De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 16 Dec 21 - 01:14 PM

I have heard about those pills, but I don't think any are approved for use here, or I'd recommend those to her.

The test is uncomfortable (you have to push the swab into your nose at the back) but quick. Now we wait. I let a couple of other folks know that I'm taking the test because we've spoken since I last talked to my neighbor.

The house can use some attention, so I'll be picking up and dusting today. I watered a bit in the side yard and this afternoon I'll go put some iris rhizomes back in the bed where I want them to grow. I thinned a while back and just left the rest sitting off to the side. If I don't plant them pretty soon they'll start growing there. It's an unusually warm day here, and rain is forecast later. This is officially weird weather (it felt like this the same day that the tornadoes hit northeast of here in Kentucky, Arkansas, Tennessee, etc. last week.)

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Donuel
Date: 16 Dec 21 - 02:01 PM

It took 3 hours to mail 100 lbs of disaster blankets.
The covid antiviral pill works better than infusion but ya gotta be quick.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 17 Dec 21 - 01:16 PM

I have been in a down mood, blame the season, the lack of seeing either kid (or much of anyone else) lately, and having a lot to do all at once. I slept in today and that helped some - I must have had some busy REM sleep processing all of this.

Working on the holiday letter hasn't helped, there doesn't seem to be much to report in this quiet year. I decided I would pull some of the material from the four days of journaling I did during our February deep freeze with no power. The account of sleeping in the closet with the dogs and making food for myself over candles and a Sterno stove will hopefully make for interesting reading. It comes with art (photos taken during the days).

I may not have results on the COVID test until tomorrow, but I'm 99.99% sure it will be negative, so I'll go ahead and start some of the cookie baking so I can hand them out early next week. I have a lot of hot peppers on the counter that need slicing and freezing and once they're out of the way I'll start krumkaka and Snickerdoodles (not necessarily a holiday cookie, but they're my favorite, so I make them.) Spritz and other cookies that come out of the cookie press are on the list.

Those of you doing the holidays mostly alone, what are you doing to give yourselves a boost? Is there some smell, some music, some holiday movie, that really sets the stage for you? And is there something the rest of us can do to help?

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 17 Dec 21 - 11:58 PM

I offered some fresh blueberry muffins to my ex, who usually goes shopping on Friday afternoon after work, if he'd pick up something for me. I need some bulk baking powder, and I know they have a bin at the Winco where he usually goes (it's between our houses). He brought in a bag - I asked if he was sure it was baking powder? He looked at the receipt - baking soda. I have about 10 pounds of that here, so I sent the little bag home with him, along with the muffins, and told him to put a tablespoon in with each load of laundry. I'll get my baking powder after I get my test results tomorrow. (It's time to start making cookies and I'm about out. Most of them don't take much leavening, but there will be some required and I have only a tablespoon or two left in the bottom of the can.)

I knew I should have said "be careful not to get baking soda," but I thought no, he'll figure it out.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 18 Dec 21 - 04:34 AM

Hah, if you'd said that he'd have got washing soda!

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 18 Dec 21 - 11:45 AM

I've made the mistake between baking soda and washing soda - I sent the mistaken batch (I was making my own washing detergent) to Linn (Bat Goddess) who added the right kind of soda and used it. (I realized the Naptha soap I grated into it was a coconut base, and I'm allergic to coconut).

I just logged onto the CVS site and see that my test results are negative. !!! (There is the usual proviso - you could be very early in your infection . . . but I think not, in this instance.) My exposure, as it was, was outside several feet from the sufferer.

I'll be all the more careful to wear my mask everywhere I go and stay socially distant. It's almost feeling like time to start ordering groceries again. But I'll go get my baking powder first.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 18 Dec 21 - 12:24 PM

Get FFP3 masks if you can - around €4 if you order from a good medical place online. You can wear one, leave it aside for a few days, wear again, so you can cycle a few. Not sure how many times you can do this, because I don't go out much.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 18 Dec 21 - 10:52 PM

I've been making three-layer cloth masks with flannel in the middle and they fit very well. If it comes to it, I can double mask with one of the commercial ones underneath.

What a busy day of computer work. My holiday letters are finished and I'm starting the printing. I still need to mail a box. I have a lot of homework for a course I've been taking. I'm checking off things on my list, but this list seems to be written on a Mobius strip. :-/

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Dorothy Parshall
Date: 19 Dec 21 - 12:57 PM

Dupont:

Not sure I have done much of anything - in a fog of grief in addition to the exhaustion of getting here. Bill Staines, although I did not know him well, was a part of my life since about 1967 and was part of some special memories. I was beginning to feel somewhat better but still walking around humming his tunes when my bro (80) phoned yesterday.

He has cancer of some sort. He muddled around so much getting to the point of his call and all his physical pluses and minuses that I lost track of the actual cause or name for it. Something about lymph nodes swollen and "tumors" on his throat that make it hard to eat... I suspect that the doctors are so used to him being exceedingly healthy - "for a 50 year old" - they did not pay adequate attention. Big stand out for me was that he had been really tired --- gee whiz! When someone checked his BP it was 80/? Lack of attention; his meds for high BP! His vehicle is fitted out for emergency medical. HE never thought to check HIS BP! He had to give up his weight lifting regime but plans to get back to it... Starts chemo on Tuesday. I will message his daughter - a top notch nurse - and see if she is willing to make a time to talk with R so we have a clue. She is included in all his med appointments via tech supports! I am floored. R is supportive. Does anything matter?

And my SIL considers Omicron "just like a cold".

It snowed about 6 inches last night. R had to go off to the Laurentians to do a repair between guests at their BNB. The roads up there... I will watch Home Alone and any other mindless TV available. R promised to text me at times to re-assure me.

Picking up a made-on-line grocery order at 5 today. Cleared car and back deck.

