Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: Big Mick Date: 20 Jun 14 - 05:16 PM I posted this on Facebook today. I love you, my friend. Godspeed and fair winds on the next leg of the journey. CATSPAW - funny name, an online handle. I remember that time, in the early days of the Mudcat, and how I found him to be a funny, irreverent guy. I was just drawn to him, and for the life of me, I couldn't figure out why. But he embraced the place, in those early days when it was full of fascinating people, great and small, many (we would discover as time went on) of whom were luminaries in the world of folk music. Then he got sick, went to the hospital, very nearly died. I remember starting a thread asking for whatever juju the folks believed in to help Spaw through. The magnificent Mudcatters responded with such an outpouring of love, well wishes, good thoughts, and prayers from around the world, that ole Spawzer and his wonderful wife Karen would remark later that they were sure it helped pull him through. As he recovered he became a central player in one of the most remarkable worldwide online folk communities ever. His irreverent wit, amazing intelligence, love for the history of all kinds of music,foul mouth, encyclopedic knowledge of an amazing number of subjects, love of his family, and genuine interest in the lives of people, made him one of the most popular Mudcatters ever. He was a founding member of Lane, Patterson, Fielding, and Swan, Layabouts at Large and for Hire, whose mission was to come to the rescue of those driven types so caught up in their careers that they had no time for relaxing. For a small or large fee, we would come to your house, lay on your couch, drink your beer, and watch sports for you while you are busy chasing the golden ring. In short, Catspaw has been a helluva buddy, a wonderful friend, and a great Dad and husband. He was one of those special people that made those golden days of Mudcat so special. Spaw has been battling various ailments for a long time now, and the love of his life, Karen, has been there at his side through thick and thin. I received word today that his kidneys are failing and the decision has been made to let my friend go on his way. I will miss him terribly. We only spoke occasionally, life and all that getting in the way, but I want the world to know that I love this man, and have been inspired by his struggle, his family, and his take on life. I want you to know that I have learned much about music, instruments and wrenching on motors from him. But most of all, I learned to look at the world in a real way, spread truth, and call out ignorance in a straightforward and unvarnished way. You have been a big force in my life, Pat Spaw Patterson. I will see you on the other side, bro. Karen and boys, I am so sorry for your loss, and inspired by your bravery in letting him go. I never once spoke to him that he didn't speak of his love and devotion for you. |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: Janie Date: 20 Jun 14 - 05:15 PM Fierce storm raging here now that intellectually I know has nothing to do with Spaw. Stupid to keep the 'puter on. But I fantasize it is Spaw, blazing his fierce intellect and compassion and rationality out to the universe. |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: Fibula Mattock Date: 20 Jun 14 - 05:14 PM I'm an awfully long time gone from here but this is a man I value so much. Love to you, Spaw. X |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: Mr Red Date: 20 Jun 14 - 05:04 PM death ain't fair, but then neither is life. Spaw didn't waste it neither. |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: GUEST,Giok Date: 20 Jun 14 - 05:00 PM Always wanted to meet up with you Spaw, Guess it'll be on the other side now, if ever. You WILL be missed; a lot. Easy over old friend. John |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: Tinker Date: 20 Jun 14 - 04:55 PM Just gonna quote Spaw back on himself... a little better than a month ago he commented on a photo of Jarius and I " a portrait of the real and deep love that comes with lives lived together through the tangles of life. .....Hell, I dunno'.....Whatever it is it gets me ........Kinda' like the last verse of "Maggie" gets me.......Thanks" Thanks Spaw, I think you summed up pretty much what you've given us through all the tangles of life with humor and love... Blessings and light on the journey....with a wash of tears to clear the path.... |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: Amergin Date: 20 Jun 14 - 04:52 PM Damn it. Spawn...I can hardly type through the tears, as you walk across the fields to the shadowed trees...you've been there in many ways for me...even when you didn't know it...gave me laughter when I was having a rough time...your snarky wit sharp as a serrated blade, barely hid your gentleness. I will miss you, my friend. |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: