BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^

Subject: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 01 Jan 10 - 05:42 PM

Here is the last one from 2009.

Today I didn't turn on the computer until I finished some of the clearing and rearranging in my office. Hogmanay may be an event in Scotland for the last day of the year, but frankly, the last day of the year here in North Texas was the end of a dreary string of heavily overcast drizzly days that were all about 33 degrees and miserable. Last night was supposed to be a Blue Moon and I despaired seeing it, but after my son and I watched a late movie, I looked out in the back yard and was amazed to see the bright night look of a full moon shining down! It felt like a huge emotional weight had lifted, just in the nick of time.

So today, a crisp sunny day, I have been moving forward in the clearing up and mopping and such I started last year. I have a batch of lefse in the fridge chilling before I shape the patties and the kitchen is looking quite nice. I've finished filling out some rebate forms that must be mailed soon, and I've tidied up the bills and receipts from last year. I need to do my taxes in record time this year, due to college funding (FAFSA) eligibility forms for my kids, so I want papers where I can find them when I sit down to taxes.

What a difference a day makes.

I moved furniture in my office and it looks better now, less likelihood of stubbing a toe or banging a knee on stuff sitting around. The trunk is now in front of the window with a towel-covered blanket on top and a box to step on to get up there for my old cat. I swept and mopped and though I still have more to do, it is already much improved.

As to accountability, I have been building up to resume my diet, but I won't quite go cold turkey on the non-diet foods. I've been eating the Scarsdale breakfast (toast and fruit) for several days, and today I started in with the lunch (usually a lean meat and a veggie or fruit.) I'll go with small portions of whatever we have around for dinner so I don't end up wasting the current leftovers. I hate starting a diet and not being able to use the food already in the fridge. I loaded up on lots of fresh vegetables in the last few days. I know I gained back some weight, and I'll probably eat modestly and get exercise for a few days before I even step on the scale. Scales can cause more bad feelings than about any other device in the house. :-/

I have to race through a lot of paperwork for my work, and go through a lot for scholarships for both kids. So I'll be busy--good thing my office is looking so much better (I moved in a new small table for the printer, stacked up some shelves that had been beside the computer as a sort of credenza. They were awkward.)

Birds have started coming to the little feeder I hung in the newer garden a week ago. I'll put seed on the ground in the morning to attract a few more. It's always a nice day when I can watch birds at the feeder outside my kitchen window!

Have a good 2010, everyone, and please keep up the good work, good health, and the entertaining reportage!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 01 Jan 10 - 06:34 PM

It must be catching. I started sorting through a humongous pile of linen and other stuff from our largish linen closet. Something I've been wanting to do for ages.

I've sent to two garbage bags full to the car for donation, there will be more; have the ironing board set up for ironing some of it, not the sheets though. I will dampen them and throw them in the dryer then fold them when they come out wrinkle-free which was not done last time they were washed.

I have another shelf to go through, but the one I finished had a ton of stuff in those vacuum bags. I will not be using those any more except for a couple of heirloom blankets and lace tablecloths. I don't know what I was thinking, except maybe a way of saving space, when I loaded them. I found a bunch of towels and pillowcases I thought were gone. They were crammed in one of those bags which was all wrinkled up like a candy wrapper. Quite colourful but useless for my purposes. All of that linen will go back on the shelf sans bags and we will USE it as needs be!

This feels so good. As though I've moved off center and am starting to progress. The docs say at thirty days on the higher dose of zoloft I should really notice a difference. That will be around the 17th. I can hardly wait, I already feel so much better.

Thanks for the new thread, SRS.

kat

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 01 Jan 10 - 06:43 PM

My mother always said "whatever you do on New Year's Day, you'll do all year long". So, when I changed the bedclothes this morning, I turned the mattress. It's one of these new 15-inch ones, so you can't flip it, only spin it around. I also caught up on all of the laundry AND put everything away. I made a pot of French Onion Soup (garnished with fresh thyme from the yard)-- mmmm, yummy! I order it when I go out, but I've never made it at home before. Turned out well, and there's some for tomorrow's lunch.

I know I've put on about 5 more pounds during December, but I'm going to concentrate on cutting my carbs, starting today. The sun managed to peek out for a few minutes this afternoon, but it has been very cold today. It only "got up" to 25F (-3.9C) today, and it's going to be about that all next week, so not much walking outdoors for a while.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 01 Jan 10 - 09:17 PM

I made lefse (Norwegian potato flat bread) for the first time this evening. The dough was a little soft so it wasn't a thin as it should be (these came out about like tortillas, but they need to be thinner, so the dough needs to be like stiff pie crust dough). I called my sister and a friend and got their tips on making it, then called the friend back to describe what I was seeing and get more feedback. Not bad for a start, but I ate 2.5 so I've had most of the calories I need for the evening. (They were still warm so I buttered then sprinkled cinnamon sugar and rolled them up.) I'm going to make myself a salad later, and I have some asparagus to use up.

Need to do more work in the office, and need to read up on a scholarship form for my son that is due in a little over a week.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 01 Jan 10 - 10:25 PM

We went to our favorite restaurant for Hardi's day-off lunch, taking Splenda and other items to "play" with the day-chef who loves to play with food. With him, we created some new appetizers using apples to increase the fruit/healthy side of their menu choices. We got some very good guilt-free dessert results, too, to add to their menu-- so they will not lose customers determined to stick to their resolutions!

We brought most of it home to feed from during the day's other activities which included measuring where the new rugs will go, hiking up attic stairs for same, and other get-up-and-move chores during the special NY day hockey game.

One of the chores was putting up some roasted beef for the freezer. Sliced, in post-marination delightful flavorings.

We concluded that our FOOD habits had not slipped during the hols but that our WORKOUTs certainly had, and Monday it's back to non-holiday-worktime and, for me, the aquatics in full gear.

In pursuit of rug measures we reallocated some items from MudDorm (attic shangri-la) to downstairs areas till spring, including a nice two-burner hotplate my son had given us to use where the 2 burners on the kitchen cooktop are no longer working-- we rent here and will not replace the cooktop.

We decluttered a well-meant but off-the-mark Christmas gift, too. (Cash for clutter!)

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 01 Jan 10 - 10:26 PM

I made breakfast for the first time in about 3 weeks! My husband has been taking such good care of me and part of that includes not letting me cook. The thing is though, it felt good to cook for HIM!!!

We spent the day at our favorite bookstore and took our niece along. Later my husband and I went to the movies and saw It's Complicated....kinda funny.

Now we're home and I'm snuggled into my recliner in front of the fire, just relaxing.

The additional medication (anti-depressant/anti-anxiety) added to the Xanax has worked wonders for me. No panic attacks today. That, my friends, is a wonderful thing!

Tomorrow I plan to work around the house. I haven't put laundry away in quite some time. There are lots of clean clothes in baskets....but I'd prefer if they were put away. I also have some of those vacuum bags full of clothes that are just too big and I need to get them to the Salvation Army sometime soon. My goal for this month, or at least the first half of this month is to get my house in tip top shape so I can come home to a clean house after my surgery and just relax.

As for being accountable for my food.....I'm concentrating on just trying to get in proper nutrition. I'm down about 17 pounds since the 10th of December and am holding steady this week which is a good thing.

Love to all,

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 03:27 AM

I spent the better part of yesterday in bed with migraine. I had 2 back to back ocular migraines no pain but a little dizzy and nauseated. Then the big proper one hit. Took a shower, took codydramol, took to bed. woke about 4:50pm and sat on the sofa afraid to look at anything. No reading, no surfing or mudcatting, no jigsaw puzzling.

It was a sucky way to spend anniversary (poor TSO) let alone New Years day. I feel better now though still dopey from meds.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 08:36 AM

Migraines SUCK. Here's to a dark, quiet room, rest and relief.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 11:16 AM

House is finally all sorted after the New Years Eve party. Had a fantastic time and got to catch up with a catter I haven't seen in nearly 5 years!

Operation drop a dress size started today. I've put on 4lbs over the festive season but only got another 9 months til our big day. Dress buying expodition is in March so I have about 12 weeks to lose this last bit of weight. This morning I went to my spinning class followed by body pump. I've been so good over the holidays by keeping up the exercise classes.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 11:59 AM

I am finishing up the linen closet today and probably will do some dishes.

I've dropped another two pounds!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 12:54 PM

I spent this morning doing laundry, putting away a few baskets that have been sitting full of clean clothes for a few weeks (Oh! So that's where my green turtleneck is!!!!), and removing all packaging from new clothes that my husband got for Christmas. There were 7 pins in each shirt....what's with that??!?!?!   It took me nearly as long to get rid of all the packaging from his new shirts as to put away all the other laundry!!!! So....now all the new stuff is in the hamper, waiting to be washed. I think I have about 3 loads of laundry left to do today (counting the new shirts and some blankets).

Also, I made breakfast for the two of us this morning. Feels good to be back in my kitchen. Sounds silly, I know, but I haven't been able to do that for a little bit.

So....it doesn't sound like much activity but my belly is starting to hurt which is a clear sign that I need to sit and read for awhile or do some puzzles or something.

YAY to Kat and Catherine for keeping up the good work during the holidays...that can be tough!!! HOORAY!

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 01:20 PM

Down to 1/2 load of laundry to do. I knocked out a good deal of jigsaw (I am still relaxing) while I had sunlight to see by. I still feel dopey from yesterday's meds.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 03:59 PM

I'm planning to have my son do his own laundry, to learn how, but if we divide the laundry from a household of two people into two separate batches of light and dark, that means a lot of small batches. So I'm going to rethink this, and simply have him do most of the laundry.

Working on organizing in the house, but also working in the yard a little. Time to get those bird feeds up full time.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 04:23 PM

We took Morgan to a model train show this morning. A bunch of old-timers with the whole line replicated, to scale of the D&RG from Salt Lake City to Denver. They had about 6 trains running in and out; it was really neat.

We came home, had lunch, then Morgan asked if he could do the dishes. There weren't that many, so I let him. Besides getting his shirt soaking wet, he did a good job, even on the pans!

He put his shirt in the dryer, then helped me sort through some more linen. Rog changed the shower curtain for me and brought the dirty one out. Morgan asked if he could do the laundry, so I sat and told him how much soap, which dials to set and turn, etc. and darned if he didn't get it going. So my work is almost done!*bg*

Michelle, I don't think it sounds silly at all to be glad to be back in your kitchen. I understand how good it feels. I get frustrated because Rog has been the chief cook for so long my kitchen doesn't feel much like mine when I really start trying to make something. I can feel, this year, I will be in it more, as a cook, and reclaim some of it, not that I blame him, he had no choice all of these years!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 05:11 PM

I'm waiting for the holiday visitors to leave tomorrow before I join the de-cluttering- notice how I avoided the 2009 thread altogether? We still have to finish building 2 rooms in this house before I'll really feel able to start it. For now, the bath towels are all in one laundry basket, the clean sheets live in another one. There is one side of the big upstairs filled with chairs, side tables, and old clothes. The other side is the "workshop", but it is also full of futon and one of the visitors. I hope to be able to spend the rest of the winter sorting out the combined clutter of two households blending into one. I'll need to have some cooperation and assistance from my DH, who finds it harder than me to let go- but we'll manage, somehow!

All the best to all of us!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 10:20 PM

Animaterra, tell us more about this house, and what are the two rooms? Is it space being divided into two rooms, or is it new space being added onto the house?

I finished shopping around for iron crooks for the garden, to put bird feeders on. Plus, I used a gift certificate to buy dog food and a new feeder at the feed and seed I go to regularly. One of them had clearly been around that garden center for a long time, it was getting pretty rusty in spots, so they gave it to me for 50% of what they thought the price would be (the tag had faded so much we couldn't tell for sure). My new feeder is up, one I bought last week has been moved over, and one more needs to be refurbished, if possible. That's for tomorrow.

Laundry is drying, and it's getting cold out again. Feels like a good night for a hot bath. And hot cuppa tea. I had a beer to go with dinner, but it just didn't taste right so I poured it out. I couldn't think of anything to make with it, and flat beer isn't even that great for cooking. I don't know if there are snails to lure with it outside, but I didn't bother trying.

I have paperwork to do for the office, so I'll start that this evening. Ugg. The vacation flew past and I didn't get much done during it. Some, but not a lot.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Tinker
Date: 02 Jan 10 - 11:20 PM

WEll, I joined in today and cleaned and sorted seven drawers of stuff that has been allowed to accumulate for years.... from sewing stuff, to general junk, and nuts and bolts...

I figure if I can chime in here at least once a month I'll be getting a handle on some of my forgotten corners...

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 12:13 AM

I made a nice discovery this evening. Last summer I put a small metal shelf (heavy, but small) in the back of my pickup. It had been sitting at the curb waiting for the trash, and since I didn't have anyplace to put it then, I just left it in the back of the truck. When I loaded those long shepherd's crooks in the pickup this evening I noticed it again (I have a camper shell with tinted glass, so I don't always look in there every time I drive) I decided to unload it. I cleaned it up and it fits directly under a table (was once part of a sectional computer or office desk) I put in my office that will hold my printer. And this can hold various small appliances like the VCR and converter box (the small television is on top of the desk/table thing). I was getting ready to get some work done this evening when I had to finish clearing my work space, so that's how this discover came about. It gives me kind of a nook to work in and beyond this nook is the windowseat I built on the trunk for my cat.

A cuppa hot orange spice herbal tea tastes wonderful, much better after dinner.

I have these various audio video pieces here next to the computer because I have a number of tapes (many many tapes) I need to convert to DVD. But that doesn't mean I want to trip over all of this equipment every day, so this solution is good.

Stevie Ray Vaughn is keeping me company right now. Rock on!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 12:23 AM

Good to see you here, Tinker. Even once a month can make a difference. If you spend 12 days this year de-cluttering, you'll see the difference.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 12:43 AM

SRS, to learn more about Animaterra's house, see THIS THREAD. It's pretty neat!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: ragdall
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 12:50 AM

SRS,
I don't think that twelve days decluttering would do much for my house. LOL! I can reclutter much faster than that.

I managed to wash all clothing, bedding and towels before midnight, Dec. 31st, but not to get everything on the main floor dusted, so I expect I'll be living in dust for the rest of 2010, but have clean clothing and linens?

Next, I have two biggish tasks in mind. This computer's hard drive has only 8 GB empty space left so I'll need to transfer all the 2009 photos to an external drive then back those up on another external drive.

The other task is to defrost the big upright freezer while it's still cold outside. (It's -8ºC [17ºF] at the moment). The freezer is near the door to the carport. If I put the freezer contents into grocery bins I can store the bins in my car while I'm working on the defrost.

I should try to get one of those jobs done tonight. Which one? I'm wondering if I'll have the energy to finish? It's almost 10:00 pm and I just spent two hours shovelling snow so I'll be able to get the car out the driveway tomorrow.

If I can accomplish one of these tasks tonight, my reward will be taking time out tomorrow to look for an "unusual eagle" that was reportedly seen near the abattoir today. The concensus is that it's a species that shouldn't be anywhere near here.

Wish me luck?

rags

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 09:31 AM

Another spinning class this morning. Recycling sorted out. Support joist/beam fitted in ceiling for stair case (by Paul not me!) We're in the middle of potty training Harry so there is a fair amount of washing done too.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 11:30 AM

Thanks for that link, Kat, I'll follow the progress on that thread.

I have a ceramic cooker that I found for $1 at a garage sale that has barely been used that I'm going to wrap and give to a friend today. He's coming over for lunch so I'm going to bake a chicken in my identical pot (it came from my father's estate, and a friend of his talked him into buying it. When I asked her about it she cooked a chicken for me in her identical pot so I'd know how it works. The chicken comes out falling off of the bone but incredibly moist, unlike if you roast it in an open oven.) I scanned and printed out all of the instructions and recipes that come with it. The pots are usually about $45 and hard to find, so this form of recycling is also a great way to save money.

As to accountability, chicken works out perfectly for lunch today as part of the diet, and today is the first day for the full force diet that I'll be on for the next couple of weeks. I did gain some weight, but I think there's actually only one pair of pants that are now too tight to be really comfortable, so the damage wasn't too bad. :-/

I called my local radio (and web) organic gardening guru this morning. His first program of the year, and he has answered a question that I've wondered about for a while but always forgot to ask at the right time of year. I'm going to try to remove the bag worm population from a juniper outside my kitchen window. Turns out the winter application of "dormant oil" is old fashioned and not used any more, now they sell "agricultural oil" that is lighter, but he confirms that I'll get just as good a response with BT in the spring when they start moving around. Good!

That covers my soup to nuts stuff. After lunch today I'll be racing through paperwork for the office. Much to do to hit the ground running. My office is looking a little more put together, though I have a small table I have to move out. It's an antique with ornately turned legs, so I'll put it somewhere in sight so we can enjoy it.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maeve
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 11:47 AM

Just in to wish you all a Joyful New Year.

We continue to find our way through the rubble.

Warm regards,

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 12:42 PM

There's our girl!

A post of mine has gone missing. In it I talked about decluts of roast beef and I forget what else.

Pooltime post-hols resumes tomorrow-- today I'm charging up aquatic MP3 players, printing green and blue maps of African vegetation, etc., but the poolbag is packed and set by the door. The break from pooltime has been a GOOD thing, and now I am eager to get back to it.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 03:55 PM

It's too cold to go out today, so I've stayed home and cleaned the refrigerator. I took out each tray in the door and washed them; threw away all the stuff that didn't look safe anymore, mostly salad dressings and steak sauces. Along the way, I got some ideas for supper and lunch tomorrow, so I can use up some of the little bits left in the jars/bottles. That'll fill up the recycling bin. Will make some coleslaw as soon as I go back downstairs.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 05:01 PM

Lunch was great. I've been watching birds on the feeders as I wash up the dishes; there is a one-eyed sparrow camped out in the thistle feeder tray. He looks like his eye is red and swollen closed, no feathers around it. I imagine pigging out at the feeder and keeping the other eye out is the best way this little guy will survive. There was a gorgeous pair of cardinals on the ground picking up seed at the same time.

I've been filling out forms and I'll be tidying up computer stuff this afternoon. There is leftover chicken from lunch for my son for dinner, and I'll probably have some other lean (within the diet) leftovers, so I don't need to stop and do much cooking. Bread is in the oven.

I'll try to mix the paper with the household stuff so I feel like I've made progress on both fronts. Hard to believe the break is already over. Back to work tomorrow. Ugg.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 07:06 PM

I've been watching the birds today too...they seem especially active today!!! It's almost like watching the planes come and go at O'Hare!

So, let's see...today I did the dishes, swept the entire downstairs, vacuumed the living room rug, picked up, did 4 loads of laundry and I'm about to go upstairs to my office and clear out all the Christmas wrapping gear (my office serves as Wrap Central during the holidays). I made a decent lunch for us today and will figure out what to do about dinner while I'm working in my office. I'm not particularly hungry so that makes it hard to decide what to make! I also have some thank you notes to write. :)

Feeling kind of restless today.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 03 Jan 10 - 11:46 PM

Man, I can't keep up with you two!**bg**

With my Rog's help, I cleared the sofa of linen, started stacking the bedspreads, sheets and pillowcases on one shelf, towels on the next up. The highest is too high for me, so stuff I don't need often will go there. I decided I don't need to iron as much as I thought, so I have a small pile to do and then that will get put away, too, and our linen closet will be done. It already looks so much better and I can actually find stuff in it!

Also did more laundry today. It has been cold here; we haven't been out of the 20s much in the past month or so, it seems. I crawled in bed for a nap this afternoon. OUr bedroom is cold because we sleep better that way. Anyway, I had one cat curl up on my hip (I was on my side) the other curled up next to my cheek. They were so toasty warm, I had a great 45 minute nap! Didn't really want to disturb them, it was so cozy.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 01:15 AM

The dogs are curled up on a platform of blankets and beach towels in my bedroom. It's cold tonight and all week it's supposed to be even worse. Arctic weather coming through on Thurs - Sat. I'll keep them in at night at least. It'll be a juggling act, they don't get along with the cat. At all.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 03:11 AM

Accountability - forget it... ain't going to happen... although I will definately appreciate the not living on party leftovers which is what I appear to have been doing for 3 weeks now... I crave beans on toast and a cherry yoghurt!

Decluttering - starts today, up here, in the computer room where I can barely move. That is, once I get off the computer and start shifting stuff... and assuming I don't get sidetracked by something else up here.... :D

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: ragdall
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 05:32 AM

Liz,
You're my kind of person! I get soooooooo easily distracted, especially while on the computer.

I managed to defrost and organize the upright freezer last night, thereby earning the right to toodle off at first light in search of the mythical Sea Eagle that was allegedly seen near the slaughterhouse yesterday.

No luck finding the bird. I'm consoled by the knowledge that none of the other 6 birders who checked in tonight had seen it either.

Thick, smelly "fog" created by the pulp mills, blanketed the downtown on my return. Headlights which remained on for several hours while the car was parked at temperatures well below freezing, gave me the opportunity to meet another helpful tow truck driver. He needed to "tap" my starter with a very large hammer and wiggle the battery cables before the car would start.

Monday's task will be getting a new battery cable installed.

rags

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 09:00 AM

I decluttered my puider life the other day by changing some bookmarks and settings to let Firefox load and run faster. Why it counts as decluts is because my working life is speeding up and the long load time is no longer helpful.

BUT I have been enjoying how THIS iteration of my worklife is different, just because of the self-care and house-care routines that have become part of my gray-haired life. I LIKE GOING SLOWER, for the first time in my life I think things have a good chance of STAYING in balance instead of the rushrush/crashcrash cycle of earlier times. Time to reflect and consider others' viewpoints (firstly God's) are built in to this rewiring jobbie!

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 09:25 AM

I've just bought a whole heap of Really Useful Boxes - I love those things!!! Decluttering seems to be going in reverse but the plus side is that one lidded box will hold what was previously in 2.5 open crates, so I can stack stuff on it and reduce the footprint.

I've also bought a new mouse mat that has an integral 4 port USB Hub, so that will reduce the trailing cables and means I can use my pen mouse whilst downloading music from the external hard drive to the MP3 player... fab!

Back to the slog now... make it look like I've actually done something... :D

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 10:39 AM

I've realized my son has a bunch of short essay answers on the next scholarship form that is coming our way, due in a week. And we need to do a couple of more college applications. And get the test reports set straight. Oy. A lot of this work shifts to him, but we do have to pace ourselves.

Lots to do for work, but first, I rearranged some books in my office to make room to put the laptop back in its usual place. It was moved during the break and now needs to come back into this room.

Sunny and bright, but cold and getting colder. The dogs tore up a set of sheets that was folded on the foot of the bed--they were being playful, but as soon as I picked up a ruined pillowcase from the floor, the pit bull tucked her tail between her legs and crept back into the bathroom--she knew she was in trouble. That's an expensive mistake on my part, but I'll see if I can replace this at a garage sale one of these days; after this I think I'll put them in the back bathroom during the night. Less stuff to get into trouble with, and the cat will be able to sleep on the bed, as he is accustomed to.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 12:31 PM

I submitted my resume for a job that I really hope I can get. This looks like it could've been written just for me. Wish me luck.... M|

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 02:48 PM

Actually got the contents of 4 crates into the one box, plus reduced 1 huge box down to 2 stackable containers a quarter of the size, so that's a bonus...

The new mouse mat is brilliant - except it stays powered up when the computer is in 'sleep' mode so there's a blue light on all the time... guess I'll have to log off properly again and save some power - but it has had the desired effect. Cables are sorted, speakers unknotted, desk much clearer, additional equipment (Tape 2PC and vinyl to digital decks) accessible with ease and the external drive in a place where it won't get knocked over by the cat... who is bemused because I've taken away his favourite seat in the window. So some progress was made. Off for a long bath with an even longer gin and elderflower now...

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 06:08 PM

Good luck, MaryAnne!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 06:51 PM

Ditto! Go get 'em girl!

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 07:15 PM

Yes, Maryanne, when the description seems to fit so well it makes it easier to go through the interviews and such, because its like you speak the same language (that can't always be said of job interviews, can it?)

Liz, sounds like you're creating a black hole in your office. Same material, packed densely. If things start disappearing maybe it is attracting stuff into the vortex. Paper clips, pens, balls of paper that were wrapped around chocolate until you balled them up for cat toys, etc. Be careful in there!

Have lined up folks to fill out application for my son for big scholarship, now he has to write essays. He gets tired of this, but it would help with funding immensely.

I'm going to move the dogs to the bathroom tonight and sleep easier. After our dry run last night, and knowing how cold it is supposed to get, I'll have a bedroll of sorts in place for them, to be taken up in the morning so I don't kill myself tripping over it. Also, I'll see if I can't get the last of the ornaments that are still sitting on their storage box packed into the box, and then that box stowed on the shelf it came from. Two less tripping hazards that way.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 07:20 PM

Not so much creating a black hole as putting things of one sort together, then putting them all in the same box. I didn't know I had so many blank cards for cardmaking until I got them all in the one box... and realised that I've bought duplicates thinking I had used them all, but in reality had just put them somewhere else. So I shan't need to buy card blanks for a while!