Bro is a Mennonite. I would have a hard time sitting through most sermons, regardless of topic. My Quaker upbringing stuck with me.

So, I am eating choc chip cookies to ease my pain.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 19 Dec 21 - 01:00 PM

Oh, lord, Dorothy, that's tough. Sending you some loving silence.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 19 Dec 21 - 03:23 PM

I was talking with my ex this morning and we both were observing that it is just the weirdest xmas ever. It doesn't feel like it, and I think the COVID extension/morphing is part of it. My next door neighbor brought it as close to home as I hope it ever lands, but with this Omicron being so transmissible, I think even a mask indoors is a risk. I may double mask for some things, and cut back on other activities entirely. I just haven't been able to get into the holiday mood. And I pity the poor counselors out there, swamped with clients. They're dealing with all of this themselves on top of their client lists.

When there are gradual changes, like the emergence of your brother's cancer, he may have just chalked it up to other things, like his age, or how he slept, etc. But I hope you get a clear answer, Dorothy! It took me ages to finally realize that there was something more than just aging going on when I developed the PMR, and then darned if it didn't do the same again a few years later when the thyroid shut down.

I just heard a strange "thud" in the street, and when trying to get to the door had to shuffle through and literally push back the scrum of dogs (two of the three). There is a heavy metal mesh security door on the front and side and they want to rush right up to it. I have a squirt bottle handy, and in this case the motorcyclist who wiped out going around the corner out front was going slow so I didn't need to go out to help him, but he heard the dogs barking and called out that he was ok. I think I'm going to have to use the shock collar on the girls and do some door exercises. This isn't acceptable.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 19 Dec 21 - 04:20 PM

Mm. Dogs are being good dogs, though, defending you from the scary loud noise that might be something dangerous.
Juiced six huge quinces and got a litre of juice, this being the first try. I didn't weigh the quince flesh first, after coring them, so I'm not sure how much they were by weight to get that litre. And I didn't time them; I think it was about one-and-a-half or two hours, but I was scrubbing the floor, so got distracted.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Jon Freeman
Date: 19 Dec 21 - 04:30 PM

I saw a strange light moving across the kitchen curtains at about 8 O Clock last night. Puzzled, I pulled the curtain back to see an Amazon delivery driver. He’d missed our gates and walked up the short part of the farm track between our house and next door before reaching the gate to the field and turning round. It’s been a while since someone last did that… Anyway. I went out to “rescue” him.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 19 Dec 21 - 08:51 PM

Quince - those are like apples or pears, aren't they? It shouldn't take nearly that long to finish getting the juice out of them. I would suggest washing them then cutting them in half and setting the halves cut-side down. And after about 30-40 minutes you should have as much as you're going to get.

The test is the hose. Don't leave the cover on the end of the hose, and leave it propped up on one of the upper pan handles so nothing runs out accidentally. When you notice some juice beginning to fill into the bottom end of the hose, then set your collection jar in front of you (I use a stool a bit lower than the stove top with a quart or 2 quart jar, usually) and tip the hose into the jar. Be careful not to over-top the jar - use the clamp if you need to or just lift the hose till it isn't siphoning any more. You should be getting juice after about 20-30 minutes over the boiling water and after you've decanted from the collection pan a few times it should slow to a stop. That's when it's finished. Let it stand a little while and there might be a little more juice that dripped into the pan that you can pour off, but only touch the fruit in top once you have finished decanting the juice.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 20 Dec 21 - 06:52 AM

I chopped up the quinces - they have a bigger core than other pome fruits, and are rather more fibrous and less juicy. I put the pieces into the basket and scattered a bit of Demerara sugar over them. I clamped the hose and hung it from one of the higher-up handles. Ended up with exactly a litre of deep pink juice, which didn't appear till I lowered the hose to empty it into a Pyrex bowl. Probably won't make the quince jelly today - I like to leave the liquid a couple of days to strengthen before I do it - but I might make the membrillo.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 20 Dec 21 - 11:07 AM

No sugar, no nothing else in the pot when you juice. That can be added later. You waste sugar that doesn't drop through into the juice (it stays with the pulp) and skew the results (because sugar does melt). The object is to end up with the pure juice have the most possible uses.

I read a review of some of the OTC rapid COVID antigen tests (home variety) and found one that appears to be in stock at the neighborhood Walgreens. The review says that FlowFlex is the most reliable and comes just one test to a box, but that the FDA believes it is accurate enough that you don't need a second test a few days later to learn if the first test was accurate. Once is enough. $10 a pop now, but in the near future the federal government will make home tests available for free (or reimburse purchases). You'd think by now we'd have figured out all of the COVID stuff going on, but if you read America Is Not Ready for Omicron in The Atlantic, you got an eyeful of news about the most recent variant:

The coronavirus is a microscopic ball studded with specially shaped spikes that it uses to recognize and infect our cells. Antibodies can thwart such infections by glomming onto the spikes, like gum messing up a key. But Omicron has a crucial advantage: 30-plus mutations that change the shape of its spike and disable many antibodies that would have stuck to other variants. One early study suggests that antibodies in vaccinated people are about 40 times worse at neutralizing Omicron than the original virus, and the experts I talked with expect that, as more data arrive, that number will stay in the same range. The implications of that decline are still uncertain, but three simple principles should likely hold.

First, the bad news: In terms of catching the virus, everyone should assume that they are less protected than they were two months ago. As a crude shorthand, assume that Omicron negates one previous immunizing event—either an infection or a vaccine dose. Someone who considered themselves fully vaccinated in September would be just partially vaccinated now (and the official definition may change imminently). But someone who’s been boosted has the same ballpark level of protection against Omicron infection as a vaccinated-but-unboosted person did against Delta. The extra dose not only raises a recipient’s level of antibodies but also broadens their range, giving them better odds of recognizing the shape of even Omicron’s altered spike. In a small British study, a booster effectively doubled the level of protection that two Pfizer doses provided against Omicron infection.

