyone here, and we will keep you all updated as we get more information. Mudcat friends, are the BEST friends!!

                                     Love to All,
                                        Neil

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Peace
Date: 08 Feb 09 - 05:49 PM

Well, lotsa people love you and Christina back, Neil.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Rowan
Date: 08 Feb 09 - 06:15 PM

All the best for getting back onto the dance floor, Neil.

Cheers, Rowan

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Neil D
Date: 17 Feb 09 - 04:10 PM

Well we went back to the ortho surgeon today to have Neil's staples removed, 44 of them. The surgeon said everything has gone as well as he could have ever imagined it would. The incision is healing up great, and he can now walk around the house without the leg brace. The Doc said all of the margins came back negative, what that means is the extra tissue they took around the tumor, healthy tissue, came back with no cancer cells!!! YAY!!!! He still has to have 3 rounds of chemo but will probably not have to have any more radiation. And they will always watch for recurrence, but how can it possibly think of coming back with all of the prayers, positive energy, and support of many, many friends and family. Soooo.... thanks again everyone, your kindness has made this journey a little easier for us to bear.

                                              Love to All,
                                             Neil ans Christina

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: bobad
Date: 17 Feb 09 - 04:16 PM

That's great news, I bet you both feel a lot lighter today.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Janie
Date: 17 Feb 09 - 10:15 PM

That's great to hear! Will continue to keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.

Janie

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 18 Feb 09 - 01:24 AM

YAH! clear margins!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Neil D
Date: 14 Mar 09 - 12:25 AM

Just a quick update. Neil goes back in the hospital on Monday for the first of his last 3 chemo treatments. Hopefully this will be all it takes. Keeping our fingers crossed.

                                       Christina

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: GUEST,suzi
Date: 14 Mar 09 - 03:50 AM

positive thoughts and love for you both. suzi. x

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: My guru always said
Date: 14 Mar 09 - 04:38 AM

Positive Thoughts!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 14 Mar 09 - 05:54 AM

ditto & best wishes, too

hugs to you both

sandra

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Azizi
Date: 14 Mar 09 - 09:30 AM

Positive vibrations from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania!*

-Azizi

* Try saying that a lot of times.

:o)

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: jacqui.c
Date: 14 Mar 09 - 10:53 AM

Lots of good thoughts coming from Maine.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Neil D
Date: 23 Mar 09 - 02:26 AM

Well Neil had the first of the last chemo treatments this week. He came through pretty good. It did however take a lot out of him and made him pretty sick. It's taking a little longer for him to bounce back. The doctor said after the 3rd round that he is going to have a PET scan done. I guess this is the best test they have for seeing even small areas of cancer in the body. Hopefully they won't see any. Will keep everyone up to date. I also wanted to say that with all of the threads where people need support and prayers for various reasons, that I think this is a WONDERFUL community full of kind and caring people. Thanks to everyone you really don't know how much it means.

                               Christina

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 23 Mar 09 - 03:02 AM

for some folks Mudcat is just a place to come & get lyrics from the Digital Tradition - for many of us it's a lot more than that. It's like an old fashioned town where people care about their friends & neighbours. When I was facing hospital 8 weeks ago I found what you are finding, Christina.

keep us informed

sandra

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Janie
Date: 23 Mar 09 - 07:32 AM

Thanks for the update, Christina. Here's hoping for a clean scan, and a speedy recovery from the effects of the chemo.

Janie

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: wysiwyg
Date: 23 Mar 09 - 02:36 PM

Christina, a very good friend of ours has had a similar run, and it is really amazing how well these treatments can work, these days. Sometimes it can be scary, when the treatments take a lot of the person's strength... and then it is equally amazing how our bodies can regain unbelievable strength much more quickly than our minds can foresee.

Don't forget to let people take care of you, too, OK?