The cat amuses himself by rolling walnuts and humbugs out of the bowls in the front room.. he shows no interest in rolled up bits of chocolate wrapper. He's far happier batting his nut up and down the hall or chasing a green bean around the kitchen.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 09:49 PM

Morgan had a lesson in ironing cloth napkins, today. He asked, so I let him try his hand, with close supervision. He did a good job. We did a stack and got them put away. I remember how much I loved ironing my dad's bandannas and mom's hankies. I think I got a whole nickel when I did them for the week.:-)

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 04 Jan 10 - 11:55 PM

We lost Clementine a year ago in late January, and I still occasionally find stashes of balls of stuff that she lost behind large pieces of furniture. I moved the upright grand last month and found a bunch of my son's cloth-covered hair bands (she had an elaborate game where she carried them around) and rolled up bits of foil and candy wrappers. She'd kicked them all under the piano and never been able to retrieve them.

Still miss that little sweetheart.

There are links to organizing folks at the bottom of this thread. I've never bothered to follow, has anyone else? I suppose they've been there all along.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: JennieG
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 12:27 AM

Today we took a large box to the local Salvos (Salvation Army - in Oz they and everyone else call themselves the Salvos) of childrens' games, and also a large bag of clothes and books. It doesn't seem to me as though we have done much decluttering yet, but we can see spaces on the floor where none were before so our little clean-ups must be having an effect.

The links on the bottom of the screen are for Irish folk music today. They probably wouldn't help much with organising.

Cheers
JennieG

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 02:22 AM

I finished the puzzle last night and did one load of laundry and ironed douvets and bed linens guests used over Christmas break. Also ironed all the trousers and 3 pairs of my cotton PJs (yeah I am spoiled like that).

Tonight rest of ironing to do, put away puzzle and pull out fairy stuff again. Maybe try to change strings on my guitar.

I want one of those kit houses, Animaterra has - built on the Chickahominy River in Virginia. TSO would never agree. sigh!

Want a ceramic cooker too for the caravan, so I can cook chicken next to bonfire at folk festivals like Knockholt. No room or need for it in small flat ans living with vegetarian. I rarely cook meat

dammit - I am still not right in head after headaches and meds. I had to retype a dozen words because I transposed letters.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 03:06 AM

VT - at least you recognised they were errors, that means an improvement! Take it easy and don't push yourself beyond your limits more than three times a week...

More decluttering today... hopefully without resorting to buying more boxes! The Christmas decorations box can go back to the loft tonight, so that's one big thing out of the way. The dawn has come up like fire and thunder so I'm thinking I'm in the right place here.

I'm thinking I'll go through the rest of the card making stuff, get that sorted properly and then I can maybe restock for the next concert at Easter. Only 3 and a bit months.... :D

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 03:55 AM

Christmas decorations were taken down on Sunday and put away in the attic.

Day 3 of serious potty training has commenced. Harry is doing well so far.

I went to a circiut training class last night. It was a lot of fun, hard work and I ache lots this morning but I also feel great so I have booked another class for next week on top of the ones I normally do!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 05:09 AM

Been sitting up here for 2 hours now... have drunk pints of hot chocolate and downloaded an album and 3 song lyrics. I think I may have lost momentum....

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: mouldy
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 05:36 AM

Well I put another 2 and a half pounds on over Christmas, due in part to Quality Street (1 point each), 2 curries, and lots of leftover nibbles from New Year's Eve when only half the expected number came.
Veg soup is now cooking, sugar free jelly is made for pud (jello to you lot over the pond!)

Feeling a bit disgruntled at the moment as it's snowing and my planned trip to Harrogate with Eleanor, and without Freya, is off - Harrogate is higher up and has hills. Also, my son in law has gone into de-cluttering mode himself, and wants to shift furniture, so he can't have Freya.
Now I KNOW I could make a start on the hell-hole that is my study, and which is currently being used as a dumping ground, but it's my birthday, and I am not going to do that all day! Hopefully Eleanor (plus Freya) and I might find somewhere relatively local to grab a lunch.

Andrea

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 07:41 AM

Happy Birthday Andrea, hope you and Eleanor find somewhere nice to have something to eat.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 08:24 AM

HAve a good birthday Andrea - you deserve it!

I have reached a full stop... I did sort one or two boxes, but nothing major. I did declutter the pond of some duckweed, courtesy of the ice it has on it, but it was so cold it's started the cuts on my fingers bleeding, so I'm back in the warm and preparing to declutter a couple more boxes... so I really should get back to it...

Oh, we did declutter an egg-shaped, revolving, children's chair from Limpit's room, now it's cluttering up someone else's house, isn't it Catherine! It's being loved and used as a chair and not a clothes horse which is the important thing.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 08:33 AM

Yep It is taking up space in my front room! The kids love it so I don't mind! Thank you Liz!.....glad Phoebe can get to her wardrobe now!!LOL!!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 09:18 AM

Happy Birthday, Andrea.

M

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 12:31 PM

BUT I have been enjoying how THIS iteration of my worklife is different, just because of the self-care and house-care routines that have become part of my gray-haired life. I LIKE GOING SLOWER, for the first time in my life I think things have a good chance of STAYING in balance instead of the rushrush/crashcrash cycle of earlier times. Time to reflect and consider others' viewpoints (firstly God's) are built in to this rewiring jobbie!

In that vein, I'm noticing how extremely well my confusions sort themselves out when I stick to the basics. While I DO them, my mind keeps pointing me in the right direction.

By last night, for instance, my "gut" was so out of whack (literally) that I had to pay attention to the growing un-ease the next few days' schedule seemed to be causing. Upon waking, the inner voice finally said loudly but calmly, "S...T...A...Y... H...O...M...E... please!"

And the MOMENT I implenented that, the loveliest day began to unfold.


It feels like stolen time, but really it was mine all along, and some of it includes decluts now possible in the office (a lovely creative profusion in there is now becoming chaotically upsetting)-- to be able to put down the warm rug earmarked for it! All the fixings for lunch are up there, and Sadie wants to play office today, and......

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 12:47 PM

.... where I find that a teensy job needs to be done which I have ALL the needed tools already HERE (done!), and sugar-free YUMMY hot chocolate to warm me up (done!), too!

And MY work, waiting for me to get back to it.

I think of our upstairs now not as an insurmountable set of stairs, but a second ranch-house (portable classroom) on top of the other (dnstrs) one!

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 01:02 PM

I'm working my way through the diet this week with some non-diet meals (I had a ham sandwich for lunch just now) because I don't want to waste this food from over the break, but I am keeping the portions modest.

It's warming up, and it is a bright day, so I may be able to take down some lights from plants out front later. I unplugged everything and moved the electrical cords from the lawn yesterday. The dogs enjoyed coming in and wanted to stay in, but now they're out doing their usual thing--sleeping in the sun. Tough life. Amazing how much heat they can collect when they lie in just the right spots even on a cold day.

Virginia, my most-heavily-used key on the keyboard is the "backspace" button. I'm always correcting typos. Welcome to my world!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: mouldy
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 02:44 PM

Well we all (son in law as well) went to a pub about 3 miles away for lunch - and I felt stuffed half the afternoon! I'm sure it'll all show on the scales next week!

I did make a start on the study, and started sifting through some of the random bits of old staplers etc that were left from Ian's office stuff. Why on earth I thought I needed 4 staplers, 2 desk calculators, a slide-rule and the like, I'll never know! I don't even know how to use a slide-rule! The plan is to do away with the big desk. I have filled a small basket with all the cableage from camera/camcorder/ipod etc.

However I gave up after an hour or so, and I'm intending to have a good session on it tomorrow, as I have nothing else planned.

Andrea

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 05 Jan 10 - 02:44 PM

VT, remember when I was think-posting about an emblem/basket-type for my OUT basket? I'm finally at a puder whose monitor does your wings justice. Hope it's OK to print the one I liked best, of your wings, because it's the perfect image and the perfect reminder of what my real work is all about.

BTW lady, them wings look STRONG, to me. :~)


And Animaterra, remember that stuff I asked you to partner/PM with me on? It will all be right here in the thread from now on, in batches that you may be able to keep up with-- I've learned the trick of HOW to "slow down." The rest-- it's just about obsolete now, because I was still in speed mode when I sent it. :~)

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 12:51 AM

WHoo hooo! My son did a load of laundry tonight! He looked at his supply of clothes based upon the thing he runs out of soonest (shirts), and washed dark stuff. He said he needed dark shirts, so I told him to do all of the dark laundry, including checking the pockets. Now it's all in the dryer.

I have a closet that is a mess; I know you all know what kind of challenge this is. This is the one in my office and has a mix of camping gear, scholarly research papers, and holiday ornament storage, along with some extra day packs, cloth shopping bags and rolling soft luggage. Shelves on two sides are built in, and there is a heavy-duty wire storage rack on the back wall. I have a plug built into this space and had a counter-height shelf put in so I can put my photocopier or other equipment there.

I brought in the step ladder and rearranged some of boxes (with holiday decorations) stored on upper shelves, and repacked some of the ornaments that were used this year. I still have to bring in the outdoor lights, but most of the rest of it is up and out of the way. I'll see if there is anything else I can store on those shelves while I'm at it.

I have a cuppa hot herbal tea now, and I think I can relax with the dogs outside tonight. Only down to about 30, so their area will be plenty warm with their heater. But in the next couple of days it will be down to 20 or lower, so they'll be back in. That 10-12 degrees makes a huge difference.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 01:15 AM

I'm finally at a puder whose monitor does your wings justice.

Wings, Susan? Do you mean the fairies? If so, When I get some more made I would like to start posting out to fellow declutterers.

Will be staying home today. I have been up most of the night with joint pain. I guess the snow fall has done it to me. As my right hand is particularly bad I won't be making fairies. But I might sort out bits into fairy making kits for MBSLYNNE - (see 13 year old with leukaemia thread). Hil brought me some headdresses back from US so those too will go to LYNNE.

I am off to send email to line manager now.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 05:16 AM

I god a cowd... I'b dot goig to do anthig but slob in bed.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 07:39 AM

I got work... which is kewl. As I am capable of working but not sitting at desk in cold office, I asked line manager if she had anything I could work on at home. And she did, so now I don't have to report a sick day, which always worries me. Due to RA, feel I have too many non working days. we are trying to get me VPN so I can work from home on very bad days like today.

Sorry you have cold LtS. No playing in the snow for you today.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 08:11 AM

I'm noticing how extremely well my confusions sort themselves out when I stick to the basics. While I DO them, my mind keeps pointing me in the right direction...I've learned the trick of HOW to "slow down."

And here I am, enjoying what I see and nodding companionable sympathy and approval!

I did a successful purge yesterday AND a good deed as well- my sister-in-law loves to "gift" us at Christmas with loads of little, cheap, er, useless crap. Now that the 12 days are over I'm ready to take down the tree and so on (well, not really ready but aware that soon it will have to happen!).
Also, the "advisory circle" aka Board of my chorus has been having some uncharacteristic difficulty amongst themselves- squabbling, competing for my approval- silly stuff, that just needed to be nipped in the bud. So last night we had a potluck "retreat" at my house (they were all excited to see it). And I wrapped all the SIL gifts up in big boxes, re-using the giftwrap that hadn't yet made it to the recycling center. And we had a "Yankee Swap" which I introduced by giving the Rules: Have Fun, Laugh, Give a Compliment, Keep it Positive, and All of the Gifts Must Leave My House By The End of the Evening.
Then we drew numbers, and each person in order got to choose and open the gifts. She could keep it, give it away, or swap with another person, but if she got rid or swapped, she had to give a compliment to the person she was dealing with.
Lots of laughter, everyone had fun- and all the gifts disappeared! And I ended up with the one thing I thought was a keeper- a perpetual birthday calendar, which will end up on the "office" wall once I have an office, and won't take up much space in the meantime.

SRS, do check the link. There won't be updates for awhile yet. We're waiting for the guy who is supposed to finish the siding (my DH calls him "The Messiah- his coming is promised but never fulfilled"- very funny, dear.) . And we have to dig through the snow to get at the 2 x 4s to frame the upstairs- so that may be awhile yet- but the downstairs is reasonably tidy. But I do miss having a desk, file cabinet, and shelves for my stuff!

Subject: The Combination Lock
From: wysiwyg
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 10:12 AM

Allison,

YMMV, but....

One way my slowing down became feasible was that, while using the personal-growth tools we've discussed, I spotted a huge insight one day that gave me a structure within which to understand my "hard-wiring." It was a metaphor so apt that it stopped me dead in my tracks to LOOK at it, walk around it on all sides, look inside it, etc.

What I "saw" in this mettafer was the inside of a combination-lock. Tumblers of many sizes and shapes, spinning. Spinning until they lined up. Then, when lined up, the satisfying, quiet "tunck" of an unlocked lock in perfect alignment. (I'm the tumblers.)

It was a pretty enough and useful mettafer, but looking closer I could see that the tumblers were changing as they spun. ("Huh? What's up with THAT?" "Look closer...." So I did.)


As I looked at this image, I could see God stretching me inside that now-open lock until I no longer fit the sides of the lock perfectly... I saw myself growing (and spinning as I grew), till I'd get to the next lock I was being grown to fit.

Then, TUNCK, and another period unlocking THAT lock, and another period of outgrowinbg it, spinning to the next.... etc.

===

So obviously there are questions there such as, who is spinning the tumblers.

Who is directing where I spin off to, next.

How is the unlocking mechanism maintained.

How to support the growth more intentionally.

And so forth. (Those questions are still coming.)

====

But as soon as I had the metaphor, I had a paradigm from which to encourage the slowing down, and a near-complete release of defensiveness in response to folks who do not understand any of that, about me, and who are usually several steps behind me because I keep going forward just when they think they have a handle on whatever the LAST big change in me might have been.

So I gave up on being understood. If I have to choose between being understood and continuing to grow-- I choose the latter, so I have to be willing to give up the former. I mean that's just logical. Do I want to go here..... or there....?

I'm Called to go There.

From that it's much easier to prioritize, say Yes or No with the right (most effective) attitude, and compassion for those who are not like myself but have to deal with me during any of it. :~)

===

These declut threads have been a huge help because it's the first time in many years there's been a place and space (in practical terms) to look at my own stuff instead of someone else's stuff, or being distracted off my own stuff because their stuff is getting in the way of helping me look at my own stuff.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 11:34 AM

Last night's laundry episode was wonderful--it's not a big deal in the scheme of things, but it means that my son, who always knows when he's running short of stuff anyway, now has more control over his wardrobe. I usually did the asking "do you need pants or shirts" before deciding to do laundry, but now we can skip that and he can do laundry when he knows he needs it. One tissue ended up left in a pocket, but it didn't cause a snow day in the dryer. :)

This morning I told him a story on the drive to school. About being prepared for things like weather events (we're due 2-3 days of very cold weather, it hasn't been this cold in many years). I described the "10 essentials" of mountain climbing as identified by the Mountaineers (I was in the Everett, WA, branch), where I took a climbing course, then taught it for several years. I told him about some of the folks I worked with, but then wrapped it up with thinking my way through my pickup as we were driving. I had almost all of them with me at that point, because I've incorporated them into what I consider reasonable gear for general preparedness at any time. Who knows if the story sinks in, but he listened with interest, didn't nod off to sleep for the 20 minute drive. I want him to think about how to be prepared to go places or do things, work out a mental checklist (interesting, they've been talking about a book this week about medical checklists. That author is on Diane Rehm right now).   

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 11:54 AM

That is all going to pay off BIGTIME, SRS. We have a coupla kids now long past that age, and it's been amazing how their ability to do that stuff serves them in life.

For one thing, it makes them the go-to person for their friends, and from that place they can actually help their friends in a million ways-- compare this to one kid who had only just learned to feel comfortable in the kitchen when he moved out, but serving his dad a steak dinner at Navy grad-time, WITH "vegetable matter" (OK, cold out of a can but it was THERE and he had actually bought it because he liked it).

Goodonya!

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maeve
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 04:41 PM

Happy New Year, y'all. I do check on you from time to time, as possible. Be healthy and happy.

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 07:46 PM

YMMV?? I do not understand.

But I do understand about the motivation to move forward when pulled there, even when not sure where "there" is.

And SRS, I second WYSYs wise words- my 20-somethings had to endure hour upon interminable hour of my words of wisdom in the car, and now they, like WYWY's, are capable thinkers and doers.

No de-cluttering of house today. Some de-cluttering of mind, but only just a bit. But I did get to the gym, where I have been working on building my "core strength" after throwing my back out in early Dec. I was happy to be able to hold my "plank" position on my elbows for much longer than before! So I guess I'm de-cluttering my body, a bit, too!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 08:21 PM

YMMV = your mileage may vary

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 09:28 PM

Oh! I get it!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 10:22 PM

I have an endometrial biopsy tomorrow at 1:00......any and all prayers and good thoughts would be most appreciated.

XOXOXOOX

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 10:27 PM

Listen up. If it hurts when they do it. you go right ahead and scream your head off. It helps.

~Veteran of many endo biopsies

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 06 Jan 10 - 11:30 PM

Hi,maevedarlin'...so good to see you here. Thanks for checking in. You are missed.

I guess I did some body decluttering, too. I went to Doc Jeri for OMT, today. She is really pleased at how well my lower legs and feet are doing. I've been having real problems with them since the pneumonia etc. We've finally turned a corner on that front, too. Now, I cna do a lot more without pain!

Michelle, we are here for you. Remember to breathe and try to relax.

Animaterra, I LOVE your party idea!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 12:57 PM

Michelle, good luck with that. I've had a few biopsies myself, but my method is to focus on some other part of the body where nothing is wrong and try to let the difficult stuff happen with as little stress from me as possible. The breathe and relax bit that kat mentioned. The Lamaze approach to biopsy. ;-D

Damned cold out there today, though it is very sunny. You can see the light sparkle off of all of the ice on the ground from the rain we had right before it froze. The dogs are in again for a while, but they do like to go out and run around periodically. The cat is tucked away in my daughter's room with a padded window seat and a fuzzy cat bed on top of her bed. It keeps him out of the path of the dogs (who do not get along well with him). I may go visit him at lunch, give him a cuddle and take a little cat nap (so to speak . . .)

I put the trash out in a bag this morning instead of in the usual metal can. One less thing to have to do outside this morning, and giving the trash guys a cold metal can to pick up makes their day just a little chillier. I passed the truck as I drove home this morning and they were in mittens and ski masks and breathing steam.

Writing today. Clearing up work, I hope.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 02:53 PM

Clearning office in prep for laying a huge rug. Found a lot of quick to-do's that I could knock out, which reduced the feeling that office tasks were getting away from me.

I devoted some time to putting some Maxine pages in a small, empty box for a nice reminder to take things "light," AND hold some pesky office supplies I'd rather not look at.

I found the wedding invite Hardi and I'd sent to folks 17 years ago, with the couples' mission statement we'd written, and framed that in the frame I also found in the pile. It included the work I'm doing now, from the day we met. I set it by my visitors' chair.

The rest of the pesky/undone "important" stuff fit neatly in my very-shallow inbox. I'll never use a deep one, again! :~)

I found a large box suitable as an OUTbox, and my printer ink arrived today-- I can print VTs wings now!!! RIGHT now!

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 03:56 PM

VT, I just rewarded my labors by printing and laminating the beautiful-but-strong fairy (angel) wings from one of your posted photos. It will go on my outbox when the carpet laying fun is over and I get my office back. It's on the very top of my inbox, now, where it will be such a nice "surprise" to come back to! I'll think of our friendship every time I look at it, and when think about what I am sending out into the world from this office.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 05:55 PM

Correx, duh:

Clearning office in prep for laying a huge rug. Clean + Clear appears to equal "Clearn."

I devoted some time to putting some Maxine pages ON a small, empty box (like decoupage but with temp tape).

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 06:05 PM

Accountability means taking care of myself and that's what I did today. I didn't want to do it. I cried half the way there but I did it: Blood work, EKG, anesthesologist talk, chest x-ray, mamogram and the endometrial biopsy.

The people were phenominal....every single one of them. They helped me breath through the biopsy, talked me through everything. Kinda funny...I was breathing deeply in and out of my nose....as we do in yoga...they had to remind me to open my mouth to let the air out...never thought of it. Yoga is indeed part of my being.

Weighed in at WW too...down another 14.6 pounds. NOT THE WAY TO DO IT...but ok.

I am now going to crash in my recliner with one of my favorite blankets and Jack, my snuggle kitty.

I
am
tired.

Much love to you all and many thanks for prayers and encouragement....surgery is a week from tomorrow...should find out biopsy results on Monday or Tuesday.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 06:16 PM

Michelle, from that cat's point of view, you're making life very pleasant! A recliner, a blanket, and a warm body is what many cats crave (mine do!)

The dogs have been in and out all day, but now that the sun is going down, they'll be in more. They are house broken, but they're not accustomed to having to wait long periods of time between trips out (though I think once they're in for the night they usually stay in, so they go 8 - 10 hours then). It is bitterly cold out, and my pit bull loves her fleece jacket. Cinnamon and Poppy took a quick turn around the yard this afternoon.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 06:51 PM

LF--

Pls confirm/modify: Results from today's biopsy next week, then surgery the 15th, then path report after surgery?

Wanna keep it straight.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 06:56 PM

Pathology report due Monday or Tuesday. Surgery on the 15th which is the following Friday. The results of the biopsy will determine if extra parts need to come out. I don't know. I think that's how it goes. They won't know the pathology of the cyst until it's out. Today was for the uterus.



Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 10:18 PM

OK..... processing...... more info via PM is welcome. But I think I see enough of the sequence for the prayer-side, and I think that's all I need to know?

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 07 Jan 10 - 11:46 PM

It has been snowing all day-- the very fine, light stuff-- and not much wind, so there isn't a lot of drifting. I plan to wait until morning to run the snowblower. It looks like it will only be about 3 inches.

I have wasted most of the day playing in Facebook. I recently gave in and set up a profile, just because I was missing out on so many things. Friends would say "Oh, we put it on FB...."

Michelle, I hope you get the best news possible. I have waited out the results of a biopsy myself.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 12:50 AM

It is so cold and so dry here, it's difficult to do normal stuff. Want to take the trash out? Get dressed up to the eyeballs or freeze your nose off heading out into the driveway. I'm taking the dogs out every couple of hours--normally they're always out, and spend their nights and any cool times in the garage. It's supposed to get down to 12 overnight in North Texas. I'm headed for a soak in a really hot tub. Wouldn't a sauna be nice about now? After the bath, one last trip out for the dogs, then all to bed. Indoors. Warm and toasty.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 01:52 AM

(((SRS)))

(((dogs)))

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 08:07 AM

Oh, SRS, it's so hard to deal with the cold when you aren't acclimated! Here in New England we grumble and have to adjust (usually in November) but by now it's mostly business as usual. DH and I are learning the limitations of this house- no, you can't heat the entire thing with 3 cords of wood (the architect had said 2 cords), yes, we still have time to install a furnace and yes, we should do just that.

I felt crummy all day yesterday and just kept a low profile; got plenty of sleep and woke feeling great (you know, how it's almost euphoria when you've felt rotten and feel WELL!). Today, perhaps, I'll tackle my "in box". Or perhaps I'll just plug away at the 12 songs I need to arrange for the upcoming Animaterra season...

Michelle, I'm late in sending my love and well-wishes, but believe me that they're strong and radiating your way.

Maire-anne, PM coming re FB

Kat, hooray for less pain!

WYS, you are an inspiration! Everytime you mention clearing out the inbox, etc. I think I mught just get to mine!

Allison

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 11:19 AM

I finished running the snowblower, and it wasn't too bad. There's a little weak sunshine, so it looks quite pretty. Followed that up with a cup of amaretto-flavored coffee. The roads are being cleared up, so I may be able to make it out to the session tonight. No more snow in our forecast until Monday.

m

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 12:30 PM

Well I have been reading the thread everyday, but not commenting because... well shucks I hain't been doing nuffin round the flat. And I hain't been particularly accountable re diet and exercise neither.

This weekend will be getting new laptop set up ad transferring stuff from old lappy to new. Then finish ironing. Then make some fairies.

I was working from home most of this week, so able to peek into Mudcat at all times of the day. Next week back in the office so will be catting only when I am home.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 12:49 PM

Here's hot news, VT-- REST COUNTS AS TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF. It's as important as activity.

So you could just set a goal on rest vs. activity and then brag about it here! :~)

What's the ideal amount of activity in your situation? A friend here with RA thinks about it in terms of minimum to be done even on bad days and maximum to stay below even on good days. She says that if the sticks to that and does not get too active when having a good day, she's been able to stay pretty level.

And hey, wasn't rest in that long adrenal recovery doc I sent you? :~) (Is it time to go get more B5 yet?)

