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Singaround etiquette ?

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Herga Kitty 07 Jul 04 - 02:34 AM
Red and White Rabbit 07 Jul 04 - 02:36 AM
Rasener 07 Jul 04 - 03:28 AM
GUEST,MC Fat 07 Jul 04 - 05:56 AM
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Keith A of Hertford 07 Jul 04 - 02:23 PM
GUEST,Guest Phil 07 Jul 04 - 04:38 PM
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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: GUEST,Anne Croucher
Date: 06 Jul 04 - 08:33 PM

Ah -the theatre bar - yes - I think I have found that once before. I could breathe there, and therefore sing.

I can't sing at the Anchor any more as it is too airless and smokey down in the middle bar. It makes my voice transmogrify into a squeek.

I did find the tent behind the Volunteer last year, but was plagued by constant chattering.

Anne


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: Herga Kitty
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 02:34 AM

The Anchor Middle Bar Singers have been discussing with the landlord whether the Anchor could be made less smoky - conclusion is that a ban on smoking couldn't be policed in folk week, but it might be worth trying a voluntary code. Mind you, I found it quite smoky even during the February reunion when it's less crowded!

Kitty


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: Red and White Rabbit
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 02:36 AM

Before my twenty year break from singing I used to run singarounds at college and an unofficial singaround in Whitby week at the Middle Earth when it first opened.I knew the then landlord well (it being my local)and he was folk friendly so myself and a group called Tatters Cottage used to organise something in there. The session mainly consisted of locals and and day trippers with many diferent styles and tastes and sometimes no one who wanted to sing and plenty that wanted to listen. Singarounds are not as easy to organise as they look especially if you dont want three quiet women in successfion or two poets etc. but thats difficult if you dont know the people.

Like most of you I have sat in many a singaround. Cleckheaton, Holmfirth and Saddleworth are my local festivals and at two of them I run workshops and sing. The Wickham singaround room I dont like but the sessions tend to be as good as the people who come. You cant make a silk purse out of a sows ear however good you are at running singarounds but what you find is that certain people like MCFAT and Old Git Geoff Miller and Padgett Ken J and Judy Knight are so well known for organising good singarounds that you will get a lot of people there and get a good session going.

Personally I hate people who know better talking loudly through someone's song. Organisers who ignore the newbie in favour of their mates or people well known on the scene and people who walk in and out during the singing - oh yes and mobile phones going off!! Otherwise you can put a group of people in any pub to sing and if its going to be good it will be


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: Rasener
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 03:28 AM

Sue Dewsbury runs a very good singaround at the Gainsborough Folk Club.
She is very fair and ensures that everybody who wants to, gets a turn. If somebody has come a long distance, she will go out of her way to give them extra time, very often Sue and Mike and John Blanks forego there turns to enable that.
Consequently it is the norm to get a very good night there.


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: GUEST,MC Fat
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 05:56 AM

There's never going to be a right way or a wrong way to run a singaround as in previous threads some people think the Tap & Spile at Whitby Folk week is elitist and I agree to a point it is elitist but it's not exclusive and people have come and gone over the years I've been going. When it come to quality it's mega and the harmonies are stunning but some folks don't like our ability to be irreverent and not serious, taking the piss and having a laugh. I suppose folks like me Page Jude Ken etc have been around so long we know a lot of singers but occasionally I have to be reminded by R&WR that I've missed someone !!!


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: Dave Bryant
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 06:24 AM

Well Jim, you should be seeing Linda and myself again this year at the "Crap & Smile" - unless you ban us of course.


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: GUEST,MC Fat
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 06:58 AM

...wouldn't ban you two southern gits there wouldn't be anyone to insult !!!


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: VIN
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 08:48 AM

Hi Penny Black, what night is the 'Princess' session held.

Some good sing-a-rounds at Saddleworth, 'specially in the con club on late sat neet!

Sithee there, 16th, 17th, 18th July!


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: The Beast of Farlington
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 08:57 AM

Two reasons people take offence at the way singarounds are run.

