Subject: BS: my dad From: ranger1 Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:02 AM My brother called me about 20 minutes ago to tell me that our dad died last night from a massive heart attack. He was only 62. It doesn't seem real yet and I hope it stays that way until I get the 130 miles between here and there. It wasn't always an easy relationship, but it had become a very good one. I miss him already. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: theleveller Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:17 AM You have my sympathy, Ranger, even though I don't know you or your dad. It's a very young age to die – just 3 years older than me. Several of my peer group have died in the last couple of years and it makes you realise that life is not a rehearsal. Perhaps the words 'old age shall not wither them or the years condemn' may be some comfort. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: The PA Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:20 AM So sorry, you must be heartbroken. At least you know it was quick. Exactly the same happened to me three years ago, on my birthday, as we were all leaving the house for dinner. It does get a bit easier, just takes time. Take all the time you need. Drive carefully. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: maeve Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:36 AM My dad died just as suddenly, Tami. You will find your own ways of grieving and rejoicing. Please take care of you in the midst of the confusion and sorrow. Let your friends have the honor of listening when you are moved to speak. Love and prayers, maeve |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Micca Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:41 AM Tams, I am with you in spirit, if there is anything I can do, please feel free to ask, |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Mooh Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:42 AM Very sorry to hear that. Look after you and yours right now. You have our hopes and prayers. Peace, Mooh. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Jeri Date: 15 Feb 08 - 08:10 AM Big honkin' hug from me. If I can do anything, please let me know. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Bee Date: 15 Feb 08 - 08:29 AM My sympathies go out to you. It is not easy, losing a parent, and telling you now that it will get better is not likely much comfort. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Beer Date: 15 Feb 08 - 08:36 AM Deepest sympathies to you and your love ones. It won't be easy but you will get through it. adrien |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Jeanie Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:01 AM So sorry to hear this. Will be thinking of you and your family. - jeanie |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Big Mick Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:12 AM I am so sorry to hear this, Tammie. Remember your friends are here for you. Your post gives a hint that you will have some things to deal with, and those of us who know you want you to know that we care. God be good to him, Mick |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: gnu Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:21 AM Thoughts and prayers. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Megan L Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:49 AM With Gnu on this thoughts and prayers lassie. Hold firmly to good memories let time soften any bad ones and love yourself enough to let them drift like campfire smoke on a gentle breeze. Dauvitt and his Meg |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: fat B****rd Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:52 AM I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my best regards and concolences. Charlie |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: katlaughing Date: 15 Feb 08 - 09:59 AM {{{{{{Tami}}}}} Lots of love and good thoughts sent to you, now. Sometimes folks just have to check out and we'll never understand why, esp. when they are relatively young. May you find comfort in the good parts and let your friends help as we may. luvyakat |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Stilly River Sage Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:03 AM Aw, Tami, when it rains it pours. We go through tough years, then things level out and you'll find you're stronger. But right now it's full-fledged shock. Take time to take care of yourself. Maggie (SRS) |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: GUEST Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:03 AM Sorry to hear of this. My sympathies to you and yours. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: jeffp Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:04 AM The above was me. Don't know where my cookie ran off to. Again, my sincere condolences. Jeff |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: artbrooks Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:05 AM Hugs and tears. There are no good words. Art |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: kendall Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:53 AM Tami stopped here on her way to NH. A couple of bear hugs seemed to bring a smile to her dear face. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Megan L Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:55 AM No Kendal that wisny a smile it wis a wince when ye broke her ribs :) weel done lad they were backed up by all o us |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Becca72 Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:08 AM Oh, Tami...I'm so sorry. Don't hesitate to ask if you need something. And you have full access to my dad whenever you need one! |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Amos Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:21 AM Ach....Tami, hugs and sorrow. Keep breathing; and if you get the opportunity to send him some last messages, take it. It sometimes happens... A |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Ebbie Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:21 AM (((((Tami))))) |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: open mike Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:26 AM you have been through so much.... hang in there, be strong, and also take time to NOT be strong when you need to -- and let others help -- don't be afraid to ask for help....people will often say "if there is anything I can do to help" but they don't know WHAT to do. I am glad you are getting hugs.. more hugs here: {{{ranger}}} time will heal. