Guest: You said, "Those who lived the situation can temper theirs with insight that is missing from those who have not." A lot of people have made choices, decisions, options to make, break, agree or disagree or even argue but until YOU have walked in another persons shoes how do you presume to know the size of their shoes. Why are you riding your high horse and whipping it unmercyfully - you can hate people for their beliefs, but they can never feel your hatred only you can feel it. Wake up!