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Pistachio
Date: 23 Mar 09 - 04:14 PM

Hi, I don't know you but I'd like you to know I'm thinking of you and smiling, having read your positive news.   Four of my friends have recently fought their own battles and thankfully all are getting back to fitness.
Keep smiling. Take care
Regards, Hazel.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Hawker
Date: 23 Mar 09 - 07:03 PM

Sending out healing and keeping you all in my thoughts
Lucy x

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: katlaughing
Date: 23 Mar 09 - 07:15 PM

Thanks for the update, Christina and please pass on our good wishes and thanks givings for a complete and speedy recovery to Neil. This is a wonderful place but it is a reflection of the folks who come here and Neil's reflection is one we want to keep!:-)

ATB,

kat

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: catspaw49
Date: 23 Mar 09 - 07:53 PM

Thanks Christina.....and we're all hoping for the best outcomes possible and so far it just sounds great!   Chemo can take it out of you but afterwards we expect Neil back here in good form! This place has an amazing power to provide support through love.....I know. I've been on the receiving end. Take care and tell Neil we're waiting for his healthy return.

Spaw

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Janie
Date: 18 Apr 09 - 11:34 PM

Thinking of you, Neil. How are you faring?

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: Neil D
Date: 18 Apr 09 - 11:57 PM

I just finished my 5th round of chemo yesterday, and came home from the hospital today. Only one more round to go... YAY!!!! I have a little more side effects, nausea, fatigue etc... each time, but nothing I can't handle, especially since the chemo has worked so remarkably well. It's good to get back home even though it will take about a week to feel normal again. Rehab on the leg is coming along nicely.I am walking without a cane or brace, and have just a slight limp. Just before I went into the hospital I had worked up to a 2 mile continuous walk.I still have to work on the pace. I walked 1 mile a day in the hospital dragging my I.V. pole with me, even on my worst days. I am thankful for the people that are still keeping us in their thoughts and prayers, Mudcatter's are the BEST! Will update as we get more info.

                                     Love to all,
                                       Neil

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed
From: katlaughing
Date: 19 Apr 09 - 12:08 AM

Neil, you are an Inspiration! Thanks to you both for keeping us up to date and for taking good care of YOU!

All the best,

kat

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: maeve
Date: 19 Apr 09 - 06:59 AM

I'm delighted to read your update, Neil.

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 19 Apr 09 - 09:00 AM

me too. keep up the good work, Neil

sandra

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: SINSULL
Date: 19 Apr 09 - 12:06 PM

Good news, Neil. Christina is in my prayers - a long list these days. This is as hard on her as on you. Make sure you give her a hug every day.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: jacqui.c
Date: 19 Apr 09 - 12:10 PM

Good to hear you are doing so well. Keep at it!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Neil D
Date: 02 May 09 - 11:36 PM

Neil will be going back in the hospital on the 11th of May for his last round of chemo. Then they will do a PET scan to see if all is clear. Please keep fingers crossed for the much wanted outcome. Thanks everyone.

                                  Christina

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: katlaughing
Date: 03 May 09 - 12:06 AM

To the tune of I Can See CLearly Now:

They can see clearly now, it is all gone,
Neil is free and clear of all there was...etc.
It's gonna be a bright, bright, bright sunshiny day!

Good thoughts and thanks givings continuing from Colorado and thanks for keeping us up to date.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 03 May 09 - 10:29 AM

more good thoughts from Australia

sandra

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: GUEST,Bob Ryszkiewicz
Date: 03 May 09 - 10:35 AM

Prayers for NeilD...

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Azizi
Date: 03 May 09 - 11:13 AM

Neil, there's power in positive vibrations and we're saying more power to you!

:o)

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: SINSULL
Date: 03 May 09 - 11:13 AM

Prayers here too.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Severn
Date: 03 May 09 - 11:23 AM

Chemo knocked out my cancer and I hope it puts you in full remission too. It's rough living through the "dishrag days' of feeling completely helpless that increase as Chemo progresses, but being in remission is a great thing, even though I got diabetes as an after-effect of my last treatment when I couldn't hold food and my blood sugar spiked skyward. May all your CT and PET scans prove you free and clear that myself and the rest of us may count you as another survivor.


