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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: hesperis Date: 03 May 01 - 05:59 PM Good for you. Have fun! |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: harpmolly Date: 03 May 01 - 05:54 PM To be entirely fair, this isn't exactly the job from hell--it's a non-profit community center, which means that there are some advantages in terms of being surrounded by people who are in it for love of community, not money. However, it IS a non-profit--constantly over budget, underfunded, understaffed, and disorganized--and I'm under a lot of low-grade stress every day, which really adds up. The few personality conflicts I have encountered have just added to that stress. I guess I've finally decided that it's okay for me to say, "I really need to be making more money now, to invest in my future goals." The hardest part has been trying not to feel like I'm selling my soul to the devil--abandoning the non-profit world for something that pays better. I just need to remember that it's my life, and I don't owe anyone anything. My housemate still works here (or will when she gets back from her six-month umiak expedition!) and I've made lots of friends here, so I'm sure it'll continue to be a part of my life. But I'm just ready to move on. Thanks again for all the encouragement! Onward and upward! Moll |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Jock Morris Date: 03 May 01 - 04:42 PM Congratulations! I was in a shite job that was stressing me out until Feb this year. Now I'm out and in a wonderful new job I'm far happier and healthier. All the best for your new job, Scott |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Jim Krause Date: 03 May 01 - 03:22 PM Ah, yes. Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt, and even got kissed. Always reminds me of that Carter Family song: Well, I ain't gonna work tomorrow I whistled and sang that one on the last day of the last straight job I had. Felt good. |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: GUEST, Vestal Jande Date: 03 May 01 - 11:21 AM Hooray!! Another one makes a break for freedom!! Congratulations, Mollificent! ~ Jande, (who has walked out of many an abusive "job"). |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: lady penelope Date: 03 May 01 - 03:13 AM "Don't ask me what I think of you, I might not give an answer that you want me to!" Mmmm, yes employers rarely want to hear the real reason you're leaving! Bully for you! TTFN M'Lady P. |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: paddymac Date: 03 May 01 - 01:26 AM Freedom begins in your own mind. Good on ye! |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Jeep man Date: 02 May 01 - 10:59 PM Deckman, its refreshing to hear from someone who likes and appreciates his job. Jeeply |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Deckman Date: 02 May 01 - 10:26 PM I did the same some 11 years ago and I went to work for myself as "The Deckman" ... yes I build decks! Now I've got the WORST BOSS in the world. He drives me ruthlessly, never gives me proper breaks or even vacations. He demands the most out of me every day and night, and yet I've never been happer in my life! ... go figgure! CHEERS, Bob (deckman) Nelson |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Don Firth Date: 02 May 01 - 03:11 PM Of course there's the First Rule of Wing-Walking: be sure you have a firm grip with your left hand before you let go with the right. But that depends. . . . I'm fond of Tom Robbins' (Another Roadside Attraction, Even Cowgirls Get the Blues, etc.) anecdote about how he quit his day job to do the kind of writing he wanted to do full-time. He was working at the Seattle Times and he felt that it was grinding him down. While driving to work one morning, it hit him. He pulled over to a phone booth and called the Times. "I'm not coming in today." "You're calling in sick?" "No. I'm calling in well. I quit!" I've had a few jobs where I wish I'd had the guts to do that. Don Firth |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Amergin Date: 02 May 01 - 02:32 PM I know that feeling, Molly....though there was a time or two that I didn't even do that...I just walked right out the door.... |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: harpmolly Date: 02 May 01 - 12:40 PM LOL! That's about how I felt, facing down the admins and trying to stammer out my reasons for leaving (especially since "This place SUCKS!" didn't seem like the most diplomatic way to put it *grin*). M |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Matt_R Date: 02 May 01 - 12:34 PM I did it! Do you think I've gone to far? I did it! Guilty as charged... |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: harpmolly Date: 02 May 01 - 12:30 PM Wow! Thanks for all the support, you guys! :) I'm enrolled with a pretty good staffing agency which shouldn't