Second, some worse news: Boosting isn’t a foolproof shield against Omicron. In South Africa, the variant managed to infect a cluster of seven people who were all boosted. And according to a CDC report, boosted Americans made up a third of the first known Omicron cases in the U.S. “People who thought that they wouldn’t have to worry about infection this winter if they had their booster do still have to worry about infection with Omicron,” Trevor Bedford, a virologist at Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center, told me. “I’ve been going to restaurants and movies, and now with Omicron, that will change.”

Third, some better news: Even if Omicron has an easier time infecting vaccinated individuals, it should still have more trouble causing severe disease. The vaccines were always intended to disconnect infection from dangerous illness, turning a life-threatening event into something closer to a cold. Whether they’ll fulfill that promise for Omicron is a major uncertainty, but we can reasonably expect that they will. The variant might sneak past the initial antibody blockade, but slower-acting branches of the immune system (such as T cells) should eventually mobilize to clear it before it wreaks too much havoc.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 20 Dec 21 - 12:39 PM

Hm, ok. One of the videos I looked at, the person doing it said you needed to scatter a little sugar onto apples (and I took it that this by extension meant quinces too) to break the cells of the fruit.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 20 Dec 21 - 01:12 PM

That person probably didn't know what they were doing, or were new to the program. Until you know how much juice you'll get, adding sugar is an unscientific part of the kitchen science of steam juicing. You want to keep the process as simple and clean as possible. Adding sugar adds a sticky element and possibly too much sweetness. If you're canning with the juice, then you need to know precisely how much sugar from the start. (That said, I know of people who steam chickens in their steam juicers - so that is a level of messy you'd have to think about.)

I'm looking into getting one of those video doorbells (RING) - I have some credit with the folks at Dell after buying my printer, and I've always passed on the devices in the past because they were too easy to snatch off of the wall. But the one I'm looking at is a new design that is wired, using the low-voltage wiring from the existing doorbell. It screws into place making it a little easier to secure. I can use the existing Echo Dot as the chime (right now I have my regular doorbell chime disabled, and that's a separate issue).

In my attic there is a point where if you step, the doorbell rings. It is over the top of that transformer in the front hall closet ceiling. If someone pushes the existing bell sometimes there is a connection that doesn't ring, but there is an electrical hum in the hall from the doorbell. I have to touch some part of the chime wiring screws with a metal screwdriver to make it ring, and once the chime rings that discharges the hum. So something is off. I can reach the transformer from the attic to fix or replace it, I could replace the chime in the bedroom hall, or I could continue to use it and use a "jumper" cable they provide so the bell will still ring if someone pushes the doorbell.

Subscription is $3 a month to get the recorded video. $6 a month to get recorded audio also. It jumps to $10 a month for more bells and whistles. Or you can just use it in real-time only with no subscription and still converse with whoever is at the door.

These are the parts of the project. A multimeter to test the transformer comes in cheap, around $20. If I need a new doorbell transformer, that's another $20. With my credit points, the RING comes in about $30. Fortunately it doesn't involve some of the elaborate hoops that Jon tells us about when he starts working on the network in his rural English home. (Or is it Welsh?) The $3 video-only subscription goes back 30 days, $6 goes back 60 days, and bits can be easily downloaded into phone or computer (probably a hog as far as phone memory, so not something to download often into the phone). I've threatened to put up a camera for years. I could also do this with a power adaptor one on a high corner of the front of the house (out of reach, so not needing to be wired) to get the street. Depending on how wide the angle, that would show two driveways and an extra house, and if that was an extra camera, the cost goes up to $6 a month. I'm at an entry point for the neighborhood, so would expect to hear from people regularly asking about what passed through at thus-and-such time of day. I would probably become more engaged with my neighbors by having this in place, dropping in on the Nextdoor site to see what's up. Being more aware of crime passing through the village - a good thing or not. Hmmm.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Jon Freeman
Date: 20 Dec 21 - 01:58 PM

I’m in North Norfolk, East coast of England, SRS. I did live a long while (roughly and guessing a bit 1965-72 and 78-2001) in N Wales though.

I got this doorbell camera. It was one of very few I found that I could be sure supported rtsp, an industry standard protocol that was going to “just work” with my xeoma camera setup.

That side of things works well but I’ve had no joy with it and its android app (and Alexa???, I can’t remember if/what I tried there…). Its responses are too slow to be of much use (most people ringing its doorbell would have walked away before I got a notification) and despite this one claiming to have AI, I’ve never managed to get the sensor to detect people without loads of false alarms, especially at night.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 20 Dec 21 - 06:34 PM

Your note early on about distilling with the steam juicer - that's part of what happened, I think. You not only got the juice out of the quinces, but because you left it boiling the steam condensed and pooled in the juice. So it isn't as concentrated as it might be. As long as you can use it for something, no harm. But this first venture isn't the purist's way of using a steam juicer.

Jon, I'm sure I'm remembering your writing about the other house, and I didn't realize you had relocated so far away. And as for the system set up (good link, by the way, thanks!) I can see why $3 a month is a bargain compared to figuring out all of the parts in that system you set up. Given the time and the money, I'd possibly fiddle with that. For now, I've made a note to revisit the project soon.

Eyes dilated this afternoon for my 6 month cataract surgery check and everything is good. That's one good thing that came out of 2021, anyway. As I wended my way home with stops at several shops I wore my facemask and used hand sanitizer every stop. It's looking grim for public places, though I expect a lot of pushback if any cities or counties try for generalized shutdowns around the holidays.

Must get some stuff wrapped or hidden, my ex is coming over this evening with stuff for the box I'm shipping to our son. And it's time to get all of this finished. I finally realized the situational seasonal depression is from the fact that nothing holiday-related will be happening at my house this year. No need to do any decorating, except for myself. And as important as it is to treat yourself well, it's often difficult to make yourself do it.