Good luck from one who's been there and back. It's good to be alive!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: gnu
Date: 03 May 09 - 11:32 AM

Continued toughts and prayers.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Peace
Date: 03 May 09 - 05:04 PM

Ditto.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Janie
Date: 03 May 09 - 05:13 PM

Visualizing clarity and clear scans, and a surround of healing light.

Janie

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Janie
Date: 16 May 09 - 05:46 PM

Hi Neil,

Saw in another thread that you are home from your 6th round. (and I apologize that I pulled up a thread for some one else when I went looking for this one.)

Hope you are recovering from the after effects and that the follow-up scans look good and clear.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: jacqui.c
Date: 16 May 09 - 05:49 PM

And from me. All the best to you.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Neil D
Date: 16 May 09 - 05:55 PM

Well it's over for now, hopefully for good. I just finished my 6th and, we hope, last round of chemotherapy. I'll continue to have various tests and scans for the rest of my life, but for now the prognosis seems fairly positive and we're holding on to that. I can't say enough how grateful I am to everyone here who has given support, encouragement, good wishes and prayers throughout this scary, trying time. Know that we are sending some of that love back to you and to all others here who are having trying times of their own, we send a little extra.
                                     Neil and Christina Devore

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: gnu
Date: 16 May 09 - 07:06 PM

"fairly positive and we're holding on to that".... so are the rest of us. God bless.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: gnu
Date: 16 May 09 - 07:07 PM

Oops... sorry... ah... bless you... no god intended. Force of habit.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: katlaughing
Date: 16 May 09 - 07:38 PM

Wonderful! I look forward to your first, then second, then third, then ad infinitum years FREE of the blight, as my mother manifested in her life. She died of old age, but not the big C which came to her almost thirty years before when she went through similar treatment.

Goodonyou!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: SINSULL
Date: 16 May 09 - 08:34 PM

Congratulations, Neil. Close this chapter and move on.
Mary

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: catspaw49
Date: 16 May 09 - 09:14 PM

BRAVO******APPLAUSE*******CHEERS!!!!!!

Obviously we are all pleased to see how well you have done.....Good job Neil!

AND GREAT JOB CHRISTINA!!!!! You had the tough part. I know.....I've watched Karen over the past years and yours was the hardest part to play. Now I know Neil was the sick one and he went through the treatment but there ain't really nothin' to that. When you're in that position its like riding an elephant downhill......Once it gets moving you just have to hold on for the ride!   Your part is always more difficult and filled with fears and terrors that are yours alone. Be sure to unload on him and get all of that out......I know he can take it. If you're married to your best friend you do that give and take all the time.......and I think, like Karen and me, you are.

All Our Best to You Both,

Pat and Karen

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Neil D
Date: 17 May 09 - 05:08 AM

Pat, that was beautiful.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Peace
Date: 17 May 09 - 05:27 PM

OK. So I have some tears in my eyes. I love you guys; please know that.

Bruce

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Neil D
Date: 17 May 09 - 08:16 PM

You are oh so right Spaw, a better friend I could not have asked for. He is the love of my life.

                                        Christina

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 18 May 09 - 02:52 AM

Going in to work with a smile on my face because of this piece of good news.

Excellent.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Azizi
Date: 18 May 09 - 08:55 AM

YEAH!!!

Neil and Christina, I'm very happy & relieved for you both.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: jeffp
Date: 18 May 09 - 01:15 PM

All the best, Neil and Christina. You now have the very dubious honor of understanding just what Hell truly is. May you now find Heaven on earth with each other and all your friends.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Neil D
Date: 23 Jun 09 - 02:09 PM

Final update... hopefully. Neil went back to work full time on June 2nd. He is doing GREAT! He walks 2 miles daily on the walking path near our home, when the weather permits, not too shabby for a guy missing half the muscles in his leg! I am so proud of him. He has to be one of the bravest, strongest willed people I know. The ex-ray didn't show anything in the lungs. YAY! He goes back to the orthopedic oncologist the 30th to have the surgical area checked and a possible MRI done on that area. After that it should be smooth sailing. So.. once again thanks to all for your support and many blessings back to you.