have too much trouble finding me something (according to my contact there, my skills are definitely up to par with what she can easily place :D). And I think, if I try to be judicious with my finances (yeah, right *grin*) that even if I don't get another job immediately, I'll be okay for at least a month. And there's always temp work--blecch, but it's flexible and will do until something more attractive comes along. And then, I can always sing in the streets ;) I'm really grateful for all the kind wishes. Now I know why I love the Mudcat! Mollywog |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Hollowfox Date: 02 May 01 - 11:54 AM Congratulations! Have you got another square to jump to? I'll light a candle tonight for you either way. |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: MMario Date: 02 May 01 - 08:57 AM yup - sometimes doors are like airlocks - if you don't slam the first one shut, you ain't never gonna get the second one open. Best of luck! |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: KingBrilliant Date: 02 May 01 - 05:14 AM Oooh. You lucky thing! Feels good doesn't it. Kris |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Liz the Squeak Date: 02 May 01 - 01:10 AM Good for you. It's always best to leave a job before it leaves you. Good luck with whatever you do. Liz |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: katlaughing Date: 01 May 01 - 11:04 PM Wonderful news for you. Congratulations! I remember a DJ friend of ours who wanted to quit the radio station so badly. It was a country/western format so when he finally was able to do his last show, the last song he played was Take This Job and Shove It. Gave him great pleasure! All the best, kat |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Gypsy Date: 01 May 01 - 10:47 PM Terrific! I know the relief i felt after leaving a job that had me for 11+ years. As i recall, the first two weeks of freedom, i slept. 12 hour nights, with naps during the day! |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: kendall Date: 01 May 01 - 10:08 PM Everytime a door closes, another opens. And, you must create a space before something can fill it. Go for it! |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Banjer Date: 01 May 01 - 09:41 PM YOu have put to action my favorite dream...That of being able to waltz into the bosses office and telling...No, maybe singing to him.. So long it's been good to know ya So long it's been good to know ya So long it's been good to know ya I've got to be traveling on!! Oh how being able to share that little ditty with him after 15 years of being shit on would lighten my spirit!! Congratulations on your new job and on gettimg such a kick out of leaving the old one!! |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: SINSULL Date: 01 May 01 - 09:31 PM Congratulations! Enjoy your new found freedom. |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Little Hawk Date: 01 May 01 - 09:03 PM On your day of liberation, we share in celebration! Nice going! - LH |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: harpmolly Date: 01 May 01 - 09:00 PM *high pitched battle cry* Never piss off a Pygmy Amazon! Aah, I'm in a good mood. I'll let you go...this time. ;) (Tune in next week for the Further Adventures of Teeny, Mini-Warrior Princess!) |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: Amergin Date: 01 May 01 - 08:57 PM Sorry, about that, Molly.....I'll try to be quieter next time....(I was hoping to blame it on that rotten looking bastard behind me....oh there's no one there....nevermind....) I sure hate it when you kick my butt....though that slap....felt kinda good.... Well, glad to hear it! I know how tired you were of that place! if all else fails you know we're always hiring.... I'm sure HR could arrange a high chair for you....oh shit...I'm in for it now.... Amerginrunningoutthehatchasfastashisweefeetsiescantakehim.... |
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Subject: RE: BS: I did it!! I did it!! From: CarolC Date: 01 May 01 - 08:51 PM Congratulations, Mollificent! Good for you!
Good luck and best wishes. Carol |
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Subject: I did it!! I did it!! From: harpmolly Date: 01 May 01 - 08:48 PM I gave my 30 days' notice at my job today!!!!!!!!! and I even stuck to it, despite my supervisor giving me VERY intense puppy-dog eyes. No! Must...resist...guilt! I'm sorry to start a whole new thread, but I just had to share. Especially since this means I can get a fabulous new job that actually pays DECENT MONEY! so I can save up and actually record a demo tape and maybe, just maybe, start being as motivated about this music thing as I should be... 30 more days! Zippedy-doo-dah! I can't believe it...someone pinch me! er, wait, on second thought...*turning around and smacking Amergin* Nice try. Wear quieter shoes next time. *grin* M |