Genie Date: 20 Jun 14 - 04:51 PM Sending love and light to you for a peaceful journey, Spaw. I'm crying now too, but so glad I got to know your curmudgeonly wit and big heart and wisdom via the 'Cat and Facebook over the years. What you've given of yourself will remain long after today. My heart goes out to Karen and all of your family. I hope you'll soon be making music with Barry Finn and CatLaughing and Rick Fielding and the rest of that big choir. Genie |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: Morticia Date: 20 Jun 14 - 04:48 PM Just heard, bloody gutted. Move on easy, my friend, if you really must move on. Thinking of you and your family and the Spaw sized hole you are going to leave in my life. My love to you all |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: GUEST,Sorcha Date: 20 Jun 14 - 04:48 PM Oh shit oh shit oh shit...we all knew this was coming but it is STILL too hard to take. Oh Pat, carry on with your craziness in your next life. GOD DAMMIT PAT ! |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: GUEST,mg Date: 20 Jun 14 - 04:40 PM May he rest in peace. |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster - update :( From: maeve Date: 20 Jun 14 - 04:27 PM Blessings to you, Pat and Karen, and to your loving family. Our hearts will follow as far as we can. Pat, you'll soon be in "The Farthest Field". Thank you for your laughter, your quiet kindnesses, your amazing family. We love you. Maeve |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: AllisonA(Animaterra) Date: 20 Jun 14 - 04:19 PM Oh, I ache to see this. I haven't been around for some time- trying to spend less time cruising the inter webs, but I miss my friends and haven't had a chat with Spaw for too long. Just last week I thought of giving him a call, but didn't get to it. Spaw, old buddy, you are one of the finest that Mudcat has to offer. Karen, light and love and strength to you. You are in my heart today. |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: GUEST Date: 20 Jun 14 - 04:15 PM It's been good to know you, Pat. BM |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: GUEST,pete from seven stars link Date: 20 Jun 14 - 04:12 PM and a sad reflective prayer from me....blessing pete. |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Stilly River Sage Date: 20 Jun 14 - 03:49 PM The "BS" is off of this thread title, it's about serious business. Wishing a gentle passing for our old mudcat friend. Maggie |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: KT Date: 20 Jun 14 - 03:44 PM Oh....Spaw, you've given SO much to this community. In fact, much of why we are such a strong community is because of your many contributions. Thank you. Karen, so much love is being sent your way right now... KT |
Subject: RE: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: olddude Date: 20 Jun 14 - 03:43 PM i can't stop crying |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Janie Date: 20 Jun 14 - 03:29 PM Very sad news from Karen. Sent 6 hours ago but I am just getting home to see it. Spaw, if you haven't yet finished the journey, light and love and may it be easy. Karen, love and light. Janie. ..we're letting Pat go today. He's fought hard, but his kidneys are failing. It's time to say goodbye. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: KT Date: 20 Jun 14 - 02:29 PM Checking in, holding you in heart and mind, Spaw and Karen. WIshing for you, courage and strength. KT |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Donuel Date: 20 Jun 14 - 02:15 PM It really was worth the effort last time so dammit give it another go, even if you have to settle for a smaller universe. Your peace of mind matters deeply to more souls than you will ever know. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: maeve Date: 20 Jun 14 - 01:51 PM Cool ocean winds have brought fresh air to us- may you smell pure, clean air to sweeten the day. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Ebbie Date: 20 Jun 14 - 12:03 PM May today be a good day. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Rapparee Date: 20 Jun 14 - 10:21 AM Nurse Ratchett. The cure. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: SINSULL Date: 20 Jun 14 - 08:30 AM Morning, Sunshine! |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: GUEST,Roger the skiffler Date: 20 Jun 14 - 07:56 AM I go to Greece for a couple of weeks... I just can't leave you to take care of yourself, 'Spaw. I'll be waiting with the bedpan at the NYCFTTS when you get home! All the best, pal. RtS |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: GUEST,Dani Date: 20 Jun 14 - 06:37 AM Just stopping by with a hug and a wondering look. Best to you for your day. Met a Buckeye yesterday and thought of you. Dani |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: gnu Date: 20 Jun 14 - 06:16 AM Mornin, Spaw. