BS: Sex Therapy

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: olddude
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 08:20 PM

For me it was in High School, When girl friends dad came home from work really early and walked in on us ... I had to do some mad scrambling for sure cause he was going to give me a treatment LOL

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: JohnInKansas
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 06:48 PM

With enough pheromones, oxytocin and hormones, restoration of sexual function is assured ...

It really isn't that simple, since "morality" can override it all, if properly misdirected and sufficiently ingrained. (according to a couple of noted therapists?)

John

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: gnu
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 05:13 PM

Donuel... "But sex addiction, if severe, is as serious as heroin or food addictions and have many treatment modalities."

Nudge nudge wank wank eh what?

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Donuel
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 03:27 PM

With enough pheromones, oxytocin and hormones, restoration of sexual function is assured , even with a fire plug.

But sex addiction, if severe, is as serious as heroin or food addictions and have many treatment modalities.

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Stringsinger
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 03:13 PM

Prostitutes are not sex therapists, reinforcing negative attitudes in men about women, using a form of extortion as a means of clipping "johns", creating emotional problems in themselves by inducing a disassociation pattern in their brains, violating intimacy and love in a sex relationship. (This should stir up some discussion.)

A sex therapist is one who has a healing approach to attitudes that promote sexual dysfunction such as prurient behavior, Weinergate stuff, sexual deviation, (not homosexuality here which can be nurturing for some), child porn, and maso-sado abuse.

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 03:05 PM

Sex therapy and treatment for sexual addiction are obviously two radically different things. And I would hazard a guess that the problems that one addresses in sex therapy are sexual, while the problems one addresses in sexual addiction therapy are psychologically and socially oriented.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Sawzaw
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 02:58 PM

An older friend of mine told me once:

You know, when you get older, it is not that you don't want any, it just that you feel like you just had some.

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: GUEST,punkfolkrocker
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 10:16 AM

thinking about it now, what's so interesting is my mum in her early 20's
was genuinely innocent
and completely unaware of the mechanics of 'intercourse'
right up until mere days before her 'wedding night'.

that was about 1950...

Someone in the family tried to prepare her at the last minute
and discretely handed her a 'medical' illustrated text book on such matters..

.. she read a few pages before completely freaking out in terror
and almost calling off the marriage.. !!!!

Obviously she got calmed down sufficently,
and then spent a good 7 or 8 years of newly married life
gradually then eagerly practicing & learning with my dad
before 1st born me eventually arrived in the late 50's..

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: autolycus
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 09:38 AM

and

"people with no sexual difficulties were brought up by people with no sexual difficulties who were br....etc."

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: GUEST,punkfolkrocker
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 08:58 AM

"Therapists seem to me necessary if life is to improve in this respect because people with sexual difficulties were brought up by people with sexual difficulties who were br....etc."

errrrmmm.. I wasn't..


my mum and dad were progressive relaxed lefty working class council-estate radicals
back in them dark ages..

ie copies of Playboy and Mayfair magazine rolled up in my xmas stocking
when I was 13..

and mum casually informing me

"oral sex can be really nice"

when I was off out with a bottle of 'natch' cider tucked under my arm to see my mates for a girls 15'th birthday party..

oh and thanks mum for the Anaïs Nin books when I left home to be a student...

.. maybe just a bit embarrassing in front of my schoolmates sometimes...

but my girlfriends never complained..

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: autolycus
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 05:33 AM

As I understand it, sex therapists endeavour to help clients deal with sexual problems,e.g.poor libido, and with non-sexual problems, e.g. stress, that have a sexual aspect.

I would go further and say that vast numbers of people in the U.K. and the U.S. have 'stuff' [technical term :-)] about and around sex.

Also, the sex drive is fundamental in life, and to have problems about it, is therefore of great importance.

It's not for nothing that Freud is one of the towering figures of the last 150 years. He hit on one of the basics of life - sex.

Therapists seem to me necessary if life is to improve in this respect because people with sexual difficulties were brought up by people with sexual difficulties who were br....etc.

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: GUEST,Shimrod
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 03:39 AM

I hope that it doesn't involve attaching electrodes to your 'cagoule' or 'snood'!

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Joe Offer
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 02:44 AM

It's poetic, Ebbie, not euphemistic...but I do have some question whether it's ethical for a practitioner to have sex with a client for the purpose of giving sex instruction.

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Ebbie
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 02:42 AM

"...some sex therapists slept with the client and gave first-hand instructions...."

Will these euphemisms never stop? :)

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Joe Offer
Date: 12 Jun 11 - 01:09 AM

I thought "sex therapy" had something to do with increasing your sexual activity, not curtailing it. I've sometimes wondered how it happened. I got the impression that some sex therapists slept with the client and gave first-hand instructions....
What techniques did Masters & Johnson employ?
I dunno.

-Joe-

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: gnu
Date: 11 Jun 11 - 04:57 PM

"Under pressure to resign in a sexting scandal, Rep. Anthony Weiner announced Saturday he was entering professional treatment at an undisclosed location and requested a leave of absence from Congress."

In Texas? Are there legal brothels in Nevada too?

He could always come to Canada. Prostitution is legal here. Not common body houses tho.

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: gnu
Date: 11 Jun 11 - 03:37 PM

I thought it was, "Hey Bowie, get off on me too."

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Dave the Gnome
Date: 11 Jun 11 - 02:42 PM

Let's introduce some music into it.

Didn't Mick Jagger sing "Hey, MacLoud, get off a my ewe!" ?

:D tG

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: gnu
Date: 11 Jun 11 - 01:17 PM

Sheep? Ewe don't say!

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Ebbie
Date: 11 Jun 11 - 11:07 AM

?

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Ebbie
Date: 11 Jun 11 - 11:07 AM

Aversion therapy, you suppose

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: GUEST,999
Date: 11 Jun 11 - 09:49 AM

I heard from one of my Scottish friends that it involves sheep.

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: Dave the Gnome
Date: 11 Jun 11 - 09:12 AM

From what I can gather on the 'Increase the size of your manhood' thread it is something to do with cagoules, snoods or the type of hat that I wear for work...

Dave the Gnome

Subject: RE: BS: Sex Therapy
From: GUEST,punkfolkrocker
Date: 11 Jun 11 - 08:52 AM

"Does anyone know what 'sex therapy' involves?"

.. stitching back together an over abused & torn 'Banjo String' ????

I'd bet that hurts..

Subject: BS: Sex Therapy
From: GUEST,Shimrod
Date: 11 Jun 11 - 07:40 AM

I have just read that a prominent celeb sportsman is to undergo something called 'sex therapy' because he has been experiencing too much willy action recently.

Does anyone know what 'sex therapy' involves? I ask purely for reasons of prurient curiousity and because I'm never likely to find out for real!