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 02:05 PM

Made a full batch of wholewheat-blueberry waffles, and froze all except one section, which I had for lunch. I realized, as I was putting stuff away, that I omitted the sugar, but I never even missed it.

m

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 03:16 PM

Active morning with routine chores....counters cleared and cleaned, mail sorted, all downstairs floors swept, bathroom mopped and a load of laundry done.

Got together with some girl friends from high school for a few hours. One of them just adopted a baby girl so I got to hold Audrey, who is 2 weeks old for 2 hours. So sweet!!!!

Now I'm relaxing with my honey who stayed home from work today (messy roads earlier this AM).

Thank you for the continued prayers and well wishes....I wish I knew the right words to express how much they mean to me! Biopsy results due on Monday.

*pray*
*breathe*
*pray*
*exhale*
*repeat*

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 04:00 PM

who said I was resting. I have been stressing over work from office and not having VPN access to things I need.

Should be able to set it up this weekend.

Hanging in there with you Michelle.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 04:15 PM

Virginia, VPN has a big downside, as I experienced a year ago during the holidays. I put in a new cable Internet line (had ultra slow DLS that had to go) and at logon the computer was combatting between my university VPN client and the new modem. To sort it out I uninstalled the VPN software, to reinstall once the connection was stable. That night I turned off the computer and after that it wouldn't turn on, I couldn't even get a blinking cursor. I think it eviscerated my WinXP Pro. I ended up rebuilding the computer (since I was going to have to reinstall the OS and all of the software, I might as well do it on a bigger, faster hard drive!)

Just so you know (as they say, "careful what you wish for.")

Humidity super low, doesn't help dry skin on hands. That is an ongoing problem. I'm using the dishwasher more, and wearing gloves a lot.

I agree about being acclimated to the weather. In my home state of Washington I would be just fine with the temperatures and conditions now, but since I haven't been exposed to much cold like this for a long time, my system is rather assaulted by it. And though the dogs wanted to spend time outside this afternoon (it is sunny), it was about 24 and I left them out for only about 20 minutes.

I had an "ah-ha!" moment this morning, when I remembered all of these wool lap robes (several from my great aunt's house, and one a gift from my sister after a trip to Scotland) I have in an under the bed zipper case. I pulled out three or four and scattered them on chairs and couches around the house. This way the thermostat doesn't need to be adjusted if you can wrap up in a shawl.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 09:30 PM

I really wanted to go out to the session tonight; I am really missing playing with a group. But, I also wanted to stay home and stay warm. Since it is 23F (-5C) now, and supposed to go down to 12F (-11C) overnight, I'm at home. It's supposed to "warm up" into the 30s by Tuesday, so I'll go out then.

Made a pot of Sloppy Joes; had some for supper & some went into the freezer. Freezer is filling up.

M

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 08 Jan 10 - 10:55 PM

Didn't do anything but a little bit on the PC, nap, PC, nap, Lunch, PC, nap, etc. all day. We've had an air inversion for a couple of days which have caused problems for anyone with breathing issues...it's been hard to catch my breath outside, so I've stayed home. It's been in the 20s for over a month and got to 10 below last night which is unheard of here. Supposed to be colder tonight. I was up a lot last night, so I guess it caught up with me, today. I slept a lot and feel much better.

Tomorrow we will finish putting away the rest of the linen, wash dishes, run some errands. The ironing will have to wait. My doc said I really did a doozy on my rotator cuff..pulled one of the muscles and it is very sore and other muscles are sore trying to compensate for it, so...gentle qi gong and careful housework. Rog might even have to do teh dishes.:-)

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 01:58 AM

Winter is definitely here. It's about 12 right now in Fort Worth. Not what we're used to.

This weekend we're finishing the Gates Millennium Scholarship application. I had to call to get some information and ended up asking a few more questions of the guy. This is "the scholarship of all scholarships," he said, and described how it can be renewed for 10 years, through a Ph.D. Wow. And here I was just looking at the undergrad program. The idea is for a kid to go through school without having to work (take time from studies) or take out loans. Thousands apply, I'm not sure how many are chosen. Fingers crossed!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 10:02 AM

double exercise class this morning....an hours spinning and an hours body pump.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 10:08 AM

By the time we leave for our Sat. svc. late this afternoon, my office will be carpeted.

Also, though, my friend's Xmas tree will be stored, our men will be happy with all the praise they get, food, and guytime they enjoy, and my galpal and I will have enjoyed some much-needed galtime and pizza-- she's not used to getting galtime and is only now starting to realize how badly she needs it!

The respective households' doggies also will have received their favorite entertainment/treats. My pick-either-one-of-two office doggies will have a nice thick, warm spot under my desk to hang out-- while I put back everything I neatly stored as I stripped the office so the men could lay the rug "sans furniture" as they requested. It's not a mess to sort. It's stuff I love and know exactly where it goes, in bunches MY fibromyalgia-healing shoulders can handle BY MYSELF.

The matching fabric is all set out for Hardi's favorite sewing project-- an enormous roll-up shade to cut heat loss. I see the designers do this all the time-- take a horrendous color and decorate around it so it looks like it was chosen on purpose? The rug is an odd color, but it was free. And I DO have, on hand, fabric that puts just the right amount of that color with all the other colors in that room-- fabric I chose long ago because I liked it! There will be enough for the shade where the window freezes me, plus at least a back pillow for the rocking chair allocated to that room.


The lesson I take from this is that for each of us, it's all about the [insert yours here]. For me, it's all about the fabric and the system. I stockpile fabric, but not other non-used stuff-- and I always find a use for it eventually in this move-often, rental-housing paradigm. The system is one I adopted as a young lass-- never buy anything I cannot move by myself if need be. Learned that from my ma. The hard way.


What is it "all about," for you? What is the one thing (or two) that, as long as you keep your eye on that ball, makes the rest WORK in your world? (In practical terms.)

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 01:55 PM

Sloppy Joes sound GOOD especially for a cold winter day....might have to make a crock pot of that for us!

SRS......I've got my fingers crossed for you and your son and that scholarship, what a GREAT thing that would be!!!!

Kat....hope you are listening to your Doc and are taking it easy! I'm learning that it can be hard to do that and especially asking someone to do things you normally do yourself (like the dishes)! They are starting a qi gong class in our area and I think of you every time I see the ad in the paper.

Catherine...you're rocking!

Susan, I too have a stash of fabric. My most recent excitement was over a bird covered fabric that reminds me of my Nana and the curtains she had in her kitchen and over the blank spots above the cabinets near the ceiling (there's a word for it but I can't think of it at the moment...soffet I think). It probably would remind you of the wall paper in your living room. It brings back some very fond memories for me and I intend to make curtains for my office with it. As for what it's all about for me and what makes my world work a little smoother....I know it's simple, but a clean counter top, sink and clear kitchen table. When those things are in order, I can think more clearly and therefore get more done. Of course, they aren't always clear...but they do make my world run smoother. :)

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maeve
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 02:01 PM

Michelle and all- I'm here, thinking of you all and continuing to breathe. My Truelove found me a warm amethyst handwoven cape at the thrift shop, and I realized I have a Book of Kells pewter brooch found in the ashes by one of the firefighters...perfect blending of old and new favorite things.

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 02:11 PM

Maeve,

   I've been thinking a lot about you too. I love blending new and old things together and your cape with the pewter brooch sounds LOVELY!!!!!

(((((((((((Hugs and Love))))))))))))))))))

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 04:37 PM

The "all about" for me is my car. If my car is running and my driveway is clear so I can get in and out, I'm happy.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 05:13 PM

[happydance} no, not me, SADIE. :~)

Me, drinking tea in newly carpeted (BYOOTIFOO!!!) office almost all put back like it was.

And a potential spring job offer from the day, YES! For someone I could actually work WELL with, too.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 09 Jan 10 - 07:47 PM

Done nothing towards accountability except drink Belgian beer and eat monster uberbrownies...

Decluttered a lump of skin from my face by slipping in the ice and scraping it on a wall last Thursday, but it's a lot better today...

Otherwise, total failure on all counts... but I'm still breathing and not in need, so I count that a successful week.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 06:02 AM

LtS - what was that? A face lift on the cheap? Brownies seem like good compensation for the pain, though.

Susan - congrats on the room redo

Maeve - your positive pots, just rock!

All posting here... all of you are inspiring.

Oooohhhhh... Sloppy Joes.... I haven't had in years. TSO is a vegetarian, so I haven't had beef mince (hamburger meat). Wonder if they would taste the same with Quorn mince? What to season with I wonder, since they don't have the canned sauce in UK. Let's see, tom sauce, bt of brown sugar to cut acidity, sauteed onions, peppers. Then what?

I am still working on getting the new laptop set up. Still cannot figure out ho to get my Outlook contacts and inbox, transferred from old lappy to new.

Must do ironing and make some fairies now.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 07:03 AM

I'm still breathing and not in need, so I count that a successful week.

Heck, that's a smashing success! :~)


VT, you missed at least one of the inspiring folks around here with your list. YOU. Dontcha think I'm following your model when I take a moment of office time to do a quickie craft project? "It's part of my process, dear," I said to someone just yesterday. And it is an essential I had not honored in earlier iterations of career-iffication. That few moments or hours while hand and eye coordinate something lovely is part of THINKING time! (Not young-blood, driven, deadline-specific thinking either, but relaxed crone thinking full of its own ripeness.)

Ifficacy. I like that one. Think I'll keep it.

A bagful of great "hand toys" came my way last night, and I kept only a containerized subset of it for myself and sent back the rest. Some wonderful, old-fashioned, UNISEX rainy-day fun for the littler set. I remember well the play/work treasures my grandmother's home office used to hold; she was a before-her-time (pioneering) career woman. Another friend taught me something else (years ago) that my offices have always reflected-- soft handfuls (i.e. puppets, soft toys) to wordlessly soften tense visitors, so that the office is always a spot of respite for weary colleagues.

So-- the whole lot I kept goes to my renewed office, for such occasions, AND it's near the guest room where visiting godkids will bunk. No closet for this neatly-containerized mini-toybox of fun-- my office shelf! Wish I knew who they'd come from so I could thank them; the payment to the thrift shop isn't quite "enough."

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 07:50 AM

An old family recipe for sloppy joe sauce is:

Ketchup
Mustard (I like to use brown spicy)
Brown sugar
vinegar

All my nana wrote on the recipe card for measurements was: "Schlop it together until it looks right"

It's definitely a taste as you go kind of adventure!

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 07:56 AM

aawww thank Susan

in every desk job I've had except the current one, I have had a tray or box full of little toys, including several mini bottles of bubbles, squirt guns, puzzles, etc. Because they were great a diversion, especially when verifying U S Federal code and a boon when servers went down. Everyone descended on me for some little toy to play with while waiting for work to come back on line.

I love that relaxed crone thinking image. That's how problems get solved.

I have made 6 red rose fairies in the little break I just took, (2 and a bit hours) and some of that was setting out the bits on the table. Think I'll make some Jack Frost fairies next.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 10:05 AM

An hours spinning class again today. Tomorrow I'm going to a circuit training class.

The new stair case to our 4th bedroom is nearly in, when it's finished there will be more decorating to do!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 12:18 PM

VTam, I just had vegetarian sloppy joes, last night, using Morning Star's Crumbly soy/wheat gluten meat-substitute. I also use it in tacos and goulash. It is delicious!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 12:49 PM

What a busy group! The new year is finally kicking in, after the holiday blues. Liz, I can't recommend your skin peel method for general use. Try oatmeal next time. ;-) Susan, in this cold weather your new rugs make my toes curl with pleasure at the thought of another layer of insulation under your feet! Michelle, that sloppy joe recipe sounds intense. My mom also had to make up a recipe, because we would see these things in school at lunch (we always took our lunch, but we saw the pizza and stuff that seemed wonderful at the time.) I think she made spaghetti sauce and poured a little over a pan of crumbled hamburger. And I think she used store-bought hamburger buns. We were kids, we loved it. I don't know now. I wonder what would happen if I fixed that for my son?

This morning I revived an old recipe that I first encountered 30 years ago at a friend's home in Virginia. I was passing through on my way from NYC and bound to drive across the entire U.S., and I picked up an old friend at her son's home for the ride We were both from Bellingham, Washington, and I lived with her when I was in college. Her son had spent several years working for the Corps of Engineers overseas in South Africa. One morning they made something called "Dutch Babies," a sort of frying pan sized popover. I reduced the recipe so I could make one individual one: Pre-heat oven to 425. Melt 2 Tablespoon butter in a cast iron skillet, then in a separate bowl fork beat 1 egg and blend in 1/4 cup flour and 1/4 cup milk. Pour the batter into the skillet and put the pan in the oven for up to 20 minutes. No sugar, leavening, and there is salt in the butter. It takes on a grotesque and wonderful shape, which you put on your plate and pour syrup over. The original recipe for a full size skillet is 3 or 4 eggs (with the multiples of the rest, and yes, that is a LOT of butter, but you need it and some stays in the pan).

I'm going to take a "before" photo of my sun room as soon as I can find my little camera in the mess in my office, and then this afternoon I'm going to take an "after" photo. Let's hope there is some progress in between!

It's bright and sunny and the dogs are in the yard sleeping in the sun. Time to clear up that room where they've been sleeping, repair any rips in the towels, wash and put it all away. I think the worst of the cold is past. I put a pottery saucer (the kind that goes under a big potted plant) out on the ground near the bird feeders and put fresh warm water in it. The creek, the bird bath, all of the other water is frozen solid and I can't get the ice out of the bird bath without cracking the concrete.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 03:47 PM

Didn't find the little camera (yet) but did get that photo. Now to work. I think the only approach is to empty that room's contents into kitchen then dump them or replace neatly. Tomorrow is trash day. Good timing!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 05:34 PM

I have 3 days left before we have to leave for my surgery (staying Thursday at hotel near the hospital as we live about 2 hours away and do not want to drive in the middle of the night or during possibly bad weather). Anyway, I am beginning to feel the urge to nest a bit...to have everything taken care of and in order before my surgery. Why? I don't want my husband to have to tend to any of it and I think it's because I want to come home to the way I love it and just be able to collapse. I imagine that's a pretty common phenomenon.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 10 Jan 10 - 06:59 PM

In my Sloppy Joes, I use ground beef and my grandmother's chili sauce (near the end of this thread), along with whatever I have on hand that seems like a good idea.

This morning I cleaned the bathroom real good, incl. washing the floor. Tomorrow, the kitchen.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 03:13 AM

Michelle, have some of your favorite tea or juices there to pamper yourself with when you come home. And though it may seem like an odd suggestion, get yourself a bottle of stool softener. NOT a laxative, but just the softener. After abdominal surgery if you're not moving around much or eating much you can get constipated, and the last thing you'll want is any kind of pushing. It's not good for you anyway, but after surgery, you don't want to scare yourself with wondering (with nearby stitches) if it'll all come out right in the end. So to speak. (And double check with your doctor that this is okay to take.)

I got the "before" photo but I haven't finished. I'm a little of the way into the "during" stage. Maybe more tomorrow (or I'll be tripping over a couple of boxes in the kitchen).

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 04:00 AM

Harry went all night clean and dry and asked to use the potty this morning. Yesterday he only had 2 accidents. I'm so proud of him for getting to grips with this in a week.

We're making bread today as we have run out and we're not going to the supermarket until Wednesday evening.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 06:28 AM

Today I am waiting for the results of my biopsy to come in (via phone) and I am scared to death.

Michelle

PS. SRS,thank you for the suggestion.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 06:54 AM

((((Michelle)))

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 09:30 AM

SRS is taking LFs before and after pix?!?!?!? Just kidding.

LF, you are wrapped in prayer, so it's safe to let the worries go and enjoy this sunny day. The next gray snowfall day will come soon enough. Your yoga posts have all been about joy-- what is the joyous activity you can safely do (with your present situation), that goes straight to the joy?

Me, I would include at least some time talking to my body, reassuring all the parts that hurt. "We're doing everything we can to take good care of you, my friend. You will not believe all the people helping me and [hubbyname] and [momname] do that: [list people and critters]. And bigger than all that, God is working for your good, too: [insert what God is doing}. So there's no need to spike sugars, race heartrate, etc. [insert other physical stuff most bothersome, such as pain]...."

En-joy the day,

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 12:26 PM

We're racing to finish the scholarship application--he promised to write the essays at his dad's house, and of course he didn't. Now he has to finish after school.

And now we have to fill out a set financial aid forms. Oy. And they need to be in yesterday, final deadlines in February, but we'll aim to get them in by the end of the week. Most of this is filled out by his dad and me, and I have to do my taxes super quick.

I think I need a couple of days off. That cold was so numbing it kind of immobilized me. Now I need to race along and get this in place.

I will be so glad when we finally have decisions on all of this.

Michelle, try not to give yourself a stroke worrying about cancer, okay? It's not a great tradeoff. Do some of that deep breathing from yoga. Drink some green tea and relax. I can tell you from first hand experience that even if it IS cancer, yes you'll be thunderstruck and scared and all of that, but after a day of shock, you'll realized that there are things to be done, and there are many more more complete recoveries today than there are poor outcomes. I'm living proof of that!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 01:17 PM

Wonderful advice SrS...

We are all rooting for you LF. Lots of love and light flowing toward you.

Kat we have Quorn in the UK which is micoprotein meat sub. I have found the texture to be more meat like and less papery than the soy protein products. It is quite expensive and not easily found in the US. In the UK there are tons of Quorn products. Lots of variety which makes vegetarianism easier for carnivore like me.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 01:43 PM

oops for got the declutter / accountability bit.

yesterday I got everything working on new laptop and imported old email from old laptop to new. Got hooked up to my docs on desktop pc and networked to printer. Cleared out and organised all old emails.

I made 8 jack frost fairy top bits (head through wings) last night. completed 3 with lower body parts this morning at 5:20 am and did some ironing.

Went in to work and worked through lunch trying to catch up on the stuff in my in tray, and my email inbox that I could not deal with while working from home last week. Checked the head of service's in box. While she is away I have to monitor it and seek most appropriate colleague to deal with urgent stuff, which can be surprisingly time consuming.

Now to write some cards out and make more fairies.

I need someone to nag me about making an attempt at putting new strings on my guitar. I miss playing my Odetta.

hugs all.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 04:38 PM

Tidied the dining room... decluttered a few piles of paper... not a lot else. Back to work tomorrow after an elongated holiday, due to snow, illness and stuff... wonder what will have changed?

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 04:38 PM

We're ALL waiting for that call, Michelle.

Let us know what you want to tell us, when you're ready. By PM if that is easiest. But we're all hanging in here!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 06:04 PM

guess I will just have to read in the morning.... will be a restless night though (big surprise)

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 06:49 PM

(((LF))) Hang in there!

Pool today was focused on shoulder-fibromyalgia-type-rehab while getting the rest of the bod back up to a higher fitness level, so:

10 minutes slow whole-body aquajog
10 minutes ars only Ai Chi
10 minutes armless Backhab
10 minutes armless Ai Chi

... in probably a different order interspersed with hot tub and cold pool visits with my favorite spiritual encourager looking at Scriptural wisdom shedding light on various icky things gratuitously aimed my way today....

To Animaterra---
.... which were very helpful, and very cultural-context-accurate as well. We agreed to formalize swapped time in equal measure, and that was a nice change too. I'll meet with two more similarly-interested folks later this month, tho the topic will be different, but it will have to do with the Jan. 6 post above that was also addressed to you.

Another nice outcome of the visit with my spiritual friend was the detail it added to a decision I had just made about starting mornings in the office with tea and spirituality readings, prayer, etc., before coming doen in the AM. I had just enough energy after the workout (and shoulder pain) to set the necessary materials in the stairwell that serves as my UPbox, for tomorrow AM's new habit.

I also saw another good friend at the pool who has also been part of this spirituality group; the brief hello was just about right for where our talks have been of late-- they get intense, and mutuality/time splitting is not quite part of that dynamic yet but looks to be possible sooner rather than later.

===

Besides decluttering today's "issue," I also decluttered a good amount of sinus blockage in the steamy hot-tub-- nice esp with the ear infection I'm treating.

I REALLY enjoyed the African-history study I'm on this winter, today..... today also I discovered a way to pace the 3-hour MP3 of that audiobook better, so I can find and resume my place better-- the same player runs the workout music and it's hard to switch back and forth but the Africa material is off the really hard part for now so I no longer have to slowdown the playback while I juggle wet maps, and then try to reset the settings for the fast workout and reset it again to slower reading, etc., so the rest of the Africa project (which is behind schedule) should move along better now.

Before I left there was the greatest little girl in the ladies' dressing room. There is only one shower, and as the pool day goes on it gets very crowded in the dressing room, so I always holler out, after I do the shower essentials, to see if anyone else is waiting for the shower-- before I commence the girly-girl add-ons to the shower, in there. "It's just me," answered a tiny, girlish voice; "Do you need me to step out?" It was just such great manners and kindness-- I guess she's run into modesty issues with other members and was thinking I was afraid to come out! :~) Happily, her mother came in next, so I was able to tell her how impressed I had been with her daughter. A fine young lady there!

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 08:57 PM

A little more progress in the sun room, moved the cat gear back to the laundry room from the guest room (now that the dogs are out in the yard and garage again--for which we are ALL truly grateful!)

Wracking our brains on a couple of difficult last minute essays

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 11:24 PM

He turned it in, with time to spare!!!!!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 11 Jan 10 - 11:53 PM

HooooooooooooRAYRAYRAYRAY!

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 12:34 AM

Have any of you heard of Mahalo.com? It's a newish site, and is there mostly to answer questions. I discovered it via someone on Twitter. A lot of the questions are kind of silly, many of them could easily be Googled, but it seems there are people in the world who would rather pay someone else (or several someones who compete for the one payment) and then choose the best answer. Payment is typically very low for the time required on some of these questions, so it's best to answer the ones that are a slam dunk and avoid the research questions unless it is something you can research easily or would also like to know the answer to. People also offer tips of a few cents or sometimes a few dollars, if they like your answer, and sometimes even if you didn't have the best answer. Kind of odd, kind of cute.

I have been dabbling over there, observing the kinds of questions, the amount of work for the low pay, but interested in observing the dynamic of the place. It's taking baby steps and makes Mudcat look like the grandfather of all discussion threads. Having bounced around this place for 10 years or so means Mahalo is pretty easy to tolerate.

For some of us who seem always to be answering tech questions or gardening questions or other household maintenance kinds of questions, it's a place to earn a few bucks. Slowly but surely, and what I'm curious about are the "private questions," when someone can ask you and offer to pay if they like the answer. And you can set your minimum rate for a private answer. When you earn as much as $150 Mahalo dollars, you can cash in and get it via PayPal. If you're spending your Mahalo dollars on the site, they are at par, but if you cash in they keep 25% of what you earned. Slower than eBay, and if you answer a question you're not guaranteed the payment if someone else answers better or is simply voted higher by readers. So you have to learn to pick your subjects. But I bet a couple of our folks who have more energy for the computer and a little writing and research could run up a tab after a little while. And you can choose to write pages for a set amount. I'm working on one now, to see how it goes and how long it takes. You have 3 days to work on it or abandon it.

Here's the site: http://www.mahalo.com/.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 01:35 AM

last minute essays, a friend of my daughter's got into UVA (Uni of Virginia) with an essay titled Why I Like Waffles (or something similar).

I think she was studying communications.

Still here for you Michelle. First thread I checked this morning.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 02:52 AM

btw - 2 letters/cards written and put in envelopes and addressed. 3 more boy fairies done. load of laundry started.

guitar still not restrung.... grrr.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 03:15 AM

Still waiting with you Michelle... why not spoil yourself a little this morning, take a bubble bath, have that chocolate muffin rather than the bran one, spend an extra 10 mins cuddling a sweetie or a kitty (or a sweet kitty?)... give yourself a break.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 04:14 AM

I agree with Liz! spoil yourself a little and cuddles are fantastic.

Circuit training last night was fantastic but hard work. We did a fitness text and I didn't come last!! Hurrah!! Next one in 6-8 weeks.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 10:30 AM

Michelle, no new is no news. Prayers for good news continue. The time spent waiting-- how do you want to use that?

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 11:17 AM

Just got some bills paid and discovered that the property tax bill isn't due Jan. 20, 2010 (01/20/2010 here in the US) but WAS due 12/02/2009!! I want to add more responses to various posts here but I'm off to pay my taxes!!!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 11:21 AM

SRS, there are other sites which do that and have been around for some while. I looked into one, once, but decided it wouldn't be worth my while, but I also didn't approach with anything specific in mind.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 01:02 PM

I agree--this is just dabbling, I think it isn't worth the time and one is at most a big fish in a little pond even if you establish a beachhead in there.