                                     Christina

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: gnu
Date: 23 Jun 09 - 02:19 PM

GREAT!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: SINSULL
Date: 23 Jun 09 - 02:20 PM

Well Done!
We needed some good news around here. Enjoy your good health, Neil.
Mary

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Paul Burke
Date: 23 Jun 09 - 02:47 PM

Brilliant stuff. It's great to see a successful fightback against the insidious, silent, vicious enemy within.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Severn
Date: 23 Jun 09 - 03:02 PM

Keep up the good fight!

This coming from a cancer survivor (in total remission, so far) and went through the Chemo treatment,as well.

All the best to you!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: katlaughing
Date: 23 Jun 09 - 07:07 PM

That is REALLY good news! Congratulations!!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Janie
Date: 23 Jun 09 - 11:13 PM

Good News!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 24 Jun 09 - 06:06 AM

yah!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: alanabit
Date: 24 Jun 09 - 08:13 AM

Wonderful news!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Charley Noble
Date: 24 Jun 09 - 03:04 PM

This thread has come a long long way since it was started!

Congratulations!

Charley Noble

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Lonesome EJ
Date: 24 Jun 09 - 03:17 PM

Go Neil!! Hoping for the best for you and your wife!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: jacqui.c
Date: 24 Jun 09 - 07:39 PM

Thanks for the update Christina. I'm so glad that Neil is doing so well.

Subject: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)-UPDATE
From: Neil D
Date: 25 Aug 11 - 09:31 PM

Once in awhile I like to be the bearer of good news! Neil saw his Dr. the other day and all the x-rays and scans came back clean! The doc said he never likes to say 100% cured, but with Neil being 2 1/2 years cancer free now, he is very comfortable with 95% cured and if he stays cancer free at 5 years+ he will call it 98-99% cured!! Yay Neil!!!

                                  All my love,
                                  Christina

P.S. Thanks to everyone that supported us with kind words and positive thoughts :)

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: LilyFestre
Date: 25 Aug 11 - 09:39 PM

That's the best news I've heard all day!!!! FANTASTIC!!!!! I am thrilled for you Neil!!!!!!

XOXOXO

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: katlaughing
Date: 25 Aug 11 - 11:26 PM

Wonderful news!!! Thanks, so much, Christina, for letting us know. And, thanks to you both for allowing us to help in whatever ways we can.

luvyakat

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Janie
Date: 26 Aug 11 - 06:14 AM

Wonderful to learn this!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 26 Aug 11 - 06:44 AM

ditto

love to you both

sandra

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 26 Aug 11 - 07:34 AM

Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful! Thank you so much for the update, Christina! All the best to you and Neil!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: catspaw49
Date: 26 Aug 11 - 09:10 AM

Wow.....That IS good news Christina! Hugs to you both!!!


Spaw

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: SINSULL
Date: 26 Aug 11 - 09:12 AM

Thank you Christina. Good news is always welcome.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: gnu
Date: 26 Aug 11 - 03:39 PM

EXCELLENT! I know the feeling as of yesterday afternoon. ENJOY!

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: GUEST,Bluesman
Date: 26 Aug 11 - 04:48 PM

Thoughts with you Neil,a lot of respect also.

Keith

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: ChanteyLass
Date: 27 Aug 11 - 12:15 AM

I was not aware of this thread in '09 but obviously am now. I am sorry I couldn't support you through the worst of this but am happy to read that Neil has come so far.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: fat B****rd
Date: 27 Aug 11 - 07:30 AM

Huzzah !! Great news.

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: olddude
Date: 27 Aug 11 - 11:35 AM

I am totally smiling ... how absolutely wonderful :-)

Subject: RE: BS: Prayers/Good Thoughts Needed (NeilD)
From: wysiwyg
Date: 27 Aug 11 - 10:07 PM

Good for you both!

~S~