Back to the steam juicing topic - the last time I made Cranberry juice I froze the fruit pulp for baking. I'm going to make a pan of cranberry bars in a nice cakepan that I found at Goodwill today. I'll take them with me up to my daughter's xmas lunch on Saturday and leave the pan as a gift.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 21 Dec 21 - 04:55 AM

Hm, so I might have alcoholic apple jelly? Wowza! Maybe this is a commercial proposition!

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 21 Dec 21 - 06:00 PM

You distill water, you get water. It is a good safety backup if you don't want to buy distilled water for small uses around the house (I have an iron that I put distilled water in so it doesn't get a limestone crust in the steam holes). I don't know if you could distill alcohol with the juicer. It bears research. :)

A huge box is wending its way to my son in the Pacific NW, along with a parcel tucked in for my sister—they should arrive by xmas eve. I nearly threw my back out (muscle spasms) lifting it - reminding me that I need to do more stretches for my lower back. I still have wrapping to do, but for local distribution, so the timing isn't so critical.

Dorothy, has the fog cleared at all as information is gathered regarding your brother's health? Cancer (Big C) is still such a scary word, but many of them are treatable these days.

Charmion, how are you doing in your big house that you have gradually emptied out during the course of the last 14 months or so? Did you find a new home for that microwave yet? Since I'm here alone (with the dogs) I'm making a point of turning on the lights on the mantle for the cheerfulness they convey (wrapped through garland and a couple of crystal pitchers filled with different colored glass tree ball ornaments). There are some holiday movies that I've never watched that I may just sit down to watch this year. Also, I need to clear a path to the piano and spend some time playing (or working on getting back some of my dexterity).

I made a big push today, both in finishing and shipping that gift box, and then I went to a meeting (that didn't happen) to do with the museum course I'm taking - I guess she meant NEXT Tuesday - but I got a chance to run through my "bullet proof" route and have noted a couple of additions/modifications to make. I'll be ready for next week's meeting and demonstration tour.

Now I have some baking to do, more wrapping, and picking up around here. I spent a lovely morning sewing (adding an interesting mid-century modern fabric snippet to the bodice of an apron for my sister) and there is more I want to get back to doing. I even have a freshly downloaded audiobook to listen to while I sew. I haven't read or listened to any Louise Penny before, but I got the first in her Canadian detective series to start with.

All of this in the face the rapid infection of COVID-19, Omicron, predicted to surge in the next couple of weeks. I'm ready to hunker down - this isn't anything I want to catch or spread. Our xmas lunch will be a modest family event and everyone has been vaccinated and boosted. But after that, I think I'll avoid public places for a while.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: keberoxu
Date: 21 Dec 21 - 08:44 PM

Stilly, I think I have read all of the Superintendant Gamache mysteries by now. There are a great many of them.

Louise Penny plays a very long game with the detective and his social circle. There are rivalries, enmities, double-agent types, and things that come back to bite you many, many episodes later. She is a rather daring writer in that respect. Sometimes, I have to say, the results are uneven. There are a couple of books in the series where you wonder what sort of rabbit hole Ms. Penny fell into. But when she is on form, she commands attention and she manages to entertain well, too. You will most likely fall in love with 'The Three Pines', the rustic and rural hamlet where English-Canadians and French-Canadians snuggle together against the winter snows. Let us know how you like Louise Penny's work.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Jon Freeman
Date: 22 Dec 21 - 07:53 AM

Coming back to cameras, my one pointing down the field has stopped working. I had trouble with it misting up earlier in the year but that cleared although a drop of water must have got inside. I don’t know whether this complete breakdown is connected or caused by something else but I’ll start by checking the cable. I’ve bought an Ethernet cable tester to help me. I’m not sure when I’ll get round to having a look though. It’s cold and wet, the camera is not in the easiest place for me to reach and I’m short on motivation…

We agreed on the same nut roast again this year and I’ve baked that and have it in the freezer. One thing that will be missing this year is sprouts. I ordered some in our weekly grocery delivery but they were out of stock when our delivery was picked. When I looked at our veg plot the other day, while most of my brassica had failed, I noticed a couple of cabbage that looked quite good so I think I’ll use one of these with the dinner. Nut roast, roast potatoes, roast parsnips, carrots (I’m think of mashing them for a change), cabbage and bread sauce will do us.

I’ve bought some brandy so we’ll have brandy butter with the (shop bought) Christmas pudding. It’s a few years since we had that. Enthusiasm (which as indicated above, I’m low on) willing, I might also do a little bit of baking. I’ve already done a porter fruit cake which will do nicely as our Christmas cake but some buns and cheese scones would be nice to have around. I’m also thinking of some cheese straws which are another thing we’ve not had in a few years.

I’m a bit unsure about whether brother and wife will be visiting from Sheffield on the 27th. We had some reservations about this visit but, after a conversation between Paul and mum, agreed it could go ahead – lateral flow tests and government restrictions permitting. We now know that, regulation wise, Christmas Day is safe but I’m unclear what will happen from there or whether this government could spring an early surprise...

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 22 Dec 21 - 12:18 PM

I'm probably going to go with the bell/camera/$3 subscription, but I won't fool with it until next week. Good luck sorting out the cable or camera question.

Yesterday I Zoomed with five women who I've never met before, though one I know very well from Mudcat and Facebook, and a couple of others I've seen names in her feed - Maryanne who drops into this thread sometimes. We met for a Solstice celebration. Maybe we should work out a quick Zoom meeting for some of this group's members on New Year's Day. It really is a viable way to connect with folks strewn around the world.

Since my daughter is still mostly off her feet she was going to "do what Dad does" for our xmas lunch and order takeout, but that means several people making runs after orders were taken, so I've offered to make a couple of pans of cinnamon rolls to take along and when we get there we'll make scrambled eggs and bacon to go with it. I suggested she find someone to make a run to one of the local grocery stores for a store-made fruit salad. It means a lot of work for me in the morning, but it means a lot more home-style meal when everyone is there.

