Bobert, I know you said it didn't have anything to do with the way she approached you about getting away but I think you have to go back to that point and perhaps further to ask why she felt she could talk to you that way in the first place. I think Frieda, LTS, Mary Garvey and a few others mentioned respect in their posts. It seems to me that the real question should be why is there a lack of respect in this relationship. Find out the background to that question and build upon it. Best Wishes, Ellen
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