Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug

Subject: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: jacqui.c
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:04 PM

Tami had to have her dog put down today. Clancy, a sixteen year old yellow dog, hurt his back about a week ago and wasn't recovering well. He was in a lot of pain sitting, walking and lying down and Tami and her partner, Jason, finally decided today that his quality of life was so poor that the only thing that they could do for him would be to let him go.

SINSULL and I took them to the vet and stayed while Clancy was put to sleep. He went quietly, looked after by people who loved him. WE went on to one of Tami's favourite watering holes and had a wake in Clancy's honour. This was a bar where, until someone complained to the authorities, Clancy would jump up on a bench and join his people at the bar.

Over the last two years I have got to know Clancy at Mary's song circles. He was a quiet, dignified, well behaved dog but Tami has stories from when he was younger that suggest that he was quite a character. He was definitely a lot nicer than some people I've met.

AS you can imagine, Tami and Jason are both very upset right now and I think some Mudcat hugs would definitly help.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Rapparee
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:06 PM

Consider it done in Idaho. And another glass will be raised this evening.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: artbrooks
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:08 PM

Hug on the way via PM. We had to put one of our cats down a few years ago (cancer), and I understand that "it's for the best" is scant comfort when it is a fur person you love.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: GUEST,Dani
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:09 PM

Of course. Hugs all around for peace in a time of great loss.

Dani

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Geordie-Peorgie
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:10 PM

So sorry to hear this news

So here's a 'M A S S I V E' Geordie hug aall the way from the UK.

Treasure aall the moments and cherish aal the mem'ries of Clancy - He wasn't one of man's best friends for nowt!!

All love te yez
G-P

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Jeri
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:12 PM

Aw, jeez... sweet old guy. I'm so sorry, and you can have all the hugs you want. Clancy couldn't have had better people.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: skipy
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:20 PM

Hug, it is 7 years since Walter left us, he was the best pussycat in the world, I know how you feel.
Skipy

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: katlaughing
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:20 PM

Oh, darn, this is never easy. My condolences and lots of {{{{{HUGS}}}}}. I've been looking at our Merlee whose muzzle is getting grey thinking it might be time to get a young pup for him to raise and to perk him up.

All my sympathies,

kat

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Gizmo
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:31 PM

All my sympathies, and I know how hard it is to say goodbye to the furry friends.

Big huge hugs, and my sympathies to both Tami and Jason.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Bert
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:40 PM

Lots of hugs on the way.

Now everybody join in with "Old dogs and Children and Watermelon Wine" and wish him good speed on his journey to wherever old yellow dogs go.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: RangerSteve
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:49 PM

Hug.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Leadfingers
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:52 PM

(((HUGS))) and commisserations from over here too !!

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Charley Noble
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:52 PM

So sorry to hear this, Ranger 1. We know you did your best.

Charley Noble and JudyB

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Alba
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:52 PM

{{{{{{{BIG HUG}}}}}} Tami.
Love
Jude

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: bfdk
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 06:53 PM

Oh, Tami, my heart goes out to you!!

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{ BIG HUG }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

It hurts like hell to let them go, but you did what was best for Clancy, and you have to hang on to that thought in the sad days ahead. Your pain is still there, but Clancy is no longer in any pain, and no pain will ever touch him again.

I only met Clancy the once, but what Jeri said is true, he was a sweet old guy..

Lots of kind thoughts heading your way!

Best wishes,

Bente

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Alba
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 07:04 PM

Just wanted to send{{{ Hugs}}} to Jason too. Friends step forward when hard times come along. Jacqui and Mary my love goes to you both for being right there for Tami, Jason and poor Clancy.
Jude x

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Maryrrf
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 07:07 PM

So sorry to hear this. I have an elderly dog too, and I know I will face this someday soon.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Micca
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 07:18 PM

Tami and Jason, as someone who knew Clancy over several years I am so sorry that this has happened, I know that you wouldn't want him to go on suffering unneccesarily but it must still be so hard to let the lovely old boy go. I will miss his gentle intelligent stare and his sitting on my leg in the truck , and his wet nose in my ear. He was a noble fella and very much loved and will be missed not least by me.
hugs to you both, you are in my thoughts tonight
Micca

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: catspaw49
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 07:28 PM

All the hugs you want from Ohio...My oldest Weim is arthritic with dysplasia in the hips, almost completely blind and deaf. Somehow though he keeps plugging along and is pretty happy. All too soon he will be less than happy as will Karen and I. Someone said their main fault is that they don't live long enough.......But they're just so damn great while they are here! Clancy sounds a great friend.

Spaw

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: kendall
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 07:31 PM

I'm sorry I didn't go to the wake, but, I had to put my dog down a few years ago. His name was also Clancy, and I still miss him.
I owe you a hug.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: TRUBRIT
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 07:34 PM

Oh Tammy -- I am just so sorry. I am soooooooooo sorry - big hug next time I see you.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Deckman
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 07:51 PM

Hey Tammi ... Hang in there ... Bob and Judy from Puget Sound country!