Before I mailed a box of gifts to my son I decluttered a piece of vintage fabric, a scrap, really, from my sewing stash and stitched it into the bodice of a black apron a friend sent me last summer. (He does silkscreen logos, but these were treated so the ink wouldn't stick). So this piece of 1953 fabric that was originally in my mother's sewing basket (it's high Mid-century Modern in design) is on the windfall apron bodice, and I also snipped the selvedge that has the artist and print name and made a band that I stitched across the tops of the pockets, and restitched the apron back together. My sister's gift is tucked into the box sent to my son (saving many dollars on duplicate postage).

I have a couple of days here on my own to just putter. Nice. The house needs some attention and I need to finish wrapping for Saturday's event. I'm delivering food to neighbors, and need to pamper myself a little. I wonder what I have in the freezer that would make a nice meal?

I hope a few of our lurkers will drop in and catch us up on their activities and plans. And above all, everyone stay safe out there!

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: JennieG
Date: 22 Dec 21 - 05:56 PM

What a great idea, Maggie, to use the vintage fabric in such a way.

For some years now many quilters (some of my friends among them) have been saving selvedges and using them in creative ways. At least one woman has made a whole dress made of selvedges, and I have a small selvedge bag that was a gift.

I'm tight, or "ikey" as older Ozzies say. I trim my selvedges with as little waste as possible then use them to tie plants etc. without feeling that I'm wasting valuable fabric.

It's not as though I lack for fabric, after all......

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Donuel
Date: 22 Dec 21 - 08:02 PM

I have a collection of odd vintage shirts many of which make it into quilts.
You guys sound like steam engineers at times.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: JennieG
Date: 22 Dec 21 - 08:07 PM

Vintage shirts can make fabulous quilts, Don!

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 22 Dec 21 - 08:50 PM

Sewing is an activity that is just as precise as carpentry (moreso, perhaps, because of the contours of bodies involved). Measure twice, cut once. Choose the right fabric for the project. And just like scrap lumber can be used for all sorts of things, so can scraps of fabric. I did some research a while back, the smaller (not tiny, but maybe the size of a deck of cards, etc.) are called "crumbs" and are often used to assemble blocks to use in crazy quilts.

I spent the afternoon completing bunch of errands, trying to finish my running so the next couple of days are quiet at home. It was getting a little crazy out there. I picked up a rotisserie chicken at Costco and had a chicken sandwich for dinner. I'll be working on a sewing project tomorrow. It's warming up this week and supposed to be almost 90^o on Saturday, so maybe on Friday I'll work in the yard.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 24 Dec 21 - 03:11 PM

Used the steam-juicer-produced juice to make some jelly, and the leftover fruit for some dulce de membrillo.
The juice boiled down far more and faster than usual. I only got a couple of jars of jelly out of the litre, and it was so jelled that it was jelling on the ladle and refusing to pour into the jars after the first one. Either cooking it for that long made it concentrate too much or you need to boil this juice for a much shorter time once it comes to foaming point. Or maybe boiling it for that long made the juice reduce. Interesting; I'll try again with apples next week.
The dulce de membrillo turned out nice; had some with bread-and-cheese and lentil soup tonight, and one of the jars went to a neighbour as a small Christmas present. I haven't tried the jelly yet, but reckon it'll probably be like those tiny cubes of expensive jelly you get in fancy restaurants with the cheese.
Altogether, reasonably successful for a first go.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 24 Dec 21 - 03:13 PM

A call midday yesterday from my daughter shared the news that her house seems to be destined to have a lot more people than she was expecting, so she's coming down here instead on Xmas, bringing a couple of friends. Oy. That means I have a lot of cleaning and rearranging and picking up to do. I'm glad to have the company - I just wish I'd had more time to enjoy the idea. It does save me the long drive both ways.

Since I suddenly find myself at home on Xmas I also invited a friend who has no family in the area and had no plans (the same one who was here for Thanksgiving.) Since one person, who I haven't met, will be here with his sister (he's out visiting family, he usually lives in a group home) I'll do what a counselor friend suggested and set up a game table off to the side and have a selection of board games. The dogs will have to be in the yard.

I still need to do some yard work, I think that might be a good break in the afternoon (sweep leaves into a tarp, dump them in the yard, and mulch them in with the mower.) It's sunny and warm, and my mood is still somber, so getting outside and some sun on my face will be helpful.

Damn this COVID and all of those people unwilling to get vaccinated. They are making life way more complicated than in needs to be. I love my neighbors, but the husband just dropped off a gift on my porch, and his wife is getting over COVID in their house, so I'll take this out to the garage and let it air out for a while. Maybe spritz it with hydrogen peroxide (not to be taken internally, but a good germ killer on surfaces.)

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 24 Dec 21 - 03:18 PM

Only thing is, the word is coming down that Omicron is more catching but less likely to lead to hospitalisation. Though that's not a lot of comfort if you're any way delicate.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 24 Dec 21 - 05:22 PM

The gift was dish towels so they went straight into the washer and the wrapping into the trash and taken outside. He got the vaccine, she didn't and is still feeling puny. Anything coming out of the house has to be considered a possible source of germs for a while.

My holiday letters have mostly been mailed; this year it is a story of how we got through four days of no power in sub-freezing weather. Entertaining, I hope. It was tough at the time but I knew there would be some good stories out of it. Millions of us lived through it, not everyone wrote it down while it was happening. I sent excerpts of my notes in my holiday letter. (After all of my talking about using my asparagus steamer to keep the kitchen a little warm and heat water, a friend of mine had that on her list for an Xmas list this year. They're so versatile!)