Nice day, finally. Sunny, warm. I've been at the office, but must stop by the garage to see why I have an oil drip after the last oil change, and need to pay a few more bills.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 02:33 PM

Lovely office day; got most of the packed-up-for-carpeting stuff unpacked and a great deal of the waiting-tasks-box's contents DONE. The missing daily log was found the 8th time I looked where I'd been sure it was, so I must not have needed it till today-- where I log daily tasks completed and next steps needed.

A big project is now back on track. A friend coming next week to swap thoughts on priorities-- she has a new home office, too, and between us we know quite a bit about keeping the eye on the ball.
Perfect timing to rock and roll on scanning text from out of the resume that turned up recently-- just need a power cord and I'll save hours of re-typing/re-casting old but still-snappy copy, YAY!

Ready now also to meet with an outside contracted web-magician to clear up some pending church website tasks-- in comfortable time to boost in Hardi's just-started Epiphany preaching series. Soundfiles to start going up, finally.

The next rug is sched to be picked up at cleaners and laid Thursday-Saturday-- for the long-waiting LR.

===

Animaterra, I got the day started right with a lovely assignment from ydy that pulled a lot of loose ends together, and it resulted in just the right spot to keep the Daily Reference materials appropriate to the current focus. Looking forward now to starting the NEXT day, and easy to shift gears to wifely stuff for the afternoon.

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maeve
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 03:48 PM

Thinking of you, Michelle. You like to plan for good things- I hope you will do so now.

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 05:41 PM

Think of the kind of sneeze you hate most. It may be different than mine, but I just had one of the one's I hate. I suppose, on the up-side, my sinuses are now decluttered, but my head is going to feel like that stupid sneeze is echoing around in there for a while. Ugg.

It is a pretty day, but I think this nose thing is all tied in with the recent cold weather we had. Even though it is warmer, it is still extremely dry. Keeping a vaporizer going in the largest room in the house hasn't made a dent in it, it's still around 28%. No wonder my skin is dry, my hair stands on end when I take my wool hat off, and my nose is dry (and now sneezy). We need some rain!

Working on lots of things paper-wise (or perhaps I should go more generic and say wood-pulp-wise) today and this evening. I did swing by my neighborhood recycle drop-off center and unload newspaper, cardboard, and the kitchen recyclables. My sunroom is showing steady progress--there isn't a path through from the door, it is cleared out on that end of the room.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 05:54 PM

I am finding it difficult to do much at home this evening. It is all still frantic at office trying to get on top of stuff before I fall ill. Feel it coming.

How is it we predict that we going to hit the skids and so work like the devil to get things done thereby hastening the commencement of that down time. Dumb.

I feel like utter crap and I am worried about Michelle.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 07:33 PM

Michelle, a good many of us are praying for you. Come in for a landing when you can-- we'll be here.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Tinker
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 07:39 PM

Stopped in here to see how Michelle was doing.... I stand waiting with the rest of you ...

I've gone through all the food cupboards in the last few days and discarded all of the things past their expiration.... when my daughter was first put on a rotation diet for dietary protien problems we bought things that "looked interesting" (to me) but not necessarily appetizing to her. She never was an adventerous eater. Most of those things were now several years past their use by date... definately in the de-clutter catagory.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 07:50 PM

My husband was given some frankincense (and the charcoal to burn it) at Christmastime and has been burning it every day. When I smell it, I have come into the habit of holding those in my heart who need it most. Michelle has been forefront in my heart. Maeve, too. And all of you lovely ones.

(WYSY, sometime I'd love to hear more specifics about your Daily Reference materials appropriate to the current focus....

Allison

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 08:01 PM

The results of my biopsy came in about 4 hours ago.

I have uterine cancer.

At the moment, finding my breath is difficult and finding my way to the next 5 minutes feels nearly impossible.

I'm sorry for not checking in more....I'm struggling mentally in ways I didn't know existed.

I appreciate your love and prayers and some especially beautiful PMs I found just now.

I am scared shitless and totally stunned.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 08:05 PM

Michelle,

You do not need to worry about worrying us, or keeping us waiting. We've all had a lot of experience with waiting in the last year or so.... When we don't know what is happening for you, I expect most of us just redouble our prayer efforts, and that never hurts.

This is a whoa-nellie track you are on. You are definitely up to the challenge. Trust yourself to know what to do and how to look at things along the way. We will all be with you, one step at a time, ready to catch you whenever you need it.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 12 Jan 10 - 11:47 PM

Michelle, I had uterine cancer 10 years ago and am here to tell you that while the surgery isn't fun, it can be a very effective treatment. They remove what they need in order to reach a "clear margin," or tissue completely free of the cancer. They took my uterus, ovaries, and cervix. I still have my lymph nodes. I didn't have to do chemo or radiation. This was adenocarcinoma.

Look up my PM and give me a call if you want.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Tinker
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 12:11 AM

Michelle, here are a few chants I listen to when my mind gets too cluttered and worried to focus. Some "de-cluttering" chant

Kosi R'vaya half way down the page is probably my favorite. It means my cup overflows and comes from the 23rd Psalm..... Just let them play over and over to fill and soothe...


Blessings and Light....

Don't forget to breathe

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 02:57 AM

Michelle - I have Pmd you. You have all my thoughts of care and love, as I join this circle of woman surrounding you. Powerful magic in this. Keep that in mind.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 04:23 AM

Michelle you are in my thoughts (((hugs))

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:26 AM

Michelle, a VERY good friend of mine had a really nasty case of uterine cancer. I can tell you more if it would be useful, but for now the main thing I want to pass on from her experience is that she and her husband encountered NO longterm negative impacts on their married life, even though some of the treatment was pretty radical.

So snuggle into those strong arms, confident that you will always be right there; together you will sail through this temporarily rough sea.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:31 AM

PS friends-- I'll be on reduced internet access and logged out for several days now. Cell access also will be, um... spotty.

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 12:15 PM

Well, Darn. I sent a PM and had a typo in my own phone number. I sent the correct numbers, Michelle. It was pretty late when I was finishing up on the computer last night (at least I remembered to turn on my alarm, the night before I completely blanked on that and woke bolt upright with that 'oh my gosh I overslept' panic that got us out of the house on time even though we slept an extra hour.)

Gotta do something about the paper on my desk.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 12:44 PM

I hate it when THAT happens!

The LR rug is headed this way and the LR puder will be coming apart till done.

Decluts for LR before moving furniture, so that move-back will NOT be crazy-- hey it worked in the office, so MAYBE-- anyway, the autoharp/band arrangement workstation just got sorted and a junk bag for the room started, with ony two small bags of actual work that still needs done set in the stairway to go to the office.

VIP company coming as early as Monday, so I am HIGHLY motivated and focused on all this in addition to already-scheduled deadline-work, some of which will be done in another location with internet (cookieless) access. Faulkner is crying-- no it's Sadie-- remind me that they want to help, too! :~)

This is the space I've dreaded the most. But I can SEE the goal, so.... MAYBE..... oh crap it's meds time already and wifey chores.... and lunch?!?!?!?!?

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 01:30 PM

I love you guys!!!! Sorry I am almost drunk on feeling better. Woke this morning in lots of pain but not the feeling generally unwell like I am fixin to die kind of sick. And my colour was back. I was pink not grey. Actually slept more last night too.

Most of today minuting meeting and then typing notes which still are not done. Meeting not as gruelling as I expected it to be and the meeting room had the heat on so I was physically comfortable. Usually not the case. Loads of filing in the tomb tomorrow so may be hurting a lot in the evening or next day.

On the home front, laundry movin along right now, shopping done (only healthy lunch items purchased), dinner in oven, some little packages prepped for post (praying I can get to local post office this Saturday - weather is a comin agin).

May or may not make more fairies this evening. Pretty knackered and want TSO to snuggle up on sofa and watch a film with me, I think.

Y'all keep on keepin on. Oh and.... I love you guys!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 02:09 PM

Michelle, Glad to hear you're feeling better.. I suspect that somewhere, deep inside, you've come to terms with something. It's always most difficult when our well-being is threatened with something unknown, it makes it harder to deal with. But like the "old magic" - when you know its name, you can take control over it and shape it to your mind. Now you know what this thing is called, it has a finite shape and boundaries. You can identify what it will do, you can discover a way to counteract its behaviour and you can rebuild your life around it. And we're all here to help you do it.

Now get out there and declutter that office! (is it really a tomb? How bizarre!!!)

(((M)))

Oh - I have decluttered the sum total of bog all again... but at least my desk at work remained a)where it was supposed to be and b) relatively free from crap over Christmas!

LRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 02:55 PM

I washed my hair, something I usually do every morning. Should have been a clue re' depression when I quit doing that and just pulled it back into a ponytail AND went out in public that way!

I also got the dishes done, all by myself, over a week's worth. Oh,and I watered all of the houseplants last night.

Now, tomorrow a.m. I will try to do some qi gong to get back on track. Started higher dose of zoloft last night, so we'll see what happens.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 02:58 PM

The Essex Record Office (ERO) houses all kinds of archived materials. Old maps, wills, parish registers, parchments, charters. for everything we hold there is some kind of correspondence that goes with it. I file the correspondence. Deposits (donated materials) require a signed contract from the donor to the ERO (donee). These deposit agreements are filed in the Tomb. Aptly named (by me) because it is cold and dark and has row upon row of hanging file cupboards. The deposit agreements printed on dark grey paper have an ornamental scroll font ERO on top so they look like paper tombstones.


I found out the coolest thing. I can print labels and postage direct from royal Mail on my own printer. No more queuing up at he post office. Brilliant!

TSO and I are going to watch Women in Love now.

toodles all.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 03:08 PM

The worst areas of the LR are now nearly ALL declutted. OK, I BENT the Xmas wrapping-paper tube to make it fit. I never give gifts as huge as the width of that roll ANYway, so I am sure it will be fine next year and it's in the drawer I always look in first along with a yummy roll of ribbon (hm, think VT fairies-- 6' wide, fine, sparkly netting). I bought it long ago for sumpin else but it makes MUCH better giftwrap and I will not need to get any ribbon next year. There is something extra nice about putting a big ole gauzy bow on a gift that only cost $2!!!

On top of the "things that are leaving" box (itself a huge Gateway box that also is slated for departure-- kinda makes a declutterers altar, LOL) are the smaller things going to the post office with tomorrow's FreeCycle run (look out Jacqui), including the all-packed/labeled godkids' overdue crimmiss gifts that finally turned up when I put the office back together. OK, so they're late-- the kids don't care! Their folks better get used to it, tho I already have NEXT year's stocking-stuffers safely stowed in my office for EARLY mailing.

I am determined to stay on a system!!!

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 03:30 PM

I've been doing some laundry and packing for the hospital.

I am trying to stay positive and to be strong but those times are short and interupted by panic and sobbing. I know it won't help anything but I can't seem to get a grip.

I talked to the nurse today and she said I am in FIGO 1 which means my cancer is slow growing. They have not seen it in my cervix which is promising in that nothing has spread. However, they won't know the stage of my cancer or what has spread or to where, if at all, until 2 weeks after my surgery.

I am afraid of they hysterectomy as everyone I have talked to has had it laproscopically or vaginally.....neither are an option for my because my cyst is so big and so is my uterus.

I went to a healing service at church today and cried through the entire thing. Sobbed at some points.

I am a disaster.

I just got a call from a friend of a friend of a friend who had the same kind of cancer but it seems that every situation is very different. She was very kind and encouraging, sharing bible verses that helped give her strength. She prayed with me on the phone and asked that I call her tomorrow when I know the time of my surgery for Friday.

So I was sitting here starting to post and the phone rang. It was the same woman. She is meeting me tomorrow morning in town to give me a prayer shawl.

A complete stranger took time out of her day to talk to me and is driving 20 miles to give me a prayer shawl. I feel so undeserving and blessed in the same breath.

Will this fear every subside? I need some peace.

Michelle

PS. Maggie, I'll be calling....I need a break from the last call....very emotional for me and I am so drained.

PSS. Susan, I'd like to hear more of what you were talking about but not if it's a horror story...I just can't take that right now. I need lots of positives....ask Hardi. I am struggling beyond words. He saw some of it today.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 03:30 PM

Finishing scanning and adjusting photos for work. The thing I discovered is that if I put even a long file name on the image, if I take them in to have prints made the system is set up to do a light printout of the name on the back of the print. Great! I have things to print for archival use and I'll be sure to name the file (on the computer) so I don't have to sit down and hand-write in the information once the print is made.

Overcast, finally looks like rain, though it was very bright this morning. I like the sunshine, but it gave me a headache (an aura, I think--if the sun is just right, and at a certain level, it can give me a migraine or a precursor). A short nap took care of it. Now what we need is moisture in the air. It has been way too dry for a couple of weeks now.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 03:36 PM

Spent the morning taking putting away ornaments, taking apart the tree & packing it away, then dusting the floor & putting the furniture back where it belongs. I must admit that all the decluttering of the past year or so made this much easier than in past years.

Michelle, I don't really have any words of wisdom, except to say that I'll keep you in my prayers.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 03:55 PM

The shawl is a positive. Wrap it around you and feel cocooned in blessed love. The fear will subside, probably, once you get there and are prepped for surgery. This will be partly from the meds, but also from sheer relief that you made it to that point. That's what I felt when I was finally going into the operating room after five months of waiting. It was time to get things over and done with!

The slow growth is another positive. See it stopped in its tracks. Tell it, "thanks, but no thanks, don't need you in my life any more!" Give thanks to your god that it is gone and you are home, healthy and happy.

Also, keep writing about it, your fears, feelings, etc. Let it all out. If you need to share it, fine, if you want it to be private, then do so, but keep writing, if oyu are able and it feels helpful. Don't hesitate to call the nurses, etc.

we are here with you,

kat

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 04:09 PM

Michelle, gotcha.

There is nothing in the story I mentioned that would be helpful this week, except what I posted. I can share more later.... It is not a horror story, but nothing that will be any use till after they do whatever they decide to do, and they won't know any of that till they're doing your surgery (as I am sure you must know).

BTW I (and I would hope others) will also be praying for the skill and compassion of your healthcare team, top to bottom of the chain of command and esp. anyone with whom you are in contact-- so you get the BEST possible experience. I mean the total experience, not just the medical part.

I agree, keep writing, but only as it fits into periodic breaks for joyful contemplations.


[humor and visioning alert] And regarding a link you may have gotten via PM yesterday from a Catter, with an image of hands encircling-- when I saw that I saw your cervix, full of light. :~) Keep yer knees together till surgery, so it don't blind anyone from being too bright! :~)

You go, girl, and again I repeat: YOU ARE DEFINITELY UP TO THIS CHALLENGE. See you soon.


Watch for the blessings,


~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maeve
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 04:45 PM

Michelle- The shock is normal. Your strength and hope will return to you. We are here.

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 04:56 PM

I'll be running a few errands, so try my cell phone first. It'll be in my pocket and I'll pull over if I'm driving.

The sun room is improving by fits and starts--it's just disorganized, so each time I pass through on my way to the kitchen I just replace something where it should go, or pick up something that really belongs somewhere else.

I have to go through all of my bills and decide which ones are coming from companies that are charging too much. And get new companies. It's about time!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 05:26 PM

GUEST Date: 13 Jan 10 - 04:09 PM was me, sorry.

I believe that Michelle plans to head for hospital-town tomorrow, so she may or may not see this thread before she gets back.

I know that continued prayers and good thoughts will be appreciated even in her absence.

Finally-- Michelle, I'll have an inspiring VHS for you to see while in home-recovery mode, OK?

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,wys-out
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 08:45 PM

Taken: 3-4 bags of mags, YAY! (FC OUT tmrw in a FourPlus-Cycle.).
Organized: binderful of printed projects that had been pending on the puder, YAY!
Found: New printer cartridge to return for credit, YAY!
Decluttered: Enough brain to sleep well later, YAY!
Activity: Major landbased "ate" my shoulder, so no pool, no problemo.
Calories: New nighttime meds have stopped midnight hunger-waking, so easily surpassed caloric goals. Have to see if a week of this is good or not good-- slow loss is plan.


Animaterra-- Had a GREAT start to the AM, very productive day on-task and on-goals, YAY!

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:11 PM

Michille, what Kat said about writing....

I didn't have a health problem myself, but my mother was deep in dementia and close to dying, and I found that my worst days were when I most needed to write. Something about getting my worst fears and anguish out onto the page, made it possible to give it up, so that I didn't hold it inside. I wrote some really horrible things (or they seemed so at the time), but it was the way I worked through things. Especially the things that I didn't want to tell friends and family.

Love and prayers,

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:16 PM

I'm here until tomorrow afternoon. I get to do fun things like bowel prep. EW. Late tomorrow afternoon we will travel to stay at a hotel near the hospital in case of bad weather...also, I don't have a time for my surgery yet....will find that out tomorrow...so if it's really early (which I am hoping for), we'll be right there.

I have NO idea how long I'll be in the hospital...initially, they said 3 days, so we'll see.

More later.

Love to you all.

Michelle

PS. Susan, you have a PM waiting for you when you do get a chance to sign in.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 09:27 PM

Michelle, I think you know I mean every word.

GO FOR IT! :~)

And to all of "Team Michelle"-- anyone supporting you here or in person or by any other means, shawls, etc.-- GO FOR IT!

:~) Tell 'em I said so if that is useful.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 13 Jan 10 - 11:24 PM

Michelle, we read on the "Curmudgeon fell and went to the hospital" thread that they had laptops with an Internet connection at the hospital where he was staying. Find out of the hospital where you're staying has something like that. (My daughter was hospitalized 3 years ago for a couple of days, and her friend loaned her a laptop. We were far enough up in the building that we were above the bulk of the building and could log onto a wireless network in another hospital next door). You won't feel like anything put pushing that little white button for the first 12-24 hours, but after that, you might find surfing the web to be a pleasant occupation between naps.

Oh, one thing I don't think I mentioned before--the first time you head to the bathroom, once the catheter is out, is pretty scary. Don't let it be. The sooner you're up, even if it is only to take a nurse's arm to walk to the loo, the better off you'll be. And nothing will fall out or break or rip, okay?

In the de-cluttering end of things, I have made headway in the sun room. Cleared off the three-window-wide window seat and scrubbed it down with Spic 'n Span. I've reclaimed several nearly dead African violets and repotted them to see if they'll make it. Tomorrow is trash day and there are several things headed out to the curb that I don't think can be refurbished or repaired, but they'd been parked in the sun room just to get them out of the rest of the house. Now they'll be completely out of the house.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 01:20 AM

I just retired from a "task" I "claimed" at on Mahalo--they have pages that make putting the task together difficult because you can't see if html is used, you can't save and proof it, and it is broken up into segments that aren't necessarily logical. And the pay stinks for the job. For now, I'll leave that to someone who is making a career of answering questions over there. You have three days to put the page together.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 02:49 AM

Ahh yes... the putting in and removal of catheter, not such a big deal. The filling of bladder and fear of relieving can be bad for some. Do as SRS says, get up, walk around as soon as possible. It gets pain sensors in brain accustomed to this new kind of pain and teaches you how to move with pain instead of against it.

Drink water too. Temptation to not drink because of fear of discomfort is dangerous. You don't need dehydration on top of everything else.

Michele - I am still here, still thinking of you. Package in post today should be there in about 5 business days. Just a bit of twinkly silliness.

hug hug hug

Susan when you can log on proper again, I also have PMd you.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 06:39 AM

Alright, I'm confused... 2 people, both not well, I can't tell them apart.... but what I said up there goes for BOTH of you....

Thinking of you both.

No decluttering today, but working on some patchwork blocks for next Christmas... might have them finished by 2012!

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 06:57 AM

Ok. I've been up since about 5am and to be totally honest I am filled with panic. I'm afraid of the surgery. I'm afraid they won't get all the cancer out and I'm afraid of the pain.

I feel so afraid.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Tinker
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 09:17 AM

Fear is an amazing imobilzer. And what ever horror we can imagine, we've probably heard tell, seen a move, book, article, that "verifies" it.

But... remember there are some little things you can control. Packing up your hospital bag with some "old favorite comfortables" that you can cuddle and remember. Include your prayer shawl and think of us wrapped around you. If you are feeling young and lost add a prayerbear to your bedside, they absorb feartears, and no one is too old for moments of needing reassurance.

Healing hands and hearts are with you.... each step each day is a move forward.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 11:01 AM

Michelle,

Remember all those times in the past when I worked with you to teach you "how" to put your focus where YOU want to put it? Because we can choose our viewpoint-- vantage point-- from which we look at things around us.

This is such an opportunity.

One approach-- You could talk to that cancer and give it HELL: Tell it the examples of wacky-joyous-victorious behavior you've seen in other people doing THEIR battles-- I know you have had (too many) role models. Take the BEST from all those examples and you can (when you are ready and able) follow the victory-side of those models. How they LIVED. (OK, so some of them died, but do not look THERE.)

You can choose to keep your attention there: how they LIVED.

It's not easy, I know-- think of all the times, tho, that you DID shift your attention to the positive.


As I recall, a powerful approach was, what are YOUR goals in that very nice life you and Pete have made for yourselves? What did you want to do with that, the week before you got the first scare on this? They can still be your goals. Point your eyes in that direction, when you are ready. It's all still right there.

Yes, you also need to give vent to the fear, but you do not need to "believe" it.

GO, GIRL.

~Susan

PS this is for Michelle only and is not a time-specific direction. It will kick in when she's ready for it.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 11:22 AM

When my mother went to the hospital for a large surgery (can't remember which one, she had several) there was a woman in the bed next to her who loaned her a teddy bear. "It helps to hug it tight if you have to cough," she said, and it really did. When Mom got out of the hospital she bought herself a good teddy bear about that same size and named it Betty, after the wonderful woman who loaned her the first bear. And in her will, she left that bear to my sister's best friend's cat, because the cat used to always curl up with that bear when my mom was cat-sitting.

Anyway, a bear like that for purely medical reasons, but also for comfort, would be a good idea. Maybe someone who loves you can give you the bear, and make it all the more significant for you. Do you have a checklist going? Add a bear to it, bonus points for a bear from a loved one, but you need to love yourself right now, so it's okay if you buy it.

Michelle, if you'd gotten through when you called (you still can) I was going to make the point that you need to take that incredible energy and drive that you have employed for a couple of years now in working toward the adoption process and apply it to yourself. You are adopting yourself right now, and all of that nurturing needs to be directed inward. You do need to relax (in your mind, not just with drugs--really--this is imporant!), and understand that the procedure they are proposing is the best approach. Abdominal surgery lets them see best and get everything they need to remove. It's the option I had to let my doctor have, so if he felt they needed more access during the surgery he had my permission. (Think about having them take the ovaries while they're at it, if they give you a choice--one less thing to go wrong later, IMHO).

Losing your uterus and ovaries is losing one of those "chakras" (sp?) you may focus on in yoga or various Eastern religions. There is something to be said for coming to peace with this process, and that did (for me, anyway) mean mourning the loss of a part of my life, that of having children. The cancer is a reaction to something going on in you, but by removing the cancer you do lose something, and it'll take time to think it through. You'll come out stronger in the end, and you'll look at your friends and loved ones differently, and realize what a gift every day is. I don't have a religion, and I don't believe in a god, but I can see this very clearly without the formality of religion.

For now, relax, pamper yourself, and call if you want to.

Maggie

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 12:57 PM

Thank you both Susan and Maggie...good things to think about. I'm doing better than I was this morning. I am taking a teddy bear that was given to me to snuggle with when I'm sick and I'm also taking the prayer shawl that was given to me this morning by someone who I'd only talked to on the phone once...yesterday. It was a very touching meeting and the prayer shawl was made by the woman who I met (although her church has a prayer shawl ministry) and it's one of my favorite colors...a dark olive/pine green. It's like it was meant just for me. Made me cry.

About losing part of me, I made peace with the fact that I can't have children a long time ago so losing my uterus is okay by me. Just get the cancer OUT. Take whatever they want...GET IT OUT! ALL OF IT!!!

Just finished the *fun* bowel prep and am getting my daily exercise RUNNING (no jogging for me...no siree) to the bathroom.

May still be able to call later Maggie....right now we are waiting to hear from the hospital about what time my surgery is tomorrow.

I love you guys....just so you know!

XOXOXOOX

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 01:19 PM

I have to be at the hospital at 6:00am, surgery begins at 7:30am....first one of the day.

By this time tomorrow the cancer will be OUT OF MY BODY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How is it possible to be relieved and frightened all at once?

I am TIRED.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 01:45 PM

First one of the day... very good... everyone in the operating room (theatre) should be fresh and focussed.

We love you too, dear and we are all still here.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 01:54 PM

Focus on the "relieved" portion of this, leave the fear behind. It's relief that will make the recovery much easier.

I remember I was scheduled for a mid-morning surgery, but my friend who took me to the hospital had to take me in really early before she went to work. Since I was there and someone else was late, they sent me in first. The hospital felt cold, and I felt cold, probably because of being empty and hungry, so it is all a bit surreal. That bear in your room will be a big help to bring it all back into focus, because hospital rooms are by definition cold impersonal places.