1. The 'rules' are virtually never talked about and therefore obvious to everyone and so each person has different expectations of what will happen

2. Ask yourself why you feel aggrieved that a person has left after singing their song. Is it because they dod not stay to listen to you? If so, are you any less self-motivated than them?


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: GUEST,MC Fat
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 09:24 AM

I thought the only good rule at a singaround was to enjoy yourself and have a bloody good sing.


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: GUEST,Hugh Jampton
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 11:20 AM

Stick on a reasonable entry fee and then you will probably have fewer people coming in, doing their thing then clearing off.


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: GUEST,MC Fat
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 11:23 AM

Someone in another thread mentioned that the session's in Beverley were only spoiled by some people who had been thrown out of the irish session for incompetence !!! Perhaps we should institute a Mudcat Sponsored 'Folk Marque' and give it to accredited sessions.


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: MoorleyMan
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 01:15 PM

Time to add me own two-penn'orth !

Carol it's good you started this thread. Those bugbears beloved of us old lags as well as aspiring newcomers to the SAR scene whether performers or listeners.

Worst of all I think is them that know it's their turn next, that faff about (right on there Sooz!) stumbling over everyone to reach for (or borrow) guitar/other instrument, then spend ages tuning up and/or recounting some tedious anecdote to cover their ineptitude in tuning. All of which uses up time in a crowded SAR and can deprive other singers of that much needed extra song. I don't feel like wasting that all too precious time. That's why I gave up playing guitar in public a couple of years ago and stick to unaccompanied singing. Sold it off to the lass's ex, went straight out and treated meself to a stack of Carthy CD's. Good deal that I thought.

Agree with you on the Moment of Glory folks too Rhiannon. Really infuriates that. Tho to be fair there's been times when I've seen that same impression can be wrongly given by say a festival steward or other helper who's waited patiently for his/her turn to come round then had to dash off after their song to be on duty at the campsite or other remote place.

Big "no-no's" too for me are a SAR starting late. Many a time I turn up for an advertised start time and nowt happens till the leader decrees a "quorum". Worst cases nearly an hour out of an allotted two and a half'll go by in idel chat, no wonder folks get peed off and leave.

As for SAR needing leader/s, well it can work both ways. Non-led SARs might so easily turn into a "dive in or duck out" where the less confident will lose out to the louder or more dominant – not always a good thing. But a fair leader can move things on with firm or gentle pressure and work wonders. My ideal rules be – no favouritism, no primadonnas, and keep things moving! A bit of irreverent fun can help too, but it needs to be kept in check. MCFat's list of "respected" leaders is a reliable guide, I've always rated Guest Padgett and Ken Johnson highly in that regard too, and he's right it ain't as easy as it sounds, but as they all say there's others – Geoff Miller, Malc Gurnham, Dave K, Eric P, Mick Pearce all spring to mind – who I've found make the best of what can be such a hit and miss event. And course it depends on who turns up I agree.

Sorry Nutty I been going to Cleckheaton for years now but I too found Cleck disappointing this year, at least the SAR's. (Tho' the booked guests were all tremendous I hastily add!) I'd endorse the Wickham landlord's support, he's a great bloke but he's saddled with a troublesome venue. Of which Carol's experience was sadly typical. If you followed Brid Widder's advice and "just move on through til you find one that suits", then you end up not getting to do a song in any of them I find. Oh and I turned up there at just after half past eight Sunday eve to find the entire pub bereft of folkies (but programme advertised a SAR). And almost no punters got a look in at the Sunday Sing this year either.

Which brings me to the last bit – someone asked why have SARs at all? Well there's no substitute for the process of singing a song out is there? However much you sing it in the car, at home, in the bath, cooking the dinner, walking the dog, word perfect maybe. You need to sing it out in front of an audience, of four or forty, and only then will you know whether it works. For all us nonprofessional singers it's simply our only chance.

So dont lets treat SARs as the poor relation, they've an important role to play in any festival.