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: bfdk Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:29 AM Becca, if you're selling that dad of yours on shares, I want a couple, too!! Tami, I'm so sorry to hear your news, it's the most dreadful wake-up call you can get when someone calls to tell you you've lost a parent. There are no words that will make it easier, and so I won't resort to platitudes. Just know that I'm thinking of you and wishing you strength to face what lies ahead. A big hug from your mate in Denmark, Bente |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Morticia Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:32 AM (((((((hugs)))))) |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Leadfingers Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:38 AM Deepest Sympathy Tami |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Rapparee Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:48 AM There's nothing I can do or say except that my thoughts are with you. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Partridge Date: 15 Feb 08 - 01:48 PM I'm thinking of you Tami, its a horrible place to be in. I cant give you a hug physically but please know that I am mentally. Think all the happy memories of your Dad. Breathe. love Pat xx |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: AllisonA(Animaterra) Date: 15 Feb 08 - 02:37 PM Oh, Tami, I'm sending light and love your way during this dark time. Take care, my dear. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: skarpi Date: 15 Feb 08 - 02:59 PM Hallo Tami , I am sorry to hear this , but hugs and lights from us here in Iceland , all the best from Skarpi Iceland P.s travel save . |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: SINSULL Date: 15 Feb 08 - 03:06 PM Tami, I just left a message on your machine. I am sorry this happened and that it happened so suddenly. Anything at all - just call and say it. Don't ask. You don't have to. Let Jason look after you over the next couple of days. Love, Mary |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: SINSULL Date: 15 Feb 08 - 03:06 PM Jacqui is thinking of you and will call as soon as she can. M |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: topical tom Date: 15 Feb 08 - 04:54 PM My sympathies, thoughts and prayers are with you. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: SussexCarole Date: 15 Feb 08 - 05:00 PM So sorry to hear this news. We're thinking of you & your family Tami. Love & hugs from us both Carole & Andrew xx |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: skipy Date: 15 Feb 08 - 05:25 PM So sorry to read this thread, take care of yourself during these troubled times. Skipy |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Irish sergeant Date: 15 Feb 08 - 05:47 PM My deepest condolences to you and your family. Neil |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Tinker Date: 15 Feb 08 - 06:31 PM Just opened this thread and stopped. You know there are ears ready to hear you whenever you need. Til then cyber hugs will have to do... ((((Tami)))) Love and Light tink |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: ClaireBear Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:00 PM Me too. Sorrow and love, my dear. ((((Tami)))) Claire |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Maryrrf Date: 15 Feb 08 - 07:04 PM I am so sorry to hear this Tami. Deepest condolences. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Barry Finn Date: 15 Feb 08 - 10:52 PM So sorry Tammie, lots of hugs & squeezes, oh, stop that. All my best to you Barry |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Janie Date: 15 Feb 08 - 11:41 PM Oh no Tami. I'm so very, very sorry. Holding you close in my heart and mind. Janie |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: catspaw49 Date: 16 Feb 08 - 12:21 AM Late to this thread Tammie, but I am so sorry.......Nothing makes this anything but hard for you but take whatever we all have to offer and know the thoughts and hugs are real, even if virtual. Much Love......Many Hugs Pat |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: maeve Date: 16 Feb 08 - 05:51 AM Good morning, Tami. Thinking of you and yours this morning. maeve |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Jean(eanjay) Date: 16 Feb 08 - 08:53 AM Tami, I'm sorry to hear this sad news. Thoughts and prayers sent from North Yorkshire. Take care. Jean |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: Cats Date: 16 Feb 08 - 11:07 AM My Dad died when I was just 18 years old, at the age of 54. Jon's dad died suddenly last year and we were 250 miles away. Whatever age or how many miles makes no difference. He's still your dad. Remember the good times. |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: maeve Date: 16 Feb 08 - 12:03 PM ((((((((((Tami and family)))))))) maeve |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: LilyFestre Date: 16 Feb 08 - 12:23 PM ((((((((((((Hugs and Prayers to you and your family)))))))))))))) Michelle |
Subject: RE: BS: my dad From: George Papavgeris Date: 16 Feb 08 - 01:12 PM Heartfelt condolences. Be glad that he went quickly and did not suffer, and that you did not witness it. Above all be glad that you had him for 62 years and that your relationship had been good at the end. Celebrate the miracle of his life, and continuing living as if he can see you. Learn to smile at his photograph once in a while. Not for him. For you. |
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