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Bat Goddess
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 07:53 PM

Oh, Tami, just because we suspected it was coming doesn't make it any easier. But he's a young healthy dog again on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge (and in your memory).

What you've once held in your heart is never gone, but it's not really quite the same as having Clancy right there with you (and us).

I'm glad you shared him with us -- he's a neat dog; gonna miss him.

Big hugs. Losing our friends -- furry ones included -- is very hard.

Linn

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: wysiwyg
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 08:22 PM

From us, and from Faulkner the sedate, a BIG hug.

~Susan & Hardiman

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: ranger1
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 08:44 PM

Thank you all so much. Kendall, could you please post the poem to a yellow dog for him? It's almost like it was written for him...

I know it was the right thing to do, but there's this big Clancy-sized hole in our hearts right now. And my daddy said that I can a)deck and b)dismember anyone who so callously says "he was just a dog".

I love my Mudcat family so much, thank you all again, I don't think we could have done it without SINS and Jacqui (and Kendall in spirit) and our neighbors Kathy and Peter. Ben Hur Lampman said that the best place to bury a dog is in his master's heart. This is too true. He went without pain and his tail wagged twice at the end. I know it was just his nervous system, but it feels better to think that it was him letting us know that it was OK, we did the right thing in lettin him go. God, this sucks...

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: MAG
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 09:00 PM

It's OK to grieve for however long you need to.

My sympathies.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Jerry Rasmussen
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 09:10 PM

Real sorry to see the news, Tami. I know how much it hurts to lose a pet. While I was having breakfast, getting ready to go to my first day of kindergarten, and feeling very frightened to begin with, my puppy got out and ran into the street in front of our house. We heard the squeal of breaks, the yelp, and the breaks peeling out, and went out to find my puppy dead in the road. And then, it was off to my first day of school.

Anyone who hasn't given their heart to a beloved pet has no idea how much their loss hurts.

Big Connecticut hugs heading up your way.

Jerry

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: JennieG
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 09:28 PM

Tami, this is sad news, we have lost animals over the years and each time it left a gap in our hearts and our lives that took a while to heal. Hugs coming from Oz for you and Jason.

Hugs
JennieG

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: SINSULL
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 09:39 PM

Clancy and Seamus used to romp around the back yard together. This year, Clancy was just not in a romping mood. He was a wonderful old and dignified yellow dog. I will miss him.

Take care of each other, Tami and Jason. And if you need to fill that hole, I will send Alice over to keep you company.

Auntie SINS

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: GUEST,LilyFestre
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 10:21 PM

(((Hugs from our house to yours)))

Much love to you,

Michelle & Pete

Abu, Amos, Belle, Jake, Little Guy & Elby *WOOF*

Fester, Daphne, Goose, Norm, Millie, Bernie, Emma & Sid Vicious =^..^= *MEOW*

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: KT
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 10:25 PM

Tami and Jason, I'm so, so sorry......There's no way around this. My heart's with you both.

KT

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: ranger1
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 10:28 PM

Thanks, KT. He always did wonder why we wanted the stick back when we threw it away in the first place, but he was a very obliging dog and brought it back without questioning our sanity...

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: JudyB
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 10:30 PM

Tami & Jason -

So sorry to hear the news. Hugs to you both, and to Mary and Jacqui for being there with you when the rest of us couldn't be.

Love,
JudyB

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Elmer Fudd
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 10:33 PM

So sorry, Tami and Jason.

I just took a mosey through my email file for this gem. I thought it might give you a little comfort at this time. (It DOES relate to the subject. Just hang in with it.)

Elmer

-----------------------
IF....

If you can live without caffeine,

If you can be cheerful, ignoring aches and pains,

If you can resist complaining,

If you can eat the same food every day and be grateful for it,

If you can understand when your loved ones are too busy to give you any time,

If you can overlook it when those you love take it out on you when, though no fault of yours, something goes wrong,

If you can take criticism and blame without resentment,

If you can ignore a friend's limited education and never correct him / her,

If you can resist treating a rich friend better than a poor friend,

If you can face the world without lies and deceit,

If you can conquer tension without medical help,

If you can relax without liquor,

If you can sleep without the aid of drugs,

If you can honestly say that deep in your heart you have no prejudice against creed, color, religion, gender preference, or politics,


THEN, you have ALMOST reached the same level of spiritual development as your dog.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Alba
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 10:41 PM

Thank you Elmer
That is cool.
Warmest Wishes to you
Jude

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Sorcha
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 10:42 PM

Aw dammmmm dammmm dammmm Tami. Been not quite a year since we lost our two. I know how you feel. I'll help you deck anybody who says just a dog.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: ranger1
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 10:43 PM

Oh, and Spaw, it was Sir Walter Scott who said that. When our Donald went six years ago, I gave a copy of that quote to my gramma. It's still on the fridge today. It's next to a picture of Clancy and me at Back Cove in New Harbor when he wasn't much more than a pup. Seems like both yesterday and forever ago.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 10:47 PM

Hugs from here too... take care and don't be afraid to bawl like a baby, it helps.