Old money roolz OK!
M


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: Keith A of Hertford
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 02:23 PM

Then there are the ones who repeat the first verse at the end for no real reason, and then keep waving their fingers around for chorus encores.


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: GUEST,Guest Phil
Date: 07 Jul 04 - 04:38 PM

I only travel for one hour to get to Gainsborough folk club but the organisation and welcome you receive makes it worth while, a good club and very friendly. And everyone is ready when their turn comes around.


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: GUEST,Steve
Date: 08 Jul 04 - 05:15 PM

As far as etiquette goes I put it that some people at singarounds are rude by

a) joining in on a song or chorus with gusto before they know the version being done. Quieter singers are drowned and their interesting arrangements are lost to the better known versions.

b) singing choruses loud and slowing the whole thing down to a dirge.

For me the famous SARS that would be good are Whitby Tap an Spile but for a), and Towersey for b).


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: Rasener
Date: 08 Jul 04 - 05:31 PM

Well Martin, put your money where your mouth is and come and MC the singaround at Market Rasen on Sunday the 29th August from 2:00 to late.
I will do an assesment of your qualities. What you say makes a lot of sense and fits my bill. :-)


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: PennyBlack
Date: 08 Jul 04 - 09:52 PM

Hi Vin....

Princess Session every Tuesday from 9.00pm new venue and still trying to find the best place in the pub to take over....

The Princess
Foxhall Road
Blackpool.

2 mins from Central Pier - map via the clicky linky thingy

If your up in the area - try and pop into The Steamer Lunchtime ARC collection - not a session but musicians singers welcome to do a spot (PA not acoustic) every Tuesday Lunch 11.30am - 2.30 pm (then off to the Princess after tea)


Have a look here for more info on above

PB


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: VIN
Date: 09 Jul 04 - 04:04 AM

Thanks for the info PennyB. Tho i live near Rochdale, i'll try and get to Blackpool at some point - find a b & b & join youse at the Princess - sounds a good gig for a true amateur like me.


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Subject: RE: Singaround etiquette ?
From: JonnyDyer
Date: 19 Jul 04 - 11:01 PM

More spurious penny's worths!

I've really enjoyed reading this - especially as someone who can't sing for toffee but is really trying to get there.

Some of the suggested rules are really just trying to stop people behaving rudely - and these I applaud completely; trying to encourage people not to waste too much time with tuning, or taking over - jumping the queue, playing once and buggering off etc. Its a shame we have to consider such rules - but hey.

I was at the Glasson festival SARS mentioned earlier. Didn't stay the whole distance simply because it was too crowded - and I was sitting in the middle of the walkthrough blocking everyone's path and felt "in the way". The two that came to "run the club" were unfortunate because they thought that they were paid to run a club - though I guess if they have come in and watched for a few minutes, they could have seen an opportunity to be paid for doing nothing!

I've been seen small SARS and Playarounds where they have very strict rules (no instruments, no more than 4 verses etc) - and they wonder why no one turns up. Think about it guys - too many rules and you exclude everyone - so best not then complain that you only get three friends ever turning up.

I think my last point - is the need for self regulation. I think its only reasonable to keep each bit short .... but I have a few tunes that are 8-9 minutes long ... so will ask if any one minds and I'll play a long one and be missed out next time (or next wo times). There are some songs that have lots of verses - and don't make any sense without most of them included. Lets not exclude these songs just for a rule - but also ... lets be fair about time.

Surely this is the way to go. I get really fed up when I see a duo making really nice interesting harmonies - only to be drowned out by everyone singing the chorus "the same old way". Have respect listeners to what's going on.

But then ..... better still .... why not feel free to say what you want when you start. "I'm singing XXXXX, please join in" or "my version of XXXX please can I sing it on my own" or "singing XXXX; its in G for any guitarists" etc.

That way there is room for everyone. The best bit for me at Glasson was the guy singing a WhiteSnake tune. Totally uexpected - and done nicely with acoustic guitar. I can think of a few clubs that wouldn't have allowed it - due to it being a rock song.

More fool them.

That's all from me.


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