Good luck, if you don't write again before you head over!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 02:10 PM

Michelle, keep feeling those hands and hearts holding you. We're all keeping you close. I'm glad you have a bear to hug. If it helps, imagine lots of hugs from us, too.

Tinker, love the picture- where's its source?

WYS, great to see your progress, in the midst of your great heart reaching out.

Kat, good for you. Wash that hair, move that bod as much as you feel able to- and then savor how good it feels.

We have developed a helpful habit of having people over to dinner on just about a weekly basis, folks in the community we don't know well (or at least, not well enough to leave the house in its usual clutter!!). So, right now the living room is tidy, I can see the countertops in the kitchen, and the kitchen island and table are sparkling.

Today we had the central heating installed- as the winter began in this new house, we thought it would be enough to have a wood stove. It's true that the stove heats the whole house, but we've nearly gone through 3 cords of wood, and we haven't been able to get away overnight for fear of the pipes freezing, and we are aware that, although the wood stove isn't too bad now, at ages 50 and 65 respectively, now while we still have a building loan is the time to finance the furnace which we will likely rely on more as we age.

The biggest accomplishment that I'm working on, though, is "de-cluttering" the upcoming Animaterra season. I'm working on arranging 3 more songs, and I may write a new round (I keep hearing robins, chickadees, phoebes, chattering their spring songs in my head and trying to figure out how to render that musically!). From now until next week some time, the house, the "inbox", exercise, etc. are not at the top of the priority list as I wallow in this happy, creative place.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 02:38 PM

You do having one good thing to look forward to. When I had my hysterectomy, I remember the wonderful few seconds as the anaesthesia kicked in. A lovely dreamy stage. Pay attention, Michelle. It's the best part of the surgery. Honest!

Fear is normal; anger is normal. I would be worried if you weren't upset. I was warned that day three after the surgery can be a teary one. Probably because the worst of the drugs wear off. Also, sharing a room with a bunch of sick women wears thin. I did find myself weepy on day three...and demanding to go home on day four. They had planned on a 7-10 day stay.

This time tomorrow, the cancer will be gone. This time next week you will be home and healing.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Tinker
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 03:51 PM

Animaterra,the photo was taken at a meeting of our church healing ministry and I pulled it off the web site. It's one of the "grown up" things I share at church.

Michelle, I have to share the image this thread has given me of a very strong group of Mudcat women forcefully chasing the cancer away. Uninvited and unwanted.... go now... There may be a song in there somewhere....

Waiting through the night and into the morning light....

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 04:03 PM

I'll pull out a couple of my kids' really cute bears and leave them on the bed in solidarity. (My son was just under a year old when my sister sent a cute soft corduroy and pile bear for xmas. We were reading a book about bears, and made the noise "grrrr" for the bear. When I asked this boy what his bear was named, he told me "grrrr." So that was it--and my almost 18-year-old has a very well-loved corduroy bear named "grrrr" packed on a shelf in his closet.)

And we're still getting a little de-cluttering done in our houses, also. I made inroads into the clutter in my sun room this morning while I waited for my cup of tea to brew. Amazing how much cat hair can build up between boxes and bags that sit on the floor for a long time. The vacuum with the hose and skinny end is the best tool, and it's time for a new bag.

I've also printed out a few income tax forms. They didn't mail me stuff this year because I've been sending it in electronically, but I still like to go through the book and write it out and do the figuring first.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 04:22 PM

Our hospitals have blankets in warming units, so if you are cold they will get one out and put it over you. Of course, they can't do that in the operating room, but be sure to ask for more blankets if you get cold.

Sort of to the tune of WE Are A Rainbow Made of Children (but needs work!)

We're a circle
Made of women
We're a circle
Singing out proud

We are your strength
And, your comfort
Mudcat women surround
You with light and love

We bring you love
We bring you joy
We bring you healing
Mudcat women surround
You with Light and Love.

{{{{{{Michelle}}}}}}}

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 04:48 PM

Ok, now I'm going to cry. That is beautiful and I love the spirit it was written in.

Kat...you had mentioned starting a thread...and that's ok by me. My husband and I are leaving now to go to the hotel and he will have access to the internet SOME of the time. I'll ask him to check in here and give updates, k?

I feel surrounded with love and I can't tell you how much that helps.

Love to you all.

*Deep breath*

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 05:05 PM

Will do, Michelle. Thank you, darlin'.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 06:18 PM

A separate thread is a good idea--folks probably don't drop in on our de-clutter threads that often for fear of raising a dust when they open the door. ;-D

I see quite a few responses over there already. The Mudcat clan is closing ranks. . .

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 06:21 PM

"the image this thread has given me of a very strong group of Mudcat women forcefully chasing the cancer away...." I'm ready with a big stick!

Bought a squishy camel today, going to call him Camely Faithful... He'll get a few extra squishes later, just for you Michelle...

In the meantime, decluttered my bank account again, but it means we got a better sized airer and a new lamp that means I'll have space on the table and we won't get aircraft trying to land in our front room so often (it's a very VERY bright ceiling light - the uplighter I bought is a lot more subtle and uses some bulbs we've had lurking around for a decade).

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 07:11 PM

What is the American English for "airer"?

Took a look at my VISA bill this evening. Better get going with eBay. Move some of this stuff out and convert it to cash.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 07:14 PM

Airing cupboard?

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 09:24 PM

Over on Michelle's thread I posted a photo of the bear I got out to "bear witness" so to speak. :)

I de-cluttered the small camera, made a backup of the entire disk and added some more files from the computer to fill up the CD. I don't do this often enough.

Rearranging some shelves in my office, and going back and forth to the sun room for more organizing. This morning I missed putting my trash out before the trash guys came by, but they have this odd pattern where they turn left up the street that meets my street right after my house. They hadn't picked up trash next door yet, they get that after they comt back down the hill. So I carried that ugly lamp (cheap from Home Depot or Lowes) and the kitchen trash over and left it next door. And I put her paper inside her front stoop while I was at it--she emailed to ask if it was me--said that was the nicest surprise she has had in a long time. I think I need to invite her over more often. She clearly needs to get out!

I think we'll all kind of worry about Michelle over the next day or two. Even though she'll be fine, to paraphrase the song, "waking up is hard to do" after major surgery.

Susan, do you think her spouse would log on and give us a thumbs up? I don't know if you are able to, what with the pastoral relationship and all, but I hope someone will let us know she's doing okay. Or if you could PM me a phone number for her hospital and room (and, uh, her last name--seems silly we've been talking all of this time and still don't have some of those particulars!) and I'll call.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 14 Jan 10 - 10:05 PM

SRS, I think it will be OK with LF and fam if I pass along some word if and when we get it here, but she may get herself online first or hubby may beat her to it-- I have no idea what arrangements she made about that and I would bet that foremost on her mind would have been critter-care at home. So if I get any word I will pass some part of it on, but altho Hardi has her cell number I can't that out. I'll ask him to ask her, if she calls, herself, here, OK?

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: JennieG
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 07:09 AM

I don't remember much about my hysterectomy 15 years ago.....but I do remember the next day I was just drifting and floating. It closed a door on part of my life and I have to confess - beforehand I thought I might be a but upset and teary, but I wasn't. I was just relieved to have a problem, which would have become worse with time, sorted.

On a de-cluttering note, the cleaning out is proceeding...more things are being donated to the charity shop. And this week we had an agent come to look at the house. After talking for several years about moving out of the city after we retired, the time is getting closer. It's both scary and exciting at the same time.

Cheers
JennieG

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,LTS pretending to work
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 07:29 AM

Airer - a racj for hanging llaundry on to dry - used to call them clothes horses once upon a time.... This one is a whole racing stable!

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,LTS still pretending...
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 07:58 AM

200!!

YAY!!! my first one this year...

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 07:59 AM

Woke up visualizing Michelle as she got ready for surgery; presumeably she's "under" right now. May the doctors and support staff be at their best this morning, and may Michelle feel only comfort and relief when it's over!


I worked so hard on my upcoming season yesterday that my eyes were burning from computer time (I use Sibelius First to arrange the music).
So we're running away on a field trip today to look at recorders and flutes!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 10:22 AM

Michelle is in a good place right now. Lovely drug induced dreams...

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 11:29 AM

For the first day or so that white button will be her friend.

I took the day off today, and I've been crunching numbers of college deposits, test fees, etc. And I need to do taxes. This is all more in the college application (financial aid forms) process.

The VISA card bill was very unpleasant this month, so I must work to cut that down quickly (the holidays come back to bite you, don't they?)

It can all kind of pile up on you, all of this stuff. These threads continue to be a good place to vent. :)

JennieG, how much might be involved in moving at retirement? Moving to a similar sized house, or downsizing? Will you be equipping a new house differently (more gardening, or with space for camping gear, or a house on water with a dock, or perhaps a large room for musical gatherings,etc.?) What are your retirement plans?

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 11:31 AM

Keeping Michelle in our thoughts.


I've signed up to run in the Race for Life again this year at London's Hyde Park on 18th July to raise money for Cancer Research. I hoping to beat my time of 28 minutes from last year and raise as much money as possible for a worthy cause.....not to mention keep fit!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 11:44 AM

Please post any comments and/or updates about Michelle in her NEW THREAD. Thank you.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 11:50 AM

Good for you, Khatt! I need to get out and walk the dogs to get myself back into an exercise routine. This cold weather plays havoc with my eyes--they water up a lot in cold air, so I don't go out so much. The dogs are always healthy, outside and running around the yard, but I need to go run around the neighborhood.

I'm going to clear out my dresser of some of the things that I've kept in there for when I lose 20 pounds. I've realized lately that even if I do lose weight, chances are I won't be wearing these garments anyway. Might as well toss them. What seemed like a good idea 10 years ago just looks uncomfortable now--know what I mean? ;-D

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 12:39 PM

I forgot to post - lost six pounds last week with minimal change in habits. Those Mr. Bagel breakfast sandwiches are a calorie black hole.
M

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 01:50 PM

Whilke keeping an ear on the phone-- we decluttered some stuff on Day-Off time but at a pace that allows it to really BE Hardi's day off.

Included thus far substantial LR stuff in rug-laying prep (the parts that take two brains) and a rug for the attic (takes one brain but four hands).

Animaterra-- Sure glad I started the day "right" again. That's several days on the new habit now, and I even found time to get the pool bag ready for Monday and prep to feed both diabetic Hardi right, and me too. Pulling abscessy teeth-- but it feels so good after? :~)

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: funerals, days off
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 03:10 PM

Still no incoming calls here regarding Michelle, but Hardi did just issue an outgoing cell call letting Bonnie (her mom) know that Michelle and she are still in "our" prayers (which Michelle and perhaps Bonnie will understand includes all of her MudBuds), and inviting a callback when she is ready to let "us" know anything. (They know Friday is technically a day off and they may be holding calls for that reason.)

For Animaterra-- this is typical of how a day off is never really a day off unless we fall off the planet for 3 or more weeks.

It's also typical of funeral pastoral care-- because Michelle's surgery is, for us, squeezed in between two funerals this week and the beyond-funeral "work" time I have written about in the past at Mudcat (see "funeral" as a subject line in an individual post); one of the funerals being a good friend of ours tomorrow where Hardi will also have a liturgical role and I a pastoral care role, and the other one he conducted (and I co-pastored the peeps).

On top of that affecting HIS day off, MY "day off" includes wifing his diabetic care and all the co-pastoring related to Michelle's surgery (hello!) at Mudcat and IRL, much of which is "invisible."

My guideline for how we are doing (effectiveness vs burnout) is that people know who to call. They call, here in this culture, only people they know are actually up to a task. And our phone is still ringing more than we would like it to, because so few of the calls are friends or fun. Fulfilling-- but not fun. Nice people-- but not friends.

Fun and friends is time I am working on increasing during my "slowdown." (THIS IS SLOWDOWN, believe it or not.)

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 03:11 PM

PS here comes that man with that rug. Gotta lock up dogs and cats to open the door..... PMs.... can wait!

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 03:52 PM

I'm finding it easy, for now, to stick to my points. Sins! Six pounds! That's great, but really fast!

I've done all of the laundry in the past two days so I won't have to do any this weekend! And, Rog put away the clean dishes and there are only a few waiting to be washed which I will do tomorrow. I hope one or both of us will get to the frig...its innards need to be seriously cleaned!

I've also done some more ironing of the linen which came out of the closet. Found two lovely 100% silk scarves which I think I may put on ebay.

Trying to move about more. There is a new study from Australia which says when we sit too long in one position, i.e. when watching tv or at the computer, we raise our percentages of dying sooner from cardiovascular and/or cancer than if we get up and move about every twenty minutes. Thankfully, due to meds and drinking so much water, I am up about every 30-45 minutes. They said it doesn't have to be hard exercise, but just moving around, though they do stress exercise, too. Even people who do exercise regularly, though, are as vulnerable IF they sit for too long.

You may read a little bit about it atScience Friday on npr. There are links for more info there and I think the audio program will be available later.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 04:46 PM

Shocked me, kat. We have a Biggest Loser contest going at work. We all weighed in for a new and very tiny new employee who was told it was worth her life if she ever disclosed my weight.
The winner goes by percentage loss not number of pounds. I really did make some minimal changes - healthy breakfast vs greasy sandwich, protion controlled lunch and main meal. Fruit whenever I want it. And lots of water with a two glass limit on wine if I have it.
I suspect the water and reduction in salt intake caused the fast weight loss. Next weigh in is Monday.
I refuse to "diet". It never lasts and I binge when I give up so that i end up gaining weight. I am eating everything I like just in smaller portions. Now if i could only get moving a bit more.

Subject: days "off" for clergy spouses
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 04:48 PM

The prep for the rug is now almost done, the floor is bared and the dust/flea eggs are vacuumed. Quite the dance to keep moving each thing to get at each area.... and the newer rug is actually within the house-- no mean feat for Hardi's musskles, as it weighs a ton, but now the van is again Ready for Travel (which must occur Wednesday).

I have not yet re-wrecked my shoulder (we may be able to put stuff back today and the shoulder may actually not flare up again); we have even remembered to "feed" every several hours as his program requires (it's easier just to mirror it, for me, on days like this).

So far neither of us wishes to kill the other, nor to involve any other helpers who do not speak our shorthand-- that was a :~) fun meeting!-- so that's a huge plus.

The right items have been set aside as the "lower priorities" and it turns out we even still have the same priorities (I wasn't sure!).

The dog (F) has even enjoyed learning how to tolerate the Scary Vacuum Cleaner Coming Close, and volunteered to really relax at least twice instead of Merely Tolerate.

So far the Homicidal Outdoor Cat has not come in, nor have the Timid Indoor Kittehs snuck out to be chased by Homicidal Cat-- chased permanently off-property into the too-nearby road, the gas co. drilling, the feral-coyote field, or the Farthest Barn (which contains plenteous cat poison).


It can't be going this well. Nope-- it ain't, or I'd be working, not posting. The emerg. phone has rung-- but it's not Michelle, just a "day off" "personal-work" stoppage to tend something else. Hardi's off dealing with it privately, so I dunno what it is or what I may be yanked away to help with, next.

I see that it's time to "feed" again, so a quick stop in the laundry room and then Hardi's next snack to fix! FUNFUNFUN! :~(

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 04:54 PM

That was portion controlled lunches

Leaving for home in a minute. It is in the 40s here - summer. Maybe I will take Seamus for a walk and start exercising a bit.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 05:09 PM

Yay, Mary!! Keep up the good work!

WYS, ain't it great how our "daily exercises" keep us feeling good all day?

Katt-me-luv, I've been sedentary for the past 3 days. Your words are getting me back into groove- tomorrow, for sure (it's dark and icy here, tonight!).

Stilly, that's a good "de-clutter", and one that I haven't faced up to, yet. I've actually gone up 2 sizes since I got married (wasn't there just a report on marriage being healthy for men and unhealthy for women? Physically, it's true for me, though not mentally, emotionally, spiritually, or psychologically, so it balances, I guess!)

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: JennieG
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 05:42 PM

Well done, Mary!

Kat, those medical findings were on every news bulletin and in every paper, both on-line and print, the day they came out. I read it while I was sitting at the computer *grin* But yes, I need to get out and walk more. We've been having some evening thunderstorms here and while I don't mind walking in rain (so long as it's not pouring) I draw the line at being out and about in thunder and lightning.

Maggie, much as we would love to move to a little bush block out of town we know at our age that it's not practical - we've left it too long. Himself has a few health issues so being in town will be better for us than being 45 mins drive out of town. We live in Sydney which is a big city (by Ozzie standards - probably not very big by world standards) with its associated big city problems, and we plan to move inland to a town of about 42,000 people, 5-6 hours drive north west of here. It's the town where I was born and lived until I was 23YO, my family moved to the district in the 1870s and have been there ever since. While my head tells me that downsizing is practical one thing I want is a big sewing room, the one I currently have is quite large. I spend a lot of time in it sewing, or reading, my guitars are there (and I am starting to play again - yay!) - it's my refuge for when Himself is watching interminable sport in our one and only TV.

Cheers
JennieG

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 05:46 PM

too utterly exhausted to give due attention to the posts and comment properly and fairly.

will try to tomorrow when I am recovered from this past week.

good night all.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 05:55 PM

Sounds like VT is still trying to shake the crud. It took me about three weeks after that December cold was finally gone to really feel like myself again.

I pulled everything out of one dresser drawer so far and sorted, refolded, and replaced about 2/3 of it. The rest is past it's prime (shot elastic) or a style that I know tends to creep (self-inflicted wedgy) or is a style that I didn't quite care for or have prounounced as no longer suitable. I also found a sock that had gone missing but is now happily reunited with its mate. I'll do another drawer later. This is a small thing, but it did fill a smallish trash can and I didn't realize all that I had in there, including several new garments with tags.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 15 Jan 10 - 06:45 PM

Well, this won't do much toward de-cluttering, but I finally started on selecting an individual health insurance policy. I still have 3 months of coverage under COBRA, but I need to get price/coverage quotes and made a selection. I met with one agent already, and I'm exchanging emails with another. I want to try and have this wrapped up by the end of the month.

Made chocolate chip cookies to take to the music session tomorrow. Keeping my fingers crossed that we get a good turn-out. We're trying a new time/location.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 01:35 AM

Maryanne, I have some comparison shopping to do this month for home/car insurance and my electric company. No fun, is it?

The kitchen is cleaned up, laundry in the living room folded. I cleared a bunch of papers off of my computer desk and have filed them in their various folders as I get ready to do taxes this weekend. The accordion file folder for my 2010 paperwork is set up and ready to start catching receipts and statements.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 08:56 AM

I'm still trying to find a permanent spot for the holiday decorations. The basement is too damp and the attic is too hard to get into. For now, they're in the guest bedroom, but that's not a solution for the long term.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 09:07 AM

Do what I do in my dining room... leave 'em up all year! I never get tired of them and they're not obvious, many people don't even see them (decorated green garlands along the top of the wall of a green room) until I switch their lights on.

I have declared today to be 'slob around in your jammies day' so have done practically nothing. It's bliss!

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 01:46 PM

Took the Boy for a long walk. Then brushed him for about an hour with breaks for snowball chasing. Then another walk around the yard. He is asleep on the couch and I need a nap. LOL

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 02:38 PM

My old cat has declared this "let's knock another slat out of the edge of the miniblinds day" and it looks like shit. But if I replace it with a metal blind he'll just crease those. I don't like to leave the blind open when it's dark out, leaving my computer equipment visible from the front of the house, but if it is closed, he protests or climbs through. I did build a window seat for him there, so I guess it is my own fault. Maybe I need to put up a rod and curtains.

Vegetable soup stock is simmering. I have a couple of sewing and mending projects that I'll do this evening, probably moving the machine into the living room so I can sew and watch television (listen, mostly, treating it more like radio). And each time I pass through the sun room I try to make some small improvement, that will lead up to being able to put the leaves in the table in there and have a large eBay work space.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 05:07 PM

Can I have a rain-check on 'slob around in your jammies day'? Monday will be better for me. Just got back from our afternoon music session at the museum. We (there were 6 of us) played in the old church building, and the sound was great. We'll be doing it again next month, and I expect we'll have more musicians.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 05:21 PM

Slob in your jammies day was a great success - I didn't get dressed til 6.30pm, and then only because we'd agreed to go to the cinema (Sherlock Holmes - jolly piece of action but don't get me started on conspiracy theories and historical inaccuracies). Am home again now and about to change back into jammies after hair washing...

For a slob day, Limpit and I actually got a lot of stuff cleared up... small steps, but useful ones.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 16 Jan 10 - 05:51 PM

We were going to stay home this morning and move the scanner and sweep down cobwebs. Instead we got Rog a haircut and me some new pj bottoms and socks, plus a shirt.

We came home, had late lunch when Morgan called to ask if he could come over. Of course, I said yes, then I gave him the broom with a tea towel wrapped around it and showed him how to sweep down cobwebs. He thought that was really fun for awhile. He's just gone home, Rog is at the store, and I am getting a quick nap before my brother comes over to watch #4-6 installments of BBC's To Serve Them All My Days. It's been really good!

Tomorrow we will do the cleaning we meant to, today.:-)

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 02:00 AM

Is that the series with John Duttine? I remember enjoying that one very much. Kind of like Mr. Chips, the dedicated schoolmaster.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 06:22 AM

Sigh! Don't really have cold symptoms per se (except maybe my left eye - the eyeball is very sore). Just so damned tired and the joints all achey. I wake too many times per night to unknot my body.

Yesterday was a total waste of sitting on sofa in jammies playing puder game.

Today will do laundry and ironing. Have already restrung my guitar, but don't know if it is taking. Never been very successful at that task. I may make a fairy or 2.

This afternoon will make double rice a roni kind of dish so we can have tonight and next week.

Tired just thinking about today's activities.

But HEY! We have real honest to god sunshine today. I think it has been a couple of weeks since last seen.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 07:48 AM

The Animaterra Spring season is slowly sliding in to the finish line... I'm now at the point (similar to Christmas shopping after the Solstice) where I think- I could probly use just one more song... or is it time to say, enough!


Meanwhile the house is suffering, and the DH is showing signs of neglect. So I took him to a lovely violin recital of an amazing 17 year old lat yesterday afternoon, where we heard music played at a level exceeding many masters' students.

More musical slogging this morning, then to hear Lorraine and Bennett Hammond while we await the next storm!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 09:30 AM

an hours spinning class this morning. Yesterday was spent walking around our local shapping centre/mall. Normally I can't think of anything worse to do on a saturday but the kids were so well behaved and my friend and I had a successful shopping trip. I bought my first size 14 (uk) dress since I was 18 years old and it felt great! So far in just over a year I have gone from a size 22/24 (UK) to a size 14. Hurrah!! The exercise classes are fantastic and the support from Paul is wonderful.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 10:57 AM

Plans for the evening went out the window with a couple of long, late phone calls. Passed along info that needed passing, and now I need to pick up the pace on the income taxes again. It's a gorgeous sunny day out, so I'll make a point of taking the dogs for a long walk in the warmest part of the day. Not only to be warm, but to let that warm sunshine hit the forehead. That seems to be one of those "antiSAD" kinds of remedies (we have had a lot of very cold and heavy overcast days this winter).

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 12:22 PM

Yes, SRS, John Duttine is the main character, "Powlett-Jones."

I had no sleep last night, so no idea of what may get done or not, today.

Subject: clergy spouses and closets
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 02:24 PM

(Mostly for Animaterra)

On short sleep, short Sunday-gig-prep time, and short post-gig rest time, I stopped briefly at home for doggie tending on the way to the next commitment, to find Faulkner has begun leaving those "aging dog" gifts none of us likes to find.... sigh.... and we just got that new rug laid yesterday, but it's already time to start prepping Hardi to say goodbye to his dog. Not tomorrow, but it's Hardi's first dog and for this deep-channel man, the prep time will need to go very, very slow. Oh dear. OUR dog. I do not know if I am up to THAT.

At church we learned that not only will we be going to see Mudcatter Michelle, tomorrow, but two MORE equally-dear ones (members of our parish). The 2 hospitals for these 3 people are all hours apart.... I'll have to choose betwen time with my man and time in the pool.... I do not know if I am up to THAT, either...... he does need a driver....

But! A triumph of sorts! I see that my super-closet evinces NOT hoarding as I sometimes fear, but "just enough" stuff to keep up with all this. I actually found something clean and almost-appropriate to throw on that's all-cotton, and comfy!