Packages are going in reverse order now, back in from the SUV and to be arranged on a decorative table, out of the reach of dogs. I took the big step yesterday of bringing my good fabric shears and cutting the upholstery "skirt" off of the back of the sofa. The legs are finished, the fabric showing now is the same type as what was in that fringe, but now there isn't a big 2-foot rip the puppy made when she attacked that part of the sofa last year. I've kept something against it since then, but I'm tired of that. It was never going to be repaired and look good. It does make sweeping easier. I didn't remove from around the rest of the sofa, but I may, we'll see. I'm going to be arranging furniture for guests, hence the adjustment to how the sofa looks (and this is in the back - I can turn it around and no one at the front would be the wiser).

Time for a nap.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 25 Dec 21 - 01:12 AM

Good idea to wash the tea towels, but I wouldn't worry too much. Word on the (World Health Organisation) street is that this virus is infectious rather than contagious - you get it from people's breath, rather than from things they've touched.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 25 Dec 21 - 12:22 PM

Yes, but "better safe than sorry" doesn't hurt during a pandemic.

The house is looking pretty good and I hear the first of two bread machines (both on turbo/manual so I can shape the dough) finish. I'm making a batch of cardamom rolls and a batch of cinnamon rolls. Company is coming in a couple of hours.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Donuel
Date: 25 Dec 21 - 01:17 PM

The holiday spirit has escaped an un-named maloderous mudslinging verbally brawling corrupt man known for his trollism and lies.
Were the Christmas miracle of being "scrooged" to befall this man, the comeuppence and reform of that person could be entertaining to imagine what wrongs would be made right and to whom apologies would flow.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Charmion
Date: 25 Dec 21 - 01:29 PM

It's a mild, wet day in Perth County, and much of the snow in Stratford has already melted away. The whitest thing about this Christmas Day is the blanket of fog muffling the town.

The cats and I are quiet, recovering from a busy pre-Christmas week and anticipating another thrash this evening when dinner kicks off at the BIL's house. My task is a "city ham", complete with glaze, that I must transport without dropping it, knocking it over, or smearing sweetened grease on the upholstery of the car.

Nephew No 2 blew through town on the 23rd, with wife & kids. They dined with me and stayed the night with the BIL before going on to his parents in Windsor. That was the first three-course meal I had cooked since sometime in November.

Tomorrow I will pack up my toothbrush and pop down Highway 401 to Windsor for a couple of days with Edmund's sisters and their families.

The recent upsurge of COVID infections caused the main-line churches to slam their doors this week and return to live-streaming their services. St James's, my parish, had an ambitious program of choral worship planned for Christmas Eve, but all that went up in smoke. Instead, Midnight Mass was a sort of ecumenical mash-up with the priest, two deacons, Wade the tenor to read the epistle and the lesson, Tim the piano-player on keyboards (both piano and organ), and me singing my head off instead of a choir. Oh, and Kyle the verger in the gallery with the camera and the mixer board.

I was tired -- at 2300 hours, I had a right -- and scratchy in the throat, but I charged through nine (count 'em, nine!) obligatory Anglican carols without messing up. Singing through a mask, the biggest problem was keeping my spectacles from fogging up completely in the middle verses. That, and access to my water bottle.

Then I went home to clean out the cats' litter boxes and go to bed.

My neighbours across the street are in quarantine, having come too close to somebody with the bug, and the mood in the neighbourhood is kinda downbeat. We all thought this Christmas would be like the old days, but it so isn't, and people are just tired of sucking it up, cooperating, and being brave. That doesn't mean we stop sucking it up, etc., but we roll our eyes at each other now in the lineup at Sobey's.

Merry Christmas, alla youse Catters out there around the world, and let's have a better year in 2022.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Charmion's brother Andrew
Date: 25 Dec 21 - 01:53 PM

Testify, Sister Charmion!

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 26 Dec 21 - 12:41 AM

Wow, great report on your neck of the woods, Charmion. Everyone is having to jump through extra hoops for the few contacts they have. I'd love to have heard your performance, and I'm sure those who were logged on for the service were appreciative.

The reason I made the cardamom rolls today is because yesterday I couldn't force myself to drive over to Trader Joes to buy the bagels I wanted. It's located on one of the worst streets for shopping traffic this time of year, and TJ's has a reputation for making people line up to get into the store (good for them - but don't go there if you're in a hurry). I wanted something that went with the cream cheese I already had, and family today were happy to spread cream cheese on their cardamom rolls.

One of the friends who came over today stayed here late to work on a project on one of my computers - it's a frustrating process when you have a friend who is "high functioning" with a brain injury—patience is the only way to help. I think we solved the puzzle he was working on. I was pleased to see him join in when everyone responded to the story my daughter told of a trip to an Italian villa for a wine-tasting lunch last October (hysterical laughter as she got to the point where, on the way back, her partner opened both Audi passenger side doors to shield herself from passing traffic as she peed at the side of the high speed expressway outside Florence). Of the entire visit, sharing food and good conversation, the laughter probably did all of our hearts the most good.

It has been two years since I saw my son; now we wait out Omicron and see if travel becomes safe in 2022. We speak via video calls, but that isn't the same as an in-person visit.

The house is looking good now, always a nice by-product of social occasions at the house.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: JennieG
Date: 26 Dec 21 - 12:51 AM

A peaceful Christmas for us here in Oz; as it was just the two of us we went to a restaurant in the evening, to make the day a bit more festive.

Had a phone chat with older son and The One And Only Grandkid who live over 700 kms south....we will catch up visually (provided our camera stops playing silly buggers and actually works) at tonight's family zoom trivia quiz.....and a Skype chat with younger son who lives in Toronto, Canada, and his wife.

For us it's been several months since being with older son, DIL and The One And Only (we were in their part of the state in April) and over three years since being in the same room as younger son and DIL. We don't know how long it will be - if ever - until we can go to Canada again, or they can come here. We are getting older and those long flights are no fun, so I think our visit late in 2018 will have to be our last.