LTS

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: ranger1
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 10:50 PM

Liz, what're you doing up at this hour? Isn't it like ten of four in the UK? We've been bawling like babies the whole week. Time will make it better. Have Micca tell you about the auld lad, they got on well together.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Tinker
Date: 03 Feb 07 - 11:22 PM

Tami, do not let Sinsull send Alice over !!! Distracting she may be but evey friendship needs a few limits. Bubba's gonna get a few extra treats tonite. Big hugs to you both.

tinker

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Janie
Date: 04 Feb 07 - 12:14 AM

How heartbreaking, Tami. I'm so very sorry.

{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}

Janie

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Slag
Date: 04 Feb 07 - 01:39 AM

Big hugs. My heart goes out to you. One of the hardest things I've ever done was having my 14 year old German Shorthair put down.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Alec
Date: 04 Feb 07 - 01:41 AM

A hug from the North Sea including one from 2 cats.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: KT
Date: 04 Feb 07 - 02:31 AM

Tami, I bet he did TOO question your sanity....but he loved ya anyway!!

KT

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Micca
Date: 04 Feb 07 - 05:31 AM

For anyone wondering who we are talking about, for some pix of the Old Warrior Try Here

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Partridge
Date: 04 Feb 07 - 05:40 AM

Big Hugs to both of you. I'm sat here crying for a yellow dog I never knew, but I do know the heartbreak when a loved dog leaves us.
Its 25 years since my black lab (butch) died. He was my best mate.

Thinking of you and sending warm happy and a little bit sniffly thoughts,

love

Pat x

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: freda underhill
Date: 04 Feb 07 - 05:43 AM

a big e-hug for you ranger (and another for you pat!)

freda

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Jean(eanjay)
Date: 04 Feb 07 - 06:03 AM

Thoughts sent from Yorkshire. It's difficult with animals because you can't explain to them what's happening. I've been there so I know how painful it is.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: gnu
Date: 04 Feb 07 - 06:05 AM

Thoughts and prayers.

Subject: RE: Ranger1 needs a Mudcat hug
From: Deckman
Date: 04 Feb 07 - 07:47 AM

Tami, perhaps this poem by Robinson Jeffers will give you some comfort. Bob

THE HOUSE DOG'S GRAVE (Robinson Jeffers)

I'VE CHANGED MY WAYS A LITTLE: I CANNOT NOW
RUN WITH YOU IN THE EVENINGS ALONG THE SHORE,
EXCEPT IN A KIND OF DREM: AND YOU, IF YOU DREAM A MOMENT,
YOU SEE ME THERE.

SO LEAVE AWHILE THE PAW-MARKS ON THE FRONT DOOR,
WHERE I USED TO SCRATCH TO GO OUT OR IN,
AND YOU'D SOON OPEN: LEAVE ON THE KITCHEN FLOOR
THE MARKS OF MY DRINKING PAN.

I CANNOT LIE BY YOUR FIRE AS I USED TO DO
ON THE WARM STONE,
NOR AT THE FOOt OF YOUR BED: ALL THE NIGHT THROUGH
I LIE ALONE.

BUT YOUR KIND THOUGHT HAS LAID ME LESS THAN SIX FEET
OUTSIDE YOUR WINDOW WHERE FIRELIGHT SO OFTEN PLAYS,
AND WHERE YOU SIT TO READ - AND I FEAR OFTEN GRIEVING FOR ME-
EVERY NIGHT YOUR LAMPLIGHT LIES ON MY PLACE.

YOU, MAN AND WOMAN, LIVE SO LONG, IT IS HARD
TO THINK OF YOU EVER DYING
A LITTLE DOG WOULD GET TIRED, LIVING SO LONG.
I HOPE THAT WHEN YOU ARE LYING

UNDER THE GROUND LIKE, ME YOUR LIVES WILL APPEAR
AS GOOD AND JOYFULL AS MINE.
NO, DEAR, THAT'S TOO MUCH TO HOPE: YOU ARE NOT SO WELL CARED FOR
AS I HAVE BEEN.

AND NEVER HAVE KNOWN THE PASSIONATE UNDIVIDED
FIDELITIES THAT I KNEW.
YOUR MINDS ARE PERHAPS TOO ACTIVE, TOO MANY SIDED,
BUT TO ME THEY WERE TRUE.

YOU WERE NEVER MASTERS, BUT FRIENDS. I WAS YOUR FRIEND.
I LOVED YOU WELL, AND WAS LOVED. DEEP LOVE UNDURES
TO THE END AND FAR PAST THE END. IF THIS IS THE END,
I AM NOT LONELY. I AM NOT AFRAID. I AM STILL YOURS.

Robinson Jeffers 1941