I had a good laugh ydy with another fellow clergy-spouse I sat with at that funeral-- we swapped closet and homecare horror stories. She's only been part of this ordained lifestyle a few years..... we were about neck-and-neck on tips to share, though. We also had in common other past, professional roles heading large orgs., and we laughed and laughed about how our former colleagues could not at all relate to our present inability to "host" folks in our homes, the way they are now mere launching pads of disorder more than "destination" spots. If only we could find tourists who would love to tour the clergy lifestyle in their spare time (and pay to see the real thing), now, we'd have it made. Or maid-- some of the better-paid clergy actually can afford weekly "cleaning ladies," while the rest of us ARE someone else's weekly cleaning lady, LOL.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 03:17 PM

Got caught up on the laundry. The rest of the morning wasted by "window shopping" on ebay and a few other sites. Now it's off to the pub quiz.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: gnu
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 03:29 PM

I put on a brand new pair of pants today... that I bought in 1999. >:-)

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 03:53 PM

Gnu, there is certainly a story behind that!

Tax forms are all printed, instructions downloaded into a file. The kitchen table is looking better and before I formally sit down, pencil, pad of paper, and calculator in hand, I'll wipe it down to clear off any maple syrup drips from the spot where my son eats. I want to stick to the job, but not literally.

Since it is such a beautiful warm day, I puttered in the garden for a little while with a few hand tools. I cleared out an area where I'll add some compost and soil amendments soon, I planted the rest of the garlic I meant to plant last month, and I cut down a small desert willow that is in a poor location (now that I want to have a vegetable garden there) and that never showed much sign of thriving. I think it was planted too deep (before I knew that that really stunts a tree) and the roots may be girdled. If I dug it up and transplanted it elsewhere the chance of success is at best 50/50, it's a lot of work for that limited return, and if I bought a new tree for $15 in a 1 gallon pot and planted it correctly it would probably grow larger faster than this transplanted tree. It's now in sticks down at the curb for the trash.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: gnu
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 04:11 PM

I don't post often to this thread, but, from my heaviest, I have lost over 60 pounds. At a rate of none to one to three per week since April, as it seems you are supposed to do.

Now, if I could give up not exercising, beer and smokes, I moght get healthy.

I did switch back to lite beer a couple of weeks ago as it is now on sale. I am thrifty too.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 04:55 PM

If you were to quit smoking and having lost the weight you'd be in great peril of having some smart, good-looking woman notice you. Better be careful.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maeve
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 07:44 PM

TL and I say, "Well done, gnu."
Well done the rest of you as well. I'm rooting for you.

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: ragdall
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 07:52 PM

Well done, gnu.

I think that I've found some of the weight that you lost and would be happy to ship it back to you.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 08:22 PM

I've had time the last few days only to skim the highlights of all the posts, but from that skim-job no one seems to have gotten stuck in SAD and is moving forward, fast or slow not mattering. What matters is not how often one stops-- to rest, rethink, backslide, or whatever-- but how often one RESTARTS. And this thread seems full of re-starters and go-getters.

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 08:40 PM

We ended the quiz in 4th place. The were a lot of questions we just didn't have answers to. I came up with a few, but if the topic is cable TV shows, I'm no use at all. But the folks on the 1st place team are out pals, so we're fine with the results.

M

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 10:45 PM

Wys --- our rectory is currently occupied by two rectors only one of whom serves in the "home" congregation. They are my de-clutter heros. (Of course they moved into a huge house from a Manhattan studio.)
They decided to leave the first floor for entertaining and live on the upper two floors. I keep hoping some of their "scarcity" will rub off on me...

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Tinker
Date: 17 Jan 10 - 11:27 PM

Whoops that last post was me sans cookie....

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 03:49 AM

I dug out the receipts, but it didn't do me any good. We needed to be about $600 sicker to get a benefit from the tax man. And now I've hit the wall of the state sales tax table. Time to go to bed. I hoped a marathon session would knock these taxes out, but they have instead knocked me out.

Laundry is getting done gradually. The kitchen is a mess.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 04:06 AM

Attempting to digitise some more LPs today... if the memory lasts out and I remember how to work the thing!

Otherwise, pottering with clearing out fabric drawers, amalgamating several sewing crates into one big 'do this' pile.... I'm brilliant at starting stuff, never get to finish it though....

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 10:21 AM

Tink, could it be that they've just not been there long enough to get a good clut-up going? :~) Maybe the clut-up will be (perhaps already IS!) on the upper floors?

The marathon week/month/year continues here but I did manage to run the essentials thru the laundry machines and even got them folded and basketed... cuz it ain't a naked marathon....

We think we have discovered the cause of the doggies' upset tummies and dealt with that....

Got an item writ for the parish's annual meeting, and submitted on time....

Oh yes, and I didn't make it to the pool in time (sleep needed caught up), but I do have pool guest passes waiting for me at the far end of the loop so I hope to get at least SOME pool time in regardless of routing!

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 10:48 AM

Where my post at? I posted a long one, encouraging y'all and contemplating the world from my couch, where I'm sitting and nursing a cold that threatens but will not vanquish me!

...wonder if the post is floating around on some other thread. Yeesh.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 01:37 PM

Posts have been disappearing a lot lately. I routinely write then select and copy to keep it on my clipboard when I hit send. Sometimes I have to open another browser window and navigate back to paste it in to post.

The kitchen is cleaned up again. It's a lovely day, and I went out and pulled some of the clothes pins off of the lines. I should have done that in November and forgot. The lines are 2 years old, and that long out in the sun is more than enough to break down nylon and plastic, so they will be replaced on general principals.

I have this really cranky old cat who is really noisy when he starts howling. He does it all hours, and has no sense of decorum as far as howling at you at, say 3am. Last night I thought if I picked him up for a close cuddle he'd shut up, but when I set him on the sheet he let out a watery cat fart that was by far the worst one I have ever smelled IN MY LIFE. And it wouldn't dissipate, it just seemed to get worse. I had to scramble out of bed, pull off the blankets, change the sheets, change my PJs just in case, and then I kicked his butt out of the room. Geez. I seem to have been paid back by the god of the annoyed cat an hour or two later when I awoke with the single worst cramp in my calf that I ever remember feeling. I literally writhed on the bed until I could get to the right angle to finally force my foot flat, and shift out of bed to put my foot on the floor. It still hurts now, like a bruise in the muscle.

What a night!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 02:04 PM

Maggie, you might want to get your calcium, magnesium, potassium, and Vitamin D levels checked. Low levels of any of those can cause that kind of cramp. I went through that last summer when my electrolytes got so messed up. One would come on with no warning and I'd have to ride it out until the circulation got sorted. VERY painful! I take magnesium and calcium and haven't had any more problems.

Taking baby steps here. I've had a bug since Sat. or something I ate didn't agree, so not much exercise, plus I haven't been mentally "there" to be motivated. But, this morning I at least did about 12 minutes of qi gong AND washed my hair...so some tiny progress. Oh, and I did walk about 45 minutes with a few stops whilst shopping. I count that because I try to walk at a fast pace between stops.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 02:32 PM

i hate those nasty night time leg cramps.   i could tell early in evening when i would have bad leg cramps and took steps. eat a banana, sometime ate cornflake with milk and banana. and did series of achilles tendon stretches and iced my calves.

my eye is still messed up. can you bruise your eyeball from rubbing too much? guess the Sjögren's syndrome is getting worse. everything drying up. turning into prune woman.


decluttering at work so much that I go no declutter nergy left over for home.

new year = destroying 17 big fat binders full of enquires/replies from 3 years ago to make room for the new enquiries coming in. in order to save the shredder, I tear the confidential stuff out to be shredded and the rest goes to recycling.

spent 3+ hours today and only got through about 1 binder full of it. arrggghhh!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 03:02 PM

Been supposedly sorting through the fabric drawer, but it's a bigger task than I thought... it's amazing how that stuff squishes down.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 03:11 PM

Poor kitty. He may need to see a vet. I love changing the sheets in the middle of the night.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 03:17 PM

Liz, you're right. One of the heaviest things around, even more than a box of books, is a tightly packed box of fabric.

The cat is old, and he's due for a checkup. He's happily asleep in the office cat window seat right now.

I think with the cold weather that I haven't been drinking as much liquid as I need to, I have been aware for the last couple of days that I must be a little dehydrated. I did take a big drink of water at bedtime last night, but that wasn't enough.

Back to my taxing work.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 07:45 PM

Started a walk with the dogs, but about two blocks out I spied two dogs running free, one a large blond lab. I have been charged by loose dogs out walking my two--it's never a good thing. We turned immediately and headed back. All I can say is, I'm grateful for the curve of the earth. As short as they are (a little above my knees) if I spot a dog off-leash just as I climb over the top of the hill, my dogs aren't in view yet, and I can turn around.

Chicken thawing for dinner later, bread baked, fridge cleaned out and trash emptied. Now to finish the darned taxes!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 18 Jan 10 - 08:20 PM

I'm home from the hospital....sore, in pain but very happy to be home. More tomorrow. I need sleep.

Love to you all.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 12:19 AM

Michelle wins the de-clutter prize this month, but she sure chose a heckuva tough way to go about it.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 03:17 AM

Glad you are home Michelle (((gentle hugs)))

Circuit training last night. It is getting easier and I was able to push myself last night. I suppose it helps that I enjoy it too!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 03:55 AM

I stayed up late (!) but I finally finished the taxes. Next, file FAFSA. It's a race for the student financial aid.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,wys-out
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 10:09 AM

Animaterra,

What do you think happened when I followed the prescribed morning exercises? They made me want to do MORE, LOL, so I am adding bedtime exercises as well! And just as an inner voice has been reminding, prompting, reassuring for some time, I already have (had) everything I need. "I already gave you everything you need."

How is that decluttering-- the items needed to add thiose exercises are right in my house, but I have to find and fetch them, and along the way there will surely be other items to put in order, clear up, discard, etc. And, :~) I look forward to that!

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 11:27 AM

Susan, I find that things like exercise or a shower right before bed tend to wake me up again. The latest I can manage a concerted exercise plan (not counting the usually seasonal evening gardening stuff as "exercise") is a walk after dinner, or exercise mid-evening, maybe while watching a prime-time program. Are you sure exercise at bedtime is going to let you get to sleep as early as you want?

I didn't get as much done this weekend as I'd hoped. Ancient history came back for a quick reminder of extended family issues, though a lot of good came out of the conversations held on several fronts. It is an eye-opener to see how your nervous system steps up to bat when the cortisol or whatever pumps. I was under this kind of pressure for 2 years back in the late 1990s, and the only reason I mention this here is because I am still firmly convinced it was a major factor in my cancer. I've set aside that toxic relationship, and have been healthier for it.

The weekend ended on a great up note. Moonglow and her boyfriend came for dinner. Since I had two more mouths than I had originally planned for when defrosting chicken breasts, I made a pan of rice, pulled medium-sized cooked shrimp from the freezer, chopped up my remaining carrots, celery, and green onions (I really did de-clutter the veggie bin!) and made fried rice. It works well here, because picky eaters can leave the bits they don't want in the pan or offer it to others at the table. We might embarrass ourselves eating like this in public, but it works here. Son doesn't like shrimp, tossed them to his sister's plate. . . I wasn't quite finished at the stove when the rice was ready so I mixed the Dutch Baby batter for dessert (and made strawberry syrup to go over it) while the kids ate and talked and laughed amongst themselves. Ex came over to deliver some stuff to Moonglow and we all sat around talking and laughing. This needs to be the focus, not the ancient history.

Time to get to work!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 11:40 AM

SRS-- spiritual "exercises," thanks. (Post was directed to Animaterra, who knows what I mean.)

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 12:52 PM

Cleared out a lot of papers from the tv tray beside my DR office area, plus went through all of the stuff on my desk. It looks a lot better.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 12:57 PM

I put away all the stuff from the hospital and cleared the tables around my chair, organized them so just about anything I need is within my own reach so I don't have to keep asking for stuff. Had a small breakfast and am now off to take a short nap. Home health people are coming in half an hour or so just to check vitals and check out my staples to make sure there isn't any oozing.

Sleepy sleepy.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,WYS-out
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 01:16 PM

Ah, Home Health in these parts, now THAT I know a fair bit about.

Be SURE you are not so "functional" that you get "discharged" from their visits any earlier than is absolutely necessary to YOUR way of thinking. You might feel "great" one moment while they are there and then find yourself sorely wishing they were scheduled to come back, the next-- but in the meantime, they can "discharge" you on a whim, no matter how great your benefits are. Really-- keep them please, as long as you possibly can.

When they visit-- remember, you are the patient, not a very, very nice lady with great manners far above what they usually see hereabouts. Patients get to be puny, crabby, weepy-- whatever you feel that is real, which will then become their guide to how long you need their services. OK? Don't "try" anything "too hard."

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 01:50 PM

Wow, Michelle. When I had my surgery they wouldn't let me go home until the staples came out.
It sounds as if you are doing quite a bit. Take it easy. It's OK to be taken care of for a while.
TV and bon bons.
Welcome home!

Saw my GP this morning and she has recommended an exercise program. We'll see.
Mary

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 02:05 PM

I concur--don't overdo. Lifting and abdominal surgery simply DON'T go together. Same with nudging and tugging.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 02:32 PM

Michelle, what WYSy said- let them nurture you for as long as you can!

Kat, you're doing really well! Keep at it, my dear!

Maggie, I used to do morning and evening physical exercises, and had to make sure that the PM ones were more yoga-ish, with deep stretches, deep breathing, relaxation being the goal so I could sleep. Then up in the AM for crunches, more cardio-awakening moves.

WYS-et-all, I need to establish a better discipline for BOTH physical and spiritual exercises, but here I am, second year into retirement, still figuring out how to
~practice my instruments
~prepare for my chorus(es - I got talked into starting a kids group!)
~nourish my soul
~exercise my body
~feed my mind
~tend (de-clutter) my house (and garden, come the warmer months)
~enjoy my husband

It's still pretty much piece-meal, but I think that, other than not moving the bod as much as I could/should, I'm managing pretty ok!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,wys-out
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 02:36 PM

Animaterra, I hear you. On that last one-- I am a little ahead of you perhaps, if you want any tips on how we juggle time just PM. By next week I might even see it! :~)

VT-- did you say upthread that I should look for a PM from you? Didn't see it last time I nipped in to cookie-up.

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 02:43 PM

Lovely to know Michelle is home safe and almost sound. Take it very easy sweetie.

Not doing much of anything at home.   Last night was very bad and scary.   3 in the morning palpitations and mild chest pain and some breathlessness.   Horrible unwell feeling lasted through most of today.

Can panic wake you from a dead sleep? I really think it may have been the 2 chocolate biscuits I had about an hour before bed.

Gonna be extra careful with salt, sugar and caffeine intake for bit.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 02:55 PM

That's scary. Panic attacks can wake you and if that's what it was, you need to get some help. My first suggestion would be no caffeine. But honest, if it happens again, day or night, talk to your doctor. Panic attacks can occur in odd places and times and cause you all sorts of difficulties.
Plus they are just not fun.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 02:56 PM

Have you spoken with your physician about this, VT? Keep a food diary to assist diagnosis, in case is it food related, but call your doctor.

Overcast but warm out. I don't have time for garden stuff today, but I need to take the lights out of some bushes out front.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 03:48 PM

They did the heart tests last year... inconclusive.

The GP says I must have acid reflux. I know I don't cuz I know what acid reflux feels like. I don't feel particularly stressed or panicky. Just exhausted because this has been going on nightly since I had that 3 month flu / cold/ chest infection this time last year.

Just so weary.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 03:54 PM

Are you taking anything for the acid reflux? I take a generic version of Prevacid OTC but would not advise you to take anything without your doctor's approval.
Any chance you have pneumonia? Walking pneumonia doesn't always present a cough. Sleep apnea is another maybe.
Don't ignore it.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 04:08 PM

VT, adrenals. B5. And the text of that doc. Keep steady, girl, and in peace.

Heading out again,

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 04:51 PM

it may have been the 2 chocolate biscuits I had about an hour before bed.


I have come to the sad conclusion that I can have no sweets after about 5 pm. I am guaranteed to jolt wide awake in the middle of the night, then to toss and turn for hours. It was an amazing connection to make, and I sleep much more soundly now.

But I don't have your health history, dear VT, so yes, do check it out if you can.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 19 Jan 10 - 04:59 PM

Virginia, perhaps it is time to declutter your Rolodex of that doctor and find one who takes your symptoms as seriously as you do.

Working on a InDesign (CS3) project for work this afternoon. I feel like I've finally gotten the hang of these programs, in my limited capacity, and it's time to update. I know there are some changes that friends who use it have complained about. But if I keep the old version, then I can't open the newer files.

In the process I took a 15 minute power nap--it was a classic case of working on a project that is new and a little difficult, and suddenly really needing a nap. I learned years ago not to fight that feeling, it's my brain processing the new thing. I woke up feeling like I had solved the problem of what I was working on.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 20 Jan 10 - 01:59 AM

My taxes are finished, the FAFSA is underway, but we need his tax information. That will have to happen tomorrow. The pile of papers on my desk has shifted a lot in the last few days, but it is growing again. Must do something about that. I did stuff a couple of manila envelopes of tax-related papers into a filing cabinet, so at least my little kitchen table is usable again for eating on without having to clear away big stacks and a computer before placing food on it.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 20 Jan 10 - 12:16 PM

Okay, so the temporary checks from the new account that I had here on my computer don't have the full new account routing number. The free file folks kicked it back and said the IRS didn't like the number. I have corrected it and sent it back through. Must move on to other things. And they seem to be coming fast and furious.

I found an email from Amazon, a book I'd listed ages ago, so I'll pop it in the mail at noon today (has to go to Spain, so when I go get the pickup from having it's front end aligned, I'll swing past the P.O. and mail this).

Lots of stuff needs to be done soon for the college applications, and we're still moving along with those. And I have some InDesign and Photoshop projects to finish today. The new year started a couple of weeks ago, but the new semester started yesterday, so this is when the volume of work really increases.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 20 Jan 10 - 01:56 PM

Good luck with all of that, SRS.

Today was weigh-in for me. I've lost a pound.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: mg
Date: 20 Jan 10 - 02:01 PM

Panic attacks are very related to surges of adrenaline that the body releases to protect against rapid drops in blood sugar. And starch is pretty much the same as sugar in the body so it is not just too much sugar, but starches, even ones we are brainwashed into thinking are wonderful for every person every time. Continue to get medical advice, but try having high protein, fat and fiber snack before bed. And lower starch content of diet if you need to. mg

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST
Date: 20 Jan 10 - 09:32 PM

Today was all about running errands, and I got everything done that was on my list-- mostly bank, groceries, bakery, etc.

I just got home from a speaker at the library, talking about the history of the J L Hudson Department Store in downtown Detroit. It was one of those big mercantile palaces that all big cities had. My father worked there for all of his adult life, so I remember it fondly, even though the building is gone now. The speaker had several tables full of memorabilia, which got me thinking about all the Hudson's stuff I have around here. I'm going to scan as much of it as I can, and give him copies of the material. Maybe I can even de-clutter (to the historical museum) some of the boxes & stuff.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 20 Jan 10 - 09:39 PM

Hmmm...wonder if the Detroit Hudsons were relatives of my dad's.:-)

I supervised a whirlwind sunbeam (Morgan) who came to my house today. First we drank hot cocoa, marshmallows, and candy canes which he'd brought for me, then he told me he wanted to clean my house for me! He washed dishes, got his shirt so wet he took it off and put it in the dryer. Then, he vacuumed choice spots (really hairy ones) then he mopped the high points AND put a small load of laundry in for me. He did a credible job on all of it, just not very thorough except the dishes. My house looks great and smells clean. (He had not been over since last Sun., so I told him I might have to say no to his coming over more often if it makes him so sweet each time!:-)

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 20 Jan 10 - 09:50 PM

He sounds like a great little guy!

Maryanne, that's nice when you can cross everything off of your list! I try not to run my list through the wash so I can add to it and cross off for a couple of days. :)

Got the banking info I needed, got the truck worked on (front end alignment--it does drive easier now) and got three walks in today--I dropped it off, and had one of the dogs with me and we walked home. Then I took the other dog out of the bathroom where I parked her so she wouldn't disturb the neighbors with her ruckus and all three of us went for a walk. And then later I walked back to the dealer to pick up the truck (no dogs). The catahoula is hyper and jumps on people when I take her places, so I don't always take her places. Unfortunately, it makes her all the more desperate not to be left behind next time. . .

It's really warm and muggy here this evening. Feels like thunderstorm weather. I went out between drizzles this afternoon to trim a bush outside my bedroom that has blocked the view. The room seemed a little darker than normal during overcast weather (it's on the northwest side of the house, so it's always a little dark in there this time of years). I may have to dig it out of that location, but it blooms so happily there (it's called a rock rose, in the mallow family).

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 20 Jan 10 - 11:22 PM

Oops. I lost my cookie and didn't even notice it was gone.

m

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 21 Jan 10 - 07:33 AM

Looking back, that's 3 posts I have lost! Everyone, please imagine I have been saying loving, encouraging things to all of you for the past 3 days- I really have!

Car to the shop today for a headlight replacement. Before I go, I must tidy up the upstairs where there are still a few Christmas decorations strewn about- DH is finally going to tackle the bits and pieces that must be finished before the house inspectors come in March to declare the house officially built!

(I am now copy-pasting this post in case it, too, gets lost in cyber-space!)

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 21 Jan 10 - 07:58 AM

Warm and muggy? Snow and winter here. Lots of it.
Crossing mammogram off my list today at 4PM.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 21 Jan 10 - 08:03 AM

I have some Christmas things still out too and they are going to stay out for maybe another month! :) I love my nativity scenes!

And HOORAY for Mary!!!!!!

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 21 Jan 10 - 10:26 AM

I'm watching Clean Sweep for the first time ever...it's on TLC. I like it and am taking notes!!!!
Ok...well, mental notes anyway!

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 21 Jan 10 - 10:55 AM

Michelle, the one I used to get a kick out of was Clean House with Niecy Nash. She's a hoot, and her crew are resourceful but also I think most of them are stand-up comedians. I hate their choice of new/replacement furniture, though. They go with cheap shit like Ashley--if you look at it they have a fancy looking finish but the construction is third rate.

Forgot to mention, I think, that Amazon let me know yesterday that I book I had listed ages ago (early last year?) and forgotten was sold. I had to take it to the post office because it was going to Spain. Took a little digging through the stack on the eBay table to find it, but that is welcome cash when they pay.

Liz, there was a tornado in the area north of Fort Worth yesterday. I knew that unseasonable weather meant thunderstorms.

Speaking of weather--I looked at my electric bill today--way high, after the cold a couple of weeks ago. At this point I'm looking at changing my auto and home insurance, my electric company, my bank, and will threaten the cable folks. Plus there are deadlines for school stuff. Busy week coming up.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 21 Jan 10 - 01:56 PM

ssnnnzzzzzzzzz......

mmmble ssnnnnzzz.... Animaterra losing her posts but not the thread, ... Laughing Kat sticking to her points and has helper cleaner,.... WYSIWYG has new carpet and is logged on..., Maeve, inspiration in keeping spirits up in unimaginable situation, Catherine-Jayne is amazing weight loss woman, somebody give Maireanne a cookie,..... Sinsull has the hot chocolate,....   Stilly got those FAFSA things going on and a tornado to boot, Squeaky Liz, wazzup wif de scrunched down fabric?.... sssnnnzzz...

who did I miss ?... ssnnnzzzz

mumble nargle grrrf... LilyFestre is ok...big sigh...

mimble sneg grrff... snnnzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 21 Jan 10 - 06:10 PM

VTam...:-)>

Two good things to report: the electronic gear which I put on ebay for Rog has one bid which meets our reserve price and we have six watchers!

Morgan came over later than usual AND insisted on mopping some more while I was on the phone with a friend in England who happened to call. Once again, he did a great job. Told me, "did you know if you do this every day this WHOLE house will be clean!" Ah...youth and innocence. Makes me smile.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 21 Jan 10 - 06:51 PM

Oh, Kat, LOL! Morgan is such a love!

Maggie, did I mention what an inspiration you are? How well I know the FAFSA dance- still have to do it this year, but our tax info doesn't all arrive till the end of March (something to do with a type of investment) so for now I just collect receipts and am grateful that repeat FAFSA applicants have (I think) an April deadline!

VTAm, sleep well, you cozy thing!

I managed to re-organize the wood pile after the tarp blew off during a snowstorm last week- took some digging to find some of the wood, but worth it. Carefully brought in 4 logs at a time, due to throwing my back out overdoing it in Dec. This made for multiple trips, and great exercise.

the ornaments are all put away. The piano corner is a bit tidier (my assistant director is coming over soon to go over the season's music). I even made granola today!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 21 Jan 10 - 07:46 PM

Finished a couple of things for work, have one more this evening, and then take them to Office Depot tomorrow for printing. And I have to write some articles. Arrgggh!

One good thing today, though it is mostly just robbing Peter to pay Paul, we used the education IRA to pay back some expenses for school stuff (applications fees that went on a credit card). I took that cash and used it to pay off a smaller bill completely. Nice! I can take that one out of the monthly list. Just in time for the insurance to kick in again. . .

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 02:13 AM

Homemade granola, YUM!

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 02:37 AM

Homemade granola, YUM!

recipe pleaze...