Sigh.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 26 Dec 21 - 01:43 AM

I had a very quiet Christmas day - the friends I usually visit (3 generations of musicians) include a pain-in-the-neck health nutter who has turned into an even more painful rabid antivaxxer, so other horrified friends invited me over. Father in law of the rabid antivaxxer would have preferred not to have her company, but definitely wanted to see the grandkids. (Cartoon I saw recently - woman speaking to friend - The family are coming over for thanksgiving & the anti-vexxers will be in the garage.)

Fri night I packed my knitting, gourmet choccies for the family & a small pressie for my friend. Alas, I was feeling poorly when I woke & wanted/neded to stay close to my bathroom! So I called my friend & spent a quiet day at home, received & made a few phone calls, & achieved things, including researching & ordering a new printer/scanner as mine finally died yesterday after a very slow decline. New one arrives on 30th Dec.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 26 Dec 21 - 11:17 AM

Sandra, when I have one of those days I usually go back and read the labels on anything I ate a few hours earlier. Inevitably there is aspartame/Nutrasweet involved. I'm so careful, but sometimes they slip it in and don't even identify it (so I then avoid the brand or product).

The kitchen is looking pretty good now, and while I do have one thing to make today, it'll be confined to the electric skillet. And then that will go back into the pantry. Yesterday I pulled a second bread machine out of the pantry so I could work on both roll batches at the same time (this second machine used to belong to my Dad). There was another machine up there that I hadn't looked at in ages (and getting it down from a narrow space while standing on a step stool reminded me of Charmion dead-lifting her microwave—what would the obit say if I dropped it and killed myself?) It was made for Kenmore by Welbilt and has an extra fancy beater bar in it. I probably intended to use it myself, but never have, so one of yesterday's brunch guests took a look at it and said he'd take it home. I sell a lot of these things on eBay, but when family members find items useful I give them away - that's part of the joy of finding these vintage machines.

One of yesterday's gifts is a 1000-piece puzzle depicting the inside of a fancy old-fashioned bookstore. I'm going to have to find a good cover for the table so Cookie doesn't rise up on her back legs and eat the automotive section of the shop while I'm not looking.

Dorothy, I hope your visit went well with your son and his family. Did the weather cooperate for their drive up?

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 26 Dec 21 - 08:35 PM

I'm taking down the ornaments this afternoon, though I usually display them until the New Year. I think having the house looking more back to normal might help stabilize my mood. Christmas has been pretty miserable this year, for no apparent reason except the prolonged lack of access to my favorite people. Having family here yesterday was wonderful, but we just haven't had our usual opportunities to have our regular visits, and there are so many other things that prudent people have put off-limits for now. The short dark days also contribute, so I probably need to have a few more lights on.

We moved some furniture yesterday to accommodate people and that is leading up to a reorganization of some larger pieces. Rearranging furniture always generates endorphins.

I worry that posting about my unease doesn't help others who have more reason to struggle through the season, but at the same time, if we acknowledge a generalized difficulty and support each other it might help. I hope people will share, whether in the thread or via PMs or other communication forms.

Do we want to continue this thread into the next year, or start a new one? What projections for 2022 inspire your optimism? What has been resolved in 2021? What progress are we aiming for next year?

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Thompson
Date: 26 Dec 21 - 11:43 PM

That's fast to take them down, though it sound like a good idea in the context. In Ireland they stay up till Nollaig na mBan, the Women's Christmas, on 6 January, Feast of the Epiphany. Then the women have a nice women-only sandwichy cakey party with glasses of port and cups of tea.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 27 Dec 21 - 11:58 AM

As warm and sunny as the day is today, having the holiday trappings out of the way makes it seem like a spring day. A friend is spending the day since a new roof is being put on his house (and it's like living inside a drum if you listen to that hammering all day.)

I've invited a few friends to attend my demonstration tour this week, and am reviewing the route and adding a couple of tour stops at paintings that are just so charismatic that I can't ignore if I'm going to be walking past them.

The schedule for trash pickup in the neighborhood seems to have shifted; they go past here so early in the morning that by the time I get up it has already been collected. Next time I'll put it out overnight in the large trash can (instead of dropping plastic bags at the curb). Bags are often torn open by coyotes, dogs, etc. PLUS - I missed bulky waste quarterly pickup so am going to have to pace myself by putting some of the bigger things out there each week, not all at once.

The fridge is a bit over-full of foods from Saturday's family lunch so my meals will be a haphazard grazing of leftovers for another day or two. Fortunately most of it is healthy (the cinnamon rolls were gone the next day). This year, like last, is so impacted by COVID that it's difficult to envision resolutions taking people into the gyms (those that are still in business).

Two of the dogs got into a knock-down drag-out fight in the back yard this morning (my guest was throwing a stick and the youngest pup doesn't share toys well, even sticks.) I broke it up and put the smallest one in time out in the kennel; now that enough time has passed I'll go see if anyone drew blood. There's nothing like a vet visit over the holidays to hit the pocketbook, but in this instance, I think a liberal swab of the veterinary cleanser and dabbing on of antibiotic ointment is what they can expect.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Donuel
Date: 27 Dec 21 - 01:24 PM

The dark underbelly and worst reality of pandemic is most often a struggle and not a triumphant victory. Living your best life in the midst of pandemic with resiliance courage and strength is a fallacy unless you are a politician, bragging celebrity or very rich. If you are tired, you should be. If you are depressed, well welcome to the crowd.   'Belabored' is a book about this reviewed on npr. Overcoming all despair without help is as likely as a lonesome self made billionaire. We are not all super moms or super heros. Recovery overcomes all, is BS. There are those left behind starving and homeless while people talk about replanting trees as a result of storms or wildfire. Incidentally there are <800,000 to a million dead of disease in this country alone.   
The culture of resiliance promises you can push through any hardship. Well you can't. If your idea of coping is lying on the floor screaming you are at least telling the truth in my book. My idea is to ignore the present by posting too much about the present. Who can it hurt? Sure I am accused of unrelated inapprpriate behavior like breaking the butting in the line rule and not following agreed upon posting turns. No one reads them anyway except 2 obcessed critics, and those who do - admit they are not amused. Truth is good for the soul.