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Severn Date: 19 Jun 14 - 08:56 PM Been away from the Cat for a spell. As someone who has been through his share of horse-spittle hell myself, know I'm rooting for you in all you're going through. Hang in there, because us survivors have to stick together, and the best way of doing that is for all of us to remain survivors. Anything less is unacceptable! |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Ebbie Date: 19 Jun 14 - 08:39 PM Hang in there, OK? |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: ChanteyLass Date: 19 Jun 14 - 08:30 PM Still pulling for you and Karen, Spaw! |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Mrrzy Date: 19 Jun 14 - 05:02 PM MOre MOunds of MOJO JOining you! |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: GUEST,Dharmabum Date: 19 Jun 14 - 01:54 PM Anyone who knows me, knows that my daughter & I have been going through some hard times these past few years. Spaws words of wisdom & wit have always been a source of laughter & inspiration. I miss the "old cat" too Pat. Maybe someday again. Do your best to get through this shit. DB. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: gnu Date: 19 Jun 14 - 12:33 PM Tu chante sa pomme. If yer from northern NB.ca, you will know it's not literally 'You sing her apple.' but is meant to say 'You shine her apple.' No cheek intended... just came to mind. I think of a lot of useless pieces of drivel. I do wonder how Spaw is doing but I'll go for 'no news is good news'. I miss ya, bud. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Nigel Paterson Date: 19 Jun 14 - 12:01 PM Perfect, SINSULL, just perfect & so redolent with meaning. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: SINSULL Date: 19 Jun 14 - 11:16 AM Nigel - Sappho wrote about the ripest apple on the topmost limb of the tallest tree. So far up the pickers did not notice it ... no - they saw it but could not reach it. Morning, Karen and Spaw |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: gnu Date: 19 Jun 14 - 06:07 AM Mornin, Spaw. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Nigel Paterson Date: 19 Jun 14 - 05:51 AM A Gaelic Proverb for Spaw: Bidh an t-ubhal as fheàrr air aímheangan as àirde. The best apple is on the highest bough. Pat, you are our 'best apple', resplendent on the highest bough of our Love & Care. With Love, Nigel & Ann Paterson xxxxx |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Nigel Paterson Date: 19 Jun 14 - 05:11 AM Still here...still thinking...still hoping...continuing to hold you both in our daily thoughts. One 't', two 'ts'...doesn't matter how you spell Paterson (and it's many variants)...Pat, you're entitled to wear the tartan of the Clan MacLaren. The MacLarens fought with distinction at the Battle of Bannockburn in June, 1324. It's June, 2014...time for you to fight with distinction again, not to defeat the English, but to regain your health & stand tall, once again, with Karen by your side. "Huc Tendimus Omnes"("We all strive for this") With Love, Nigel & Ann Paterson xxxxx |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: gnu Date: 18 Jun 14 - 08:35 PM I composed a long post and then deleted it. Here is the nutshell. Spaw... yer one of the good ones. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: bbc Date: 18 Jun 14 - 06:47 PM Sending much love from New York! Barbara |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: maeve Date: 18 Jun 14 - 02:40 PM Checking in, Pat and Karen. Blessings and rejoicing to you and yours. Maeve |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: frogprince Date: 18 Jun 14 - 01:21 PM Here, pullin' for ya, every day. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Bill D Date: 18 Jun 14 - 12:43 PM If sheer numbers of concerned people & sincerity can help, Pat will get through all this- --- As Karen says, he IS a fighter. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: GUEST Date: 18 Jun 14 - 12:43 PM Thinking of you, Pat. BM |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Waddon Pete Date: 18 Jun 14 - 10:52 AM Indeed....all thoughts winging their way from here too. |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: GUEST,highlandman at work Date: 18 Jun 14 - 10:36 AM Nothing articulate I can add to the great (and some not-so-great) posts above, other than the weight of one more voice lifting you and Karen up to the light... get better, Spaw! -Glenn |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: Rapparee Date: 18 Jun 14 - 10:07 AM I've said it before and I'll say it again: UP YOURS, SPAW!!! And the sooner you get yours up and outa there the better1!!!! |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: GUEST,Partridge Date: 18 Jun 14 - 09:59 AM Thinking of you both and wishing you the very best love Pat xx |
Subject: RE: BS: Spaw needs all mojo we can muster From: SINSULL Date: 18 Jun 14 - 09:37 AM Just checking in... |
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