OK yeah so yesterday I kept myself properly hydrated during the day and slept some better last night. Still woke with thudding in my ears, but not as fast, or loud. And I was able to go right back to sleep after requisite bladder breaks, instead of sitting up and sudokuing until sleep took over again.

Thank FUK it is Friday. Because the mighty and beneficent FUK brings you Friday in his own FUKKING time.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 05:52 AM

Squished fabric is still all over the computer table... had to work a long day on Tuesday, got home, made dinner, went to choir practice, spent the night in hospital (as charted in the Recovery Ward) and haven't really felt like doing much else since.

Mind you, I've spent this morning cleaning and putting stuff away... Why does the place still look a mess?

Going for a lie down now... I think I've earned it and I am supposed to be taking it easy for a while!

LTS

Subject: Granola recipe!
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 07:36 AM

Yes, LTS, REST, or Nurse Ratched will jump threads! No de-cluttering for you today!

Hmm, granola recipe. I've done it out of my head for so long, I'll have to try to set it down here. OK:

Preheat the oven to 365 F (dunno what that is in UK-ish)
I use a very large cast-iron dutch oven, which means I can do the first part on low heat on the stove, thus making the honey-oil mixing quick and easy. You could use a large baking pan (lasagne size).

In the pan, mix 1/2 cup vegetable oil, and up to 1 cup (or no less than 1/2 cup) total of honey AND/OR maple syrup, enhancing with a bit of molasses (but don't use only molasses, because the result will be too sticky). This time I had very little honey so tried about 1/4 cup agave in the mix and found it very good.
Add 1 tsp pure vanilla extract (very important!!).

When the liquids are all mixed together, start adding solids. I start with nuts: sunflower, peanuts, cashews, almonds (sliced or whole). About 1/2 to 1 cup EACH of whatever I have in the larder, up to 2 1/2 cups in all.
Also very good: up to 1 cup UNSWEETENED coconut, wheat germ, oat bran- but only one of those, not all of them or the mix will be too... powdery, I guess is the word.
Then I start in with the oats. I buy thick-cut rolled oats in bulk, and can get up to 12 cups of oats into the dutch oven I have. You don't have to use so much, which will result in a sweeter granola (but no fewer than 8 cups). I just have a bunch of tall glass jars and am lazy, so I like to make a large amount all at once!

By now the oven should have heated up. Place the dutch oven /pan UNCOVERED into the oven, set the timer for 10 minutes, and don't get absorbed in some activity that can't be regularly interrupted (this is a good time to catch up on Mudcat, or knit, for instance, but not do taxes!).
After 10 minutes, stir the goodies very well, then return to the oven and re-set the timer for another 10 minutes. Repeat stirring mixture and returning to oven, until the mix is a lovely golden brown and looks like the way you like granola to look (takes up to an hour in all).
You may have to adjust your oven settings; my brand-new Kenmore oven wants me to start the granola at 370 F for the first 20 minutes or so, then reduce the heat to 365 F for another 20-30 minutes.

Now, you're not done yet. Allow the pan to cool for at least an hour- I often bake the granola at night and finish the job in the morning before breakfast. Now you want to "dress it up" by adding the rest of the goodies:
Raisins, golden raisins, dried cranberries, dried blueberries, dried cherries, dates, you name it!. Sometimes I find a hidden bag of trail mix in the back of the cupboard and throw that in, too. The fruitier the better, is my motto! Stir it all up and enjoy!

We sprinkle it on our morning bowl of steel-cut oats, on our ice cream, on a mid-morning snack of yoghurt, we scoop it up and eat it out of our hands, - you probably could live on the stuff if you had a little greenery every other day or so! Yum!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 07:43 AM

Hope you're feeling better Liz. Rest well xxx

Declutter the sideboard in the hallway yesterday. Made chocolate cookies with the kids.

Tomorrow I've got my spinning class and my body pump class. Sday I've got a body pump class.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Tinker
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 11:50 AM

Yesterday I finally finished measuring, pinning and pressing the new Junior choir robes we hope to use on January 31st.   As I said on facebook -- Little cherubs should come in standard sizes....
or standard sizes should reflect reality....

The robe company was charging an extra $30 for robes that needed "custom" lengths..... The choir director actually volunteered to stitch the hems so they are no longer my concern. ( Except one more that I need to order for a new child who is larger than my extra robes.)

The take aways for convention are finished, I can run them off tommorrow and now I can get back to my house.....

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 12:14 PM

Have dashed in to check the email, check in here, then head over to drop off print projects and do some writing.

I left the cat at the vet overnight. His kidneys are failing, but he can be treated with a 2x week "dialysis" of IV liquid under the skin to keep them clearer. His howling may be dementia, in which case keeping him going just to be miserable (all of us, and him) is not an option. I've let my daughter know, and will tell my son after the weekend (he has another SAT test tomorrow). I'll bring the cat home, we'll see how he does. I won't pay tons on a really old cat to extend a life that isn't a particularly high quality one right now. January seems to be hard on cats around here. We lost the other one in the end of January last year.

I'll give this house a top to bottom vacuum and mop to clear out the cat hair. As nice as they can be, I'm done with cats for the time being.

Meetings this afternoon and evening. Writing. Arrrgghh!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 02:00 PM

I've done that with two cats, Maggie, and imo, it is better to have them put down. I know it's hard, but depending on how your cat reacts, the iv can be a huge stress and it made me feel as though I was prolonging the inevitable by being a terrible bully. Both cats hated it, hid out and just wanted to be left alone.

Here's a hug and a reminder to breath as you go through the process with your kids and all and while you write to keep food on the table.:-)

luvyakat

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 02:59 PM

If it was just me, I'd have him euthanized tomorrow, but it is best to tell the kids and give them time for goodbyes. He has been a good cat for a long time, but he is clearly unhappy all of the time, unless he's sleeping (or perched on top of you, and we can only spend so much time a day in that position).

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 06:59 PM

"Made chocolate cookies with the kids"...

I would have used flour, butter and chocolate chips, but whatever floats your boat....!

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 22 Jan 10 - 07:08 PM

Back to my more usual haunts this week, much to catch up on....

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 23 Jan 10 - 01:12 AM

This weekend is going to be more of the same school and scholarship stuff. There are some Feb. 1 deadlines to beat. I'll try to get something listed on eBay. The sunroom is looking better, but the table isn't clear and organized yet (I messed it up more when looking for that book for the Amazon sale).

I bring home the cat tomorrow. We'll she how he does for a few days. I suspect an IV twice a week will be torture. Poor guy. He has been a sweetheart for a long, long time. The vet says his problem may be dementia.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 23 Jan 10 - 07:35 AM

Oh, my dear- hold him in love, and he'll let you know if it's time to go.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 23 Jan 10 - 08:38 AM

((((((((SRS & Kitty)))))))))

No decluttering going on here although I think it would make me feel better if I was allowed to putter. The table beside my chair where I currently spend my entire life is cluttered. The bathroom floor desperately needs to be mopped. I'd like to clear off the kitchen table too.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 23 Jan 10 - 09:13 AM

LF, sounds like a level-of-care issue-- you could request home help for that as well, particularly since you mentioned losing staples. The next home health person may be able to report that you need more help.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 23 Jan 10 - 10:14 AM

I agree--you could ask to have someone come in for just a little tidying. Mop the floor, wash the dishes or run them through the dishwasher, whatever. Clean the bathroom, the basics.

Last night is the first undisturbed night's sleep I've had in probably six months. I think by his absence we are seeing just how far this cat has degenerated into dementia. The kids need to say goodbye.

Paperwork this weekend. And I spoke to a neighbor up the street who is having computer problems, mostly because they don't know any better than to let their antivirus software tyrannize them. I told him that if they can set aside 2 - 3 hours we should be able to get it up and running again. Like me, they're working on funding stuff for their daughter for college. We need to de-clutter their machine of that software.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 23 Jan 10 - 10:15 AM

It's that I'm restless both physically and mentally and it's stuff I'm used to being able to do for myself. I WANT to sweep. I WANT to do the dishes. I WANT to cook. I WANT to clear the table. I WANT to do the laundry. I just know for now, I shouldn't. I did straighten some things and moved a few stray dishes to the sink, wiped down the counter and soon will start laundry (Pete will move it from washer to dryer to basket where I can sit and fold). I have all this anxiety going on and no yoga to provide any stress relief, not even movement about my own home to help me get out of my head.

AND my ass hurts from sitting here all this time.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 23 Jan 10 - 10:43 AM

LF, I hear ya. It's one of the toughest parts of healing. Perhaps there is something from your talks with your priest to help?

===

Looking around this AM, both at home and office-world, I see so many things I "should" do that I am not sure where to start.

The past week took a toll on my ankle and shoulders, so whatever I do I need to keep it small, easily-abandoned, and keep the shoulder and ankle flexing but not doing real "work" or repetitive work. That makes so many of the tasks remain premature, so.... I guess.... I'll focus on "what do I need to get done so I can leave later and go have some fun." A galpal invited me to join her and another galpal for a fun evening, so [gasp!] I am actually taking a Saturday night OFF from the weekly service, for reasons other than infirmity, illness, or travel-- taking one off that will offer FUN as an actual break.

It will involve a lot of walking, and that is an ankle problem, so-- getting shoes set up for the odd terrain involved, making sure I find and set aside the portable stool I'll carry so I can sit often at MY pace-- oh!

The stool is NOT in the messy van where it belongs (which I need to declutter (hen shoulder improves), but was left out months ago in DOG WORLD! Yay! Playtime with doggies using good shoulder, find ball, put stool back in van, and it's a SUNNY day, pretending to be warm, and no wind!

I need to go see how much Sadie's been digging out there too, and what F has been eating that causes "issues."

~Susan

==

PS for LF-- MANDOLIN!? I know someone who would be glad to come and share that fun! You do too.... you normally see him with a 4-string banjo but he has a new mando he LOVES, and is in need of time-spending during the week particularly since he lost his wife.... I'm sure you know who I mean.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 23 Jan 10 - 03:52 PM

So sorry to hear about your kitty, Stilly. It's one of the hardest things, to make a decision to put a pet to sleep. Hugs to you both.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 23 Jan 10 - 08:39 PM

All of this school financial aid paperwork--arrggghh!

The paper is building up again. I need to take a bath, relax, throw in a load of laundry, eat a late dinner, then tackle the paper.

I have a couple of NetFlix films that have been here forever. Time to watch those.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: ragdall
Date: 23 Jan 10 - 09:04 PM

SRS,
I'm sorry to hear about your cat's difficulties. It's so hard to know when to give up on an aging, much loved pet. After nursing a cat with diabetes and feeding difficulties for two years, I realized that I was doing it for me, not for him. He was old and tired and had earned the right to leave this existence. I hope that your children will be supportive of whatever decision you must make.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 24 Jan 10 - 12:28 AM

45 minutes walking with Rog whilst shopping

Two loads of laundry done

I got some sleep last night!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 24 Jan 10 - 02:13 AM

Good for you, Kat!

With my cat it will be a day by day thing. The prospect of high bills is daunting, and unfair in the face of other things we need to do. But if we can keep it modest, and if he can stand being poked with a very large needle twice a week to have saline solution administered under the skin, and IF he isn't nuts (the vet said today that some of his confusion or unhappiness may clear up once his kidneys are stable) then we'll try to work with it.

Finished the application for one school, working on another, and have b begun a financial aid request for yet another. I've also pulled together some research on insurance companies, printing up stuff from a database at my library. I'm going to probably switch homeowners and auto next week. They come due in a couple of weeks. Also changing electric, and I have to bludgeon the cable guys to lower that bill. All of this takes so much time!

I did watch a movie, a rather somber one, called The Man Who Cried. Gorgeous sound track. It's going in the mail with other stuff tomorrow.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 24 Jan 10 - 09:33 AM

(((SRS & Kitteh)))

We did the perfusion thing here for several rounds, SRS, and it was worth some "good time" with and for the kitteh and for us. In a way it made it easier to let go when that day came, to of course we cried.... the vet said one can never predict how long the effects of the treatment may last, and for some it lasts a surprisingly long time. Enjoy the time, is the main thing, and the chance to see kitteh feeling so much better.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 24 Jan 10 - 09:46 AM

I've been feeling kind of far removed from my husband...physically. We are forever hugging or holding hands but with me pretty much confined to my chair, it makes it hard to run over and hug him when the urge strikes or to sit on the arm of his chair and just hold his hand. So....while this is not any decluttering *I* did, I did ask him to do something for me and he did. Our two chairs were separated by a table. I asked Pete to move the table and move his chair next to mine. Now our chairs sit side by side and I can reach out to touch him and he can reach over to hold my hand whenever we want. It's of great comfort to me. My living room looks really stupid but I don't care. Sometimes the touch of someone I love can make a world of difference in how I feel.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 24 Jan 10 - 12:05 PM

That sounds like an excellent move, Michelle!

It's Sunday, so I'm doing laundry. It's sunny, and I wish I was out in the garden. If it dries up enough (we had rain yesterday) I may run the mower over the leaves on the lawn to mulch them in.

Trying to move papers off of my desk. I have a file folder and as we finish these documents for colleges we file them. But more papers seem to keep turning up on the desk.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 24 Jan 10 - 02:38 PM

Finally got the guest rooms ready for Saturday, finished laundry so I can go to work clean, and made a really good pot of pea soup from the frozen left overs from New Years.
At some point I have to at least get the vacuum out and set up so I can clean this place. Dust rules.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 24 Jan 10 - 03:01 PM

I made a bunch more jackie frost boy fairies today and bits set up to make 3 more.

did all laundry but one half load.

played my guitar for about 45 minutes this morning. talked to my baby girl on Skype, so I could hear her voice and see her face and expressions.

set up a mudcat meditation shrine and wrote names of those I plan to send good wishes and healing thoughts to at the appointed time.

-----

Lovely Lily - great to hear about kittie feeling better SRS. hope you crack on with that loan paperwork. I remember the grief.

Good on sins getting her house ready for concert. YAY Kat with the walking and all.

Welcome back Susan.

-----
have not eaten today. not been hungry until now. So will eat, have shower and do ironing until it is time to meditate.

may or may not return to Mudcat tonight.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 24 Jan 10 - 05:08 PM

Thanks, SRS and VTam.

I was also able to drag a heavy basket of stuff out of our closet, go through it, trash most of it except for a few giveaways adn then fill it with the small linens ironing which has been piled on the ironing board for a couple of weeks.

I feel as though I am seeing my house through new eyes, or clearer eyes, of a sudden. I can see someone has not taken care for a long time...every surface is full of dust, the walls have cobwebs, clutter is everywhere...all signs of depression, I now know, at least when it comes to myself. I felt badly about my beautiful things being so dirty, but then I realised, if I am finally noticing, I must be ready to take it in small bits and get it cleaned up. I already have some ideas about changing stuff which is on shelves in the LR and bedroom as well as some other small things I can do alone.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 24 Jan 10 - 05:48 PM

Hey, Kat. Nice to hear you feeling better, but don't beat yourself up about what you haven't done. It may simply be that other things were more important at the time. I have a magnet on my refrigerator that says "You can touch the dust, but please don't write in it". I only dust when I can see the coating without my glasses-- same for cobwebs. I keep the kitchen clean enough to prevent food poisoning, and clothes clean enough to be seen in public. Otherwise, I only "clean house" when I have company coming.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 24 Jan 10 - 11:52 PM

You know Kat, there are people out there who help with jobs like cleaning. I had someone come in for a half-day every other week back when I was in graduate school (and still had some interest income worth mentioning) and that helped establish a baseline. If you could hire someone to come in, even when you're there helping, and have them spend a few hours every couple of weeks, do you think you could get it to where you want? Identify an amount you could afford, keeping in mind the peace of mind it would also afford you, and think about it. I hired someone who worked for a friend, who she had known for years. It worked out well.

We just learned of a finacial aid deadline on Wednesday, and we have another one next weekend. Back to the salt mines.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 25 Jan 10 - 08:18 AM

Yes, Kat, the fact that you're noticing is probably a good sign. And the light is returning, bit by bit, which might have something to do with your increasing awareness. But yes, as maire-ann has said, be easy on yourself about it, and as SRS said, if you can get help (Morgan?) then do that!

My house is more cluttered than ever, but I'm going to start recording the practice cd for my chorus today, so everything else gets put on hold for a couple of days!

Allison

PS, how's the kitty, SRS?

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 25 Jan 10 - 08:58 AM

My order from Lakeland arrived this morning! Baking drawer and pan drawer has been declutter and new bits put away.

We're waiting on paper samples for invitations but the favour bags have been ordered and should be here next week.

Really looking forward to Mum and Dad coming to stay at the beginning of March....with or without dog we're not sure at the moment! Over the weekend I'm hoping to get some work done on the spare room.

Over the weekend I did my spinning and body pump classes. We had a fantastic day in our forest on Sunday, the kids running round working off some energy and had a lovely picnic in the car as it was getting a bit cold. Tonight I've got circuit training and tomorrow I've got body pump again.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 25 Jan 10 - 10:33 AM

A BIG declutter for me is right here at Mudcat.

I'll be using some site tools to shift my focus on fewer threads to look at, fewer people to keep in close touch with, fewer conflicts to detangle. A first PM from Spaw keeps coming back to mind, about the best way to use Mudcat.... Also in the forefront of my thinking is wise and loving advice from good friends-- and you know who you are. This means I may miss a few crises around the place, but I think that by shifting focus to the REAL relationships in PM-world, I'll be able to offer more depth in what I give back.

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 25 Jan 10 - 10:59 AM

Thanks, Maryanne, I am sure it was depression which kept me demotivated and built up the dust, et al.:-)

SRS, I did have a woman, who became a friend, come in every other week for two hours to do the floors, but we had to stop because of cost. Right now, that's just not doable.

Animaterra, thank you. "Light" is returning, yes, but sunlight never leaves Colorado! In fact, IT was depressing me a few weeks ago...I was ready to give anything for a gloomy New England day!:-)

I am off to get my teeth cleaned this morning, then Morgan is coming for lunch. Later, I will pay bills and get them off my desk. My plants look much happier this morning. I moved some around yesterday and it's made a big difference all round.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 25 Jan 10 - 06:52 PM

Knocking of tasks, making calls, filing papers. It continues.

Tonight we have to give the cat the first IV saline. My son is going to have to help, and we'll have to see over the next couple of weeks if the quality of life this cat experiences makes this struggle worth it for him. I'm not going to ask my son to make the decision, I think that would be unfair, he'll be sad enough whenever the cat is eventually gone. I'm the grownup here, but I'm giving him a say in it. And a look at the cost to all of us.

Some of these teaching moments are a real bitch.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 25 Jan 10 - 08:08 PM

I had lunch with a friend, and he was telling me about the remodelling he's done in his house. He said "you gotta come by and see it" because it's all eco-friendly and stuff. So I said "fine" and stopped by after lunch. He really did a great job on the house, and he was so excited about how much he was saving on utility bills.

Anyway, it was clear to me that I could never just invite somebody to "drop in" without planning ahead. So, as soon as I got home, I cleaned the bathroom and washed the floor, and ran the dustmop in the hallway/stairs/bedrooms. This evening I cleaned up the kitchen and dusted the mantle/bookshelves; I'll wash the kitchen floor in the morning, then run the dustmop around the livingroom & diningroom floor.

There's really no excuse for all the dust around here. It shouldn't take that much to tidy up every so often. There's nobody messing it up except me.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 26 Jan 10 - 09:37 AM

Last night I did my exercise class and jogged the 2 miles home...felt GREAT! Hopefully I'll be able to jog home tonight after body pump class.

Loft hatch and folding wooden loft ladder was sold on eBay and has been packed up and sent by courier to the buyer this morning.

I'm trying to write our shopping list for the fortnightly supermarket run tomorrow but can't seem to think what we need, looks like it's going to be a quick trip!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 26 Jan 10 - 01:30 PM

Maryanne, I understand precisely--I don't invite folks in often because of dust and clutter. I need to fix that.

Last night there was 5 minutes of cat hell and sheer pandemonium when we did the IV. Got it in okay, but he's strong, and my big tall son was ready to faint as we held him (relatively) still to let the saline solution in. I stopped the IV when it was borderline enough because I was afraid the kid might fall and hurt himself. This cat is big, loud, and really really really pissed off. We'll have to see if 10 minutes of this a week is a good trade off for the rest of the time.

Finished the College Board financial info last night, sat down at ex's table and we flogged the numbers from tax returns, texted daughter in college to get her info--but it is finished. Now must do a few more school forms. We don't have money, so we have to make the time to fill in all of the paperwork. It's a full-time job.

I decluttered a couple of regular bills lately. I switched power companies and am waiting on the final quote for homeowners and auto insurance. Huge savings there (from Allstate to Amica). Next, cable company, and maybe dumping AT&T. Charter might just get a tiny little bundle, but I won't take it without substantial savings available for a long time. Make 'em work for it.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 26 Jan 10 - 07:27 PM

Kat, what town are you in in Colorado?

Decluttered some frozen xmas cookies today. Sweet tooth came along and I figured I'd empty out that Tupperware container. Only a few krumkaka in it anyway.

I had to scramble to find papers to fax to the new home/auto insurance folks. Cleaned a path through the stuff on the top of my desk in the process.

How's everyone else doing?

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 26 Jan 10 - 07:29 PM

For me, the next challenge is adjusting daily meds to reclainm the inherent spark to aquatics, and getting back to regular workouts. Too much has gotten in the way, too easily, and I just haven't cared much about it-- and that's not "me."

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 07:54 AM

Well I found out that I cannot use the local borough council pool. It only has ladders in and out. I can only enter and leave a pool by steps.

Found out this is usually the case for swimming pools in England. So that's my plan for some aquatic exercise scuppered.

I am back home from work early today due to massive headache after 2 ocular migraines. Going to take a nap now.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 08:14 AM

Sum total of sod all done again... but I have lost a couple of pounds, hopefully from my mobile phone (cell phone) bill by changing tariff...

It's worth looking around to see what your usage is compared to available pricings...

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 08:52 AM

I'm hoping to finish recording the practice cd today- too much else gets in the way. DH went upstairs to begin building walls and ended up building a hatch that covers the opening, thus saving tons of heat that doesn't need to go upstairs when we're not using the space (no plumbing up there, no one lives up there when kids aren't home, so why heat it?).

Haven't vacuumed in 2 weeks, and it shows. But I need to finish getting this chorus season together before I do anything else! Except maybe take a walk today.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 10:15 AM

I pay for a cell phone "family" plan and have four phones on it. At some point my kids can choose to "port out" and have their own plans, phones, etc. but for now, it works out about $30 each. It's just that I pay for them all, and that's okay--this way, if I need, I can take a look at their usage. I don't (though I'm always pleased to see my son sitting and whipping through texts to friends--they, and I, were frustrated that we couldn't text him with his old phone. When his other prepaid plan his dad had him on ran out of minutes, I put him on mine and we transferred his number over. His school friens on facebook were ecstatic they could text him, and I see he has taken to it like a duck to water.)

I may bundle the house phone and Internet. I spoke with the neighbor about her service--the AT&T line has been so noisy, but the cable connection is fine, and my house is wired to easily accommodate the cable modem for the phones. I just have two phones left to wire to the new pattern (they run from the connector on the outside of the house, not from the hub in the closet, like the rest of them. The hub has a line out to the connector, but that can easily be disconnected and the modem hooked to the hub.)

I know, it isn't easy to imagine. Star wiring pattern vs Ring wiring pattern are on this page--scroll down. Many homes used to have a ring pattern, meant that the wires ran between the phones. In my case, it was a star from a funky old outside connector hub and I'm simply moving the star hub from outside to inside, and using a much easier little board to wire to (not the "66-block" he shows, though I do have one a friend gave me, and they aren't as easy to figure out as you'd think).

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 01:09 PM

I found a pool program for water walking but they have only day time hours. Steps, ladder and chair lift into pool.
After Monday's fall I could use a chair lift.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 02:09 PM

I seem to have been bitten by the cleaning bug, quite seriously. I had some dental work done yesterday, so I waited until this morning to wash the kitchen floor. Also got some salty footprints off of the livingroom floor. Then I cleaned the kitchen sink-- it fairly sparkles now. Next step: de-clutter the diningroom table-- little things have been accumulating.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 03:02 PM

Isn't that what diningroom tables are for???

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 03:20 PM

phone wiring wow SRS!

I rewired a 3 way brass floor lamp once.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 03:50 PM

Since oh, MAY, I have been trying to get several items that belong in my overnight kit back out the van, in the kit, where they belong. It finally occured to me MONDAY to bring in the kit! (Duh!) Now I am finally going to go gather up the items that should be in there, NOW. But first I had to get laundry caught up cuz that's where a lot of the items had ended up, and that's DONE.

Went to the pool last night, not much fun but went.

~S~

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 03:51 PM

I have two lamps you can come put new switches in, then.