Subject: BS: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Donuel
Date: 27 Dec 21 - 03:00 PM

Truth may be good for the soul but the awful truth is anathma to the country which was founded on BS and has always worshipped BS above all.
Advertising is evidence that the manufacture, marketing and distribution of bull shit is our number 1 commodity. It doesn't need to be high quality bullshit on Facebook (with the trappings of truth), it can be bargain basement QAnon bullshit and people still lap it up.
Bull shit is everywhere! Parents are full of shit, clergy are full of shit, law enforcement is full of shit and banks are full of shit. No need to mention politicians but while we're at it, this entire country is completely full of shit and always has been from the Declaration of Independance to the all american red white and blue national anthem.

If honesty and truth became central to american politics the whole corrupt system would collapse, which we are beginning to see with BLM and sensible court verdicts. Truth would fuck up this country's institutional norms which is why they elected Donald Trump to preserve their odiferous bull shit.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Donuel
Date: 27 Dec 21 - 04:19 PM

Whats good about the pandemic? Millions have left jobs they hated.
Consumerism is down by trillions of dollars. Health science advances have been made. Enviornments have improved. People have time to think, unless they are front line health care workers. Education may suffer but is free to go in different directions.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 27 Dec 21 - 04:23 PM

That certainly offered perspective, Donuel. The reason there is a crisis in the lack of available therapists is because they are in such great demand right now. I can get a few sessions through my employee assistance program, and may, if I can make an appointment with the woman I usually speak to. I use those appointments as a sort of "tune up," to see if everything is more or less running as it should. The depression I have experienced has been situational - and as things improve, so does the mood.

I have a surprise out-of-town guest arriving on Wednesday and staying for several days, whose family here locally is having health issues (pity the daughter with allergies to the point that she developed bronchitis and an asthmatic reaction needing treatments.) She'll stay here instead of with that daughter. I warned her about my upcoming tour - she will join, but she will behave like a member of the general public, she won't put her her "adopted mother" hat she likes to wear around some of us.

I really do need to go ahead and set up a RING doorbell. People have been trying to get my attention for a couple of days and banging on the outer security door just doesn't work. I can't tell which door if I'm at the back of the house (two of them have security doors) and don't get out front in time. The friend has gone out to reconnoiter the new roof and check his mail, the side door is unlocked so he doesn't have to bang or try texting to get my attention. It's not like the house is that large, but I'm just not always near a door when someone is on the other side of it. I've had various types of bells, but anything that is exposed to the heat and has batteries cooks pretty quickly around here. The RING is wired, so might survive a little better.

Subject: RE: De-clutter & Fitness in a Pandemic: 2021
From: Dorothy Parshall
Date: 27 Dec 21 - 08:26 PM

Dupont:

What a non-Christmas... My son and I decided early on that a trip from Philly to Montreal for only 4 days AND having to get back across the border on Christmas eve was a non-starter. They will re-schedule when travel becomes possible and time can be found. I felt sad.

A phone call with my niece Jennifer, a dynamite nurse, helped us understand what is going on with my bro. SIL phoned after first chemo and reported he did well.Jen indicates the prognosis is not great but if Bro were not extremely healthy for 81, there would be no treatment. She is a part of each Dr visit, by speaker phone, and I know bro will get the best possible care. A year might be the limit but attitude counts.

There has been no one in our home except a few weeks ago when Dan fixed (thankfully!) the furnace. I barely saw him as he went down the hall and into the basement. R goes to work and claims he keeps a careful distance from everyone. Ephraim's girlfriend got covid and now E has it. Derek also has it - both important staff. R is lower than a snake's belly, worrying about everything and everybody. I struggle and manage to be positive and supportive most, but not all, the time.

He stayed home four days and finished installing the sink in bathroom, then started looking at the snowblower which "worked fine when I bought it" at a yard sale a couple years ago; it has sat out in back yard since but he moved it into garage to work on it. Not that the garage is warm; it has no door but the opening faces south and no snow goes inside. I believe he may get it working before it is seriously needed.

It makes him feel good to accomplish these small things and is starting to talk about doing the kitchen sink and counter. That would be great! But I try not to push these small things when he has so many big nasty things on his agenda.

I have reduced life, this week, to ordering groceries so I can just pick them up at the store, delivered to my car. I have had my booster; R gets his on 30th. Today's order... Well, I neglected to click "no substitutions" and ended up with some things with which I will have to be creative, or give to the food bank. The items I did not get were disappointing. The next option is to have things delivered as I believe the delivery emanates from a larger store with more in stock - maybe.

I am feeling as though life, what there is of it, is ... just not much in the way of Life. I am not accustomed to feeling afraid but I am very fearful of getting this. My energy level is low and my morale is very low. But I did manage to purchase a beautiful, small Christmas tree - feeling torn at buying a once living tree but wanting one so badly; it cheered R up for a short while. It is holding up well, in a bowl of water. Our family tradition is to leave it up until my birthday - 11 January. It will do a good job. Then it will go out to the woods for the critters.

One year I was sharing a third floor flat with R's bro - one of the worst winter's of my life! It was drab and cold and I sat in the LR - the only warm room - holding hands, literally, with the tree a fellow stole for us on Christmas eve, until April when we finally had to put it out. Hey! I have had worse Christmases!!

We did not go to Beaver because of R's appointment for booster. I really don't think either of us had the energy for the trip. So I watch TV instead of the west hill and look for friends on FB, lending support where possible and enjoying some of the cheery posts. My social life.