Been going through drawers of photo files at work to find some for a staff party tomorrow. It's a four-drawer file, completely filled with photo sleeves (the package they come back from the camera store in).

Scanning now.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 05:12 PM

Ok,so I know the last 30ish pounds of this have not come off as I have would have liked BUT today I am a total of 101.2 pounds lighter than my starting weight. I finally passed the 100 pound mark.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 05:28 PM

WOW!! You are an inspiration, Michelle. Your body must be SO happy (even if a bit sore right now!)

Congratulations!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 06:38 PM

Michelle, as one who has had the same experience I don't advocate cancer as a weight loss method. While it might be tempting, it has a couple of drawbacks. . .

But I also offer congratulations on breaking 100 and I know what you mean, it is nice to have lost the weight. Be sure that as you heal you get out and walk to build up a level of fitness. Don't worry about other exercise if it isn't available--walking is just plain good for you and no equipment is required. It's wonderful to feel the flexibility and agility of what your frame can really do when you're not carrying around the extra weight, so enjoy this one perk of having been ill and let it carry you into a state of good health and fitness.

I took a nap when I came in this afternoon, I think it might have been a migraine aura that was making me feel that if I didn't close my eyes right then it wasn't going to go away. It made all of the difference.

Tomorrow my son has an induction into the National Honor Society at an evening reception, so I'll have him throw in a load of laundry tonight and we'll make sure that any clothing he needs from my house is available. I think he will be wearing dress pants and shirt of his dad's (they wear the same size now, lucky thing!) but I'll have the socks and such. :)

I'm writing this on the Chrome browser, and it lets me change the size of the message form, but I think it also constrains the lines when I post. It will be a narrower message than usual, unless I make the window wider. Interesting how these things vary from one program to another.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 06:40 PM

It didn't. I wonder if that's because I make the window winder? I won't touch it this time, and see if it wraps different. (I should probably take this over to one of the html test threads, but this one is handy.)

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 08:08 PM

I'm walking more and more each day. Today I went to the grocery store, 2 times around was about all I could do....hurts my left side something fierce.....little bits at a time are better.

I don't advocate losing weight as I have for the past month either...it's not healthy nor do I feel that I've earned it. I thought once I had hit that 100 pound mark, I'd feel a sense of accomplishment but I don't.

I still have a ways to go and would be more than happy to work it off as I did the first 70 pounds (actually 98 and then regained some). Not being able to eat SUCKS.

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 27 Jan 10 - 08:49 PM

100 lbs - that's amazing.
LOL - you haven't earned it? Seems to me you have earned a free pass for the next twenty years given what you have managed in the past three months.
Your appetite will come back. Probably gradually. Try "grazing" on whatever appeals to you in very small quantities. It will help your attitude and your healing.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 11:49 AM

Yup, the appetite does come back, and without discipline, so does the weight.

This morning I wanted to get a little something done around here, but I have a busy work day, so I kept it to one task that I could finish while a cup of tea brewed. My bill pay files are in the living room where I can get to them easily. I picked up an over-stuffed folder from my file of current bills, statements, school information, work statements, etc. It is my "Bills to Pay Now" folder that tends to end up with old statements left in it after they've been paid online, and other things set in it so they can be filed instead of left on top of the file case.

Didn't take long to sort the bank statements and stuff them in the right folders, put the paid bill statements in with the records from the month they were paid, and put a whole bunch of payment envelopes, bill inserts, and outer mailing envelopes into the recycling. I did this next to the shredder. When my tea was ready, my bill file looked much better.

I've received notice that my electric company changes tomorrow. I'm waiting on a final set of numbers on flood insurance to change house and car. I am going to do Internet and phone soon, maybe this weekend. It really is empowering. Not maybe as big as when I dumped my old investment broker and switched to Vanguard and actually saw my investments, as puny as they are, start to grow. They languished with the nickel and dime antics of the former brokerage (which is now kaput.)

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 11:56 AM

Michelle, the tumour they removed has to have weighed something. IF they had not removed it, you would still have that weight to lose. You lost it in a very difficult way, but also in the ONLY way possible, ergo...it's a legitimate loss.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 12:06 PM

Good point, Kat!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 12:20 PM

Can I just say that I love you guys?!?!?!?   :)

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 03:12 PM

big grin for Michelle

Well having seen doc, I have very low dose amytriptyline to help with pain and help me sleep at night. Even better, I have leaflet and phone number to call NHS Health Trainers. Free guidance and encouragement in setting and attaining goals on variety of health issues. Improving mental well-being, getting more active, losing weight, changing to a better way of life (whatever that means) and quitting smoking and drinking. I need help on the first 4. I don't smoke or drink. So I call the number tomorrow, they take down details and then assign the proper trainer to me who will ring me back, I guess.

In some cases these trainers even come to your house for assessments and mentoring.

We shall see. In any case if he/she comes to my flat, means I will have to be a bit better at keeping it clean.

BTW - blood pressure is 158 over 95, so I am encouraged to lose some weight and get more active.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: wysiwyg
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 03:29 PM

VT, that sounds like a good step-- sometimes we all need a little help to sort out the plan. Good advice also for LF-- Michelle, you have a whole bunch of good pieces here. I can see how they all kinda connect, but I'm not sure that you can just yet. Thing One is, you are in charge of setting the pieces in a workable structure for you, and knowing which pieces are best for you and which to set aside (for later or never.) But, you might want to pick someone to help you order them and set some goals. Then we can encourage you on the goals. For instance, what activity level did the docs OK for this time period?

===

I finally found the necessary scanner cords and software to reinstall the scanner that makes text out of page scans. YIPPEE! New motivation to keep combing thru the archive box at my left hand and scan in the still-useful pieces from that which I need to complete my program design for the curriculum I have been gathering. Software is installing now, and I should be able to rock and roll with already-found and binderized hard copies..... and it feels (seems, from the experienced-pro-view) like "right on time," not "behind the eightball" or "way too far ahead of the curve."

~Susan

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 04:12 PM

I have started a new exercise. I don't like to go for walks because the O2 bottle is heavy. So, I use my O2 line at home, which is long enough to go outside to the bit of sidewalk which leads to the driveway. There are also two steps down to get to it, so...starting out slowly because I lost the strength I had, I am walking back and forth several times, then stepping up, then down several times on the first step. I do that several times and I can feel the effects of both in my legs and hips and it feels good.

Nothing on decluttering except staying ahead on laundry. Maybe by the weekend.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 05:59 PM

Heavy weather through here today. Saving frequently as I work.

Amitriptyline is a good medication for migraine sufferers. The low dose works well and though there might be occasional break-through headaches, it is inexpensive and does a good job overall. The dosage for migraines is maybe 1/10 to 1/4 of the dose that is used when it is an antidepressant. It was one of those happy discoveries, that people taking it for depression noticed the side effect of no headaches.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 06:29 PM

The temp is down to 14F (-10C), and supposed to continue downward overnight. Gonna be cold thru the weekend. I made a pot of soup this morning, then washed a whole bunch of dishes. Went out mid-afternoon to the bank and drugstore. Glad that my car started.

I went up into the attic and pulled down three old suitcases; I'm thinking about whether to buy a new one. Two are okay, but one is pretty badly worn. Gotta get back up there when the weather warms up. Lots of books to go thru; probably most can go to the library for the used book sale.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 28 Jan 10 - 06:57 PM

The only activity the Dr. has given an ok to is to walk around my house, inside. Just getting in a little more each day. Otherwise, I'm to plant my behind in the recliner and just let myself heal.

Actually he said my goals for this week are to eat more and get my anxiety under control (by visiting the local doc for more help).

So....today I am eating a bit more...still in very small quantities but with thoughts pointed towards nutrition, protein in particular. So I had 16 ounces of skim milk, 1/2 peanut butter sandwich (heavy on the PB) and 4 reduced fat cheese sticks. I also had maybe 10 grapes and half a bottle of Boost. That's a whole lot more food than I've had lately so I'm happy with it.

As far as decluttering goes, I cleared up the 2 tables by my chair as the piles make me crazy. Also, a new home health nurse today and I wanted SOMETHING to be picked up...would have loved to run the vaccuum cleaner but she was cool about it and knows I can't do it right now. *shrug* A little dog hair never hurt anyone. ;)

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 07:38 AM

When I was on low dose chemo for the rheumatoid arthritis, I started gettng little oozing sores on my lower legs. Doc prescribed one folic acid tablet a week.

Bleagh. I started drinking one glass of Welch's Purple grape juice every day and the sores healed. Now that was supposedly a no no because it is thought that too much folic acid will interfere with the chemo.

But what happened is surprising. The RA inflammation indicators in my blood decreased. So.... did the increased daily folic acid taken in natural form actually improve my RA?

Anyway. If you like purple grape juice, Michelle, it might help with the healing of your incision. Instead of pudding (dessert) in the evening after dinner, I have the tall glass of grape juice with 4 or 5 ice cubes. Drink slowly and enjoy the flavour of each sip.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 07:44 AM

Last night I did wake a couple of times, but was able to go right back to sleep after bathroom break. Even though my back (between shoulders) was killing me. I had a lie in until 9am. That was good. I feel a dozy but not foggy the way codydramol makes me feel.

Today, I have called and left message and number with the Healthy Living team. I have practised guitar until my fingers hurt. Sang 7 or 8 songs. Done one load of laundry. About to do another and the ironing.

Will clean bathroom, lounge and kitchen so nice and clean on Saturday/Sunday and Monday. I have taken flexi day today and Monday next, so nice to d things at my leisure.

Hope to learn Fore Day Creep well enough to sing this Sunday at Lower Coke. And make some more fairies.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 09:34 AM

I went to Weight Watchers last night and was able to stay for the meeting for the first time in well over a month. I received an award for my weight loss which now stands officially at 101.9. My mom was able to take me and a friend from WW brought me home as I'm STILL not able to drive which quite frankly is driving me crazy. I HATE having to ask for a ride and putting people out of their way.

My goal for today is to spend some time sitting at the kitchen table sorting out piles of mail that just haven't interested me enough to tend to.....today that pile is going to disappear...*POOF*

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 10:35 AM

Last night my son and I did the second IV on the cat and it was much much easier--by several levels of magnitude. He doesn't like it but he just complained, he didn't fight tooth and nail. And my son didn't nearly faint. We were both incredibly relieved that he seems to "get it," in a cat sort of way--that the episode may not be pleasant, but it doesn't last forever. He's behaving a lot better this week, a whole lot less complaining. But the gas---whew! I wonder if they can mix some Beano into his vitamin mix? He's on a completely non-protein diet for his kidney condition. He goes for a recheck at the vet a little later this morning.

A benefactor of our library died yesterday, and we're going to be finishing up pulling some materials together for the family today and maybe over the weekend (scanning photos). Meanwhile, I'll be sending my son the login information for his next application (a state university offering a full scholarship) and we'll have that in place as a choice come this spring. He was inducted into the National Honor Society at his school last night, and while there I spoke with a teacher who will be filling out an evaluation for the big schools (via Common Application). All of this networking and computer work.

Supposed to be really nasty later today. Cold and sleet or freezing rain. My dogs just dashed up to the back door when they saw me. They made it clear they'd love to come in and sleep in the bathroom again. Maybe overnight.

Looks like a busy, messy weekend here!

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 10:39 AM

Maggie,

   What is your kitty's name? (((((((((((hugs to all of you)))))))

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,LTS on the sofa
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 01:26 PM

Again, total failure of everything.. not even energy to pick up a needle, let alone the vacuum cleaner... decluttered some raspberries.. that's about it.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 03:40 PM

The cat's name is Mowgli, and his blood work is back to normal! We are pleased and frankly, amazed. I thought this cat was a goner. He is a very expensive cat these days, though. It looks like it will be about $100 a month to keep him going, with medication, saline IV (at once a week, the bag could last as long as a month, but we'll play it by ear), and special cat food.

It's cold and clammy here, getting ready for a miserable weekend of freezing rain. Just as well I have a lot of computer work that will keep me indoors.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 04:34 PM

That's great, SRS...we had a black cat named Bagheera.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 04:45 PM

****Cheering Mowgli on***********

*humming Bear Necessities of Life*

;)

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 05:20 PM

Liz,
If you belong in hospital, only you know. Something is very wrong with you and you're worrying us.
I spent the day in bed. I woke up to a back ache and stayed home from work.
What a bunch of old cows we are. Is anybody healthy????
M

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 05:28 PM

I am upright, does that count?:-)

Actually packaged up two books to send to my niece. I was going to do that about 4 months ago. Also, put away some small things of Morgan's which he left on the kitchen table.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maeve
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 05:59 PM

This anyone is healthy.

Decluttered lots of burned fabric this week, keeping the best sections for quilting and rug making, me.

I also found a crimson wool winter coat at the hospital thrift shop. Price: $1.

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 06:32 PM

I love thrift shop finds like that Maeve!!!!

I failed to find my kitchen table and now I'm too tired to care about it. Maybe tomorrow!

It's COLD here tonight so I have a good fire going in the woodstove and the pellet stove is cranked to help make sure it stays cozy in here. I'm snuggled under a blanket in my recliner and fully expect to stay here until it's time to make dinner for my honey. :) Shepard's Pie is on the menu for tonight...something HOT and filling.

Stay warm!

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 06:38 PM

maeve, you're healthy, but you have such a huge de-clutter in front of you that soon you're going to be reporting your progress reports as the driver of a backhoe. It's always something, isn't it?

Liz, I've wondered if you should settle for just staying at home also. Have you made an appointment to see your doctor soon? It sounds like you need to get a thyroid checked or something.

I'm healthy, and think I've gotten a hand cream that is helping clear up the dry hands (I ordered a jar of George's special dry skin cream--I'd bought a tube when I was up in Calgary several years ago, based upon my aunt's recommendation. It works very well.) I'm even into a pair of pants that I thought I might not be able to wear after the carnage of christmas cookies. ;-D

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 06:47 PM

Good for you, maeve. I am glad to hear there are pieces you can still use. I'll bet that coat is beautiful! I miss the thrift stores of New England. The ones out here just aren't comparable unless one goes to Denver and that's not anything I'd do. Casper, WY used to have a good church one. I found a camel hair coat there for fifty cents, once!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: GUEST,LTS back on the sofa
Date: 29 Jan 10 - 07:46 PM

Had a little side trip to the ED this evening.... I'm now "resting" as they say in the theatre...

It's the dicky ticker playing up, but I'm alright really... I just do this to get out of vacuuming.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: SINSULL
Date: 30 Jan 10 - 08:32 AM

You do not! You do it because you ticker is dicky. Rest.
M

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 30 Jan 10 - 08:42 AM

I cleared the kitchen table last night...got rid of all the junk mail, saved paper that can be used to help start a fire when the fire just won't go (in the wood stove), and got all my medical bills/insurance explanations into one folder....man...there are a LOT of those!

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 30 Jan 10 - 09:37 AM

You better had be resting Liz!...hope you are feeling better soon xxx

4 mile walk today, an hours spinning class and an hours body pump class. Feel fantastic! My energy levels are up!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 30 Jan 10 - 10:40 AM

Michelle, good for you keeping those medical bills in one place. Do you use Excel (Microsoft spreadsheet)? I would strongly recommend setting up a file for this stuff, because you're going to need it. These places parse out the charges like no one else on earth, and you'll need to keep track of every time the insurance company pays a bill, because if your hospital is anything like the ones I dealt with, the right hand doesn't always know what the left hand is doing. You may need to call them occasionally and say "Per the insurance payment on X date, the bill you're charging me for again has already been paid."

Alas, I know this from personal experience. It takes a while to sort it out.

It's a couple of regular work days here, catching up on stuff for work. I'll go back and forth between the office (finishing scanning) and the sun room next door, putting more stuff away in there, finishing the push I started a couple of weeks ago.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 30 Jan 10 - 11:31 AM

Hello good peeps!

This is Tam springing back from 2 (count em TWO) pretty decent nights of sleep. Only woke couple of times for bladder break and was able to drift right off again.

I like these little blue pills, so far.

I have decluttered the lounge today and vacuumed with TSO's help. Practised guitar again. Still working on singing of Fore Day Creep. It is not going well so not to be performed tomorrow at Lower Stoke. This means I have nothing new to perform unless I do One Tin Soldier which I think I too twee. Boooo.

About to clean up kitchen and make dinner - tacos. Do some laundry and make fairies. May even set up another headdress.

The Healthy Living team did not return my call yet. Will chase on Monday.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 30 Jan 10 - 04:00 PM

Rog and I did some small, but significant work on decluttering this morning. I removed a wooden box of little drawers from the kitchen counter to give to my daughter. Rog cleaned that counter and we moved some smaller pieces of junk from it. I cleared off the old trunk in the LR which is used as a coffee table, though it's more of a Morgan's stuff table. At least it's orderly now. We have two bags of trash to go out and one bag of giveaway clothes, books, and some small things. I have one package of stuff gathered up to go to a friend, just have to wrap it and tape the box. There are more things to gather to send to my daughter in CT. I will be listing another piece of equipment for Rog on ebay and maybe a couple of my things. Also did some more laundry. Rog put a new battery in the smoke detector.

Roger thinks he's done for the day..sitting there with a beer, waltzing around in Second Life. We shall see!**evil laugh**

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 03:14 AM

Got rid of some paper, filed some paper. Cleared out a box in the hall, and in the process found the issue of The New Yorker with the second part of a long article I started reading a while back.

Watching a campy old 1965 Korean Godzilla-like monster flick.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maeve
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 03:35 AM

Made myself go to the very enjoyable house concert at Sinsull's; now I can't sleep for wanting my instruments.

m

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 04:24 AM

Oh Maeve...

So heartbroken for you re your instruments. I am glad you went to Mary's though.

My kitchen is clean and the bathroom and hall. Slept pretty good last night though all 3 times I woks had palpitations.

It is going to Lower Stoke that is doing it to me. Same thing happened this time last year and I landed in hospital under observation, my BP was so high.

Just breathe.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: JennieG
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 05:59 AM

We're continuing with our sorting and getting rid of 'stuff' we can't see ourselves using, and clothes we don't think we will be wearing again. The more we can get rid of before we move, the less we will have to pack and take with us - we will be moving six hours' drive away. But I am having a little trouble with my fabric stash.....

Another agent is coming to have a look at the house tomorrow, we decided to get opinions from three different agents. Then we will decide which one to list the house with.

We decided several years ago to move out of Sydney when we retired and now that it's getting closer it's getting a bit scary. Himself has lived in Sydney all his life and I have been here for just on 40 years.

Cheers
JennieG

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Catherine Jayne
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 06:47 AM

An hours spinning class again this morning an da 4 mile walk.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 12:36 PM

The usual weekend stuff is progressing--laundry, dishes, taking out trash and recycling. Got rid of shreddings after clearing out some old files. The dining room table is getting a little neater all of the time as we finish with papers for various schools then file them in the case we're using just for this process.

I have a chuck roast thawing to make a pot roast later this evening. It's another cold weekend when pot roast and potatoes and carrots will taste wonderful. I keep a couple of candles burning in the fireplace (with the glass doors closed) to fight off the cold that seems to pour into the house through that spot.

I recycled a 16" costume doll on a lacquered stand that was my mother's, probably purchased in the 1970s or 80s, a modern version of some of the kimono figures she bought in Japan right after WWII. I think my sister has the early ones, but Mom was dabbling at adding to the collection. This new one has little value except for decorative use, and I am not interested in displaying it in a case. I wrapped her up last night as a birthday gift and drove it over to give to a friend's 18-year-old daughter who adores all things Japanese. Reduce, re-use, recycle, re-gift!

maeve, will the insurance eventually allow you to replace those instruments? There must be photos around with you playing various instruments, to prove that you owned them. Good luck with that--the fire was bad enough, but what the insurance company can put you through is more excruciating. I'm just this week changing insurance companies and hoping to land with one that has more "service" in "customer service."

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 12:42 PM

I haven't done anything today but sleep and to re-bandage parts of my incision.

I am happy to say that I'm beginning to be able to eat and am finding that sometimes I am feeling hungry....something that hasn't been happening for over a month now. YAY.

I still have a LOT of weight to lose but for now, maintaining and NOT losing is what the Dr.'s are after and so far this week, I'm maintaining...the rapid dropping is slowing (or maybe even stopping!)...I'm happy with that!

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Penny S.
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 02:27 PM

Sorry to have missed all this and not been able to send Michelle good wishes earlier - I hope recovery continues apace. Not being in school much any more (the acting head having decided I am too expensive to employ any more) I also missed out on a colleague who is now under treatment for the same thing. She went in for chemo last Tuesday, and will be operated on after two more sessions.

I haven't moved into the new place yet. At last I had the new garage door just before Christmas, no time to move in before that. Then I found a leak from the cold tank in the airing cupboard, which has cost me a good deal, and the plumber found the fuse box was dangerous and needed replacing, too. That's Tuesday, along with a locksmith fitting sensible security between the garage and the house - at present it has a "My first little lock and key" to keep it shut. A Roman with a wooden lock would laugh at it. Monday, the broadband connection will be activated! And I will ring the removal man to set a date. When that's done, I'm going over to my Dad's old place to do more to get things moving - we've left it rather a long time.

I've moved three wiggly shaped mirrors from the bathroom to the fence at the end of the garden, but will need to fix them so they reflect the garden, and not the side of the house for the best effect. The old tank will be dug into the place all the water gathers as a pond - perhaps -it's a bit bigger than it looked in the cupboard.

But all this seems a bit trivial compared with Michelle and my friend Maria.

Penny

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maeve
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 03:33 PM

Maggie- We hope negotiations will go well with the insurance company and that we will be able to replace some of what we have lost. We hope we'll have a settlement in hand sometime in the next year. The trouble is, of course, that several are not replaceable, and I need them now. We have only a few instrument photos we had emailed to friends; none are of either of us playing them. All of the actual photos are gone, along with receipts.

m

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: LilyFestre
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 03:43 PM

Penny,

    Don't compare your friend or I to what's going on in your own world. We all have stuff going on, you know? Today I'm looking forward to spring, the sun is shining, the sky is bright blue and I just want to go play in the dirt. Sadly, it's about minus 2 with the wind chill factor....so instead, I will drool over the seed catalogs and make plans. This year I think I am going to plant a gratitude garden...something that is all mine...a place to sit and give thanks, cry, dream or whatever. Our gardens have always been about being productive....all food gardens. This year I'll be happy to help with those but I'm really looking forward to designing my own space...a space to give thanks to God for all the wonderful things in my life.

Less than 50 more days until spring...................

Michelle

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: AllisonA(Animaterra)
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 05:00 PM

I'm very tired after a fun weekend, late night, restless sleep, and long drives. The house is a MESS and all I'm going to do is hang out here, read a bit, and go to bed early looking forward to a productive week!

But it's good to hear some positive action from so many. Maeve, dear, we're here with you in your grief. Michelle, you're sounding good. Thanks for the words of hope! Everyone else- I'm so grateful I found this thread and look forward to more inspirational months to come!

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Liz the Squeak
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 05:39 PM

I eventually vacuumed the floor.. took 3 hours and 2 rests, but it's done.

Proper clothes and a necessary trip to the bank via the doctor's surgery tomorrow. That should be fun.

LTS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: katlaughing
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 06:03 PM

I was up until 4am..a reaction to an increase in zoloft. So, Rog, sweetie that he is, did the few dishes and did the litterboxes. I haven't done much except watch Morgan while he climbed our tree, went for a ride on which I was supposed to get a nap...but not with a 6 yr old along for the ride.:-) Spent this afternoon watching the Grammys.

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 06:54 PM

Was this the early Grammy stuff online? I didn't think to turn that on. How did our Mudcat crew do? I wasn't able to tell over on that other thread.

I have a pot roast braising and a pot of split pea soup simmering. The soup is actually for later in the week, but I decided I'd make it now. Split pea is always better reheated. Bread is rising. Sweet potato baking. I had kind of emptied out the fridge and I find I do better eating healthy when I have a variety of things in there. And with the cold weather, you can see a pattern of hearty foods and lots of veggies.

I'm wearing my jeans, but they're kind of snug. Gotta work on the diet again. When it warms up I'll get out and walk more.

SRS

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: maire-aine
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 08:48 PM

Rearranged appliances on the kitchen counter, so I could get my blender back out. Will try to use it more often with fresh fruits and veggies.

Went to see the movie NINE this afternoon, and loved it. I didn't want it to end. I expect that this is one DVD I'll certainly buy—maybe even get the soundtrack.

Very cold here too, but almost no snow left on the ground. I'll take that any day. Annual visit to the gyn tomorrow. I'm trying to get all these things done before my insurance changes in April.

We've certainly had a lot to talk about this month. Here's to a better February.

Maryanne

Subject: RE: BS: 2010-Jan De-clutter & accountability ^^^
From: Stilly River Sage
Date: 31 Jan 10 - 11:47 PM

Here we go. Now lets get healthy and make progress, everyone together!

SRS